This is not just your personal battle. There are many people who may have faced similar situations. Everyone should learn from this heart-wrenching incident. We should come together and raise our voices. This will be the true tribute to Aarvi. 🙏🏻 More power to you Aarti ji.

@harshith2980

3 ай бұрын

Its Delhi public school, Faridabad

Those boys should get sternest punishment mam...stay strong mam❤❤strong lady you are already...respect and salute

People have called me chakka, gay, Hijra what not. I was bullied for my every action which is pretty normal for an average human being😢😢The only reason I want to live and not take extreme steps is my faith in karma. Every single being who hurts you suffers his/her karma eventually… I believe in Krishna and his teachings from bhagawadgita… Krishna is my only hope and reason to live ❤

@kanchankore2714

6 ай бұрын

No dont depend on anyone, live for yourself. You must at any cost be financially independent if not already and then ask these people to f***k off. Buy two dogs. They are lot better than humans and you wont be lonely

@lokkich487

3 ай бұрын

Please take care of your mental health. See, help to deal with this. There are so many, like Beyond Blue and stuff. My daughter took her life last year, and I cry every night for a life lost so young. Please think of your loved ones. Don't let others define your life. They forget they have hurt you and move on, but you hold on to it to define who you are and how you lead your life. It is your life. Don't let anyone mess up your life.

Bullying kills innocent souls.you are a bravoo woman

I was also bullied from 7th class to 9th class but in 10th I was so frustrated that I single handedly beat my bullies .I did not how I got so much strength that day but after they never bullied me

@utkarshrai9028

3 ай бұрын

Well done 🎉😂

I am sorry for RV Mam please fight for him till they get punishment Be brave RV with you always 🎉

Your pain cannot be explained. Being single mum and losing your child is not easy. Society need to change and understand children. Thank you for helping other parents and children in a similar situation.

There should be zero tolerance towards bullying. School and the students involved in act of bullying or neglect of such actions known should be punishable by law. Whatever personal choices might be; bullying can never be right. God give you strength 🙏

So proud of Arvi that he wrote the names of the culprits. He is a role model. God bless him. Im sure he is in a happy & safe place now. My heart broke after i heard this story.

I had unfortunately suffered with bullying in school by my teachers. My classmates were encouraged to bully me by my own teachers because my mother had informed those teachers about a condition (I had mild ADHD condition plus my health was not good because of acute bronchitis) I was being called out as being abnormal and also unfortunately my health deteriorated that I was body shamed by my classmates which some teachers used to laugh on it. That’s when I started hating teachers thinking that they would never understand, after I reached high school I met one teacher who helped me and encouraged me telling how good I was in English subject. She made me believe that it’s just that at wrong time I met wrong people and school teachers are the worst when it comes to understanding a student’s condition. They don’t try to understand, they just make a mockery out of that pain what a student is going through and unfortunately we cannot punish teachers. Although, I must admit that Aarti ma’am is really doing a very brave thing that she is challenging the system. I really wish she succeeds in this and we get justice for Arvey.

I also got massively bullied in my childhood in school from class 4th - 7th because I was belong from West Bengal and l was living in Punjab. Also it affected my childhood and also affected my acedemics. Actually our Indian education system is very much bogus, which didn't teach any proper moral values and ethics from primary classes. Even parents are also ignorant in these matters.

@athensmajnoo3661

6 ай бұрын

Very very true 100%. Schools teach ABCD, 1,2,3,4, twinkle twinkle little star in the early classes, but they should teach the child how to behave, how to speak, how to be respectful, or how to treat others, how to be compassionate, kind,..... Schools are bothered only about fees, parents themselves don't know any of the things I mentioned.

@shilpam85

5 ай бұрын

This is sadly the case all over the world not just in India. Bullying is unfortunately common in countries outside of India as well. Lot of schools don’t do much about it or don’t bother teaching our kids moral science.

@athensmajnoo3661

5 ай бұрын

@@shilpam85 Japan is an exception, conduct, behavior, manners, are all taught to children from day 1 in schools. Japanese are one of the most polite, well mannered people.

@kunal8423

3 ай бұрын

Our school system is a liability, it sucks. It reflection of our society

Justice for this boy... Whoever is responsible should not be spared !!

He is & will always with you.

I am sorry for your loss.. Those boys should get punished...

U r such a strong mam. Please keep fighting for your son. We support you.

