A dude once cat-called me for my big butt, then I turned around and he realized I was just a dude with long hair.

@ThatChildUnderYourBasment

2 жыл бұрын

You go man!

@carlsacel7222

2 жыл бұрын

plot twist: the guy is gay lmao

@UnwovenSleeve

2 жыл бұрын

Lmao I’ve been catcalled when I had longhair before, feels fuckin awful but then strangely uplifting.

@abdulnasirbushra6049

2 жыл бұрын

lmaoooooooooooooo

@AlyxAesthetics

2 жыл бұрын

what was his face when he realised?

Waiting for a child to turn 18 when you're in your 30s+ is absolutely predatory.

@user-vx3vt7nj5n

2 жыл бұрын

@@grasiellasmith4367 speechless........... tell ur sister

@saraheufemia3908

2 жыл бұрын

It’s still predatory if they (they being the predators) are mid to late twenties as well.

@Kitkatcaitlin

2 жыл бұрын

If the only thing stopping you is a law then you're a pedophile

@wiredvibe1678

2 жыл бұрын

So you want people to not wait?

@wiredvibe1678

2 жыл бұрын

@Sara Moustamandi 18 year old women are not fully legal?

What I hate most is that 16 year old girls who choose to actually embrace their childhood are literally shamed by EVERYONE including adults. Just look at Jojo Siwa. Ppl had her head on a stake for being a child.

@joydanleigh7711

Жыл бұрын

🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

@plasmass_

Жыл бұрын

yeah

@igiveuponnaming7082

Жыл бұрын

Even if you're not a celeb, you'll get shamed. I'm one of the few girls in my class who's decided to live life as a child and I got called "backdated" for it.

@nadinebreaty3315

11 ай бұрын

i just turned 16 and i feel ashamed to embrace my childhood since eveyone at school would bully me

@thatrandomchild707

11 ай бұрын

No I feel so bad because I use to tease the crap outta Jojo Siwa too, but now I’m just living my life and playing roblox as often as possible

As a 16 year old girl, thank you.

@missstranger7697

11 ай бұрын

Keep being childish. After 18-20 years you can be as sexy as you like.

@beautiful_saturn_

8 ай бұрын

I‘m 16 too, I feel you honey 💜

@FootballJunky-r6h

8 ай бұрын

​@@beautiful_saturn_dress properly to reduce the chances of being sexualized , beware of make-up too , because it can make you look older than you are , then grown men will start hitting on you . If you're 16 , just be 16

@SoniaKev

7 ай бұрын

Me too😊

@Butterfly-yk9bw

7 ай бұрын

Same🤍

You aren’t ahead of anyone else for dating older men at 16. You’re being taken advantage of:

@uax4567

2 жыл бұрын

Bs

@niniusaa

2 жыл бұрын

@@uax4567 Bs in what way? You’re being taken advantage of. Their minds are FAR more developed than yours, and you don’t know their intentions.

@missbeafromnyc

2 жыл бұрын

@@uax4567 what??? 🤨

@vestigex

2 жыл бұрын

FACTS

@vestigex

2 жыл бұрын

@@uax4567 bro get out of here

When you'll put "girl" into absolutely any word you'll get fetish, sexualized etc stuff. Literally : police girl, school girl, witch girl, nurse girl, chef girl EVERYTHING.

@dontkickmychick6076

Жыл бұрын

Catgirl :Elon troll:

@manderly109

Жыл бұрын

So creepy

@alanaa-lt2zr

11 ай бұрын

Whats worse is it shows less fetish stuff if you put woman

@nikk-yv

11 ай бұрын

​@@alanaa-lt2zrexactly.. like society is fucked up more and more with each passing day

@amarissilas810

11 ай бұрын

I'm this is fully serious but I just thought what if you search copper rubber band pillow girl. I'm not sure why

My mom actually ENCOURAGES me to dress sexier despite my refusal and I’m literally only 15?? It makes me so sick that my own mom would want that for me

@aaainainaina

11 ай бұрын

omg that sucks 🫣

@spencer6279

11 ай бұрын

my mom started saying this to me around 9

@shb1033

10 ай бұрын

thats so weird. Im 17 and I dont even wear crop tops and my mom is completely ok with that, its not like shes the one deciding I cant wear them either, Its my own choice. I cant see she would want you to do that!

@youtubeur

10 ай бұрын

​@@spencer6279i'm soooo sorry for you

@spencer6279

10 ай бұрын

@@youtubeur thank you :/

I hate creepy grown men so much its unreal

@feralcatgirl2169

10 ай бұрын

Also that sugar daddy story grossed me tf out bc how are you gonna be 50+ years old dating someone under 25, their brain isn't even fully developed!!! Sick

@vinvyl957

10 ай бұрын

@@feralcatgirl2169same, I remember seeing this one girl on tiktok have a bf who’s in his 40’s while she’s 18, it’s so weird

@MacksPebbles

7 ай бұрын

@@feralcatgirl2169 there is also a possibility that people don't stop actually developing until 30.

@silkribbons

5 ай бұрын

why is it so hard for some men to date in their age range

@missstranger7697

4 ай бұрын

​@@silkribbons Because they are mentally underdeveloped...😂 They represent themselves as grown, strong and confident, but mentally they still act like teenagers. And that's not growth, because they go backwards.

"they only want you when you're 17. when you're 21, you're no fun."

@hitto8863

Жыл бұрын

Its true,its biological ,AND? ITS 17 NOT 7

@frann8002

Жыл бұрын

​​@@hitto8863 are you saying you get horned up with teens? Yikes

@CemeteryDxll

Жыл бұрын

@@hitto8863 yikes okay.. 😬

@LiterallyInklingGirl

Жыл бұрын

@@hitto8863 look guys we found the pedo!

@cocacola37281

Жыл бұрын

@@hitto8863 human trash

I once got catcalled by an old man when I was 20, and I told him “I’m only 20 you look like my grandpa” and he gave me a disgust face and said “sorry I thought you were 14, my bad” like bruh wth that’s worse

@heliosma2317

3 жыл бұрын

bro wtf

@heliosma2317

3 жыл бұрын

people are disgusting

@epichighslowsofhighschoolf3074

3 жыл бұрын

I been getting catcalled since 12.

@zyann2617

3 жыл бұрын

That's so disgusting omfg. I'm so sorry.

@snushy2172

3 жыл бұрын

@@epichighslowsofhighschoolf3074 and people say the 97% doesn't exist... God why do men

i used to had a friend, she was ten, TEN YEARS OLD. One day i was checking my friends snapchat story and i saw her complaining about her boob size (obviously she was still growing at that time, so her chest size was normal) And i asked why she did that, shes still very young? She replied with saying "well i just wish my boobs were bigger bc then i would be more attractive and i was at the doctor and she told me my boobs werent big enough for my age" I was so disturbed. A doctor told a 10 yr old girl her chest size wasnt big enough? Honestly what the hell.

@njajxvg

8 ай бұрын

do you know what happened to the doctor after that?

@caycay7536

8 ай бұрын

@@njajxvg From what I know nothing happened, I think it was our old school nurse who DID get fired but it was a while after the incident with my friend.

@bpop9394

5 ай бұрын

Most girls at 10 haven't even started breast development like wtf

@seijin4426

4 ай бұрын

I'm pretty sure you and your friend took that doctor's words out of context and misinterpreted the whole thing, also her being an early bloomer is nothing to worry about, I went through early puberty and I turned out just fine.

@_ThatCandyGirl_

20 күн бұрын

@@seijin4426 I’m pretty sure telling a ten year old that their chest isn’t big enough is creepy

"How much for the girl? 😉" - man in his 60's-70's referring to 14 year old me when I was just existing at my grandma's garage sale (I'm 15 now)

@Butterfly-yk9bw

7 ай бұрын

Wtfff im so sorry this happened to you

@Lili_Chan_2011

2 ай бұрын

Did your grandma say anything

@Hellothere80083

Ай бұрын

Pls tell me your grandma said something

@6s0fa98

Ай бұрын

@@Lili_Chan_2011my aunt did

@Sour_lemon714

22 күн бұрын

​@@6s0fa98 what did she say

The medieval "bad romance" really threw me off guard lol

@aisha3999

3 жыл бұрын

lol me too

@canvasdrop_art

3 жыл бұрын

Thought I was alone on this one 🤣🤣

@444chibaby

3 жыл бұрын

It was the bang bang for me 😩😩

@peaxchtrea3976

3 жыл бұрын

When M'lord hast offered thou hand in a betrothal

@alienated_maestro

3 жыл бұрын

Oh you too

When I was 11 years old I was bullied by my female classmates because I wasn't "mature enough". They said it was babyish of me to read books and watch cartoons. I was eleven! One of them even asked me if I already experience having periods and when I said yes she told me “Oh, then you have to stop acting like a kid.”. Again, I was eleven!

@shinysoda6

2 жыл бұрын

Who the heck stops watching cartoons at 11???

@taco_boi1167

2 жыл бұрын

@@shinysoda6 i know right? i’m almost 16 and i sit on the couch with my spider-man blanket watching old cartoons

@shinysoda6

2 жыл бұрын

@@taco_boi1167 I have a younger cousin who is going through something similar, she's only 6 yet she thinks watching cartoons is "babyish". Not to mention she likes wearing her mom's makeup and the creepy questionable things I've seen her watch on TikTok...

@jisoosblinku1296

2 жыл бұрын

They were the ones who were being babyish since they were trying to act grown

@edenontheorbit9778

2 жыл бұрын

Wtf why the hell did they even???

My mom actually makes me wear tighter clothes. She’s always like “you’ll get used to wearing this, your becoming a lady and you have to get used to wearing this”. It actually makes me want to cry, I don’t like wearing tight clothes or stuff that shows my body, that so fucking disgusting. I’ve always liked baggier clothes instead and it feels wrong to wear anything other than that.

