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“Hey honey….the guy I am having an emotional affair with and sent 50 K turned out to be fake….so I guess I am stuck with you instead of insulting you more and leaving you like I planned. So I guess WE need to work things out.” Just awful.
@sampsonroofing7377
Жыл бұрын
Training for these scammers in Lagos, Nigeria probably includes instructions to call these ugly, old stupid American women "Babe" within two days of hooking them into the grift.
@DIMEDAMAGE
Жыл бұрын
best comment!
@EMILYHERRERA
Жыл бұрын
Where she said counseling was going to happen so she could figure out what went wrong in their relationship to "cause" her to do this?! She's insufferable and unredeemable.
@EMILYHERRERA
Жыл бұрын
Also she had shared a lot of negative alcoholic/legal issue stuff about her husband to justify why she did all this, and that was actual decades ago? The man's been in recovery and she's adopted more children with him? She's an absolute weasel of a woman.
@lukeholler4364
Жыл бұрын
@@EMILYHERRERA I agree with your comment 100%. Thank You MY PRAYERS GO TO THE HUSBAND * For this lady to bring up that her husband joined AA 20 years ago and has been sober since then, is simply to switch the blame onto her husband and away from her. * For this lady to make the comment she earns more money than her husband, is simply shame full... ** I believe this women used this abuse of her husband in AA and that she earns more money than him throughout there entire marriage as a power trip A SIMPLY WAY OF DEGRADING A HUMAN BEING.. ** This woman caused her husband to drink, I hope he walks away from this marriage...
Blaming her husband for being a recovering alcoholic, and having depression. What a gem!
@rossfuller8025
Жыл бұрын
i'd be drinking and depressed too if i was married to her...
@DD-101
Жыл бұрын
@@rossfuller8025Same... 😆
@dietdrpepper15
Жыл бұрын
@@rossfuller8025ah man I came to type that! 😝
@motleymama6587
Жыл бұрын
I guess she missed the in sickness and health part.
@DD-101
Жыл бұрын
@@motleymama6587 mere words used as tools to get her way...
She takes responsibility for absolutely nothing. Dreadful woman.
@gailo809
10 ай бұрын
Her constant sniffing is a complete turn off I’m sure , even to the scammer😮
@McVaio
5 ай бұрын
Woman ☕
@Isthisjoebiden
5 ай бұрын
@@McVaiosays the men who complain of having a loneliness crisis, but are extremely violent to women. Bum
@sw.7519
4 ай бұрын
@@McVaiodreadful person. Not only to find in women.
@PatriciaDavies-dh2fh
3 ай бұрын
Seriously what does a 67 yr old woman think when a lot younger guy thinks that he loves her.sorry but I don't feel sorry for any one of them.
My advice to the husband is to leave! She's a liar, she squandered your shared savings, she's not loyal, she's gullible, it's over. RUN!
@Isthisjoebiden
5 ай бұрын
He was an alcoholic. You have no idea what he put this lady through on a regular basis
@annelane8646
4 ай бұрын
@@Isthisjoebidendoes not give her the right to cheat and spend their money to cheat
@agnesr.6151
2 ай бұрын
@@IsthisjoebidenWhy not leave him?
I have no respect for a person that can not leave a relationship before starting another. Absolutely unacceptable.
@Kunstschilder1987
Жыл бұрын
with kids in the picture as well. it is disgusting behaviour
@waynecrothers9441
Жыл бұрын
Your right there.....it's like they're weighing up the options.........
@Coffeeislife33
Жыл бұрын
I agree. Her poor husband and children the time taken away from them so she feels good
@ladyunique6010
Жыл бұрын
She lie..she would have left her husband in a flash..
@maryannanderson2213
Жыл бұрын
Someone should tell this woman that "a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush." She is married to a man who presumably loves her and she has children by him and she is willing to walk away from that relationship to be with a man she has never met and who probably does not exist except on a computer screen. Sometimes I feel really sorry for women who are getting scammed and sometimes not so much. I sort of feel like they need to have their brain checked! You're not planning to "leave your home". You're planning to leave your husband and your children for an internet romance scammer. Maybe I shouldn't say this, but if I were your husband and I learned that you are only staying with me because your plan to leave me for another man didn't work out, I would save you the trouble and I would leave YOU. I think he needs to find a woman who loves HIM and who will not be haunting internet sites looking for someone with whom she will replace him.
He sent her a pizza and she sent him 50k? Fair trade. Lol.
@braindamaged9519
Жыл бұрын
When she got that pizza she knew she hit gold and could consider herself a well taken care of Sugar Baby.
@nutnurse7765
Жыл бұрын
Lol
@debmassey9289
Жыл бұрын
It WAS Pizza Hut.
@Tony.Technics.1200s
Жыл бұрын
lol!
@itsalrightitsok929
Жыл бұрын
😪
*He ordered Pizza for her and didnt even pay for the delivery fee. He made her drive to the place 😂*
@user-cg7yp5tm5p
2 ай бұрын
What a catch! 😂😂
@raphaellavictoria01
Ай бұрын
No, but this is the first scammer on this show to send anyone anything, lol! This is the most generous scammer ever.
@persephoneszeliga
Ай бұрын
@@raphaellavictoria01no, I’ve seen some send a generic bouquet of flowers
@user-mm4rz8mk3e
16 күн бұрын
That's one hell of a pizza, 50k worth!
@Mounhas
3 күн бұрын
@@user-mm4rz8mk3e😂
The guy was an alcoholic who quit 20 years ago and goes to AA, what's the issue here that excuses your cheating?
