Yes it works but not worth it when they come back.After making positive changes about myself and drawing closer to God i realise they are not worth it.They still have that behaviour which caused the breakup. I deserve better.

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

Like I always say, it's up to you to determine whether your ex's worth it or not and if really want them back or not. There is no right or wrong answer. :-)

@HairyAngus

5 жыл бұрын

this is what everyone tells me, I think im just lonely, not used to being by myself so much. She cheated on me with ex, they lasted a week now shes alone smh

@cjp5485

5 жыл бұрын

For me I caused the break up. He broke up with me but it was my fault so I'm willing to be so much better than I was next time we get back together

@mocosacarajo

4 жыл бұрын

Kaden :p Did you guys get back together?

@ayeshasiddiqui1040

3 жыл бұрын

We all deserve better but the feelings shit😤😔

Even if you think you might not be able to get them back with no contact doing it will still help your feelings go away in the process. Also it can make you realize whether you even really want them back. No contact really is the best first step after a relationship.

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly. Discussed that bit here, too: kzread.info/dash/bejne/Zpul0ZaLmtS7oNI.html

Ive done this and she was begging to have me back. Its hard to stick with but the results are worth it

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

True. Stay strong!

@josiah7777

4 жыл бұрын

@Lindy Tran I did, it works. It didn't last but it was good to have that power back and a choice

@josiah7777

4 жыл бұрын

@Lindy Tran I dont think those are fake. No contact is important but more importantly you need to move on with your life and better yourself. After a couple weeks it gets better trust me. But like he said it's not like they'll be coming back after a month sometimes it's much longer than that. Just try to move on and not wait for that person

@doyleboy8737

4 жыл бұрын

30 days is hardest I've ever done. But day 34 she txt. and said hey thank you for listening and giving me the space I needed to think. Point made here is as hard as it is to find excuses to tx or call don't. because they just think u are there ready needy n waiting. U stop contact and u wait. Is hard but it worked for me. We don't just have a spark now between us . We have a bang. Thank u so much for your helpful video

@doyleboy8737

4 жыл бұрын

Great video brad

Want to give a huge shoutout to Coach Brad for making me believe and trust the power of NC. It took 29 days for her to reach out but she finally did. My ex came over last night and spilled everything she has been feeling since the breakup and I contribute almost all of that to the power of NC. Even though we both agreed that it is too soon to start a new relationship, we came to an agreement that we do not want to shut the door on having one in the future since we both still love each other. STAY STRONG PEOPLE, TRUST NC. It is driving your ex crazy, you just have to believe.

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

Congrats! I'm glad my it's all worked out for you. As what I always like to say, please keep in mind that getting an ex back does not mean the work stops there. You have to do more work to ensure your relationship stays healthy. Review my guide and/or watch these videos to help you further: kzread.info/dash/bejne/nJ6msdKxkZDdlqw.html and kzread.info/dash/bejne/qG2huNyhYrG8ccY.html All the best! :-)

@mocosacarajo

4 жыл бұрын

Alan Schmidt Alan, did you guys get back together? If so, how has that been working out for you?

@garypfleegor1634

2 жыл бұрын

What about if she's seeing someone else

@jasonjason5325

2 жыл бұрын

So what happened? Did it work out?

@alanschmidt703

2 жыл бұрын

@@jasonjason5325 yes still together

If anyone is watching in 2022, no contact worked for me! I broke no contact after 1 week because my ex had an accident and i basically begged him to take me back, which i know i was weak and shouldn’t have, but i re-started no contact and started focusing on my self, hit the gym harder, started doing internal work, hanging out with friends and living my life the best i could. I was starting to lose hope i would hear from him, but on week 3 i got a message from him and we started talking, then he proceeded to tell me how much he missed me and what big mistake he had made, how much he couldn’t stop thinking about us, we are starting over and taking things slowly! Don’t lose faith but more importantly focus on your self! Do more things that make you happy ❤️🙌🏼✨

@betsal2507

Жыл бұрын

Are there updates ?

NO CONTACT WORKS!!! IF...IF you use it EXACTLY as Brad recommends. If it does not work, in my opinion, your ex does not care anymore. So why would we want someone back who doesn’t care about us? Thanks Brad❣️

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

It works in these ways I've mentioned: kzread.info/dash/bejne/Zpul0ZaLmtS7oNI.html

it works if your EX has a heart and is NOT a grudge holder till death.....he can't handle problems

As much as I hate NC, it was the best for us. My guy is too busy and he needs to figure out if he wants the relationship or not. My time is valuable, so take your time and come back committed.

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

True that.

@jonathanmireles1483

5 жыл бұрын

Ivy Loly that’s a good way to put it.

@chynabarges3126

4 жыл бұрын

Are y’all back together?

@ivyloly5254

4 жыл бұрын

@@chynabarges3126 Yes! We might get married this fall! We maintained a friendship after dating that developed into a very intimate relationship. Then when he thought I always liked him, I told him we're great friends, that shocked him and he ran after me literally. The less I care, the more he fell in love. I wasn't suffocating him, I didn't care if he called or not, text or not, he came on its on and said he loved how I always tried to reach out consistently and that showed "character". Well, by then I was tired of chasing him and he started the crazy chase! Hahahahha! I traveled a lot, I also took a course in Counseling which helped with my communication skills, deal with my anger and frustration from the past relationships including a terrible divorce. I am just a new confident different woman. Working out and sexy, smart! From "crazy girl" he now says "there is my wife".

@zoikasa533

3 жыл бұрын

Ivy Loly Wow! I’m so happy for you two!!!! I’m in the same situation, one week into NC and hopefully it will all workout. I wish y’all the best

Brad you are great.. The no contact strategy is really great.. Though i did it only for 15 days as it was urgent to talk to her.. but sincerely in 15 days.. she missed me a lot..and her behaviour is far better than earlier!

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

Great! Be careful though since "missing you" does not really automatically translate to her wanting you back. And with that, I still recommend the full 30-day rule. Good luck!

I tried this it never work but I didn't care because all my feelings went away lol

@sunshinebabe6064

5 жыл бұрын

Martha Vida Who? How??

@walterestrada9523

5 жыл бұрын

Shawn Jones that’s the beauty of no contact . 2 things will happen . 1 ur ex will come back to u or 2 u will move on and ur feelings towards them will change . I

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

Here's a quick overview: kzread.info/dash/bejne/qpuGkpWLk7iendo.html Lots of folks seem to be oblivious about it, so here goes: the 30-day "no contact" rule, once COMPLETED, is just the first phase for most people (unless your ex sincerely wanted you back and it's shown in their actions). There are two more phases to go through if you want an ex back, and the third is to rekindle/rebuild the attraction with an ex. Learn the basics here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/k5l7sLJ7lNPUo6w.html

@shacklesunlocked-eb9qr

5 жыл бұрын

Same here man.... I didn't set the stage first and started no contact rule 😂 i messed up my chances.... Well lets see what happens in 10 years after this comment .... I ll be back here in after 10 years 😎

@a.alexander9221

5 жыл бұрын

SW Sweetie I agree. That means it worked

hi brad...i just like to say that your no contact rule is indeed very effective!your so great in giving advice...NO CONTACT RULE!👍

@BradBrowning

4 жыл бұрын

Good to know! Care to share more about what happened?

im on my 2 weeks of nc and im using the radio off the thing happened to me was i felt like i dont wanna get him back i feel more comfortable living alone without him 🤣🤣🤣 i think nc is not getting ur ex back but nc teaching u to love urself first and moved on to the nxt level ... ivy here from the phil ,,,, tnx coach brad...

