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@JohnSmith-lh1qt

Жыл бұрын

Naw, this ain’t it coach Ego-death brought us present Mike Tyson but the Ego brought us Prime Mike Tyson Prime Mike Tyson was brought to us by Cus Damato, through the activation of his ego…

@VopiscusGuitar

Жыл бұрын

@@JohnSmith-lh1qt I second this

@William_Clinton_Muguai

Жыл бұрын

Sure! I know this 1sthand.

@dylankeim6039

11 ай бұрын

How do I hang my ego without hanging myself

@jaron3048

11 ай бұрын

@@JohnSmith-lh1qtfactsss i hate this talk abt destroying ur ego, i fell into this trap n i been trying to get it back

If you lack confidence develop a healthy ego through doing hard things . You will slowly become a competent person and this will in turn make you a more confident individual. Change up your body language and language ( record yourself and write down the things you would change right now about your communication) , workout , read books and become exceptionally good at whatever you wish to be the best at. Doing this for 7 months now has saved my life,doing better every day. It's ok to be scared when facing challenges, but regardless you must do them. That shows bravery

@thebestplayerdead956

7 ай бұрын

Like Nike said. Just do it

@fayizhamdan

7 ай бұрын

Dams. how u cope with pushbacks and insults while doing this!

@thebestplayerdead956

7 ай бұрын

@@fayizhamdan sometimes , coping to a higher power works for some people. Maybe try that.

Get to know yourself, get to know the harsh truth

"If you smart enough to figure it out you would have already" This hit me

@middleofdecember9862

6 ай бұрын

bullshit, we constantly learn and change and so as the world around us

I can think or talk about this shit until I’m blue in the face. That’s not the issue. The issue is getting over that hurdle and actually DOING it. I’m a cashier so I have to interact with hundreds of people every day, and each time someone comes up, I tell myself, “I can do this. I’m gonna be myself” but then I don’t. I put on my fake customer service voice and get through the interaction as quickly as I can, even if I’d like to start a conversation. How do I take action? I put on a mask when I interact with everyone now- co-workers, random strangers and family members. I’m tired and I’m done but I can’t seem to stop. I know why I can’t- it’s because I’ve been burned in the past and I’m afraid of being myself

@MS-we9gn

Жыл бұрын

because I’ve been rejected. I’m afraid of people making fun of the “real” me. Right now I know if they criticize me, they’re talking about my mask or fake persona so I couldn’t care less

@FOURTEEFIVE

Жыл бұрын

That’s fine.

@VopiscusGuitar

Жыл бұрын

Move somewhere where you don't know anyone, and get a job that is nothing like your current one, and your current patterns won't fit, so you won't feel compelled to continue in them. More than anything, just get into any job that doesn't center on customer service. And check out the essay "Self-Reliance" by Emerson; somewhere in the middle there's a relevant section on "consistency".

@fennecweb

Жыл бұрын

you have to push yourself. pick a person and say that person will know the real me. then be honest. push yourself to be real until you stop caring about the repercussions. Trust me, this works. I did this all of my 20s and in my 30s, i will be honest with others. if they have a problem with me, then they should bring it up to me. if they don't then they're children.

@salsadip7453

Жыл бұрын

As someone that worked retail and during corona crisis, that’s not a good situation to compare yourself to It’s a job with demanding conditions where you interact more with strangers that by chance treat you as a person, but most of them think you’re either a service robot or use you to get their anger/frustration etc off These people and your reaction to them doesn’t define you If it changes your personality, it’s time go get a different job I’ve been in the same boat, changed career drastically and try to figure out the stuff I’ve experienced before retail and during, to be the joyful person I was before. I’ve learned a lot about people and myself but when the time comes where you can’t learn anything anymore and it undermines your resources, it’s time to go