@pixi2209
2 ай бұрын
🎯🙆🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️Exactly...
I’m certain that if her husband fell for an online cutie and sent $50,000 she’d never forgive him.
@Straightjacket154
Жыл бұрын
She has zero options.
@Straightjacket154
Жыл бұрын
@@starlight_44 nope, I don’t forgive any infidelity. Yeah, right we forgive emotional more than physical!!! Don’t bet you’re life on that one.
@SQUELCH-zj7il
Жыл бұрын
@@starlight_44 Why is that a bad thing lol? Are we supposed to forgive cheating or?
@dorotheasantiago9037
Жыл бұрын
Exactly, perhaps she'll gets stroke sad for you women
@madameproblemes6548
Жыл бұрын
I'm sure about that too.
“He suffers from severe depression and self-loathing…. I KNOW! I’ll cheat on him and bankrupt us!” Absolutely HORRIBLE person!
@unapologeticdida
Жыл бұрын
Exactly. Why did she stay with him if he was that bad
@DD-101
Жыл бұрын
@@unapologeticdidaUsery.
@i_luv_hecklefish
7 ай бұрын
I'm sure her behavior will do tons to help the problem. 😂 Poor guy.
@nadogrl
12 күн бұрын
@@unapologeticdida- Marriage vows?
The lack of respect and value she gives to her husband is shocking. All my sympathy goes to him. She sold him out in more ways than one.
@temmiepet4183
7 ай бұрын
THIS RIGHT HERE
@betsylynnvedrine3784
3 ай бұрын
That part
"You better show me you are out of money!!" Yep, sounds like a match in heaven
Can you imagine a stranger forcing you over a computer to prove your broke? She deserves everything she got, can't fix stupid.
@ED80s
Жыл бұрын
and he's so aggressive "you better answer me right now"! why would she want to be with anyone like that and how bad of a relationship does she have with her husband that she would rather be with someone like that?!
@kerry1979
Жыл бұрын
You don't have to prove anything to a Stranger like that. or give him Money in the first place.You really DOn't owe them ANything at all. When people online ask me for money I block. That scammer was being too greedy himself. There was one too that asked a lady for $650 K. She said she did not have that kind of money. Then they said Sell her House, Her car Everything she has to get the money. The scammers in reality really don't care about you just want your money & why should we give it to them? Get a job at Mcdonald's or something they should Make their own.
@KimVerhaaff
Жыл бұрын
Nobody deserves this, but yeah... she's pretty dumb.
@kathrynshields8221
Жыл бұрын
SHE IS TOTALLY STUPID...... SHE DROVE HIM TO ALL THAT........I WOULD TELL THE HUSBAND TO RUN!!
@thetruthk5138
Жыл бұрын
But he really really loves me ;-)
I love the way she tries to demonize the husband about his drinking that happened 20 years ago as if it's his fault that she's been talking to this scammer and sending him thousands of dollars
@mrjones2721
Жыл бұрын
She did say he has major temper problems. He sounds like a dry drunk, an alcoholic who stopped drinking but didn’t fix his alcoholic personality issues. That said, he doesn’t deserve this. An honest divorce, maybe, but not this.
@MissX905
Жыл бұрын
She likely drove her husband back to drinking :(.
@jackdanson2
Жыл бұрын
She says she wants to "Figure out what went wrong in our relationship that made me do what I did". She won't even acknowledge she's in the wrong, it's about what he did to cause it.
@opo3628
Жыл бұрын
She's just making excuses for her own shitty behavior.
@MusicByJC
Жыл бұрын
I have a feeling that he drank to avoid the miserable women.
I’m just floored rn that this woman felt disrespected enough by the scammer to block his calls bc he was so rude to her but still considering leaving a devoted husband and father who is battling depression and 20 YEARS SOBER for this “prize” of a person. She’s absolutely nuts!!!
@TahoeSnowbird
10 ай бұрын
Maybe being married to her leads him to drinking!
@scarletsletter4466
9 ай бұрын
Respectfully, she shouldn’t be blaming him, but if you’ve never been with an addict partner, you can’t imagine the sense of isolation. Of course that’s no excuse, but she’s likely suffering from decades of neglect & people-pleasing that made her vulnerable to someone who gave her constant attention ❤
@Polyfusia
9 ай бұрын
@@scarletsletter4466 Did what your describing happen to by any chance?
@angelwingz892
9 ай бұрын
A miserable alcoholic is a drain on your soul. She should consider separating, counseling and restarting her life. Her scammer boyfriend gave her attention that she obviously hadn't had for decades.
@fudgefudge8913
9 ай бұрын
Meh. Who knows if it true. Thought she said the dude was 20 years sober, though. Idk.
The lady is 67, husband, kids, grandkids and she takes this route. Midlife crisis at 67? Poor husband.
I wouldn't send 50 cents let alone $50k to someone I've never met.
@feridedogan7653
Жыл бұрын
I would send maybe 50 For strangers who Need Food once
@MyHersheyBoy
Жыл бұрын
I only have about $0.50 to my name lol
@pietrojenkins6901
Жыл бұрын
@@MyHersheyBoy liar you don't live in the 3rd world where that is the norm.
@MyHersheyBoy
Жыл бұрын
@@pietrojenkins6901 no I live in the first world in a country with no universal health care and blinding health care debt 🙄
@gizmo7826
Жыл бұрын
Wait until you are 70 🤣😜
Her husband should leave her and sue her for using marital funds to send to a scammer
@MT-oi2ty
8 ай бұрын
💯
@maryscott234
5 ай бұрын
Excalty! That wasn't just her money it was their money. She got everything she deserved and I hope her husband leaves her.
