In a world full of women that hate men, I'm so glad there are still women that still appreciate men who really do try their best.

@jetaro63

4 жыл бұрын

AMEN!

@Doamino41

3 жыл бұрын

@Eseme Unuavworho Some do, some don't. Please re-read my comment SMH

@Kareena1988

3 жыл бұрын

@@Doamino41 us women however are confronted with men bashing us...treating us like shit

@chrisreichert3904

3 жыл бұрын

So so true.

@framboise595

3 жыл бұрын

@ Doamino41 I'm not justifying the hate of modern women but women today hate men because they are unable to admire them . They hate them because men do not dominate them anymore.

I don't know her husband, but he is married to a smart woman

@ignaciobustos2123

4 жыл бұрын

In need of a understanding women like her.

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4 жыл бұрын

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@rogerringold616

3 жыл бұрын

She said good stuff.Does she actually live this? Does her husband really benefit ftom her knowledge? Have we been fooled before? Still, good words.

@Enigmata23

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely, luckiest man alive.

Your hubby is very blessed to have you.

I just realized that I say some of these things to my husband. My intentions were never to tear him down, but I understand how my words could be taken that way. It really hurts me to know that I hurt him. Thank you for this video.

@michaelking4578

4 жыл бұрын

@Satchel McQueen Video That stinks. Don't let your wife treating you like crap depress you. She is judging you as if she can read your mind which only God can do. When she puts you down stop caring. When that doesn't work for her she might wake up. But do not get offended that she thinks so low of you because if you remove the significance of the offense that stops the cycle and you can be a man that is unmovable. Your wife may be mean as hell, but she will start to respect you more. You can set boundaries and tell her that when she does or says X it makes you feel disrespected and uncared for or whatever and that you aren't ok with that. Then ask her if she thinks it is ok to talk to you like that. If she says ok then she is admitting she is a monster.

@ThePotato912

4 жыл бұрын

Ashley Liu at least you realise that. Some women never apologise

@makaylawells1763

4 жыл бұрын

Steelmonger888 maybe so but she is holding herself accountable and I am sure she will apologize and do better. Many women are not properly instructed on how to be a good wife before getting married. I’m glad these videos exist!

@davetran7558

4 жыл бұрын

@Steelmonger888 ....forgive and continue to forgive. Human are not perfect. She could be a really good person and good wife and great mother. The most important is she's willing to change and avoid to use words that Debbie's mentioned in this video.

@darlenepaul2934

4 жыл бұрын

@Steelmonger888 You .must. be glad that you're perfect!

So true. For a man his sense of self-worth is tied hugely into the respect shown by those closest to him

This is why my wife is now my ex-wife. I don't need to be beat up at home. I get enough of that from everyone else all day long.

@Bloom2Grow

2 жыл бұрын

Oh stop all you guys do is whine when we hold you accountable

@MoonMoon-fx1op

2 жыл бұрын

@@Bloom2Grow 😂😂😂 chiiiilll

@cornfednebraskaneer

Жыл бұрын

@@Bloom2Grow you're absolutely right. We need to suck it up and just deal with it.

@alexforce9

Жыл бұрын

@@Bloom2Grow You must be a single mom.

@minaibrahim1252

Жыл бұрын

​@@Bloom2Growthere is a difference between holding someone accountable and disrespecting them. Insulting, criticizing, or abusing someone is not holding them accountable.

Love him, respect him, but especially-especially show him your appreciation for all the wonderful things he does for you. Open up to him and tell him often " thank you " and "you are wonderful to me " Women can certainly do all the above and should not hesitate.

@maryalex1401

6 жыл бұрын

johnny wilbanks well, thats's pretty sweet too - thank you! 😊

@maryalex1401

6 жыл бұрын

popkahchin that's right

@danfrazier8387

5 жыл бұрын

No woman is ever honest or appreciative toward their husband or partner. Then, everyone wonders why the divorce rate is so high. When a woman can't show appreciation the guy needs to say goodbye

@arnoldchatterjee4293

3 жыл бұрын

Nobody says all wants to get only. And when you ask for a word of appreciation they say it's your responsibility. We are doing also the same...

@EstherHulst-Artist

2 жыл бұрын

Its the healthiest when it goes both ways value eachother

A big one not on your list: engaging in put-downs of your husband in front of friends and family. Absolutely inexcusable nor tolerable.

@robertsenior8330

5 жыл бұрын

And yet so many do exactly that... when caught, they lie and turn it back on you.

@informationyes

4 жыл бұрын

@@robertsenior8330 I would think the majority wouldn't do that just as men wouldn't put down their wife in front of others

@elwoodblues9613

3 жыл бұрын

It's a power play, and nearly all wives who grew up in the Feminism era love to insult & joke about their husbands, and encourage their girlfriends to do it. (Mine does it, and enjoys it thoroughly.)

