For those who might not know, the song that kicks in at the end is titled "We Cry" on the soundtrack.

@goof3209

3 жыл бұрын

pain

@fard_it

3 жыл бұрын

What sound track and what platforms is it on?

@fard_it

3 жыл бұрын

HeyItsDingo thank you

@Hey-Its-Dingo

3 жыл бұрын

@@fard_it You're welcome. All the music is great, Joe Wong did an amazing job.

@amitshibuk

3 жыл бұрын

Time for 'SPAIN' except no 'S'. I searched for this soundtrack but couldn't find it. So whenever I felt like listening I just came back to this video again and again.

"Duncan's mother, Deneen Fendig, peacefully passed on April 3, 2013. Incredibly, three weeks earlier she had the idea to sit and record a podcast with Duncan that would end up being the final and most powerful, perspective-altering episode of The Midnight Gospel."

@tonychopp2952

4 жыл бұрын

Wow, that’s the day I turned 8. She seems like she was an amazing woman

@marlowmorbid8531

4 жыл бұрын

this isn't really true, this clip of dtfh is from 7 months before she died. she recorded a different one with him 3 weeks before dying, and that audio isn't in TMG

@sexorswag

4 жыл бұрын

@Humble Magician was there any need

@theshortstuff

4 жыл бұрын

your so much closer to life when you are dying. how amazing is that paradox

@Nextbigthan0

4 жыл бұрын

She died on my birthday 🥺

0:41 That's not acting. That's the sigh of a man who's realizing this is one of the last conversations he'll ever have with his mother

@oh8024

3 жыл бұрын

Well this is from a real podcast from a long time ago with his real mother who sadly passed away.

@radhummingbird97

3 жыл бұрын

@@oh8024 I knew that, it's because of that that I thought Clancy/Duncan's sigh sounded so real

@grimmisascorchmain9486

3 жыл бұрын

Didn't seem like a very hard sigh to replicate

@_mossy_8520

3 жыл бұрын

@@grimmisascorchmain9486 ok kid we get it you are edgy

@grimmisascorchmain9486

3 жыл бұрын

@@_mossy_8520 I think you misunderstood my comment, I wasn't downplaying the clip, I was just saying it was an easy sigh to replicate, but given the context, has a lot of meaning. We get it kid, you're an asshole.

The hardest part is that in the original audio from the podcast, after Duncan's mom says "You cry!" it doesn't cut to music or silence. The next two or so minutes after she said that is just Duncan sobbing. It's one of the last conversations between a son and a clearly loving mother as they talk about life and her health and how she is dying.

@basilecooper8401

Жыл бұрын

Not one of the last, the podcast is from 2013 and she sadly died in 2018

@galaxythebat

Жыл бұрын

@@basilecooper8401 ... You must be on some shit because that doesn't make what I said wrong at all. That's completely irrelevant even

@gabiwsales

Жыл бұрын

@@basilecooper8401 she died in 2013, 3 weeks after the episode was recorded

@svedfgrgeerhwehgr

11 ай бұрын

@@basilecooper8401 She died in 2013. Look it up. Don't just spread misinformation about someone.

@surferproh2o

11 ай бұрын

@@basilecooper8401source: trust me bro

No video has ever consistently gotten me to tear up When she says "You cry!" it feels like she's saying that I'm allowed to stop pretending, to stop trying to be strong And for that brief few seconds I feel like I can just let it all out

@okbuddywhattheflip

2 жыл бұрын

nice pfp brother

@justinbailey2347

2 жыл бұрын

Same power as ‘it’s okay to cry’ by Sophie. An invitation to vulnerability. After her death I couldn’t not cry any time ‘Immaterial’ played.

@operationd--msday

Жыл бұрын

​@@justinbailey2347 is it cold in the water makes me wanna cry still

@KetamineCoyote

Жыл бұрын

What episode of the podcast

@Heladio54

Жыл бұрын

False?

The fact that she’s already dead when this aired hits hard man

@bedbathandbeyond9763

4 жыл бұрын

Maddy Carroll-Slinn this comment made me cry harder oh my god

@Issa_rat

4 жыл бұрын

she died three weeks after the original podcast

@idkman8691

4 жыл бұрын

Turtle Mcguffin can I have a link to the original one? I wanna see this shit.

@catthatlooksatyoufunny7377

4 жыл бұрын

@@Issa_rat Oh god...

@DafneTheHedgehog221

4 жыл бұрын

@@idkman8691 kzread.info/dash/bejne/aZt5pbB_YqzLopc.html Its around the 1hr 17min mark

In the original podcast when his mother says “you cry” Duncan/Clancy goes silent for like 2 minutes while he silently sobs and it is the saddest thing ever

@TRITACOS12

4 жыл бұрын

Is it in an episode of DTFH?

@seychastjevesnerra

4 жыл бұрын

could you please help me to find a link to it?

@andrewloves1993

4 жыл бұрын

seychastje vesnerra kzread.info/dash/bejne/aZt5pbB_YqzLopc.html its at around 1 hour 17 minutes

@seychastjevesnerra

4 жыл бұрын

@@andrewloves1993 thank you a lot, caring soul...Have a wonderful day!

@Atri4

4 жыл бұрын

@@andrewloves1993 Thank you so much.

Now that both my parents have passed from cancer, my mother when I was seven and my father earlier this year, rewatching The Midnight Gospel is making me realize and feel a lot more now. “You cry.” It’s the truth. You cry, it’s the only way to get that pain out, the only way to clear your mind. Thanks so much to Duncan for making this wonderful show and wonderful podcast.

@dragonlordsaviour7005

2 жыл бұрын

So sorry for your loss.

@CrayCrayslab

2 жыл бұрын

Almost the same situation, just reversed - dad died when I was 3 (no memories of him) and my mum almost 2 years ago now, both from cancer. When the show came out it had been a few months after my mum's death so I was still y'know, very emotional over everything. That episode hit way too close to home than it should have. My dumb stepdad told me to not cry in front of my mum while she was sick because that would be discouraging, so I never did. As a very emotional person in general who cries over a lot of things that was really hard for me. But now that she's gone I can cry as much as I want and she will never see me.

@hacimbbew7298

2 жыл бұрын

sorry my dad also, you should get checked out because some cancers are genetic.

@notsans9995

2 жыл бұрын

Your dad must be dissapointed he left his legacy to a massive pussy.

@Aztesticals

Жыл бұрын

You ever take a dna test to see if you are at risk as both your parents dying at suprisingly young ages statisly means you really should be tested. And i know the fear or the known. But i know now that i have a very very high risk of early onset dimentia. Neither of my parents were. But i am. Its a random bit of bad luck. Am i a tad in denile hoping in 30 years when my symptoms hit that we at least have some treatments to make it suck less. But good odds i wont be the computer human hybrid i dreamed of being if i could live to 80 with 60 more years of advsncement. I got 30. Maybe less as im 25 snd i could get slapped with it in under 20. Gotta live but i have plans to stsrt being more frugsl now to help my family in case.

