Welcome! On this channel, you'll find lots of short videos offering Bible-based wisdom on how a wife can dramatically improve her marriage. Wives will also find Bible-based help for dealing with difficult issues in their marriage such as verbal abuse, their husband's use of porn, etc. In addition, there are a few videos on how to cook and bake healthier for your family. :)
I am a pastor's wife, long-time secular and Christian radio host, and I lead the dynamic wives' ministry called Squadron of Sisters. Get free resources for your marriage at www.squadronofsisters.com. You can listen free to my daily internet radio podcasts at www.thedebbiechavezshow.com
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Pornography, Social Media and Violent TV. Communist-Fascist influence on today's culture breeding addiction, anger and lust which is directly from the Enemy, Satan
Pornography, Social Media and Violent TV. Communist-Fascist influence on today's culture breeding addiction, anger and lust which is directly from the Enemy, Satan.
Ugh. I just referenced 2 woman (who were what I now understand to be gentle ) in prayer and asked God if this is what a wife should be because if so I don't think I can or want to be married. I didn't expect an answer that quick😂 1hour after Expected fruit not just wife behavior
What happens when we're humble? We apologize, and then the husband takes it as an opportunity to beat us down. Basically, saying yeah, you're right. You're so wrong and not, and this and these two
Does. This means you have to stroke their ego in order to respect them.
I don't even have princess like dreams about my husband. Just for him to be consistent with his duties. Keep his word. But apparently it's too much to ask.
Great message! 😊
This. Exactly this. If you want it to be a couple thing, just sit together in front of a tv and cuddle for an hour. In fact, DO cuddle in front of the TV for an hour or two and do nothing, not even paying attention to what's on the TV. Ladies, we will love you all the more for it. We will feel understood and happy if you just cuddled with us while we both do nothing for an hour each day.
Thank you so much for doing these videos!!! 🥰💝✝️🎉 I've learned so much from you (I've been watching you since January of 2024).
Thank you Brooke... This has hit hard within my soul... You may not remember me but I had came out to your house a long time ago for Bible study via SOS... I am looking for peace to make the right decision about my marriage.. As my mind is in fits... If your able to contact me and give me advice insight anything the Lord puts on you I would much appreciate it.. Debbie has my contact info.... FW.
Everyone is saying make sure the husband is satisfied at home like the wives are paid sex workers pitting customer satisfaction their priority. If husbands know how to woe their wives and are loving and kind, patient during foreplay, their wives will naturally give sex and not see sex as a chore.
I weirdly started acting the opposite. So instead of being mousy and hiding…When I grew up and got out on my own, I made a promise to myself (and God) that I would NEVER allow anyone to treat me abusively like my family. I began learning about what is ok and not in relationships. So I ended up being a weird mix of avoiding conflict until I could not stand it and then I would finally blow up when the pattern continued and I could not take it any longer. This was probably because of my silly “vow” to myself. I let that go finally over a decade into a tough and neglectful relationship (my reactionary anger made things worse and probably prolonged this situation). I got help outside and stopped acting like we had this happy little marriage to everyone and let some people know. I got help and I started fasting and praying. It got worse first and he got verbally, emotionally, and spiritually abusive but I kept on praying. i gave up hope in some ways for a while and got to a dark place but I never stopped praying, seeking God’s face and fasting. Finally at the end of last year I had decided if he doesnt change, I will have to separate for a time because the kids and I cant live under this. I made plans and he figured something was up-so I told him I was serious finally (I had threatened so many times to do this or leave and I never did cuz he was “sorry” and would do better)… many in my churches would say I cant leave him even for these thing because it was sin and hubby was saying that too so I didnt want to dishonor God and I couldnt get my mind clear enough to know what God wanted. I finally didnt care what others thought and realized I have to get my kids and I feeling safe emotionally before I end up in a mental institution ( the last fight in Dec almost broke me). So I made plans while my Christian friends and house church yelled at me and dropped support. He realized something was different with me and I was serious and asked me what to do. i told him to pray, fast and surrender to God. We have to stop fighting like we are the enemy and put our focus on what is really going on…. i need two months of calm so I can sort out my emotions and life. It almost got to me leaving within those two months but I prayed and fasted and got over my lack of hope and internal strife I had leaned into. He is finally making real progress and taking it seriously. Usually I will see as minimal a change to make me be quiet and happy. Now, he is getting progressively better as we pray and he realizes just how deep the pain he caused me by his behavior and how broken I have become and how it was the reason I lost physical attraction to him. i still love him but it still isnt where I feel attracted to my hubby again. I know I made things worse by my reactive anger and yelling and snapping and trying to “help” and “fix” him for God… that is not my job. He still doesnt want my “help” or advice alot and a couple times he has gotten angry out of nowhere but now I just start blocking my ears and praying if I cant leave like in the car or he is in a doorway. Its getting rarer now and my own reactive anger is all gone. He cant even get me to a shouting match any longer. It just went away one day crying out to God. I pray God continues to work in our lives and we come out of this together as a married couple.
