You MUST push back against things that go against your values. NEVER passively agree to anything with which you don't agree.

@stevenlightfoot6479

Жыл бұрын

@@SeekerAppleSwordSerpent Yes true. Sometimes all you can do is go along with something with which you dont agree, but firmly recognize that you are doing it against your will for a larger purpose, and never give in internally.

@amfarrell42

Жыл бұрын

Somewhere in Michigan, there was a civil engineer who failed to say no to changing the pH of Flint’s water treatment. The result was an engineering injustice. (also incidentally a racial injustice)

@LeeAdrian777

Жыл бұрын

Push back against scum

@Bolpat

Жыл бұрын

Yes. And also, you're morally obligated to point out any other problems you see. I recently did that and the answer I got was underwhelming, but it wasn't bad.

@clearvision4233

Жыл бұрын

Agreed.

Must be able to say No, set boundaries, and eliminate the habit of avoidance.

@Eric-zv9ut

2 ай бұрын

Can you explain the avoidance thing

I never get tired of listening to Mr. Peterson speak. Every time I learn something new but it also makes me realize how much I actually do not know. Humbling to say the least.

When you combine passion with knowledge the results can be fantastic. Dr Peterson delivers his advice with total conviction. Imagine if all teachers were like him? I believe I would have done better at school. 🙏🏼

@aWomanFreed

Жыл бұрын

And you’d be completely brainwashed today

Man's Search for Meaning is one of the best books ever written.

Remember that scene, when the bounty hunter walks into the bar and says he's looking for Josey Wales? He was given a chance, (basically saying to himself, "No," I'm not going to draw on Wales") to walked away, then he came back and lost his life? "No," is good, if you can resist the temptation of changing your mind.

So well spoken, thank you JP! Reading Ordinary Men now.

If you don’t push back against tyranny when it’s not that bad, and you wait until it’s worse, it will be much harder, and the only way you MIGHT succeed is by mustering so much willpower you didn’t have before and suffering so much more than you were willing to before that you will wish you had just said “no” when it wasn’t that bad. Remember if you tell yourself “I’ll push back when it’s worse” that the only time that’s correct is in a situation where you’ll wish you hadn’t waited.

@Bigmtj10678

5 ай бұрын

Sheesh

As Chinese I really hope more people hear this. There are corners on this planet that still have free speech and people better fight for it before it’s too late. Now rebellion doesn’t put your life at risk, but if this trend continues then who knows.

This is a great person! The world needs millions like him - Not in addition, but instead! Instead of whom, you might ask. Instead of those who can be moved to ultimately persecute others just because they want to & they can.

A robot does everything that it is programmed to do. It cannot be programmed to refuse. The thing that makes us human is our capability to say no even to things we want.

The conundrum with choosing to speak up, especially if the position you're advancing is contrary to the widely accepted narrative, is that it singles you out and makes you an identifiable target. People realize this, whether consciously or subconsciously, and would rather not take on that burden. It takes a lot of spine to be able to embrace an incoming tidal wave of criticism alone and most people would rather not risk being mobbed, even if it means falsifying their speech.

Never get fed up with his views . Thank you for sharing ❤

I was competent and silent, kept me hurt for a while working for peanuts compared to what I brought. Took a step back, collected data, charged 3x more and nailed the negotiations.

This is one of the most important of his points man.. i pray the world hears this asap

I agree, Jordan.

Thank you very much, Mr. Jordan Peterson.

No!

Agreeableness has an ending point.

Apathy allows tyranny to rise, with a strong community these powers never get a foothold.

@yomomshouse100

Жыл бұрын

Source?

@tvathome562

Жыл бұрын

@@yomomshouse100 regurgitation of Jordans philosophy in my own words, I believe he's right to a point. A tyrannical leader cant take over with out the backing of a portion of the group and /or the apathy of a large portion of the group.

@Bobo-ox7fj

Жыл бұрын

@@yomomshouse100 How about the period of widespread political apathy that precedes every major tyrannical regime throughout history

His point about the book "Ordinary Men" is spot on. My whole outlook on humanity and human behaviour changed after reading it.

@sannii2222

Жыл бұрын

which book exactly is that? I find multiple version on the internet :d

what a brilliant answer to a very good question.

❤ love Jordan Peterson

No is the most important word in the human language.