@Menzobarrenza

3 жыл бұрын

@Genius Idiot You seem to have been wounded grievously by this era.

@Menzobarrenza

3 жыл бұрын

@@elwoodblues9613 You shouldn't have to suffer under it. Make it known to her that it is hurtful, disrespectful, humiliating, etc. (as you feel is accurate), and that you would like her to stop. If she does not love or respect you enough to stop, then I would reccomend counselling. First by a wise and trusted pastor or church friend(s) if you're Christian, but also by a professional councillor (Christian is still better here, as you'd best want one that doesn't consider divorce an option in anything but extreme cases, if you want to fix the problem). Best of luck to you. God bless you and your marriage.

I grew up in a household where the things Debbie is talking about was the norm. I married a woman that "always" did those things too... that marriage ended terribly. After learning a lot about how God created marriage and realizing His expectations for me, I was able to have the correct expectations for a wife and what characteristics to avoid in women. I'm very happily married to an amazing woman that respects me and builds me up constantly! I never knew that marriage could be so wonderful!!!

@anthonyblow100

6 жыл бұрын

glad someone has a happy ending... finding a virtuous woman is tough!

@ateam388

5 жыл бұрын

Proof, God is not perfect. He invented marriage.

@metaiv9527

4 жыл бұрын

@@anthonyblow100 One big key to finding one, is finding a woman Who believes on the Lord! and cares about his words that he spoke.

@Orangexcounty

3 жыл бұрын

@@ateam388 you stupid

@jonathansisneros9675

2 жыл бұрын

I'm jealous

I’m sharing this with my wife. I’ve heard some of these and many others myself. I’m the husband who works at night and comes home and there’s no meal waiting on me. I help a lot around the house but to her it’s not enough.

@Bradley-Thomsen

2 жыл бұрын

Amen Brother. My wife says just about every single thing mentioned

@honey-suckle3228

2 жыл бұрын

That's so sad! So much good wifes have bad husbands so divorce her and marry them

@kartboarder22g17

Жыл бұрын

Same, I've heard everyone I'm sure. I'm required to come home some nights and cook a meal for the entire family. She's gotten to the point where she works only 2 days out of the week, yet we put her through master's degree so she barely doesn't have to work, WTH? I get it, I need her for our children, as I'll agree I can't provide for them like a mother can, but I'm not seeing any reason after at this point.

@unsearchablethings8167

Жыл бұрын

@@kartboarder22g17 I feel your pain.

@kartboarder22g17

Жыл бұрын

@@unsearchablethings8167 I wish I could say that is all I deal with but not even close. She is very upset at me for only bringing home 87k per year. It's tough.

Proverbs 14:1 Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands.

@johnhazlett3347

6 жыл бұрын

Or her tongue.

@Majorvideonut2

6 жыл бұрын

Dan... let the ignorant be ignorant still. God has written his words down in those books... you know what I mean.

@blackice7408

6 жыл бұрын

Boats n hoes you will regret that later

@Ser_Jerry

6 жыл бұрын

Michael C also: Proverbs 21: 9 "It is better to dwell in the corner of a housetop than in a house with a contentious woman." Proverbs 21:19 It is better to dwell in the wilderness than with a contentious and angry woman. Check this outkzread.info/dash/bejne/e6Sso8Wycqarerw.html

@MrSamuelivey

6 жыл бұрын

"her ways are moveable, that thou canst not know them" Proverbs 5:6 STRONG accurate language from someone who had countless sexual partners and hundreds of kids.

Sadly they know that this hurts and is why it's used as a weapon.

@thehomiebandit528

4 жыл бұрын

I agree

@gatorroll5126

3 жыл бұрын

Yes

@user-kt6fn8cg2i

2 жыл бұрын

@@gatorroll5126 curious. Do these statements really hurt that bad? Jw. They don't seem that bad lol

A few words for a woman who talks to me like that: “Pack your things, get out and don’t come back.”

Sis, I agree with you more than 💯! May I add one more?NEVER correct your husband in public! It's about respect in public or private!!!!!!!!

@ajarts3

2 жыл бұрын

Even if what he's saying is truly wrong and needs to be corrected ASAP?

@SamaraHoward281

2 жыл бұрын

What about him correction her in public??? Does he have the right? Last time I checked, they both are ADULTS and should be treated as such!

@elmyra.jackson

2 жыл бұрын

@@SamaraHoward281 This applies to wives as well. If you notice the topic is about husbands so I responded to the topic.

@elmyra.jackson

2 жыл бұрын

@@ajarts3 You still don't correct publicly.

@ajarts3

2 жыл бұрын

@@elmyra.jackson even something that must be stopped at that moment??

You so hit that exactly right. I earn 250K a year, spend next to nothing on myself (I get my clothes and glasses at the goodwill etc) and give my wife of 35 years every penny and it is never enough. At this point we live in the same house but sleep apart. We are cordial to one another. I have never nor will I cheat on God with another because it is to Him my vows were made. However, my wife has managed to get what she wanted, a detached walking wallet. The lack of appeciation by wives today is endemic. American modern women will have God to answer to.

