Women Can Be Trash Too.. || Two Hot Takes Podcast || Reddit Stories

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Two Hot Takes host, Morgan, is joined by guest co-host Lauren! These stories are here to level the playing field and show that sometimes gals need to be put in the bin too.. Can't wait to hear what you think about these ones! *First story starts at the 6:30 minute mark*
Teacher Wishlists !!!!
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Bonus Content!! & show your support (much appreciated): / twohottakes
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Index:
00:00 -- Support Our Teachers!
06:30 -- Story 1 Bachelorette Party Probs
21:35 -- Story 2 Wedding dress fiasco
33:32 -- Story 3 Fiancée shames sister
52:33 -- Story 4 Forced babysitting
1:07:44 -- Story 5 Fiance Hacks Job
1:30:52 -- Story 6 Christmas in July
1:45:10 -- Story 7 Missing Ex-Wife...
1:51:02 -- Story 8 Spotify Palette Cleanse
Full length Video episodes available on KZread: / twohottakes

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  • @TwoHotTakes
    @TwoHotTakes Жыл бұрын

    Link to the teacher wish lists. Thank you all so much for your help in making this school year better for them!!

  • @bdyzzi

    @bdyzzi

    Жыл бұрын

    As an education major this intro made me tear up. This idea is so considerate. I pray God blesses you tenfold for doing this to bless educators and students. Thank you x❤️

  • @katwoo0219

    @katwoo0219

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi Morgan!! My mom and I LOVE watching your content. My mom is an incredibly dedicated teacher in CA and always needs supplies and resources for her 1st graders. Is there any way I can get her Amazon list onto the doc?? I know she’d really appreciate it. Thanks!

  • @MissLovina93

    @MissLovina93

    Жыл бұрын

    Hey ☺️ I love to listen to your podcasts but I have a question: when you say that some updates have been deleted, is it after you find the post or before ? Maybe it's better to screen the whole post so there is nothing that can be deleted (maybe that's already what you do but I just wanted to help) kisses

  • @xxoldmagicxx

    @xxoldmagicxx

    Жыл бұрын

    I MISSED LAUREN!!! She’s so smart and thoughtful. I’m glad to see her back & can’t wait to see Alejandra if she decides to come back too ☺️

  • @dontburstmybubble686

    @dontburstmybubble686

    Жыл бұрын

    Hey I have some suggestions for the doc: 1. Would it be possible to enable comments so everyone can coordinate who has already gotten what for which teacher/ see if any are getting ignored? 2. You could turn their names or descriptions into headings so we can get to them more easily?

  • @jamg8483
    @jamg8483 Жыл бұрын

    Her first mistake was believe that she had 25 “close friends”. No. You don’t have 25 close friends. You have a few. The rest were there for a good time. Be realistic hun.

  • @back_to_neverland

    @back_to_neverland

    Жыл бұрын

    I thought the same! No one can be that close with 25 people

  • @gunjan3575

    @gunjan3575

    Жыл бұрын

    Ikr! 25? 25? Too much

  • @InelNafai

    @InelNafai

    Жыл бұрын

    Lmao at best I have 5 close girlfriends XD

  • @shelby_button

    @shelby_button

    Жыл бұрын

    Fr. And if you feel you have 25 people you want to celebrate with, it’s a dinner and a club for a night. Not a whole ass weekend. That’s just wild to me. As one of those 25 people; no way would I accept the invite. Hang with 24 other girls I may or may not know for 4 days?! Pass 🤣

  • @cpisarek4284

    @cpisarek4284

    Жыл бұрын

    1000%! How can you be "close" with 25 friends at the same time? Literally impossible.

  • @ngozi90
    @ngozi9010 ай бұрын

    If I spilled wine on my friend’s WEDDING dress that was her LATE MOTHER’S, I would be SOBBING and apologizing profusely. Anna’s reaction means she did it on purpose

  • @Winter_Dream_

    @Winter_Dream_

    7 ай бұрын

    Exactly! I'm clumsy but even I wouldn't spill wine that easily. But I also wouldn't have approached the dress with red wine at all. I really feel that was on purpose.

  • @applessr2590

    @applessr2590

    4 ай бұрын

    im still wondering how tf she spilled it on the dress

  • @Dennis-nc3vw

    @Dennis-nc3vw

    4 ай бұрын

    Ouch ☹ I actually feel worse for you than her.

  • @churchie2129

    @churchie2129

    3 ай бұрын

    Id offer myself as a sacrifice xD

  • @naomi12141

    @naomi12141

    3 ай бұрын

    I’m I’m

  • @Gjigfvniyf
    @Gjigfvniyf Жыл бұрын

    The immediate “no, nope. Go away” says to me the mom has disrespected her boundaries multiple times and she was finally drawing a line. I’ve done the same with my mom when she brings up topics I’m just sick of her pushing on me. Good for lily

  • @nira5221

    @nira5221

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly what I heard with that response! Good on lily for breaking that cycle with her new baby and putting her child first!

  • @gnocchipr1nc3ss

    @gnocchipr1nc3ss

    8 ай бұрын

    Lol exactlyyyy like she was expecting her mum to pull this

  • @crmw2005

    @crmw2005

    3 ай бұрын

    Yup, and moms sanctimonious "Well I raised 7" in response to her saying she has her own kid now sent me. She raised about 4 and and then deputised the rest on to them

  • @crmw2005

    @crmw2005

    3 ай бұрын

    Lol and they made the same point 2 seconds later

  • @shyannevangilder9024
    @shyannevangilder9024 Жыл бұрын

    “Why are the kids so angry” The kids are angry because the child their parents CHOSE to have so late in life is being passed off as everyone else’s responsibility. These kids don’t owe their parents anything, and they especially don’t need to take care of the child THEY CHOSE TO HAVE

  • @rachelRife.

    @rachelRife.

    7 ай бұрын

    I take care of my momma! I do not trust anyone with her, just like after I had my babies I never let anyone care for them except my mom & dad! She was there for me when I needed her the most! so I’ll always have my moms best interests at heart & will take care of her as long as the Great Lord allows! I love her so much!!!!!!❤❤❤

  • @banana_cow

    @banana_cow

    3 ай бұрын

    ​@@rachelRife.Ok? They could have a babysitter you don't have to push your toddler on to a new mom she's stressed

  • @miamoore2266
    @miamoore2266 Жыл бұрын

    The fact that the whole glass of wine spilled on the dress tells me that Anna 100% did that on purpose.

  • @Blck_Ch3rry

    @Blck_Ch3rry

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah cause if it fell, id imagine that the dress wouldnt be the only thing theyd be panicking about cleaning. Like the venue carpet for example. Even walls would need cleaning if wine got on it and if she tripped id imagine the others would have said that as well

  • @heatherduke5410

    @heatherduke5410

    Жыл бұрын

    Honestly. If a little sloshed out, I could buy it being an accident. But an entire glass? And the fact that they were all drinking red wine around this dress in the first place, knowing how careful the OP was being to where she would only drink water and refused to step outside in that dress?

  • @DH-rt6fl

    @DH-rt6fl

    Жыл бұрын

    that part! and the way her friends were basically taking up for Anna, calling OP a bridezilla…it’s giving verrry much hateration

  • @stirlingarcher7972

    @stirlingarcher7972

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah, that coupled with her attitude afterwards makes me think so too

  • @hvnterly8388

    @hvnterly8388

    Жыл бұрын

    It feels very “what’s more important to you, the sentimental family heirloom, or me, the person who would intentionally sabotage an irreplaceable milestone in your life AND precious family heirloom at the same time.” I wonder if Anna got the other bridesmaids on her side by saying something stupid like “I bet if I accidentally spilled wine on this dress that she’s been making a big deal about, she would choose the dress over me/our friendship.” Like, I’m not usually into “assuming the worst about people,” but either Anna is manipulating the other girls, or they are all together so shallow and out of touch that they watched all of this unfold and then called the bride a bridezilla. Either way, girl, get new friends 😩

  • @MaryaZamora
    @MaryaZamora Жыл бұрын

    Why were they opening the brides favorite wine without her in the room??? The whole point is celebrating her????? Hello??? Anna definitely did it on purpose

  • @ZMich8

    @ZMich8

    Жыл бұрын

    I thought the same thing!!!! Like they were waiting for her to leave the room

  • @ashleyduckworthyt3224

    @ashleyduckworthyt3224

    Жыл бұрын

    And they all seem to be relatively in on it. Sounds like these girls drank some haterade

  • @nayri3070

    @nayri3070

    Жыл бұрын

    rightttt

  • @stephaniefenzl31

    @stephaniefenzl31

    Жыл бұрын

    I bet Anna was the one who encouraged them to open the wine in the first place

  • @Someone_call_Ron

    @Someone_call_Ron

    2 ай бұрын

    It’s sounds like one of those bits where the person acts like they’re going to spill or drop something sarcastically but ends up actually dropping the important thing

  • @AmbrrEvans
    @AmbrrEvans Жыл бұрын

    The young woman at 19 who didn’t have a coddle and did what she felt she had to for her siblings to have a better life despite them losing their parents. Breaks my heart for her so bad.