Hearing the words “you cry,” in a soft motherly voice while currently living in a household where if I cry I’m just told to stop crying and get shamed for crying, really sort of hurts me but as well as helps me.

@marinettemasyrenaud8742

2 жыл бұрын

*Hug*

@HowDoIKMS

2 жыл бұрын

@@marinettemasyrenaud8742 Awh, yt :’D

@marinettemasyrenaud8742

2 жыл бұрын

@@HowDoIKMS *headpats you too* Hope you laugh at least once today.

@HowDoIKMS

2 жыл бұрын

@@marinettemasyrenaud8742 tysm, I wish the same for you!

@Myte-kz4bv

2 жыл бұрын

you deserve a good mom.

“its because im your momma!“ Me: *sudden realisation*

@alicecullenkinnie6581

4 жыл бұрын

Billie Joelish ikr 😭

@eyezz0

3 жыл бұрын

@Billie Joelish ugh 😰

@lolvera007

3 жыл бұрын

What does it mean

@Gibbypastrami

3 жыл бұрын

@@lolvera007 this show is basically like, the guy who voices the dude here, Clancy, is a comedian who has a podcast. The audio for this show is taken from the podcast and sort of cut and chopped into a cohesive plot kind of, then the show is animated over it This is taken from an episode of the podcast, the woman here is the comedians actual mom who actually has cancer

@Gibbypastrami

3 жыл бұрын

@@lolvera007 so "sudden realization" is the person realizing the woman is his mom

“You’re a special case” “That’s cause I’m your momma”

@Zeverinsen

3 жыл бұрын

*The water ducts open*

@okaywhynot4728

3 жыл бұрын

oh god that broke me

@delriowav

3 жыл бұрын

That hit so fucking hard, man...

@geezee9375

3 жыл бұрын

Every time. 😭

@d3adpotato

3 жыл бұрын

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

I lost my son last year and I didn't know how much crying I still had to do until I got that gentle reminder.

@mantisshrimp6169

Жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry for your loss.

@alexandergomez0327

Жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry for you loss, Jarrod. Prayers for you and your family’s healing.

@colerainez8903

9 ай бұрын

I am so sorry man. I hope time has been a little more manageable since you've last typed this. I wish I could give you a hug man. I pray everything is doing alright @@alexandergomez0327

@bradman7281

8 ай бұрын

No father should have to go to the funeral of their children. I'm sorry for your loss.

@stephanieh5478

17 күн бұрын

I’ve lost my grandma and she was like a second mother to me. It’s been 1 1/2 years and I still cry like it was recently. .

My dad has only a few months left to live, I came back to video in hope of finding a solution to the pain. There is no solution to the pain but the only natural thing you do, You cry. Update: My dad has passed peacefully.

@ImtheHitcher

Жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry for your situation. This episode helped me realise all the pain is just an outpouring of pure love, I know your dad has felt it and I know it will have helped him. I hope you and yours are well

@shinji8624

Жыл бұрын

My condolences

@Phawks-Phire

Жыл бұрын

I'm sorry for your loss. 😢

@InanotherUnivrse

Жыл бұрын

Sorry man couldn’t imagine the pain , he’s lookin over you now happy and proud of what you become

@armcus0

Жыл бұрын

@@InanotherUnivrse the sadness may not go away, but I feel its important to honour the feelings that come from love

The way he said “no!” After she said “it’s because I’m your momma” like he was fighting back tears with laughter was so sincere.

@thecrazykillr8011

4 жыл бұрын

Plastiic-cake I haven't seen the podcast yet but I'm assuming it's cause he really is

@tom4947

4 жыл бұрын

Ya, this isn’t acting. It’s his mom and she died of it a few weeks after recording the podcast in questions.

@Minto8384

4 жыл бұрын

@@tom4947 oh no... really? That's so sad...

@lee_likes_bees

4 жыл бұрын

Tom D i- i- i don’t know what to say this is...

@backstabboi4559

4 жыл бұрын

Gah dam

It hits that we’re listening to a woman who has been dead for seven years

@gisfrl4049

3 жыл бұрын

ow.

@sxkjknjw2

3 жыл бұрын

@Pantomath Life is ALWAYS UNFAIR never forget that

@pizzaman9859

3 жыл бұрын

Pain

@Silverdude217

3 жыл бұрын

It hits even harder when you realize that the woman is his mom

@EarleTKG

3 жыл бұрын

@@Silverdude217 well no shit, it was in the video.

The biggest life lesson I have genuinely learned from this show was said by his mom “I May Leave This Plane Of Existence Sooner Rather Than Later, But The Love Isn’t Going Anywhere.”

@bethanyoneal5789

2 күн бұрын

The reality is, even when we’re gone we’re not truly gone. We are energy and energy cannot be created or destroyed, it just changes shape.

My mom never really liked this show but didn't mind it playing in the background. I turned it on the other day because I wanted noise playing for my dogs because there was construction going on. My mom was sitting in the living room and started to watch it and actually enjoyed the show. When she got to this episode, I could hear sniffling and asked what was wrong, she was crying because of this episode and I always cry when I watch this one in full. I don't know what it is but I think it definitely has something to do with how sweet and calming his mom sounds when talking about anything and everything.

@naruinoiscanoninanalternat2947

9 ай бұрын

:cmonBrug:

There is no way to stop a heart break.....you just.....you cry

@JonnyJPlayer

4 жыл бұрын

Wow you are first

@zalifor

4 жыл бұрын

Out of all the comments, I happened to cry on this one.

@blackwizard3264

4 жыл бұрын

JonnyJPlayer this is cheesy asf

also after discovering this podcast was a *real* interview trussel did to his mother 2 or idk many weeks before she died for cancer in 2013.....it really hits hard

@sunlioness1

4 жыл бұрын

No, it's 7 months before.

@mommf1288

4 жыл бұрын

Whaaa I didn’t know that know I’m really crying

@franciscovaladez7171

4 жыл бұрын

@@sunlioness1 she passed away 3 weeks after this podcast

@nativechatter999

4 жыл бұрын

@@franciscovaladez7171 i guess it was her time to go. I feel honored to have been given a look at her advice to her son.

@Rabbit-o-witz

4 жыл бұрын

Anyone has the name of the podcast?

The fact that "you cry" is so beautiful and wise that it immediately summons sobbing in me every time..... what a wonderful mother she must have been.

The way she says ''You cry!'' it also sounded like ''son, please, don't hold that back, who told you this? I love you'' almost like rescuing him from an old lie. I've not seen the full movie yet but this scene alone helped my psyche plenty.