@framboise595

7 жыл бұрын

@ Jr None Maybe men will have God to answer to for not correcting their wives and let them run the show ...

@Jessofficialchannel

7 жыл бұрын

Jr None praying for you... I hope things are getting better now

@framboise595

7 жыл бұрын

Here Comes the Light Things will NEVER get better as long as men will grovel to their wives instead of firmly rebuking and discipline them .

@miajean352

7 жыл бұрын

Jr None I'm so sorry I advise you to continue praying for your wife and for the lord to convict her heart so that his desires may become her desires for a better marriage God bless you :)

@EJ-bn3tc

7 жыл бұрын

Jr None just a question but did your wife not have a career and if so did you know if she had no intention of getting one when you married her?

I'm not even married. But I can tell you are a freakin God sent. God bless you and all women like you. You are a rare breed indeed.

I left my ex wife because she did most of the things you listed here. Luckily for me, I stayed in shape and in generally good looking, so I was able to find another woman that actually respects and cherishes me.

@aramisy.cajigas744

3 ай бұрын

Hello, brother! The first time I saw this video I was married, and I learned that she was not my wife. I didn't show her the video. Years later I got remarried, and now my new wife compares me to other men, especially because I don't earn much money, while her exes did. Now I feel like I didn't progress or learned anything in those years of singleness, because I'm being told the same things. So it makes me hate myself even more. I'm also thinking of putting my wife in the same category as my ex. But I don't know. Any suggestions?

@ArcaneTricks

3 ай бұрын

@@aramisy.cajigas744 what do you do? How much do you roughly earn per year?

What most women don't seem to know about men is that they actually have feelings that can be hurt. Yep we have feelings.

I can’t like this enough. Lady you are influencing me to end this marriage. I’m always being put down and all these phrases are being used on me all the time. I work 90 hr weeks and provide everything for her. She hates me but loves to order me around. It’s good to know that there are clear thinking women in the world. Thank you, god bless

@dennisallende7214

2 жыл бұрын

Be the man and put her in her place. Don't you know she is subject to you in ALL things (Ephesians 5:24)? Don't you know she must REVERENCE you (Ephesians 5:33)? Don't you know you rule over her (Genesis 3:16)?

@kartboarder22g17

Жыл бұрын

@@dennisallende7214 What if she disagrees? then end it like he's going to?

@dennisallende7214

Жыл бұрын

@@kartboarder22g17 I don't care if she disagrees until she's blue in the face with orange polka-dots! As the husband, he should lovingly acknowledge her disagreement but remind her that HE is the head of the household according to Ephesians 5:23, HE rules over her according to Genesis 3:16 and that she WILL obey. If she doesn't want to obey a husband then she should have stayed single and not gotten married. Truth! 😄 I know my answer probably upset you, so go ahead and respond. 🤓

@kartboarder22g17

Жыл бұрын

@@dennisallende7214 It doesn't mean she doesn't deal you divorce papers though, my friend thought the same thing as you and they have been divorced for years. What if you were two non-Christian people and the husband became a Christian and the Wife didn't telling her Bible text may or may not do anything for you. What if you both thought you were Christians, but didn't know the bible at least the verses you are quoting ahead of time before you got married and she doesn't care. Women have a lot of divorce power now days what do you do call her, out and then she will just say get lost?

@dennisallende7214

Жыл бұрын

@@kartboarder22g17 If she chooses to divorce and leave, then BYE-BYE!! SHE'LL be the one that has to stand before the Lord someday and account for divorcing her husband because of her hardened heart! WHO CARES if she has "divorce power"? 😆😆 Next question! 😎

Debbie, Awesome words of wisdom. So nice to hear a woman acknowledging this Behavior. Had to live with it for years before the ex divorce me and continues to try and keep it up to me and the children even now. I never believed any of it and neither do my children. I was lucky enough to have strong family support and Friends. Prior to being married I had 25 plus years of everybody telling me I was one of the best human beings that ever met. If it wasn't for that I probably would have bought into what she was telling me. It wasn't until about a year after she left the second time that the children's counselors brought to my attention that she was a narcissist. I honestly believe that anyone who continuously rips somebody down does it because they feel insecure about themselves and actually are jealous and feel that whoever they ripping down is a better human being than they are. Doesn't matter if it's a man woman or child there is no excuse for a constant barrage telling somebody that they can never do anything right. Hopefully more men and women will take your advice and the institution of marriage will grow strong again. God bless you for attempting to bring it to everyone's attention.

I am Muslim and i really appreciate your speech and i think so you are a good Christian. God bless you.