@UnapologeticThoughts
5 ай бұрын
He can't she's the bread winner remember?
@NerdyOutdoorVeteran
5 ай бұрын
Would be a waste of time. It would cost him more money and he will never get anything in return.
@catmannion
5 ай бұрын
@@NerdyOutdoorVeteran not necessarily. Depends on the state and county
This fool is deceiving her husband yet complaining that someone is deceiving her..no pity for her
“I think my husband is resentful because I’m the money maker” no he’s resentful because you’re having an affair that he knows is a romance scam
I feel really sorry for the husband that got his savings given away by someone he thought loved him.
@curtg7396
Жыл бұрын
Same here,she’s super disrespectful to her husband and family.
@lisawentworth6831
Жыл бұрын
@@curtg7396 they always think that the person that loves and supports them is nothing, but the person that lies to them is everything!
@WeggieQueen2005
Жыл бұрын
horrible
@WeggieQueen2005
Жыл бұрын
@Donnell Okafor for sure!!
@JuliaShalomJordan
Жыл бұрын
Yes.☹️
In conversations with scammers, the constant, "Babe this, Babe that" would drive me nuts!🤦♀️
@kkenneth100
Жыл бұрын
They use little pet names like that to keep from calling them the wrong name. So everybody is just babe. Makes them feel so special.
@DressedForDrowning
Жыл бұрын
I agree, I feel the same. But maybe we need to understand that the victims have *nobody* who call them "babe", maybe not in years, so they pretty much enjoy it. That's why they fall for the scam. I've seen several videos now and try hard to understand. Most of the people are lonely and yearn for somebody who care for them. And the scammers fulfill exactly this "niche". They have all day nothing else to do as to write longing textmessages to lonely people ... and in the end getting paid for it.
@kkenneth100
Жыл бұрын
@@DressedForDrowning Oh I see what your saying and agree, they are very lonely and it does make them feel special when someone calls them babe. But the scammers likely are calling them names like babe, honey or sweetheart because using pet names like that, they don't risk the chance of mistakenly calling them someone else's name. There's no telling how many victims these people are scamming at one time. So use pet names so you don't have to remember so many names.
@DressedForDrowning
Жыл бұрын
@@kkenneth100 LOL These scammer have in 1 hour more love interests as I have had in my entire life. 😄😄 One more thought: A hard working man who must work for food, rent and for the outcome of his beloved, has not all day time to sweet talk to a women.
@obsidianwitch3334
Жыл бұрын
Or my queen!!
11:45 whether she stays with her husband or not depends if the scammer is “real” or not. This lady is a cheater, not a victim.
Malignant narcissist. Hopefully hopefully her husband leaves her with nothing. Please do an update on this case
She’s blaming everyone and everything except herself. It’s embarrassing
@PaulAllen786
Жыл бұрын
Accountability is a woman’s kryptonite.
@DCLOVESGOD365
Жыл бұрын
That’s basically a lot of women.
@firstnamelastname1538
Жыл бұрын
@PaulAllen Who hurt you, bro?
@karena.3248
Жыл бұрын
Why is she ok with him demanding proof from her, but she doesn’t ask him for proof of anything?
@clairsmiley8053
Жыл бұрын
How could anyone stand the sound of her voice
This scammer threw everything in - military, starving, a child, my queen, robbed, lost gold, homeless in NYC, etc, - but the kitchen sink. He used every single scammer deception. I am constantly amazed that folks are so gullible and fall for these ridiculous lies.
@hoosierbaddy3052
Жыл бұрын
It has all the makings and drama of a Hollywood movie
@gina3498
Жыл бұрын
He even threw in a pizza,how gracious of him
@lwscijunkie
Жыл бұрын
There is only ONE thing a scammer needs; for their target to want, need desperately to believe them.
@islandgal500
Жыл бұрын
@@hoosierbaddy3052 I was thinking more of a cheesy romance novel that a 17 year-old would believe is real life.
@deloresannwells
Жыл бұрын
@Virginia Waters U got that right lol
When she said that her husband started having a drinking problem, getting in trouble with the law and stuff I almost could understand why she felt the need to talk to another man online. But when she said that happened 20 years ago... WHAT? I can't believe she used that as an excuse. Yeah, she had every right to divorce him 20 years ago, but now? She's just trying to excuse her cheating
@luxaeterna6477
Ай бұрын
You have a poor sense of judgment to believe what she said without knowing other sides!
The more of these I watch, the more I’m rooting for the scammers.
@user-vg8tt2pr4l
25 күн бұрын
Right? I was telling a friend of mine that I should consider a career change.
Whether people like it or not, what this woman is doing can be considered emotional cheating. The scammers are definitely low-hanging fruit who should be held accountable and punished accordingly. But the married men/women who get caught up in these scams also had no business looking outside their marriage.
@bethanythatsme
Жыл бұрын
She's trash, I agree with you
@gabrielagabi787
Жыл бұрын
This is emotional cheat. In her mind she was willing to leave her family for him. I really don't understand this kind of woman. Why not be honest and get a divorce? Do you really need to do this to your family?
@theguynextdoor4978
Жыл бұрын
@@gabrielagabi787 In my book there are two valid options. 1) Get out, heal and start over. 2) Try and work it out. Also, a single mother of 3 (biological) won't make it easier to find love again. It's not necessarily fair, but that's life.
@ickiedeer-lamb7282
Жыл бұрын
When you're married there is NO reason you should be looking outside your marriage. Her husband has every right to divorce her.
@snooganslestat2030
Жыл бұрын
How humiliating for her husband.
