Woman Claims Mom Acted Like ‘Complete Lunatic’ At Sister’s Wedding, Family Hasn’t Recovered

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Danielle claims that growing up, there was no structure or stability in her life, and that her home was “very violent.”
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“My mother was absent, checked out, and neglectful,” she says. “There were a lot of arguments, a lot of physical fighting, a lot of emotional and verbal abuse as well.” She says the “blowouts” often occurred between her and her mother, starting when she was 12.
“Very unreliable,” is how Danielle’s older sister, Wendy, describes their mom when she was growing up. “She told me at a pretty young age that she wanted to be my friend and not necessarily my mother,” she says.
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The siblings say they have tried to confront their mother, Janet, about her behavior, but she often gets defensive. They say Wendy’s wedding day almost eight years ago turned into a disaster because of Janet - and the family has yet to recover. Watch the video above to learn what happened.
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  • @ohwow9559
    @ohwow95593 жыл бұрын

    don’t be shy, start posting full episodes

  • @comfortablynumb5597

    @comfortablynumb5597

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!!

  • @missmew3499

    @missmew3499

    3 жыл бұрын

    👏👏👏👏💯💯💯💯

  • @mckenziegroves9555

    @mckenziegroves9555

    3 жыл бұрын

    I see no dislikes

  • @abibb27

    @abibb27

    3 жыл бұрын

    Just like he used to!

  • @aprilsilvers381

    @aprilsilvers381

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think we should appreciate what they are posting. If you want full episode we will be fine with you posting

  • @saiyanpridez8417
    @saiyanpridez84173 жыл бұрын

    At least the siblings are supportive of each other..

  • @christjerky2320

    @christjerky2320

    3 жыл бұрын

    Kinda have to be 😂

  • @bridgertonbee

    @bridgertonbee

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's all that matters

  • @lils426

    @lils426

    3 жыл бұрын

    I guess that kind of abuse forces them together, they need some kinda anchor

  • @sherondariley4224

    @sherondariley4224

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes thank God for that

  • @Mrjonezzz

    @Mrjonezzz

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lmao not like it was gonna come from anywhere else 😂😂

  • @petalblossom96
    @petalblossom963 жыл бұрын

    Mom's miserable and doesn't want anyone else to be happy either. That's why she ruined the wedding. Spite.

  • @MsWiccanpriestess

    @MsWiccanpriestess

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Petal Blossom the mother is what you call a Narcissist, this includes: Selfishness, Manipulative, Calculating, these people are often at times emotionally, mentally, verbally or physically abusive, controlling, they are good at playing the victim. I should know I live with a Narcissistic person my father.

  • @daniellediller5070

    @daniellediller5070

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@MsWiccanpriestess same but mine died 4 years ago

  • @nikkithorpe6248

    @nikkithorpe6248

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lmao

  • @shonaharris9328

    @shonaharris9328

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wiccan Priestess I had a mother like that as well. You had to cater to her, she was like a child. Big temper tantrums, attention on her at all times. If she wasn’t happy, she would bring down everybody else around with her. I didn’t really realize or digest that she was a narcissist.

  • @truthhurts8312

    @truthhurts8312

    3 жыл бұрын

    My mother is good for ruining special moments.

  • @alyxantyx1236
    @alyxantyx12363 жыл бұрын

    Why would you want a relationship with that woman? Blood and DNA doesn't make someone a parent.

  • @castingemail740

    @castingemail740

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @alyxantyx1236

    @alyxantyx1236

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Journeystomake Alkebulan I agree, it was all about not being centre of attention and that is really sad when you can't be happy for your own Daughter; let her have her day

  • @krh6239

    @krh6239

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's because at the end of the day, that is their mother. Cuttimg parents out of your life is hard. I know. I've done it. You have this fantasy that one day, they will become better people and you will have a good relationship. But at some point you realize that that is just a fantasy and you feel like somerhing in you just died.