Wow, this is one wonderful lady, her husband is incredibly fortunate to have such an insightful and sensitive lady for a wife! If more females were like her, the divorce rate would drastically plummet and MGTOW would cease to exist. How refreshing to see that there are some terrific women out there.... If more single females were like her guys would be entirely different. You've got to admire this sweet woman, she's nothing less than incredible! 💕😊

@davidc3857

6 жыл бұрын

Dee Cee No argument here...

@framboise595

4 жыл бұрын

@Dee Cee In God's eyes , the women are guilty of filing for divorce in droves but husbands are guilty of not ruling over their wives anymore as he said in Genesis 3:16.

@framboise595

4 жыл бұрын

@Dee Cee How can you be a Christian if you cannot forgive an offense made to you ? You used the " man cheating" stuff which is not biblical in order to justify divorce , unbiblical again . This is what modern day feminized Christianity is told but this is not what the Bible teaches . If the cheating stuff harms you , you are offended . So , what should any offended Christian do ? Forgive . Divorce is the modern feminist easy way out but God does not allow women to divorce ! The one who could divorce would be the man , as head of the covenant . Yet , Christ tells him NOT to put aside what God has joined . Let alone the woman . Do you get it now ? If our husband turns to another woman once but still comes back to us , he does not divorce . So , who are we to divorce ?? We may feel offended , of course , but we have to forgive his offense . Remember that in biblical times , many men had more than one wife .

@mzyotruthnlove8263

Жыл бұрын

​@@framboise595 that is one of the curses and consequences of Adam and Eve eating from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. Please go back and read that in context.

I always say to him: You are amazing. And he is. He works hard, comes home to me, and gives me good cuddling and loving'.

Thank you for this! My poor husband has certainly heard some of these. It's important to treat people like you would want to be treated

Thank you, ma'am. As a young husband, I pray and Hope that my wife, and future children will never see me as a failure. I will do my best to be a great leader, Husband, Father, Uncle, Brother, Man, to my family. Thank you for your encouragement.

@zippyblessed839

2 жыл бұрын

Good luck i hope you find her 💓

Happened to me just less than an hour ago. Came here for understanding and comfort. Thank you.

@georgephoenixcorpindia2020

Жыл бұрын

I feel u bro.......thanks for sharing

Every good man deserves a good self aware woman like this

You are a real woman. God bless you. God definitely blessed your husband.

I have an arrogant wife. It’s amazing how battle hardened you get and how you learn how to tune it all out and fear the people who can truly hurt you and not the one can only hurt you emotionally. I’ve learned over the past 20 years that women are the aggressor of the species, overall.

@dennisallende7214

2 жыл бұрын

You need to put her in her place. Remember, according to Genesis 3:16, you rule over her.

Although I am not a Christian, however as Muslims, we do share many common core moral values with Jews and Christians. Thank you for sharing these valuable principles, I really appreciate it. May God continue to bless you and your husband.

@Bert_de_Wit

2 жыл бұрын

This is a very nice comment. Bless you too, sir!

I really believe that the Lord showed me that the absence of respect always accompanies the absence of love. No exceptions. For example, You love your child but also respect them that they are a gift from God. To love them doesn’t mean they have any authority.

Amen, respect goes along ways and as a man we dont ask for anything but respect and to be acknowledged when necessary

Not religious at all, but I can admire at the core what she's saying. You really shouldn't talk to EACH OTHER in that manner. I'm working hard, spending time to support my family and she is working in the home doing the same. Equal partnership. Equal respect.

@dennisallende7214

Жыл бұрын

Equal partnership, equal respect, but NOT equal authority. That's what many wives don't like to hear!

Lady, I wish all the women in the universe could see this video. 99% of the divorces would not happen. God bless you.

I feel like my wife would curse me out if I showed her this video.

@dennisallende7214

2 жыл бұрын

You need to put her in her place - you have the authority to do so (Genesis 3:16).

Her husband must have done some good deeds in his previous life that he got such an understanding wife.

@tweedenbiggs1060

Жыл бұрын

Hahaha

To all hurt men , God will bless you with a wonderful woman one day. 👏

@DreamChaser415

2 жыл бұрын

I am now a disrespectful wife but I had respect for him until he broke my heart. Now I don't know how to respect him again or show him respect. I feel awful after i say terrible things to him.

@cmthoughts4803

2 жыл бұрын

@@DreamChaser415 Sit down and talk to him , let him know you are still hurt. I’m sorry Sis 💖

@DreamChaser415

2 жыл бұрын

@@cmthoughts4803 Thank you. I don't know how to manage this pain but I don't want to be so mean either. The things that I have said diminishes my femininity. So I end up being disappointed in myself n still being angry at him. I will try.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

@cmthoughts4803

2 жыл бұрын

@@DreamChaser415 Healing takes time Sis, don’t force it. If you feel angry it’s best to not say anything until you are calm.