Hi Brad, Im so happy to have come across your page . My ex dumped me almost 2 months ago and we've been in contact periodically since . The break up was first supposed to be a break in which I had to move out and he wanted space and time for us to figure out if this is what we really wanted . And time apart for us to miss and value each other, and then it turned into an actual break up after 2 weeks after he admit he was dating and socializing. It then got physically and we said hurtful words to each other and I told him I was cheating to hurt his feelings when in actuality i wasnt. I reached out on numerous occasions apologizing and crying , begging and pleading but he refuses . He still says he loves me and he will always love me and he will always have a special place in his heart for me and that he misses me but he says has accepted the fact that the relationship is really over and that I should just let it go and move on. i dont know what else to do now but i kept breaking the no contact rule

@axtmoore3632

2 жыл бұрын

we've been together 5 years but it sucks to admit and accept that it's really over

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

I think your ex needs his freedom for whatever reason. If you've clarified you haven't cheated, you don't have to feel guilty for it, especially since you've tried to fix things with him ever since. Look, the bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: kzread.info/dash/bejne/k5l7sLJ7lNPUo6w.html and the golden rules here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/Y59-k9ubpamveKg.html

For all those broken hearts out there, word of advice: Ive watched these videos when me and my ex were broken up about 2 years ago. Me and my ex got back together thanks to these videos. The way i did it, no contact for a month. If she/he reaches out to you, Dont flirt. Just friend zone even if they want you back. This makes them work for your attention. (This is a little risky.) Make them jealous but in moderation until you know she def wants you back. Then go on a really nice 1st date. Our first date after break up was going to an amusement park. We reconnected completely. Good luck guys.

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing!

@HairyAngus

5 жыл бұрын

@@BradBrowning so if she starts messaging me before 30 days I should just completely ignore? or send her a message saying something friendly but not needy to get back together?

This and many other tips you give worked for me ! I even dare to say that's the biggest reason why we're toguether again , 8 months now

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

I'm glad my it's all worked out for you. As what I always like to say, please keep in mind that getting an ex back does not mean the work stops there. You have to do more work to ensure your relationship stays healthy. Review my guide and/or watch these videos to help you further: kzread.info/dash/bejne/nJ6msdKxkZDdlqw.html and kzread.info/dash/bejne/qG2huNyhYrG8ccY.html All the best! :-)

Been watching these videos hoping the advice works really think me and her are meant for each other we had no contact for 3 days after the initial breakup but I had to man up and apologize for what I did and agree to take time to work on ourselves without being too talkative. Even if it doesn't work after 30 days I think after some time it will she seems to just need space and time to think about what went down. Thanks for all your advice Brad.

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Sounds like you’re on the right track and you have the right attitude! Hope it works out, best of luck.

One thing that I must respectfully point out which seems to be missing from literally every NC advice video I’ve ever seen from any Coach, is, the power of No Contact, COMBINED with how you PUT IT DOWN when times were good. Like Eddie Murphy once said in his movie Raw, when you make her go “Woo Woo Woo, that’s when you know you got her”. If you ever smashed, to complete and total annihilation, this along with NC, seems to be something no woman can ever get pass. ‘Lay’ the groundwork on her FIRST, for maximum NC results. Miss Me!

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

Already posted various tips about how to lay the groundwork to those who are looking!

@renep7008

5 жыл бұрын

Brad Browning Well then I stand corrected. I’d also like to thank you for all of your videos, and advice. Your 30 day NC technique has been proven to work for me in my particular case in helping me to win my ex back in 34 days. Keep up the great work! -Rene

Ugh 😑 it’s my first day still from breaking up... so tough but love and get hurt, get hurt and learn! 🏋️‍♀️💪🏻time to move on 😁

Being doing no contact for three weeks now, going on week 4... It's really hard but I'm keeping as busy as possible and improving myself 🙌🏻 I really hope he'll come back to me ♥️ Last time we spoke he said he still loves me but thinks that because of all the fights breaking up was the best thing to do. I've been working on myself so much, improved my body and my way of thinking and reacting to situation. I even managed to overthink way less...

@BradBrowning

4 жыл бұрын

Good! Just a reminder, once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: kzread.info/dash/bejne/iqOir9aFdtKWYJM.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: kzread.info/dash/bejne/dHWcr9Smp5a5ndY.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: kzread.info/dash/bejne/k5l7sLJ7lNPUo6w.html Good luck!

@ishbryant7057

2 жыл бұрын

I done the same thing and I hope he comes back to me. I just started no contact.

@madsproscooter1143

Жыл бұрын

did he come back

My boyfriend broke up with me and I told him it hurt and I cried when he packed his stuff but when he walked out the door I instantly did no contact. I didn't make it to 30 days.. I texted him after 28 days. I just said hello. Told him that I found an old coin at work (I work at a bank and he likes to collect different money) told him it made me think of him and I hope he is doing well. He called me within 2 minutes! We ended up talking and laughing. But he said he didn't want to come back and hurt me again. He texted me a few times randomly for the next few days. Once about a dream he had about me. But then 3 days after I initially texted him I went out for a couple drinks with my friends he texted me that day and I told him I was going out. He offered me a ride home. We ended up talking then and got back together! He said the first 2 weeks were easy but then he started wondering if he made the wrong choice! He wondered if I was moving on and had started a "battle plan" on how to make it work with me. He said he didn't always appreciate me and he doesn't let himself be happy sometimes. That he gets mad at himself when he's not perfect. Told me all these things he thought of to make it work and that he needs to learn how to communicate problems with me bc he never gives me a chance. (He left once before) he also doesn't believe in living together before marriage and said that he would like to work on things and move in together! He said that I make sacrifices for him and he should do the same for me. That was a week ago. We've seen each other a few times since but I've kept distance. Been ok with not seeing each other everyday. I know before I expected to much to see him all the time. I'm shocked that it worked. He tells me he loves me and misses me. That he's lucky to find someone like me. After everything I'm unsure of things though... I don't trust him enough to move together anytime soon. I feel like once this wears off he will get upset about something in his life or something small I said in conversation let it build up and not say anything and leave again. So I'm just enjoying the moment with him when I do see him but give us both space otherwise.

@laminsanneh6276

5 жыл бұрын

Am very happy of u

@laminsanneh6276

5 жыл бұрын

Be confident and always remember there is hundred out there waiting to be with you

@LifeIs2Kewl2013

5 жыл бұрын

Wow must be nice😭

@mocosacarajo

4 жыл бұрын

How are things going with you guys?

@klkl-is1tn

4 жыл бұрын

Update?

Lol 😂 I fell for Brad ... After watching his video and forgot my ex ... I need to learn how to get Brad 😝 love and hugs ❤️

@TiyeeglowTV

5 жыл бұрын

good luck 👍

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

Well, showing support by sharing my videos is a form of love, I'd settle for that! :-)

Starting today, I'm starting my no contact with my ex. She says we're not working out but I wanna make her regret saying that lol.

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

Right. This vid's for you: kzread.info/dash/bejne/lH6pwdeqopqWg7A.html

@sugamaka124

4 жыл бұрын

How does it go?

@jessepushor9967

3 жыл бұрын

update?

@jerryao

3 жыл бұрын

@@sugamaka124 over her already lol

@jerryao

3 жыл бұрын

@@jessepushor9967 i'm over her already lol

I just found you few weeks ago and so far ive watched most of your videos. Excellent tips and you are one of the best in the no contact video in utube. Yow d man!

@BradBrowning

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your kind words!

You talk great and logic

I’ve only started the no contact rule today, it’s not even been a full day yet and it’s really weird but I’m hoping it works to get her back! As we broke up about a week ago now 🤞🤞

@lee-du7pk

Жыл бұрын

How’s it going?

@zerosixextra705

Жыл бұрын

any update? Im on day 3 it's getting really really difficult now.