The fact that this was a real conversation between a mother and son makes this scene hurt 100,000 more

@redpug2133

2 жыл бұрын

Wait what

@catterpaws3145

2 жыл бұрын

@@redpug2133 yup this conversation/series is based off a real convo with their mom. Their mom passed away a believe a week later

@jamzee_

2 жыл бұрын

@@catterpaws3145 about a full month after the Family Hour episode was released, Duncan’s mother passed.

@cthegoat4386

2 жыл бұрын

wow

@Rocio1002Cp

2 жыл бұрын

How you don't know its a podcast, what show are you watching? the wall?

"How do you stop a Heartbreak?" "You cry. You cry." That actually got to me. I don't know why.

@thepenguin114

3 жыл бұрын

Because it's the deepest truth any of us will ever know

@yvaincallipso84

3 жыл бұрын

Because the way she says it, if feels like she's giving you permission to cry and just mourn and be sad about whatever is hurting you. It's a really beautiful scene.

@poppabless

3 жыл бұрын

It’s just that powerful my guy.

@theshockinglyeloquentdog9945

3 жыл бұрын

because she sounds so wise and so strong and she says some honestly sobering things that we, fortunately, would not think ourselves because we were never in the position that she's in. yet. so when he asks "how do you deal with that" we expect her to have some magical words, some way of looking at it that makes it all okay. but instead she just says "you cry!" like it's the most obvious answer in the world. because it is. no amount of acceptance or rationalizing is ever going make it okay. it's always going to hurt and be terrifying and there's nothing any of us, not even this incredibly brave, intelligent woman, will ever be able to do to stop it.

@michal752

3 жыл бұрын

It’s true tho.. crying is just the most relieving expression of emotions, letting things out with no need of words just releasing the pain from your system

I could replay “ there’s no way to stop the heart break- what do you about that?” “ you CRY! … you cry.” A million times over and it brings me to accepting, grieving tears every time. Because she’s right. Grief and love persevering. What do you do when you love so much you can’t stop the heartbreak? You cry. I will always be moved to tears by that simple and raw feeling,

Watching this with no context, "that's because I'm your momma!" hits so hard because it changes the entire understanding of what the conversation is.

This is not acting, this is a son and a mother having one of their last conversations.

@HaggyWaggy1234

3 жыл бұрын

Wait that's Duncan's mom irl? If so god man Im in tears

@firespirit383

3 жыл бұрын

@@HaggyWaggy1234 it's from his family hour yes.

@alyssarivera4461

3 жыл бұрын

@@HaggyWaggy1234 yeah, is a recorded conversation he had with his mom before she passed away

@HaggyWaggy1234

3 жыл бұрын

@@alyssarivera4461 awwww that sucks, hope she's doing better in the clouds

@alyssarivera4461

3 жыл бұрын

@@HaggyWaggy1234 yeah, but honestly this show probably helps a lot of people cope or get a new perspective on death. I haven't really experienced a death that was hard for me to get through, but this show really helped me because I have a really huge fear of death in general. I bet his mom would be or is extremely proud of him for what he has created.

Finding out this was a real podcast with his mom, it just broke my heart

@sluggish._

3 жыл бұрын

I never knew it was real and now i’m sad:(

@chelsraknrl4218

3 жыл бұрын

Man...

@KK-bt6nc

3 жыл бұрын

Who’s mom?

@benditotrouxa893

3 жыл бұрын

Wich is ep?

@Atomskk.

3 жыл бұрын

K K the creator of the show

When I need to cry but can’t, I come to this video and hearing her give me permission helps every time. From the other comments, it seems I’m not the only one. Keenan Fendig truly gave us all such a beautiful gift with these words. I can only hope that one day I can touch lives in such a meaningful way as this.

@transsnack

Ай бұрын

It's honestly kinda weird, grieving someone I never knew, but her voice is just so... kind. She's just a mom, talking to her scared son, trying to comfort him as best she can. And in doing so, she's comforted hundreds, if not thousands of people, who just needed that permission to cry.

I feel like Mr. Rogers would have loved this. Exactly what he thought Telivision should be used for. Talking about the things that really matter. Educating people about stuff school dosen't/cant teach you

dude this came on my recommended and i thought it was gonna be some funny animation kinda shit. and i cried

@arwen402

3 жыл бұрын

Allison Gawen me too it’s 4 AM and the tears just won’t stop coming

@gylfie7

3 жыл бұрын

@Angry Combat Wombat i've read somewhere that his mom died not long after this was recorded... this makes the whole episode even sadder

@imnotfamusyet1655

3 жыл бұрын

Same but why tho this is deep and sad👀😐😞

@COTOZ._1

3 жыл бұрын

i dont want to be rude but the title has cry in it

@_lol.imagine_

3 жыл бұрын

Same

Just the interview audio is tragic, but the way they emote makes it heart wrenching. What really tears me up more than anything is his face when he starts crying. Feels too real. Real as it is I suppose.

@commanderrose4798

4 жыл бұрын

Its because it was, this was an actual podcast with his mother in 2013, she died a few weeks after this podcast due to the cancer. The animation continues on even when it gets quiet, due to them not being able to ask her to come in so she could record lines with her son. This is a way to honor her memory while she helps explain to people that it will all be okay, even if you can't do anything.

@supgoodworld2408

4 жыл бұрын

that's cuz it's actual audio between the voice actor and his mother a couple days before she passed.

@KazzieBB

4 жыл бұрын

@@supgoodworld2408 3 weeks, not a couple days

This helped me with my sister's unexpected death. She died two days after giving birth. She went to sleep and never woke up. Two years have passed but it feels like yesterday. I'm not 100 percent yet. But this show and more specifically this scene helped tremendously. Thank you.

@nownow4323

2 жыл бұрын

Good to know this show helped you, and I hope your niece is doing alright.

@Sloptopgettingdrop

2 жыл бұрын

That's hilarious bro!

@jamesflowers1295

Жыл бұрын

Same with my brother. Nailed on his bicycle at the start of covid. Within a few short hours, I lost my idol, my toughest critic, my strongest rival, and my best friend all-in-one. I miss him every day

@DoYouLikeTacos

7 ай бұрын

​@@Sloptopgettingdropwtf

@therestinghornet6906

6 ай бұрын

I'm gonna go hug my brother and sister tomorrow morning. You never know when they are going to leave you Be Well Gentlemen and Merry Christmas

I just lost my dad 4 days ago. December 2nd. Massive heart attack. Died on the spot. He was 65. It hurts so much and I cant stop crying. I miss him so much.