  • @Crisfer05

    @Crisfer05

    Жыл бұрын

    I know I almost cried because my dad actually had to sacrifice for his family and could not even go to school

  • @t.ron314
    @t.ron314 Жыл бұрын

    Omg the Lilly story! If you act out in public, you can get corrected in public! Also, she should definitely be an EX-fiancé after that because that comment could have only come from a true place of hatred.

  • @verifiedcreator3718
    @verifiedcreator3718 Жыл бұрын

    Maybe the reason the brides called her a bridezilla in the second story is because they were all in on it. Or Anna convinced them to defend her.

  • @nataliascalpel8893

    @nataliascalpel8893

    Жыл бұрын

    That's what I was thinking. There's no way all of them felt the same way, I definitely wouldn't have felt that way

  • @ashleyduckworthyt3224

    @ashleyduckworthyt3224

    Жыл бұрын

    They were 100% all down for the spill. They were drinking her fav wine WITHOUT her and then ruined her dress. Those girls are not her friends

  • @bernicehatsu3022

    @bernicehatsu3022

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ashleyduckworthyt3224 exactly my thoughts

  • @Beeeeeee0528

    @Beeeeeee0528

    Жыл бұрын

    EXACTLY THATS WHAT IM SAYING!! PREACH!

  • @basementdwellercosplay
    @basementdwellercosplay Жыл бұрын

    How could you think a bribe who cried because you ruined her mother's dress that she wanted so badly have at her own wedding a bridezilla. She had every right to be mad at this scenario

  • @kaitlynmorgan4613

    @kaitlynmorgan4613

    Жыл бұрын

    those girls had to have been part of it, smhh

  • @NinaChisholm93
    @NinaChisholm939 ай бұрын

    The fact her maid of honour didn’t ensure nobody went near the dress is a red flag. Pouring red wine on the morning of your wedding is also a red flag 😅

  • @maddieroper1063
    @maddieroper1063 Жыл бұрын

    The Christmas story had me in tears. That is so sweet. I suffer from depression but I love the fall season. So last week when I got home from work my husband got the fall decorations out of the attic so I could decorate because he knows it makes me feel better. That story is so heart warming.

  • @adreannasears994
    @adreannasears994 Жыл бұрын

    I could not imagine the sacrifice that OPs older sister at 19 years old after losing her parents to then become a parent and care for OP and their little sister. She lost parents too, but wiped her tears, put on her big girl pants and stepped up to the plate. That is true love and true sacrifice

  • @Riyaanreality

    @Riyaanreality

    Жыл бұрын

    I was in tears when they went over that story. Kate sacrificed soo much for her siblings and I wish her her endless happiness. She’s a saint.

  • @nataliaalves4060

    @nataliaalves4060

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Riyaanreality I'm listening to this while I'm at work and I'm holding back tears, this is so heartbreaking

  • @missoona7130

    @missoona7130

    Жыл бұрын

    When I heard the backstory, I said outloud "So she is like a mother, not just a sister!"

  • @mkat8505

    @mkat8505

    Жыл бұрын

    She willingly subjected herself to further trauma to protect them. SHE IS A MARTYR.

  • @simplebeauty120

    @simplebeauty120

    Жыл бұрын

    She’s a queen. It’s a shame that nasty girl tried to knock off her crown.

  • @Teara0731
    @Teara0731 Жыл бұрын

    I feel so bad for the girl not being able to wear her moms dress on her wedding day… I know it’s not the same but they should do a wedding photo shoot with their photographer so she can have photos of herself in the dress and kind of fake those wedding moments.

  • @Hailey-bz2ym

    @Hailey-bz2ym

    Жыл бұрын

    And a vow renewal with none of the toxic friends present!!

  • @genevamartinez2687

    @genevamartinez2687

    Жыл бұрын

    😢😢i😮i😮i😮 od plllo Olÿ

  • @madyleighdecker

    @madyleighdecker

    10 ай бұрын

    Agreed! I don’t disagree that it would’ve been nice to wear ON the day anyway butttttt my takeaway was that she couldn’t wear it bc of the stain AND bc they were treating it to get rid of the stain so she couldn’t wear it AND how to get rid of the stain.

  • @RinSicairos
    @RinSicairos Жыл бұрын

    People that pull the "well I had 7 , you only have 1" card is bullshit. MAM THAT WAS YOUR CHOICE.

  • @ESPHMacD
    @ESPHMacD Жыл бұрын

    300k increase for a DREAM JOB TOO! Honestly proud of his restraint, if someone who was supposed to be my life partner ruined an opportunity like that, not just for me but for our future together as a couple, I would have done so much damage. Damn… I could only wish that he reached out to the company after they didn’t reach out just to see the status of the application, maybe this could have been dealt with before he got a new job and he could have got rid of the sh*t girlfriend sooner too. It would have set them up financially for a long while if they were smart with it.

  • @QueenMFLaurie

    @QueenMFLaurie

    3 ай бұрын

    This!!

  • @MadisonCockrell
    @MadisonCockrell Жыл бұрын

    Also for the first story: literal event planners struggle with keeping people on schedule.. she had 25 girls!!!! I bet some of them didn’t know each other too.. like, what a weird situation lol

  • @xxprettyrwbyxx3857

    @xxprettyrwbyxx3857

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly when she said 25 girls I knew that s*** was going to go downhill you have a whole classroom of women sleeping in one house together and then you're trying to jump them all over the damn City for activities? Yeah no 😭 and then all the s*** she was trying to do were things that college kids can stretch throughout spring break and she tried doing that type of s*** in like 2 to 4 days

  • @politicomonsoon

    @politicomonsoon

    Жыл бұрын

    Also if I paid for it and I feel like ditching it I'm a ditch it. Like I'm sorry but 7:00 a.m. to 2:30 a.m. is a ridiculous way to start the weekend.

  • @MadisonCockrell

    @MadisonCockrell

    Жыл бұрын

    @@xxprettyrwbyxx3857 !!!!

  • @MadisonCockrell

    @MadisonCockrell

    Жыл бұрын

    @@politicomonsoon YUUUUPPPP!

  • @victoriakelley664

    @victoriakelley664

    Жыл бұрын

    I feel so bad for her though. Like she put so much effort in, she really tried to make sure everyone was on board and it would be perfect. She gave them the full itinerary, etc, etc, like she did due diligence and I feel like the people should have been up front with her before! She sounds really naive, like she really really thought that all 25 were her close friends and clearly they aren't, and she has no idea. It hurts my heart :(

  • @HermeslilGirl
    @HermeslilGirl Жыл бұрын

    "I brought you into this world, I'll take you out of it" only works if you're child doesn't have depression. I yelled back once, "I've tried! That's why I'm on the meds!"

  • @esmooth919

    @esmooth919

    Жыл бұрын

    Wow... 😮🙏🏿

  • @gunjan3575

    @gunjan3575

    Жыл бұрын

    Hey, how are you today? Hope you are feeling better now. And just wanted you to know that every soul is matters, you matter.