  • @deepblue7021

    @deepblue7021

    3 жыл бұрын

    Facts

  • @chickinskinz

    @chickinskinz

    3 жыл бұрын

    Kr H had to do the same thing with my grandma. she even attacked me like a rabid animal and then calls up other family that *actually did her wrong* in jamaica and tells them a butchered, one sided story. no has ever brought out that side of me before and it sucks because she forced my hand. had to *completely* disown her to her face and she *still* lives with me. but yeah, something definitely died inside. 😭

  • @crystalrusmisel1832
    @crystalrusmisel18323 жыл бұрын

    Who ruins their own child’s wedding over their own selfish feelings!?!! This lady needs serious mental help!

  • @LouisianaSaturdayNight

    @LouisianaSaturdayNight

    3 жыл бұрын

    Chris Watt’s mother would

  • @ashleyostrout4592

    @ashleyostrout4592

    3 жыл бұрын

    My father. Which is why we don't have a relationship. Actually it was him trying to my ex's new mother in law to help him keep my kids so I couldn't move then to a better environment. Like I said toxic is toxic. If you're toxic to me your toxic to my kids. Point blank.

  • @chada75

    @chada75

    3 жыл бұрын

    Uber Karen

  • @isathemonica

    @isathemonica

    3 жыл бұрын

    my mom is just like her

  • @golden8972

    @golden8972

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm surprised that my mom didn't try something like this bc she wasn't the center of attention.

  • @ujadini333
    @ujadini3333 жыл бұрын

    Studies have shown that commenting first does NOT matter 💁

  • @LuciixLucci

    @LuciixLucci

    3 жыл бұрын

    Okay ... ?? Lol

  • @linnhuman

    @linnhuman

    3 жыл бұрын

    lol ok

  • @jeanross7430

    @jeanross7430

    3 жыл бұрын

    👏👏👏👏👏

  • @allthatsheiz

    @allthatsheiz

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣

  • @jessicasance2357

    @jessicasance2357

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ha!!

  • @kaylaklee3671
    @kaylaklee36713 жыл бұрын

    “She wanted to control everything” ITS HER WEDDING AS SHE SHOULD

  • @linnhuman
    @linnhuman3 жыл бұрын

    ewww her taunting her daughter with "you gonna hit me?!”... she obviously has her own deep issues she needs to deal with on her own.

  • @bobrown582

    @bobrown582

    3 жыл бұрын

    The daughters admitted they did beat on their mom 🤷‍♀️

  • @Psychoanalytical87

    @Psychoanalytical87

    3 жыл бұрын

    She's following her mum around.. The mum keeps telling her to go away and leave her alone

  • @jadedrysdale7874

    @jadedrysdale7874

    3 жыл бұрын

    She’s hit before ! How is she supposed to feel ?

  • @Jadenmic

    @Jadenmic

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Psychoanalytical87 Yeah... When someone tells you to back off you should. You don't trap an angry animal - you shouldn't trap a furious person either. Flight or fight.

  • @JaydeRyan

    @JaydeRyan

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@bobrown582 I'd punch her too if I were them

  • @taratrenise2935
    @taratrenise29353 жыл бұрын

    If narcissist personality disorder was a person....wow!!

  • @clandestinetranquilsounds6550

    @clandestinetranquilsounds6550

    3 жыл бұрын

    The crazy thing is, most narcissists act exactly the same. It's insane.

  • @onlineclass79

    @onlineclass79

    3 жыл бұрын

    My parents are the exact copy just about 0.01 percent less insane about some issues

  • @GhostHax0r

    @GhostHax0r

    3 жыл бұрын

    So Narcissus?

  • @mariaweston5477

    @mariaweston5477

    3 жыл бұрын

    There’s one in a public office.

  • @onlineclass79

    @onlineclass79

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@mariaweston5477 Yeah

  • @kosherkomments1767
    @kosherkomments17673 жыл бұрын

    You know it's gonna be bad when they call the mom by her first name lol

  • @fairydogmother2752
    @fairydogmother27523 жыл бұрын

    My mother was like this, manipulative selfish neglectful didn't teach us anything. Some people have no business having children.

  • @kerinohwithatwist

    @kerinohwithatwist

    3 жыл бұрын

    Very sorry you didn’t have a mom you deserved.