@XxRyanlad96xX

Жыл бұрын

​@@zerosixextra705 hey man what's the update? I'm on day one and it's so hard. Wish I was where you are now

@zerosixextra705

Жыл бұрын

@@XxRyanlad96xX yeah I broke the no contact rule once but started it back right away. Sadly it didn't worked for me I honestly done know if it worked or not my ex did tried to reach out to me a few times and I answered her respectfully and ended the conversations short just like Brad told to but she just left me and blocked me from everywhere even tho I didnt said or did anything wrong after the breakup. I know it's not the advice you wanna hear but I also want u to know that its been 2 months to my breakup and it really took me a lot of effort to get over her. I still miss her every now and then but im fine and im learning to live without her. if u ever wanna talk about any of this u can always talk to me about it I know what your going through and right now u just need someone to share all of this. good luck mate hope it all works out for u king 👑

Hey Brad... I stumbled upon your vids a bit late and realised I was doing it all wrong. I didn't go into 'no contact' but instead maintained a friendly relationship with my ex the past month since our breakup. I haven't been begging, pleading or asking for another chance, but still afraid it's too late. I've begun the 30 days now, do u think I should stick with 'no contact'?

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aH9n2tefddqrdso.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com

Mannnnnnn thank u sosososososoooooo muchhh i followed ur tricks just right after my break up!!!!!!No cintact rule is best thing ever to get ex back tbh it actually works man i did that and got my ex back and now we r better than before past relationship thank you so much brad!

No contact is good in the sense that within that 30 days period you already get over your ex if she/he did not come back.

@BradBrowning

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah, that and more. Here's a quick overview to help guide you if you want your ex back: kzread.info/dash/bejne/qpuGkpWLk7iendo.html Lots of folks seem to be oblivious about it, so here goes: the 30-day "no contact" rule, once COMPLETED, is just the first phase for most people (unless your ex sincerely wanted you back and it's shown in their actions). This would also help guide you on what to do after the "no contact" rule: kzread.info/dash/bejne/dHWcr9Smp5a5ndY.html Anyway there are two more phases to go through if you want an ex back, and the third is to rekindle/rebuild the attraction with an ex. Learn the basics here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/k5l7sLJ7lNPUo6w.html

It's nice to see you reply to comments. I like your great work

@BradBrowning

4 жыл бұрын

There's been a ton lately and I'm swamped, but I still try anyway. Thanks!

I did the no contact period and it worked for me 😊👍 my ex texted me first we are now taking it slow but things are going awesome thanks for great advice 👍👍👍

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

Here's how you can tell it's starting to work: kzread.info/dash/bejne/Zpul0ZaLmtS7oNI.html Anyway here's a quick overview to help guide you: kzread.info/dash/bejne/qpuGkpWLk7iendo.html Lots of folks seem to be oblivious about it, so here goes: the 30-day "no contact" rule, once COMPLETED, is just the first phase for most people (unless your ex sincerely wanted you back and it's shown in their actions). This would also help guide you on what to do after the "no contact" rule: kzread.info/dash/bejne/dHWcr9Smp5a5ndY.html Anyway there are two more phases to go through if you want an ex back, and the third is to rekindle/rebuild the attraction with an ex. Learn the basics here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/k5l7sLJ7lNPUo6w.html

@Adultsodas

2 жыл бұрын

How long after the break up? Was there begging and pleading?

Hey Brad ! Hope all is well. A little update on my no contact, well I've been obsessing over my ex even during no contact (I messed up there I know 😭) but I've decided to become obsessed with myself. With that being said I've started back doing my workouts, I've became so in love with writing stories, poems, songs(basically my hobbies that I stopped doing when I was obsessing over him) so yea I'm off to a pretty good start. At this point I really don't care if he doesn't hit me up I mean if he does then that's good but if he doesn't that's also good. I wanna say thank you for helping me along the way even at points I didn't know what to do, thank you for making it clear to me. Last but not least I actually started getting closer to God yayyy🥳🥳🥳and I'm sorry for the long paragraph I'm just so excited to share!!THANK YOU!!!

@BradBrowning

Жыл бұрын

Sounds great, then! Thanks for sharing and keep up the good work! If you ever need my help, I trust you'll know what to do. Take care!

Wow you actually reply to people on here thats so awesome thank you 🙏

@BradBrowning

3 жыл бұрын

Whenever I can, yes! ;)

It worked for me, thank you so much :)

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

You're welcome! Hey, you never know who else can benefit, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it! :-)

I use no contact extream I started to use it to get her back Now I'm dating someone and now it mostly cause she wants me back and I do not want contact till her emotions calm down

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

True that. That's key. Giving your emotions (for the both of you) to settle.

It honestly depends on the person. I've had people come back after no contact and others who never contacted me again, after no contact. I think a lot has to do with how many times you have broken up or how bad you hurt the other person. My last break up, within the first week of no contact he broke it first, but then we didn't speak anymore after that. So I did fail and contact him one more time and we talked, but it never went further then a few words. I gave up and haven't spoke to him since. He has never reached out again. It's been over a year. I think in that case no contact/absence did not make the heart grow fonder. lol

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

Here's a quick overview to help you understand how this process works: kzread.info/dash/bejne/qpuGkpWLk7iendo.html Lots of folks seem to be oblivious about it, so here goes: the 30-day "no contact" rule, once COMPLETED, is just the first phase for most people (unless your ex sincerely wanted you back and it's shown in their actions). This would also help guide you on what to do after the "no contact" rule: kzread.info/dash/bejne/dHWcr9Smp5a5ndY.html Anyway there are two more phases to go through if you want an ex back, and the third is to rekindle/rebuild the attraction with an ex. Learn the basics here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/k5l7sLJ7lNPUo6w.html

Hey brad the no contact rule worked once and my ex came back, we had 2 amazing dates. But I was moving away to study abroad and she started getting cold after that and told me that she will not be able to handle a long distance relationship. She says she moved on but she still wishes to remain friends. What can I do to win her back.

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

Is this long distance scenario temporary? Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: kzread.info/dash/bejne/eYWNlrBpZNjcpKQ.html and kzread.info/dash/bejne/Z6KaubSDgtXUcdY.html

Does the no contact rule work if they lost their feelings for you?

@JangoAC

5 жыл бұрын

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@imar8202

5 жыл бұрын

Yes because the time apart will make them miss you, it will make them remember all the good memories instead of the bad ones

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

Yes, it's the first step. It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: kzread.info/dash/bejne/k5l7sLJ7lNPUo6w.html and the golden rules here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/Y59-k9ubpamveKg.html

You mentioned, if the relationship was short, it is likely they forget you? 😔 After all the weird experiences I had with boys, I recently met a very decent, polite boy. On our second date he shared how bad he felt when his ex moved to another place, so I knew there was someone who left him to go elsewhere. Things were really good between us but after our fifth date he wasn’t messaging as much as usual for few days and eventually told me his ex is back to the city and since he hasn’t overcome his feelings for her, he can’t continue with me. We decided to meet up and say goodbye. We had a walk at the beach and talked and both cried, because he admitted he did have feelings for me but can’t forget the special times he had with the ex, especially that he had seen me just 5 times in a month, but used to live with her in same house for about a year or so. Therefore, definitely what he had with her was deeper than with me, even though we were physically close, too. After a walk and crying and some hugs, we went to a restaurant and had dinner but I couldn’t eat knowing its my last night with him. We even took goodbye photos! Smiling together and Laughed at “what kind of break up is this?” With a romantic dinner and hugs and even goodbye kisses?! I asked, “are you sure this is not a prank? How can you be so kind and even hug and kiss but decide to go back to someone who once left you?” He said “I really don’t know… but I can’t overcome her and what I had with her was very special.” Also, they spoke same language and his English was not so good, I can understand he found her easier to communicate with than with me. I am very sad, because even though she was his ex, but to get back to her while he was close enough with me, is cheating. He cheated to me, right? But second, despite the cheating, the way he treated me while we were together and even on the day of breakup and after it was so polite, he was literally the sweetest boy I ever dated. He never replied me rudely even when I was mad at him and called him cheater… Now, I understand he cheated to a girl he met for a month to go back to someone he dated for a longer time, was living with her, someone with his same language.., but all and all, because of how special I felt with him, I want him back… My question is, is there any hope he might return? 😔 I am so sad that I deactivated my Instagram and Facebook as I couldn’t take him pulling back… saddest new year eve ever… What can I do, or not to do to have him back? In our last message on WhatsApp I asked him if it’s likely we meet again sometime and he said “yes, but just one more time, because I can’t see you and control my feelings. I might want more than a friend from you so we better not meet with me having a girlfriend. I don’t want to cheat to her… “ Is there chance he come back to a girl he just dated 5 times? I would really appreciate your advice 😔 Thanks in advance.