@bethanyoneal5789

5 ай бұрын

I hope you’re doing ok. I’m so sorry for your loss

@Mamitarococo69

2 ай бұрын

The same happen to my mother on march 24,2024 💔💔💔

“You cry” My tear ducts: “yes ma’am”

@chesmanetsenor4088

3 жыл бұрын

needs more replies

@flowerpatchtoons1101

3 жыл бұрын

@@chesmanetsenor4088 yeah

@Shrimp8008

3 жыл бұрын

I come back to this video every once in a while and always goes down like that

@hawkwood9257

3 жыл бұрын

your comment always makes me laugh

@voidjuice

3 жыл бұрын

100% exactly what happened.

_"I know I know I know but cmon there's no way to stop the heartbreak, how do you sto-... what do you do about that?"_ _"YOU CRY... You cry"_ Well GODAMM that hit

@planetzdr

4 жыл бұрын

Cried even on the third viewing. She is such a great person

Growing up being shamed when I cry and hearing a motherly voice saying it's basically essential to dealing with heart break, just made me bawl. I needed to let it out today.

My mama died on December 14, 2022 from exactly what Duncan's mama died from. My heart feels like it has been ripped out of my chest. This is beautiful and sad. It helps to know that I am not alone. Thank you.

I'm really happy that Duncun was able to not just talk with her like this but record and immortalize this moment with his mother. I cant believe she died weeks after recording this.

@liltaymae9957

2 жыл бұрын

She did?

@el-wizardo

2 жыл бұрын

@@liltaymae9957 3 weeks after recording

@mapleleaf65

2 жыл бұрын

This scene brought me and my own mother closer. Even now this woman still has a ripple effect on the universe

@ilovehotmoms5804

2 жыл бұрын

@@liltaymae9957 unfortunately yes

@Stefanialak

2 жыл бұрын

Wait seriously? She died in real life right after this? 😢 I’ve watched this episode so many times, it’s helped me so much. Wow…

I haven’t even seen this show but the fact that this audio is actually him and his mother is so heart wrenching

@taylorhope4651

4 жыл бұрын

You have to watch it this episode will destroy you lol and the show is just amazing

@midnight2544

4 жыл бұрын

Your missing out bro this is by far the most creative show i’ve ever seen and by far the trippiest and best episode Duncan is a honest genius and the team behind the animations are beyond talented

@midnight2544

4 жыл бұрын

I don’t do drugs personally but if that’s your forte watch this episode high and the rest on a psychedelic I bet it’ll change your perspective on the world entirely.

@jasonbezuidenhout968

4 жыл бұрын

Watching the whole season even if you hate it is worth getting to this point

@HOF3000

4 жыл бұрын

Fuck I didn't know that

This scene really hit home for me. I love the way they explain things and break it down .

@n2bfw884

Жыл бұрын

Same here.

This animation makes me bawl every time. I'm still blown away this show got made

I love that he pointed out that she WAS a special case, and she joked about it being because she was his mom, but that's actually 100% accurate. Our egos do make us think that us and our families are special cases, and to others we aren't, we're just another drop in the bucket, but we are special to the ones we love.

@deusprogrammer_thekingofspace

3 жыл бұрын

But in the microcosm that is your circle of friends and your family...you are special cases. It's a matter of perspective. In the grand macrocosm, nothing is a special case. That's why we must never live in the macrocosm and instead exist in the microcosms we create.

@ashleyrobinson9373

3 жыл бұрын

I'm pretty sure he said it as a compliment

@commandcube1156

3 жыл бұрын

I believe the inverse is true, that we are special cases, but many fail to neglect that others aren't just drops in a bucket, but everyone are cases just as special as yourself and everyone you'll ever hold dearly.

@tannervlasic8356

3 жыл бұрын

I'm pretty sure it's just genetic resonance of cells. I think that feeling comes from the differences in biodiversity. You know how people that look like you or have features about their life that give that nostalgic feeling. It's like that.

@jimmyelkordy3752

3 жыл бұрын

My mother had MS for almost 40 years, went through so many issues in life including chronic pain, a broken hip, and then was finally told she'd have 6 months to live before her stage 4 pancreatic cancer would kill her, and she kept kicking for 2 years. I always thought of my mother as this incredible case that would be studied for years because no matter what happened and what odds she faced, including an overdose on painkillers where she was technically dead for a few seconds, a car crash, and some bad falls in life, she just wouldn't die. Not only that, but she STILL could walk/jog despite her MS. And at some point during the second year she just got so much worse so fast, and it really hit me that this was it, my mother might actually die, after so many years of suffering, and 2 years of the worst cancer, her organs began to fail and her liver (or kidney, I really wasn't in the right state of mind when the nurse told me) ripped, and her stomach was being squeezed by the fluids that came out of it, and they put a small hole in her and a tube and it had to be drained so she wouldn't be in pain. She was on morphine (2 doses) and fentanyl and still needed something else for the pain to not be so bad. My sisters and I spent the last week with her and our father as we stayed and talked to her while she was on her death bed, and even through all that I thought "No she's the special case, she's gonna bounce back from it, she's going to beat this somehow, she's done so may amazing things already." And she didn't, and I learned that while she was an amazing and incredibly strong person, others had been through the same, a lot of people survived for years after the "6 month" news. It really shattered the illusion for me and made the world feel a lot worse.

God this episode was a punch in the gut but like.....in a good way

@abbers0737

4 жыл бұрын

ethyn smith Yeah... I remember I would listen to Duncan’s podcast just for background noise, and then stumbling on this episode. I was so shocked at that moment, that they captured such a tender, genuine moment

@Trashbaggs

4 жыл бұрын

yea..shit you need to hear but man it hurts

@kaitlynoberauer8408

4 жыл бұрын

Oh yeah

@waxwiresnwaves

4 жыл бұрын

Yep :|

@gadellomagnollo1810

4 жыл бұрын

I started laughing uncontrollably when he said that cancer was like an extreme version of a tornado tearing a house down. I don’t know why. He is technically correct, but I feel like at that point, there’s hundreds of things that are more similar to cancer than a tornado.

i cannot believe they canceled this show

@Sfvyvdrgxttd

2 жыл бұрын

fuck netflix. all my homies hate netflix

@leighamlemire8804

Жыл бұрын

Did they cancel it? I thought it was just supposed to be a one season thing. The finale really felt like a finale.

@yeah8806

Жыл бұрын

@@leighamlemire8804 there was supposed to be a second season but the creator said that netflix cancelled it for "buisness" reasons.

I'll always be amazed at how much suffering a human can endure and still press on. Thank you Duncan for your podcast. I hope you found peace.

@imjustapotatoleavemealone

9 ай бұрын

Also.. WTF is up with the video tho'? I didn't even listened to it at first, just skipped to the end, last 10 seconds, and the last 10 seconds itself teared me up. Holy fk.

" you're a special case." it made my heart break when he said that.

@ShannonPowers

4 жыл бұрын

I started crying immediately. My father past from cancer and wow...this just clip just encapsulates the entire experience. Bitter and beautiful.