  • @incorrectpassword7733

    @incorrectpassword7733

    Жыл бұрын

    i do hope you are okay , however I found this too relatable 😂😭💀

  • @FT-bd8mc

    @FT-bd8mc

    Жыл бұрын

    For real my mother guilt tripping me saying I wish i never gave birth to you and I’m like yah me too - I don’t know what they think they’ll achieve by saying things like this

  • @probablynargles

    @probablynargles

    Жыл бұрын

    My mom said this to me all the time. I also struggle with anxiety and depression for most of my life and that phrase, among others, really nags at me and lives inside my brain. ♥️ Hope you have found love and support

  • @stephaliexoxo
    @stephaliexoxo Жыл бұрын

    relate to that ‘forced babysitting’ story SO much because my mother & stepfather used to have me rearrange my life in order to watch my little brother. My mom would tell my boss that I couldn’t come in for earlier shifts because I had to take my brother to school in the morning but it was fine for her to take the early shift in order to come home earlier. I finally took a stand and had to use my boss to force my parents into seeing how often/the effect it was having on not only myself and my life but my relationship with my little brother.

  • @Elena-tq1zp
    @Elena-tq1zp Жыл бұрын

    Story 7 : He did try to file a missing person thing but the police rejected it. If the police had done their job he probably wouldn’t be in that situation now and there may had been a chance to find her murderer

  • @diaplotical
    @diaplotical Жыл бұрын

    Morgan being a real one finding the update to the Fiancé insulting OP’s sister on the AI voice videos over gameplay- that’s dedication

  • @nicolelavigna7237
    @nicolelavigna7237 Жыл бұрын

    The first story …. 25 bridesmaids???? There is no way you have 25 “close friends,” she’s crazy

  • @fromsami

    @fromsami

    Жыл бұрын

    I barely know 25 people 😭

  • @MikMakes

    @MikMakes

    Жыл бұрын

    @@fromsami RIGHT! Expecting 25 people to be dressed, packed, and on time at 7 in the morning is wildly unrealisitc. Expecting 25 people to even show up is wildly unrealistic lol

  • @Liahyde4174

    @Liahyde4174

    Жыл бұрын

    I have like 30 girls i know and love but girllllll I could only have 6 bridesmaids max. 😭😭 and knowing me ill have 3

  • @ksis86

    @ksis86

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah what, i only have 3 best friends. And my list of close friends total is probably 5 total lmao. How does anyone have the energy to keep up with 25 friends as an adult lol

  • @kathleenyoung9486

    @kathleenyoung9486

    Жыл бұрын

    I don’t think it was 25 bridesmaids, just 25 friends and only a few were bridesmaids.

  • @jazmincamacho7766
    @jazmincamacho7766 Жыл бұрын

    I'm crying for Kate and she didn't deserve that. Kate did everything she could for her family😭💕💕.

  • @CaritheEntertainer
    @CaritheEntertainer Жыл бұрын

    Story 2: oh she did that on purpose and drop those friends that blatantly watched her jealously destroy your dress to upset you.

  • @daniellesequeira8201
    @daniellesequeira8201 Жыл бұрын

    Story 6 about the guy who made Christmas in July made me LIVID. This story was so triggering for me as I was my mother's main caretaker for her last Christmas. I set the entire house and all of the food up for her to her standards of perfection (very high). I was fully prepared to celebrate Christmas early because we were told that she would not live long enough to see Christmas and she absolutely LOVED the holiday. We were given more time with her because she fought the cancer so hard. This man was a damn hero and was simply doing something to bring someone he loved comfort. I am horrified that there are people out there (like his girlfriend) who cannot empathize or understand where he is coming from. This man deserved better than his girlfriend and I am so happy she is gone.

  • @angelr9096

    @angelr9096

    Жыл бұрын

    Definitely. He can find a better gf after his grandfather passes.

  • @IWouldHaveGoneWithYouToTheEnd

    @IWouldHaveGoneWithYouToTheEnd

    Жыл бұрын

    Firstly, you’re awesome. And secondly I completely agree. I don’t understand why she wouldn’t want to. It’s Christmas, like no matter the month, the feeling of Christmas is good. And add the grandfather on top, there is no excuse to not want to in my opinion

  • @JW-vd4il

    @JW-vd4il

    Жыл бұрын

    Ahh Danielle, sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your story. 💞 That one had me getting teary at how NICE the OP/Grandson is and what a good idea!... Then had me crying at how awful the girlfriend was! But then I cried happy at the end of OP doing what he wanted for for a perfect day. Now you're making me cry too, Danielle! I'm with you that I don't understand the Gf AT ALL. But I'm glad he found out now. I'm still always completely confused by how people like him end up long-term dating people like her in the first place! At least he found out now. Merry Christmas, on any day, peeps! And it happens to be Thanksgiving today, too. Hope y'all had a good one! Or make yourself a do-over Thanksgiving on ANY day!

  • @Heytheremeg

    @Heytheremeg

    5 күн бұрын

    She packed her things and left because he was giving his grandpa a happy memory before he passed. For sure lucky he found out who she was then. So bizarre

  • @lauraprochaska8521
    @lauraprochaska8521 Жыл бұрын

    Side note, I’m glad that person got caught responding on behalf of the guy. She deserved to get caught and that level of possessiveness is a huge RED FLAG

  • @IWouldHaveGoneWithYouToTheEnd

    @IWouldHaveGoneWithYouToTheEnd

    Жыл бұрын

    It kind of surprises me that it’s not some kind of crime, I guess cause it’s hard to prove but still. Like if opening someone else’s mail is a crime, so should responding to employers in that manner

  • @tastybacon255-baconboy5
    @tastybacon255-baconboy5 Жыл бұрын

    The Xmas in July one was so damn sweet. The ex gf saying that it was weird legitimately doesn't even make sense. If anything, OP was giving back to his Grandpa. The ex gf was literally a Grinch

  • @ulrikeelibelinde9464
    @ulrikeelibelinde9464 Жыл бұрын

    My husband is working in cyber security field too. And just before we got married he promoted and his new position require him to travel. He was in a business trip just before our wedding day and returned back a day before. It was frustrating. But we needed the money and also now 2 months later we upgraded our car, we are planing on going to his business trips together. He works remotly most of the time and his trips usually take few days at most. After his meetings we plan to say couple of days more and travel together. His plane tickets are covered by the company he works in and we are now able to cover my part easily. Also he gets a fund for eating etc. yeah i hated it first but sabotaging my future husband back then was out of the question. Like it meant sabotaging myself and my family’s finance a big time. And going around his back? That is a deal breaker for sure. It would be a deal breaker for me if it happened to me. Some people are just nuts. ALSO psa F U LILY!

  • @stirrednotshaken4837

    @stirrednotshaken4837

    7 ай бұрын

    I can definitely understand his anger with her actions! I felt anger for him for this woman deciding what job he was gonna take. She deserves that kick to the curb…$300k…who gives up a job like that? Edit o say that it was a $300k INCREASE to what he was already making at his current job!

  • @mintdrop1916
    @mintdrop1916 Жыл бұрын

    Bestie wake up 😫 new two hot takes episode just dropped😔

  • @Cashhhhew
    @Cashhhhew Жыл бұрын

    Lol first girl learned her lesson- the "few loyal" ones that showed up for brunch and texted are ACTUALLY her close friends. having a FEW of those is the norm, Like 2-4. This girl has to be super young or naive to think 25 people care enough to celebrate everything "perfectly" and are totally loyal/caring for her. The silver lining is that she found out who her real friends really are, and she can start shaping her reality around that now (:

  • @Crisfer05

    @Crisfer05

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes, I would only do that for a couple of people whom I love dearly but I would not sacrifice so much for people I barely know

  • @TheFlowerchild712

    @TheFlowerchild712

    10 ай бұрын

    The girls there were probably exhausted. 7am wake-ups to well past midnight? No one could be fully present if they're dead on their feet, especially if they aren't used to it. OP wanted an Instagram Bachelorette. 4 days of not sleeping properly can take its toll.

  • @jasleehand6011
    @jasleehand6011 Жыл бұрын

    if my husband/wife went behind my back and kept me from taking an amazing job opportunity that could set BOTH of us up for life, it would automatically be divorce worthy. she doesn’t want what’s best for him and only thought of herself in that moment. what els will she sabotage or has already?