  • @Valerie_0510

    @Valerie_0510

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same. We're stronger and better off without them.

  • @PeaceSM1954

    @PeaceSM1954

    3 жыл бұрын

    Cymru Corpse ....same.....

  • @lisadunn1138

    @lisadunn1138

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here. Mine wasn't invited to my wedding. Hadn't seen her since she threw me out when I turned 16. We had to have the police explain she'd be arrested if she did what she threatened and ruined my wedding! Some people should never be parents.

  • @aaronm.885

    @aaronm.885

    3 жыл бұрын

    I swear, they need to make this a law; go to a college or a school to be able to have children.

  • @jeanneeber
    @jeanneeber3 жыл бұрын

    “You’re NOT going to ignore ME! If you don’t PAY ATTENTION to me-I WILL make my unhappiness known to all & ruin your day!”

  • @truthhurts8312

    @truthhurts8312

    3 жыл бұрын

    It kills me how she felt entitled to having involvement. If you aren't present for your children, they learn not to need you. If you bring drama to the table, they remove your chair.

  • @mc4484

    @mc4484

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@truthhurts8312 Well said!

  • @MsNakeisha

    @MsNakeisha

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's sad..

  • @alishias12
    @alishias123 жыл бұрын

    It's sad this mother has to make even the special day in her kids life all about her.

  • @karenmbbaxter
    @karenmbbaxter3 жыл бұрын

    I hope the siblings just support and talk to each other. I had a parent like that in my life and once I became an adult I had to not allow them in my life anymore.......They died without any of their grown kids at their bedside. This is what will happen to the mom if she isn't careful.

  • @pavithra7818

    @pavithra7818

    3 жыл бұрын

    I have a father like that and yeah that's the end I'm planning to give him.😑

  • @SynFlowers

    @SynFlowers

    3 жыл бұрын

    That’s so sad. I hope you both have healed from that..

  • @pavithra7818

    @pavithra7818

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@SynFlowers well the think is he is a good father up until 2 years back and they he began to hurt me and my mom through words 😑 psychological abuse is worst and I decided to ignore him and get through with my life.

  • @pavithra7818

    @pavithra7818

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sad part is all these years of love he gave to me and my mom was fake and he just showed his true color , so yeah my entire childhood is build with fake love.

  • @whocares650

    @whocares650

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@pavithra7818 I dont think it was fake love. He still loves you he's just bitter right now. Bitter ppl don't realize how mean and selfish they become. Don't give up on him.

  • @nahmate-
    @nahmate-3 жыл бұрын

    At least her children turned out better.

  • @dro408
    @dro4083 жыл бұрын

    Take Mom at her word. She does NOT want you in her life. She is now older, broke, and needs a place for her sorry butt to land. THIS WILL GET WORSE! RUN!!!

  • @serenahopeisabella2226
    @serenahopeisabella22263 жыл бұрын

    I would lock my mother out the church if she did some shiii like this they too patient with this lady

  • @alexisd6106

    @alexisd6106

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's why I'm going to try to have one of my, or my fiances friends be sort of a security guard and kick people out if they act up like this. It's ridiculous. I'm not spending thousands on a wedding and having you make a day about love and me, about you and your issues.

  • @allthatsheiz

    @allthatsheiz

    3 жыл бұрын

    Call the 🚔

  • @susannah8342

    @susannah8342

    3 жыл бұрын

    They should've just kicked her out, call the police on her

  • @Noor-pp5qq
    @Noor-pp5qq3 жыл бұрын

    A melt down!! You're not 5 ..it's your daughter's wedding..GROW UP

  • @jvnbrk
    @jvnbrk3 жыл бұрын

    That's the dictionary definition of selfish,she actually said she couldn't believe her daughter wanted control of the situation...that situation being her own wedding,SMDH!

  • @bmoisgood3228
    @bmoisgood32283 жыл бұрын

    My parents are both like this. They're divorced now and don't have to deal with each other but they really made it hard for my brother and I to grow up in a safe home. Now that I'm an adult, I've had to stop all communication with my parents because of their outbursts/ constant overstepping of boundaries. The biggest thing my parents taught me is sometimes nothing is better than something.