This woman has no shame , blaming her husband for what she’s been doing
@dianeferguson1074
Жыл бұрын
That COW needs her ass kicked!!
@curtg7396
Жыл бұрын
Yeah,she’s very disrespectful to her husband and family.
@annettedailey6743
Жыл бұрын
Exactly.. The drinking was horrible no doubt but she needs to take responsibility for her actions..
@theironmarshmallowg3932
Жыл бұрын
She’s a total turd. I hope he leaves her.
@user-cg7yp5tm5p
Ай бұрын
Deflecting
You've already divorced him, emotionally.
She needs to know the truth before committing to leaving her husband???!
Her husband was the backup here. How terrible of a person do you have to be to not only cheat on your spouse (even emotional cheating) but then once your fantasy is over just say “Well, I suppose NOW we can work things out.” So awful. Her husband deserves better.
@bw5911
Жыл бұрын
Agree!
@aquablue3625
Жыл бұрын
It's not easy to leave long term relationship on a whim...maybe she wants to leave but is trapped ...hesitating what to do..I know bunch of women in a bad marriages for decades...someone who is not in such situation will never understand it..
@spartancat7205
Жыл бұрын
@aqua blue “Being trapped” and “hesitating” doesn’t necessitate sending 50k to a fake boyfriend
@pietrojenkins6901
Жыл бұрын
@@bw5911 the opposite of sour grapes?
@bw5911
Жыл бұрын
@@pietrojenkins6901 ?????
She had the nerve to say her husband is depressed. Well your lying and cheating certainly doesn’t make it better!
@MissMaria1988
Жыл бұрын
He was into alcohol and bad temper. Dead marriage.
@usujiotarako
Жыл бұрын
@@MissMaria1988 Yeah, 20 years ago. she said herself he's been involved with AA ever since.
@thediscustedkitty6348
Жыл бұрын
@@JaimeMesChiens Yup. The guy has been sober and active in AA for 20 years. Instead of ruining their finances she should have tried to work shit out with her husband or got a divorce.
@nutcracker2916
Жыл бұрын
@@MissMaria1988 Sadly could fall off the wagon. As she did say he went to A.A. meetings.
@christina1764
Жыл бұрын
@@usujiotarako and he is still depressed❓❓
The fact that these ppl want to stay with their spouse who has been taking care of them and loving them ONLY if the new relationship isn't real is DISGUSTING. She definitely would've left her husband. Her husband should leave her.
@BeautyWithThorns
9 ай бұрын
The fact that she considered leaving her husband for someone she’s never met is awful.
She was going to leave her husband if this scammer was real. I hope he leaves her pronto. Horrible person.
Love how she blames her relationship and “what went wrong” rather than herself for this absolute mess she got HERSELF into. I’d leave her. She doesn’t value her relationship or her husband. She’d have left him in a second if this guy was real. She finds out he’s fake and she lost $50k? NOW her marriage is worth working on. I don’t feel sorry for this woman at all.
@snooganslestat2030
Жыл бұрын
Exactly this. Even if there are problems in her marriage this shows she doesn't respect her husband & I hope he leaves.
@vanzeilan
Жыл бұрын
mine did the same, she is actually proud of it... even after losing all of our savings
@absolutelyridiculous6743
Жыл бұрын
I feel sorry that she has/had a rough marriage and she never felt like she was loved. However, she gave her husband's money away! She was a stay at home mom, right? She didn't physically earn that income...all that savings should have been her husband's retirement and future funds for their children when they pass away. I wouldn't trust her again. Her actions are deplorable.
@honestyisadyingvirtue
Жыл бұрын
@@absolutelyridiculous6743 she literally stated in the video that she thinks her husband was upset because she earned made money than he did. So no she's not a stay at home mom. But it is part his money regardless.
@stefs7141
Жыл бұрын
@@honestyisadyingvirtue even with a blanked face i feel her husband is younger than her as well. Sounds like a lazy drunk, she's still wrong though.
"He said everything I needed to hear..." "Send me money." "PROVE to me you sent me the money." "You'd BETTER have sent the money to me." Very loving and caring on top of the ten million obvious lies.
@toni3270
11 ай бұрын
lmao....unreal man
@natas12rm
8 ай бұрын
But he called her queen so…
@jaf22_2
8 ай бұрын
@@natas12rm😂
@Wft-bu5zc
2 ай бұрын
But her husband was in jail 20 years ago!
So if it’s real she’s leaving. If it’s a scam her husband can take on the burden of paying the debt off… wow!
These scammers must sit around and laugh their asses off. You know they all know each other lol.
@AsifKhan-hf9zy
6 ай бұрын
i would nt be surprised if they have schools where they train for this "profession" for a couple of months before starting out with their first victim. i mean if you can make $25,000 a year doing this for six years, catching just one $10,000 idiot and three $5,000 idiots for the whole year, thats freaking $150,000 you made in six years. thats like 1.5 mill in nigeria adjusted for cost of living. you are set for life.
@user-vg8tt2pr4l
25 күн бұрын
I can imagine that their class reunions are a hoot! Who did you get this month Alonzo? Hey was your latest a 60 or 70 year old? Did you use the Army Ranger or Navy Seal identity?
Imagine the scammer demanding “proof” that she has no money! Is this the way a lover would behave? Yet she would have left her husband in a heartbeat for him.
@lwscijunkie
Жыл бұрын
That shocked me too. But, really, there were a lot of red flags she ignored before that one.
@secondrule
Жыл бұрын
@@lwscijunkie Not only a red flag but a red flag and pole to the face... the flag even had letters on it in bold yellow saying "i am a scammer"
@Maya-ln1os
Жыл бұрын
Make it make sense lady!