@DreamChaser415

2 жыл бұрын

@@cmthoughts4803 Thank you you are exactly right. I need to take a breath n sometimes just don't speak until I get control over my emotions. So I won't have to feel so guilty n make him feel so bad. 🙏🏾

Glory Hallelujah! Thank you for this! It's because so many women don't treat their men well and don't believe in lifting up their men that I'm still single! Maybe I can find a good woman like you!

@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485

Жыл бұрын

Any luck? I’ve been single almost 8 years after my wife died and have no prospects.

My wife has said so many things to me that I would never say to her. I’ll admit that I have not always been the best husband and father , I have adhd and my wife has high anxiety and she says I’m never going to change my attitude. I’m trying to be a chef and I work about 86 to 94 hours a week I was over looked for a promotion that I deserved. I come home and the son is out of control and the wife is not happy with herself and it feels like I can never make myself feel better. I feel valued at work but not anymore and now when I go home I never expect my wife to be in a good mood or happy about the house idk. I take medication but I still feel like I’ll never be the person she wants. I’m man enough to admit that I mess up a lot and dont think correctly. I’m never touched or hugged I feel or pulled over for a kiss. Son won’t get off his iPad ever and wo t listen. I’m told by her that how can she be nice to me when she says I’m not nice to her. I’m nice and then she finds something that makes her upset and angry or the house doesn’t look messy out to her it’s a disaster. I’m not going to let my family break. Idk why but she always says when he’s 18 she’s leaving me. And she doesn’t care if she says this stuff infront of him….I’ll make the changes that I need to.

@paradise1873

6 ай бұрын

i read this amd i just feel so bad for you. i really hope things have changed for you since then

@Plans4YouJer2911

5 ай бұрын

Guy here My situation was not as bad as yours However lots of similarities Mine X had ADHD so I do get you I cut her alot of slack at certain times of the day as I figured out her med regime Yes, I too made mistakes Tried to own up to them whether she pointed them out to me or not Anyway, we are not together anymore I never wanted this divorce So many inconsistencies Blessings to You on Your Journey 😢😢

Listen to this at times, and just the thought that someone out there is even thinking the way you do helps me to find peace and happiness, thank you for your kind example.

Well said... women/wives who say these things usually end up being the reason the marriage falls apart.

@petermonn8352

3 жыл бұрын

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@mfirstnlast5389

3 жыл бұрын

@@petermonn8352 you need Jesus and you need to repent of your sins and cry out to him and ask him to forgive you and give you a heart and soul and mind to him and serve him

Things that aren't said.. Neglect Rejection Ignore Loss of affection Or just playing on your phone when I walk in the door after work and not even looking up to say (how was your day) Or (Glad you are home) Damm right I am planning an exit strategy!!!!!!!

@informationyes

4 жыл бұрын

Marriage is work you have to ask yourself wither your making time to be together too, and if its just he talk to her as one adult to another and see what the problem is, modern technology is just a new challenge for relationships not every handles well, Ive played LOL man! If all else fails then seek divorce (im not assuming you have tried these things)

@framboise595

4 жыл бұрын

@ Richard Myhan How come men today cannot have their will done in their own house ?

@informationyes

4 жыл бұрын

@@framboise595 I thought the womans meant to be the master of the house lol but cut the crap power shouldn't be given to one, all that's needed is mutual respect, communication and co-operation, its how so many people have relationships now, the divorce rates gone down to early 40% by the way.

@framboise595

4 жыл бұрын

@@informationyes A wife is to submit o to her husband in everything because the husband IS the head of the wife . Mutual respect , communication and cooperation never work with no head ! f the man is not in control , the woman will usurp the power seat very quickly and things will get awful . There is nothing funny . When a man lets his wife be the master of the house , he gets into big troubles and is no man anymore. Don't ever expect a woman who does not regard you as the head of the house to respect you because she will automatically feel superior . Women need to be in subjection , to be subjugated _ literally sub_jugated ie under the yoke - to respect and love a man .

@elwoodblues9613

3 жыл бұрын

I remain against divorce because the Word of God is against divorce, allowing it reluctantly in only two cases. However, there is a point in a toxic marriage where one needs to ask which is the lesser of two evils: being divorced, or staying in a marriage that cannot please God. For that reason, I don't criticize divorced Christians, because I don't know the back story, and I may have reacted the same way.

Over the years my wife supported other side in my conflicts and disputes even if i was a victim in the scenario. Sometimes by giving a negative statements about my point of view or the way i dealt with situations or encouraging the other person or opinion . Which made felt bad . Sometimes I felt that may be Im a failure . Till I realized That I am in a relation with a toxic person but it was quite late . Now i don’t damn care . As i don’t share any personal info as well as my opinion to her . I feel happy snd more comfortable . I always felt need of sharing ideas and discussion but that was my bad.

My dear, coming from a man...we adore you, we love you and its people like you we will die for because you are beautiful to us and to the world. Bless you always.