@sarah_cantdraw

8 ай бұрын

im so sorry, this just shows how deep sexualization runs

@verletzt546

7 ай бұрын

im so sorry, that is so gross.... im so sorry

@thenewsilverwolf

6 ай бұрын

Please do not comply with her. This is grossly toxic, I have been seeing many comments of mothers pushing their daughters to dress sexier, thats INSANE and PLEASE do not do anything you are not comfortable with. Even if she yells, threatens you, do NOT give in. Also, if you have a therapist, please talk to your therapist about this. They can help believe it or not.

@sk33b07

4 ай бұрын

be as rebellious as possible when she tries that, call her out. & stay safe

@seijin4426

4 ай бұрын

Calm down woman, just tell your mom that tight or skimpy simply isn't your type of wardrobe, but just don't do it violently though.

At a young age I early developed and it made everything so much worse. Teen boys targeted me, old men hitting on me and touching me, boys flirting with me, people making comments about my chest and ass, etc. I've gotten dresscoded a few times in elementary school because my outfit was deemed "inappropriate" when I was really just big chested. I absolutely hate my body and I can't even wear clothes that I want because it won't look a certain way because of my body proportions, then comes social media, beauty standards, misogyny, insecurities and discovering things that I shouldn't have discovered. My childhood was taken away from me in so many ways and I still haven't healed yet, I am now 14 years old trying to battle with everything and feeling uncomfortable in my own body. Society and media makes me feel like I am NEVER going to be comfortable being a girl. Edit: 4/5/2024 - I wanna thank you all for the insanely nice replies and thoughtful words. Stuff like that makes me happy, and makes me feel more understood. I still haven't grown comfortable with myself enough where I want it to be, but it'll happen someday hopefully.

@missstranger7697

11 ай бұрын

I understand how you feel and it's even worse when your own mother comments you.

@Rottenriaa.

11 ай бұрын

@@missstranger7697 Ik right, "I birthed you, you came out of me." Is the most classic reply ever when you tell them those remarks makes you uncomfortable. And now I'm not rlly comfortable with my body around her, luckily she stopped but it still doesn't change my memories. 😭

@missstranger7697

11 ай бұрын

@@Rottenriaa. At one time she says "be carefull with what you wear", At the other "dress in a more feminine matter!" When I was a child\teen I was a tomboy, but since I became an adult I embraced my feminine side. It took me time, but it was worth it!

@Rottenriaa.

11 ай бұрын

@@missstranger7697 Congrats!!

@star_fru1tz

11 ай бұрын

Same here, haha. I dont really identify as a girl online (and w certain friends) bc i feel uncomfortable with it all i hope you'll be able to start liking your body sometime soon

I literally always get bashed for having ZERO experience at 17 years old.

@wildnfearless9840

2 жыл бұрын

I don't have any experience either and I'm 16

@medusachristo3725

2 жыл бұрын

That's disturbing... Be a child , enjoy your childhood

@wildnfearless9840

2 жыл бұрын

@@medusachristo3725 I am

@asoul7801

2 жыл бұрын

you DONT need to have any experience! I'm 20, don't have. There's a time for it, for each their own. Trying anytime sooner will lead you more towards pedophiles, abusers and all other kinds of ugly. Live your childhood. please.

@samtmh7240

2 жыл бұрын

That seriously just makes me sad, and tbh I know it's a bit personal, but I lost mine at 19, and that was mainly due to just feeling the pressure to get it over with. I know that's technically an adult, but by all means I was NOT an adult, and I really do regret it. Idk your beliefs or how you think of sexuality, but just try to lean on supportive people rather than those who will bash you and pressure you. It's wrong of people to push you into maturity.

People be saying Drag Queens reading Dr. Seuss are sexualizing kids but what the FUCK was toddlers and tiaras????

@oscarthagrouch

11 ай бұрын

deadass and drag queens were being kid friendly… they find that heavy makeup is promiscuous then go ahead and disregard pageant culture.

@iinkygiirl5078

8 ай бұрын

Both sucks

@celestialcats

6 ай бұрын

​@@LiteralViolence please explain to me how drag queens reading books to kids in supervised, controlled environments is in any way on the same level as beauty pageants where children are pitted against each other by grown adults in superficial competitions where they're consistently mistreated and objectified on public television for millions across the globe to see. please, illuminate me.

@naty8646

6 ай бұрын

The problem is that drag queen is traditionally a adult entertainment that happen in bars, its the same as putting a streeper or a adult actress to read to children using their working clothes, even if the person doesn't have a bad intention, children shouldn't even know these professions exist

@persivy

5 ай бұрын

@@LiteralViolencehow is a drag queen reading a children’s book bad?? What 😭

I'm 14 and try to be mindful of this. Kids I know try to grow up so fast, it's hard to not feel behind. Revealing clothes, heavy makeup, sexual posts, even vaping and smoking. It's damn near impossible to find a balance- I love makeup and fashion and feeling mature as much as the next girl but jeez. Hell, I saw a kid today and I assumed she was my age, by the way she was dressed and the fact she had quite a lot of makeup on. Saw the signup sheet for the activity we were doing- this girl was NINE.

It also doesn’t help when 30 year olds play teenage roles in the entertainment industry

@sweetbmint

2 жыл бұрын

-Netflix series-

@mirimacworld

2 жыл бұрын

Lol I had not even thought about that but so true omg

@alias4795

2 жыл бұрын

Imo it's better that way considering how much child exploitation can go on in the entertainment industry

@yeokonma

2 жыл бұрын

Its mostly because hiring teens take a lot of paperworks.

@nikemaraje5

2 жыл бұрын

To be fair high schoolers before the 2010s looked a lot older than now.

worst part of bad babie... the only fans was released on her birthday... meaning all the content was documented when she was 17... meaning there is a minor's body on only fans... and it made millions

@dayoolorunnisola162

3 жыл бұрын

🤮🤮🤮

@Ashesinferno28

3 жыл бұрын

That’s so sad 😞

@5jwiqiojwio217

3 жыл бұрын

omg i didnt think of that

@indiascarlett

3 жыл бұрын

I read a few articles and actually that's false. The of account was made five days after her 18th birthday, and she only released a few photos on her first few days apparently so there's every chance that it doesn't show her as a minor. Still messed up af that an 18 has an of.

@wells346

3 жыл бұрын

@@indiascarlett that should make me feel better but it's still gross. some ppl think only fans should be 21+ but idk, its the predators fault

It's awful for me to watch girls wanting to grow up faster. I met a 13-year-old girl, who was wearing makeup, fake eyelashes and sexy clothing. She already had 4 relationships (they were all older than her, but not adults). I'm gonna sound like a grandma, but when I was 13 I did not had my first kiss yet. The fact that she admitted she was wearing such clothes for attention terrified me. Doing things for yourself and because you feel good inside them is different when you do it for the others gaze.

@FirstnameLastnames

3 ай бұрын

Oh 😰 oh that poor girl.... she's gonna need *lots of therapy* one day & I sincerely hope she gets it, and that she does not get pregnant.

I was dying when she said “fuck the patriarchy” while twerking 💀💀 that’s the modern age we live in.

“She’s 18! She’s legal now!” Yeah but she’s half your age. You were her age when she was born! Back away. Quickly.

@samaraisnt

2 жыл бұрын

Barf. I always say, if you could have held them as a baby when you were an adult, you are still a pedophile. It doesn't matter if you "waited" 20 years you are a whole 50 year old, you shouldn't be stealing someone's youth. Men are cradle robbing and proud....legit doctors who delivered babies have gone on to date them! Weird way to find a girlfriend...I honestly wonder when they "start" sexualizing someone they knew since they were a baby. :/

@Fun4u5678123

2 жыл бұрын

It's like the minimum wage. They'd go lower if they could

@myaccounttoskincarerelated9891

2 жыл бұрын

@Foxu Tail THISSSSS… THIS IS ONE OF THE BIGGEST POINTS!

@x.cemetery.weather.x

Жыл бұрын

Recently got out of a relationship which started when I was 18 and he was 37. I didn't realize that there was anything wrong with it until these past few months I'm just coming to the realization that it wasn't okay. He was mentally, physically and emotionally abusive and I'm just shocked looking back on it. I'm about to be 20 now and I am definitely staying away from dating for a while

@x.cemetery.weather.x

Жыл бұрын

@l🍭li ...?

I really wish Euphoria took place in college, I don’t understand why it’s high school. I hate it so much. Just a simple change of not having the characters be minors.

@vespervictrola

2 жыл бұрын

Legit the only reason is because then it wouldn't be as "scandalous," which is the whole core of the success of the show :(

@shwetaganesh5771

2 жыл бұрын

@@vespervictrola also coz lets be real sam levinson is a creep, he doesnt have any artistic vision he's just a frustrated p3d0philic man who has ego issues

@mandyg46

2 жыл бұрын

I agree. If they were 18 to 24 I'd be like Great this is actually people their age, but the fact that they wanted them to portray minors is sick. It makes me believe that they're targeting young people to watch a very very sexually explicit show with unneeded nudity and sex scenes everywhere. It's like if game of thrones was targeted towards children

@kanexoxo

2 жыл бұрын

@@mandyg46 wait you're telling me that they're not even 18 yet??

@mandyg46

2 жыл бұрын

@@kanexoxo pretty sure the people in Euphoria are supposed to be portraying 15 -17 year olds. Obviously, the actors are in their 20's and 30's, but they are in fact playing minors.

most boys and men don't understand how much teenage girls struggle

@Briannajo_world

10 ай бұрын

they don't want to. it would disrupt their onanism.

@missstranger7697

10 ай бұрын

Like they can understand how women feel as well!😂 Women and girls are both together in this...