@Lisnist
Жыл бұрын
@@secondrule I love this 😂
@Sunset553
Жыл бұрын
The scammers probably do that partly to see what real documents look like.
“We’re going to get him counseling”. Shameful how she’s trying to blame her husband for her own stupidity.
@loopthemermaidqueen
11 ай бұрын
Weasley was born in a bin, he cannot save a single ring, that's why slytherins all sing, weasley is our king!
@Pureimagination200
6 ай бұрын
Hopefully he’ll grow a pair in therapy and leave her.
@durgaharidas5204
Ай бұрын
I thought she said we're going to get some* counseling
@user-yu6pe7ik8r
Ай бұрын
That's typical narcissistic behaviour: blaming others for things you do yourself!
Interesting how she wanted to confirm he was real before separating from her husband. Says everything about her. What a despicable person !!
WATCHED THIS AGAIN! My God she is a horror! She says her husband has an underlying depression. Married to her I would have too. The scamming boyfriend expects her to prove she has no more money! Surely that would be a 'tell' signal. The person even as falsely presented, is a horror.
@dwightrenfield2241
2 ай бұрын
She was hoping beyond hope that it could be true.
She’s just as awful as the scammers. The real victim in this situation is this woman’s family
@BabuskaDoll
11 ай бұрын
Poor man married a narcissist and a terrible woman. She just admitted to choosing to betray and hurt her husband / family for such a selfish delusion. At least she got a pizza. I hope he watches this, he lives in an at-fault state and that he divorces!
@gazface1
11 ай бұрын
She’s worse than the scammer.
A) her voice is annoying B) her constant sniffling is annoying...and mostly C) the fact that she's emotionally cheating on a man that conquered an addiction for over 20 years is 12 kinds of wrong. At this point I'm rooting for the scammer, she deserves everything she gets.
@paisleyprincess7996
Жыл бұрын
Like nails on a chalkboard, isn’t she?
@OwnedByKitties
Жыл бұрын
You should probably root for her husband too. Hopefully he realizes he deserves better.
@luciapereira3763
Жыл бұрын
Right? Her poor husband! What an awful person she is
@terriburroughs1660
Жыл бұрын
Yep. She needed Al-Anon. She is so co-dependent she's a scammer's dream!
@bunnylover6481
Жыл бұрын
Because he conquered an addiction has nothing to do with being scammed.
What a horrible woman.
"I got an email from his commander" and onscreen pops up an email from a Lieutenant 🤣🤣🤣
@user-vg8tt2pr4l
25 күн бұрын
Lieutenant Smith at that!
This is a terrible woman. That husband needs to run fast away from her.
@curtg7396
Жыл бұрын
No man should tolerate this kind of disrespect from his wife.
@toosexy7955
Жыл бұрын
@@curtg7396 Strong-willed enough to adopt children but too weak to turn away from a STRANGER!
@trollnerd
Жыл бұрын
@@curtg7396 No person should tolerate this kind of disrespect from anyone* Fixed it for you, this isn't a gendered issue. This is simply 1 person mistreating and taking for granted another.
@susanlett9632
Жыл бұрын
@@toosexy7955a stranger who treats her like 💩
@MT-oi2ty
8 ай бұрын
Absolutely
Her poor husband doesn't deserve the abuse she's inflicted on him.
@toni3270
11 ай бұрын
Thank you; now he needs to leave the batch high and dry....lmao
I’ve been binge watching these shows and it’s always wild to me how little people understand about how the military works. Like mind boggling.
@tanat6349
Ай бұрын
Right it’s a known fact they fly soldiers home lol and they’re well paid they don’t spend money whilst in service so they can’t be homeless on the streets straight after Theyre flown home lmao
@miriam4235
23 күн бұрын
Right? Thinking the commander needs some random old woman's signature in order to let him go. 😂
If her husband has any sense he'll run for the hills
Interesting how she magically decided to stay with her husband the second she realized she was scammed.
I've been binge-watching several of your videos. A lot of these people who are being catfished are horrible people. It's hard to feel sympathy for them.
@Crazybatladyx
Жыл бұрын
Karma kicks their butts and we get to watch
@BensMom88
11 ай бұрын
No sympathy here!! This lady threw their money away to someone she had never met. She needs to stop blaming her husband , of course he is depressed, look what she is doing!! Shes a POS.
@lisalu910
11 ай бұрын
There was one guy whose wife had dumped him for another man - he was lonely and looking for someone to date. He was actually fairly attractive - not delusional like some of these idiots - and I really did feel sorry for him. He seemed kind of naive after being out of the dating pool for such a long time that he fell for the scam.
@serious7179
11 ай бұрын
Yup...I watch a lot of these shows rooting for the scammer 😕
@desdicadoric
9 ай бұрын
@@lisalu910yeah I saw that one, decent guy, I felt bad for him
Leaving your husband, and the father of your children, for some random man who is admittedly homeless and living on the streets, and all the while saying he’s controlling you is incredibly unhinged behavior.
She's horrible. She's complaining to the Catfish crew like I've seen much younger women in toxic relationships vent to their girlfriends. Her anger isn't coming from being scammed, she's literally acting as if she's got herself an unruly boyfriend. The delusion is strong in this one. She's selfish and feels no remorse. I hope her husband walks.
This woman deserves everything she got and more. How despicable the human being do you have to be to treat her husband as a backup plan if the online boyfriend doesn't work out!?! Poor guy deserves so much better. No one should ever be treated as a backup If you're not happy then leave the relationship Don't check to see if the grass is greener on the other side first and then decide to stick with what you got. Horrible horrible woman.