Thank You wise lady your husband is extremely lucky to have you! I didn't realize how depressed I have been in my marriage, until I watched your video(denial I suppose). I actually held back a tear or 2😐, my wife(of 12 years) has been doing this to me since I can last remember...

I am guilty of so many of these 😢 Thank you so much for this video Debbie...I will watch this over and over

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3 жыл бұрын

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@wasimmomin1128

2 жыл бұрын

Caroline Watts you're such a sweetheart you realised your mistakes. I thank you for that. & please don't worry. It's not over yet. You can make a comeback & be a wife who would admire her husband for the things he has done. But you need to hurry a little. May god bless you & bring your husband back into your arms! ❤️

The more a wife guilts a husband for not mind-reading or meeting some expectation that he never knew a thing about, the less that husband will put effort into any future of the relationship. Also, the more effort I put into something, the more there is a focus on what I failed to do.

Where can I find a woman like THIS??!!!??? I will take a plane to anywhere I can meet women with these values. @ long last... We need more good women like this one. Respect.

(I am a man). I clicked on your video for fun, ok let's hear this, lol...but after listening to what you had to say...Wow, I have to thank you for all of mankind. Thanks. You speak wise words and I agreed with everything you said. I wasn't expecting that but...you stand out in the crowd. Most women do not talk like you do. What're you, some sort of Proverbs 31 Wife or something? I've never actually seen one of those before. All women should watch your video. Does your husband know what he has? Ohh but he's a lucky man. Not even 95K views in over 4 years?! Oh come on on now girls, this video is gold. Thank you, Mam. :)

@metaiv9527

4 жыл бұрын

A woman who knows God and believes on his words. Who can find her? Her price is far above jewels.

You deserve a salute ,Lady.

My husband talks to me like this! It’s been 14 years of my love, respect and dedication. Divorce is the best solution in my case. Toxic people, men or women should ended up all alone! 😏🇧🇷

I love this woman!

I thought our marriage was "fire-proof" - she left me in 2012 after 28 years an I didn't see it coming!

@user-kt6fn8cg2i

2 жыл бұрын

@@ateam388 are you still married? Marriage is rough

I came across this great message in a blog I do not remember the name and I would like to share it with you : " A woman's submissive conduct can communicate in a way that reaches deeper into a man's heart and mind more deeply than words alone can accomplish and thus can achieve more than a great many words, and also that submissive obedience is extremely attractive and therapeutically calming for a troubled soul. When a man takes the headship in a relationship (i.e., he takes the role that God intended him to have) a woman will find that it creates some sort of deep resonance within her and in a similar way, when a woman takes the role God intended for her (that of submitting to her man) there will be a corresponding and undeniable resonance within the man's soul. It is something like the genuine smile, the genuine hug of affection ... you might not know or be able to articulate exactly why it should influence you positively, but something happens at a subconscious level that cannot be avoided and, ultimately, cannot be denied."

@prohib8707

7 жыл бұрын

frexandbera Vinc What he said is biblically based. You cannot refute the Bible when it comes to marriage. Read all the verses on the right column in full context: www.qbible.com/references/ephesians/5-22/

@framboise595

7 жыл бұрын

Prohib Please , it is not he but she ! I'm a woman !

@framboise595

7 жыл бұрын

***** A man must be humble enough to be ruled over by Christ ( God) and proud enough to not let his wife rule over him. A man was created by a God of ORDER as well. Men with no egos are not men anymore. They are like little boys in front of mommy wife. Male ego is necessary to hold families together.

@apostlepauli.a4083

6 жыл бұрын

Isabelle M - Your wisdom dear Sister on this issue is graceful. May God ALMIGHTY help you and use you to revive so many marriages.

@skaithey

6 жыл бұрын

If only wise women as yourself we're more prevalent in my generation

Never ever say you should have done x. Should have is in the past and none of us can change that. Your either working WITH your husband, or, your working against him.

@thandalion6313

5 жыл бұрын

Because hindsight is a wonderful thing only possessed by women.

My mother belittles my father in private and in public. It makes me sick. I once made the mistake of disagreeing with my husband in front of company and vowed to myself that I would never undermine his authority in public or in the privacy of our own home front of our children, friends or family. If there is something I need to discuss with him, I do so in private between ourselves.

Ya show these to women and they'll get defensive cause they know she's right God bless her seeing men's point of view.

@metaiv9527

4 жыл бұрын

Seeing mens point of view? this is based on the living Gods very words.

I’ve said ALL of those words to my husband. We’ve been together for 16yrs & sadly, our marriage is hanging by a thread. Asking for prayers & that I may make a rapid change to be a Godly wife. I struggle with pride & it’s hurting our relationship.

@dennisallende7214

2 жыл бұрын

Read Genesis 3:16, Ephesians 5:24, 33.

My wife and I were out with a group of friends, and because I didnt cut short my conversation with a friend and jump to the bar to fetch her another drink (everybody else had 1/2 to 3/4 of theirs left by the way) I was told I was an embarrassment to be out with, because she was left without a drink when everybody else had one.