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Hi there! I appreciate the time you took to write to me and I would really love to help, but as what I've been telling anyone who posts super long comments, please try to keep your post short. I only have limited time to give free advice since obviously my coaching clients take first priority, and I'm trying to cover as many comments as possible. Feel free to sign up for my coaching program so I can prioritise your situation at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Lastly, you can also visit my other videos to check if there's anything you've missed that you haven't followed. Here are the basics: kzread.info/dash/bejne/k5l7sLJ7lNPUo6w.html Thanks for your understanding!

Hi Brad My problem is family disapproval and cultural differences. On dec 1, my family hosted a wedding, my girlfriend agreed to come as a friend. Why we made this decision because I dont want to separate with my one year ex and it wasn't the right time for me to say anything. My mother pulled me aside and asked, is that your gf ? You better not be dating her. I said no. So I knew the answer already. I know I messed up. Another thing my ex was upset about was that she thinks that I'm having her is an embarrassment and people will know. Such as holding hands under the table. I never thought that at all. I had a headache and couldn't talk to anyone and she noticed. Five nights later, she wanted to break up. I cried and ask let's talk about it. I realized what I did wrong and she said she dont want to see me. Few days later I told my mother about the truth, that shes my girlfriend. My mother told me not to date her. I told my mother she is a very nice person, smart, intelligent etc. I then wrote a letter to my ex and sent the following Sunday about what I told my mother. (I was blocked from fb) she then msg me 4 days later on fb saying "hi, I hope you're doing well, I didnt expect you to do that, I hope your mother is in peace knowing we are no longer dating" one thing I've noticed is that she put her relationship its complicated. I know it was for me. Waited another week, she deleted all pictures of us, changed her status to single, made a tinder profile, and blocked me again. She messaged me on Instagram, about the clothes we bought I said you can do as you please with it. I grieved, cried. On the following Sunday I wanted to go to church, she unblocked me and I messaged her through email instead, Merry Christmas and hope has a safe trip to visit her family. She replied that you so much! I hope you have fun with your family. Then on Christmas she messaged me saying hi, I hope you're having fun , my mother knows what happened between us and she wishes you the best of your life . I said thank you your mother is sweet, I'll let you have fun. with your family and we can talk when you come back. I left it at that NC. We had almost 1 year relationship. I've been working on myself. This my 2nd break up, I'm willing to move out and live a life with this girl. I know I messed up bad. Doing NC and I realized my mistakes.

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

Now I don't know a ton about your culture but from what I've gathered, these strict rules of marriage you have or who to marry are unbreakable,right? In this case,I'm sorry but this is beyond a relationship counsellor's reach. We don't make or bend these laws as it's strictly your own. Understand that the choice is ultimately up to your ex on whether to fight for you or not despite the opposition going on. Good luck!

This worked for me. Just stick with it, and don’t give in to replying until they try to make amends. Don’t give in to the attempts at validation like “I miss you.” “How was your day” etc. You have to sort of trick yourself into thinking it’s over for good. Even if you want them back, act like they’re gone for good. Do everything you can in that time to make yourself better, improve your health, your life, etc.

@BradBrowning

4 жыл бұрын

Glad it worked for you Valerie, thanks for sharing! And yes, I think you've summed things up nicely. :-)

@jbdbcication1037

2 жыл бұрын

So if she messages me with a message like “you there?” And she needs something or something happened i should just leave her at “seen” ? Or should i be cold towards her. Should i talk to her if she messages me in like 15 days after the breakup or should i ignore her completely until 30 days ? I don’t understand the no contact

Hi brad My ex broke up with me two month and I really want him back so I have started using the “No Contact” rules.

@BradBrowning

4 жыл бұрын

Here's how you can tell it's starting to work: kzread.info/dash/bejne/Zpul0ZaLmtS7oNI.html Anyway here's a quick overview to help guide you: kzread.info/dash/bejne/qpuGkpWLk7iendo.html Lots of folks seem to be oblivious about it, so here goes: the 30-day "no contact" rule, once COMPLETED, is just the first phase for most people (unless your ex sincerely wanted you back and it's shown in their actions). This would also help guide you on what to do after the "no contact" rule: kzread.info/dash/bejne/dHWcr9Smp5a5ndY.html Anyway there are two more phases to go through if you want an ex back, and the third is to rekindle/rebuild the attraction with an ex. Learn the basics here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/k5l7sLJ7lNPUo6w.html

@princejiminofbusan9209

4 жыл бұрын

Did it work?

Dear Brad, I started a NC strategy in the beginning of July, but it was kind of "broken" when he texted me for my Bday and I answered back. But except that, we didn't have any contact, not even seen each other, because he escaped in his weekend house. No interaction on social media, except that he looks on my stories on Instagram. Now I deactivated Instagram as well... it's hard for me, but I think I will keep going like this because I really do believe in your advices and help...

@BradBrowning

4 жыл бұрын

Great! Just a reminder, once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: kzread.info/dash/bejne/iqOir9aFdtKWYJM.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: kzread.info/dash/bejne/dHWcr9Smp5a5ndY.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: kzread.info/dash/bejne/k5l7sLJ7lNPUo6w.html Good luck!

Hey Brad. Love your videos! Really thinking about getting your program! My question is, gf broke it off with me. 1 week into NC and she has already messaged me twice. 1 was a cute meme about loving a man. I did not respond. My question tho is, with the holidays coming up, should i message her back and wish her a happy holidays? Or strict NC for 30 days, no matter holidays, her wishing me happy holidays, etc? Thanks man!

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah you can wish her this holiday season, just be careful the topic doesn't divert into serious stuff.

It’s my first day doing the no contact, although he does want to be friends and I do to. He messaged me on Instagram, should I leave him on read so that he knows I’m not talking to him ?

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

This really depends on the frequency and nature of the contact from your ex and whether or not you've reached the phase where you're supposed to be talking again. The only exception is if your ex asks for you back and is sincere about it. If your ex continually messages you, then it’s important to put your ex’s messages into context, more so if this happened during the “no contact” phase. Is your ex trying to contact you about something really important, like an emergency, unpaid bills, or something equally urgent? If not, and your ex is really just texting some useless random stuff and/or asses his/her power over you, then you can just ignore and continue on with the 30-day "no contact" rule. Use your discretion. Watch and follow the tips here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/lJuDqZusYcnHk5s.html

I thot it wdn work but gave it a try anyways.....holy cow!it worked...after 2 months he was like msging amd missing....but yes!the no contact period makes u evaluate wat went wrong and eventually u end up wondering if its worth going back to.

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

Way to go! :-) I'm glad my it's all worked out for you. Now as what I always like to say, please keep in mind that getting an ex back does not mean the work stops there. You have to do more work to ensure your relationship stays healthy. Review my guide and/or watch these videos to help you further: kzread.info/dash/bejne/nJ6msdKxkZDdlqw.html and kzread.info/dash/bejne/qG2huNyhYrG8ccY.html All the best!

@anupamanagireddy4873

5 жыл бұрын

It never works

@lenscapewithbry

4 жыл бұрын

How long did you go no contact and did you get back together

@nasiras9698

4 жыл бұрын

@@lenscapewithbry ...2 months...good u asked cause now after few months things went back to square one....its not worth it ....if things are good then the no contact period is not required at all....i believe its more important to have a good line of communication and sort things...no contact makes u miss but wont blow the problems away in the long run.

@lenscapewithbry

4 жыл бұрын

Java kaya so you got back together and broke up again?