@Wizgoht

4 жыл бұрын

I always tell my mom she’s more than a mom to me and my sister

@cervixcrusader85

4 жыл бұрын

@@Wizgoht Same. I may not act like it most of the time, but I always be sure to remind them at some point. Be it literally/up front or subliminally. Because there is no one else in the world that I hold the same relationship with as those two women. And I know I would regret it if I was disingenuous with them.

@stingerjohnny9951

4 жыл бұрын

You’re comment deserved 1000 likes, sorry I was one short

@DarkSalamander0

3 жыл бұрын

I dont know why he said that

I love how when he says “that’s so fucked”, he has a look of anger, like life has chosen this route for all living beings and that it’s seemingly unfair. That really got to me.

@carlycrays2831

3 жыл бұрын

It's one of those normal, weird little things about dealing with these things. It's actually sort of...nice...it's weird...like, your world is being torn down, everything is going to shit, but fuck, you still have to pay for shit and do these normal, stupid things. And it feels sort of nice. You don't have to deal with the pain so much at once

@sunphoenix1231

3 жыл бұрын

I mean that's life. It has to die for new life and new opportunities. The cycle. We aren't the only beings aware of our own mortality. Dogs, monkeys, elephants and whales have been shown to mourn. For fair to exist, unfair does too.

@Professor_Utonium_

3 жыл бұрын

It isn't fair or unfair. Life doesn't choose victims.

@lucaspenades

3 жыл бұрын

I think he was talking about the price of cremation

@ZeranZeran

3 жыл бұрын

Everyone can feel that. No matter who you lose. God, I love my mom. I'm going to be so lost when I lose her, but I know I'll be okay because of her.

The last time I watched this video was 3 years ago, and I still had my mom. Now, almost 2 years after my mom was taken by liver failure with a still unknown cause, I just watched this again and I can't stop crying because this is the exact advice she would have given me. Miss you mom.

@MotherxUniverse

Жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry man. I wish you well and I hope she is at peace and that you two will see each other again.

“How do you stop the heartbreak? What do you do about that-“ “You cry.”

When she says “you cry” her tone is so real like she’s speaking to me, and I’m just crying

@abyssebehemoth2121

3 жыл бұрын

It's because it's a real conversation between a dying mother and her son in real life

@xx_lil_sip_xx4924

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@MarcoGarcia-lg5tl

3 жыл бұрын

ive seen this video 5 times and i always get teared up

@ouchdog

3 жыл бұрын

shes speaking to all of us, though she may not have known it at the time. a simple yet complex conversation- a topic and sentiment that most people can relate to or emphasize with. really beautiful stuff

@morales69

3 жыл бұрын

@@ouchdog i agree. he is very lucky to have such a wise mother. its so beautiful to see.

The reason why "you cry" got you is that she basically in her motherly voice gave you permission to do something that you thought you shouldn't do. But that's how a human relieves himself of emotional trauma and stress. You just cry. And then you feel better.

@tallyblue3168

3 жыл бұрын

:')

@Knaan-ro6eo

3 жыл бұрын

I cried when I read your comment

@David-uc4hc

3 жыл бұрын

She gave me permission alright. Evidently I needed it.

@Somethinoranotha

3 жыл бұрын

What if u wanted to and felt u needed to but couldnt

@SixCoreSecond

3 жыл бұрын

@@Somethinoranotha the you gotta ask yourself what stops you

Coming into this I thought that he had this person on as a guest because of her issues with cancer, and because she had survived much longer than doctors had expected her to. I knew of the show as an animated podcast, but I didn't know exactly what each episode discussed. It was somber, but understandable, and I listened as she detailed what she thought of her condition and how she dealt with it. The moment she said "because I'm your momma!" it hit me just who this person was and what this person meant to Duncan, I could not stop the tears. It may have been said in the cheeriest voice, but it reduced me to nothingness.

This scene made me cry more than anything since the passing of my grandmother. I had to seal it all up to be strong for her and my family but man....

The first ‘You Cry’ is an answer to the question. The second ‘You cry’ is a mom seen her child holding back the tears for so many days.

@meowmyr

3 жыл бұрын

god that hit so so hard

@CatKat4008

3 жыл бұрын

H I s

the second she said “it’s cause i’m your mama” my heart sunk and broke

@Zeverinsen

3 жыл бұрын

That's where I have to pause every time. It's because you can tell that she's saying it because she knows the situation and wants to take the edge off, but we all know you can't take the edge off of knowing your mother is possibly (in this case literally) days away from dying, and that you'll never see her, the person that birthed you, ever again. It's just too much, man.

@cosmicdraconian6712

3 жыл бұрын

@@Zeverinsen tell me dude. It hurts like nothing else

@Aiiask7

3 жыл бұрын

@@Zeverinsen at least your comment prepared me for the final blow 😭

@Zeverinsen

3 жыл бұрын

@@Aiiask7 But the sad truth is that you'll never *truly* be prepared 😭

@krisbikreme

3 жыл бұрын

AAAUUUU IT HURT I REALLY WENT :(

Yeah, you cry. I lost my mother 3 years ago at 17, and I am still crying. I don’t think it ever stops

I've recently started going to therapy to process the complicated grief of the imminent loss of my partner / best friend. Then my older brother took his life earlier today and I find myself coming back to this episode to process all these feelings. He was always the most spiritual of any of us and I always knew he'd love this show. I don't know if he ever watched it based on my suggestions. I don't feel much but I've been shaking all night, and this finally gave me what I needed to cry. I worry for my Mother who lost her own Mum to suicide at a young age already. It must feel shattering to lose two people you care about so much to suicide in a lifetime. I don't know how to finish off this comment. I guess I'm so grateful this conversation could be immortalized in such a touching piece of art. I've never seen anything like this episode Edit: My Mother has just been diagnosed with cancer. We don't know the details yet but it sounds like its pretty far along. Came back to this again when I heard the news. Maybe I'll show her this episode.

I knew I might cry but I didn’t expect I cried to this extent when she said, ‘you cry’. Watching this episode on the second Mother’s Day without mom was one of the best gifts I have received from the universe.

@agnes6613

4 жыл бұрын

Well, I'm at the same situation as you. This is my second Mother's Day without mom and I've just finished this episode. It's really a punch in the heart.

@jennyay

4 жыл бұрын

Agnes Vitoriano This episode feels like a virtual hug being sent by all of our late mothers from the Cosmo xx

@nerdgem7

4 жыл бұрын

It’s been 11 years. It gets easier but that pain never goes away.

@leotard9387

4 жыл бұрын

This comment made me cry again

@theinkslicer

4 жыл бұрын

Holy shit dude! I'm sorry you've got to go through this.

Grown ass man who bottles everything up here. Straight faced through the whole video, but when that first "you cry" gets said. I lost it. First time in a while. Damn.