@sharonhoskins7046
Жыл бұрын
Why would anyone think that u had to pay to leave the military?
@opo3628
Жыл бұрын
@@sharonhoskins7046 - For real. She's dumb AF.
@BMW750Ldx
Жыл бұрын
You are 100% correct.....Give her a 1 way ticket to Nigeria and see how that works out !!!
@sylviathompson100
Жыл бұрын
@@BMW750Ldx Ha ha ha, that’s a good win.
@iloveplumpgrannies174
Жыл бұрын
Isn't that the whole concept of hypergamy in women? Women will settle for a temporary guy until they find the better guy. When they spot a new better guy, the current better guy becomes the temporary guy. It's a never ending quest to find the best guy while using other men as a safety net for their bad decisions.
If he’s in the military, why wouldn’t he have money for food, medicine, a flight, and his own daughter? When you’re in the military, they need you. They’re not going to leave you sick, broke, and hungry. These women are nuts! How do they not have common sense?
@nineteenfortyeight6762
Жыл бұрын
The Nigerian army doesn't provide any benefits lol
@scottishflower8010
Жыл бұрын
They also don’t make you pay to discharge or go on leave from the military. They pay for flight back home. They pay for housing. Medical is free for both you and kids
@heavenlymilano
Жыл бұрын
@@nineteenfortyeight6762 LOLOLOLOL :))))))))))))))))) Best comment ever!
@princesabonita79
Жыл бұрын
the military pays for everything while on duty, food, housing, uniforms, travel (deplyment related), and medical, including family but i get it that people unfamiliar with the military would easily believe stuff. Still no excuse to act like this lady.
@AshBear2008
Жыл бұрын
😂🤣😂🤣
What a selfish woman. She had a kids, grandkids, and adopted kids. 50k...smh. Her husband seems clueless as well. The children should come first.
Her husband acknowledged and dealt with his addiction 20 years ago. She cannot own up to the fact that she's addicted to this scammer and what's more - she'll likely find another one who in exchange for telling her "sweet nothings" she'll send any money she's got, to him. So, who's the addict?
I dropped dead completely dead when she said she had to pay $8,000 for him to get out of the military and pay for his flight and all the other nonsense ☠️ I just fell dead. How do the scammers find these people 🤔🤷🏽♀️
@nly4607
Жыл бұрын
60+ year old women who think a man in his 40s could possibly be interested in them are guaranteed suckerz
@javaskull88
Жыл бұрын
More often than not, the military pays extra when you get out because they pay for unused leave. PLUS they pay for transportation back to your home of record.
@jordanalandry1866
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, uh my late husband is a military veteran or was a military veteran I guess and you know when he got out of the military they paid us, lmao he didn’t have to pay shit then he got all his benefits and severence, retirement and medical etc those military benefits you get why did that shit for life there’s not a fucking buyout Options there’s not a buyout clause in your military service
@GingeRenee
Жыл бұрын
My husband is a retired marine. We have great benefits for his retirement severance plan and as long as people aren’t discharged for displinary etc reasons then they get stuff covered. Active duty have travel expenses, food, medical etc are all covered. This is such nonsense that people think this is how servicemen and women are treated. Probably woke as hell too so of course she believes in the victim narrative.
@cowboyfan35
Жыл бұрын
I retired from the navy and almost spit out my drink when I heard that nonsense
This woman deserves exactly what she got and I hope she reads my message. No fool like an old fool.
@clairsmiley8053
Жыл бұрын
An old old old fool
@CAMELFLAM
11 ай бұрын
Her husband didn't though
@cassiephillips9011
11 ай бұрын
I know right ,I do too I hope she sees all the comments and is embarrassed ,she’s despicable !
@Antixandros
11 ай бұрын
Can you guys relax? Ok she did something awful. We don't know her. 1 bad choice doesn't make a person. There is no reason to try to make her feel worse than she already does. That's a real person who has existed for so many years and yet strangers on the internet are judging her whole life and personality based on one mistake.
@JoannA-sweetly
10 ай бұрын
🎯💯
She is going to destroy the family of former foster children over a pretend relationship. That's disgusting. Period.
@loveblue2
3 ай бұрын
Very true. I adopted my (now grown) daughter just after her 2nd birthday. She went through more crap in her first two years than a lot of people go through their entire lives, not to mention the physical issues she still deals with as a result of when she was in utero. To go from foster care to a mother like this gem; if those kids didn't have bad luck, they wouldn't have any luck at all.
@Kaixjss
17 күн бұрын
She alrdy did. Foster kids get funding and im pretty sure that was apart of the savings that she stole
It’s so wild to me how people are willing to leave their partners of many years just for the idea of someone who isn’t even real 🤦🏻♀️
@fa_engineer3687
6 ай бұрын
And verbally abusive!
Im not even finished watching this episode and am appalled by this woman. I feel so bad for her husband and kids. Wow.
@SA77888
Жыл бұрын
Me too........ I also feel bad for the deceased spouses of these women/widows who spend all of their inheritance left by their late husband on another man who doesnt even exist. And we are meant to feel sorry for the ' victim ', why?? The real victim is the husband.
@davinastanton3865
Жыл бұрын
@@SA77888 Me too. Shame on her for doing this. He isn't a well man. Truly heartbreaking. X 🕊😔
@arabiyya
9 ай бұрын
I couldn't take more than 2mn. Her whimpering and breathing in her SOBBING mucus was so darn annoying
Starts blaming him being an alcoholic then says that was 20yrs ago. 🙄
Why is she acting like the victim
So if he’s real she wants to be with him, the guy who DEMANDS to see her bank statement immediately to check that she really is broke. Got it.
