The wolves are upset the Sheep aren’t reproducing

@claireh8125

Ай бұрын

They want more people to fill their prisons

@DakotaFord592

Ай бұрын

Yes because sheep are needed to pay the taxes and continue the military-industrial complex. Lol. That's how this scam works.

@tommas2674

Ай бұрын

no, gov. agencies: cdc,...will say what they want the narrative to be: here like UK, ... they want to bring in bodies, and have a bogus excuse for what they have allowed in on Americans, Brits,...

@johnfisher8401

22 күн бұрын

whats funny is that is EXACTLY what the elites want. Who do you think is pushing all this depopulation? That is quite literally exactly what they want. Depopulation agenda. So congrats, youre giving them exactly what they want.

All I hear from parents is whining and complaining about their kids. It's not a good argument for having kids when the people that have them are always miserable.

@triggered577

Ай бұрын

Exactly, Amber acts like child-free people are just out here propagating lies about ppl with children when they are literally on the internet going on about how overwhelmed they are.

@courtneysosa2999

Ай бұрын

No child is easy

@user-xm3wd8tz6d

Ай бұрын

@@courtneysosa2999we can see 😂

@TheGrimFoot

Ай бұрын

It's too expensive, and people don't have time. Products are too expensive, wages are too low, and taxes too high.

@sg5720

Ай бұрын

😂😂😂. I have two teens and hubby and I having a blast. To be honest, I love my kids, but have no desire to be around Other kids.🤷🏽‍♀️

I promised myself I'd never create a broken home. I kept that promise.

@ask_why000

Ай бұрын

No home is safe from being unbroken forever, unless you never have the courage to create one.

@user-xm3wd8tz6d

Ай бұрын

@@ask_why000it’s easy to say this not having lived through a terrible childhood. Going hungry, being physically and verbally abused. Until I was about 25 I wish I had been aborted so yeah.. you can wish to not foist that upon another creature.

@learningearning8385

Ай бұрын

@@ask_why000love a child enough to NOT willfully put them in a broken home.

@blackellegirl

Ай бұрын

@@learningearning8385no, just don’t have kids. Not everyone needs kids. I hope more people don’t have kids. The world will be a better place.

@ellec2935

Ай бұрын

It takes two people to not break home. It is not really something that one person can do. Good try though. Unless you determined to stay single.

Daycare is more than rent. And most of us can barely afford rent

@maniac50ae14

Ай бұрын

Lol, thats crazy when you think about it

@stevekern7235

Ай бұрын

Also, daycare is less safe, thanks to Woke policies. Research Maria Childress day care.

@Steve2Carla

Ай бұрын

23 years ago my husband wanted me to get a job and every job paid less than daycare cost. I applied at Kindercare and they said I could take my baby there, no discount.

@tommas2674

Ай бұрын

wow, someone taking Care of Your child ALL DAY.

@Steve2Carla

Ай бұрын

@@tommas2674 I don't understand your comment. The point is I'd actually cost money, not be home to take care of cooking, laundry, etc, and someone else would raise my kid. Also this was a long time ago and it's worse now. I went back to college instead and by the time I had a Masters my kid didn't need daycare. But it was still rough when we were on one income. And now I've got infinity school loans.

Fertility rates aren’t low!!!! WE 👏 CAN’T👏 AFFORD 👏TO 👏START 👏 A👏FAMILY

@sal36_

Ай бұрын

This ☹️💯

@gorgonismztruth1551

Ай бұрын

I have no kids and will only have kids when you sign on to agree to pay for my kids then I will have as many as you went me to have..

@apebass2215

Ай бұрын

People were poorer during the Great Depression, yet birth rates were considerably higher. I think people overestimate how expensive children are.

@bropitt

Ай бұрын

my kids agree with you

@ryanmartin73

Ай бұрын

Nope. Even the poorest people still got time to get down😂.

There is no infertility. Women are choosing not to have babies. Let the corporations have babies, since they are making all the profits.

@Kwk16534

26 күн бұрын

Well said❤❤

@umarjongi3590

17 күн бұрын

Exactly.

@LOwens-xf8yo

3 күн бұрын

Thank you! I’ve seen numerous reports on this topic and somehow effective birth control and women having choices is never mentioned.

Were paying for isrealis free Healthcare, but won't even consider paying for ours... if you want more babies, subsidize the costs

@Rowe104

Ай бұрын

We aren’t paying for Israeli healthcare- plus this decline has been going on for decades- women r simply choosing not to have children. Also that money- is less than 1% of our gdp

@davidwhite7162

Ай бұрын

Been paying the entire medical field and govt/public works of Ukraine since that war started too

@teoleno4019

Ай бұрын

That part. Americans are sending billions every year (via their tax money) to this country and no one seems to bat an eye.

@teoleno4019

Ай бұрын

@davidwhite7162 Honey, it's not Ukrainian fault their country is being invaded. They are victims. That other counry in Middle East was created by British colonizers and US government. 😒

@mrshonourable

Ай бұрын

So many places in America have dirty water. So many children getting lead poisoning!

Cost of living

@falsificationism

Ай бұрын

UPVOTING this one. N of 1 here 🙋🏽‍♂I would definitely have multiple kids by now, but I've decided not to because I can't afford to support a family. I promised myself long ago I wouldn't raise kids in poverty. I kept telling myself that eventually I'll get a better job. Eventually I'll get a raise. Eventually. Eventually. Eventually. Maybe someday.

@duartesaldanha1348

Ай бұрын

Nah! They just want to compete with China on it too 😂

@sunkillsmoon

Ай бұрын

That's definitely a big part of it, also.... feminist propaganda

@MemoTercero

Ай бұрын

Feminist propaganda! Hahahahahahahahahahaha

@alexdasliebe5391

Ай бұрын

Yes, cost of food, cost of pregnancy, cost of child birth, cost of medicine, cost of rent … everything financialized

Just had a baby. I had to pay for the hospital and my newborn at the hospital. No paid family leave so am forced to go back to work and pump there which is horrible and my baby hates the bottle. My medical premiums are $800 per month. Daycare costs are outrageous (almost $2,000!). I have never been more disgusted with America- it truly hates families, babies and children.

@middleagebrotips3454

Ай бұрын

If you breastfed Be ready when the baby is 3 years old and still wake up 2 am in the morning demanding breastfed. Bottle is not as bad as you think as you go down the years. Daycare is 1500 in my area

@krillin876

Ай бұрын

European countries that have more "family friendly policies " have the same or lower fertility..

@Grkgroup2

Ай бұрын

@@middleagebrotips3454 I only plan to breastfeed till baby is one and I can switch baby to cow’s milk. Breastfeeding is more beneficial to baby and the cost of formula is outrageous. The cost of diapers is over $100 per month. But that’s nice daycare is cheaper in your area, where I am it is $1800-$2,300. Although I think daycare should be cheaper or subsidized. We should implement the daycare model France uses for its citizens.