  • @elizabethfrost9255
    @elizabethfrost9255 Жыл бұрын

    The saddest thing about the last story is that if the police had actually filed the missing person report, maybe they would have find his wife alive or at least sooner than they did. It makes me sad to think that her remains were waiting to be found all that time but nobody was looking for her.

  • @IilosAndStitch
    @IilosAndStitch Жыл бұрын

    The wine story really gets me because I can't help but wonder about the group dynamic. They seemed far more invested in Anna then op.

  • @CantoErgoSum
    @CantoErgoSum Жыл бұрын

    The guy whose fiancée used his email to turn down the job likely has a case for tech trespass, since it is against the law to represent yourself as somebody else and use their email to do so.

  • @lan-hwang

    @lan-hwang

    Жыл бұрын

    honestly i really relate to the guy, i CANNOT imagine if my finacee ever went behind my back and turn down a job offer i had so much hope for, love so much, double or even triple my current salary (and it's not even 300K). I will most definitely see red and cannot ever look at him again (provide my interest of sex). This has nothing to do with OP being too violent. and I don't think this has anything to do with male violance. I as a female would be livid if my fiancee cost me my future.

  • @dodgyyoutuber9560

    @dodgyyoutuber9560

    Жыл бұрын

    I feel queasy at the idea

  • @Aurielle80s90s

    @Aurielle80s90s

    Жыл бұрын

    I honestly understand his way of thinking. $300,000 is what many people would dream of. I’m miss my guy but the life we could have is something I would dream of. He had every right to be so upset. Also she was crazy and lucky he didn’t snap. I would understand that.

  • @evimbedzi9008

    @evimbedzi9008

    Жыл бұрын

    @@lan-hwang Thank you. I honestly feel like this was so downplayed. They weren't even married and I feel like if this story had been from a woman's perspective, the hosts would have reacted a whole lot worse. and to just say it was a bump in the road is pain. Some bumps you never get over and that is the end.

  • @moonyollie6977

    @moonyollie6977

    3 ай бұрын

    That's life changing amount of money, I absolutely hope he sued.

  • @walnutsrcool
    @walnutsrcool Жыл бұрын

    I feel like part of why she didn’t still wear the dress is the cleaners basically told them they needed to act fast to help the stain not set in to help it be saved later. I get wanting to save it in the long term.

  • @Oatmaster
    @Oatmaster Жыл бұрын

    The story about the fiancé messing up the job opportunity has me physically feeling upset. To think that you trust somebody and that they would do such a messed up thing to you behind your back, it’s just such a betrayal. So shortsighted and selfish of her too. If having a partner who doesn’t travel is such a dealbreaker then break up, don’t run a persons whole career. I feel so bad for him.

  • @go_sunny_go

    @go_sunny_go

    13 күн бұрын

    Yes that was crazy to me that is majorly abusive! It’s classic controlling abusive behavior. I think the op given that the Reddit was off my chest I think the op was just venting and his language was more a reflection of how angry and hurt he’s was feeling while stewing about the situation so his anger would be concentrated

  • @stirlingarcher7972
    @stirlingarcher7972 Жыл бұрын

    There is a very good chance the email hacked OP will he able to hold the ex-fiancée responsible. When that woman faked a college rejection email to her bf and cost him his dream school she had to pay him $265,000. He should sue the hell out of her

  • @mady8700
    @mady8700 Жыл бұрын

    The story about the sister and the fiancee is so sad. I just wanted to add really quick, while sex work of different kinds can be empowering and enjoyable for some people, as Lauren was saying, for others it can be quite the opposite. It hurts my heart to think of a 19 year old girl being forced into a life of prostitution, not only because she had to give up so much of her own life and future to do so, but also because of the risks that someone in that position faces. It's highly likely that the sister (at 19!!!! just a baby when you think about it) experienced situations involving severe abuse, degradation, and trauma just so she could put food on the table for her younger siblings, who she probably never dreamed of needing to parent. To say something like the fiancee did, with no knowledge of the potentially deeply traumatizing and painful experiences that the sister likely had to face, is just absolutely disgusting. call off the wedding for sure in my opinion.

  • @michellecaudle9413

    @michellecaudle9413

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes that story is heartbreaking, I hope they didn’t get married.

  • @TheSqueeksqueek

    @TheSqueeksqueek

    Жыл бұрын

    It was most likely removed because it's a fake rage bait

  • @Atlas_Quin

    @Atlas_Quin

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah, as people have began to accept sex work more the internet has started to kinda romanticize it. You’re not always going to make a ton of money every night. It’s hard and really dangerous. Also if you ever want to get out it can be insanely difficult to find a job.

  • @superrobby3657

    @superrobby3657

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Atlas_Quin it’s not being romanticized it’s being normalized like any other job because people are finally seeing swers as humans

  • @Atlas_Quin

    @Atlas_Quin

    Жыл бұрын

    @ SuperRobby I’ve seen it both normalized and romanticized especially on tiktok. People saying they hey want to go into it because it sounds amazing and easy and quick cash. It can be hard and dangerous and how much you make depends on how good you are and the things at your club.

  • @missimoo900
    @missimoo900 Жыл бұрын

    Story 3, that poor older sister, not JUST now supporting your young siblings but you're basically still a kid yourself and to try navigate the world without your parents with no support while also thrown into parenthood with nothing, gosh my heart.

  • @nataliaalves4060
    @nataliaalves4060 Жыл бұрын

    the wine story almost made me cry, my sister got married a few months ago and I was so stressed trying to make everything right and correct everything that was wrong. It's such a big day, it almost feels like she did on porpuse

  • @invaderbrynn
    @invaderbrynn Жыл бұрын

    My great grandmother was holding out until Christmas. She was in so much pain. We had Christmas a week early, everyone told her they loved her, and she passed within 30 minutes of the "party" ending.

  • @amandareed4689

    @amandareed4689

    Жыл бұрын

    🥹😭

  • @cassinaus

    @cassinaus

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm so sorry for your loss, i hope she had a wonderful last day ❤

  • @Chelseabee55

    @Chelseabee55

    Жыл бұрын

    My friend’s mother in law was holding out until their wedding. She took a turn for the worse two weeks before the wedding. They got dressed up, hired a photographer, and got married at her bedside hours before she passed. Sometimes you need to do things so people you love can have their final wish. I hope you had a beautiful Christmas with your great grandmother

  • @skillzzzzzzzzz

    @skillzzzzzzzzz

    Жыл бұрын

  • @purplepixie274

    @purplepixie274

    Жыл бұрын

    🥺

  • @jesicabocanegra4419
    @jesicabocanegra4419 Жыл бұрын

    The one about the mom getting mad at the daughter for not taking care of the 6 year old sibling made me SO mad. You can tell the mom leaned on her daughter so much and had her raising her brothers and sisters and it shows in the siblings response when asked if she was wrong! She “needed a break” from her 6 year old but didn’t check in with her daughter who is dealing with a BABY to see how she’s doing and if SHE needs help/guidance/ support? Ugh, so entitled.

  • @kelseycontreras4383

    @kelseycontreras4383

    Жыл бұрын

    I haven’t seen another comment about that story but I also feel bad for the 6 year old imagine your mom leaving you with your sibling because she needs a health day which is valid (but if it has been 2 days every week I feel like that’s a little to much specially if you need to take care of a kid) but she can’t leave you with your dad for some reason maybe he works and then you get to your sisters house and she doesn’t want to take care of your either. I feel like that would suck for a 6 year old being like my mom doesn’t want me right now and neither those my sister (maybe I’m thinking to much into it)

  • @spicymochi2532

    @spicymochi2532

    Жыл бұрын

    I feel the same way that mom did not raise 8 kids and it shows because she expected her oldest to watch the 6 year old for 7 hours when her daughter just had a newborn. The daughters reaction was totally justified

  • @jesicabocanegra4419

    @jesicabocanegra4419

    Жыл бұрын

    @@kelseycontreras4383 that’s a good point! Probably makes the kid feel unwanted and like a burden :( but I definitely can’t blame the sister for turning them away. Poor kid :(

  • @jesicabocanegra4419

    @jesicabocanegra4419

    Жыл бұрын

    @@spicymochi2532 totally agree, it’s not “just” 7 hours. 7 hours is a lot!

