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What is it that fundamentally sets apart someone from those who succeed and those who fail?
The winner understands the laws, metaphysics and requirements necessary to attain success and embodies them appropriately.
The loser instead chooses to have a “go with the flow” philosophy to life, they are not grounded within principalities, this leads them to lacking any form of decisiveness and integrity with their actions which causes them to become vulnerable to the inevitability of failure through emotional personalisation and insecurity.
Ultimately, the choice of attaining success is down to whether you choose to have an emotional attachment to the inevitability of failure or not.
For example, a common trope for people who give up on life is that they think that successful people only succeed because they somehow got “lucky” but this is just evidence to their weak-willed mindset.
Why?
Because luck for the loser is perceived as a miracle, something that happens by mere “chance”, this is because they lack the ability to construct and envision a long-term plan of action, success is never a mere “accident”, whilst luck for the winner is perceived as a by-product of their consistent, inevitable behaviour patterns.
The winner is always patient, willing to be consistent, the loser is not.
Yet if anything, the successful person has gone through more failures then the looser ever has, but instead, the successful individual never chose to internalise failure as a definition of themselves.
They never subdue their subconscious mind with beliefs of self-deprecative nonsense that undermines the objective truth of their human potential.
That is the true distinction between what makes a winner and what makes a loser.
The person who chooses to be a loser (for life) allows failure to define them through the self-victimisation of emotional insecurity, whilst the winner will always makes sure that failure is a benefit to themselves, a winner will make sure that failure teaches them something about themselves so that they can improve their approach to achieving inevitable success.
The winner is always crafting a long-term unwavering plan, the loser is not.
Failure in this regard becomes their most valuable asset because the positive reconstructive analysis that failure rewards them with can guide the individuals next appropriate action so that they reach closer towards their success.
A winners mindset is also dependent on having a strong sense of direction, when you have a strong sense of direction it allows no room for self-doubt, only when you start doubting yourself do you start questioning your own ability to achieve success and that is when you start to emotionally personalise the outcomes of failure rather then perceive them as beneficial hurdles that aid towards your growth as an individual.
The winner is always humble, willing to learn from mistakes, the loser is not.
In other words, the person who is always going to be a winner in life will never let their will, direction or drive be usurped or controlled by any emotional reaction to failure, this is why the winner is always stoic in their response (and not reactive) to failure, the winner takes full accountability for their specific actions and therefore don’t personalise failure as a by-product or definition of their own character because they know that action itself will always reap a responding outcome which they desire to perfect through incremental adjustment.
They understand that failure is an inevitable consequence to the grand scheme of trying to attain any form of mastery.
They understand that you are suppose to fail and never perceive it as a personal attack, that it is part of the equation to life, it is a fundamental ingredient to the recipe of reaching towards wisdom, knowledge and truth and all forms of higher good.
Therefore, it is your response to failure (and the way in which you perceive yourself as a self-autonomous individual) which dictates your direction as a human being.
This is the difference between having a winners mindset or a losers mindset.