When you define yourself, you limit yourself. "Admitting" you're too dumb is an ego defense mechanism against the feeling of failure to prevent you from putting in more effort... to state your limits like that is an act of Creating a more sharply defined self-conception (or ego), not erasing one. The painful truth you're avoiding: intelligence isn't a static quality. The process of learning involves Feeling dumb and inferior, and you have to have the drive to eliminate that feeling through Conquering the enigmas causing it, not assuage the feeling by accepting your current state as permanent. Your demeanor here comes off as if you're being fully brutally honest with yourself, but to a philosopher, this reeks of chicken soup self-love, self-acceptance crap hidden underneath. Then again, I'm reacting to a small clip without knowing the full context. I'm a fan of ugly truths being dished out, but pain isn't necessarily a measure of validity. Just because an idea can knock you out of a stagnant equilibrium isn't a guarantee that it'll do so in a direction of growth. A rut has multiple exit points, and some lead to deeper ruts. You're not too dumb; you're presently too lazy to get any smarter, and the laziness seems to have achieved a victory here. Every "truth" conceals something else, like ego nesting-dolls. Dig deeper.

@bluee5991

11 ай бұрын

From what I've seen from his content, he probably mean it as in admitting himself that he is too dumb, not smart enough, and not have what it takes actually let him to be able to put himself to situations where his previous self (the one that has ego) would have freeze and avoid because he was scared to look dumb, not smart enough, and not strong enough. He no longer feel the limitation. He actually teach that as human, we shouldn't define ourself to one thing. For example, awkward person might fear to come off as weird and awkward, they try their best to come off as cool and normal which makes them limiting themselves and control themselves so much maybe even end up saying nothing at all just so they don't say or do things that embarass them, or having their body holding back their voice because of how much they avoid come off as weird or awkward. Tune yourself into the feeling of what if I'm awkward and stupid, why does it matter, why I feel unworthy because of it, etc. etc. that you end up feeling it's okay whether you're cool or awkward, etc. Thus freeing ourselves from the ego

@bluee5991

11 ай бұрын

Another example, I'm scared of being a failure or making mistakes, I end up avoiding myself from any opportunities just because I'm scared to ruin it and make more mistakes. Tuning in it and accepting myself "okay, I might be dumb, I might make mistake, I may be a failure, why is it not okay? Why can't I accept myself? Why does it matters?" Long story short, it lead me to dig deep why am I uncomfortable with it, what happened and try to "let go" of it. And after a long time and journey processing it thus I free myself from doing things that my oldself would avoid because of the ego. It's not "I'm suck, there is nothing I can do about it, so I am just gonna give up, it's useless" but rather "I may look dumb, stupid, fail doing or saying this thing, so what, I want to do it".

@prettyath

10 ай бұрын

Yeah fr i think his way makes it harder for the person to put in more effort or try its just being harsh and cruel to yourself which won’t help improving it

@bluee5991

9 ай бұрын

@@oopsalldrip8816 the key is not insulting or being harsh with yourself, but be okay with whatever you are thus opening yourself with potential instead of limiting yourself and denying yourself. Stop seeing things negative positive. If I feel like I'm dumb but I deny this feeling and try to use affirmation "I'm not dumb, I'm smart, I'm witty" etc. Instead of growing, I may end up getting in a worse situation because if what I feel inside and what I said aren't congruent, it just increase the feeling of "I am not that". Only someone who is not cool that try to change to be cool, only someone who is not pretty try to change to be pretty. You said nobody is dumb.. that's because you see dumb as a negative trait and try to avoid it. You make this criteria "not dumb" as your self worth while actually it shouldn't have matter, whether someone's an idiot or smart they're still human an enough as they are, not superior nor inferior than the other. However don't mistook my word with being okay and enough with yourself to "giving up" with myself. When you feel content and accept yourself, you can still want to be pretty or smart but it cames from the feeling of abundance instead of "need" that insinuates you lack of something. The key to happiness is radical self acceptance. If you see negative positive and only allow yourself to be happy if you were cool, smart, pretty, rich, then you'll be in constant need of chasing something. When you're finally content with yourself, there will be no longer self-negative talk. When you try something, you don't have to "power through" because now you and your mind both work for yourself, there is no "enemy" to get through. You see a lot of self-motivation are mostly talking about discipline, strong will, etc. these happen because most people's enemies are themselves, because they keep putting things that distance themselves from allowing themselves to be happy. We often talk as if happiness is a temporer state, only reached when we're at certain point, as if unhappiness is our default while actually happiness should've been our default.