  • @MGummyBear2399

    @MGummyBear2399

    Жыл бұрын

    It sounds like there was CONSTANT parentification going on throughout all of their childhoods and now, even with a newborn, the mom expects her to take care of her child? The mom probably barely raised the eldest kids and then left them to raise the rest

  • @huddifyx5550
    @huddifyx5550 Жыл бұрын

    The guy who lost the job opportunity is definitely not unhinged and expecting him to not be upset to the point where he could get physical is not fair or realistic at all. He's a top tier guy for not acting on his very natural and valid emotions

  • @ThePojengsidur
    @ThePojengsidur Жыл бұрын

    I love at 14:08 the term “emotional masturbation”. Hilarious and uncomfortable to hear, and so-so right on point! Big thanks to the friend who made the original analogy!

  • @masepresep9527
    @masepresep9527 Жыл бұрын

    I just have to say: call the wedding off with Lily. There is not excuse and it shows where the pattern of your married life go.

  • @supernintendosg

    @supernintendosg

    Жыл бұрын

    bro he literally did

  • @ceciliaalexander8881
    @ceciliaalexander8881 Жыл бұрын

    Dude, I'm literally terrified to wear my bamboo pj's around my animals let alone RED WINE! I can't imagine the heart ache of the bride.

  • @kristinakillgore4141
    @kristinakillgore4141 Жыл бұрын

    I loved the palate cleanser about the guy, his girlfriend, and his Spotify account. I'm pretty addicted to Reddit and have read most of these stories before, but I love to hear you guys talk about them because otherwise it's just me in my own head being like "she did what?", "leave him", "omg so sweet," etc., so this makes my internet browsing feel like it's experienced with other people lol.

  • @serenaw5107
    @serenaw5107 Жыл бұрын

    The one about the guy and his grandpa got me a little emotional. I really don’t like Christmas that much just because of how I feel like it isn’t what it’s supposed to be anymore. But how he took the spirit of Christmas in mid July just to make his grandpa happy was so sweet! I hope he finds a girl that will love his grandpa and Christmas as much as him

  • @teofeliabaciu1612
    @teofeliabaciu1612 Жыл бұрын

    Could you do an episode on crazy/toxic moms? I think it could be an interesting episode.

  • @knitwitchpgh

    @knitwitchpgh

    Жыл бұрын

    Omg YESSSSSS NM mom's episode i got some stories for that. And dads too. We got lots of daddy issues out here 🤣

  • @esmooth919

    @esmooth919

    Жыл бұрын

    I think i've heard them read some stories about toxic moms

  • @teofeliabaciu1612

    @teofeliabaciu1612

    Жыл бұрын

    @@esmooth919 yes they did about mother-in-laws and maybe 2-3 stories about mothers. But I'm saying that I could be interesting to have a full episode about that.

  • @kateregan8738

    @kateregan8738

    Жыл бұрын

    Or dads

  • @bmachinena7268
    @bmachinena7268 Жыл бұрын

    Also, the guy whose fiance cost him his dream job. He may be using harsh wording, but I think many of the best people would feel this if the person they trusted most did something like that. I don't think he's unhinged for having those thoughts, it would have been unhinged if he carried them out. Self control is the difference here LOLOL

  • @BisexualBeauty

    @BisexualBeauty

    Жыл бұрын

    Right he could have been making bank and SHE ruined that.

  • @kylekillen1836

    @kylekillen1836

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m glad someone said it.

  • @kaitlynroush6518

    @kaitlynroush6518

    Жыл бұрын

    @@BisexualBeauty but is life really just about money? I mean everyone is breezing by the fact that they didn't really discuss the situation. If you're in a relationship you can't just decide to disappear for work months at a time without considering your partner/soon to be spouse. The woman was messed up for ruining the job opportunity but the man was also messed up for not considering her position at all.

  • @LordKumquat

    @LordKumquat

    Жыл бұрын

    @@kaitlynroush6518 I would agree, if it hadn’t been for the fact that she REFUSED any discussion about it. In the story OP talks about how she wouldn’t have said discussion. It’s not that he didn’t consider her perspective, she wouldn’t have a civil conversation about it and that’s the issue.

  • @Retrokiddd95

    @Retrokiddd95

    Жыл бұрын

    Even though he didn't give much insight to his childhood, the comment about not being able to dream up that job just goes to show upset he is about this. The fact she took it upon herself to control the life SHE'S envisioned for them. He has more self control than me lol.

  • @noprogressionisregression6854
    @noprogressionisregression6854 Жыл бұрын

    Story 5: I would be LIVID if my spouse sent an email ending my possiblity to have my dream job. No one has that right. She took away his autonomy. . I don't think the guy is unhinged. He was very 🤕 hurt. He is trying to not lose his shit. He trusted his partner

  • @corgimom5626

    @corgimom5626

    7 ай бұрын

    Omg I completely agree.

  • @mariahchavez8255

    @mariahchavez8255

    6 ай бұрын

    It makes me so sad. I would've definitely encouraged him to not only get his dream job, but be well traveled and get that bagggg.

  • @applerokka
    @applerokka Жыл бұрын

    Who wants to bet that Anna made the "Let's open a bottle of Pinot Noir!" suggestion in the first place? Hmmmm

  • @FabiolaGonzalez-xu7zr
    @FabiolaGonzalez-xu7zr Жыл бұрын

    My fav episodes are with Lauren and Alejandra. It’s a good idea to have other guests ig but I love the ogs

  • @makaylalashe4730

    @makaylalashe4730

    Жыл бұрын

    same!!! I love when Justin, Lauren, and Alejandra are on!

  • @frans1569

    @frans1569

    Жыл бұрын

    When I saw the notification I just screamed LAUREN in my mind. Love it when she's here!

  • @AP-lp7to

    @AP-lp7to

    Жыл бұрын

    Same!! Some of the other people don’t put as much insight into it like they do.

  • @madisonmunro7299

    @madisonmunro7299

    Жыл бұрын

    I didn't even check who was on but when I heard Lauren's voice I knewwww it'd be a good episode!

  • @inaaxmed6715

    @inaaxmed6715

    Жыл бұрын

    alejandra ❤️❤️

  • @Telly5strartist
    @Telly5strartist Жыл бұрын

    If i was the fiancé in story 3, I would be in awe of my future sister-in-law and love her to death for saving my future husband from a teen hood in foster care which could have scared him for life and not made him the man he is...oh yeah listening further. So she had already done this before.

  • @lilworkerb
    @lilworkerb Жыл бұрын

    The guy with the job interview sounds nuts… but I also get it. Like imagine wanting an opportunity like this for your entire life and then the person you love the most rips it away. I don’t think he was exactly unhinged. He showed a MASSIVE amount of restraint and recognized his emotional limit and told her to leave before that limit was overstepped. Not many people have that amount of restraint.

  • @ploopy678
    @ploopy678 Жыл бұрын

    Man, these stories make me feel that perhaps being single isn't a bad thing after all 😂😅

  • @sav2040
    @sav2040 Жыл бұрын

    20 plus woman are your closest friends ??? Thats wayyy to many people to expect people to all act how u want them to. If she had lowered her guest list I feel like things would’ve been better.

  • @shooshoo4590

    @shooshoo4590

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah getting 5+ people to be perfectly cordinated can be hard, but 25? Unless its a professional sports team thats not gonna happen

  • @jodimahowald2364

    @jodimahowald2364

    Жыл бұрын

    Agreed. I don't think the bride is necessarily an asshole, but I think she had the wrong crowd and too many people for what her expectations were. I feel bad for her that her weekend didn't go as planned, but hopefully she learns from that experience in the future.

  • @DiMagnolia

    @DiMagnolia

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly! I invited like ten friends to my bachelorette party but it was all in town and only dinner and clubbing, I told everyone they could show up to either or both. There were maybe 8 of us at each thing, either due to scheduling or personal preference, maybe four were in both. With 25 women she could’ve planned every minute of every day of what she wanted and let her friends come and go as they please. It’s impossible to keep a handful of people on such a rigid schedule let alone 25. Set up reservations for maybe 10 people and everyone else does whatever they want in the meantime.