@MasteryOrder

Жыл бұрын

Indeed. It helps create boundaries and define individuals. If you enjoy challenging ideas and if mastery and masculinity are subjects that interest you, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel. Challenge yourself with some ideas about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire. We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well. Looking forward to your points of view. All the best to you!

The world is lucky to have Jordan sharing what he's learned. He's only controversial to those who are blindly convinced of what they think they believe. Most extreme liberal people I've spoken to express the ideology until you reform the same question in a way they've not yet considered. This allows them to think for themselves and typically results in very different moral beliefs than they stated earlier in the conversation. This shows how they've been blindly convinced by someone they simply took their words as facts.

Love One Another

6:10 spot on

Hell yeah!😊

Bravo 👏🏻 ✝️❤️

Yessssss 1:34

Wow!

Master.

hear hear!

I am on left and I love you!

just speak your mind like there's no tomorrow!

I've once asked my boss for a raise from a point of weakness because he promised we would talk after 3months and I took that literally. I had no idea I had to be confident & negotiate while saying it.That's the day my former boss literally didn't see value in my work or any input I had at work, he broke me down to a point where he was expecting me quit. Basically he wanted me gone but I held on until a year later when finally decided to retrench me. Thank you JP for sharing your wisdom accompanied by your professional advice, now I know how to go about negotiating a raise👌

The richness of this material is striking. A similar book I read was the catalyst for significant personal growth. "The Art of Saying No: Mastering Boundaries for a Fulfilling Life" by Samuel Dawn

Wow.

🙏

6:46 what author is he saying here? Sols Njidsen? I can’t seem to find it. Thanks!

@blakebunch4485

Жыл бұрын

Aleksandr Isayevich Solzhenitsyn

For a person to be prudent (wise), one has to obtain virtues of justice, temperance and fortitude. Without courage our righteousness will be lost.

I call him papa Jordan 😆

It’s even better if you have a competitive offer IN HAND when you make the request to your employer.

4:32

No u

NO, NO, NO!!! How's that?

What were the names of the other influential professors/people at the beginning?

@toddthomas4761

Жыл бұрын

Jonathan Haidt and Robbie George...

@nesa9102

Жыл бұрын

@@toddthomas4761 Thank you!!

My husband always tell me how confrontational I’m. Which I love that I’m🥰 some situation it’s not worth but some! Trust me it’s. NO! Assertive! Fearless 😊

“He's more introverted” Not that hard if Peterson happens to be in the ninety-something percentile of extraversion.

Now tell me how to say no bro

It shouldn't have to be an effort!!!! So grateful to have people sell law and yet not have abided by it themself! "NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" People shouldn't even have to worry about saying this! Really these cons shouldn't have the feild to be within other people's peaceful life's! Usualy it's because they hide within curruption recycling

Who or what is "Height" that is mentioned several times in this video? Will someone be kind enough to tell?

@blakebunch4485

Жыл бұрын

"Haidt" I think

No I don't.

It's fascinating, to have such a high agreement with the 1st 1/2 and disagreement with 2nd 1/2 of a video. The validity of importance of negotiating from a position of strength to disagreeing with his attempt at blaming everything in a authoritative state more than its leadership. Some will see I often have disagreements and ask why continue to watch. Well, it's important to not be in an echo chamber, to listen to views one may disagree with, to see both perspective and where agreement may exist.

@joeday4293

Жыл бұрын

The thing is, there's no "negotiation" possible when the proposal on the table is a compulsion antithetical to your morals; and the only possible response, after careful consideration, must be "Abso-God-damned-lutely NOT, on my very LIFE." That's the situation Jordan Peterson found him in in the conflict that brought him fame in the first place. So no, it was not the best first presentation of who he is and what he is, if you didn't know already. He has spent a professional lifetime studying negotiation, but he was in a situation where no negotiation was possible, and unfortunately, that's exactly how he got famous. And I would have done likewise. Sometimes you are made an "offer" that is so absurd and insulting, the only correct response is "go fuck yourself."

@donaldfrederick501

Жыл бұрын

@@joeday4293 that's part of negotiations too, on knowing when to walk away and move on to other opportunities.

@joeday4293

Жыл бұрын

@@donaldfrederick501 How do you walk away from the police power of your country's government without emigrating?

