यह माँ अब नहीं रुकेगी | Aarti Malhotra |
Join Aarti Malhotra in this heart-wrenching yet inspiring talk as she sheds light on the harsh realities faced by the LGBTQIA+ community in India. Aarti, the mother of Arvey Malhotra, who tragically lost his life due to society's homophobia, school bullying, and harassment, opens up about the dire situation in schools and society.
Aarti courageously addresses the rampant school bullying and homophobia, emphasizing the urgent need for change. In memory of her son, she founded the Arvey Aesthetic Foundation, providing warmth and support to queer children facing an unwelcoming environment.
This video is a poignant story of a mother's resilience against societal adversity, aiming to prevent further tragedies and create a more inclusive and accepting world
#bullying #harrasement #lgbtqia
नमस्कार दोस्तो!
जोश Talks का मानना है कि देश के हर युवा में काबिलियत है कुछ करने कि और कुछ बनने की। लेकिन कुछ Situations हमें इस काबिलियत को बहार निकालने नहीं देती, जिनसे हमारा जोश थोड़ा कम हो जाता है। काफी लोग एक ऐसी Situation या Confusion में होते है कि वो वहां से निकल नहीं पाते और अपनी काबिलियत को दबा देते है और वो Situation होती है हमारी Sexual Orientation या Gender Identity और इस ही situation से हमें लड़ना सिखाना चाहता है जोश talks एक बड़े भाई की तरह !
चाहे वो situations हमारी पढ़ाई को लेकर हो, UPSC Exam को लेकर हो या किसी महिला के लिए domestic violence हो यां किसी के लिए अपनी Sexual Orientation हो ! हमें जिंदगी में आगे बढ़ने के लिए जो भी परेशानियां आती है, जोश Talks एक बड़े भाई की तरह इन problems में हमारे साथ है !
हो सकता है कि हमारे लिए हमारी sexual identity को accept करना एक problem हो, या अकेलापन, harassment, या फिर homophobia, या face कर रहे है Family Problem, या Gender dysphoria ! इन problems को face करने के लिए और लड़ने के लिए जोश talks लाया है जोश talks पतंग । इस channel में आयेंगे ऐसे लोग जो ऐसी ही situations में रहे है और फिर भी आगे बढ़ रहे है ! हम सुनेंगे ऐसी ही लोगो की कहानी जोश talks पतंग में !
जोश Talks पतंग के माध्यम से, हम कहना चाहते हैं - "हम अकेले नहीं हैं!" हर किसी ने कुछ ना कुछ ऐसा Feel किया है और यह बिलकुल Normal है,इस सफर में, हमें अपनी क्षमता को दबाने की जरूरत नहीं है। हम सब अलग हैं, और यही हमारे लिए हमारी ताकत है, हमें हारना नहीं है जीवन में!
अपनी Sexuality की वजह से हम कई ऐसी Situation और Confusion मैं रहते है की हमारे अंदर खुद से लड़ाई चल रही होती है। हम खुद से लड़ाई जीत भी जाए तो दूसरी लड़ाई, दोस्तों से, परिवार से और समाज से शुरू होती है। जोश talks हमे बताना चाहता है कि, इस लड़ाई में हम अकेले नही है !
दोस्तो, ये है जोश Talks पतंग - एक जगह, जहां हमें मिलेंगे LGBTQIA+ साथियों का साथ, समझने वाले लोग, और एक Supportive Community.
अगर हमें लगता है कि हमने अपनी life में अपनी sexuality को लेकर struggle किया है और उस से लड़ आज जीत प्राप्त की है और अगर हमें लगता है कि हमारी कहानी से हम किसी की मदद कर सकते है, तो अपनी कहानी हमें Mail करे at pranaybhowmick@joshtalks.com पर
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अब समय आ गया समाज को ऐसे बच्चो का सहयोग करना चाहिए और सरकार को भी स्कूल , कालेज के बिना भेदभाव के सुरक्षित शिक्षा देने के लिए कानून बनाना चाहिए।
I'm proudly say that I'm a supporter of the LGBTQ community because first I'm be a human 👍
You are very great mom ❤ we are with you mama 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
You are very strong Mother ❤️ proud of you. Justice for Arvi ❤️
Yaar muzhe rona aa raha hai😰
You are a really strong mother ! Proud! RIP Arvey..