Honestly you are the best, it worked like magic 😍😍😍😍😯😍😍😍

Yes Brad it works I thank you for your help

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

You're welcome! Hey, you never know who else can benefit, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it! :-)

@brad He's reached out after 40 days of NC, the message was for me to pick my clothes from his house. Im heart broken and don't know how to respond......please help coz i really love him

@isayayanika87

3 жыл бұрын

Hope everything worked out for you in the end??

Hey, Brad! Ehm.. We start txtng after no contact period, but last few days she dont txt me, I dont txt her either! Will she forget me, does it fade easily?

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

I don't think so unless this was a one-night stand. Here, watch this first: kzread.info/dash/bejne/hpOLwcullpzeZto.html

Hey Mr. Browning, my ex have been in a relationship with another guy for more than a month now, what do you think I should do? Should I keep playing “no-contact” after 30 days?

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

Here's a quick overview: kzread.info/dash/bejne/qpuGkpWLk7iendo.html Lots of folks seem to be oblivious about it, so here goes: the 30-day "no contact" rule, once COMPLETED, is just the first phase for most people (unless your ex sincerely wanted you back and it's shown in their actions). There are two more phases to go through if you want an ex back, and the third is to rekindle/rebuild the attraction with an ex. Learn the basics here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/k5l7sLJ7lNPUo6w.html

Hey Brad. I came across your content today and it is very interesting. My girl broke up with me 12 days ago. We had no contact since the day before yesterday where I asked her out for coffee to discuss why she broke up with me. She said that while she loves me, she is not in love with me anymore. Should I start NC from scratch, or did I wreck my chances by reaching out? Please advise.

@BradBrowning

Жыл бұрын

Definitely cut off contact asap! I understand how you feel and it's gut wrenching when you're trying to ask your ex for a really good explanation, but resist that! If you ask me, really, closures are overrated. If your ex broke things off with you and acts like it, trust me, you'd really want to give each other space as soon as possible. However, these may help offer a different perspective on things, as to what really happened in your relationship: kzread.info/dash/bejne/pmp9uo-phdGtirQ.html AND kzread.info/dash/bejne/iIWeuM59h9uwYtI.html

My ex and I broke up two days ago haven't had any contact since but I've been posting stuff on Facebook and snapchat and she's been liking and viewing my stuff on social media does this mean anything?

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

Not really. Sorry. For solid signs from your ex, check out the stuff here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/daeKtJmyhpe-aM4.html

this is my second day of no contact rule and I have a bad feeling that this won't work because I just have a feeling that she will be happy if I just never talk to her again, well we only been dating for 3 months but I want her back so badly.

@thepugman6398

4 жыл бұрын

Exact same situation bro

@NiceThingHere

4 жыл бұрын

Nina Lin nah, realised she wasn’t right for me, aka what every person say after no contact

@RosieBui

4 жыл бұрын

Same here. And I feel like he's gonna never back to me.

@NiceThingHere

4 жыл бұрын

Nhung Bui eh, 1 month ago she told me that she doesn’t even wanna be friends with me anymore and she is “sick of me” then blocked me afterwards, she texted that randomly and now I lost faith in love

@wandersonbarros2597

3 жыл бұрын

In the first few days she'll feel fine and relieved. but, as time goes by she'll star to miss you because of the lack of info about u, insecurity, frear os missing out.... and yes, (if she has any sort of good feelings for you still) she'll come back. be brave, be strong. it works

Hi Brad! Thanks for you advice, it's great! I already bought the ex factor and I am quite confident about it! There is just one thing I am not sure about and I didn't find it in ex factor, so can you please help me with that? My gf broke up with me 3 weeks ago, but we stayed in touch and we chat, text, call or go out sometimes. I want to stick to your book now and apply 30 days NC rule, but I don't know how, when we normally chat. Should I tell her, that I need time for myself? Or should I just start ignoring her without telling her? I am quite sure that she will write me or call me in couple days if I will just start ignoring her, so should I text her back short messages (like you told in you book), or just ignor it completely?

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Unless you're back together, it's still important to put the full 30-day straight "no contact" rule into priority because if you've been in touch after the breakup too soon, then you BOTH aren't taking the time needed to process the breakup and been acting like it hadn't happened. Here's how not contacting your ex can help you a lot: kzread.info/dash/bejne/rKtkpcquiKarndo.html Burying the problems which had caused the breakup in the first place is a surefire way towards a doomed relationship, if you get your ex back. Make sense now? You ought to teach your ex these very important lessons: kzread.info/dash/bejne/ZoWZj5Z6XabWhrw.html On the other hand, you can work on the issues together but you have to make sure you're on the same page and you aren't being manipulated and/or strung along. Are you seeing any progress? Sign up for my coaching program so I can help assess your situation clearly, look at all the other factors at play and see things you might have missed and so I can guide accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

Hi Brad remember my comment about how I'm disabled and how parents have our child and I havent seen him in 20 months? Well I'm due to se him at a conference about our child this is perfect I'm 19 days no contact and hell have to see me , with good reason I'll look happy hell have to acknowledge me

And does your ex blocking you and then unblocking you and keeping an eye on you a sign if no contact is working

@BradBrowning

4 жыл бұрын

That really doesn't matter. Sorry, but that's hardly a sign at all. For solid signs, though,here's what to be on the lookout for: kzread.info/dash/bejne/daeKtJmyhpe-aM4.html

How bout if she has me blocked on everything

@BeachLover-kn5ov

4 жыл бұрын

That's my issue

brad what if you took her for granted is it still okay to do no contact? will it make her think you dont care about her? leading up to the break up she was super cold and even when i gave her attention/attentiveness she ignored me/gave short answers.

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

In this case, it's best to come clean and owe up to your mistakes. Just make sure you aren't being defensive or deflecting the blame because that's as annoying as ever. It may help to apply the tips here first: kzread.info/dash/bejne/o6J5k5trlrixqKw.html Be patient and let things play out first. Let time do its job since it's your biggest ally at this point. Good luck!

Here is my situation. My ex and I had been broken up for about two months. I initiated the break but he concluded it. I begged for him back. He said he needed space. During the two months, we had a few lunch dates and were intimate twice. He hasn't mentioned anything about getting back together and doesn't say "I miss you." Then I saw this "no contact" rule thing and decided to implement it. Before leaving for Christmas, he got me a small Christmas gift and said "Merry Christmas zz" on Christmas Day. I didn't reply because I was under no contact at that time. But now it just seems rude and cruel. I'm not sure how to proceed. Any advice?

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

Thank him for the gift but end the conversation first and then proceed to the "no contact" rule until you've reached the 30-day mark. You're also welcome to sign up for my coaching program if you're unsure how to go about this or you're planning to do something but not sure if it's a good idea or not, etc. but I would have to look a the situation as a whole in order to give solid advice, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

8:30 mine lasted one month, will she forget about me?

@BradBrowning

4 жыл бұрын

Most likely yes. A month isn't really something for most people and it's just a matter of time before they find somebody they like better. You should, too!

I'm just on the 6th day of no contact rule and i feel so depressed rn, maybe i could use some help :(

@bi9130

4 жыл бұрын

Kerwin Avendaño I’m in day 4, hold on sister!!! Emotions WILL pass

@kerwinavendano3750

4 жыл бұрын

I failed i texted her and now i think she's really gone. What should i do now i still want her back? :(

@BradBrowning

4 жыл бұрын

Breakups are never easy. Try to be strong. Now's the time to reach out to friends and family for support to help you get through this tough time. Take care!

@kajal55772

4 жыл бұрын

We broke up 15 days ago but we decided later to apply no contact rule..Now I'm on the 3rd day of NC rule and he already found someone new and is very happy with her. I don't think so he'll come back.

@dearanniegirl9201

3 жыл бұрын

Hang n there

I miss my ex, it's the second time we break up. He just played with my feelings and didn't care about the pain I'm going thru. I miss him but I'm probably blinded by love. I hope things get better and I get over him.

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah, probably. This is why you ought to give each other space first for a chance for you both to think clearly, especially you.