@avourrito1819

7 ай бұрын

Understanding the feminine struggle is an attack to their masculinity and they will choose to attack women to feel more masculine

@solodude3937

7 ай бұрын

Former teen boy here - we don't, or at least, didn't until maturing past a certain age (hopefully!). Honestly, I'd argue it's in some ways intentional by a lot of media and/or patriarchal systems to keep teenage boys feeling entirely disconnected from women. I remember in my youth feeling a "click" moment (disturbingly too late in all honestly... probably around age 16) where I realized that women and men are almost entirely the same. A lot of that has carried on into young adulthood too: deconstructing the "masculinity" imposed on me that forced my male/male relationships to be excessively platonic and shallow and the inability to express emotion unless around a significant, female other are proof of that. However, as I dive into my memories to research how I had come to these unknowingly misogynist ideals, I'm met with the horrifying realization that I did not choose to act the way I did around women myself, but was instead molded by my environment into thinking it. Media "for men" like anime and video games of a relatively popular caliber often contain blatantly horrific depictiona of women as these sex objects that always fail the Bechdel test, pornography has proven to advertise to a below 18 male audience trying their hardest to teeter on the lines of p3dophilia and grooming in just your average first result on a website, and many extracurricular environments such as sports or even religious affairs find themselves forcibly splitting women and men. This behavior was bred into my mind, taught, and recited, until I was finally autonomous enough to realize the wool pulled over my eyes. When men exist in a collective group entirely of other men, each of which have been micromanaged into believing lies of strength, character, personality, sexuality, worth, and worst of all, use, all the factors combined keep them from seeing their fellow humans as equal. A slot roll of estrogen or testosterone production is forcefully separated into something it's not by the misogynist forefathers of our modern society. It terrifies me, honestly, and makes queer representation all the more difficult when our heteronormative standards are hollow and unequal. The conclusion to draw from this is to simply make the change you want to see, whether that be by rearing children that understand that this separation imposed on them isn't real, that boys can cry and women can be anything that isn't for the sake of pleasing another man, or by any other method. It is a difficult and forever uphill battle for women - it is a steadfast goal of mine to ensure my children do not contribute to that steepness.

@_hector__

5 ай бұрын

Most suicides are comitted by boys Education levels are lower in boys Do tell me girls have it harder just because they heard something they didnt like

i APPRECIATE you for this video. i had a stalker when i was 14 -16 , he was 31. i put him jail when i was 16 but he was bailed out. but he lied to me when i was 14 saying he was 18. i realllllyyy hope young girls see this video and really understand it. thank you ❤️

@floproro4

Жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry that happened to you ): I had a stalker too when I was 15…I hope you’re doing better now ❤️

@thesobber

11 ай бұрын

This is disgusting. I'm so sorry about what happened to you. The fact that he got released is not fair. I hope you're healing from this

I am 13 years old, a girl, and I'm honestly just disappointed to see _kids_ being too embarrassed to act like kids. The pressure is awful.

@yuenmienyu

2 жыл бұрын

*cough cough* _piper rockelle_ *cough cough*

@vinicyn

2 жыл бұрын

@@yuenmienyu who is that?

@user-sf2ng5oi2g

2 жыл бұрын

AYYYYY FELLOW KISS FAN

@user-sf2ng5oi2g

2 жыл бұрын

@@vinicyn do you have a kiss page on instagram by any chance?

@vinicyn

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-sf2ng5oi2g i don’t know why youtube keeps deleting my comments but it’s akizuiki

"the smartest thing misogyny ever did was reframing the sexualization of women as 'empowerment'"

@prapanthebachelorette6803

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, so scary

@georgesappolon4627

2 жыл бұрын

@@prapanthebachelorette6803 ohh yeah it ducking hilarious Like girls would just go around dressing like sluts Fuck everyone Thinking their getting their power back And wonder why men don’t respect them but hey Thanks for the free show I guess

@brassbitch

2 жыл бұрын

@@georgesappolon4627 girl what-

@updog9567

2 жыл бұрын

yeah, especially when it comes to 'strong female' characters. Like agents or whatever; they always wear strong make up, have slim figure, black outfit and use the power of flirting and sexiness to allure and weaken men [because there arent any other females, only men, one woman is enough]. But in the end they all have to be saved by the (previously weak) male protagonist.

@ruthannemarie2668

2 жыл бұрын

Misogyny?? MISOGYNY??? That was not men framing sexualization and objectification as empowerment. That was the modern feminist movement with their Slut Walks and Women’s Marches. Cardi B, Nikki, Megan Thee Stallion, ANY famous woman in modern day, who is glorified for saying “come get this Wet Ass Pussy” and DANCING SEXUALLY ON STAGE AT A PUBLIC EVENT. That is not men, that is modern women

I'm 16 and I don't think I've ever been catcalled before but it's definitely a big fear of mine.

@missstranger7697

Жыл бұрын

Honestly you are lucky. Other girls who have stories like that are scared.

@Briannajo_world

10 ай бұрын

you for sure are in the real 1%

@FirstnameLastnames

3 ай бұрын

Honey I'm glad you didn't endure that! I hope you never do! ❤ I envy that, but I mean this from the bottom of my heart: I am so happy you've evaded that 🎉

@missiigacha

Ай бұрын

Sorry, I don't know what "catcalled" means, but people are talking about it a lot, can you please explain what it means?

@sillyvappy

Ай бұрын

​@Lummy_dummy it's the act of shouting harassing and often sexually suggestive, threatening, or derisive comments at someone publicly

as a teenage girl i’m so sad we are sexualized. and i’m sad to say im guilty of purposely do it to myself just to be and feel “loved” by teenage boys . ☹️

@FirstnameLastnames

3 ай бұрын

Part of being human is we all fvck up from time to time 🫂 we learn from our mistakes, try not to repeat them, and we move on, it's okay hun.

@FirstnameLastnames

3 ай бұрын

Your username is adorable btw :) very clever and funny!

@bear3616

27 күн бұрын

As a teenage boy just wear nice normal clothes. Looking semi formal is honestly just more better anyways.

A girl who is 17 yesterday and 18 today is the same girl. Men lighting up once a girl turns 18 is horribly terrifying.

@inkydoe

3 жыл бұрын

put this on a billboard bro

@hunkydory3521

3 жыл бұрын

It's because they won't go to jail and not because they actually care about taking advantage of a young girl

@itzodisea8138

3 жыл бұрын

@@hunkydory3521 how is it taking advantage though?

@etheria9283

3 жыл бұрын

@@itzodisea8138 i believe it’s taking advantage since girls who recently turned 18 will still have the same mindset they did at 17, there’s no growth allowing older people to take advantage of their immature and undeveloped state of mind.

@kingkai9669

3 жыл бұрын

@@itzodisea8138 its technically a form of grooming but its not a crime in the us

Since we are on the topic. Am I the only one extremely creeped out about how young 18 and 19 year old girls promote their only fans? “Barely legal” “Just turned 18” It just makes my stomach turn...

@j1430

3 жыл бұрын

i mean 19 isn’t that weird it’s usually like the people that JUST turned 18

@Rainjojo

3 жыл бұрын

@@j1430 anything with teen in it shouldn’t be on apps like this, don’t try to justify it either by being a teen that’s a year older🤢

@j1430

3 жыл бұрын

@@Rainjojo it’s still a grown adult and not your business really? like i understand fresh out of highschool is bad but 19 is college at most if they choose to go i just don’t see it as different as a 20 and 21 year old doing it

@huhs112

3 жыл бұрын

@@j1430 the brain is only fully developed at age 25. 19 is still a teenager and the legal age should not be abused by old men in order to fufill their philiac desires. Stop trying to defend it and support it with this flawed narration of "it's noones business" when it allows teenagers to still be fetishized. 19 is not far from 18. If they have problem with avoiding sexualizing barely legal teens they have serious issues. No responsible adult would look at them in such a way. Accept it

@j1430

3 жыл бұрын

@@huhs112 but 19 is still adult whether you like it or not :/ the brain isn’t fully developed at 20-24 either im just saying it’s nobodies business if someone that’s 19 starts sex work since it’s not “inappropriate” for them considering they’re fully developed and capable by law. i’m not talking about men that lust for them that are much much older, i do think it’s weird and gross, don’t misunderstand that portion.

As a teenage boy who lived 12 years as an incomplete boyo, this is very educational, never understood why girls my age loved physically growing up when i learned why it wasn't exactly ideal. Its great to see these types of things because not only will i learn myself, i can boost this type of thing! I never personally comment much, but these are important things. Keep up the great work Queen!! (And occasional kings!)

@aLittleRy

6 ай бұрын

Queens*

@aLittleRy

6 ай бұрын

FK I FORGOT THE SOVEREIGNS NOOO

@FirstnameLastnames

3 ай бұрын

:)

As a teen girl, I’m rarely sexualized (thank god) but instead, I got criticized for not looking “feminine” enough. I’m very flat from the front and back and I look very masculine and I’m also naturally VERY slender (slender to the point when I’m often confused as anorexic). Even family members would make comments about why I haven’t developed 😐.

@crazydragy4233

10 ай бұрын

I'd consider that sexualisation tbh... But I suppse it can be a different breed of objectification

@suspiciousfigure3096

6 ай бұрын

Same here, I'm in my early 20s but I don't think I've ever been catcalled or stalked by men in any way...well, with the exception of a few grown men looking at me from my second story bedroom when I was 5. Pretty f'ed up, but I'm glad I've never been noticed even as a potential girlfriend. I just wish that girls could be allowed to be girls. And that they could be recognized as their own person, not as a meat piece. That men and boys could have the empathy to understand that we are in a position that we fear and despise the way its been set up to hurt us and benefit them.

@Ezekieljsw

6 ай бұрын

Sounds like you have a very similar body type to me!! I was super insecure about it as a teenager, but now I'm very at ease with my appearance. It's so hard to feel good about your body as a teenager, and I'm sorry your family make that worse with their inappropriate comments, but I promise it gets easier. Keep affirming to yourself that your body is right and it is good, because it is! And if you're ever worried about your attractiveness, again, don't let those cruel voices get into your head. I promise you will meet plenty of people who find you attractive if that's what you want, and you don't have to change yourself for them.

@mateo2550

5 ай бұрын

Me too. It gets frustrating because you literally cant do ANYTHING about your body and people just think you need to change to fit into the ideal standards. I just wish idk everyone was chill? were not all gonna look exactly the same.