@middleagebrotips3454

Ай бұрын

@@krillin876 are they happy with the number of children they already have though? I know in the US people wanted more but can't/won't

@raggedflaggon9566

Ай бұрын

​@@krillin876yeah, but we are talking about people who want to have babies and can't because of costs which makes the fertility issue worse. Europeans perhaps don't want to have babies, but the ones that want to, can.

When I see the world today, NOT having kids is the absolute single best decision I have ever made. Bringing a child into this sick corporatocracy is unfathomable. This entire nation is sick

@sdrc92126

Ай бұрын

When the ordinary thought of a highly cultivated people begins to regard 'having children' as a question of pro's and con's, the great turning point has come. Oswald Spengler , _Downfall of the West_

@idnintel

Ай бұрын

​@@sdrc92126 yeah we know, this topic has been around for many years and many have realized this. As a genXER (47) seeing these changes happen to our culture is enough to make one schizophrenic or something, it is crazy, surreal and above all sad. Well, let the muslims come in and enslave the women i guess, reality assets itself (TM)

@derek4412

Ай бұрын

Home school. Homestead. Break free of the system and change your family tree forever. How could you let a sick corporatocracy dictate your family formation to you? Be free!

@Ainttrippin

Ай бұрын

@@derek4412 to homeschool you have to have money to pay for the "home" part

@user-xm3wd8tz6d

Ай бұрын

@@sdrc92126ah yes, it’s our fault and mot the people who have power and billions of dollars that caused this 😂 let it fall.

We need to stop trying to guilt people into being parents. People who really want children should have children and people who do not want children should not, should definitely not have them.

@adithalee8660

Ай бұрын

The problem is that I believe most ppl want marriage, love and babies. But if u don’t have a safe good economy like the American economy then most ppl would rather not have babies or be married, plus they’re talking about microchipping ppl and most people know that’s Revelation and leads to ppl becoming computers and becoming slaves to a system that values machines over humans.Any loving person would not want that for their kid.

As a mom of a special needs child, in THIS country your life IS OVER when you have kids. Going to an autism awareness event cost us $80; all we can do go to work…

@BiGenXGardener

Ай бұрын

♥️

@user-nn4er5wn5h

12 күн бұрын

And the fact you will basically never have a month off for the rest of your life, that is tough. Every single mom I talk too, has always no retirement, doesn't save, is stressed out and can't afford to do anything

Given the current status of America, for an average person having children is borderline irresponsible, sad to say thst.

@Play4keeks

Ай бұрын

Thank you. This was very well said.

There’s no economic stability for average working class Americans. Many people do not want to bring a child into the world when they don’t feel confident that they have job and housing security. Even if you manage to stay afloat the lack of stability can be so terrifying for the children. I was 8 when the 1990 recession happened and I’ve never felt secure since then. They can pull the rug out from under you anytime and I’ve seen a lot of people get permanently locked out of jobs other than the most low paying ones because if you go to many months without finding a new position you basically get black listed. Employers start thinking there must be something wrong with the individual for being out of work too many months even when the individual has great work experience. Plus in corporate America there is a high risk pf being forced into early retirement in your 50s or early 60s when you are nowhere near financially ready to retire.

@gorgonismztruth1551

Ай бұрын

I have no kids and will only have kids when you sign on to agree to pay for my kids then I will have as many as you went me to have..

@DolphinWithIgloo-fg3ow

Ай бұрын

It’s easy to have kids today than ever before. Before vaccines about 49% died before five. Take away modern appliances, running water, and electricity, it was @$@! raising kids. People just don’t want to make the sacrifice that those before us made.

@jeremyhelbing

Ай бұрын

For many Americans, they may not be financially stable enough to have children until they are over 35 and for many women that can be extremely difficult if not too late. Just like our government, big business is selling the future so they can extra profitable today.

@tommas2674

Ай бұрын

all I see are bodies Everywhere and with 2 to 5 + "Kids" crowded. who believes ANYTHING that comes out of lefty globalist (cdc) despots say, and the are deliberately BAD with numbers, stats,...

@teoleno4019

Ай бұрын

If America wants more babies, they should have government ruined daycares that are free. Until then, nothing will change. It is not sign of high inteligence to have kids at this time.

Because a lot of women are raising their kids by themselves. The childfree women see this and they don't want to struggle like their single mom friends do.

@justicevibes1252

Ай бұрын

@@bennyblanco5555 I never said "I don't need a man." He doesn't want to be in his son's life.

@justicevibes1252

Ай бұрын

@@bennyblanco5555 Because kids should be raised in a two parent household not with one parent. Can't force someone to be a parent.

@justicevibes1252

Ай бұрын

@@bennyblanco5555 So knowing you have a child and never making an effort to meeting him is okay? Not being there for the birth. He didn't try to fight for custody. Not everyone's situation is the same. I tried very hard to convince his father to be in my son's life because I was abandoned by my mom. He doesn't want to be a father so I'm taking responsibility and I'm financially stable which is great.

@justicevibes1252

Ай бұрын

@@bennyblanco5555 yeah that's what you guys always say lol. You're so perfect.

@user-nn4er5wn5h

12 күн бұрын

​@@justicevibes1252you can beg and find middle ground

I was raised with the mindset "be able to support yourself and any children you bring into this world. I went to college and had a good paying job, but i never reached the point where i felt i could afford children.

@gorgonismztruth1551

Ай бұрын

I have no kids and will only have kids when you sign on to agree to pay for my kids then I will have as many as you went me to have..

@canadianroots7681

Ай бұрын

Note…. I’m now 50 and that shipped sailed. No, I don’t regret not having children since I do have a great life.

@sedfcfthhjy

Ай бұрын

​@@canadianroots7681You could still try to have children. It's never too late. You can be a vessel.

@blackellegirl

Ай бұрын

@@sedfcfthhjyum, no. She said that ship sailed and she is fine with that.

@jmszoom

Ай бұрын

THIS! Exactly this, I’m 37 and I have never wanted kids. Sure, my Barbie’s and toy horses had babies all the time, but I never had the interest, and I also love kids! I refuse to live off of the government just to have a family and make weirdos worried about our population decline happy. I see this as a blessing. I’m one of the people who see our world as overpopulated, meaning, we don’t have the resources to take care of those of us who are here now, why the F would I bring another human into this mess. Things are rapidly shifting for our country, there won’t even be social security money for my generation. I’m just glad my parents have theirs. I made the right decision and no one can change my mind or make me feel bad about it.

Women dont want to risk getting pregnant when they could die if they miscarriage. Not to mention who can afford to have kids with corporations price gouging every one!

@heba5858

Ай бұрын

I wonder if everyone thinks like this when they get into a car and drive to work everyday. Do they not drive because they would die on the road? No. No one lives like this unless they are finding excuses not to do something. There is something really wrong with society and how it's set up which is leading this ongoing low fertility rate.

@blackellegirl

Ай бұрын

@@heba5858 no being pregnant is very risky for women. You are physically affected by that birth for the rest of your life in some way.

@jaqoncee6670

Ай бұрын

@@heba5858So you don't understand how a woman's body is affected after birth?