Dear Brad, My ex says he does not have feelings for me any longer, but he wrote me a letter saying “he cannot function without me” , “ I wish i could go back to the old times”, and “ I could never make you happy, and you deserve more than my love”. I’ve been doing the no contact and his birthday is January 26 which would be 20 days of no contact, should I reach out and wish him a happy birthday ?

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

You can send your ex a birthday greeting on his birthday, just make it quick and direct to the point, end the conversation first too because you're busy -- it helps if you really are, so hang out with friends, learn a new skill, etc. Also avoid drama like the plague and don’t get into an argument with your ex at any cost. I know I’m stating the obvious, but people often miss its importance. Anyway watch this, too: kzread.info/dash/bejne/i357qqetnLmXkcY.html Good luck!

What if your ex is Bi-Polar and medicated?

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

If your ex has mental issues, the most loving thing you can do is to give each other space while she gets help. Encourage your ex to seek treatment because clinical depression is something only a therapist specializing on this can handle, even this is outside of my scope. But I can help you how to handle things on YOUR end as you go through this difficult ordeal. I know it can be incredibly tough knowing you’ve given it your best shot, yet your partner still fails to appreciate it or is breaking up despite it being a good relationship. Anyway it's a bad idea to be friends with an ex. Consider signing up for my coaching program so I can help assess your situation clearly, look at all the other factors at play and see things you might have missed, then guide you accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

Dear Brad Browning, I would like to share my personal situation. I haven't spoken to my ex since the breakup (September 2018). He blocked me on everything. The year is almost over and I don't know what to do. I have an old prepaid number and I am thinking about sending him a message on New Year's Eve saying Happy New Year. Do you have advice for what to do because I am getting ignored to the point I sometimes start questioning myself if I really exist. Should I send him this message? I am so afraid that I do not have a chance any more (because the break up was in September) that I cannot sleep at night from the fear of losing him forever. I want him back in my life. Not one single second goes by without me thinking about him. Kind regards, Anita Agovic

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

Stop trying to contact him and focus on yourself instead. Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication. More about that on here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/Z4mIm5SCcpjbl9Y.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: kzread.info/dash/bejne/k5l7sLJ7lNPUo6w.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : kzread.info/dash/bejne/dmV70rRufaTWgc4.html Good luck!

@abbasnasir8870

5 жыл бұрын

same as with me we breakup in September but still she block me on every social network, but she is chinese and i am foreigner for her so can i get her back b/c still i damn love her so much, i dont know what to do , brad can i send her happy new year or not and i dont about her idont whether she is single or not or she still have feeling for me or not

@KJxxoo

5 жыл бұрын

Anita Ago you’re acting from a place of fear. You still have more work to do on yourself girl! Only when you feel like you won’t be hurt by his rejection if he’s not interested should you make contact, otherwise you’ll be hurting all over again. Go live life!!

@chantillychantal6069

5 жыл бұрын

Don't be fear. Be brave. Forget and move On. He doesn't deserve you.

hey Brad, I hope this message finds you well. Currently, I'm in the early stage of "No Contact". Christmas, New years and my Birthday are coming up in less than a month and I was wondering if I should send/reply to any of these occasions. On such occasions, we used to send long appreciation messages to each other (even before we dated, we were great friends). If she keeps this up, should I reply? Thank you in advance and wish you happy holidays.

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

Yes, just keep it short and simple. No to melodramatic stuff or any of that though!

@debattista1702

5 жыл бұрын

@@BradBrowning Noted, thanks Brad! Happy holidays :)

Hello Brad, I also have a question. I've stopped talking to my ex after she text me to say she's now seeing someone and they are together. I've had a feeling that she's been seeing someone for a while, even though after being blocked by her she unblocked me. I've stopped messaging her or calling her, but after 9 days I saw her again today after cycling home . Our homes are very close by each other and hers is also infront of a gym I've been going to for over 10 years. We spoke but she couldn't get away from me fast enough. I feel like we will never get back together, but a part of me hopes that we did. Shall I just continue moving on as I have deleted her number to make sure I don't call her again, but I'm finding this whole situation very sickening and toxic.

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

The decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. Is your ex worth getting back together with? Check this out, though, particularly if your reasons for getting your ex back overpowers everything else: kzread.info/dash/bejne/pKmE0sGtc9aToco.html

I’ve never heard Brad swear, hahah 🤣

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

Just don't swear at me and you won't taste my wrath! :-) Nah, I try to remain as professional as I can be. lol

Pls I'm in breakup with my ex for 8months I really still do love him I'm working with him I'm dying inside me cos he's blocked all my lines and he's not talking to me

@jephthahessilfie4069

4 жыл бұрын

My counter part kindly do something to keep busy

@chinni..999

3 жыл бұрын

Yes boys r same.. anyways 😣😣dnt worry

My ex always says they don’t want to talk and need space but yet he always reaches out to me, then gets mad that I reply. It’s very confusing

I need an advice. (Maybe also from you guys reading this) Me and my boyfriend broke up after 4 months (it happened last week) and since then I was trying 'no contact'. I want to be with him but he is afraid of commitment because in 5 months he is moving out from Europe to America and he feels like it's not going to work out and it will end up in pain on both sides. I know he wants me in his life but I can't be his friend. I don't know what to do or how to act. Also, I don't know how the no contact applies to this time. Especially if Christmas and NYE are around the corner and I know he will text me with wishes. Should I reply then and keep it short? Or not reply at all? Is there ANY way that it could even work out if he is so sure that we are going to split when he will leave?

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

You can greet each other but the bottom line is, he's not open to doing a long distance relationship. In other words, you're on two different paths now and you aren't on the same journey anymore. Consider moving on.

I love my gf,but she treat me as a frnd and she is in love with other guy.she talk every day with me, will no contact will work

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

She's lost attraction for you and it's a terrible idea to be friends with her. The boundaries won't be clear and you're technically both free to date other people. Wouldn't it be pure torture if your ex dates someone else in front of you because you're only "friends" now, don't you think? So it’s not a good idea, especially if you want this ex back. Watch these two videos so you’ll know why being friends won’t lead you anywhere you wanna be with your ex and how to get out of this trap, respectively at kzread.info/dash/bejne/q5hq0tiHhsiumqw.html and kzread.info/dash/bejne/pYdouJaCf8a1l9Y.html but read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, along with free bonus materials for texting. Good luck!

It's been 49 days with no contact..

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

Since you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: kzread.info/dash/bejne/p4KTuqOgeM3HdrA.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: kzread.info/dash/bejne/dHWcr9Smp5a5ndY.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: kzread.info/dash/bejne/k5l7sLJ7lNPUo6w.html Good luck!

I've been in a relationship for one and a half year. The spark between us faded away because I was being too paranoid. Just not giving him enough space. So he asked me for a break for a month. He's not an ex but I believe he might become one soon if I don't get working.

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

Watch this first: kzread.info/dash/bejne/o4Wpl7uFZdbHdKw.html Tell him you've not been acting your best and would like to make changes, going forward. Mention it casually. He'll appreciate it as long as you follow through with the changes. You're also welcome to sign up for my coaching program if you're unsure how to go about this or you're planning to do something but not sure if it's a good idea or not, etc. but I would have to look a the situation as a whole in order to give solid advice, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

I really love ur videos and advices . I recently broke up with my bf.we have been in a 7yrs relationship. It was hard to accept that he want space away from me . I will try ur no contact advice . I really love him .