Justice for arvi😢 love you mom your strong mom
I can't believe that how this society be so cruel that it kills such a juvenile soul. 😭😭 May Paramprabhu Shree Hari Vishnu take Aarvi in his service. #JusticeforAarvi Om namo Narayana 🙏🙏🙏
I am shivering after hearing the situation of Arvi.... he was going through with so pain and bitterness...but his sacrifices will not go waste ..we are with you and with Arti maa. ..❤❤❤🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈Om shanti ❤❤
किसी बलात्कार के झूठे मामले को भी कितना उछाला जाता है मीडिया में पर मैं हैरान हूं कि इस मामले पर दिल्ली की आंटियां बिलकुल चुप बैठी हैं।
Arvey's sacrifice will not go in vain Arvey lives in our hearts❤
I can feel it ,, really... Tears in my eyes .,. How someone can too arrogant for a simple boy ,, she is a brave mother ,, how will she tolerate such brutal things ,, she has lost her excellent boy 🙂🙂
❤you are very strong maaa....don't loose hope we all are with you
Duniya ki sabse achi maa hai aap thx so much aaj Pata chala ki bagwan ne maa ko kyu bheja hamari life mai 💖
Muje aisa laga ye madam meri hi suicide attempt ki kahani suna rhi hai.... School me to bullying meri hoti hi thi , plus family function me alag se bullying hoti thi... Mai jab 12 years ka tha to ek family wedding me gaya apne parents aur younger sister ke saath. Mai hall me papa aur sister ke saath ek chair per baitha tha aur mammy upar wale floor per baki ladies ke saath tyyar hone ke liye chali gayi thi. Mai sister ke saath chair per baithe baithe little finger guessing game khelne laga. Tabhi ek uncle pin point krte hue mujhe ladki jaisa harkat krta hai bolne lage. Ek bhaiya bhi start ho gaye mujhe ladki bolna... waha per 2-3 Aunties bhi mere papa ko bhaisab aapka beta ladki jaisa krta h... Ek neighbour ka beta jo mera classmate bhi tha wo sabke saamne bol deta h ki class me isko sab Hijraa keh ker bulate h... school ki wo bullying aur insulting baat jo maine kabhi apne parents se nahi boli thi wo bhi sabke saamne aa gai... Ek 12 saal k bacche ko uss waqt bohot zillat mehsus ho rhi thi ki uske papa aur uski sister ke saamne bhari sabha me ghor insult kiya gaya... Iss apmaan se Mai rone laga to aur ladki ladki bolne lage sablog.. Mujhe kuch samjh nhi aa rha tha ki kya karu mai .... fir rote hue ghar se bahar nikal gaya aur saamne highway ki taraf jane laga mai aur mann hi mann soch rha tha ki road ke beech me ja ker khada ho jata hu taki koi truck mujhe koochal de aur mai mar jaau... Abhi road per khada hi hua tha ki maine dekha ki Durga Maa ki tarah lambe khule baal lehrate hue aur badi fati hui aankhe kiye meri maa bohot tezi se meri taraf daudi chali aa rahi hai... Aur mai rote rote haath hila kar mana kar raha hu ki mere pass mat aao... mujhe darr lagne laga ki mere saath meri maa bhi mar jayegi jo mai kabhi bhi nahi chahta tha... Maa jaan praan de kar daud rahi thi aur mujhe akhir haath se kheench ker road ke kinaare le aati h aur hum dono fut fut ker rone lagte hai... Fir thodi der baad hum dono wapis usi ghar me aa jaate hai... Fir meri maa jo vikraal roop dhaaran kr ke bijli ki tarah garji hai uss ghar me ki aaj tak family me fir kisi ki himmat nahi hui mujhe kuch bolne ki... Baad me pata chala ki mere choti sister turant upar ja kr mammy ko boli di thi ki dada ko (me) sab log ladki ladki bol ker rula rahe hai aur dada rote rote ghar se bahar chale gaye hai... Maa meri turant samjh gai ki kuch anishth hone wala h aur comb fek kr fouran tezi se daud padi thi... Now im 28 and alive , all thanks to my mother & her support. i love you mama.❤ Maa ne uss din kasam di ki mai fir aisa kabhi nhi karu... Mere sharir per meri maa ka hak h, unhone iss sharir ko janmm diya hai... fir mai kon hota hu ise khtam karne wala...?? And with time i discover myself that who im and im happy being who i m.