What do you do if as a woman if they act calm in front of others and call you a liar? What if no one will believe you because they can keep it together in front of others. Then if you try to separate everyone sees you as leaving for no reason? I am asking because I dealt with this a little myself and have seen other women deal with this…they were being physically and emotionally abused and the hubby acted perfect in front of myself and others!
Sounds like my wife
This teaching blessed me, thank you
I never knew this woman has met my wife….
Wish to experience a wife like your good self lady. ! 🙏🙏❤️
Unfortunately i have met Christian girls who are not obeying gods word for marriage. I have met liers, deceiver, manulapters and they wat to have sex before marriage. That's not obeying gods word. Church girls. Im still a believer that my future wife woll come into my life.
Truth spoken. Us men need to do the same thing.
Oh sister your so right as a man you nailed it you nailed it - it’s so true
Sheesh you talk a lot
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Timely. I would share this with my wife but it would only trigger her. Oh well.
Esteeming your husband to greatness? Ladies, even here you are appropriating more than your mandate. While a disrespectful woman can, like the proverbial Chinese water torture, pull down a man, only God can.build up a man to greatness. Enough if you don't drag him down; he will develop into his God ordained greatness by the grace of God!
One of the most important things for a husband is that his wife is happy. He will do almost anything to make her happy. So please don't weaponise that by never expressing your happiness. (One of the ways women try to control their men is by never expressing satisfaction with his efforts or results to please them.)
Nonsense. It applies to some women also and not all men. A lot of generalisations.
Pause, Pivot, Praise, Pray
And sometimes that understanding is that he has been sinning against you
Amazing thank you!
The man's need for respect has nothing to do with any insecurity, apparent or otherwise, It is the other way round - Women are so insecure that the only way they feel good about themselves is by tearing their man down, knowing fully well that he will not retaliate out of love for her.
As a man, I have gone for days without talking to anyone. I still got all my work done, went where I needed to go and still enjoyed my life. A woman can only go without talking as a form of punishment towards someone. As in the silent treatment.
I wish my wife would abide by these
some women will say, "no, he has to earn respect; he has to show he deserves respect; he's bringing himself down more if he picks a fight, blah blah blah."
The Married Woman 👩 🧍♀️ with over a million Personalities; Married Men and Single Guys run 🏃 fast 💨 for the hills as fast 💨 as you can.
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Direct and to the point. I love this.
I assume a lot
I lack in so many in those
God bless you
my nothing box involves casually studying quantum physics. it seems pretty straight forward to me. figuring out what i want to buy from the grocery store thats difficult for me.
Well said! Thanks for this video.
Guess what, we are all messed up and if you think it's not you, then it probably is.
26+ years.
Lol love when the truth speaks.
Wow you really are the Deborah of the bible. Go with honor my friend.
WOW!!! Thank you soo much!!!
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God bless you 🙂
No time for sex; too much complaining, nagging and arguing to get done.
This is exactly what I needed to hear you are a blessing ! Thank you for your heart to share the word !