All schools must take issues very seriously....rather than blaming the student....shame on you people....what all pain she has gone through raising that child you will not understand....what is the pain of losing that also you will not understand

Justice will prevail. God is there with you 🙏

Being a bullied victim myself I can feel her pain 😢

@ritaranee4787

6 ай бұрын

Bullied

Salute to you ma'am. Prayers and best wishes for the just cause you are fighting for. Justice for your son. You are indeed an inspiration for millions

Nothing more heartbreaking than a parent losing their child. Poor lil baby, feel so bad that he had to go through such hardship at such a young age. My heart breaks for you. Bullies and the school administration MUST be held accountable! Please take care and hoping and praying that he gets justice. Rest in peace lil Aarvi ❤️

I remember seeing her son's video getting viral across social media about 2 years ago and back then it shocked me so much 😢 nobody should go through that, the world is too selfish for pure souls like them ❤ well they are in a better place now but I feel bad for their mother tho 😔

so sad... My prayers are with you Ma'am

He sacrificed his life to save millions and trillions, and educate everyone 😢🇺🇸Mom you are the best ❤

Very strong woman and Maa, stay strong and keep fighting for justice all human being is Same God creation ,u are life saver for other kids too .stay strong brave maa

It feels bad that our society is too much cruel to every innocent...but now its time to fight back .... and wr are all with you mam❤❤❤ We want more and more Arvi , but we don't want that every Arvi end their life like that 🙏🙏❤️❤️

We are with u ma'am, stay strong

@gaaanaaa

6 ай бұрын

No u arent.. U r just typing a silly comment and ull go back n do watevr u were doing before .. This wont help her in anyway.... Plz cut the crap

God bless you Aartiji and Arvey. Would like to help in anyway possible with your noble effort in stopping bullying of any kind anywhere ❤🙏

Very strong mom, Arvey will always be happy in heaven as you are doing such a great help 💕💕💕💕

Very well said proud of you for being soo strong and standing for this community ❤

@harshith2980

3 ай бұрын

Its Delhi public school, Faridabad

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Be brave.. Rabb sab dekh riha hai..

@aartimalhotra4561

6 ай бұрын

🙏🤍😢

Hats off to you ❤ You are a very strong lady

Krishna saw the world doesnt deserve him! Hence he took him away from the pain. I had been bullied in school a lot. I used to be a lot timid, well behaved, emotional and sensitive. I used to be called, gay, chakka, hijda. I was also told to visit doctors to get myself checked or to change my gender! Not only boys but girls were thr same! It use to disturb me alot. I had no courage to tell anyone except my Krishna! I used to speak to him. He is my protector, my best friend, my everything. What the boys did is disgusting. They are not worthy of being called a child/kid! Teachers in school are useless. Atleast my teachers were! Theybused to blame me. I have been saying this from a long time, Humanity in India is dead! Stay Strong! He is with you.

@notrevealed5797

6 ай бұрын

bhai tu thik hai ?❤

@SshivamKhopkar

6 ай бұрын

@@notrevealed5797 Yes. Thank you so much for asking! ❤️🙂 This was all when I was in school. Only because of my strong faith in Krishna I was able to get out of it. I do suffer from PTSD, I get flashbacks sometimes, but I try to not get disturbed.

@ronitlenka9205

6 ай бұрын

Bhai. Stay strong .. Don't give up. The world is cruel. Jagatguru Shri Krishna ko pakde rakhna...the world will kiss your feet someday.❤ Take care

Its so tough for you but still you are being strong for your son and inspiring everyone hats off to you ma'am. I can't even imagine that how much pain you are going through but I hope god will give you so much power ....and you will get justice for your son❤

@aartimalhotra4561

6 ай бұрын

Please be an Ally if you really feel for Arvey so that no other human goes through like him. And yes I am really thankful for your motivation and blessings

A big Thanks for educating common man. My heart goes for you. May you and your soul be at peace.

You are very beautiful & strong lady. You are very sweet mother you will definitely success in your goal.

She's very strong

She is a really strong women

@aartimalhotra4561

6 ай бұрын

🙏🤍 I am wounded mother keeping hope in judiciary

Why didn't you changed school immediately Madam? You should leave faridabad. May god give strength to fight.We all are with you madam 🙏

Salute to man u r strong mother

It is unacceptable to treat children like this.. Justice should be served.. Can we help in any way?

So so sad for your loss - really appreciate you coming forward and saying all this. Hugs to you xx

I am from Pakistan when I listen your story tear in my eyes . I pray to Allah for your help .

You are such a great speaker, motivation for others

You are so calm and strong at the same time. more power to you.. ❤

@aartimalhotra4561

6 ай бұрын

God bless you ❤😢

Respect and salute to you!🙏🙏🙏

Proud of you u r very strong lady. Apka dukh Mai samajh sakti 😢hu hm aapke saath h.

You are truly an inspiration to all.... would love to connect with you

It is very sad when teachers and school administration doesn't recognise bullying or when they hide such incidents and don't take action. CBSE should ensure that every school is attached with a Counsellor who can monitor such issues and share a mandatory report on what steps the schools are taking to prevent bullying and harassment and also remedial steps taken to resolve such issues. There have to be strict guidelines as well as awareness programs to tackle bullying and harassment in schools. CBSE should cancel the registration of schools which don't act on such incidents. Appreciate this channel's and this brave parent's efforts to create awareness.