@missstranger7697

3 ай бұрын

Trust me... The most beautifull models have a very slim body. You don't have to be developed physically (boobs or butt), to be fit in the men's standards. Girls have different types of bodies and if people can't accept that fact, it's a them issue, that they have to deal on their own.

I HATE IT when people say “they is 18, by law they are an adult” as an excuse to prey among them for sexual desires. It’s absolutely disgusting.

@inkbery4473

3 жыл бұрын

aaaand that's the reason I had to lie for like most of last year, saying that I was 17; because whenever I said I was 18 weirdos online and even irl sometimes would make really really creepy remarks about how I'm "legal" and it's fuckin disgusting. I'm now 19 so I say my real age, because it isn't immediately associated with sex, but yeah i kinda opted to skip 18 :((

@abigale3629

3 жыл бұрын

@@inkbery4473 I’m so sorry you had to do that :( I wish these type of people would just disappear.

@1MegArbo

3 жыл бұрын

A good friend of mine is a high school teacher and she absolutely says that 18 year-olds are still very much children in many ways.

@wabbywabby

3 жыл бұрын

off topic, but those people probably are bigots and only use he/she and i want to punt them to andromeda galaxy.

@meangirlsenthusiast

3 жыл бұрын

@@wabbywabby as a they/them pronoun user, can i join you in the bigot punting?

"men want women to think that being sexually promiscuous is liberating because it works out in their favour" YES, THANK YOU!!! ive always thought this but you put it into words

@none11flop9

2 жыл бұрын

how can you not be able to put the simplest and most obvious of concepts into words. people like you are the reason these cultures spread.

@royalscholar7504

2 жыл бұрын

Boy if you don't shut up

@jadyn4879

2 жыл бұрын

@@none11flop9 😐😐

@lonelyberg1808

Жыл бұрын

What ? Really ? This is false. I'm a man and I've never heard of this. Seems like she talks about us as if we're weird predator or something.

@kaphizmey6229

Жыл бұрын

as a young man myself, this is the primary reason why i’m against the broader movement of sex-positive feminism (at least right now). not only are there so many issues _outside_ of the bedroom that haven’t been resolved yet (for pete’s sake, there is still a gender wage gap people!), but it’s something that the pedophilic men in power use as a tool to control women of all ages - *especially* underage girls. and while there’s nothing inherently wrong with being proud of one’s sexuality as an individual, the movement itself is being pushed to fool impressionable young girls into grooming themselves under the guise of pretending to be “empowered”. we have a LOT of work to do as a society before we are ready for anything sex-positive.

For all the teenagers that are reading this thinking that 'life stops after 18' 'Teen years are the years you enjoy life'. I literally started living at 20,not because i wanted to, but during my teenage years nothing ever happened and i was dealing with lots of mental struggles, my life got interesting after 20, I met the right ppl at 19 and i had my first romantic partner at 20.

@missstranger7697

9 ай бұрын

I had my first romantic partner at 15, but it wasn't real because it didn't last long. I never had sexual relationship and I am 21...😅

@healingpoisonbreak9984

9 ай бұрын

@@missstranger7697 it's okay hon. There's nothing wrong with that. Everyone is in their own timeline. I know ppl that are 26, 29, that have never been in a relationship, and that's okay.

@Rosemary46840

5 ай бұрын

💀what teen thinks life stops after 18??? Df, most teens are excited for life to start at 18

@Lilyflower-sweetmilk

3 ай бұрын

​@@Rosemary46840 They don't out right think it or even say it, but BOY do they act like it, I see it all at my high school. 😒😮‍💨😞😓☹️🙁🫤😕

@eloahallamkettles5553

3 ай бұрын

Hey this is what i lived, never did anything as a teenager really and mental health as well and started actually having a life at 20, and am REALLY looking forward to my 20s and having fun - life really starts when you finish school at 18 to be fair.

You aren’t mature for dating a 18+ year old at 16, you’re being taken advantage of-even if you pursued them first.

I remember when the WAP dance was popular and everyone was harassing Charlie d’amelio (who was 16 at the time) to do the dance. Her mom didn’t let her do the dance in the end (as she should), but I was surprised at the fact that no one commented on how disgusting it was that this minor was being pressured to basically twerk on camera. when was this behavior normalized?

@saigie3908

3 жыл бұрын

MY THOUGHTS EXACTLY! And I hate the fact that ppl would tell others to “let her do whatever she wants” like....

@mrlean5078

3 жыл бұрын

and since the video with jt at the fourth of july party came out people are asking her to do it again

@beavisbodega9747

3 жыл бұрын

I could’ve sworn I saw her do it

@nela8466

3 жыл бұрын

@@saigie3908 Yeah, a 16 year old shouldn't have the choise to make a decision about doing something bad... It's just wrong like 🤨

@luvusm111

3 жыл бұрын

@@beavisbodega9747 yea she did it to the lyrical version of wap and remixed the dance moves a bit :)

Y'all remember when Billie got papped with shorts and a thight shirt and men were attacking her for having a "mom body" just cus she wasn't stick thin? Yeah, sickening.

@coagulatedsalts4711

3 жыл бұрын

she wasn't even ugly, i think it was just the angle of the camera, home girl looked healthy and strong. I'm a kpop stan and one girl group member jongeyon (from twice) was bodyshamed, and when I looked at "the evidence" i just saw some poorly angled photos. ;-;

@elafila6883

3 жыл бұрын

Hah even women were doing it though💀

@ruoxilan4450

3 жыл бұрын

@@elafila6883 true

@mymelodichandle

3 жыл бұрын

They’re all probably 5’8 😂

@politecat9207

3 жыл бұрын

@@elafila6883 Most women did it out of being petty, most men did it out of disappointment because her body wasn't how they imagined it in their fantasies when she was a minor.

I'm a teenage girl (who doesn't really post anything, sexual or otherwise) on social media, and I really like this perspective! Seeing kids my age act sexy on the internet in the name of feminism always rubbed me the wrong way and I could never figure out why, so thanks for putting into words for me! Also, thanks so so so much for talking to teens like we're actual people :)

I’m not even 14 and I’ve experienced over sexualisation and bc nobody gave a shit when I was 7 I got sexually harassed and sexually assaulted bc the over sexualisation or girls has become so normal. When I was 5, I was wearing a skirt that didn’t fit me no more and was JUST covering my butt (but wasn’t so short to the point when I bent over u could see it). I was wearing it bc it was the only thing I had in the summer. I got called into the Head Teacher’s office bc apparently I was “distracting the boys” when none of the boys were staring. It is honestly disgusting how people have normalised sexual assault/harassment/@bus3 to women especially young women and for what. We didn’t ask to start developing tits at age 8 (some ppl did I was one). We didn’t ask to start bleeding every month. Ppl who over sexual women r ridiculous they take normal things and make them sexual just for some kink. Or they take something rlly horrible (SA or r@p3) and normalise it. Some people need to get a grip and stop thinking that teen girls and young women r just dolls to play with.

@olac1804

6 ай бұрын

once a teacher got mad at me for wearing shorts and “distracting the boys”. i was 9💀

@FirstnameLastnames

3 ай бұрын

I am so, so, so very sorry this happened to you 🫂 This is exactly what Simmone de Beauvoir was referring to when she said "One is not born, but becomes woman." How society forces girls to grow up too soon and @buses and mistreats us, expecting is to act like fully-grown adults who must act responsible for our own safety *the moment* we start to develop in any way, or even before, just for the great sin of existing as a female in the carefree state of youth we're not allowed to have for nearly as long as we should.

Its never sit right with me that turning 18 is seen as this complete 180 that makes all of that okay, like sure someone who is 18 is legally an adult, but that doesn't mean that they are mentally and emotionally intelligent and aware enough to truly understand and navigate expressing their sexuality in a world where even their own empowerment feeds directly into the male gaze and can be used against them

@kianaw.8096

3 жыл бұрын

right. i feel like in life in general it’s weird how turning 18 is portrayed like a switch that clicks and then you’re a totally put together grown adult

@bandaqueenlove9134

3 жыл бұрын

right im 19 and when I was 18 I still felt like a kid lol

@ameliaschulte

3 жыл бұрын

so trueee ugh

@wearethest4rs

3 жыл бұрын

Definitely, it bothers me as well and bothered me more when I did turn 18 and it dawned on me that all my peers and myself are no where close to being an adult just because our 18th birthday came. I’m 24 now and it’s just increasingly more obvious how young 18 to even 20 is. I’m not even sure when I personally will ever feel like a true adult.

@neattea3452

3 жыл бұрын

Lmao right and not only that ppl will be shocked to see that ppl look like a “kid” when they are like 21, well that’s because they are used to ppl looking much older as teens or young adults because there are mature adults who play teens in movies which don’t get me started on

my sister was catcalled from age 12 and after her 20s she said she "didn't feel as pretty", cause she was catcalled less often... and it's so messed up

@krisjenner0000

3 жыл бұрын

it really sucks because i know exactly what the people cat calling me are doing and i know their intentions and i hate them for it, but i can’t help but take the attention bc it makes me feel somewhat validated. i don’t need the validation whatsoever bc i’m pretty self confident and i have good people around me. anytime i was looked at weird i don’t smile back or anything i just glare at them or scare them in some way, but like i said, thr attention is somewhat nice. i just wish it wasn’t from creepy old people. and the fact i’m still so young makes me so sad

@myachi_art

3 жыл бұрын

Same.