  • @shathahindawi8062

    @shathahindawi8062

    3 жыл бұрын

    Must be hard to leave your toxic family, I'm happy you found peace and got out. My mom finally woke up at the age of 58 and decided to cut off her toxic brothers. They ruined her life, but she didn't want to leave them because she was scared to be alone without a family.

  • @bmoisgood3228

    @bmoisgood3228

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@shathahindawi8062 Mourning the loss of a family member while they're still walking this earth is the hardest thing I've ever had to do. I'm sending your mother and you many healthy healing vibes.

  • @shathahindawi8062

    @shathahindawi8062

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@bmoisgood3228 thank you so much!

  • @crystaldenee765

    @crystaldenee765

    3 жыл бұрын

    It’s so sad that so many of US can relate to having shitty parents like this

  • @bmoisgood3228

    @bmoisgood3228

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@crystaldenee765 it's hard!

  • @ambermitchell8455
    @ambermitchell84553 жыл бұрын

    “She wanted control over the situation” ummmm it’s kinda HER wedding

  • @xLostInFirex
    @xLostInFirex3 жыл бұрын

    "She kinda wanted to have control over the situation" - Welll... Duh? It's her wedding? From someone who had an absolute sociopath as a mother, who literally stacked up on meds to kill me and my brother along with all the other stuff (many times)... I'd say good riddance and I salute you all for making such a huge effort to try and better this (even while she isn't worth it)!

  • @xLostInFirex

    @xLostInFirex

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Lurking Buddha Oh, you're right, whoops! It cut to her right after her mother talking and she was still on video, so I mistook it

  • @sarahdixon1943
    @sarahdixon19433 жыл бұрын

    Toxic... toxic. What a horrible thing to do to your daughter on her special day. Someone who "tore their lives apart" ... SHE DID THAT!!!

  • @unlimitedone2200
    @unlimitedone22003 жыл бұрын

    That lady is a narcissist. It's best to love her from a distance.

  • @dakotay.oiwantsopenmyvideo6655

    @dakotay.oiwantsopenmyvideo6655

    3 жыл бұрын

    💚🔴😘

  • @malas.7276

    @malas.7276

    3 жыл бұрын

    Don't love narcissists at all.

  • @chilliecheesecake

    @chilliecheesecake

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@malas.7276 Easier said than done. A good fraction of the time don't get to choose the kind of people that end up in our lives.

  • @_LazyInk_
    @_LazyInk_3 жыл бұрын

    Why this woman acting like a 12 yo kid JEEZ

  • @_LazyInk_

    @_LazyInk_

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@frogmanjr sounds about right!🤟

  • @perfectlyhonest4139

    @perfectlyhonest4139

    3 жыл бұрын

    Shes immature yes but my 11 year old acts nothing like that 😞

  • @OranteFrazier
    @OranteFrazier3 жыл бұрын

    Well as far as the wedding goes, everyone basically does what the bride wants; even the groom.

  • @subazh9667
    @subazh96673 жыл бұрын

    It's her wedding her guest list

  • @sintexx2801
    @sintexx28013 жыл бұрын

    all kids deserve parents, but not all parents deserve kids

  • @sarahholland2600
    @sarahholland26003 жыл бұрын

    Mom has never matured emotionally beyond teen level. She's probably also a narcissist who can't put her children first even on their wedding day. Sad.

  • @sakura20ify
    @sakura20ify3 жыл бұрын

    Why would they want a relationship with her, she just wants everyone to be miserable just like her, just live her alone

  • @elizabethwilliams5621

    @elizabethwilliams5621

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly! I have a mother that is like this that I cut out of my life however half my family says I should still try to have a relationship with her because we are biologically related. Some people hold onto this idea that biological family is the most important thing, and that we owe people love/devotion simply because we are related through blood. It’s very old thinking.