@owkrikki

3 жыл бұрын

Bro same

@shortshortz4693

3 жыл бұрын

Felt that

@jcsthedon

3 жыл бұрын

Preach it. I never cry, but something about the delivery and the way this presented telling a real story with real emotion... It broke me.

@victoroa1974

3 жыл бұрын

Boy shut yo sensitive ass up

@victoroa1974

3 жыл бұрын

nevermind I just cried

What do you do when Netflix cancels midnight gospel? You cry.

This show is so genuinly special, and important.

I think park of why “You cry!” hits so hard is just the way it’s delivered. she said it like it was the obvious answer, like there was nothing else you could do to deal with it, like it was almost bewildering that it isn’t common knowledge. because really, it is the obvious answer. we go so much of our lives being told to “be strong” and not to cry, despite really yearning to let ourselves feel things, that it’s so validating to hear that it is the obvious answer, that we weren’t wrong to want to cry. we’re *supposed* to cry.

@A_name_is_a_name

3 жыл бұрын

Nonya Business our tears keep the river flowing for otherwise we wouldn’t be able to keep the ship moving.

@pendra_txt

3 жыл бұрын

In some way, philosophy and overanalyzing had diverted meaning from things. Wittgenstein was right, the real job of philosophy should be to put everything in their right place.

@A_name_is_a_name

3 жыл бұрын

Andrés Urrutia there is no right place. Just ones we use to get what we desire but nothing more. Whether humans venture the galaxies or not means nothing. Find bliss in that friend. Otherwise depression will come-a-knocking.

@sinbaon2154

3 жыл бұрын

It Hits Hard Because Of The Honesty And How It Is Delivered. Especially Once Realizing That’s A Real Conversation. I Just Think We All Hear Our Moms, Reminding Us For When That Time Comes. Completely Wasn’t Expecting That. That’s The Funny Thing About Epiphanies, They Are All Soooo Obvious.

@tehBleuRiot

3 жыл бұрын

I always tried to hold my tears back when and after my mom passed. But it was the moments when I couldn't help but cry that losing her made sense.

Being able to hear someone say that to deal with the heartbreak "you cry" instead of "be strong. there is nothing we can do about it" like flips a switch. Like that instant, anything I had been upset about and had been trying to handle flowed from my eyes.

@josephcroeniangamer3727

4 жыл бұрын

There is a mexicana comedian that talks about it, and how the modern mentality that pain should be avoided or denied instead of being lived is killing us, he talks about how he was hearthbroken and crying like a mess when his bets female friend died, and how people was teling him to dont cry because she wouldnt have liked that, and he answered "well, fucked shouldnt have gone and died" and then he laughed. Avoing tears is a fake strenght.

@adanl.a.6550

4 жыл бұрын

@@josephcroeniangamer3727 link?

@DanteYewToob

4 жыл бұрын

It legitimately helped me. I saw this about a week after my dog died. I had him for 15 years and I have lung cancer and he's been with me through a dozen surgeries, a dozen recoveries and pretty much saved my life when I was at my worst. I was trying soooo hard to just "man up" and not cry. To push it down and it hurt so fucking bad I couldn't sleep or eat or anything. Hearing her say that I fucking LET LOOSE! He had booty cancer and I took care of him for months and hand fed him and I tried holding it all in for months. When I was supporting his little bony butt when he went potty, remember how chubby and cute his butt used to be. I just held it in. "Be a man. Be strong. That's what I'm supposed to do. Suck it up." Hearing a woman that wise, who obviously had her shit together, in a similar position to me... give me permission to just let go and cry. Was extremely cathartic. I literally had to pause the show and come back to it about an hour later in a pile of snot filled toilet paper covering my bedroom. It's such a simple idea. A simple message, but I think it's a powerful message for a lot of people who have been taught that emotions are weak, or emotions are ugly. Or people who hear words like "ugly cry" and get self conscious and repress emotions and natural feelings due do societal pressures. Those two words helped me a lot and I hope they help other people too. Sometimes it's okay to just cry. Let yourself feel it all. It helps to get it all out.

@jimenahernandez3796

4 жыл бұрын

This scene actually hit so hard to me for this exact reason. In january my mom died after dealing with cancer for almost three years and in her funeral I was trying to just keep it together because my whole family was so broken that someone had to hold all the weight of the situation. All the people who attended were telling me that I had to be strong for my little brother and my dad so it really didn't help me to deal with how I was feeling. When I watch this scene I just start to cry all those tears that I was keeping inside because I wished that someone had told me this when I didn't knew how to feel with my moms death. Sorry if something doesn't make sense, english its not my first lenguage

@DoktrDub

4 жыл бұрын

Well you can be strong but, the best way in many cases is to let it, you cry

I thought this was all scripted until I learned it wasn't and so it started to get to me this conversation.

I've watched this video at least a dozen times, and everytime she says "you cry!" , I cry.

I swear they infused this episode with some kind of magical crying spell that makes you weep uncontrollably.

@ididntdoanythingiswear7653

4 жыл бұрын

maybe ...love?

@hollow6189

4 жыл бұрын

@@ididntdoanythingiswear7653 what's that?

@darrylferguson3622

4 жыл бұрын

It's probably the fact the audio comes from a real interview the show's creator did with his mom, and then she passed away 2 weeks later.

@scottbruckner4653

4 жыл бұрын

Reality. Genuiness. Love. Compassion...

@hacim42

4 жыл бұрын

I am not a crier. I can count on one hand the amount of times some piece of media made me cry. Damned if this video didn't get fuckin close.

This show is criminally under appreciated.

@ryanmarshall5407

3 жыл бұрын

@Oh Dahng boi dude it may be but he's saying it needs more, even if it is highly praised he think it needs more. That was like part of what he was saying

@hannahisadisaster337

3 жыл бұрын

Fax, no printer

@velvetmidnight9535

3 жыл бұрын

That’s cuz it’s basically a podcast thrown into a cartoon for visual pleasure not so much a show that gets people talking however It definitely is under appreciated it should be seen more

@drewv6852

3 жыл бұрын

Most overrated show to ever hit Netflix. Such a lazy work, pure aesthetic over substance, and an absolutely annoying central character/inspiration. It’s trash content for low minded individuals.

@inactive929

3 жыл бұрын

Drew V But I mean, the podcast audio they used is hitting hard man.

She is such a beautiful soul

Embracing life means accepting death. You cannot accept one but deny the other.

My mother passed away a weekago and today was her funeral, a caring friend sent me this knowing that I often bottle up my emotions. When I watched this I could help but cry with them. This helped me to cry. And for that I thank you.