@seeker9497
7 ай бұрын
Padhke man dukh gya bhai. Hamare society main 5-6 crore female foeticide, hazar honor killings, lakh rape ho gye. Lekin apni domination dikhao LGBTq walo pe. Main straight hu lekin ghrina ati hy in straight janwaro se jo khudko insaan bolte hy.
@sa1ization
7 ай бұрын
@@seeker9497 thanks for your genuine concern
@Rekhaslifestyle976inAmerica
3 ай бұрын
Kuch giry huy log kisi ko khush dekh hi nahi sakty isliy Aisa karty hai unki is baat ko pahchano ,jab koi kisi ko hara nahi paaty to uski himmat thodna suru kar dety hai is baat ko samjho ye unlogo ki teqniek hai 👍
You are strong maa❤
Ma meri bhi problem aati h koi accept nahi kar raha hai himat tute jati h meri bhi himmat tut gai h school m bhi majak udaya jata h
Sambhal jataa to bahut bada artist banta. Such a pure soul❤
Everyone deserves moms like u
Love you aunty! You indeed are a maa to all of us ❤️❤️ RIP Aarvey! You are always here through all of us, with all of us, and in all of us. ❤️❤️🔆
आपके हौसले को सलाम टूटना नहीं है 🙏😶
More power to you !!
I had tears in my eyes while reading this. I have also been been bullied and was physically assaulted in my school. I could realte to what Arvi had been through and those days flashed in my head as i was listening to aunty. Its been almost 4 years since I finished school and I am still healing slowly with time. To all the bullies my simple question is: What have you got after bullying us? More power to you aunty and RIP Arvi!
@Songshumare
7 ай бұрын
n more power to u too buddy may god bless you 🎉
@Dhiraj-May8
7 ай бұрын
Bully karne wale bull hote hain... Jinhe society mein khula chod diya jae.. Toh harm panhucha saktey hain.. Spain walo ko unki bahut jarurat hai😊
@almightyji7081
7 ай бұрын
Mostly even parents are torturing to such children. Society is not aware and not interested in being aware.
Guys please don't ever think about ending your life, because there is always someone who loves you unconditionally and for that person you might be their whole world ❤
OMG i am literally crying at the starting of the video. I feel so sad for you Aunty! I have been through the same. I was also bullied in my childhood. I stayed strong, but unfortunately I have developed Borderline Personality Disorder. I am still healing. I hope you stay Strong Aunty!
@Dhiraj-May8
7 ай бұрын
Stay strong dear!!
@jawadsoomrotheboss
7 ай бұрын
@@Dhiraj-May8 thanks dear
Arvi bhai 😭😭😭😭 I miss you,,,, and aunty you are the angel, strongest mother in the world
Mam u r really very strong n we r with u always ❤
Indian schools specially private schools this happens most , government need to look into it
You are very strong lady & society needs hero like you 👍
It's a very sensitive matter and we have to understand them.
Maa to maa hoti h puri duniya se ld sakti h or aap akele nhi h hum sab h aap ke sath
You are the best mother! Lots of love to you! I pray to God that you will get all the happiness and things that you pray for
Very brave of her to speak her mind. Mental health is an epidemic. People are living extremely isolated and disempowered life in brahminical and patriarchal societies.