  • @lizahakimi5138
    @lizahakimi51383 жыл бұрын

    Reminds me of that mom who wore a white dress and was chanting “THANK YOU JESUS” in her daughter’s wedding 😂

  • @shelbielynne9609

    @shelbielynne9609

    3 жыл бұрын

    When I saw the caption that's what I thought it was, until I saw the photo and the upload time. 😂

  • @lizahakimi5138

    @lizahakimi5138

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@shelbielynne9609 omg right? 😂😂😂

  • @cynthiasamuels-jackson7346

    @cynthiasamuels-jackson7346

    3 жыл бұрын

    exactly lol

  • @cynthiasamuels-jackson7346

    @cynthiasamuels-jackson7346

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Barbara Cox lol

  • @julietcunningham852
    @julietcunningham8523 жыл бұрын

    Why was the mother even invited to the wedding? Early on, my husband and I had a detailed discussion on whose parents might be allowed to live with us. As it turned out, we never had to follow through, but we were prepared.

  • @wine_mom_810
    @wine_mom_8103 жыл бұрын

    This is exactly why it’s okay to cut ties with people in your family, even your parents. Set that boundary and go no contact until they get help and show clear signs of improvement and willingness to change. This woman is a raging narcissist, she acts like an absolute child

  • @vibe_oli
    @vibe_oli3 жыл бұрын

    Sounds like she flew into a narcissistic rage. She wanted control and for it to be about her. She want supply. Her action are classic narcissist tropes at this point. Anyone with minimal knowledge about narcissim could see it.

  • @katiejayn4595
    @katiejayn45953 жыл бұрын

    "She wanted to control her wedding" uhh... yeah. She's in charge of the wedding...?

  • @scepticalhyenas5750
    @scepticalhyenas57503 жыл бұрын

    *"Seeing somebody who had absolutely tore our lives apart and destroyed my dreams was more than I could take and I had a total meltdown"* Do you think its occured to her yet that her daughter looks at her and feels the same thing? Or is she still the _innocent victim_ who has _no idea_ how _any of this could have happened_ 😟😢☹

  • @1billionviews293
    @1billionviews2933 жыл бұрын

    Whenever the comments open, we have to roast the people on this show

  • @borisdangubic2618

    @borisdangubic2618

    3 жыл бұрын

    We get the opportunity and we take it 🤣

  • @posypopgacha7341

    @posypopgacha7341

    3 жыл бұрын

    So I understand this situation a lot and to answer your question at least for me it’s the wanting to have a mother a complete family

  • @posypopgacha7341

    @posypopgacha7341

    3 жыл бұрын

    Loser they are tho right 😂

  • @Ruby-gq5pr

    @Ruby-gq5pr

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @posypopgacha7341

    @posypopgacha7341

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ruby ♥ Dude I’m like seeing them every where now tho 😂🤣

  • @nefanee
    @nefanee3 жыл бұрын

    I would've gone no contact with her immediately after that. I don't understand why they want this unstable person in their lives.

  • @babyyoda8719
    @babyyoda87193 жыл бұрын

    She wanted control of her own wedding ? Shocker

  • @cherry1476
    @cherry14763 жыл бұрын

    I feel bad for both the daughter and her husband. To have your big day ruined because of your mother/ mother in law sucks. They were more patient than I would be. If my parents were acting up on my wedding day, I'd kick them out until they have control over themselves.

  • @Alex-jg2bc
    @Alex-jg2bc3 жыл бұрын

    Wait what? The bride wanted control over her own wedding and wanted to have fun with her friends? What a crazy woman /s. I'm glad the siblings support each other and have love for each others. I can't stand that woman at all. It's all about her and her life and her feelings.

  • @howey935
    @howey9353 жыл бұрын

    Seeing things like this makes me appreciate my mother so much. I hit the jackpot in the lottery for mothers i wouldnt swap mine for all the money in the world.

  • @natmansfield1173
    @natmansfield11733 жыл бұрын

    I think their mom could have avoided becoming like this if she had treated her trauma after her separation. We need to work on ourselves and heal as soon as possible, or we'll ruin our entire life, and our children.

  • @sandyo1063

    @sandyo1063

    3 жыл бұрын

    Nat, totally agree with you.

  • @Itried20takennames
    @Itried20takennames3 жыл бұрын

    “Wanted to be my friend, not my mom.” Friends their age make better friends, and moms need to be moms. When you are a mom, it is no longer all about you.