@BradBrowning

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks! It's gonna be a tough battle, I can imagine, but yes, stick to the rule. Here's how you can tell it's starting to work: kzread.info/dash/bejne/Zpul0ZaLmtS7oNI.html Anyway here's a quick overview to help guide you: kzread.info/dash/bejne/qpuGkpWLk7iendo.html Lots of folks seem to be oblivious about it, so here goes: the 30-day "no contact" rule, once COMPLETED, is just the first phase for most people (unless your ex sincerely wanted you back and it's shown in their actions). This would also help guide you on what to do after the "no contact" rule: kzread.info/dash/bejne/dHWcr9Smp5a5ndY.html Anyway there are two more phases to go through if you want an ex back, and the third is to rekindle/rebuild the attraction with an ex. Learn the basics here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/k5l7sLJ7lNPUo6w.html

@swativirdi3020

4 жыл бұрын

Plz update??. My bf ended things after 6 yrs of amazing relationship

my boyfriend blocked me he left me no explanation..i still love him..im in depression..i quit my job becoz i cannot concentrate my life and my heart now is broken..i want to forget but its hard becoz i love him..i hope God help me this pain to get away that i have now..i cried day and night..im scared of death becoz i feel like i am dying.

@manojgabriel84

5 жыл бұрын

My 8year long distance relationship ended recently... I'm blown apart too... She told me she was unsure if she loved me anymore and I begged her to give me a chance but she is reluctant. Fine... I don't have to beg anyone to stay. What can I do anymore if she doesn't want me... She just wants to talk because she cares but not love.. she just needs my emotional support. I don't need that. I was so much addicted to her that it literally felt like I'm stabbed inside but I'm just living and breathing.... Whatever you do... Don't beg and be desperate... Just do this no contact. . you will be in peace atleast for sometime..

@yenielnunezcazola6280

4 жыл бұрын

Jocelyn Bayhonan time will heal u

@BradBrowning

4 жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that.BE strong, though. I know it feels like you're dying but I promise you things will get better if you don't give up on yourself! At least start with that. Thank me later. :-)

@jocelynbayhonan6887

4 жыл бұрын

@@BradBrowning thanks..

@jocelynbayhonan6887

4 жыл бұрын

@@yenielnunezcazola6280 thank you i hope🙏

I work with her though, what do you recommend

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

I get this question a lot so I wouldn't be surprised if you've found your answer before I even get to answer -- if you've checked my other videos, that is. In this type of situation, try to limit your contact with your ex. And by that I mean only interact with her "only" when absolutely necessary. Watch one of the latest videos I've posted here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/lniO1NCHmJuyf8o.html Your case is actually one of the few cases where the “no contact” rule is an exception...but DON'T initiate random contact in any way and don’t make any unnecessary chitchats, all right?I've discussed it in these videos, as well as how to handle it: kzread.info/dash/bejne/rH-csKqhddC_fco.html but read my Ex Factor Guide because you still ought to go through the basics as well. I've posted an overview on how to get your ex back on an earlier vid,check it out as it's all there, but with the guide, you'll have an in-depth view on how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, etc. since good timing is essential at www.breakupbrad.com Okay? Take care!

My ex sent me a picture of her in the wedding dress that she bought for our vow renewal today. Brought a tear to my eye but I didn’t respond. I just waited for my time to talk to our children and called then and she didn’t get on the phone.

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Depending on how long it's been, that may actually be a good sign considering how there's absolutely no need for her to do that. But you're on the right track keeping it strictly between you two for now. Take the free quiz if you're wondering what your chances are at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz

Hey Brad, Thank you for your videos man, they really chilled my soul i was so desperate needed someone to talk to me like that im still desperate but a bit better 😂. I must admit that my girl from a while became cold and let me go of course, not all by herself i got her mad with my clingy mistakes of course. The last time i wrote so many massages to her, sms and call's but she didn't respond 😞. She stopped writing to me and doesn't look in my messages for 3 days now, when i call her she doesn't pick up or hang me off 😥and yesterday i gave her my excuse as you say in the your advices and now we wait 😐😐🥲I put my girl into no contact period. im really scared of loosing her i love her so much. I think that she is already feeling that bc she started to act like you told, to go online and offline in WhatsApp and uploaded some provocative pictures, and when she see me that im online too, she quickly go offline. Im so scared of her feelings could fade away from that no contact period 🥺🥺🥺. Im really hoping for positive denouement. Thank you anyway Wish to all broken hearts in the world to heal!

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Hey, you're welcome! Cutting off contact really is your best shot. She has lost attraction, hence the breakup. But the overview/tips I've laid out should help regain the attraction if you play your cards right. The short answer is here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/hpOLwcullpzeZto.html The first phase where you employ the 30-day "no contact" rule is the recovery phase, the next two phases are geared towards re-attracting and rekindling that lost attraction with your ex. This is known as my 3R system found in the guide. So to answer your question, yes, your ex can become really distant emotionally, mentally, and physically but this is why you have the two other phases to get an ex back. Here's an overview to help you understand: kzread.info/dash/bejne/k5l7sLJ7lNPUo6w.html while here's a more condensed version here: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw Good luck!

Brad, I’ve been broken up with my ex for 3 years and throughout I’ve tried to get her back while she was in the 3 year relationship without luck. About 10 days ago she broke up with him and and me and her been hanging out for just over a week now, and already been sexual so quick. We are always flirting but today she told me she wants to take it slow, a few hours later cancled our plan to hang out with a lame excuse, am I just a rebound? She’s hot and cold one min she’s talking about our future and other day she’s talking about not rushing and wanting to better herself first. I need help

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

Just make sure you're being subtle because chances are she's still recovering from her breakup and you could easily be the rebound guy if you aren't careful.

What if you make no contact but the ex blocked u on every social media on messages because we don’t talk? Plz help me cuz I’m in this situation please!!!!!!!!!!!

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

This is a common issue which many people face, so I suggest you watch this vid coz I covered that here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/h6ekq8Orc7rRZbA.html Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication. More about that on here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/Z4mIm5SCcpjbl9Y.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: kzread.info/dash/bejne/k5l7sLJ7lNPUo6w.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : kzread.info/dash/bejne/dmV70rRufaTWgc4.html Good luck!

We broke up today.. He loves me n still wants to be with me as frnd but i dont agree for frndship.. Due to his family issues we got separated.. Still i hope NC works for me..

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

Your ex is most likely lying about the reason of the breakup so try not to fall for that. However, the bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: kzread.info/dash/bejne/k5l7sLJ7lNPUo6w.html and the golden rules here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/Y59-k9ubpamveKg.html

On week three, NC. I kept in touch with him after the break up, for three years....... i still love him, yet at this point...... i believe that i am worthy of someone who loves me as much as i love them..... moving forward. I will let people know if he reaches out. He has some serious issues to work on..... we were together for 7 years. He was always generous, with money, but that was it. He is still the same person i met him years ago, no growth , no changes .

@BradBrowning

4 жыл бұрын

Watch this first to help set your expectations: kzread.info/dash/bejne/ga6K28-SnrSshM4.html and look out for the signs that your ex has moved on: kzread.info/dash/bejne/hqKO3Md-ebOrmc4.html

i think, that i've still have a chance to repair my relationship and it is all becaouse of your video ! I learn about "the best think to do , is cure my heart and no contact her, if she want to return , she must do this by her own will". So i do "no contact" whole month ! And believe it or not, she writed me this night and congrats me with "Happy New Year". I've respond after hour and reply with "Happy new year for you too. Do you write me becouse of politeness?" - i asked her. And today she messaged me again with "Just wanna write you and wish a happy new year ! I dont think, that this is not a big crime, right ?". And now i reply "thanks , if you wanna talk, we can meet and have a nice talk". Short and simple, just how it should be , messaging in order to meet in person ! Soo, i think, that i still have a chanche and i do all things right . And one thing - she is sooo stubborn girl, and yet, she messaged me. So, wish me luck guys ! And i wish luck for all you folks , because our broken hearts deserve it. Happy New Year !

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

Asking her that kind of question was completely unnecessary. That kind of question opens up drama which you don't want right now so try to be mindful next time, okay? The texting tips here will be a good starter: kzread.info/dash/bejne/p4KTuqOgeM3HdrA.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: kzread.info/dash/bejne/k5l7sLJ7lNPUo6w.html Good luck!

brad.. dude.. i want to thank you men but i dont know how.. this tip work and so does the other ones.. i did step by step .. i messed up the 30 day rule but it wasn't to beg.. it was to use another awesome tip and it worked dude

@roulette8847

5 жыл бұрын

What u use?