@meen620
7 ай бұрын
Ofc in this Islamist and patrichal world we are fed up
Maam you are very strong RIP Arvi 😭 I am also lesbian and facing same problem
@sunitasoren-di7dg
7 ай бұрын
Hii
@Songshumare
7 ай бұрын
hey dont be scared we are with u
@Anjaliii__t
7 ай бұрын
Be strong and show everyone that you are far more better then anyone.. You are going to lead a beautiful life soon..Dont give up girl❤
@Avani_2003
7 ай бұрын
@@Anjaliii__t Thank you so much yrr I am totally depressed But u motivate me give me hope ❤
@Seema_Rahmani
7 ай бұрын
I'm also be strong darne ki koi jarurat nhi hai apne me jeena sikho. Vaise Maine bhi ye face kiya hai 2 saal se mera treatment chl ra hai abhi bhi
Hame abhi prayanshu ka liya stand lene h guys ye socitey tho hamara family member ko maar reh h aur ham shaanth nhi rehenge thnq dor josh talks patang jo iss community ko itna support kar rhi h thnq ❤❤
you are great maa❤
I can feel your pain as a mother. My children were offended by my husband's family, by their own cousins saying aunty and uncle just because my daughter n son were not dancing the way they dance exposing their body. My children were not invited for family parties because they don't know to dance. My school going children were offended on face. My children are hurt. But we have created our own world. We are a family four. I do everything I can do to keep my children happy. And put them in the hands 9f God every morning n pray for such temptations to get away from them.
Justice for Aarvi 😢😢😢😢
I am crying because l am also gay.logo ne mera jina haram ker Diya hai mujhe bhi kabhi lagta hai ki apni jaan de doon
@SanjayKumar-fd7tv
7 ай бұрын
Hii
@anilmishra5310
3 ай бұрын
No never think about it
Justice for arvi😢 Hm aapke sath h mam 🙏🙏
The criminals need a arrest warrant,those b**** won't survive long
I hope ur son will be at peace ❣️🥺 Due to these cases I sometimes feel scared to come out of my box in the future 😢
Jivan bahut muskil hai
आप एक बहुत ही बहादुर माँ हो आप समाज में एक मिसाल हो ईश्वर आप के प्रयासों को सफलता प्रदान करें
You are so brave mother..❤🫂
Hlo guys i am also from lgbtq community guys jo bhi lgbtq sa h meri baat agar achi lagi ho tho plz like karna nhi tho dh yan sa padhna dekho ye society na aaj aapka sath h na kal aap acha karoga tho bhi galiya bolegi aur bura karoge tho bhi dekho ham glt nhi h glt unki soch h vo sochte h na ki lgbtq kya h kitni gandi h nhi ham bhi human h so agar jisne bhi mam ka video dekha aur unhe laga ki agar society never accpet them tho ye bhi jaana dedenge nhi bachaa aap bhut strong ho eshe nhi karna plzz hame lgbtq ko uper lana h men n women ka barabar taaki kal koi bhi aarvi jaise bacha aapne aap ko bura ya akele feel na kare so be strong n fight for u aap acha ho sacha ho tho bhagwan aapka sath h god bless u aur agar koi bhi baat ho plz share out with u close one ❤❤
Indian society really need transformation
Justice for arvi and pransu
Same meray sath hua but meray mummy papa to mujay hi ulta boltay thay 😭😭😭
@user-ev4bt8kk6t
6 ай бұрын
Hello mujhe bhi aapse kuch bat krna bro please
@user-ev4bt8kk6t
6 ай бұрын
Number please aapka
@naveenverma2685
6 ай бұрын
@@user-ev4bt8kk6t kyu chahiyay aapko Mera number
@Rekhaslifestyle976inAmerica
3 ай бұрын
Aap kamjor mat padna apne liy jiyo👍
@naveenverma2685
3 ай бұрын
@@Rekhaslifestyle976inAmerica thank 🙏
धन्यवाद मां जो आप हम सबका साथ दे रही हो ❤🎉
Han maa ❤ aarvey hi lad Raha hai mai uski hi age ka hun aur wo sab bhi sah Raha hun papa nhi h sirf mammi hai, I promise I will one day provide justice to aarvey and everyone ❤❤🌌🇮🇳🙏
Yes that's true this story is not only of arvi...i also facing bully.....and mujhe bhi lgta h ki m jee hi ku rha hu🙂
@swapnilkamble7765
7 ай бұрын