@gurpreetverma2799

3 ай бұрын

School authorities who hide incidents and support such children forget that they too are parents. What if in future something like this happens to them. God forbid. No child or no parents should go through these incidents. Please wake up and teach your children's of right & wrong.

Great kid!

Very painful incident ma'am but u r helpful to many who are waiting such like u person, thank you for your motivation, I'll pray for you 🙏

My son was bullied also. These children are perverted. I could manage them bevause i did not waste time with school. I told them directly. My son is is now grown and married but still remembers those days. This is in kolhapur.

Extremely sorry for your loss. I don't have any words. Feeling very sad for Aarvi. Where ever you are Aarvi be happy ❤

May his soul rest in peace 🙏I wish n pray that u n ur child should get justice 🙏

Its 2 Am here. I am not a person who is very emotional but I bawled my eyes out watching this video. I don't think I will be able to complete this video because of the constant bullying I have gone through my school and then through college. My college was also in Faridabad and I can not even come to Faridabad or even stay in my hometown because of my school and college. Is there any way I can help you Aarti ma'am? Idk if you will read this or not. But I really want to help.

@aartimalhotra4561

6 ай бұрын

I am so sorry beta you have gone through so much 😢 I can relate what you said I have seen closely my child sufferings and mental health issues not taken seriously in our country in schools specially teachers need to be more aware more educated on the effects on bulling you can join my mission to spread awareness on same.

I am so Sorry Ma'am for your loss. What were teachers doing and why didn't they take a note.

He is always there for you aarti ❤❤

God bless you 🙏🙏

Bullying is torturing someone helpless & fragile...it's horrible.... Karma awaits them.....

This is very sad…… bullying should stop,parents should also educate children not to harass fellow students….. and respect everyone…… help each other, teachers can also help by explaining…..

@fanclub7810

6 ай бұрын

@sheilakumar I agree with u. Parents must teach children life value, manners from small age. Also parents should behave properly in home environment , children learn from it . Try and understand parents before its to late.

We live in a very, very disgusting world actually! Arvey needed help from the school authorities and needed it so badly, from the teachers who knew about all this.... But all of these scoundrels chose to remain mute spectators, may be even enjoy watching that boy suffer, watching him bullied, dying a small death each and every day until and unless that boy died completely and for ever.... I am so sure every new day must be such a battle for this guy! We can never even imagine. God bless Arvey wherever he is and give strength to his mother and let her know that she's a very strong and brave lady just like Arvey. And whole of India is standing beside her in this battle for justice...

May God give you great strength and courage we need to educate parents to respect and then rest will follow

I am crying listening to you .Omg May his soul rest in peace .

No words to express....my God

Wish you success.... may your kid get justice....may his soul find peace 🙏🙏🙏🙏

More power to you. U must get justice 🌺

Stay strong mam

As I am studying counselling too, ma'am I could feel how much strentgh you would be needing to talk to parents as well children. The way you have explained how much importance is to educate parents and aware them it speaks a lot, A LOT. I am so sorry for your lose and I hope you heal soon and we could make a more safe space for each one of us.🌻🌻

I hope that arvey gets justice⚖

I was bullied in my school years too. In fact I have faced racism as well. I was made to face my bullies' parents alone. I was suicidal many times as well but fear of failing and becoming disabled stopped me from committing suicide. The silver lining was that I was not physically and sexually abused. However, the emotional abuse at home and academic settings and the isolation broke me emotionally. The worst school bullying happened when I was between the ages of 8 and 12. I am 36 now and still recovering from the pain and scars. I don't know whether I will ever fully recover but I will try. Aarti I stand with you and what happened to RV is unforgivable. Hope you both get justice and his soul rests in peace.

God bless ma'am

So sorry for your loss. Parents should give their kids right upbringing & teach them what is right or wrong. These kids who troubled Arvi must be from such background. Its more of their parents fault. School authorities who didn't support you must understand that they too have kids and might face similar things. May karma deal with them. Please stay strong. Rest in peace dear Arvi .

Very sad and heart wrenching. . 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

My sister also faced bully because she is not ready to make boyfriend Students her school make her so vulnerable they did not talk to her they isolated her completely then after she surrender .Now she ended up being sexual abused. Now a days bulling is not limit to verbal it is turning sexual abuse.

@athensmajnoo3661

6 ай бұрын

😱😱😱 this is horrible 😱😱😱

Stay strong and fight for your justice.