  • @SeraphicSorcerer1
    @SeraphicSorcerer13 жыл бұрын

    1:34 sounds like the relationship I have with my mother,I fully understand what she is feeling in that moment and I hope she can do whats right and what she feels is right.

  • @christinaann6657
    @christinaann66573 жыл бұрын

    This hits home, this is my mom ... toxic & selfish & doesn’t ever understand how she’s in the wrong.

  • @mike47734
    @mike477343 жыл бұрын

    It’s never a good sign if a parent acts as a friend instead of a parent.

  • @HELLINA-HANDBASKET
    @HELLINA-HANDBASKET3 жыл бұрын

    Destroyed MY dreams says all you need to know about her!

  • @juanitarichards1074
    @juanitarichards10743 жыл бұрын

    Never invite narcs to anything. Not even a phone call.

  • @kalex791
    @kalex7913 жыл бұрын

    Some people just should not procreate

  • @TheBizzle1984
    @TheBizzle19843 жыл бұрын

    No one needs a mom like that in their lives. Time to move on ladies, she's not going to change, because she doesn't think she did anything wrong.

  • @MusicologyFriend
    @MusicologyFriend3 жыл бұрын

    My mom told me if I had my wedding plans the way my BF and I planned them, she should “try everything in [her] power to ruin it and make [me] regret it.” All because my BF and I want to challenge wedding gender norms with me in a black dress and him in a white suit

  • @madeliner1682

    @madeliner1682

    3 жыл бұрын

    That actually sounds really cute... Heck, I might even hang on to that idea for later. I hope it went well for you

  • @charliecole6341

    @charliecole6341

    3 жыл бұрын

    Girl do it, we are playing Panic at the disco to walk out to, you just gotta go for it man

  • @madeliner1682

    @madeliner1682

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@charliecole6341 I'm not even close to getting married (as in, I've never even have a boyfriend) but I'll definitely put a pin in that idea for later

  • @TheMadagascarqueen

    @TheMadagascarqueen

    3 жыл бұрын

    Get a restraining order or bouncers if you and your boyfriend marry. In case your mom’s threat is genuine

  • @scottcharney1091

    @scottcharney1091

    3 жыл бұрын

    Do it!

  • @Snowymae
    @Snowymae3 жыл бұрын

    That wedding wasn’t supposed to be about the mom, she’s already had 3 weddings!!

  • @jojotheoj
    @jojotheoj3 жыл бұрын

    Fascinating that the son didn’t see it until so many years later. I wasn’t believed either. A familiar tale.

  • @ms_deexp
    @ms_deexp3 жыл бұрын

    That lady is just sad and unhappy and she wants the samething for her kids. That sucks.

  • @caity9244
    @caity92443 жыл бұрын

    Why the heck did they invite her to the wedding at all??

  • @user-mb5ej9tu1m
    @user-mb5ej9tu1m3 жыл бұрын

    i’m excited they left the comments on

  • @lizelleswart6327
    @lizelleswart63273 жыл бұрын

    Wow this is crazy. It’s so harsh to steal someone’s thunder on THEIR wedding day but for it to be the mom doing it? That’s brutal!

  • @sarahuber8567
    @sarahuber8567Ай бұрын

    Such pain in this family. Probably generational for this mother.

  • @mandhlanyagura2871
    @mandhlanyagura28713 жыл бұрын

    This whole story breaks my heart

  • @Nicurru
    @Nicurru3 жыл бұрын

    Its almost always the parents fault. My mom was, and still is an alcoholic. She has mental issues, and was yelling and screaming every day, when I was a child. She still does. She has never been able to see her own mistakes. Everything is always everyone else fault.

  • @agricolaregs

    @agricolaregs

    3 жыл бұрын

    Narc

  • @ericaschaidt8588
    @ericaschaidt85883 жыл бұрын

    OMG. A bride who wants control over her own wedding?! How dare she!! Wow this “mom” is delusional. Of course her daughter wanted control over the situation, and based on how this woman “parented” her kids it is pretty clear why the daughter didn’t want her mom to be part of the wedding.