Live for your parents don't give up stay strong ❤🌈
@zeyantverma3787
7 ай бұрын
@@swapnilkamble7765 parents se bhi to gaaliya hi sunta hu🤣
@arkachatterjee318
7 ай бұрын
@@zeyantverma3787please don't say like this. Aise mat boliye. Daro mat. Larho apne hak ke liye.🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈
@shaileshrandive3746
7 ай бұрын
You are superior to others hence they are jelous, you dont respond to barking dogs. No one can abuse you unless you accept the abuse. Go to Gym, make your body strong and after 1 year challenge them. We need to develop some level of cruelty to survive. Dont kill any one but display a potential of being able to do anything if harmed. Remain within law, but display your strength . Ultimately Rats bite Rabbits because Rabbits are superior to Rats. You are superior to all of them, even Hanuman in childhood was hated by Vali and bullied. Ultimately Hanuman became Allie of Sri Ram and Vali got Killed. Pandavas were harassed by Kauravas. Ultimately who won is known. Dont forget you are superior hence face harassment from Rats around you. Best Wishes
@Songshumare
7 ай бұрын
@@zeyantverma3787man talk to ur queer buddy ye kabhi mat karna pls
Why people not accept them 😔
Justice for aarvi❤❤
Aap bahot hi achchi aur strong ma ho😢😢
Kash apke jaise sab ke parents hote
Plz don't cry..
Proud of you ❤❤❤❤mam
Kese log hai dunia me ak ma ko akela karidia . Pata hai kya ak ma hona itna asan nahi hota hai.😢
Congratulation to this judgementental society ! 😢you won it😢😢
On top of everything people should let others live how they want
Felt really bad for arvey he was the resident of my city 😔
Justice for mam❤
He should have survived for his mother, whatever the situation maybe
I pray to god you can win and get justice for Arvi. It’s bitter truth of society they won’t understand the pain of other people.
Right love u maa
Hate is shared not natural
Mam hm aapke sath h aapke puri community ko kosis krnee pdegi hme taki society school me kisi bache ke sath esa na ho 🏳️🌈
Be strong mam
Dhanyawad 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Meine bhi 12th Tak bahot bullying jhela hai😢
Give respect take respect Agar pyar se baat kroge to pyar milega Gusse se or abuse tarkie se baat kroge to waisa hi results milega Duniya walo
You are a very strong mother
"प्यार की खूबसूरती यह है कि इसकी कोई सीमा नहीं, कोई नियम नहीं और कोई लिंग नहीं होता।"प्यार को किसी विशिष्ट लिंग तक सीमित नहीं किया जा सकता, यह एक एहसास है जिसे कोई भी अनुभव कर सकता है।"जब प्यार की बात आती है तो लिंग कोई मायने नहीं रखता, यह दो लोगों के बीच की केमिस्ट्री के बारे में है। "प्यार एक सार्वभौमिक भाषा है जिसका कोई लिंग नहीं होता।"
Kisi ko ye court justice de ya na de lekin jab wo uppar wala jab Justice dega na to usse koi nahi bach payega
When i take admission in hrit college and after some month i go to dean office for the name change and whn i told them i m a transman then he laugh on me..jaise ptani mne ky hi krdeya ho🙂
@sukuna2004
7 ай бұрын
💗
So sad mam,but be strong
Proud mom❤❤
Aaj bi hamare bech ayse durjan log hai,,,inko samaj me nahi rahna chye
sahi me bullying etni gheli humne , humko palayan karna pada . parents bhi helpless ho jate the beta hum kya kare . hum kuhc nahi kar sakte apko apna struggle khud karna padega , aarti malohotra ji jaise ma bahut kam hoti hai
Nafrat hoti hai aesi Society se sab ko jine do kyu kisi ko judge karte hai log jo jesa hai use except karo sab ko pyar karo na kar sako to uski life me interfere mat karo bahot galat hua yeah 😢 justice for arvi usne bichare ne kuch galat nahi Kiya to kyu aese unke sath hua .... Aap bahot achi maa ho or arvi bhi best perfect son hai . Arvi ko nyay mile sab ko khul ke apne femeli ke sath jine ka adhikar hai .