@heba5858

Ай бұрын

@@jaqoncee6670 I know this is part of life and any changes that a woman goes through is normal and can be overcome. Women don't have children to remain the same as they did before giving birth. Having children changes everything, not just a woman's body. This frame of thinking that you are trying to impose is exactly the type of excuse I heard from young women when they were trying to convince themselves to NOT have kids. Those same women are now in their early 30s and unable to find someone to marry and have kids with. THIS EXACT FRAME OF THINKING is what is causing women to lose out on growing as a woman.

@Ganymede_I

Ай бұрын

We got other things to do. Ah, and also, we no longer want to birth our predators.

The less financially secure you are, the wiser decision is to have less or no kids. I’m expensive enough on my own, so no kids.

A box a diapers is over $50 that’s ridiculous

@apebass2215

Ай бұрын

Then use re-useable cloth diapers.

@julimontfort5693

Ай бұрын

Where are you buying diapers?

@Grkgroup2

Ай бұрын

That’s a good deal at Costco except two Costco boxes are over $100 per month. Don’t forget the cost of formula.

@Grkgroup2

Ай бұрын

@@julimontfort5693That’s the cost of diapers at Costco.

@Grkgroup2

Ай бұрын

@@apebass2215you don’t have children do you?

When it costs 300k annual salary after tax to raise a family of 4. Most cannot afford it.

This news story coming from WOMEN is crazy… Ladies please be realistic and don’t just have a baby because America told you it’s okay. Listen to stories from women who had kids without money, a job, a home , or a supportive partner…because ANYTHING can happen. Do what’s best for you

@tif8266

Ай бұрын

@bennyblanco5555 would you rather have weak and dependent woman? Just curious

What is conveniently overlooked in this discussion is that social media has given young women an unprecedented look into what motherhood and marriage looks like and it does not look very appealing. Lackluster schools, undisciplined children, cost of living, and weaponized incompetence on the part of the men makes freedom look far more appealing to young women now. The commentator mentioned that child free people’s lives seem “empty” to her, however she is so far off base with this assumption that it’s laughable.

@ChanceX74

Ай бұрын

If young women think something like undisciplined children is the fault of the children, that just might be part of the problem. "Weaponized incompetence on the part of men" just means you've watching too much television for 50 years. If anything is being weaponized, it's the idea that men are incompetent when it comes to kids vs reality. The content of your comment reveals so much about your own conditioning; I'll give you schools and cost of living, though.

@karenmassey8354

Ай бұрын

@@ChanceX74 If weaponized incompetence and the prevention or lack of discipline weren’t a REAL problem more women would be having children though. There are many, many videos on social media of women detailing the incompetence of their husbands/boyfriends. Not acknowledging this is one of the main reasons why so many young women are not having children.

@karenmassey8354

Ай бұрын

@@ChanceX74 Furthermore I will add that young women are not blind. They see the way men talk about them, marriage and children online. Most of what men say makes being with them and having children by them extremely unappealing. I’m just being honest here.

@karenmassey8354

Ай бұрын

@@ChanceX74 If you guys want young women to be more interested in having children and think that my perspective is incorrect, then you guys need to do a much better job of uplifting positive male voices, the voices of men who value women, marriage, and family. You guys have allowed toxic, transactional male voices to completely take over relationship spaces and no woman in her right mind will willingly deal with a man who she knows is going to mistreat her and her children unless she has very low self-esteem, and trying to break down young women’s self-esteem is not the solution either. The women who claim that childfree people’s lives are “empty” are completely unaware of what life is like without children or attachment to a man because they have not lived it.

@TijaunaK

Ай бұрын

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Women in states with abortion bans know that a difficult pregnancy can be a death sentence. Medical personnel are refusing to treat women in emergency rooms with crisis pregnancies because they don't want the legal exposure. I live in Texas. It is happening here.

@Kwk16534

26 күн бұрын

Thank you for speaking out and keep speaking out so the pro-lifers realize the Republican Party doesn't care about them

There’s no economic stability for average working class Americans. - #1 reason

@skylinefever

18 күн бұрын

This is why I joke "CEO demands Americans have more babies. CEO needs laborers who can't afford to strike."

Also, true story I was 71/2 months pregnant when my husband lost is job. We lost our medical insurance. I went on Medicaid for my pregnancy but NO DOCTOR would take me because I was too far along in my pregnancy because of their own insurance rules...I had to just show up in the emergency room when I was in Labor and the nurses had to run around and ask if anyone could deliver my child... I had NO access to care during those last few months, I am lucky that I didn't have any thing go wrong but I was so scared, I didn't know what to do. It was a terrifying experience.

@missdesireindependance5194

Ай бұрын

You should have went to a charity hospital. You would not have had an issue.

@bennyblanco5555

Ай бұрын

You’re strong and independent

There’s a whole different take on this.. A generation of women AND men are saying no, I’d rather be single. Correlation between marriage and birth rate..

@bennyblanco5555

Ай бұрын

Women are strong and independent

@IC0605236

Ай бұрын

@@bennyblanco5555 Agreed. And modern men would rather go to the lake in silence (While saving up money for the next trip to Thailand or Brazil). 😎🤫

@bennyblanco5555

Ай бұрын

@@IC0605236 yes

A big reason for opting out is the risk no longer being worth the reward. Men can walk away from their families at any time, no problem. If women try that, they're charged with child abuse, endangerment and abandonment. Having a child is only permanent for women. That type of finality and no way out makes having children way less appealing. And that doesn't even go into the nightmare of what being a single mother is actually like.

@bennyblanco5555

Ай бұрын

I thought you were strong and independent?

@1_star_reviews

Ай бұрын

@@bennyblanco5555Strong, independent and child free should be the norm for most people

@vadeepest07

Ай бұрын

Women also gain the most assets and finances through divorce, child support, and alimony. A women is at every single statistically advantage with federal and state aide, in 2015 only 3% of all alimony was paid to men, 97% of the time women will receive alimony. Look up child custody or ebt recipients...

@jennyperpa5302

Ай бұрын

@@vadeepest07 EBT recipients have to be almost dirt poor to get EBT. All those gains get eaten up from the cost of raising a tiny human. There's a reason why so many single mothers are either at or below the poverty line.

@alicia.george

29 күн бұрын

@@bennyblanco5555 OP never said they were strong and independent… smh men and women in the country need to get over their bitterness and resentment towards each-other and love eachother

The billionaires can afford babies let them have them.

@spaceballs44

23 күн бұрын

They don’t want kids cause they will have to talk and see them every once In awhile.

@whitneyanders5945

14 күн бұрын

The billionaire tech class are part of the new wave of non religious pro natalists. They want lots of kids. Read an article about it the other day with one pro natalist saying the future is autistic, nerdy tech people having at least seven kids each. They don’t believe in god, they just believe in populating the earth with smart techy kids

Actually it's cheaper to get a dog. NO MORE BABIES

Who wants to raise a family in these dire economic times and political conditions?

@derrickjoe1872

Ай бұрын

Who cares more about economics and politics than family? I'd rather live in a tent with 10 kids than live in a mansion alone.