These married folks on here are just wrong. If you don’t want to be with your spouse, just leave. You don’t keep someone waiting in the wings as a backup plan. 🙄
@shonii119
Жыл бұрын
Talking to people of the opposite sex is a slippery slope, you never know when you are going to get romantically entangled, but sending someone money? That makes no sense to me. No way would I want to lose my home, my spouse, and run off with some deadbeat that is always borrowing from me.
@BubblyinUSA2010
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely! Playing both sides is wrong. I hope a lesson was learned here.🤦♀️
@Janis.7-
Жыл бұрын
Why would anyone tolerate a scammer talking to them like this? He’s a pig and she’s sooooo naive
@peekaboots01
Жыл бұрын
@@alinasanders6169 he would certainly have grounds.
@petepeter1857
Жыл бұрын
@@shonii119 Lol, good points. You're so right, some person that is always begging for money?? Hell no!
Don’t these “victims” feel any shame for stepping out on their marriage? Lady, you’re broadcasting this to the world! I feel sorry for her husband and her kids. They’re the real victims
@dianerhodes4705
Жыл бұрын
Hopefully, no other man will give her the time of day.
@TahoeSnowbird
9 ай бұрын
@@dianerhodes4705 She has no more money to give to scammers, so no more internet boyfriend.
@AsifKhan-hf9zy
6 ай бұрын
the husband is the victim, not the kids, the kids are going to cash in on their victimhood online, showing up as "victims of a cheater mom" on some jerry springer type show sometime in the near future.
It's always someone else's fault.
Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, I'm an idiot and deserve to get scammed
She changed her mind quickly about staying with her husband, after she found out that the guy was a scammer,
@petepeter1857
Жыл бұрын
Hell yeah she's flat broke now and in debt, funny huh?
@isay207
Жыл бұрын
Hope the husband doesn't settle for alternate second choice
@streeterville773
Жыл бұрын
@@petepeter1857 unironically, yes
@mrgadget1485
Жыл бұрын
@@tabletofridge2449 , but I wanna marry you! However I'm kind of short in cash, so I need you to send me 50k first honey ;)
@user-cg7yp5tm5p
2 ай бұрын
Hit me up, husband. She is disgusting
The husband's going to go BOOM when he finds out she sent $50,000 to a 20 something year old Nigerian kid !!!
@knowbodiesfull5768
Жыл бұрын
I can see it now. He's gonna explode so severely that the whole neighborhood will look like Hiroshima after the bomb was dropped! _(8/3/2022)_
@pietrojenkins6901
Жыл бұрын
Could be a Russians or Venezuelans . Why Nigerian?
@realkangaroocafevietnam
Жыл бұрын
@@pietrojenkins6901 90% of the Romance scammers are unfortunately.
@asamanyworlds3772
Жыл бұрын
India china Nigeria
@fitihab
Жыл бұрын
@@pietrojenkins6901 Duh, they mentioned his IP address. We know most scammers are from India but this is from Lagos.
That Hilton hotel bill at the end had me laughing. It’s like a child made it
Good morning my Queen. That ought to send scam antennas up right away.
Even if he WAS real, why would anyone want to be with someone who demands all of your money and then makes you PROVE you're officially broke because of them?
@whatrtheodds
11 ай бұрын
Exactly. He sounds like a jerky jerk face.
@lynnehuff7059
3 ай бұрын
That gets me every time they say "I hope he's real" Why, he is a problematic and completely messed up person
You deserve everything that’s coming for you lady.
@mariacleto1502
Жыл бұрын
You are wicked for saying that !
@luciapereira3763
Жыл бұрын
Well, she is reaping what she sow!
@wisdomseeker3362
Жыл бұрын
Yes. She's a da_n fool...that's for sure !
@rentboy7566
Жыл бұрын
Karma truly got to her in in the end. And she seems to have learned nothing from it.
@stuartberke5845
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely!!
You know who has never lied to me, cheated or scammed me, broken my heart, or manipulated me? My dog. All these ladies need to take a breath and find their soul mate pet and live peacefully.
@AsifKhan-hf9zy
6 ай бұрын
thats because your dog does nt have internet access. if he did, he would dump his current "bitch" and find a nice fresh one online.
@truckmusic1
29 күн бұрын
I got a golden retriever. LOVE her so much. She just turned 3
She could have spent that money on a really good marriage counselor and a couples getaway and still had money leftover and her marriage in tact.
If someone I never met sent me these sort of messages I wouldn't be able to stop laughing!!
@felicitybywater8012
Жыл бұрын
This is the comment I was looking for.
@vivianblack2951
Жыл бұрын
Someone sent me a love note as a reply on KZread. My thought was "Who is this weirdo? How does he know me? He doesn't know me. He's one of them. Nice try, bozo."
@lorimac0260
Жыл бұрын
But instead they’re flattered and charmed? I don’t get it either!
@thatvampirelorraine
Жыл бұрын
You and me both !!!!
@tacosmargs58
Жыл бұрын
right??
She talks about her husband's drinking 20 TWENTY YEARS AGO! She has been holding that against him for so long. She feels justified in cheating on him and spending his money on a fraud. That man should run
@Polyfusia
10 ай бұрын
She hasn't been holding it against him. She was grasping at straws to make herself look less despicable in the interview. She failed, but that's what she was trying to do.
@Alphacharlie6
10 ай бұрын
@@Polyfusia I hadn't seen it that way. It makes sense. It's easy to 0art with money you haven't earned.