I want to say one thing. Keep fighting against all these creatures. They are not humans. These types of things are happening and nobody is taking action. And I have myself seen that when you raise your voice you are made laughing stock and everybody starts laughing at you. The courage which you have shown us is a very brave step.

You are Brave mom Dear ❤️ may your life's emptiness be filled with satisfaction of getting justice for such children.may the Lord help you stopping this atrocities of such children who are danger for the community 🙏

More power to u mam

@aartimalhotra4561

6 ай бұрын

Thankyou ❤#justiceforarvey

She is very strong and her words have power , my heart wrenched by hearing Arvey's story and your.

@aartimalhotra4561

6 ай бұрын

I am a mother only strong these episodes made me after Arvey I saw many kids who wanted a help I started helping them and this is only my therapy I request everyone to be an ally

@JooDhakar-vq1op

6 ай бұрын

@@aartimalhotra4561 we are with you mam, your efforts surely will make a change, stay stronger ❤️

Wish your success fully in your battle,I am with you

Your story is so painful . It brought tears to my eyes.Teachers are responsible for all this bullying. They don’t punish the kids who bully but try to hush the victim . This whole education system is so flawed & we are making our kids monsters in the name of ‘modern’. We should have Gurukula now in place of schools.No mother would have to go through this pain then .

Aarti ji 🙏

I spoke to my sister...this case is of Modern DPS Faridabad...all such branded schools are like that

well done aarti ma'am.

This is so unfortunate, most of the schools today are so called "branded" but have no ethics! BULLYING should be listed as a crime & perpetrators should be penalised.

May god gives you more power ,,,,

Bahut bahut bura lga aapko sun ke kaash nhi huya hota aapke sath itna bura 🙏🏻🙏🏻kyu chod gye beta aap apni itni pyaari maa ko ❤❤ love u mam. apne dil se likh rhi yeh msg sirf rote rote love u mam❤❤waheguru ashirwaad bakshe aap pr khush rakhein aapko love u mam😘😘😘😘😘😘

Yes it can happen to anyone anywhere.So please be careful for your children or any other family members who can have to suffer humiliation.Therfore make your children since beginning very confident, strong so that he can face any situation confidently.

we prey for you and your dear son.

No words😢

Parents should make their kids mentally strong first

@IshaSharma0301

6 ай бұрын

There's a limit to every mental strength....you can't justify what's wrong ok

Bully krna toh fashion hai India me , aisa krne ladke log apne aap ko sigma bolte hai . India me ab mard paida hona hi band ho gye hai . Kamzoro pr attyachar krna aaj kal k ladko ko mard feel krwata h . Aur jo log inke iss kaam ko support ya undekha krte hai woh bhi kisi criminal se kum nhi hai

@kanchankore2714

6 ай бұрын

Sir bullying happens in every part of the world

@siddhant8430

6 ай бұрын

@@kanchankore2714 Abe educated person, me India ki baat kr rha hu , India ko toh badal nhi paa rhe hai baat kra hai world ko change krne ki . Pure world me bully ko rokene k liye kaam bhi ho rhe hai ,pr India me woh bhi nhi ho rha hai

This is heartwrenching incidence , shouldn't have happened ,he was not like that,only because his upbringing was good decent he was victimised,we should accept the person the way he is,,,I think he was mom's boy n admired her,maa ka pallu pakad kr chalne wala tha isliye thoda different tha ..my love to arvie,the school bothers only for money, Big/money people are supported...... action should have been taken there n then by school administration....pathetic.....we support you ma'am

Please fight till last breath 🙏

@aartimalhotra4561

6 ай бұрын

I am trying my best as this is a case of all LGBTQ community kids yes they all suffer same way but unfortunately very rare cases reported by schools and others I need society support also in this

Very good mam❤

Thank you for speaking up. My daughter who was a class topper was bullied by her schoolmates because she didn't believe in the so-called "relationships" that this most stupid generation of kids imitating the foolish western culture indulge in. It is the most ridiculous thing to happen in our society where there is aping of the west , these are the most unevolved immature lot that raise their kids who become a great nuisance to the society. I am talking about most of IT parents that are themselves very dumb and negligent and total misfits in society. It is their kids that turn into bullies. I am very sorry for your loss. God be with you and your little angel.

I was bullied from primary to all the way until 9th standard. Some days i felt like running under the lorry. Class mates would gang up on me make fun of me... Karma will come to them... i tried to tell my parents but they were too busy with money issues.. anyways.. i had very rough childhood.. hope things have chnaged now in 2024

God Bless you always and give you peace. May you help other children and families🙏🏾🤗🤗

Ji mam hum aap ke saath he

You should have done complaint through mails...it's your documentation as proof...you can also approach DOE for the same if school is not helping you...you are strong woman ma'am ...don't loose hopes....keep fighting

I will support you mam and thanks giving me this podcast for me and athers view vers