@donaldfrederick501

Жыл бұрын

@@joeday4293 1st I would suggest a "check the facts" if dealing with a police power state (China, Russia, Iran and North Korea come to mind). If that that level leaving might be only option. What specific place are you referring to? Note, Canada is not that.

@joeday4293

Жыл бұрын

@@donaldfrederick501 No, but Canada is a place where Dr. Peterson had to resist.

Thanks for honoring my freedom of speech. Had Jordan Peterson (as a professor of psychology) been an Atheist rather than claiming to be a Conservative Christian, there shouldn’t be any doubt that ALL Christians would have scorned him … and today, his name (in the public sphere) would be unknown.

💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

he be in the fray?

You mean... Say" no more!"...?

Defenestrate Jezebel

some people need the slightest inch to load on ...

yes, no i mean, im mean i dont know what to say. help.

How can the "no" of one man overcome the crowd of yesmen?

And how can a free, sovereign individual, justify the compelled speech of submitting an 'IRS tax return' ? A business paying a tax is not the same as an individual, by the necessity of survival, being subject to a tax. A business is simply a process. An individual is a living, breathing soul. An importer of a product, for example, can simply refuse to import the product, thereby not being taxed. An auto maker can refuse to make the machine. But an individual must eat to survive. To tax a person for surviving, for existing, by compelling a persom's speech, .. where will that lead except into slavery. The Federal Reserve recently raised it's interest rate. Now, Americans are obligated to pay a trillion federal Reserve Notes per year ? Into slavery we are tricked.

Read Ordinary Men and Man’s Search for Meaning

I did say no. And then they sent Jorday and Mikhaela to mount a full scale assault on my already shattered nerves. I belong on a no-fly list, is all I'm saying.

Bro whoever send that question JUST GET TO THE POINT!!!!

If you agree with something that feels wrong, you falsify your being bit by bit. So DON'T TAKE THE FIRST STEPS.

No. I’ll never learn to be disagreeable, and you can’t make me.

@erica.5620

Жыл бұрын

ok

@bman5257

Жыл бұрын

@@erica.5620 Fine. I’ll do it.

@arcanejel

Жыл бұрын

@@bman5257 😂

@erica.5620

Жыл бұрын

@@bman5257 yay

@dirtybubblerising

Жыл бұрын

Ah, I see what you did there

poor mr. p. when you see a wolf in wooly clothing telling you how to think say, 'no'...or better 'no, thank you.'

Bad things happen when good people do nothing

@juliovillagran4105

9 ай бұрын

I have that on a poster. Need to put it on my bedroom wall but I keep putting it off.

and now he's in re-education

People cannot even be bothered with turning a knob that engages the safety lights of motor vehicles.... The simplest of tasks are beyond their reach.

I wish I would have saw this before I went to the strip club.

Jesus Christ saved the entire world from the foundation of the world.

No one has the power to change anything. If there was we wouldn't be here. Like this. Indefinitely struggling toward sanity and beauty God or goodness now is what you mean when you want to dignify Humans There is no inherent,. masqueraded goodness, under the face of mankind. No history that isn't rooted in Hell. There is only a sprint for space and fleeing from previous premature states of being into something more empowered to withstand Hell itself. There is nothing decent that lives in Heaven if it's feet stomps on children.

Blah blah blah. Jordan start speaking at. 1:20.

So you're saying domination by Nazis or domination by Israel. Make the free choice. Anyone who has read as much as you have knows the numbers. The fire hose of wisdom. Love you J, but wake the f up.I appreciate the way you help people on a personal level and encourage self esteem and awareness. Having said that, the history around this era is heavily distorted. Not so much to frame the Germans but to cover up the guilt of the Allies. Did seventy-five P-51 Mustangs featuring Chuck Yeager, mow down civilians along the border? What about all the German POWs who were starved by Eisenhower. It's always propaganda when it doesn't say what the narrative wants it to say. A lot of history would have remained buried if you had not come along. The problem for the system is they are drawing their own conclusions from it. They see what they have to do, with or without the labels to manipulate the way we should think. The Commies are make the labels to divide everyone. The more labels, the more divisions. If you continue to play by their rules, you will lose. Wars are not won by making concessions, but kicking ass with extreme prejudice, bigotry or sheer hatred. The enemy is what you remember when you wash off of your boots.

Does Jordan Peterson have a working brain? No.

Blah blah blah...lots of meaningless garble!!