@UnderhillKoufax

Ай бұрын

@@derrickjoe1872, I understand your point, but economic and political considerations are very real, including getting a home/apartment, feeding mouths, living in safe spaces, education, communications, living wages, childcare, and living conditions.

@derrickjoe1872

Ай бұрын

@@UnderhillKoufax I would agree that they are real, and even important, I just wouldn't suggest that they are more important than a family. I would rather live in a tent with 10 kids that will live on after my death and hopefully make something better of themselves, than to die alone in my mansion with a garage full of sports cars.

@UnderhillKoufax

Ай бұрын

@@derrickjoe1872, Would you want to start a family if you lived in Gaza now? That is an extreme example of atrocious economic and political conditions. In the US, many people are struggling mightily to survive in a gig economy with no healthcare and high inflation.

@derrickjoe1872

Ай бұрын

@@UnderhillKoufax I would be even more determined to start a family, knowing that my time to do so may be limited.

Odd how men are excluded from this analysis. Sometimes women are opting out of children or more than 1 child. But sometimes the man in the relationship doesn't want a child or multiple children. Sometimes it's both

@melissasoey2203

Ай бұрын

I agree. It's not only women not wanting children, men too don't want them nowdays.

@Lisacant-365

Ай бұрын

​@@melissasoey2203Facts

@MsTy2908

Ай бұрын

It's not odd, men can NOT want kids but still choose to want to do the act of producing children with women,.. VS Women are not wanting children period , ..which means increasing BC, abstinence/ celibacy in which prevents anything coming out of her body wanted or not.. the men put the decision in the womens hands literally either way, and more women are choosing to stop the act all together, or for longer periods of time. Taking full control of their body!! and less chances of being a single mother or a struggling wife!! I love this for women! .. no struggle love or broken promises to way her down

@bennyblanco5555

Ай бұрын

@@MsTy2908 I thought you were strong and independent though?

@theultimatereductionist7592

Ай бұрын

I know, right, apolytes?

We are a country of renters now, and buying a house is not possible for the majority. When you rent, there is no feeling of stability as landlords have been jacking up rates forcing families on the streets. Children need that stability, and people do not want to bring a child in this world to suffer. There are so many other reasons, but in the end, when animals are stressed, they dont reproduce. Come up with as many excuses as you want, people are all saying the same thing. Only big business can fix this as they own the government. Goodluck, I have no offspring due to this, which makes it even worse because now I could care less about all of it as I have no kids to inherit this disaster.

@skylinefever

18 күн бұрын

I love telling "Conservative" types that they would have to break the Blackrocks and Vanguards.

@umarjongi3590

17 күн бұрын

Stop paying taxes and let the world burn.

Because we have no money and people don't want to try to raise a child with no money.

It can cost north of $10k out of pocket just for delivery alone. This isn't some great mystery here.

The research says married men are happiest.. and single childless womena re the happiest. Please get the facts right.

Fertility isn’t the problem, the issue at hand is the lack of financial and healthcare support for people having children. Starting with the cost of appointments before giving birth, having to go to work until one gives birth, the expense of healthcare for a child, having to take time off work and be paid less, the cost of childcare once parents go back to work, the cost of housing, the cost of raising kids, , the cost of housing a family with kids, and expense of kids in activities and student loans (if the child goes to college). Once the child graduates from college, it may be difficult to obtain housing which does not cost 50% of earnings and then the child may start the cycle again when they have a child or children. I forgot to mention the mortality rate of women giving birth in the U.S. is shamefully high compared to other developed countries.

@bennyblanco5555

Ай бұрын

I thought the women were strong and independent?

@pastelpepe

Ай бұрын

@@bennyblanco5555 which is why we have the strength and independence to say “NO” to having kids

@Kwk16534

26 күн бұрын

God bless you for speaking the truth so eloquently

@bennyblanco5555

23 күн бұрын

@@pastelpepe sure you do

Too much chemicals in food, things are way too expensive to afford more than 2 kids, people are scared to bring kids in this world with the threat of wars every other day. Take your pick.

@Neo__The__Tv_

Ай бұрын

It's sad that this isn't even a full list of all the reasons.

@ZachMorris2035

Ай бұрын

​@@Neo__The__Tv_exactly, we're in a perfect storm of dysfunction in our society right now. The East meanwhile, have taken the reigns of humanity.

@RockyWarhol

Ай бұрын

My brain goes to? Why is the liberal embarrassing us again by saying her brain goes to and then no evidence? She told you the reason why. People make choices. This trend is happening all over the world for decades already. It was projected to happen for exactly the reasons that the conservative stated. Liberals used to care about science and evidence. If you're not going to be serious about it you're not going to be able to help. Warn women in college what is happening to their cohort so they can choose. The largest category of women without children had planned on having children but waited too long. My family is dealing with this. It's heartbreaking. They want families but didn't realize how bad their odds were later in life. They didn't know. This is them saying that.

@natashi7511

Ай бұрын

If that was the case Africa and the South Americans would be extinct

@pwetty4r4

Ай бұрын

To extrapolate on the food chemicals part...PCOS is an epidemic. Alot of women are struggling with fertility issues. Diet plays a huge role

Least surprising story ever. Just the act of having a baby in this country can cost tens of thousands of dollars. A procedure which is free or nearly so in every developed country. Not to mention the cascade of costs that come as children get older.

@justingibbons2696

Ай бұрын

Most developed countries send mothers home with large boxes of supplies when the leave the hospital as well as provide maternity leave. The United States is the biggest joke on the planet.

Most of my young married with children friends (30s) are miserable. And these are successful couples. What people need to be taught is that it's an individual choice. I'm 73 and never been married or had kids and I've had and still have a fulfilling life. I never wanted it and I'm glad I could make that choice. But many friends it's all they ever wanted. There's no "right" way.

@ellec2935

Ай бұрын

Agreed. People need to do what they want to do and stop doing what other people Tell them to do or what they think society wants them to do. Nothing makes people more miserable than trying to live a life for someone else.

Going through pregnancy is bad enough, but having to pay directly for huge medical costs, outrageous daycare costs, no maternity leave………I’m surprised that any American woman has children AT ALL.

The cost of childcare and housing are out of control. Women have been saying this for years. Women want to have more children but our society doesn’t support women and families.

@ladyeowyn42

Ай бұрын

Indeed. I could have had a second child, but that’s the point where moms usually abandon careers. Not worth the risk.

@sdrc92126

Ай бұрын

I know dirt poor people with big successful families. They didn't have anything growing up, one guy I know, successful international lawyer, never had running water and and they only had an outhouse. And yes I know about the poor druggy families kith kids in Jail. It's about priorities

@agravery223

Ай бұрын

​@@sdrc92126outliers make poor anecdotal arguments. Most poor people remain that way because this isn't 70 years ago when getting out of poverty didn't entail what it does today. Boomers always tell you how easy it used to be to raise a family on 1 income. Guess what- that's not factual in the 21st century. Most people will NOT be able to afford a house in their 20s with 3 kids. Why are you being so disingenuous?!