  • @victoriakelley664

    @victoriakelley664

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jodimahowald2364 this is exactly it!! She did her due diligence to try to make sure everyone was on board and into it and they just did not take any opportunities to tell her it was too much until moment of they're like "nah bro, I don't give a shit" like ugh, the poor girl. She had no concept of it being too much, and not a single one of them took the time to tell her. she sounds really naive and it hurts my heart :(

  • @sav2040

    @sav2040

    Жыл бұрын

    @@victoriakelley664 exactly not one of her “friends” spoke up to tell her hey this might be too much

  • @bmachinena7268
    @bmachinena7268 Жыл бұрын

    The wine Story honestly felt like like kind of a slight. As if her friend was trying to test the boundaries and would've said later on how crazy she was for having a rule about nothing being around the dress because she got next to it with the wine and nothing happened. It just feels very Sus to me.

  • @caspian8286

    @caspian8286

    Жыл бұрын

    That’s exactly what I’m thinking- they waited for her to leave the room to open the RED wine like seriously I bet they did cos they were joking about how crazy she is about it and that “ nothing will happen “

  • @cassandrasteinke2835
    @cassandrasteinke2835 Жыл бұрын

    The grandpa and Christmas in July story had me in tears almost. For the girlfriend to be such a Scrooge about it so sad . Luckily she left and he got to enjoy Christmas in July with his grandfather, would hate to have had her negative energy disrupting the festivities. How could you NOT support someone wanting to do that for their family member especially one that raised them .No telling what could have triggered her so much about Christmas in July . I would and do this hands down for someone I loved and cared about without a question asked .

  • @stirrednotshaken4837

    @stirrednotshaken4837

    7 ай бұрын

    Just how she didn’t come back expecting no repercussions!

  • @LavenderMoon13
    @LavenderMoon13 Жыл бұрын

    The third story: It makes me think that Lily was probably jealous of the sister. Some women have weird jealousy issues over their SO’s female family members

  • @kristinaerickson2353
    @kristinaerickson2353 Жыл бұрын

    I can't believe that woman with her child. It sounds like she's been intruding on each of their lives with her youngest child. They are all probably sick and tired of being essentially free babysitters. Im sure they all wanted to act like Milly.

  • @jodimahowald2364

    @jodimahowald2364

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm so curious what the dynamic has been like in their family even before Micah was born... The mom sounds very entitled and inconsiderate of her other children as autonomous human beings and adults. I wouldn't be surprised if she has always tried to control and guilt trip her kids like this. People are allowed to say no to things, especially a favor.

  • @kristinaerickson2353

    @kristinaerickson2353

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jodimahowald2364 I'm guessing Milly has taken the lead in shutting mom down being the oldest

  • @YoongisRapin
    @YoongisRapin Жыл бұрын

    I missed the part about the mom being only 47 (i genuinely thought she was going to be in her late 60s or something) for the mad about her daughter not taking care of her 6 year old. My aunt and uncle both in their early 50s adopted the sweetest little one year old and had more than enough energy to take care of him and play with his energetic little self. Unless the parents have major health conditions I have a hard time being sympathetic for them because 47 is fairly young heck my parents were close to that age when I was 6

  • @FT-bd8mc

    @FT-bd8mc

    Жыл бұрын

    I know like cmon your not old if you can have the child you can take care of it

  • @ellielou52
    @ellielou52 Жыл бұрын

    Sex work when it's 100% your choice can be fun and empowering. But when you're forced into its not. Not only is your perspective different, but you can feel exploited. Not to mention that you don't get to be picky, you put yourself in dangerous situations, you can't say no to doing things you don't like... it's physically, emotionally, and mentally painful and exhausting. The sacrifice this very young girl made for her siblings is truly unbelievable. Lily is an absolute pos for not just saying what she said, but even THINKING those thoughts.

  • @maggiemccormick6088
    @maggiemccormick6088 Жыл бұрын

    I am so proud of OP for removing the trash called Lilly. Love makes you blind to red flags and it is great that Reddit helped OP put the final nail in the coffin.

  • @florenceroses
    @florenceroses Жыл бұрын

    The first girl had super high expectations, so much so that she was always going to be disappointed.

  • @HeavyMetalMomma
    @HeavyMetalMomma Жыл бұрын

    Vasectomies - a friend's husband had a vasectomy with his first wife. His new wife wanted kids. They did a vasectomy reversal but it failed, he ended up with a haematoma in his testicle & almost lost it. They then had to go through direct sperm aspiration which is very painful & expensive. Luckily he hadn't made antibodies to sperm which is another possible side effect, which will mean any sperm present will be destroyed by the immune system. Basically vasectomies are great but are not as easy to reverse as people think. (Ps I'm a Biomedical Scientist).

  • @babydxx
    @babydxx Жыл бұрын

    I don't think he was being serious when he said he'd kill her, I just felt more like he was VERY emotional and typing as it was happening while it being AT THE MOMENT. But tbh if my ex stopped me from a $300k a year job, I'd be out for blood as well. I think he has a right to be mad and upset. And he was correct in telling her to leave before he got mad. He is mad, $300k is LIFE CHANGING.

  • @arielniccole901
    @arielniccole901 Жыл бұрын

    The one about the mom with the 6yo. OMG! That one hit. My mom only "raised" 2 out of 4. My 2 older brothers were taken and had a fantastic life. My younger sister is 4.5 years younger than I am. My mom made sure that by the time I was 7 I could run a household. I raised my sister and myself. If she were to have another child I would've raised that one too. It's an awful existence for a child. Good for Millie!

  • @palomaaguilera7694
    @palomaaguilera7694 Жыл бұрын

    This is my time to shineeee- I read the first post when it was published like 2-3 hours on Reddit and in one of the comments OP said that everybody paid equally for housing/activities but that the girls where EXPECTED to pay for her food and drinks because ✨she is the bride✨. In another comment she said that the girls shared rooms but there weren’t enough beds for all of them so some brought extra mates etc, but she implied she was alone in one room xD

  • @walnutsrcool
    @walnutsrcool Жыл бұрын

    I feel bad for the youngest kid because they probably have a bond with their older siblings and the mom put that child in a position to see their big sister screaming to take them away.

  • @gemmamathewson4618
    @gemmamathewson4618 Жыл бұрын

    I just have to say, my mom used to tell me as a kid “I brought you into this world, I can take you out”. Every once in a while now, I ask her to follow through on that promise. Her response: “no, you must suffa! Haha.” It’s the running joke now

  • @fallingawayfromthenorm
    @fallingawayfromthenorm Жыл бұрын

    Christmas tree story - I am very much someone who does not like Christmas, but I laughed in disbelief that someone would leave their partner over putting a Christmas tree up. That’s ridiculous, even more so considering the circumstances.

  • @RPGPaenda
    @RPGPaenda Жыл бұрын

    first story so far-my grandma has told me every time she went on a cruise, it’s hard to travel with other people. family or friends, it’s hard to travel and be in close quarters with people. 25 people in one house sounds INSANE though… how many bedrooms were in that house damn 😭

  • @Blondebombshell_

    @Blondebombshell_

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes I agree. I only brought 3 people for my bachelorette party. Best decision ever! We were all on the same page. Also , I went to Vegas with 13 other people. Never again lol

  • @supermenka0
    @supermenka0 Жыл бұрын

    story 7: was anyone else surprised by how they brushed off the fact that the wife was murdered and talked about closure? like yeah it’s a way to think about it but i was kind of taken a back. that’s tragic news not a break up

  • @NobodyCaresInTheBestWay
    @NobodyCaresInTheBestWay7 ай бұрын

    Story 4:forced babysitting: the 100$ said was not for the her kids getting paid it was for them to take the moms 6 year old out to do something. So they weren’t getting paid at all for 7 hours of babysitting

  • @siobhanmoriarty89
    @siobhanmoriarty89 Жыл бұрын

    Story about the grandfather made both me and my mom cry... You're right protect this man at all costs.

  • @ilovejuudy
    @ilovejuudy Жыл бұрын

    Christmas in July story, I reached out to OOP and offered support which he accepted 🥺 I can’t tell you how this story touched my heart when I read it.