@aflvproductions7854

4 жыл бұрын

sir kibblesnbits man I’m sorry about that

@aflvproductions7854

4 жыл бұрын

But like the video says you can get through it Chin up, Thoughts Clear you can do it Man... You can do it. 👍💙

@setsers1

4 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry for your loss

@ParzivalTheThird

3 жыл бұрын

Very sorry for your loss. This video is not made by the uploader, it is from the finale episode of The Midnight Gospel, a cartoon by Pendleton Ward (creator of ‘Adventure Time’) and Duncan Trussel. I highly suggest that you watch, if not the whole show, that particular episode. It is available on Netflix.

@zoed8406

3 жыл бұрын

i’m sorry for your loss, may she rest in peace 💕🕊

As someone who grew up with an emotionally neglectful mother, the part where she says “you cry” in such a gentle voice just breaks me inside

@b1njjj95

3 жыл бұрын

Oof I felt that! I too grew up with an emotionally neglectful mother.

@nooberr881

3 жыл бұрын

Same here

@ZootyTooter

3 жыл бұрын

This honestly is a test And I failed miserably

@thesleepiesthead

3 жыл бұрын

Same here..

@misha9705

3 жыл бұрын

Same here

Every time she says "you cry" I tear up so bad

The grief never goes away, but neither does the love. Even though their gone, the moments you’ve had with them, the memories, the energy, the love, it never leaves. The show also says grief is the truest form of love, love that you were never able to share, and crying helps with that. Mourning is realizing you’ll never speak to them again, but no matter where they go after they die, they will always know how much you loved them

Probably wasn’t the best idea to watch this before a job interview...

@altersox3988

3 жыл бұрын

How'd it go?

@Eli_Of_Rorikstead

3 жыл бұрын

Went well but I lost interest after reading company reviews! Thanks for asking!

@ckorp666

3 жыл бұрын

openly sobbing through the interview with zero shame is the ultimate power move

@anthonygomez7760

3 жыл бұрын

I get you man... Have a bad one...honestly needed the job and they did not treat me nice at all..it put me really in bad spot for a while...

@carsmusicandclothing7066

3 жыл бұрын

@@anthonygomez7760 I'm most fortunate and am very thankful that I work a job that I love. Finally within my 5 years of working

It cuts deep when she says “that’s because I’m your mama!”

@43waystosmile

4 жыл бұрын

She says it with so much love too that it makes me want to cry

@Jonathan-nb9lc

4 жыл бұрын

It’s like something my mom would say :(

"You cry." It's as obvious as the air we breathe, but we steer ourselves away from what we're meant to do for the sake of what? Decorum? She was so wise. I just loved this episode so much. What a special lady. A teacher devoted to truth.

I miss my Dad

As soon as she said "You cry" I immediately started crying.

@griffinmartel5764

4 жыл бұрын

Same here.

@vinathewolf72

4 жыл бұрын

Same...

@buzztune-8235

4 жыл бұрын

everyone did

@bellaackerman5394

4 жыл бұрын

Same here

@2girls0brain

4 жыл бұрын

every damn time

Disclaimer: yes, this is a real conversation between a mother and her son, possibly the last conversation they ever had with one another, no this isn't acting. no edits, no scripts. I'm surprised by the amount of people who don't know this by now.

@huniibug6856

3 жыл бұрын

@Justin Case oh, it's from midnight gospel. The guy with the beard is Clancy, talking to his mother dying from breast cancer. It's basically about how to handle loosing someone important to you. Some people this far into the series don't realize he's talking to actual people since some yet to realize this is all pulled from a podcast and that only 2% of duologue is towards the events happening in the animation. He expressed that even in the episode, this is his mother and it was found out 2 weeks I think after the show aired, his mother passed away. Its a very sad and real episode

@JaydeRyan

3 жыл бұрын

@@huniibug6856 what podcast

@huniibug6856

3 жыл бұрын

@@JaydeRyan "The Duncan Trussell Family Hour"

@thecoton6152

3 жыл бұрын

That explains why watching it felt more like an animated version of a LA movie scene. I didn't watch the show but that scene does make me want to see it now.

@LordSniggles

3 жыл бұрын

God I wish I could've had a deep conversation with my mother that ended with us both recognising eachothers basic human flaws before she died. We did have a couple over the years, but my last convo with mine she was angry and scared like she knew something was coming, but to my 23 yr old brain it was just another angry outburst by my aggressive mother who I had moved away from on purpose. A few weeks later she died of a heart attack and I learned the "joys" of self medication.

I love my mom.

I wish i had this conversation with my mom. She wasn’t herself at the end. This was 13 years ago and the pains still there

the fact that as soon as she said, “YOU CRY”... i felt this wave of relief wash over me. instantly began sobbing. it’s something i’ve always longed to hear especially from my mother. i just wish she’d let herself be vulnerable with me like this.

@KFC_Official_

3 жыл бұрын

I’m proud of you for allowing yourself to be vulnerable

@domm5653

3 жыл бұрын

@@KFC_Official_ what are u doing here colonel ?

@KFC_Official_

3 жыл бұрын

@@domm5653 supporting people in their moments of tough dealings.

@ClayMastah344

3 жыл бұрын

YES...that is the word....RELIEF in being able to feel sad and that it's unfair and afraid

@joeygreen8091

3 жыл бұрын

@@KFC_Official_ and i’m just trying to spread the word of the new five dollar fill up only at kfc with or without your support

This is one of the only videos that will actually make me cry

@VENUS-XtRAVAGANzA

2 жыл бұрын

I cry every time I see this video, I text my mom I love her. Can’t live in world where she isn’t here.

Man I'll never forget the first time I watched this. I've never had such a gut-punch reaction to a show. Full-on convulsive crying at like 2:00AM.

I know this sounds really corny. But I watch this video everytime im sad. Sometimes hearing permission to cry is what I need so desperately and I’ve been raised to hold that in. This video has been a very helpful tool for me thank you Duncan trussel

@aleree5172

3 жыл бұрын

i’ve done the same thing man, i’ve watched this on loop for about 4 times now but it helps get out my emotions on a whole other level lmao

@youlaidaneggmakeawish

3 жыл бұрын

ahhh me too :,(

@chickennuggetpaw1017

3 жыл бұрын

I wonder why crying has become something we’re not supposed to do?

@NIHIL_EGO

3 жыл бұрын

@@chickennuggetpaw1017 Crying means that you're not fine, that you have a moment of weakness, which predators could use to hurt you. Now why would we think something like that in our modern world, that's another question.

@lettuceforlife4827

3 жыл бұрын

Same

throughout the episode Clancy grows more and more hair until he has the exact same hair, moustache and beard of Duncan Trussell (the show's creator)

@MacGolfball

4 жыл бұрын

*co-creator

@KonanOoo

4 жыл бұрын

no era el de hda el creador?

@fernandosegovia8806

4 жыл бұрын

@@KonanOoo No, creo que él es el animador o algo parecido.