@TijaunaK

Ай бұрын

@@sdrc92126 If you want to struggle, by all means do so. It's not HONORABLE nor is it FUNCTIONAL to have and raise kids in impoverished circumstances.

@Play4keeks

Ай бұрын

​@@sdrc92126it is about priorities. I think ppl are prioritizing their health and well being over being parents. I don't think that's a problem. We have no obligation to have children.

I think part of it might be that some young people are looking at what the future for their offspring could be, and it's looking like the world will be worse for their potential kids. The climate might be cooked, the government in the US is turning more authoritarian and won't do anything for it's citizens.

@derrickjoe1872

Ай бұрын

If everyone through history thought that way, humanity wouldn't exist now. There has definitely been worse times throughout history, and people pushed along. Genetic suicide doesn't solve the world's problem, unless your genetics are the problem I guess.

@jbak87

Ай бұрын

Don't forget PLANDEMICS and MANDATORY "VACCINATIONS"

@omegaone65

Ай бұрын

Citizens today pharmaceutical guinea pigs tomorrow😅

As the Roman Empire declined, so did the birthrate. They tried to pass laws and even subsidize the proles. The problem was the economy and society itself (i.e. morality) were collapsing.

@kellharris2491

Ай бұрын

They expanded to large and to fast and went under because of internal issues. Also that was when the Christians were in charge.

@CS-bu7lo

Ай бұрын

Nah, it was Justinian 's deadly plague that brought out the colapse. Before reliable birth control, women had about 10 kids each ( if they didn't die in childbirth before number 10), but only 3-4 reached 18 y.o. The rest died of diseases, wars, etc.

The future doesn't need as many worker bees. AI and robotics are going to make most of us redundant.

I feel like the “sneering & nasty” behavior she’s talking about from people without kids towards parents is when the parents are failing to reign in their kids and enforce the parent/child power dynamic. When you’re 6 and you’re out in public with your Mom and she says “Honey you need to be quiet and polite, mommy is trying to do X” you listen because you’re learning by example how to behave in public, with composure and compassion for those you’re sharing the public space with. Often children anymore are unruly in public and parents offer a dismissive “that’s just how he is” or ignore it. I have the pleasure of working in a clinic and see a ton of well mannered kids that really give me hope for the future! However I also see a lot of kids who need to be reminded how to treat others with kindness. It’s worst exemplified when the parents get mad at YOU for not tolerating their baby’s ill manners.

@skylinefever

18 күн бұрын

Indeed, the childfree subreddit is full of people who realize they don't hate kids, they hate when useless parents enable the brattiness of their kids.

Remember folks, the system needs taxpayers, consumers, wage slaves, and soldiers! Better pop em out! 🤰🏻🤰🏻🤰🏻

@natashi7511

Ай бұрын

Well if you don't the corporations will just import low wage, low skill workers from the third world to man the factories. The idea that creating a family is only beneficial to corporations rather than a necessary part of human existence is insane

@triggered577

Ай бұрын

@@natashi7511Those of us who don’t want kids don’t care about the prolonging of human existence.

@johndeaux3703

Ай бұрын

@@natashi7511 What factories? Almost all the factories are in Mexico or China.

@antinatalistwitch111

Ай бұрын

​@natashi7511 then get to it ...😊

@MB-xv7er

Ай бұрын

@ natashi7511 Well thanks to feminism corporations are already supporting illegals and giving them housing. That’s already been an issue for years and it’s worse now

Babies are an expensive permanent cost. That hits different in this economy. Let's not forget society is anything but safe.

Child care is unaffordable for most. You should be talking about it. Wages have stagnated. College loans. Housing costs. It’s difficult for young couples.

@bennyblanco5555

Ай бұрын

Women are strong and independent?

Shortage of reliable men to help earn money, remain faithful, assist in child rearing. Reluctance of both political parties to prioritize paid parental leave.

@deedelta9263

Ай бұрын

Of course, like all things, even women given birth is somehow men’s fault. What else is new? Sorry, what else is men’s fault?

@johnwinchester6934

Ай бұрын

PS I'm not even saying that its bad, but the argument that its just about the economy and finances is silly. Income has rarely throughout history been the deciding factor in marriage and birth rates.

@treya5303

Ай бұрын

@@johnwinchester6934That is true, it was survival. Technology has hidden survival from the decision.

Why? Do you really need to ask? If you don't know if you are going to have a job tomorrow, aka health insurance and money for rent and food and everything else, how can you have a kid?

@Kwk16534

26 күн бұрын

Exactly you have to be a in a position of some stability before you would even contemplate having a child❤❤

WHY? The cost of living and this generation of dating is disgusting that’s WHY

@cityofjerusalem8824

18 күн бұрын

So aweful

It's our food supply. The modern farming practices have depleted the soils so that the food is depleted in important nutrients like magnesium. Additionally, the seed oils, but especially soybean oil (unnatural omega-3 to omega-6 ratio) is extremely disruptive to the microbiome affecting us with a wide variety of issues including depression, anxiety, adhd, autism. Etc. The processed flour that makes our bread, pasta, baked goods is made with "dead flour" (grain where the germ and bran are extracted). Then there are the chemicals like glyphosate. Plastics, pcbs in the seafood.

If you want families, you have to support people having families. We don't, so we have fewer families.

@bennyblanco5555

Ай бұрын

Women are strong and independent

@whitneyanders5945

14 күн бұрын

Exactly! Keep on preaching! It’s the men folk who truly need women, not the other way around.

Until kids can become earners again we're not making a dent in the replacement birthrate.

@Kwk16534

25 күн бұрын

No child labor it's disgusting

Did Jessica just say that women don't need to be girl-bosses? Mark this date in your calendar! 😳

@sergeantwilliepete2252

Ай бұрын

My favorite part is women HAD to work - as thought women didn't FIGHT to work through first wave feminism.

@xanders.3810

Ай бұрын

@@cassiescornerreviews6884 no one’s reading your essay

@thereallazygirl

Ай бұрын

she's saying this to other women while working and having her own money . the hypocrisy is real

@rickypv2978

Ай бұрын

6:24

@TijaunaK

Ай бұрын

@@sergeantwilliepete2252 Fighting for equality is not the same as having to work. But, I forgot, you're probably only referring to white women. 🤣

Most of their reasons was pointing the finger at and blaming Americans when it’s America. The cost of living is ridiculous, you either have a great paying job or work 60+ hours a week just to pay bills. We don’t even have time to ourselves yet along time for children. We only have 12 hours in a day and most of us are working those full 12 hours a night/ day then sleeping the rest of the hours away. The food is doped up with steroids, even the vegetables and fruit. A studio apartment is $900 in Texas. Average cost of groceries is $900 a month. People no longer receiving taxes and most have to pay back taxes. Even with health insurance, you paying hundreds of dollars in copay and medicine. Daycare is $600+ a month for one child, and jobs are posting fake hiring events just so they can receive government funding. It’s ridiculous

has someone who doesn't have kids. I'm enjoying my life.

@derrickjoe1872

Ай бұрын

But will you be proud on your deathbed?