@adamv4951

5 жыл бұрын

My wife does those kind of things in different ways. I think it's their deep insecurity issues and constant need to feel validated. They need to seek that from God.

@user-kt6fn8cg2i

2 жыл бұрын

Are you still married

When you said: ' You always & you never ' I felt sooooo convicted. I need to work on myself , thank you , im messed up 💚

This woman is amazing. Would love to have a wife exactly like her. I would treat her like royalty.

Wow! Thank you. You nailed it. I wish every man and woman could hear this.

I think most important thing is a take care of each other. They have to show up there feelings to each other. Arrogance and proudness will never last your family. Family means a team and you should both need to be faced challenges togather.

Good Job Debbie. I like it very much. So any wife suppose to be in full support of her husband no matter what. Jesus bless you and your work.

You are awesome. . Thanks for the uplifting words . There is a woman that has a heart ❤️.

Amen! Here’s the truth, “from the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks”. Talking down, insulting, name calling, disrespect, lack of love, attention, and support... men will put up with it for a while. Once they’ve had enough, they will leave. One thing my wife does is say “you guys” and then goes on to say something “corrective”, while taking to me and my teenage son. She lumps me into the mix like I’m one of the children. My reply is usually “There is no ‘you guys’, I’m not a child. So if you have something you need to say to me, then say it to me. But don’t lump he and I together, because you’re not talking to two children.” Always, every, and never are universals and, frankly, they’re lazy. When my wife uses these words with me I simply say “that’s not true. You’re using that as a universal term in order to exaggerate this single issue.” At the heart of a lack of disrespect is really a lack of love and gratitude.

@dennisallende7214

2 жыл бұрын

Put her in her place - you have the authority to do so (Genesis 3:16).

So very true, this reveals a very prideful spirit in a wife, possibly a Jezebel spirit leading her around on a leash

Respectfully, She Is Right. Kindly, Wives / Mates, Should Be The Soft Place For Your Husband To Land, Trust, Cherish & Passionately Embrace. Thank You For Reminding Us. :)

Men: do everything you can to become financially independent as soon as possible so you won't have to think about unimportant things. Hint: 'unimportant things'.

@dennismevis8892

6 жыл бұрын

CauseAndEffect MGTOW

Wow- my ex wife was guilty of all the demeaning things mentioned in the video. Most had no idea just how mean my ex was. I left her. She was also cheating on me again-yes 'again'. Some months after, she apologized. She regretted her bad choices. We are least on friendly terms but her sorrows are hers alone to bear. I am free.

@user-kt6fn8cg2i

2 жыл бұрын

Did you find someone else

I'm going through this right now. Don't know what to do. So I had to swallow my pride and call my day last night just to tell me that it's normal and I shouldn't worry. I can relate.

You are an amazing person. If more females had your philosophy so many relationships would not end

I respect you 💯 times over i wish more women where like you god bless you and your family

The only time I feel like a failure is when I would think of he woman I CHOOSE to marry. It's the ONLY thing I really failed at in life. Other than that I succeeded.

Wow! I have told my wife soooo many times that I have concluded I can make a million dollars a month and it wont be enough. I have told her I can't work any more constant overtime than I am right now. I made more money last year than I ever in my life thought I would and still feel financially strapped. The pressure to provide and grow a carrier for those at home. Still I feel I'm only just the family member that goes to work to provide while family takes place while I'm gone. It's like a marriage that's just a financial agreement roommate type understanding.

@dennisallende7214

2 жыл бұрын

You need to put her in her place - Genesis 3:16.

All these words used by my wife in daily life which i think is gonna spoil 18 yrs of marriage soon

Wow! Don't know you. But I must say your sweetheart is one LUCKY man. Wow!!!!

@inspiration2628

5 жыл бұрын

Ss

This is where 99% of our fights start. I rarely initiate a fight with my wife. It usually begins with my wife scolding me about something, or strongly questioning me about something. The way a mother questions a teen who was out late.

@framboise595

4 жыл бұрын

@ Andrew Pena It is always women who initiate fights because they are psuhed to challenge their husband's authority instead of submitting and surrendering. The war of the sexes is a woman's thing , not a man's thing. It started in Eden with the woman usurping the man's authority and screwing our earthly paradise.

@petermonn8352

3 жыл бұрын

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@dennisallende7214

2 жыл бұрын

Put her in her place - you have that authority (Genesis 3:16).

I have been called a jerk everyday and an asshole several years by my wife.

It's so nice to see and hear a wise woman on u tube.

She nailed it!!!!🙏💗💙💚💖

Thank u very much. The message u gave definitely applies both ways though. A man should build up and respect his lady as well. And he shouldn't say those type of things to her either

Strangely enough this is incredibly accurate. My in-laws love to using biblical references to get their way, but when I use this reference to stop my wife from verbally tombstoning me I am in the wrong. I’m at a point now where my heart and soul have been thrashed by my wife and she uses my daughter as a pawn to have things her way. It is becoming more clear why men have higher rates of suicide.