@KonanOoo

4 жыл бұрын

@@fernandosegovia8806 lo he buscado y duncan es el cocreador

4.2 million views of people listening to a mother talk to her son...❤

Ohh god...this made me cry. The first time I heard "It's because im ur mama" broke my entire soul. It made me want to rush to my mom and give her a big hug... man, it really broke me down bad

Duncan trussel (the producer of the show and writer of podcasts and main host in the tv show) had his mother die to metastatic breast cancer back in 2013. This episode was supposed to be the first episode or one of the first five until they really got to the understanding that this season of the midnight gospel was gonna lead up to death and causation vs reality and expectation, then after they got into further production they changed it to be the last so they can have a finally that leads up to what the season is about. I can’t imagine the heart brake and love Duncan/Clancy felt. I hope he is well.

@kitby11

3 жыл бұрын

Na men, his mom died in 2013 this podcast is really old

@swafty5813

3 жыл бұрын

False info you had the heart tho

@fhinnes

3 жыл бұрын

Nah mate, she did a second podcast a few months later. She died after that one. Not this one.

@billyworkmna

3 жыл бұрын

@Mubarak Ege HEY EVERYONE THIS GUY SPELT HEART BRAKE HART BRAKE!!!! Hear that? Nobody cares.

@optionalboss3706

3 жыл бұрын

@Mubarak Ege a bait? bro there was no bait, you're just embarrased you got called on it, just take from it what it is, learn and move on.

We got a friend who got depressed after his 7 years girlfriend cheated on him under the same roof he was with one of our best friend. He threw them both of the house and was all depressed. With our other friends we tried to cheer him up. We bringed him with us by my house and searched for something to bingewatch. "Midnight Gospel, hey it's the same that did Adventure times. What could possibly go wrong?" In the beginning of the show we thought it was just trippy, crazy, bizarre. We started to theorize what was the show about. Then, as the show continues we started slowly to feel sad. We kept watching until the end and started crying. Three big dudes on a couch trying to cheer up a brokenhearted friend weeping over Midnight Gospel. Still this is a good memory, my dude took some lessons from it, like forgiving just to feel better and all. Great show.

@carlycrays2831

3 жыл бұрын

Sometimes it just feels good to be sad.

@u9299

3 жыл бұрын

I wish the best for you and your friends dude

@lixerp2085

3 жыл бұрын

Is that fallout 4?

@ethanarnold5330

3 жыл бұрын

@@lixerp2085 yup

@martinavargas2126

3 жыл бұрын

nothing better than crying out all those feeling with your hommies

today, a few hours ago. I lost someone very important to me. thank you youtube algorithm for this.

Everyone should see this video once in their lives

as someone who has lost a parent, this really did hit hard. this episode truly spoke to me in a way that no one has ever. this here is phenomenal

@teethofmetal

4 жыл бұрын

Im so sorry, hope you’re doing well.

@cameronseibold5453

4 жыл бұрын

I lost my mom to cancer nearly 8 years ago now. This episode made me sob.

@mond666_

4 жыл бұрын

I lost 2 of my parents in 12 years (my dad died when i was 3month or smth an mom when i was 12 years) and i've never cried about it)

@mrderpyender876

4 жыл бұрын

@@mond666_ cold hearted

@mond666_

4 жыл бұрын

@@mrderpyender876 I'm just a realist and if I had a grandmother who loved me too and could care about me why even if i'd love my mom I must cry? idk

There’s something especially heart breaking when he sounds desperate trying to tell her that he knows what she’s saying. But she’s special. She’s special to him.

@doomboy1082

3 жыл бұрын

Please shut up

@angelguerrero7655

3 жыл бұрын

@@doomboy1082 i hope you're doing well

they're sick for cancelling this show

i click on this video every time its in my recommended and without fail, it makes me cry. ive seen it and cried probably around ten times now, and i will continue to do so.

@jsnxww

2 жыл бұрын

here i am ten months later, crying again

@vacuoussaturn

2 жыл бұрын

@@jsnxww we’re crying with you.

Not a mother that's already passed on gently years ago, saying "You cry" to me who is not even her child and actively opening up the dam behind my eyes with just those words. I have never heard such tone of gentleness from an adult, it's usually the tough love type. I aspire to be like her when I become a mother myself

@deviljon

2 жыл бұрын

That's a fine aspiration. I hope you succeed!

@littletechn8175

2 жыл бұрын

Same. hearing her tone of voice I instantly cried and wished I had someone to reach out to to grab...

@donte10111

2 жыл бұрын

God speed

@_sunny__moon_

2 жыл бұрын

same, I wish I have someone to sit in front of me and just tell me it's okay to need to just cry :')

@taylorguitar13

Жыл бұрын

You already are

I’ve heard so many times “just be strong” “Time will heal” “No need to cry” etc. just a bunch of BS.. thank god this good mama can parent all of us and remind us it’s ok to cry. I have to keep reminding myself that because people keep telling me not to. And to stop being a crybaby. Crying is healing and it should be acceptable for any and every type of heartbreak no matter how big or small Edit: Fun fact - every time she says “you cry” I fucking burst into tears..

@carrotlegs1752

4 жыл бұрын

I think at times of grief, a lot of people just don't know how to comfort a grieving person. So they say those things that everyone else says, and also I think it's because people get uncomfortable about someone grieving about death. Like when some people are like " Your mom died a year ago, get over it already. " The message of, it's ok to cry, really needs to be heard by more people.

@cuppacofi1129

3 жыл бұрын

People who say that usually haven't yet experienced losing a loved one, or they have and that worked for them. Anecdotes usually work best for comforting, since you're letting them know you can relate, but if you have no story to tell/ aren't comfortable with reliving that memory, it's hard to comfort someone so distraught. It is BS, but it's not meant to be dismissive of emotion. Either way, that mum speaks the truth, and that's what matters

@cuppacofi1129

3 жыл бұрын

Carrotlegs oh crap my comments kinda similar to yours, didn't see it before I started writing my para. At least we share the same opinion lol

@carrotlegs1752

3 жыл бұрын

@@cuppacofi1129 Yeah it's ok lol. Have a nice day.💖🦄

@ninjaswithguns

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you

Watched this on the plane ride home from a long journey. My mother had gotten cancer and had stopped taking her meditacation because of the side effects. I hadn't really processed it. When your mom said "you cry", I burst into tears on the plane. When i came home i had the longest conversation with her with many hugs and many more tears. After that she began to take the medicine again, despite the awful side effects that Made her New job a living hell. She's now cancer free and happy. Thank you for helping me help my mom, Duncan. You may have saved a life

@sternritternovad

6 ай бұрын

Best wishes I hope you all have many more years ahead of you.

@simonankerjrgensen1191

6 ай бұрын

Thanks, means a lot

4 years ago told you would have 6 months to live, told this a dozen times,and still alive.