@kirylspence1190

Ай бұрын

​@@derrickjoe1872what makes you think people will be around on your deathbed?

@derrickjoe1872

Ай бұрын

@@kirylspence1190 when did I say people would be around on your deathbed? I asked if you would be proud on your deathbed. A majority of the time a joyful life doesn't really account for anything when on your deathbed. Fun experiences are only fun during the experience. That fun doesn't extend through life until death, and fun does not usually equal something to be proud of. To be satisfied and proud on your deathbed normally requires having accomplished something great that will live on after death, creating something great that will live on after death, or having a family that will live on after death. Outside of the few people who really do something that changes the world, most people don't have anything significant to be proud of other than their family. Where they are when you die doesn't matter, know that you literally created them matters, and that a piece of you will continue on the earth long after your death. People need some form of legacy to be proud and satisfied. Big houses, nice cars, loads of money and beers with friends on the weekends isn't something to be proud of. If definitely doesn't give dying people satisfaction.

@jeremymartis

Ай бұрын

@@derrickjoe1872 Death is the last thing I will be worrying about. kids are nice to be around, but I don't have the time, energy & money for kids. I'm happy that other people want & enjoy having kids. kids are a big responsibility.

@Play4keeks

Ай бұрын

​@@jeremymartisa huge responsibility. There is a lot of cognitive dissonance ppl experience. Them: "Don't have kids until you can afford them." Us: "Ok" (living happily without children) Them: " When are you going to have kids?" Or " If you keep waiting you'll die alone" Us: " Ok" continuing to live happily child free Them: " Hurry up and have kids" Us: " No, I can't afford them and I'm happy without them" Them: " You are selfish" 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Make it make sense

This world is getting worse everyday. Its a scary world to bring kids into. I agree the cost of living is ridiculous. Its near impossible to buy a home without two very good incomes coming in. Aside from the economy, i see WAYY TOO MANY people who don’t deserve kids who have them and it just breaks my heart when i see children brought into this world to suffer. So im actually glad to hear that people are not having kids. Ive been saying it for a while, not everyone should be able to have kids. If there was a fee we had to pay to have children there would not be so many kids growing up with garbage parents. It’s even sadder that no one including these women in the video mention anything about it. Alot of people forget that they are human beings too who cant defend themselves and they are basically expected to deal with things or get used to it most of the time because no one cares how kids feel

Women staying home is progressive? Next we’ll be told staying married and remaining near extended family to have assistance with children is progressive.

@rogerward801

Ай бұрын

Maybe they aren't progressive or regressive. Maybe they're just choices

@Marypam2023

Ай бұрын

Are you a mother!? Let mothers talk on this topic! I wished I could stay home with my baby longer and resume work once he is at least a year old. Something other developed countries offer to their mother! And I am a person who’s been in school post gratuities for 8 years with a PhD and high career inspiration! But once I became mother nothing matters more to me than the physical and emotional health of my baby!

@lauren6509

Ай бұрын

Women have stayed home for centuries. Nobody frowns upon stay at home moms but the men who call them gold diggers. This video is full of misinformation and cherry picked facts.

@Ravi-rl8tt

Ай бұрын

Women having choices is progressive, yes.

YIKES to everyone on this program. Whenever someone starts talking about how 'women were set up for failure' by the pursuit of a better life, more freedom, and stronger finances, I know who they think they're teaching.

@whitneyanders5945

14 күн бұрын

And yet here they are enjoying the fruits of equality for women by being professionals with educations and a platform for their voices. If they practiced what they preached they’d be at home pregnant with their next child, being a homemaker.

Its not just financial i bought a tesla, travel, soon to get a passport as well. Im 29 dont even consider pursuing anybody because there's things i want in this life. You need to love yourself and live the life you want

Who would want to have children in these times???? Our government is letting all this chaos go on!!! I DON'T BLAME THEM!!!

@bennyblanco5555

Ай бұрын

You’re strong and independent

@virgomoonchild6302

Ай бұрын

@@bennyblanco5555 my kids are adults!!!! And your mother is strong and independent too🤣🤣

@bennyblanco5555

Ай бұрын

@@virgomoonchild6302 make up your mind either you’re strong and independent or you’re not

So you blame women for not wanting kids... ok.... how you explain death rate in younger ages jumped up too? Maybe there something else going on?

@internetstudios5536

Ай бұрын

You mean the high depression and suicide rates among young people? Also nobody is making women into becoming mothers, don’t understand the blaming women for not wanting kids argument.

@lisafox4795

Ай бұрын

@@internetstudios5536 i mean strokes, blood clots , heart attack and cancer all got highest rate ever. Thanks for pointing out high rate of mental problems in addition to that.

The same people that complain about social safety nets, and hate abortion + birth control, abhor you for waiting until you are financially ready. I grew up poor, and waited. Currently in my late 30's in a great relationship and career moment trying to have a baby. I wanted to wait "until the right time" to make such a commitment. Capitalisms trajectory doesn't work for most of us - Married Software Engineer in her late 30's wanting to have a baby in a broken world

@jayeckson

Ай бұрын

This! The mixed messaging some people promote around having kids is insane. If you have kids while young and poor, you're irresponsible trash who deserves the hardships. But if that same woman instead decides to delay kids, then she must be a selfish feminist brainwashed by modern society. It's a lose lose situation, those people will negatively judge you either way. 🤷‍♀️ P.S. Good luck to you! I also grew up poor and waited, am in my mid 30s now and finally financially stable, and I just had my first babies, two beautiful twin girls. There are lots of us out there!

@MB-xv7er

Ай бұрын

Having a baby when you have a great career is still a mistake because your job can and will easily replace you especially since you’re already up in age

I don't know what you guys are talking about. I just never wanted kids. I don't live a fancy life travelling and eating out every day. I just work a regular job. I do my lunch boxes and live a regular life minus kids. I think people these days are realizing that it's not mandatory to have kids if you don't want to.

Idaho says you can lose a few organs and have permanent damage to your body before you can get medical care if your pregnancy goes wrong. Would you want to risk it?

@billsmith9737

Ай бұрын

Like you live in Idaho

@Steve2Carla

Ай бұрын

@@billsmith9737 I'm not going to get pregnant either. My kid is 22. This video is not about me personally. Did you think it was?

@billsmith9737

Ай бұрын

@@Steve2Carla like anyone would bed you anyway

@l.w.paradis2108

Ай бұрын

​@@billsmith9737??? oh brother You're an ad for baby daddy.

@billsmith9737

Ай бұрын

@@l.w.paradis2108 I don’t know what that means good try tho

I don’t know why this video popped up on my feed but I must say that it was eye opening. I was shocked that it’s still women out here using these archaic talking points in regards to feminism. Women aren’t having children because we have opened our eyes and we see the world for what it really is. We are tired of being treated like cattle and second class citizens. This current system isn’t working. We’re over it ✌🏽

I have to push back on Amber even if I endorse her general message. Having children does not make one happier, or less happy. It can make one either. "Essentially, the evidence we have suggests that having children can make you happier. It also can make you feel unhappy, or constantly stressed, or anxious, and so on. Overall, it seems like having children makes your emotional experiences more intense than if you don’t have them. The highs are higher, the lows are lower, and whether that sounds like a good deal to you is your choice entirely." Source: BBC Science Focus, May 14, 2023.