  • @kathewashburn2595
    @kathewashburn2595 Жыл бұрын

    I love that you're helping teachers with their wishlists! When I was teaching trying to get supplies for my class was so difficult. I would drop at least a few hundred dollars each summer preparing for the year. It warmed my heart to hear that you were trying to help teachers!

  • @allonnafreed1572
    @allonnafreed1572 Жыл бұрын

    Story 6 just killed me!!! My nana had lung cancer that spread all throughout her body. We were told in the beginning this was curable that she had a chance…. then they found spots on her brain and they told her she’d be lucky to make it to December. I made sure she was a big part of my gender reveal. I made sure she had a picture of my ultrasound in a frame by her bed so she could see him everyday all day long. Whenever she wanted to touch my belly even when I was very sick I made sure she got to. I showed up to the hospital despite how bad Covid was and all the risks just so she could feel him kick. I made sure she got to know her great grandson even though she’d never get to meet him. They told her they can only potentially keep her alive till then but it was highly unlikely. They were only willing to try that hard because her great grandson (my first child) was due in December. Her memory started to slowly go away and she cried a lot because she was afraid she wouldn’t get to meet my son. She asked me if I thought she’d get to know him and I told her that she already did and that I will make sure he knows her too. We cried a lot. She passed away in august. A few weeks before she had grabbed my belly and called my baby tj which was her son (my uncle) who had passed away. It took everything in me not to cry because she genuinely thought my son was her baby boy. I didn’t have the heart to tell her that the baby wasn’t tj that it was Kade. That was the moment I knew there wasn’t much time left. I made sure she knew we loved her. My whole pregnancy has been very hard but I wouldn’t take any of it back because I know she passed knowing how loved she was. She got to know my son even if she never got to hold him like she had hoped to at least do just once. Christmas time is gonna be extra hard this year with a new born and with her not being here to enjoy Christmas and hold my baby. That story hit me really hard I hope that man knows how much his grandpa needed that and that he did an amazing thing celebrating a Christmas in July.

  • @inaaxmed6715
    @inaaxmed6715 Жыл бұрын

    the job offer one made me feel so beyond angry. He should've told them the truth and tried to salvage the job somehow. please respect the boundaries of the person who loves you instead of letting insecurity ruin everything. He deserves way better and someone who truly respects and appreciates him.

  • @maryambintjames605

    @maryambintjames605

    Жыл бұрын

    I felt the same way, he should have told them what happened, maybe he could have still got a position in the company.

  • @corgimom5626

    @corgimom5626

    7 ай бұрын

    I completely understood his anger.

  • @Wheatenmom
    @Wheatenmom Жыл бұрын

    Omg seriously this Bachelorette sounds like a nightmare 🙄🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @velveteenrabbit5940
    @velveteenrabbit5940 Жыл бұрын

    I understand that guy being super angry about what his fiancé did to his job offer, but he’s really over emotional and needs to CALM DOWN. The company literally called you to offer you another job. Take that job first and THEN kick the fiancé out WITHOUT the violent rage. His career will truly be ruined if he puts himself in jail getting murderous about this.

  • @voidgalaxy3605
    @voidgalaxy3605 Жыл бұрын

    Home boy would’ve made 5.35 TIMES the average American income. She RUINED his life doing that potentially, she also made him look bad to a potential employer who may communicate with others and ruin his chances elsewhere

  • @katerinawinge9372
    @katerinawinge9372 Жыл бұрын

    That Christmas story made me cry both he and his grandpa deserve the world

  • @ryannbrazil
    @ryannbrazil Жыл бұрын

    PSA: I would recommend only getting a vasectomy if you never want children. They are intended to be a PERMANENT solution like how getting your tubes tied are meant to be permanent. If you get a vasectomy there is not a guarantee that it can be reversed and rates of reversals drop every year after you get it done. Vasectomies are great for people who know they NEVER want kids but it isn’t wise to get one as a form of casual birth control especially if you want kids or may want kids in the future. The recent push for vasectomies has a lot of misinformation surrounding reversing them

  • @aleesaivanov4572

    @aleesaivanov4572

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for saying this!! Someone needed to.

  • @AmandaNoddings

    @AmandaNoddings

    Жыл бұрын

    I came to say this! The reason I would promote a vasectomy over a tubal ligation is because it is a far less invasive procedure for a man as opposed to the female equivalent. Generally, patients are sent home within 3 hours with mild discomfort and treated with ice and ibuprofen. For women, it is much more invasive with higher risk for infection and complications. BOTH, however, are intended to be permanent forms of birth control, are many times irreversible, and should not be sought out unless NEVER having children is 100% the goal. ❤

  • @ryannbrazil

    @ryannbrazil

    Жыл бұрын

    @@AmandaNoddings I completely agree. I just noticed that a lot of ppl talk about vasectomies like they’re supposed to be easily and commonly reversed when that’s not necessarily that case

  • @Squishy6452
    @Squishy6452 Жыл бұрын

    “AITA for going bridezilla when a bridesmaid spilled wine on my dress” immediately no. I don’t need to hear another word. NTA.

  • @menam8241
    @menam8241 Жыл бұрын

    The story about the runaway mom broke my heart.

  • @sunybaudelaire6074
    @sunybaudelaire6074 Жыл бұрын

    Can we talk about the murder one? Like why is no one talking about the police. they ignored a missing person report and didnt investigate AT ALL. Just because she had a history of running away once. I have no idea what its like in america but in my country "adults leave" would not be an excuse to not even investigate. And for it to turn out to be a murder? The police department should be ashamed and humiliated. That family should get a HUGE apology.

  • @cherishpreston454

    @cherishpreston454

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah typically in America if it's an adult they don't take it seriously they just tend to say they took off/ left of their own volition. Most of the time they only seem to investigate when the behavior is out of character. For example they never miss work, if they respond to someone everyday at a certain time, multiple people are alarmed they're missing, etc. And you're absolutely right they should be incredibly ashamed for not even looking into it and the family deserves a massive apology. Terrible police work on their part. Another sad reality is this kind of thing happens more than it should.

  • @notyourabuelitaschannel3575

    @notyourabuelitaschannel3575

    Жыл бұрын

    THANK YOU! I was like “wait a second, NO!!!! FILE THE REPORT” it’s entirely possible she died the day she went missing but at least someone might have been able to do something to find her sooner

  • @death2boredom338

    @death2boredom338

    Жыл бұрын

    It's unfortunate but it usually takes a lot of pushing to get the process started and I think OP puts the blame on themselves because they decided to not push because they agreed with the police. All we can really hope for is that her murderer was found and punished.

  • @oliviarightley5891
    @oliviarightley5891 Жыл бұрын

    Teacher here!! Thank you so much for spreading the word that teachers need help!!! We appreciate it more than you know!

  • @anastasia408
    @anastasia408 Жыл бұрын

    i almost started crying with rage alongside OP for story number 5 jesus christ

  • @Hibbity_Hobbity
    @Hibbity_Hobbity Жыл бұрын

    I am a trauma therapist and I often hear how families defend some of the worst behavior because of the fear of people finding out the family secrets…. In my own family, a great uncle was a chiMo who was protected and allowed to stay in the family (and around children) for my entire life because the family was afraid about what the neighbors would think…..unfortunately, I hear this A LOT, especially in the last few generations where family reputations seemed to heavily Influence major decisions.

  • @Slightly_sad_tm
    @Slightly_sad_tm Жыл бұрын

    I love this episode! While I do think you do more stories with shitty guys, you have done PLENTY of shitty women 1. The mass amount of crappy mothers in law 2. The pick me roommates that fat shamed their other roommate 3. The woman who left her baby in an unlocked car I could go on! This is a good theme for the show, but I think you guys keep it pretty even.

  • @terraguttierez2996

    @terraguttierez2996

    Жыл бұрын

    exactly, notice how no one is getting butthurt over criticizing those women, but suddenly if we criticize men we ""do it too much" or "highlight only the bad things men do". No sir, it doesnt work that way

  • @moimeself1088

    @moimeself1088

    Жыл бұрын

    MotherS in law. The mothers are plural, not the law.