@GopalSharma-zk6ex
7 ай бұрын
Bahut hi gandi samaj h yrr ye bahut dukh hota h ese sunkar.. Aaj agar Josh talk n hota to kabhi kisi ki life ke bare me n jaan pate😢😢😢
@SahilMakadiya01001
7 ай бұрын
@@GopalSharma-zk6ex sahi baat hai Kai aese log hai jo bichare ghut ghut ke fake life jite hai kyuki use koi galat na samje sab se alag koi bhi ho to hamesa har jagah use sirf trolling hi bardasht karni padti hai usi dar me voh bichare ji nahi pate .
@GopalSharma-zk6ex
7 ай бұрын
@@SahilMakadiya01001 thodi problm to mujhe bhi face krni padti h pr me ese ghatiya samaj ke samne n jhukaa kabhi
@SahilMakadiya01001
7 ай бұрын
@@GopalSharma-zk6ex achi baat hai aap ke hosle ko salam hai par Bhai hosla to sayad sab me hota hoga par kab Tak koi ghut ghut ke ji sakta hai or jite bhi hai to perents ke liye taki or koi maa arvi ki maa ki tarah na dukh sahe is vajah se jite hai maa baap ko kon sath dega agar bacha mar Jaye to uska kon
Mujhe bhi bachpan mein school sab aise hi pareshan karte the suicide se better maine woh school hi chood diya , phir dusre school mein admission liya jaha koi bhi pareshan naa karta ho. Kaash Arvey bhi woh school chood deta toh aaj zinda aur healthy hota 😢😢
I have no words 😢 i just have tears in my eyes right now 💔
मेरी बेटी ने भी ये face किया हैं।हमने उसकी कॉसलिंग कराई थी अभी सब ठीक है।
Very sad 😢😢😢 Meri stiry v arvey jaisi hi h.. Mai Zinda hu lekin kaha zindagi h🌈🌈🌈
#justiceforArvi ❤
World is cruel 😢
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Hello 👋
😭😭😭😭😭 aarvi ke sath bahot bura hua
🥹💟 om shanti
why dont you put the photo of the criminals in the social media mam..let it be a national debate
Maa ye hmari jindki ki ldai he or hame ye ladna ho hoga ye iatna aasan nhi he maa jitna aasan soch rhe he
Lots of love to Arvi ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🤍
Is maa ki baddua khali na jaye Ishwar!
syd offices me ye scene jyada hota hai, and the lalit hotel, suri group ,is doing great.. for #lgbt
Ap strong ho Mam❤
Apko aesi buri school aur bure teachers ka naam batana chahiye bully to aese school aur aese logo ka hona chahiye let's all together shame them
Ap jise maa har bache ko di jo apne bacho ko support karte ho 😢
Love you mumma❤ aap bohat achchi ho
Every human being is a gift from God on this earth. No one has the right to judge her/his(all) personality 🥺
Kaash mein aarvi ko wapas le aata... But aarvi aaj bhi jinda hai... Bas fark hai ki duniyaa usey dekh nahi sakti... Aur maa hi hai jo sirf apne bete ko mann ki aankho se dekh sun aur mehsus kar sakti hai... Aaj dukh iss baat ka hai k kaii maa baap sirf naam k maa-baap ban jaa rahe hain... baccho ko acche sanskaar nahi de paa rahe hain... Aur teacher k naam pe dhabba Hai jisne aarvi ko support nahi kia... LGBTQIA awareness aur bullying aur discrimination k khilaaf schools, college aur society mein awareness ki bahut jarurat hai.... Insaan ko bewajah kasht panhucha kar... Ishwar ko kabhi khush nahi kia jaa sakta.... Insaan ka sharir mila hai.. shaitaan ban ne ki koshish kyun karte ho... !!.. Aaj aarvi maa ki najro se toh door hai lekin... Unka maa aur bete ka risha... Har janm mein bana rahega😂👩🍼