I had this exact same revelation about 4 months ago. 47 and I haven't used my time wisely well no more.

extreme egoism is the key to success

@z-iceberg3562

Жыл бұрын

Maybe to the ppl around your area or u just plain dumb

Beautiful. That's what that means...the truth shall set us free

You can’t kill or get rid of the Ego, it’s impossible with our current vessels. However, You can suppress the Ego, but saying you’re killing the Ego or getting rid of the Ego is being Egotistical.

@jaron3048

11 ай бұрын

yea true i don’t think the ego ever truly dies u just experience a different version of ur ego

@drakearries

9 ай бұрын

that is very true, our ego is our sense of self esteem, we should just develop a healthy ego because without a good ego strength, killing our ego is much like putting ourselves down

Saying you're too dumb is not killing your ego, if anything is just letting your ego accept that is not your fault, yes you're smart enough, yes you're capable of, and ego will lead you, because healthy ego will let you accept the fact that even more important that being right, is trying to not lose.

I don't think you understand what an ego is. Saying I am not smart enough is still ego, it's just not overvalued self worth. Ego and arrogance are not the same. Ego is just sense of self.

@jaron3048

11 ай бұрын

exactlyyy ppl don’t understand tht if u lose ur ego u literally lose ur sense of self, so if u love urself & love the way u are pls don’t kill ur ego bc i fell into this trap & now i’m experiencing a version of myself i don’t like. Been slowly trying to get my ego back

@drakearries

9 ай бұрын

this is so true @@jaron3048

Wouldn’t that just turn into self-deprecation?

No matter what you do people wont be Happy. Perfection is an Ideal. Before looking at someone else faults check yours. Dont force anything upon us and then play victim.

Gold!

Absolutely

You are a very great authentic charismatic person. Your life should be so much better now. Or wait does your self worth and confidence come from the external?

Would love to see the whole vid. Any links?

Thanks

Good value

Full Video?

It does work.

But wait, isn’t saying what you aren’t still a statement based on ego?

@Memyselfandiiiiiii

9 ай бұрын

Exactly

Yessir

Wow

mid my ego is amazing

Whats my. Ego?

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

❤

Thats still the ego

Modern day Jim rohn

The ego is an illusion...fighting illusions makes you Don Quixote.

This is going to sound ironic but i thought i was the only one having thought this or the other one that made me realize how small and meaningless compared to the universe was "if it wasn't meant to be it wouldn't be yet we are here"

There’s a fine line between killing your ego and giving up on something worthwhile. I don’t know the whole context, but even so, this is dangerous advice. One thing that comes with killing your ego is killing your soul.

@korolight4427

Жыл бұрын

I was thinking the same thing!

@z-iceberg3562

Жыл бұрын

Ego will shorten your life span, bro, unless you have multiple egos which make fraud and pussy

THE REAL YOU IS THE GOOD THING BUT IF YOU KN OW YOU HAVE BAD PERSONALITY THEN CHANGE IT AND ALWAYS BE YOU

But Peter quill already killed ego

Ego isn’t bad bro you must control it and not the opposite

@bamboo851

7 ай бұрын

Ego’ aren’t good brother.

But you still have ego which is bad because there is no way to life Yes maybe they are not changed because they have a different path than yours not everyone gets to experience the spiritual processes Even if you know the truth you're still sharing the same earth ,sky, food , body, water and experiencing the same thing which is human existence Well I think nobody is unique or special we're all here for experiencing existence then we will die with or without knowing the truth .... Nobody knows nobody will ever know nobody ever knew just the perspective 💗

@thebestplayerdead956

7 ай бұрын

That’s why life IS and ALWAYS will be what YOU make it.

This guy has strong ego. “If you were smart enough” is him identifying with his thoughts/him feeling superior. Everyone is smart enough, only distracted. He is not teaching the tendencies of the ego. He has not even realized his own patterns, at least not all of them, as I spotted ego in his words. He clearly separates the idea of himself from his idea of others with his mind. He does not see the sameness in all. I mean he literally said “they still suck.” 😂😂

Keep your honour Kill your ego

@violenz8633

11 ай бұрын

Honor is a part of your ego

Nobody is too smart or too dumb were all the same

@thebestplayerdead956

7 ай бұрын

Trust me boi. Drugs make people dumb as hell. I’ve seen it with my own eyes

Bluelock.... 😂

😂😂

his crooked hat is bothering me 😭

This is copy