Women: "Horses are prey animals. You have to make sure you gain their trust so they know they are safe with you." Men: "Horses are herd animals. You have to make sure you gain their respect so they know they have to follow you."

@xlegvcy

Ай бұрын

I like this. 🫡

@xlegvcy

Ай бұрын

@@blazequestrian I also agree with this. 😌

@TheEveningStar_Venus

Ай бұрын

I do the both of them with my animals, they should respect, and trust me, the only cases in which my animal should be scared, is when they’re doing something dangerous to them or others and I need them to know that they should be scared because it is dangerous (my dog running onto the road or carelessly approaching/chasing other dogs and animals for example, could get someone else badly hurt or even killed, or he could get himself badly hurt or even killed, and if he hurts someone else or someone else’s animal, he could also get put down, it’s better that he’s a bit scared of the road, or cautious around new animals and people, than dead because he’s reckless)

@OnceUponaTimeline

Ай бұрын

IMO you need to have both. Not enough respect and they like you but consider you on the bottom of the pecking order. Too rough and they fear you but don't like you.

@blazequestrian

Ай бұрын

@@TheEveningStar_VenusExactly. That's what I do.

The intense silence as he groomed! 😂❤ That's not always true because I catch my older brother talking to horses! 😝

@HoofPrintStudio_

Ай бұрын

❤❤

not him throwing that entire flake of hay over the fence lolll

@OnceUponaTimeline

Ай бұрын

Now I feel bad since that's how i do it! However I noticed if I throw loose hay over and a flake, the horses always choose the compacted flake first. So i feel kinda bad when I put in loose hay, except I don't want to waste loose hay either!

As a male equestrian this is almost entirely accurate except I do wear a helmet. My brain is already damaged enough. I don’t need to make it worse. Though I sometimes wonder if I hit it hard enough maybe I’ll finally be normal.

@horse_addictforlife_ECuestrian

Ай бұрын

Normally it's the western riders that don't wear helmets - it's all about cowboys and rodeos, right? Dumb people trying to prove their bravery.

@hequestrian-ig8jf

Ай бұрын

as a western rider, i wear a helmet. but i don't support people who don't wear helmets, especially in rodeos. THATS WHY THEY HAVE BRAKN DAMAGE

@Gameriiitoo

Ай бұрын

As a male equestrian i think im like females😅😂😂

@horse_addictforlife_ECuestrian

Ай бұрын

@@Gameriiitoo I think that's a little bit sexist... There's nothing about being like females or not. It's just a safety decision.

@stcler100

Ай бұрын

I work on the same basis. My helmet is covered in scuff marks from riding under tree branches. Beats having to pick up your hat.

Tucker’s a saint for putting up with all this 😂 bless him

The half sleep “did I leave the gate open” is so real

My favorite male equestrian is Warwick Schiller. He has such a kind gentle manner with his horses, and I love that he never uses fear or intimidation to train, only classical conditioning. He's not preoccupied with "disrespect" or "being the boss" he wants the horse to feel comfortable with him and rely on him for guidance.

Admit it. The horse is happier with her. 😅

A moment of silence for the English saddle.

@johnsementa9844

Ай бұрын

that thing is cooked

I miss having my horse. Talked to her all the time while I was grooming her. I used to tell that she was the only woman in my life that didn’t let me down.

@Ra-rg1vk

Ай бұрын

You only get let down when you have expectations. I learnt not to have any

I will name my horses after famous old people because I want them to remain in good shape for many years. I might get a mare called Elizabeth after the Queen.

@sadmimikyu8807

Ай бұрын

She will live forever

@shutterchick79

Ай бұрын

How cute 😀 You could call her Lilibet as a nickname just like the Queen.....