Wiping a tear from my eye. For her poor husband.
@pixi2209
2 ай бұрын
Yes... 😮😖
What he meant was, "Age doesn't matter! As long as you're willing to believe my lies and send me money anytime I need it, what's the difference? You're my Queen and I love you, no matter your age...just keep that cash flow going!".
Dude is homeless in the streets of NY and he goes to the HILTON hotel and spends $5000 for 1 night and 2 meals !!! Women need to wake up and be realistic!
@chocolatethunder192
Жыл бұрын
Right?! And a hotel won't hold a room for you without a hold on your credit card.
@MsRishaghosh
Жыл бұрын
and the logo is fake too
I would be embarrassed, I can’t believe she’s okay with this being public 💀
@Lulu-xl5cm
Жыл бұрын
Thats why I think this channel pays 'victims' to read a script and it's all made up for entertainment. Most stories are just too unreal.
@brindacockburn4033
Жыл бұрын
@@Lulu-xl5cm I was wondering if this was the Cringe Channel
@sup_monica3597
Жыл бұрын
She's delusional
@Lulu-xl5cm
Жыл бұрын
@@JaimeMesChiens I really have a hard time believing that honestly. Some things just are too much. Like being in full view telling a story like this while she has kids. No, I just can't believe people would do that to themselves and their families. It has to be scripted.
@CatfishedOnline
Жыл бұрын
We assure you they’re 100% real Believe is or not. We vet each story that comes to us.
Being married to this woman… No wonder the guy had a drinking problem!
Feel bad for the husband and children. ZERO sympathy for this cheater!
This is really messed up. Shame on her. "I"m leaving you for this online boyfriend! Unless he's fake. Then I guess I'll stay."
@darcylett486
Жыл бұрын
Mind boggling
@SA77888
Жыл бұрын
Exactly.........no one else mentioned this.......she was happy to stay with him once she realised she had been scammed and the other guy didnt exist. POS.
@clairsmiley8053
Жыл бұрын
Mind boggling that she thinks she's attractive
Honestly, this woman is getting exactly what she deserves...all the way from Nigeria!
@Broyale26
Жыл бұрын
Nigerian justice!
@matsamnicfam
Жыл бұрын
With love, from Nigeria.
@sharonrigs7999
Жыл бұрын
These Nigerians should share with their oppressed American brethren. Not their fault they had the slower ancestors!
@susanlett9632
Жыл бұрын
In this case I'm #teamscammer
If she didn't want to be married to an alcoholic, FINE. Leave him. But don't go around cheating and leaving yourself broke.
9:25 the little smile she gives after describing how upset her husband was is very telling.
@chrishnah
Ай бұрын
Omg I saw that too
@stereomaster4231
Ай бұрын
It makes her feel special and or powerful
To hear her crying and saying "I feel like I've been brainwashed." ROLLING MY EYES. Nope, babe, you're a big ol' cheater. If you can't take responsibility for your actions, you'll keep ruining your life and anything good in it. Grow up.
@Campfire30
Жыл бұрын
Imagine being an elderly fuckgirl.
@Campfire30
Жыл бұрын
"Thank goodness my husband is the man he is." Flaming red flag. She's glad because she thinks her husband will be a pushover and that it's up to her whether they "work on" their relationship or not. I hope he stands up for himself and leaves her.
@stefs7141
Жыл бұрын
@@Campfire30 I swear boomers have arrested development. They can barey string a coherent sentence together yet these idiots have six figures in savings they're able to squander. This is what happens when you've had economic privlege your whole life for doing absolutely nothing.
@kajinsautumn9833
Жыл бұрын
@@Campfire30 Also if he is the man he is, why is she looking online for another one?
@KhaiFirst
Жыл бұрын
"grow up" she is 67yo.. no grow up anymore.. hahaha
I don’t feel sorry for this woman one bit. Not only is she a cheater but she gave this stranger all that money that was partly her husband’s. I can’t imagine the devastation that man would go through with all of this. So sad
She may be heartbroken from getting scammed, and then stay with her husband for emotional support, and then after recover she will resume looking for other guy online.
She honestly thinks her husband will be ok with it when he watches this and finds out she sent this guy $50,000?
Being a woman, no way would I be paying for ANY man's expenses. It is such a turnoff, I would want him out of my life at the first mention of a loan. Ladies, you have to have some standards!!
@Tony.Technics.1200s
Жыл бұрын
That's just common sense, these women are obviously f*cked in the head to fall for these obvious scams.
@freeman405
Жыл бұрын
Being a man i would not pay for a woman's expenses neither. It would be a waste of money.
@raner2367
Жыл бұрын
Capitalism just devoured any sense woman and man had. It's all about the money nowadays all day. We will see how will that make us all feel. It's a trap for whole humanity. But then again in bastion of capitalism most people do not know where Africa even is on the map so that's some education for masses but they know every Pizza Hut in their state. Weak minded sheeps.
@meganmarts5769
Жыл бұрын
Maybe she felt needed?
@Ljounieh
Жыл бұрын
🙄
I'm absolutely DISGUSTED by this woman!!!
@tonyscott1066
Жыл бұрын
👍👍👍👍👍💯
The thing is, there's this myth that people who fall victim to scammers are automatically "nice" people, "kind" people who have been unfairly taken advantage of. This channel has really opened my eyes! Some of the so-called victims are actually victimizing others: their spouses, or other family members who are trying to stop them. I also think they get something out of being in a video like this, where they gain attention, a kind of fame, and possible public sympathy. Hey, maybe someone will reach out to them! (heh-heh).