@thebemphahlele4773

3 жыл бұрын

I stopped being cat called when I entered my 20s.. but in my teens, I was cat called almost daily

@pannajohns5255

3 жыл бұрын

I know a girl who’s been catcalled many times, and she enjoys it, because she’s given attention for her looks. She has a lot of self-imagine issues :(

@spate7207

3 жыл бұрын

With self image issues and never being cat called at all, I feel so strange to say this but it is slightly disheartening since I feel like I’m just unworthy and deserve no attention from anyone. It’s so strange because I know I shouldn’t want it but I kind of do…?

say it louder for the middle school girls!! i’m in a middle school and girls are constantly shaking their booties at us, wearing the shortest shorts, and just are acting like they are 18, one of their tiktoks had #18+ like UR 11.

just adding on to this, when I was 13/14 my body was "underdeveloped" compared to some of my female peers and I would be called flat by boys at school despite only wearing the baggy school uniform jumper around them which is just so ridiculous. Getting body shamed for looking like a child while BEING A CHILD.

seriously I remember when Britney's virginity was this HUGE topic and everyone would ask her about it and she was expected to make statements and like promises about it and it was this whole big thing with whoever she dated. Adult male interviewers questioning her if she's really, truly a virgin as if she's some suspected criminal being asked if they did it. so weird and wrong and inappropriate.

@iu479

3 жыл бұрын

whole america is drowned in this topic, it become sooo normal. are u virgin? did u hook up? did u had s**? beyond human morals. just human being easily take wrong path, that's why we need morality just so we can save ourselves

@ShadowRaven66669

3 жыл бұрын

I remember this too. It was absolutely ridiculous.

@laetitiapohl138

3 жыл бұрын

ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

@spiritualsnail1584

3 жыл бұрын

Virginity obsession is so gross yet engraved in everyone's minds, teens and adults alike -_-

@newdel7864

3 жыл бұрын

Same thing happens to Kpop groups. Their parent companies create that image though by letting everyone know that they're "not allowed to date". So interviewers consistently ask if they're dating someone. It's the same energy.

Imma say it, but the p*rn industry definitely has a major affect on how women are being viewed. Like the amount of 'school girl' and 'teen' related media within the industry is revolting. I absolutely think this has to do with how men and women view young girls. Its what is making money right now so the media latches on and makes it normalized.

@ncxymj8182

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly it’s disgusting and it influences teen boys a lot. For example, boys in my school. I still don’t understand why girls in my school date them

@fiocane8482

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah exactly plus with the whole prn hub verifying a 16 year old to do prn , that site is so fked up.

@kaitehernandez3840

3 жыл бұрын

Not to mention the poor girls being brainwashed and trafficked and used for their bodies in such an industry. Yet some people like to publicize how much they watch

@user-qk1nr2bc4x

3 жыл бұрын

Thats right

@anti_fragile

3 жыл бұрын

not-so-fun-fact: "teen" is the most searched for category of p/rn. other, less obvious variations of it (think "flat chest", "school uniform", etc.) are also high up there. there's a website where you can see all the p/rn searches being made in real time, as well, and some of the shit people search for with the word "teen" in it should be enough to put them in prison.

As a 13 yr girl I feel so conditioned to be sexy or hot for boys and I hate it. I think it's fine to wear makeup or have your hair done and cute but im just so tired of girls making me feel like I'm not trying hard enough. I'm trying to "just be a kid" but everything is telling me im wrong when I just want to feel pretty and not be sexualized. And to all the people who say it's not as bad as people say- it really is! When I went to the store the other day a almost 20 yr old man was trying flirt w/ me, I proceed to tell him I was 13 and in middle school and he still asked me if I had a insta or snap. I was wearing a baggy sweater and baggy jeans I only had mascara and clear lip oil. I told him I was 13. He was like 19/20. I isnt always the girls fault.

I’m 16 this year and i still feel like a child. I’m scared of wearing a skirt (it’s not even a short skirt it’s barely above my knees lmao💀) because of creepy men

@missstranger7697

Жыл бұрын

Do as you feel, when the right time comes, you will eventually explore the sexual side within relationship.

@edgarallanpoe209

Жыл бұрын

@@missstranger7697 because of this comment i will dress in clothes 5 sizes bigger than my actual size and make myself look as unattractive as possible

@missstranger7697

Жыл бұрын

@@edgarallanpoe209 🤣😂

@annoying-person

Ай бұрын

me at 11

@TristenKnibb-hx4xj

Ай бұрын

@@missstranger7697asexual people exist so they might not ever want that.

I never understood how we went from being kids running around playing zombie tag to immediately being adult women. It’s like everyone got a guidebook over the summer that I missed out on. I was bullied terribly for not wanting to grow up too fast. My “friends” held an intervention-style sleepover where they spent hours upon hours teaching me how to be “sexy.” I was ELEVEN. FUCKING. YEARS. OLD.

@loco4771

2 жыл бұрын

damn sorry to hear and i love ur pfp

@opalrose2002

2 жыл бұрын

@@loco4771 I love ducks lol

@SizzlingVibe

2 жыл бұрын

I am so sorry bro that sounds literally HORRIBLE! You poor girl

@loco4771

2 жыл бұрын

@@opalrose2002 same

@opalrose2002

2 жыл бұрын

@@SizzlingVibe thank you I appreciate that

turning 18 doesn't automatically make you a different person than who you were at 17 or younger, even if it's the cutoff that has been chosen for "adulthood"

@itssarah3438

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you. It's like ppl are trying to say we have to be a certain way at eighteen or twenty all of a sudden. Well no :/

@anniksart907

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly, I'm 18 in a week and I won't be any more sexual then than i am now, I won't be any more mature and able to consent to older men. This one week won't change anything about me except the way society and men in particular perceive me.

@jojo-xk8ri

3 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY

@Discordia5

3 жыл бұрын

I'm honestly surprised there aren't any 35+ year old men arguing with you on this point yet. A lot of them on the internet feel VERY strongly about this. 🤢

@deletthis5040

3 жыл бұрын

I've always thought 18 was an arbitrary age to be considered an adult. People act like the day you turn 18 you're a mentally mature adult. The fact is you're the same person you were when you were 17 or 16. And even then, when you're that old you aren't some little helpless child. Idk why people act like being 17 makes you a child, you're not legally an adult but you aren't somebody too helpless to make any informed decision about anything. It'll never make sense to me.

The amount of grown men that are obsessed with young girls is just,,, ugh. I'm 20 right now, but i'm kinda petite so sometimes people think that I'm way younger and there are some men that catcall me or say gross stuff to me and when I ask them "how old do you think I am?" they respond between 14 and 19, rarely 20. They seem to be like 40, 50 or 60 years old men, they could be my dad. The worst part is if I tell them that I'm 20. They love it, because I'm "legal" but still look young enough to satisfy their fantasies. UGH🤮

The sad thing is no one is going to listen to this and they're just going to keep doing it 💔

@missstranger7697

Жыл бұрын

If you talk about naive girls yes. Smart girls don't do that.

I will never forget being dress coded for wearing athletic shorts in the THIRD GRADE!!

@luma16

3 жыл бұрын

I will never forget the time in like 3rd grade i showed up to take my final grades document(no idea what its called,but a ceremony happens every year during summer)and i was in flipflops(we arent allowed those because we would "run and slip")and shorts and my teacher was like "Oh .. _shorts_ ,*my name*,...interesting.."I WAS LIKE EIGHT LADY AND IT WAS SUMMER IN A SEA-SIDE CITY,WHY CANT I WEAR SHORTS?AND ITS NOT EVEN THE SCHOOL YEAR SO WHY DOES IT MATTER?

@blahblahsuperanon

3 жыл бұрын

I was in first grade (2000/2001), and got dress coded for wearing a skort. 20 years later and I’m still mad

@prettykitty610

3 жыл бұрын

I've gotten dress coded in 1st grade for wearing a tank top like AND IT WAS LIKE 90 DEGREES WITH MINIMAL AC!

@judymashnouk8361

3 жыл бұрын

I will never forget being cat called by an old man saying "nice body" in the fourth grade.

@sofia-mt5ir

3 жыл бұрын

WHAT THE FUCK that’s horrible i am SO sorry

we only have 17 years to be a kid but we have 70+ years to be an adult. We must apreciate the time we have as kids and then when we have finally squeezed all the juice out of childhood, we'll be ready to transition into adulthood.

@kissanangellottalove6945

2 жыл бұрын

This

@oldfashionedlvrboy

2 жыл бұрын

yes! at times i really want to become an adult faster to have a career of my own because i really look forward to that part of adulthood but on the other hand, i wish there was more time because i know it's going to hit fast and become extremely difficult without me even realizing.

@felix-xd4mx

2 жыл бұрын

yes! wished i realized this when i was younger. now that im older all i want is to be a kid again

@kitten_582

2 жыл бұрын

That depends on how the adults around you treat kids

@swordsnorchids1997

2 жыл бұрын

Well I may be 24 but I'm still gonna be looking like a kid and have that attitude to life without being unaware but it just makes life a lot better imo. 😊

My mom always used to tell me to enjoy my teenhood or whatever because I have literally the rest of my life to focus on things like sex.

Even if this video was 2 years ago, it popped up on my KZread and honestly, it hits low, because I’m 12, and almost ALL of the girls I know my age are trying to grow up so fast. they are talking about how to pose in photos to have a bigger butt and boobs, and I was kind of feeling like I couldn’t keep up and I thought I was “too inocent” for my age. Thank you for this video, because I really needed a reminder that ther is absolutely NO NEED to be “sexy” AT MY AGE. I REPEAT, I AM 12. this is honestly so sad.

@booboones3093

17 күн бұрын

Glad you're here educating yourself. Very proud of you ☺️

i hate seeing people hype up young girls sexualizing themselves on social media. calling it body positivity or labeling people insecure when they call it out lol. it’s not cute, it’s not cool, it shouldn’t be acceptable, & people who allow it are just as disgusting as pedos idc.