The future looks pretty grim. We're being poisoned 24/7, environmental breakdown, political corruption and corruption in general, etc, etc. Bringing a child into this mess, knowing what they'll have to face, seems heartless. I have younger grandchildren, my heart breaks for them and the worry I feel is hard to cope with. The only thing that gives me any hope atm is RFK running for president.

Jessica Burbank seem to think that this was about the fertility of women who want to reproduce, but then y'all seem to be actually talking about two different things, fertility rate, and desire to reproduce. Speculating about pesticides and other stuff is absurd if you haven't even verified that the rate of fertility of women trying to have a baby has gone down.

@zahraelhatt6657

Ай бұрын

I know plenty of women who want to have kids but can't.

So many reasons for this. It’s the lack of support that women receive from their hospitals,their jobs, their men, society. I have one and it’s not even worth trying to have more right now like I thought I would.

@bennyblanco5555

Ай бұрын

You’re strong and independent

Infertility is extremly common these days. I'm seeing women in their mid to late twenties having to pay 10k for fertility treatments. I know my wife and I have been trying for almost two years and she just turned 30.

@michellebudd5176

Ай бұрын

Did you get the Covid vaccine?

@weaselsoup3105

Ай бұрын

@@michellebudd5176 yeah. We were both forced to get it for work.

@middleagebrotips3454

Ай бұрын

Samsung hired a lot of highschool grad girls to work their semiconductor plants and a lot of them were infertile until they quit

@CS-bu7lo

Ай бұрын

​@@michellebudd5176My co-workers got the Pfizer shot and many women in their 40's had surprise pregnancies ( none were trying, some had teenage kids, some had none and thought they were infertile). The kids came out healthy. So who knows...

It’s not anything that’s in the food. It’s the high cost-of-living.

@d.p.9567

Ай бұрын

Our food is toxic kid. Pay attention.

@dacloffeblack

Ай бұрын

Can’t both be true?

@l.w.paradis2108

Ай бұрын

You're right about the cost of living being more important, but there are problems with food and clean water.

@limitisillusion7

Ай бұрын

It can be both, but the more important question to ask is if one is causally linked to the other. Is unhealthy nutrition causing the bad economy? Or is the bad economy causing the unhealthy nutrition? I would argue the former is true. I would argue that poor nutrition leads to fear-driven fight or fight behaviors that encourage us to create an economy based on greed. That greed ultimately leads to a vicious cycle of unsustainable wealth inequality where people can't afford to provide for children. "You are what you eat."

@l.w.paradis2108

Ай бұрын

@limitisillusion7 Interesting perspective . . . A functioning government would research this, for everyone's well being, especially the youngest. If this turned out to be true, "don't color me shocked!"

Ummm hello - women FOUGHT for the right to enter the workforce. "Women were forced..." NOOOOOOOO - WOMEN FOUGHT FOR IT!

@christinatichenor9721

Ай бұрын

Women fought for the right to have the option to support ourselves independently, back when a man’s single income could support a family and a woman’s lesser wages would at least support a single woman. We did NOT fight for the “right” to need to work full time while bearing and rearing children regardless of whether we are single or with partner.

@sergeantwilliepete2252

Ай бұрын

@@christinatichenor9721 Sounds to me you want the POWER of men, the privileges of women, and the RESPONSIBILITIES of neither. Men are making money to SUPPORT FAMILIES - you were NOT fighting for the RESPONSIBILITIES. Why does a woman NEED to make the exact same amount if she had no "intentions" of taking on family responsibilities? In other words, women wanted veto POWER against their husbands, but still want men to take on the full burden of responsibilities. I'll let you answer that question. What were you planning on doing with the money? What you just described in a situation DEVOID of responsibilities.

@TijaunaK

Ай бұрын

Both of you in this comment thread want to have it BOTH ways. 🤣

@bennyblanco5555

Ай бұрын

Hahahaha

@bennyblanco5555

Ай бұрын

@@christinatichenor9721 I thought that you were strong and independent?

Who cares? It’s expensive enough to live each day and kids are expensive

Houses are completely unaffordable right now.

40 and higher... Tells you a lot

They are concerned but low birth rates OH REALLY? They should be concerned with the cost of living. Because low birth rates are a result of the high cost of living.

@skylinefever

18 күн бұрын

They might figure that since many people lived in mud hts and made 5 kids, affordability does not matter.

@Lisacant-365

17 күн бұрын

@@skylinefever I'm not saying affordability is the only reason why birth rates are declining but it's definitely one of the main reasons.

@skylinefever

17 күн бұрын

@@Lisacant-365 I am just pointing out the stupidity of critics.

During the agricultural economy, which lasted for thousands of years, kids were economic assets. Free farm labor. So people pumped out a lot of them. The Industrial Revolution and the Tech Revolution turned kids into an economic burden. So people are having fewer of them. This is the main reason. If kids were still an economic benefit, the birth rates would still be sky high.

@Ryshaad

Ай бұрын

This is the part so many people don't even realize. Kids were almost always a "blessing" before, for the the free/cheap labor and due to societal norms at the time, were also your retirement/social security benefit. As kids aged, they took care of their parents and grandparents. Now it's fairly rare for that sort of dynamic to happen with any regularity.

@skylinefever

18 күн бұрын

Incentives drive behavior. This is something people forget when they scream "You can afford kids! People in dirt huts have 5 kids!" Nevermind that in that dirt hut, most of those kids end up with a positive ROI.

Daycare costs have skyrocketed to the point where having two kids in daycare is basically more than one parent is making working full time. Daycares are not at fault, the government needs to step up and help struggling parents.

@apebass2215

Ай бұрын

Or maybe parents need to raise their own children rather than relying on strangers or the government.

@BouncySlim1

Ай бұрын

Since some women are waiting until they are in their 40s to have children, their parents are either too old or deceased to help rear the children. Family used to take care of family

@MB-xv7er

Ай бұрын

Most of yalls kids are a nightmare to deal with. Daycare SHOULD be expensive because to deal with yalls brats who have a number of behavioral problems takes a toll

@MsLotusBlooms

Ай бұрын

@@apebass2215 We pay thousands of dollars a year into a system. We deserve benefits from all of our hard earned money the government takes from us. Americans need to see the fruits of their labor in ways that help THEM.

Dramatic drop in one year coincides with the overturning of Roe v Wade no sane woman wants to risk a pregnancy when she could die if she has complications

Having children would make me miserable. I have access to education and a choice to not wanting kids as statistically, alot of women are happier that way. Alot of people just don’t want kids. Im one of them. Society has more then doubled in these past few decades. The problem is the set up we have for non stop growth. Society was doing fine with less then haft the birth rates before they were doubling. They were actually rightfully so worried about overpopulation. We need to change the way things are ran for constant growth and milking the working class and this won’t be a problem.