😂😂😂This is so accurate! Especially the petting the horse part. The man with the quick firm pat! Yes!! 😂❤️ Love your videos!!!

we don't have our horse yet, but I can confirm this is the exact same for men and women with goats lol

I’m a man, but I guess I’m feminine the way I treat my animals

Why as a guy did I relate to the woman part more 😆 I think its just dependant on how soft u are, and girls are usually softer and more caring with animals hahahah

01:44 Item "Cowboy hat" +100 armor points 😅

The cricket noise fuckin killed me 😆

So hilarious ! However men prefer to hide their own feelings for animals not to seem to be too weak. Old education. I remember my father saying No I don't really like this cat. Then when he thought he was alone he was smiling, talking to him with a soft voice. ☺️ It must be the same with horses. 😉

@PhebusdesTours

Ай бұрын

Ha, I'm an activity leader with children, and once we went to a barn. There was this big boy who was always acting tough, but there he was petting and giving hugs to the pony he had to take care of. Big cuddly fellow. 😊

@Kelly_Ben

Ай бұрын

I rescued an injured porcupine the other night. It was in a box in the bathroom for the night, and my husband seemed really grumpy about it. He thought I was asleep, but I could hear him chatting away with it for 20 minutes while he was in there washing up. 😂 ❤

I think Arthur Morgan falls out of this pattern.😂

funny funny... suggested addendum... women who anathromorphize their horses into boyfriends... men who try to act firm and stoic with horses, but then secretly show them affection

@ninjamatt2164

Ай бұрын

Not boyfriends, pet friends, like a puppy 😊

LOL!!!😆 Sooooo true!!! I also loved the crickets while the man was brushing!!👍

Haha love seeing your dad is your videos!.

😂 this is soo funny and true especially the hay and the pat only omg 😂

Haha! I love your dad, Carmella! He's exactly like all the other horse fellas I know! lol

Carmella, you nailed this one. I love your videos. Keep them coming. 😂

omgosh - the hay.... So true.

Women: "OMG horses are so pretty 😍" Men: "You're alright boah!"

As a female wishing I had my own horse (I LOVE them), I know I’d be like Carmella! I rode my uncle’s horses and his attitude with them was same as your dad’s. Uncles only request……we put the tack away neatly and where it belonged……don’t know if I could even hoist a saddle up anymore! I’m 78. I’d try tho, if given a chance again! Miss those days! 😢

Lol, you nailed it! 👏🏼😂 Most the time you can tell wether or not a man or woman trained the horse too. 😉😅🤣

@cobrebluebonnetequinechall4782

Ай бұрын

How so?

@cdcdogs4961

Ай бұрын

@@cobrebluebonnetequinechall4782 It was a joke, it isn't really a man vs woman thing, but there’s always truth in jest. Anyone can claim to be a horse trainer, but I prefer a true Horsemen, one that understands how horses think. IME, women do have a tendency of SPOILING their horses by treating them like their child. Spoiled horses make dangerous horses. ✌🏼😎

Separating the flakes of hay is proper. You can check for any sticks that can hurt a horse. Find beetles inside the hay. Shake out any dust if there. Some bales can contain harmful things. Tack should be kept indoors.

The man has quite a cool outfit. Both show your love for the animal in your own way. It seems very well taken care of. Nice short!

I literally have full conversations with the horses as I brush and it's hilarious❤🐴😅

One of your funniest yet!😊

as a woman who wanted a orse for the longest time...I can confirm this is true lol

You forgot to show her kissing Tucker on his soft nose and saying she loved him. -Former owner, "Dante's Inferno"

OMG ALWAYS LOVE THESE VIDEOS YOU DO 😅❤

Yeah, a real horseman🤣

As a female equestrian... why do I relate to the male equestrian so much if only a bit more affectionate..?

Under ten minutes!! Love your videos ❤❤❤ 👇

This was so funny thanks for making & sharing this video

The man with the saddle 😂

It's so true😂😂😂

The crickets as he groomed 🤣😆😆😂😂

So true that I couldn’t stop laughing 🤣

Lol! Loved it Carmella!

Loved this 😂

Ok so according to this video I am 100% a woman😂

I always threw a flake, or two, over the fence. I referred to it as the Olympic Hay Toss, and used to go for distance and accuracy. Extra points in hitting the horses head.

We girls always talking baby talk to the horses ❤

Normalize men protecting their brains, even in sports.

@NeonJJ_195

Ай бұрын

Normalize letting people decide for themselves whether they want to wear a helmet or not

@Warriorbob-im5py

Ай бұрын

Normalize minding your own business.