  • @user-br5gs5bg1t
    @user-br5gs5bg1t3 жыл бұрын

    3:16 No lady, YOU ruined everyones lives along with the men you brought in. Accountability isnt that hard when you genuinely want to change.

  • @serrafinapatterson9539
    @serrafinapatterson95393 жыл бұрын

    That mom needs to get a grip and be gone until then.

  • @recipesandsongs8050
    @recipesandsongs80503 жыл бұрын

    That woman is depressed, lonely, she's not maternal-some people aren't, and I'm pretty sure she has high blood pressure (it makes people very emotional and upset constantly). She needs therapy.

  • @minkycat66
    @minkycat663 жыл бұрын

    I would have never allowed her to the wedding. NEVER

  • @shannonnaegele4075
    @shannonnaegele40753 жыл бұрын

    Why did she invite her to the wedding.

  • @scottcharney1091
    @scottcharney10913 жыл бұрын

    "No! No! No! ... They're all gonna laugh at you!"

  • @user-ej8cc8zn9h
    @user-ej8cc8zn9h3 жыл бұрын

    My mom acts exactly like this! She has done and said many terrible things, is selfish, abusive, has anger and substance abuse issues, and so much more. Well, now that I'm older her number is blocked, she has no idea where or even what state I live in, she has no idea we had a wedding and will never meet my children nor will I ever speak to her again. The best part is she has no one, no pension, no retirement, and no savings, so she will be living on the street as an old woman because she couldn't bother to be a good mother and person. If you have parents like this, you NEED to cut them out of your life without remorse, do it for yourself now, not tomorrow! I had no father or grandparents but I STILL cut her out happily, because no parent is better than a shitty parent, the sooner you realize this, the better. If your biological family sucks, make your own with a partner and great friends

  • @jkmarblejk7445
    @jkmarblejk74453 жыл бұрын

    Mother is really gonna hate herself when she is alone in an old folks home. I’m a resident assistant and you can tell who was a good parent and who wasn’t. The ones that aren’t die unhappy and alone.

  • @darrelllangerd7531
    @darrelllangerd75313 жыл бұрын

    Shameful! My mother would never have been invited to my wedding. This certainly wasn’t the first indication that she’s got issues!

  • @enjoyingmyvodka1013
    @enjoyingmyvodka10133 жыл бұрын

    Love how they stick up for each other

  • @nathliemajskolv3525
    @nathliemajskolv35252 жыл бұрын

    Why would you even invite someone that unstable and agressive to your big day?? As if it isn't stressful enough on ones wedding.

  • @christinebutler7630
    @christinebutler76303 жыл бұрын

    Why do these adults even want a relationship with a self absorbed screaming maniac? Move, change your phone number, she wants to be left alone, so leave her alone! Get her far away from ever having any contact or influence with your own children.

  • @alexweston9012
    @alexweston90123 жыл бұрын

    Why is this edited like a PowerPoint I would make in grade 8

  • @meaux7274

    @meaux7274

    3 жыл бұрын

    LOL!

  • @JB-pe2yn
    @JB-pe2yn3 жыл бұрын

    If you're so unhappy with your childhood... why are you apart of your mom's life as an adult. Cut your ties and move on.

  • @shilohivy4590
    @shilohivy45903 жыл бұрын

    Why would you want a relationship with this person. Looks like a vicious cycle to me. Feeding off of each other. Toxic

  • @faithmedley8234
    @faithmedley82343 жыл бұрын

    Typical narcissist behavior

  • @marylett5489
    @marylett54893 жыл бұрын

    Who recordred this?That daughter will have to get her own place!

  • @Latabrine
    @Latabrine3 жыл бұрын

    It's ok to block someone like that from your life. Family or not. You have to protect yourself.

  • @danielleking262
    @danielleking2623 жыл бұрын

    omg why even have the mom at the wedding??? That sounds like someone you cut ties with a longggggg time ago.... Just a ticking time bomb, and on your most special day, smh .......

  • @angi7717
    @angi77173 жыл бұрын

    This brings back such horrible memories....go no contact and save yourselves!