@syndeybinch

3 жыл бұрын

Agree ! and I get the people that say you should direct disapproval at those who are attracted to it, and that’s absolutely true, but that still doesn’t mean it should be normal for young girls to do all this

@taofiqatumar7161

3 жыл бұрын

Like you cant even voice out your opinions anymore on social media without been label a pick me, like girl I'm not a pick me this behaviour is bad and it should not be normalize🤢

@panda22518

3 жыл бұрын

Right? It's disgusting

@badatspeling1378

3 жыл бұрын

Oh yah that a very "Nice guy" thing to do 😑

@JulianSteve

3 жыл бұрын

@@taofiqatumar7161 Yeah, it’s pathetic or a “simp.” The society we are in I swear😒

I absolutely love how Madisyn easily addresses these topics and gives her own unique commentary without shaming any of these girls

@mafranciscacorreia8852

3 жыл бұрын

same

@JulianSteve

3 жыл бұрын

@@firstnamelastname12344 Not in a negative way. Madisyn’s being 50/50. You can not expect her to congratulate them, especially if that is not her volumes. Plus, that would make her corrupt and A LOT of people would drag her💯

@Oofyy_

3 жыл бұрын

This isn’t victim blaming at all or shaming.

@stopthelightskinguilt.3775

3 жыл бұрын

Why is everyone so worried about being shamed?? If she did so what?

@AR-to4ou

3 жыл бұрын

@@mafranciscacorreia8852 iiiiiiq

Madisyn, I agree with everything you got on here. I'm a 29 year old guy and I NEVER liked how teen girls have been portrayed in the media/Hollywood circles. It always repulsed me because I was thinking, "Damn, I can't even imagine what or how the girl(s) are processing this." During my University English years, we HEAVILY discussed oversexualization of many fronts and it shocked me how rampant it is, which had me conflicted and saddened to see. From there on in, I made a vow to do better and treat my future girlfriend (whenever she comes to me) like a human who deserves all the decency in the world. That's why I'm watching female-made videos like yours so that I can understand things better. You are all intelligent, strong, beautiful and wonderful all at once. Wishing you the best! 👍🙂

i’m 13. MULTIPLE girls in my class have gotten suspended for sending nudes. a girl YOUNGER than me at our rival MIDDLE SCHOOL is pregnant. now nobody forced them to do that shit, they made that choice for themselves however we are preteens. these mature and sexual things shouldn’t even be options for us at this age.

@deezfatfatnuts

Жыл бұрын

also some people do it because they feel liberated and comfortable in their bodies, some do it because it’s normal at this point and others do it because of men. they hike up their tight tight short for the boys in class. (most of them it’s a combination of all of these and that’s gross)

@thepinkelephant2520

11 ай бұрын

PREGNANT??!!

@chmezpolab

10 ай бұрын

what the FUCK

@pissedcatpfp

10 ай бұрын

PREGNANT????

@julimeyer9842

9 ай бұрын

Who did these girls send nudes to to get suspended? Lol

I think part of the problem is that grown-ups give their kids the impression that they have to be adults to feel validated and be listened to. Downplaying everything a kid does and says by constantly saying things like "oh, they're just a kid", creates the desire to grow up as quickly as possible. It's that weird power dynamic that gives children the impression that they aren't even considered a proper human being for the first two decades of their lives. So then they start idealizing adulthood and looking up to, and copying celebrities behavior.

@rosafloera

2 жыл бұрын

Accurately expressed, thank you for making this comment.

@kklolmeh4006

2 жыл бұрын

You are completely right!

@Lovesickgirl0021

2 жыл бұрын

THIS

@w_h_y1112

2 жыл бұрын

This is very true Especially in my family, ESPECIALLY if your a girl ;-; As a kid (and still today) I am very invalidated at every turn

@hisfavouritedoll

2 жыл бұрын

thats true

" i wish that young girls werent being tricked into sexualizing themselves online under the guise of feminism" THAT PART. its such a dark thing to watch feminism be convoluted in this way to get underage girls to show themselves off. its sick. i think this video is really important, thank u.

@nessyness5447

3 жыл бұрын

At the same time, i don't think it helps that some shows way of " not sexualizing" is never letting the teen characters wear a mini skirt or a crop tops, because those are normal clothes not inherently sexual. And yes, i am lookingt at everyone who defended netflix winx horrible fashion by saying they could not put the characters in outfits similar to the cartoon to avoid sexualization. Because this creates the idea that anything that is not being completely covered is being sexual in a girl.

@melliexcx

3 жыл бұрын

Love this comment. 💕

@arcane1282

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@johnnys-left-earring

3 жыл бұрын

@@nessyness5447 exactly

@karou3205

3 жыл бұрын

@@nessyness5447 damn, ur right, things are so complicated actually

I am a 17-year-old Korean woman, and when I was 16 years old, I was shopping with my friend and a man asked me for my friend’s number. My friend got scared(she’s not good at refusing) So I told him that we're in high school but he didn’t care at all🤮

@FootballJunky-r6h

8 ай бұрын

Mind the way you dress , if you don't wanna encounter these cringe guys. This is often denied by many women but it's crucial

@NaNaFan707

8 ай бұрын

@@FootballJunky-r6hBro, it’s not their fault. They can dress the way they want, if they sexualize minors because of that it’s their problem.

@FootballJunky-r6h

8 ай бұрын

@enadream9303 Minors shouldn't be sexualized and I personally frown upon any Foolish man who would do so . But also, Parents shouldn't let their kids wear things that put their children in danger of being sexualized by these foolish men.

@user-nyangnyangnyanyang

8 ай бұрын

@@FootballJunky-r6h wtf she was wearing normal pink cardigan and wide pants; and even if she were dressing like a cardi B, he should have let us go if he got refused.

@Unlesstheworldendsthengoodluck

7 ай бұрын

​@@FootballJunky-r6hWhat are you wearing right now?

im so so happy that theres actually people in internet talking about this topic. it NEEDS to be talked about and very very important. nowadays nearly everybody is ignorant, scared to talk or just doesnt see the bigger part. sending love to you girl keep on going

“Boys will be boys but girls will be women” -Dua Lipa

@sparrow_solas

3 жыл бұрын

factually incorrect, women of this generation act more like spoiled little girls who demand everything be paid for them or else youre a "brokie"

@estherriley6879

3 жыл бұрын

@@sparrow_solas my guy, rewatch the video, listen to the song, take a breath, go outside, and quit generalizing.

@sparrow_solas

3 жыл бұрын

@@estherriley6879 isnt your entire comment all about generalizations too? tf?

@estherriley6879

3 жыл бұрын

@@sparrow_solas my comment is a quote that is a social commentary. Yours is perpetuating misogynist stereotypes. You can think that yours is social commentary, that’s your prerogative or whatever but to me you seem quite bitter towards women in general. The quote I commented is from a song that talks about the shared experience of many women growing up, especially black women as she talked about in the video, that experience being sexualized from a young age which is not okay. I really don’t see how your comment is relevant here as i and the video were talking about children, not full grown women. The quote is basically saying that boys are allowed to be children and not be sexualized until they want to be, but girls are sexualized prematurely by much older people and often are given more responsibility and stuff. This is a notable shared experience that a good number of women and girls have, I’m not trying to generalize.

@sparrow_solas

3 жыл бұрын

@@estherriley6879 seethe and mald

no because the thing with billie was why i was so nervous about turning 18, because it’s the youngest you can be while still being legal. i’m still literally a teenager but older people can get away with more :/ billie trended on the hub on her birthday and overall “18 year old” is one of the most popular categories on the website, we deserve more as women :(

@brih9613

3 жыл бұрын

i think “teen” is also one of the most searched things on there 😑 literally disgusting ugh

@zay-kb6je

3 жыл бұрын

yea, billie has been criticized by men for literally wearing tank tops and a messy bun and then they go and praise her for showing her body on the cover of vogue. billie should be able to own her body and make a statement without people seeing it as a pathway to sexualize her, the point was made to express her self confidence it wasn’t an invitation. people paid more attention to the cover than they did to the interview content (besides her fans). a woman’s confidence is not a man’s possession or gateway to being gross. also i love your pfp ahhhh

@corshawnhughes8325

3 жыл бұрын

@@brih9613 exactly even 19 years old is still a teenager

@bandaqueenlove9134

3 жыл бұрын

right :(

@grilledcheese5000

3 жыл бұрын

I'm afab and same here :/ My last few months of being 17 were spent with me freaking out knowing that an adult (19/20 ish, so not an inherently creepy amount but still an adult harassing a minor nonetheless) ex of mine was by legal definition stalking me and that as soon as I was no longer a minor it wouldn't look nearly as bad for him.

it doesn’t matter if i wear baggy jeans or leggings, i’m still scared to stand up because i know in every class i have, someone will yell “gyat” or “oh my god look-“

as an asexual 16 year old, thank you for talking about this. I keep getting made fun of for not having a boyfriend and there's been 20 year old guys who've tried hitting on me on my way to school and stuff like that shouldn't be normal

I think people forget that the age of legality doesn't mean the age of maturity. Once you turn 18, doesn't make you immediately 10x more mature and intelligent than when you were 17. Same for 19. Just because you are 19 doesn't mean you are any more mature than you were when you were 18 or 17. Humans brain matures around 25 or so.

@ilmianafirmantika8079

2 жыл бұрын

This!

@andeleon6838

2 жыл бұрын

This is why I find 18th bday/debuts stupid lol. Especially when they're giving speeches like "you're a lady now", "you are so matured now, I remember when you were still a kid and you were like blah blah blah" - like auntie, I was a kid literally yesterday. I'm not trying to shit on people celebrating debuts cos it's fun, whatever. I just hate the concept of people gathering around and giving speeches for a kid who turned 18 as if that's a huge accomplishment that the kid did himself/herself 🤣 I dint celebrate my 18th cos I didn't rly feel any different at that time, so like, what's there to celebrate? But then, I'm not a festive person, so there's that. Sue me, lmao.

@monserodriguez875

2 жыл бұрын

What about 20 years old?

@melodi996

2 жыл бұрын

Dates don't matter, though you're clearly much more developed mentally when you're 19 other than 17, in teen years it's like each 6 months you're a new person.