I really appreciate your video... you have no idea how powerful it is.

Debbie, you should do another version of this now that Covid-19 has created a lot of jobless husbands who are stuck at home. The whole “you NEVER”... “you don’t make enough money...” and the like is probably destroying a lot of men’s spirits. Another line is “you are USELESS”. That one is a killer.

@petermonn8352

3 жыл бұрын

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Im a Union Carpenter, I build America,..commercial buildings, schools,hospitals, and my Ex Wife told me to get a "Real" job,because i didn't make the same $$ she did at her job. Good Riddance.

I see mostly men in the comment section, but a few women also, and with positive comments, even one saying thank you and " i need to change ". Great job . God bless you.

@metaiv9527

4 жыл бұрын

Little do woman know. This is the key Jesus Christ has given them to fix all these things that are broken.

I'm not married, but I think this should go both ways. Underappreciation seems to be a big marriage killer, although too much attention might also be bad.

Not to mention the endless criticism concerning everything in the house. I once got criticized when I did the dishes, even though they were squeaky clean.

@cmthoughts4803

2 жыл бұрын

Sorry 🤣🤣🤣

@dennisallende7214

2 жыл бұрын

She is subject to YOU in all things, not the other way around (Ephesians 5:24).

When my wife said these things and made horrible false accusations about me over and over and over.....I resorted to horrible name calling. I am sorry I did that. But does that make me a bad person when I was pushed and pushed?? She brings up my mistakes from the past like 3 to 5 to 8 years ago all the time.

@Tony-dh

5 жыл бұрын

Is she a narcissist by any chance? I would say so. Pathological narcissist. Thrives on drama and chaos and always plays the victim.

Actually I prefer honesty even if at first it hurts. My soon to be ex wife has said to me that she wishes her dead husband was still alive so she can be with him. She was embarrassed to let her friends know she was married to me. I'll never fall in love again, what a chump I was.

Really convicting!! I want so much to be a good support to my husband.

My wife covers all these “things not to say”, she has it down to an art.

@dennisallende7214

2 жыл бұрын

Put her in her place. Remember- according to Genesis 3:16, you rule over her.

@BoksCar29

2 жыл бұрын

@@dennisallende7214 , my wife rules the house, money, all decisions, and anything else she wants to rule over. To confront my wife would be like her pushing the nuclear option button . I just let her rant on and rule while I live a double life. I don’t confront or challenge her ruling, although when things don’t work out it’s my fault.

@robertbrownjr.3802

2 жыл бұрын

@@BoksCar29 You do realize that is completely unbiblical, right? She needs to be subject to YOU, not the other way around. You must love her and giver honor and protection, but YOU are the household leader. You should be in charge of your home. She needs to obey YOU. Was she always like this?

@prestonztt

2 жыл бұрын

@@robertbrownjr.3802 Yes, she has been this way through out or marriage. My wife came from a home where her mother was married and divorced three times. Her grandmother married twice divorced twice. Over the course of our marriage, I learned that men in her household were not regarded very well. I was told that all three husbands of my wife's mother were alcoholics. Three out of three? The grandmother was the boss of the house, moving in early into the affairs of the three marriages, probably why the three marriages ended. My wife idolizes her mother, although her mother has been dead 5 years. I never could reach the bar of my wife's mother relegating me to the cash flow guy and handyman. So, with that short history I have learned to live a double life keeping conversations dull and boring not knowing what I might say that will set my wife off. She can go from zero to fire breathing dragon rage in milliseconds.

You NEVER talk down to your man(strength under gods image)EVER!!!😇🙏

She has spoken the Absolute truth!!! Bless her heart!!!

great video! your channel is a blessing to all of us aspiring to be good godly women

This is one of the reasons I will stay single for the rest of my life....I would rather be lonely and sad than get hurt.

@elpiedron3889

6 жыл бұрын

Steven S Its ok to live alone but not lonely.

@elpiedron3889

6 жыл бұрын

Barry A. I believe that quote does not apply in marriage.

@otbway

6 жыл бұрын

Get over it bro learn to not let these words hurt you...

@bonniebianco5918

6 жыл бұрын

I don't pay escorts for sex I pay them to leave.I spend my money on me.

@bonniebianco5918

6 жыл бұрын

I'm so happy I'm not with this bitch.

You are so right. Words can build up and words can tear down because words are powerful. God bless you for sharing.

nice... thanks for sharing this. as a man i feel like you said, we already struggle with this life. It is very painful if wife come up with a list of your failure, it just like the end of the world... 😑😑😑

I’ve said those words ans the reason I was watching this video was because I felt horrible for saying them. I needed a reminder. Thank you for this video.