  • @rubyfyre9601
    @rubyfyre96013 жыл бұрын

    If you're gonna have kids, you need a strong will. You need to know that you should never give up or pick someone else over your children.

  • @angelinasmith6307
    @angelinasmith63073 жыл бұрын

    Why would you even invite this terrible mother to your wedding if you knew she would act like a crazy person

  • @minoozola8353

    @minoozola8353

    3 жыл бұрын

    It’s called trauma bonding. They didn’t think she’d be crazy at the wedding. They don’t understand that Mom is a full-blown narcissist.

  • @erikagrosset8346
    @erikagrosset83463 жыл бұрын

    Very sad situations. Obviously the mother needs help. As a family, they have a lot of work to do if they choose to work on things. Blood does not mean family. Once I moved away from home I set a boundary with almost my entire family and I was a better person because of it. I hope they find healing and peace

  • @singing4hope
    @singing4hope3 жыл бұрын

    That recorded argument sounds so petty and funny at the same time. Like it belongs at the playgrounds among toddlers

  • @bostonlatina
    @bostonlatina3 жыл бұрын

    If 2 kids are saying the same thing it is most likely true.

  • @amybelieber772
    @amybelieber7723 жыл бұрын

    Im. Now dealing with the same. I became selfaware . realized my parents are narcissistic. With no emotional support at all

  • @SeducedPigeon
    @SeducedPigeon3 жыл бұрын

    Oh my god it's like I'm looking at my own mum watching this, almost everything to a T except from the fact that it was my graduation day and not a wedding. Arguably the worst day of my life.

  • @sandyo1063

    @sandyo1063

    3 жыл бұрын

    @seducedPigeon, I am sorry that happened to you at graduation day. That is truly one of the happiest days in life. I hope you went out with your friends that night and had fun, instead of crying over your moms demons that rule over her

  • @metromelody18
    @metromelody183 жыл бұрын

    Why would you want to reconnect to someone like this?

  • @TheeJmacc
    @TheeJmacc3 жыл бұрын

    The mom said she was her friend not her mom... wow

  • @Ebrow216
    @Ebrow2163 жыл бұрын

    Some people you have to love from distance nomatter who they are!!! toxic is toxic

  • @kimberlylovato1457
    @kimberlylovato14573 жыл бұрын

    Why is my mom Crazy well maybe you made her like this 😆

  • @allys744
    @allys7443 жыл бұрын

    What kind of mother would ruin her daughter’s wedding day? Seriously? First, she complains that she’s not a part of the wedding, then she yells at her ex husband?

  • @SofiaBelle117
    @SofiaBelle1173 жыл бұрын

    Weird - in other clips of this episode the mother claims her children are living in the past and should let it all go and move on.... yet she sees her ex for the first time after 15 years at her daughters wedding and has a complete meltdown?! So they have to move on from the past but she's allowed to hold 15 year grudges and ruin her own daughters wedding as a result? Some people really shouldn't have kids

  • @heyysimone
    @heyysimone3 жыл бұрын

    Maybe the mum should have realised that if her daughter was more into seeing her father who she hasnt seen in years, and not being with her mum, that maybe her mum was embarrassing and should change.

  • @ivy3723
    @ivy37233 жыл бұрын

    I think she has emotionally unstable personality disorder (BPD) tbh

  • @agricolaregs

    @agricolaregs

    3 жыл бұрын

    And maybe npd

  • @spit_milk
    @spit_milk3 жыл бұрын

    Daughter: I'd like to have control of my wedding. Mom: ...and I took that personally.

  • @shannamcclurkin5445
    @shannamcclurkin54453 жыл бұрын

    I wonder what the incentive is besides receiving Dr Phil's help. They have to get some sort of monetary compensation.

  • @scottcharney1091

    @scottcharney1091

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, and they get to be on TV. A lot of people want that, thus they are willing to be exploited.

  • @marriimar6562
    @marriimar65623 жыл бұрын

    I live 600 miles away from my mother and keep it text message only. Relationships are not always like movies or TV shows. It’s ok to walk away peacefully and live your own life without narcissistic people.

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