@blackwind743

2 жыл бұрын

I wish I could dispel this myth about 25. You are talking about the plasticity in the prefrontal cortex which is something we know a bit about but is still very mysterious as is much of the human brain. The xiphoid process is a piece of cartilage at the bottom of your sternum that ossifies at around age 40. This does not mean you are not an adult until age 40. People say they are concerned that the prefrontal cortex is involved in decision making and following social rules. It's the social rules part that concerns me because social rules are often stupid and wrong as we've seen with our current culture war. In fact this would seem to indicate that you should definitely try to get a mate under 25 before the stupid culture ruins them. We don't know enough about the human brain to say when adulthood starts or what adulthood is. Some people never grow up and that is a good thing. Maybe they can keep their prefrontal cortex plastic or adapt the functions of a plastic prefrontal cortex to a different part of the brain. Just don't blindly go along with some overprotective parent saying you aren't an adult till 25. They are trying to cement social norms into your plastic prefrontal cortex 😊😊

I was called a prude at 17, by a 15 year old girl. I was homeschooled my whole life, I wasn't interested in dating, so why would I go out with boys if I wasn't interested? It was laughable because I, almost an adult, was bring told what to do with my body by a child. At the time I smiled and laughed it off. But thinking back, I kinda feel bad for her since she felt like something was wrong with ME for not equating my worth to how many guys I could "pull".

@xerilaun

3 жыл бұрын

Im sorry u had to go through that. Teenagers these days are.. 😬😷

@_notaveggie_4922

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly!!!! This is me tho 😅 its honestly ridiculous

@kstar1489

3 жыл бұрын

17 is not adult

@seventysix92

3 жыл бұрын

@@kstar1489 ‘almost an adult’

@kamilyam7079

3 жыл бұрын

And you shouldn’t , my dad and mom mostly my mom dressed more exposed at a young age or just other young girls in general I’m 17 right now and I’m being told to show more skin since I’m becoming a young woman that I’m not gonna get a guy by wearing bagging clothes so you aren’t alone ❤️

im 13. i’ve been sexualized before, even back when i was 11. and honestly it’s getting worse. i feel like so many people are getting sexualized in our society, especially in real life, and it’s absolutely disgusting. i find it absolutely insane how woman who are barely even close to being fully developed when it comes to their bodies are being forced into doing sexual acts and dressing inappropriately for their age just to please some old men who are absolutely hopeless romantics. they prey on the young because they know we’re easy to take advantage of. and it shouldn’t be like that.

@Andies_Service_PAWZZ

8 ай бұрын

I agree. It’s sad what society has come to. I’ve been targeted on KZread. I’ve also been se*ualized back when I was around 9-10 all the way to 11 by my stepmoms DAD. It’s disgusting. I’m so sorry that you’ve gone through that queen, u don’t deserve it. I’m always here if you need someone to talk to

@FootballJunky-r6h

8 ай бұрын

You can blame feminism that preach the "my body my choice " gospel. This didn't exist when there were dress codes for men and women , women weren't supposed to show their thighs or wear clothes that are too tight to the point where they show their body definition ( if you get what I'm saying) , all this reduced the sexualization thing.

@Andies_Service_PAWZZ

8 ай бұрын

@@FootballJunky-r6h are you saying that all women should wear super baggy clothes? Really? Because I don’t know if you noticed or not, but even way back then women still got sexualized whilst wearing dresses that cover their entire body.

@Andies_Service_PAWZZ

8 ай бұрын

@@FootballJunky-r6h it is our body our choice. It’s not our fault that we get 65 year old men crawling up our ass. But as you say, I’ll wear sweatpants, or baggy jeans on 103 degree day. Sorry my lord 💀

@NaNaFan707

8 ай бұрын

@@FootballJunky-r6hLmao making it the victim's fault is not the solution

When I was 12 I had a 20 year old boyfriend and was coaxed into sending explicit images it was a really horrible situation

My daughter is 7, her friend at school told her that she is still a baby since she doesn't wear makeup and a padded bra... Again, age 7. She is just a child... it's just weird. I just realized I was harassed more at age 15-20 than when I became an adult and knew my mind and my body better.

@barakaobama4017

2 жыл бұрын

Padded bra at 7, what the hell...

@Kai_The_Kai

2 жыл бұрын

My 7 year old sister wears bralettes and I don't know why ;-;

@povyourereadingmyusername

2 жыл бұрын

What at the age of 7? Do they even know to spell *padded* My sis is 7 years old. She's little cute creature begging me to let her sleep for extra 5 minutes.Its hard imagine.

@staradia5116

2 жыл бұрын

That is scary. Why is our culture is going backwards.

@user-vf8qw5od7z

2 жыл бұрын

SEVEN?? my friend's little sister is 7.. oh my gosh i cant begin to imagine what the world is coming to :(

one thing that I'm sad you didn't point out is fact that hypersexuality in young girls is often a trauma response to being exposed to sex at a dangerously young age.

@cinxmoroll

Жыл бұрын

can confirm, discovered porn at 7 and then got into a porn addiction from age 7/8 to 12 which then came back 13-14. I am now 15 and still trying to work things out on my own over sexualization

@saryawilson2064

Жыл бұрын

It’s sad because as a kid you don’t even realize that’s what’s happening, you don’t realize until the damage is done

@Sephelions

Жыл бұрын

Yep. I got sexually harassed multiple times and had one guy try to sexually assault me freshman year of high school, and I dealt with a pretty long bout of hypersexuality afterwards. It's especially stressful in these kinds of situations since it really fuels that "Was it my fault?" way of thinking

@hufflepufflez3293

Жыл бұрын

@@cinxmoroll I feel like this experience is so so common for us, like the exposure to sex at such a young age because that was my experience too. I believe in you, I believe you can overcome it, love you king. We'll get back to okay someday.

@ok-cf3cw

Жыл бұрын

@@cinxmoroll this hit so hard cus i relate so badly it's acc so sad

there are some girls in year 8 at my school (12-13 YEAR OLDS), and dear god. all they talk about is sexual topics and have admitted to interacting with sexual activities, and it’s horrific. of course in no way do i blame these girls as they clearly have been pressured to grow up, but it’s a horrific sight and i only wish the best for them

im in germany and the legal age here is 14. this is disgusting 🤢 children having intercouse with eachother should be illegal

@twilightwolfpiano

11 ай бұрын

Wtf I didn't know that. I swear the bar gets lower every time.

@chmezpolab

10 ай бұрын

you cant tell me that every single governor that made the age of consent lower than 18 wasnt a pedophile. its so obvious they were

@Fouzduotxtruaiztcojgcuotdztos

6 ай бұрын

Muss ehrlich sein 14 ist wirklich niedrig … nh Klassenkameradin wurde mit 15 schwanger und hat vor paar Monaten ein Kind bekommen .. ich kannte die zwar basically garnicht aber es ist zu krass für mich das die arme jetzt schon nh Kind hat und ihre Kindheit einfach verpasst hat

@Feedmeyoubastard_00

4 ай бұрын

I thought that was just a normal part of teenhood(? when they’re in the 16-18 category) but that’s insane

I was 15 and a man who was at least 50 catcalled me. When I told him my age, his only response was, "old enough to be f*cking." I can't even count the amount of times similar things happened to me before the age of 18.

@georgiana1147

Жыл бұрын

oh god,thats really disgusting,im sorry

@Anna-ns9ic

Жыл бұрын

🤢

@malanmoody8313

Жыл бұрын

Woahhhh.....so sorry

@emojis_withlove6219

Жыл бұрын

This makes me gag…I’m sorry you had to go through this

@rf-uj5sc

Жыл бұрын

This is why I feel no ways about the male suicide epidemic lmaoo

"I heard many girls say they got cat called more in their early teens than as an adult" I AM SO GLAD I AM NOT ALONE. I was wondering if I got ugly or something. But no. People are just creeps and want to catcall teens cuz they're easier to manipulate and they're perverted. I rarely get cat called now but at 14, 15 and 16 it was pretty much every time I went outside.

@dollsbynika

3 жыл бұрын

Yes its really disgusting im 15 and i get cat called ALOT like i cant go for a walk without some 40 year old cat calling me

@oksraisk8848

3 жыл бұрын

so true. I remember being a teenager, I got catcalled a lot, so disgusting when I look back

@user-fi1eq5xu2w

3 жыл бұрын

I was walking home one day and this guy wolf whistled me from his Vespa. Next thing I know, I saw a guy fall on the road, hit and bleeding.

@Sara-Eevtea

3 жыл бұрын

Ahhhh same!! I really thought I got ugly too but it turns out I'm just grown now. I can't even tell you the amount of times grown men would make uncomfortable from the ages of 8-19. Gross.

@arxsaur

3 жыл бұрын

i got catcalled when i was 7… a whole 7 year old

THANK YOU SO MUCH, this video was such a slap in my face and i really needed this, thank you 😞💗

I can’t believe I only found this video now but I’m so thankful that I still found this. Currently 16 and I went through that mindset when I turned 13, that sexualizing yourself was the only way to be loved, but I realised that as I grew up and with my family to explain more of the consequences of these actions and be grateful and spend my youth more wisely. Thank you for bringing more awareness for us young girls! Just subscribed today! Loving your content 💖💘 Godbless 💖💘

I'm 14, and not so long ago i was at the beach with my parents. I was wearing board shorts and a rashie (tank top), and a one piece swimsuit underneath. We were going to leave and I was putting my normal clothes back on over the top of my swimmers (i had taken off the rashie/board shorts). While i was putting my shirt on, i noticed there was a guy, probably about late 50s to early 60s, staring at me. Not even trying to hide it. When i made eye contact with him, he smiled, blew be a kiss, and wolf whistled. I've never been so freaked out in my life. This may seem minor compared to other girls's stories, but for a 14 year old this is really terrifying.