  • @Candy-md1uk

    @Candy-md1uk

    Жыл бұрын

    I think she did this because there were a lot of butthurt men saying yOu hAtE mEN iTS aLwaYs mEN iN tHe sToRiEs

  • @lioreubm677

    @lioreubm677

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah the main hosts have never really been biased, some of their guests could have been but not them

  • @lauren3227

    @lauren3227

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Candy-md1uk Yeah agree. No hate to them but I almost feel like this theme is unfair because they’ve never specifically sought out men before for a theme. Of course, any person can be shitty but if more stories happen to be of men being shitty - that’s not a THT bias. And it’s very different than intentionally seeking out stories where men are being awful.

  • @TonySamedi
    @TonySamedi Жыл бұрын

    Honestly, I think if somebody you love and trust betrays you and sabotages your life to the point they cost you $300,000 a year? You're officially allowed to have a short period of "Oh my god I don't know how I didn't kill them, I should have thrown them out a window" or whatever when venting to others. So long as he didn't actually say or do anything threatening to her (as in her presence) I'd just write it off as hyperbole. Sadly for most dudes we're raised without good ways to express anger other than like terms of violence. Now me, as who I am now, I'd be more like "I wish she steps on legos every day" or something that's more cartoonish where people (hopefully) know I'm not actually meaning "I truly want to cause physical harm to this person" but more "I wish this person had some way to feel the level of emotional pain I'm currently going through". Again, if he was at all physically threatening to her in reality, or sent her crap like he said in the post, then all that goes out the window and he's scum too.

  • @briannad9155

    @briannad9155

    Жыл бұрын

    I know. I was getting kind of irritated when the two of them were like “wOaH cAlM dOwN dUdE” as if the woman he thought loved him didn’t just stomp on his dreams like it was nothing. I would feel the exact same way as him if someone I loved did that to me.

  • @90sbaby831

    @90sbaby831

    Жыл бұрын

    True these ladies are unhinged

  • @taniaesther101

    @taniaesther101

    Жыл бұрын

    Tbh most crazy stories of revenge I read about were about women. Men can be crazy too….but so many women burn or throw away the clothes, slash tires or break the car windows or write on the car with spray paint. They are the ones to actually act on their feelings. Men have stronger feelings, but are more logical, women often say and do stupid stuff. I read that a woman was mad at her bf and during a fight ripped his birth certificate to pieces and said “shut up you don’t exist”. I don’t use such language but wtf?? So when I read about his thoughts (which as a woman I too would have being betrayed by someone who should be my biggest support - not the one sabotaging my future) I actually felt like his anger shows how much that job meant to him. He was livid…who wouldn’t?!

  • @briannad9155

    @briannad9155

    Жыл бұрын

    @@taniaesther101 ummm…the “revenge” stories from men against women are just them killing her. I agree with you that him being mad is completely justified but men also act on their feelings. They just usually end up killing women instead of throwing their stuff out. Let’s not do that “men are more logical and women are more emotional” bullshit. You’ve read a story about a woman cutting up a birth certificate. I’ve read countless stories of men straight up just killing their (ex)girlfriends. Both men and women are equally capable of being awful while emotional

  • @HannaKate2000
    @HannaKate200010 ай бұрын

    That last one melts my heart💜 Reminds you that with all the bad there is good in the world!

  • @LisahBear
    @LisahBear Жыл бұрын

    OMG I love the extra long episodes!! I don’t know what I was doing with life before I found this podcast. Also the pallet cleanse is very appreciated!🥰

  • @whilaminnabrock4936
    @whilaminnabrock4936 Жыл бұрын

    for the first girl, i dont actually think she is the asshole. I believe she was just inexperienced in scheduling and planning. i think she had the right idea, but she probably shouldve put all the girls in a groupchat and had everyone vote for the top places they wanted to go/do that the bride had already picked. that way she has her friends opinions and has a limit on what they would do, so they arent completely overbooked.

  • @madelynn_18

    @madelynn_18

    Жыл бұрын

    Agree, I don't think she's the asshole too. I've said this in another comment but I'd say to OP: - Have separate small gatherings with different friend groups - Maybe a dream trip with the group that has the MoH (Maid Of Honour) in I think things would've been better that way, if only someone had some reality checks with her hahaha. She just wanted a dream bachelorette weekend, what a pity for her

  • @hvnterly8388

    @hvnterly8388

    Жыл бұрын

    I disagree, respectfully. She was a victim of her own inexperience and expectations, but it sounds like she was running that vacation like a boot camp 😂 waking people up, giving strict timelines, rushing everyone to and fro, and making 25 women carry tote bags with outfit changes across town and making them change in public areas. I’ve been on vacations where I only planned two activities and my feet hurt so much. I can’t imagine how sore these women were from hustling and carrying shit on top of whatever ~activities~ entail. And then she cried alone and was upset to emerge and find out the world doesn’t revolve around her, not even on her bachelorette vacay. I was on vacation once, granted not a bachelorette party, but to an anime convention. On Friday, in the evening, one friend suddenly stopped wanting to leave the hotel room. We tried to gently coax them out, over our many returns to the room, but eventually gave up (you’re an adult with agency, do what you want). On Saturday, around 6am her mother had driven 4 hours to pick her up and she was trying to sneak out with out us noticing. Wouldn’t say why she was leaving. Vacation resumes for us and we have a blast. Later on, we find out, she was mad people at the convention weren’t taking enough photos of her in her school girl cosplay. But she was even more mad when we didn’t stay in the hotel room with her (when she wasn’t telling us what was wrong and saying passive statements like “no, you go have fun, I’ll stay here”). So all of that to say, C O M M U N I C A T E. Both these people got double hurt when they placed unspoken expectations (that they thought was perfectly explained through their tantrum) and nobody stuck around to cater to them. I don’t keep friends like this around because I’m an adult and not a mindreader. Even if it’s uncomfortable, even if you have to cry in front of your friends, communicate. I don’t think that makes her an asshole, but the nature of the subreddit is just to ask “am I in the wrong/not in the wrong?” And she was in the wrong/therefore the asshole, with the best of intentions. Her inexperience and expectations turned her into a drill sergeant and she could probably give her friends an apology for overbooking them and running them around town like rats. Her friends could owe her an apology for ditching or upsetting her plans but everyone needs to clearly state what went wrong on both ends.

  • @iratakeuchi3031

    @iratakeuchi3031

    Жыл бұрын

    Nah. OP is the asshole 100%. Sure you have your hopes up and you made a plan, but if you see your guests and so-called close friends are exhausted and not having a good time, it’s her responsibility to be a good host and a good friend ffs and be mindful and care about their well-being.

  • @madelynn_18

    @madelynn_18

    Жыл бұрын

    @@hvnterly8388 yeah she definitely had unrealistic plans lololol, but damn your story though. Glad you guys still had fun but I’m not sure to be shocked or amused at the mom who drove 4 hours to get her 😅

  • @michellecaudle9413
    @michellecaudle9413 Жыл бұрын

    The story about the job is absurd, Im so glad my boyfriend and I support each other in our career ambitions. He’s building a business with a company selling life insurance and I started school for nursing school now that my boys are both in school full time. It will take time for travel and sacrifices from both of us, but we both want to make it work for each other.

  • @aliciapicon4750

    @aliciapicon4750

    Жыл бұрын

    Can’t agree more my husband and I are about to live apart for a year just so I can finish school. But he supports me so so much so I can get a higher paying job. I couldn’t imagine being with someone who wouldn’t support me. I do the same for him and will always support a sacrifice for a better life.

  • @jenem9618

    @jenem9618

    Жыл бұрын

    They were clearly on different pages and had irreconcilable differences. As horrible as the fiancé was (and it was all her fault), it might have been avoided if the guy hadn't been in denial. She was very honest about how she felt, and it was stupid of him to hope it would blow over. Of course, I'm not excusing her. She's the one who decided to be a horrific human being.

  • @BBrewer4
    @BBrewer4 Жыл бұрын

    As the oldest of 8- those kids were def pissed off and have a lot of resentment 😅

  • @katob25
    @katob25 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for putting together the teacher waitlist! Love being able to directly support educators who work so hard for our future leaders ❤️

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