@CDN_Bookmouse

Ай бұрын

@@Warriorbob-im5py If you're too proud or stupid to protect your own brain, you require others to assist you. Put your helmet on or get off the property because your pride isn't worth losing insurance coverage over.

@NeonJJ_195

Ай бұрын

@@CDN_Bookmouse Ever thought that people may be doing this on their own property? It's really no one's business. Whether you wear a helmet or not when riding a horse is a choice everyone can make for themselves!

@horse_addictforlife_ECuestrian

Ай бұрын

@@NeonJJ_195 Of course it's better to be safe than sorry, but some people don't understand that. It may be your choice, but maybe choose the option that won't kill you?

I just want to say thank you so much because without you I wouldn't learn to sit my canter correctly and do a lot of stuff

My husband is the horseman. His conversation with the horse consists of clucking, whoa, whup, ho and a gravelly “here!” if the horse is out of line. Their names are their description: bay filly, paint gelding, 2 year old, etc.

There was not nearly enough cussing in this video for accuracy 😂

The flipper foot😂😂😂😂😂 2:38

'The tack doesn't match the saddle!' I was thinking....what does the horse care about that?!

It's accurate

This is funny! Is that your dad? He did great, haha!

@cobrebluebonnetequinechall4782

Ай бұрын

I wondered the same thing?

I enjoyed this humourous video.

Bo was my horses name lol

The way men pat horses is so true. Feels like they are hitting them to me. Ha

Oh my gosh….I’m too female! 😫

Hello 💗 I really like your new video style it's similar to short film thanks ❤

so true

Thought for sure I was a woman but I definitely match the male stereotypes for sure 😂

So true, lol. I would have left that English saddle in the rain as well.

You should tell this man to look your videos. 🤣🤣🤣

Hey im early! Love your vids

Well done

This is soo true!

Hello 💗 I really like new style video similar to short film thank you ❤

2:46 the foot caught me off guard

BRO LEFT THE SADDLE 😫😰🥹

hilarious!

At the risk of exposure may I suggest us newbies tend to baby our horses like the young lady.

Dead on!

As a woman who grew up with Shetland Ponys, everything is accurate! Except for working out. In that case, I too need to work them through it and constantly put the pressure on. ^^'

ahh finally someone who knows the book tuck everlasting! I acc thought it was just me XD

@kidamaroo

17 күн бұрын

That would’ve been awesome if the name was “Tucker’s everlasting gobstopper”

My horses all had names at their previous homes and they were all names like Herbert, Jay Jay, Milo, etc. I only ever named two of my horses, one was a very abused rescue called Casper (he was pure white) and I renamed him Pegasus, the other was an OTT, I wasn't told his name, so I called him "Belgian Chocolate", or "Chocolate" for short. He was a beautiful shade of brown. Pegasus ended up being an outstanding horse, he was a Quarter Horse x Arab and was one of the best horses I think I have ever ridden! I probably shouldn't have sold him, but I did. He went to a very good home though, to be the personal horse of another "Horse Rescue" lady.

This is literally my wife and me

(Horse after man pats him.) 🥰

This all seems soooo familiar 😅

only thing I dont agree with is the saddle in the rain. I threw my rain jacket over a saddle and got a cold because of it

I’m a gal but was a guy for my horses.

I’m not wearing that!

Tucker / Bo has unusual coloring--the white on his rump, the lighter stripe down his throat. Is there a name for that?

😂😂😂

If men could train a horse to shake hands and and say good morning we would.

🤣🤣🤣

👍👍♥️♥️

😅😂❤

English saddle in the rain no issues...My roping saddle... That's another story.

“Most men are colorblind?” Says who? Somebody tell all the fighter pilots in our military.

I'm a mix

Considering that research on rabbits shows that an unhealthy diet can be compensated for through lots of love and affection it sounds like Horses owned by women like this are likely to be healthier

I act like the guys. Lol

I plan on having 2 purebred horses one Gypsy Vanner female named Ophelia and a Clydesdale named Marlon Brando then whatever rescue horses I save I’m gonna give them food names 😅😅😅

Who's the old guy?

What the hell is an equestrian? I only know Bronc and bull riding. 😂😂😂😂

😀

Mom v's dad

@aleksa-eq

Ай бұрын

Yes I’d love to see that