@Brunette_2005

2 жыл бұрын

Jesus, I hope this man doesn’t have daughters, cause if he can do this stuff to a random minor he definitely doesn’t hesitate to do it with his own daughters

@augustsockstrawberry

2 жыл бұрын

i'm so sorry that happened, that man is digusting

@chloe5275

2 жыл бұрын

NO that is not at all minor, and don't let anyone make you feel like you need to downplay your experience!! That was textbook sexual harrassment of a minor, and the scumbag who did this to you is a danger to society. I'm so so sorry you went through that :( You and everyone else deserves to feel safe to just fucking exist and enjoy our lives in peace

@jennalavena

2 жыл бұрын

it's not as minor as you think it is.. if it bothers you, then it bothers you

@acespace4906

2 жыл бұрын

First of all that guy is seriously so disgusting for doing that and I totally get how scary that is. But don't let anyone ever tell you your trauma or something that scared or hurt you is ever "less than" theirs; Because at the bottom line that just isn't true. Everyone has different feelings and what hurts one person may be not as bad to another. I really hope you're ok though and he never tried to do anything to you. p.s. I love the pfp

i was catcalled so much more at ages 12-15 than now and i think that's absolutely terrifying

@gwen.me0

2 жыл бұрын

i was 9 when i was first catcalled, i was so scared that i couldn't sleep that night

@veracovic6334

2 жыл бұрын

Same with my , when I was 14-16 it was the peak and now Im in my 30's and men are like scared 😳

@larocdokarnap3227

Жыл бұрын

@@veracovic6334 Men are not afraid, they don't need nor want your bullshit, you are undesireable, end of story.

@conniehemmings3170

Жыл бұрын

Same!! Especially when I wore school uniform

@edithputhy4948

Жыл бұрын

apparently puberty wasn't kind to you

As a younger person this really helped shine light on problems in our society, thank you! Btw your literally so gorgeous, keep making amazing content!

one of the very few videos that i have tuned in uninterrupted for the entirety of thank you so much for spreading knowledge, i know so many people who absolutely need to hear this.

On the flipside, I remember the social media collective (naturally) giving JoJo Siwa absolute hell for dressing too "childishly." Newsflash! She was/is a child. Let her wear her glitter and sparkles and giant technicolor hair bows in peace! I swear, even in this supposed *AgE oF wOkEnEsS,* it feels like we (women) are still pretty much damned if we do, damned if we don't. It's exhausting, really.

@morgxan185

2 жыл бұрын

I was very restricted. I was a pick me girl when I was younger! I wore shorts and a tee-shirt. Yes I did like wearing them but I mostly only wore them because I thought my crush (at the time) didn’t like girly girls. Now I kinda wanna dress like JoJo Siwa did. It looks fun

@elizabeth2621

2 жыл бұрын

We love a gay icon

@sarahcicle8592

2 жыл бұрын

Also, even as an adult, what’s wrong with wearing bright colors and facing fun with what you wear, especially as it’s a brand for her and makes her a lot of money. I don’t believe that as adults we always have to wear “sexual” or even just fashionable or…kinda boring normal clothes, especially when we’re not working or anything, just let people wear what they want

@yuenmienyu

2 жыл бұрын

PERIOD. it's not harmful.

@xursssulaxx

2 жыл бұрын

yeah its almost like society wants females to go from young girls to WOMEN instantly, like no pre-teen phase in between anymore. When i was like 10-14 i used to shop at like Justice and stuff and i’d wear sparkly clothes or whatever. Now i feel like that age group of girls all want to start dressing like they’re 17 years old or something. Its cause of freakin social media

The countdowns to female celebrities turning 16 or 18 is disgusting: Billie I also saw it with Britney Spears I saw it with Megan Fox I saw it with the Olsen twins I saw it with Lindsay Lohan I saw it with Miley Cyrus I saw it with Emma Watson It needs to stop.

@Ash232001

3 жыл бұрын

Millie Bobby brown as well

@eyeamjulian

3 жыл бұрын

@@Ash232001 she’s 18????

@Ash232001

3 жыл бұрын

@@eyeamjulian not yet, but there are several links having countdowns to her 18 💀

@eyeamjulian

3 жыл бұрын

@@Ash232001 eww that’s why their going to hell yup

@bonk2057

3 жыл бұрын

The paparazzi were inappropriate taking pictures of Emma only hours after she turned 18 that would’ve been illegal only hours before :(

I keep coming back to this video just because it's so well made and important, I enjoy it every time!

Yeees thank you for covering this!

Tbh most girls my age don’t even compare themselves to Kylie Jenner or adults even. We either compare ourselves to each other or to other minors in tiktok. And i think that’s what makes us even more insecure. We can’t even use the excuse “oh she got plastic surgery” cause they literally just won the genetic lottery

@lavalu1137

3 жыл бұрын

Or our edited self

@hellokitty2552

3 жыл бұрын

Not me having a mini breakdown last year after watching a tiktok of a girl my age getting praise for being societally attractiveeeee 🐸

@emilymann377

3 жыл бұрын

I feel the same way. I'm 19 now, but when I was younger, I primarily remember comparing myself to my peers instead of to celebrities. I craved male attention and validation so much that I would over-analyze why the other girls could get boyfriends so easily yet I couldn't.

@sydthekid3822

3 жыл бұрын

yupp

@erinkinsella91

3 жыл бұрын

But the beauty standards come from adults

the fact that we _all_ have a story about a dude being creepy in our teenage years truly is the most disgusting feeling ever. Edit: thank you for the likes! I actually have a video about Body positivity that relates to the topic. Let me know what you think.

@kam-lw4ez

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly and I absolutely hate the "#notallmen" movement. Not all men, but all women. It's sickening. Sometimes I wish I would never have to interact with any man ever again.

@oliviac295

3 жыл бұрын

So true, even when literally in my school uniform. Gross

@itznia_ok8069

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed

@loverboy6149

3 жыл бұрын

@Saltybee just tell him to stop bc he wont learn or understand its wrong untill you say stop especially if youre in a young grade

@emd4390

3 жыл бұрын

@Saltybee he’s in for one hell of a reckoning when he touches the wrong person that will take the more physical approach to showing him that intent and impact are different.

I love how u explain everything btw IM IN LOVE WITH YOUR HAIR

i agree so much on all of this and the fact that some teenagers are getting bullied for wanting to stay a child is just so sad

It hurts me to see people watching shows like skins and glamorising that life. My teen years were like that and watching skins was triggering as hell. Being addicted to drugs/alcohol, losing friends to murder, having ED’s, being cheated on, manipulated and abused are not things to romanticise. They’re traumatic and it’s so disheartening to go through years of therapy just to be able to function, only to see so many teens falling into the trap of thinking that’s the life they want because it’ll make them “edgy.” I feel like I’ve failed all of these kids I never met because I can’t warn all of them.

@sunettas9738

3 жыл бұрын

You don't have to feel guilty for that, it's on the media to be more responsible on how they show teen behaviors. That being said, I'm glad you're doing well now and hope that you stay well throughout the future

@kyliejenner150

3 жыл бұрын

dang i didn’t know ppl found shows like skins as bad representations thanks for the info

@roaaaa6522

3 жыл бұрын

skins for me did the opposite it made me feel like wow i never want that. it does glamourise so much but i feel some parts do hit hard

@joeyveegs7124

3 жыл бұрын

I'm 25 now and I watched Skins when it came out so I guess I was like 12? And it definitely impacted my choices and outlook on sex and drugs and all of that stuff. I definitely had that feeling like I was missing out, and I had my main drug experimenting years around 16-18 when I was still in high school. I don't regret it to be fair, I'm happy I experienced all of that, but some of the situations I got in were weird, unsafe and occasionally traumatic. Maybe they would have gone better if I was old enough to deal with them. Things are even weirder these days, especially for young girls and the ubiquity of social media. When I think of my little sister now who's 12 I do worry for her safety as that age is when my interest in that stuff started. Must be sooo much harder for her handling all of this in 2021.

@christelleilmet3601

3 жыл бұрын

I think you’re absolutely right I think ppl need to learn that you can like Skins without romanticizing it. Like Skins is one of my fav all time show but I would never want to go through what any of them go through. I actually like the show bc of how real and raw it is. It’s nothing to be romanticized

This feels like a big sister sitting me down to talk about life. Genuinely thank you so much. - a 16 year old girl still trying to figure shit out

@7654S

2 жыл бұрын

It feels good to see that you understand where this is coming from. I am 22 now, but damn if I could show this video to some of my friends in school - they wouldn't have had terrible experiences because of innocent decisions.

@aniqah4026

2 жыл бұрын

@@7654S yeah a lot of times innocent decisions turn so fast

@onemillionpercent

2 жыл бұрын

@elizabeth2621

2 жыл бұрын

Don’t fall into the trap of hookup culture if it doesn’t suit you. I wish someone would have told me that

@sabrinasouza3766

2 жыл бұрын

I love this comment hahah and absolutely agree

Wait this is awesome also ur hair guuuuurl this is like such a perfect explanation of how we r sexualized at such a young age

I got catcalled at 12 by my friends dad

@BagelCat99

10 ай бұрын

Wtffff

as a 19 year old straight male, i’ve never understood the “school girl” fetish. it’s so disgusting and i constantly am extremely ashamed that there are men out there that celebrate when a young girl turns 18. absolutely disgusting mindset. i hope this shit changes soon, but one thing i’ve always said about tik tok is that it is pushing the sexualization of literal children. yet no one around me seems to care that much because “tik tok is fun”

@number-gz4vm

2 жыл бұрын

walking W 🗣️

@soup_sarah8590

2 жыл бұрын

@@number-gz4vm periodt.

@Cooldude-ko7ps

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah. It’s kinda understandable if the person into that stuff is still in school as well but once they’re 18 or older it just gets weird.

@andreapunsalan8078

2 жыл бұрын

@@number-gz4vm yess

@foggyfrogy

2 жыл бұрын

To be fair a lot of people I know don't have tiktok because of it. Because tiktok has earned a name for underage children dancing to sexualized songs. A lot of people complain of kids being on tumblr/twitter/instagram so I'm like ,, let's give the kids tiktok, why should we adults interact with this medium". That said, I think tiktok has so many problems and potential to fuck up with children's mental health. The affects of worldwide online exposure is more extreme on children than on adults and even a lot of adults struggle with depression and suicid* thoughts because of their interaction with social media popularity...