If you can't afford to have kids, then not having kids is the right choice. There's nothing hard to understand about that.

Women entering in the workforce doubled the amount of potential workers but they took the chance to halved the paycheck... and women keep voting for the same nonsenses.

@YouTubeCensors

Ай бұрын

Exactly, women have the power to correct course by stop working, not all of course. Not all women are meant to be mother's but most are and have been sold a lie.

@deezed6478

Ай бұрын

Blame women for wanting to have an income of their own so they don’t have to tolerate horrible relationships and being voiceless

@bennyblanco5555

Ай бұрын

@@deezed6478 you’re strong and independent, right

I'm surprised there was no discussion of the lack of pairing off into 20 year long relationships, a really good pre-child activity.

@karenmassey8354

Ай бұрын

Every time this discussion is brought up that point is always conveniently skipped over.

you want people to have kids? lower food and rent, thats a start.

There are more reasons to NOT have kids than reasons to have them. Also, for me personally, what if the my kid happens to have a medical condition that would required life long medical aid or if the kid has autism, ADHD, things I know I don't want to deal with and I'd feel bad to bring a kid in this world with health issues, whether it's physical or mental. Oh about the geriatric pregnancy, I think women are aware of that, reminds me of this story from reddit where the woman was having a geriatric pregnancy and was triggered when her sister pointed out that she's having a geriatric pregnancy and argued that it's not called "geriatric pregnancy", she called it with a different name, but it's the same thing, lol!

Sorry but we are living in the modern era which means women have to work. If women want to stay at home it requires sacrifices. Inflation is never going to stop so women will continue working longer and harder this is capitalism. It’s take two incomes to raise a family. Women think feminism can overcome inflation but it can’t. Women I make 100,000 a year but can’t afford a house because of costs of living and taxes.

@gorgonismztruth1551

Ай бұрын

I have no kids and will only have kids when you sign on to agree to pay for my kids then I will have as many as you went me to have..

@black_nerdy

Ай бұрын

Unless you find a decent guy working blue collar job. Or work in a blue collar job yourself that's where the money is

@GhostShip-iv9rg

Ай бұрын

@@gorgonismztruth1551 Isn't that the traditional setup? That's what I assumed as a man since I was a little boy. That's the expectation. That's why men are so eager to demonstrate their ability to be a provider. Is this no longer the case in your generation?

@rizzo021

Ай бұрын

It's not capitalism...its the govt programs and handouts on top of the capitalism that causes both parents to work...they have to support all those govt programs and handouts...

@tommas2674

Ай бұрын

to your first comment, IT always did, and men then worked 2 or 3 jobs, which men socialize more at work and then play. We haven't had capitalism in 6+ decades. The regulations nixed that.

Who can afford to have kids? Corporate America doesn't even pay us enough to take care of ourselves. And let's not talk about our health care system and the low support for parents. Maybe there are ppl who realize they shouldn't be parents; a good portion of the mental health industry are adults with jacked up childhoods trying to sort ish out. Perhaps it's not the food but woman who honesty doesn't want to have kids and maybe that's a good thing.

I had my first child at 31 and continued to enjoy a thriving career. Had my second at 33. Wanted a 3rd but could not afford it…. Childcare costs are just too prohibitive.

@bennyblanco5555

Ай бұрын

You’re a strong, independent woman

Her claim that society is somehow “setting women up to fail” by not telling them about the “biological clock” is laughably absurd. A woman is not a failure if she doesn’t have a child. Claiming a childless woman, regardless of how successful she is in every other aspect of life, is still a failure, is exactly why so many woman are choosing not to have children.

America does not help with the costs. Yet the costs keep going up! If America cares about families, it would subsidize child care and facilities.

@bennyblanco5555

Ай бұрын

You’re strong and independent

@MsLotusBlooms

Ай бұрын

@@bennyblanco5555 That has nothing to do with unaffordability of rearing children. American parents are drowning in expenses.

@bennyblanco5555

Ай бұрын

@@MsLotusBlooms women are strong and independent. Did you not hear me the first time? There you go I had to repeat it again. Women said they are strong and independent which means they’re not allowed to complain anymore.

Like literally everything else, having children is a luxury reserved for the rich.

All the irresponsible chicks around me have a kid or kids but I keep hearing birth rates are down….that could be a super bad sign.

@maqclark

Ай бұрын

Yup, the responsible people are the ones delaying becoming parents

@alejandronopasanada5302

Ай бұрын

@@maqclark in the early 2000s they JUST waited. Now they have to make sure it’s a career where they can afford Doctors to help get those eggs fried and private school to keep that kids away from all of the future rap sheet artists.

@davidwarburton2915

Ай бұрын

You’re observing the first few minutes of Idiocracy in real life.

@skylinefever

18 күн бұрын

Birth rates are only up among the people addicted to Brawndo.

Just because some of us don’t have kids doesn’t mean we don’t get hit with elder care on the back end. Adult children aren’t always going to support them. Sometimes it’s care of a non parent. I’m so glad I decided to not have kids. I’ve had to struggle at points and I would not have wanted my kid to struggle with me.

Too expensive to have kids

Daycare is more than my mortgage payment! That’s just unimaginable. I would love to have more kids but expenses are high and no family available to help. So we’re done. My parents had both grandparents, aunts and uncles to help with us. It’s also not families fault either because grandparents have to work after retirement to pay for their bills. It’s all around madness

Money ruined everything. And man get hits hard in divorce.

@kellharris2491

Ай бұрын

So does the wife and the child.

@TuyenHuynh-cl7ec

Ай бұрын

Simple solution: don't get married and have kids.

@kinndah2519

Ай бұрын

Then don't be a bad husband and divorce won't happen. Women don't divorce attentive loving husbands.

@TijaunaK

Ай бұрын

It's hilarious that most men think this when women rarely are awarded assests in divorce settlements and when it comes to alimony, most men that marry are generally working poor and working or middle-class and he has to give his ex-wife 200 dollars a month in spousal support. MEN DON'T HAVE RESOURCES TO BEGIN WITH.

@deezed6478

Ай бұрын

Well what else do you suggest? That women and children are left with absolutely nothing because the marriage didn’t work out?

Not to mention, a lot of people are renting now instead of owning homes. Sometimes, they landlord doesn't want you to have children due to the noise.

Allow me to scare u a bit. The less kids we have the less kids we're going to have. Adolescent is being extended, 30's are the new 20's socially speaking. Biologically you're not have many kids in your 40's. The amount of resources it takes to prepare one kid to become independent is the cost of 6 kids when our parents had this generation, kid inflation. It's more and more common to still be at home in late 20's and into 30's. Throw in dating apps and there's a significant disproportion, some people have access to far too many dating opportunities and the majority have far too few. These apps have in fact torn the social fabric of dating appart and made it more difficult for people to find a partner, at the same time it's become the predominant way to find a partner. This is a predicament not a problem. Whereas a problem may have a solution, this predicament has a feedback loop that has baked in the consequences of a declining population. Trajectory is more important than magnitude, being below replacement birth rate, even a smidge, means as we have less kids will we will have even few kids until who knows what.