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah? Awesome! :-)

Liked before watching BTW 1ST one

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

I appreciate the support. If it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t done so yet, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it, too! :-)

Hey Brad, what if she doing the no contact as well? What do we do if this happens??

@BradBrowning

4 жыл бұрын

That's no news. The "no contact" rule usually comes naturally to the dumpers. Learn the 3 basic phases I teach in my Ex Factor Guide. It helps to learn the basics of my 3R system here first, so you'll have an idea on how to go about it on your end: kzread.info/dash/bejne/k5l7sLJ7lNPUo6w.html

You lower my anxiety🤦🏾‍♀️thx

@BradBrowning

3 жыл бұрын

You're welcome! Make sure you take good care of yourself and not focus on the relationship or its outcome. Your healing should take priority first.

It worked!! I started ignoring his messages and the notifications from him liking things on my Facebook (my page is open to the public). I only did it for a week because the rules are “don’t respond unless they’re irate or are saying to you specifically that the want to be back with you”. & he was begging to be back with me!! Now we’re back to together .. THANK YOU BRAD. If it wasn’t for you.. I would have never used the no contact rule and not have gotten results if it wasn’t for you.

@BradBrowning

4 жыл бұрын

Told you there's reward for those who follow my advice! Anyway I'm glad my it's all worked out for you. Now as what I always like to say, please keep in mind that getting an ex back does not mean the work stops there. You have to do more work to ensure your relationship stays healthy. Review my guide and/or watch these videos to help you further: kzread.info/dash/bejne/nJ6msdKxkZDdlqw.html and kzread.info/dash/bejne/qG2huNyhYrG8ccY.html All the best! :-)

@antiyannahall5260

4 жыл бұрын

Brad Browning THANK YOU!!

@NoOne-um7yc

4 жыл бұрын

This gives me hope!😭

Hey Brad, I have just recently started speaking to my ex again after nearly 30 days of no contact, in which she contacted me a few times, in which she cares about me. Conversations have been good and positive ever since, a lot of laughter, in which we both agreed that we should catch up soon. I was just wondering what I should do from now on in? I'm thinking not to speak to her for a period of time now, to hopefully make her realise the positivity she is missing out on? Or do I keep speaking to her? I feel like I havnt completed no contact fully, and was wondering what to do now to ensure my best chance of winning her back.

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

Hi there! Getting an ex back is a gradual process, so there's no one-action solution for this. Okay? The "no contact" phase is a good start, so do that first if you haven’t yet, for 30 days. If you have, then I'm glad you've completed it. There are two more phases to go with a few other steps in between (in the right order). What I'm trying to say here is it's a 3-phase process, and it's a bit complicated to explain it all on here, but I made an overview in the hopes of making people understand, so watch it here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/k5l7sLJ7lNPUo6w.html or read my guide for the entire process. Good luck!

Hey Brad, I’m doing no contact now. My ex is currently blocked from my phone and all social media. During no contact should he stay blocked or should I unblock him? Also even though I’m not contacting him he lives down the street from me and I often see him at the local convenient store.

@senseidoraemon9341

5 жыл бұрын

Block mean you still care but do it if it will help you to avoid texting him

Hello Brad, I NEED help especially from you since you are an expert in this. I just have one single question.. So my boyfriend a month ago told me he wanted to stay friends, but I didn't like it so I told him to think about his decision and come back to me after a month to tell me his answer we went in a 30 days NC and his answer was no, he didn't want to go back together and told me to move on. I was a bit upset so I kind of was harsh on him, I know I was wrong.. but I want to try again because I didn't do anything after the NC, I only heard his answer, but would feel wrong to contact him suddenly after he rejected me So my question is, should I do a 30 days NC from the beginning? or does it require less time in this case since we already went through a 30 days NC earlier? Thank you!

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

Yes, do the "no contact" rule from the beginning. Start after he fully confirmed the breakup/he said no.

For me it really worked even I were blocked in all social media’s. And moreover she really loves me

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

Well, good to hear! :-)

I’m in a weird situation where I want my ex back( it’s been 6 months) but I also don’t really care that much since I will be off to college in 5 months. Lol

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

Well, make up your mind then stick to a plan and go with it! lol

Hi Brad, me and my gf aren’t together right now. She says she hasn’t ruled out us getting back together and has never said she wouldn’t ever move back in. She’s been at her dads since November 15th. We had a miscommunication issue, the breakup wasn’t bad at all. I’m gonna try the NC method. All her belongings are still here at the house. I’m just giving her space and time.

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah it's probably best to give each other time and space. Employ the 30-day "no contact" rule first. Here's how you can tell it's starting to work: kzread.info/dash/bejne/hmiH3Jh9mbq4o7Q.html Though make sure you follow the tips here as well: kzread.info/dash/bejne/qpuGkpWLk7iendo.html AND some recent tips here: y2u.be/FLeP1eRCkCk Lots of folks seem to be oblivious about it, so here goes: the 30-day "no contact" rule, once COMPLETED, is just the first phase for most people (unless your ex sincerely wanted you back and it's shown in their actions). This would also help guide you on what to do after the "no contact" rule: kzread.info/dash/bejne/dHWcr9Smp5a5ndY.html Anyway there are two more phases to go through if you want an ex back, and the third is to rekindle/rebuild the attraction with an ex. Learn the basics here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/k5l7sLJ7lNPUo6w.html

My boyfriend broke up with me because he felt bad for a rape in a previous relationship and that he wasnt taking time for himself in fear of hurting me in return. I'm really missing him, and the breakup decision was harsh. We were really happy for the 9 months we were together. It's my first day of no contact, I feel amazing. I still want to text him but I know better. I'm going to be updating weekly on my progress. 😁 wish me luck

@BradBrowning

4 жыл бұрын

Try to see if there's some truth to that rape incident. Good luck!

@artlisticlove

4 жыл бұрын

i forgot to update each week but it's all good and it all worked out. I worked on myself each week and got happier and happier and he eventually started talking to me again! He told me he needed to work on himself and that he was waiting for the perfect time to text me, and now we are talking and flirting with only 3 weeks of no contact! It works!

What if you're both using no contact on each other? Lol

@BradBrowning

3 жыл бұрын

That's no news. The "no contact" rule usually comes naturally to the dumpers. Learn the 3 basic phases I teach in my Ex Factor Guide. It helps to learn the basics of my 3R system here first, so you'll have an idea on how to go about it on your end: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aX6oz7ibdM7InNo.html

Hey! I'm from India. Me and my girlfriend where in relationship for 2years and recently she Broke up with me (20days back), we had a very Good and emotional Relationship and she said she won't leave me at any circumstances and later she broke up with me saying she doesn't love me anymore and she said she doesn't have feelings for me and refused to be a friend too, Since we are In the same class we made a lot of positive memories together, I have to go through her everyday it is very painfull and difficult for me to move on. I chased her and begged her to take me back again but she ended up screeming at me. after all attempts of pursuating her and begging her, I came across this KZread channel and I have decided to go no contact and she has already blocked me on all social media and I cannot reach her, after all this she contacted one of the mutual friend and asked him whether I have moved on. Eventually she wants me to move on. then, the NC has been broken and again it has started from day 1, I truly love her and I need her she is worth it, I wanted to know whether the NC rule works if we are in same class and will she come back to me when she realises the positive side inside the relationship.? Yesterday I spoke to her in person and she dropped out her tears emotionally. We had a good conversation but then she said me to move on. Please help me out in this situation whether the NC rule Works out for me?

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

In this case, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: kzread.info/dash/bejne/eYiep6OAerq6paQ.html AND kzread.info/dash/bejne/lniO1NCHmJuyf8o.html

Hello I recently found your videos and I have a situation where it has been over 5 months separated and we recently helped each other move into separate places, in the beginning she said it was a final decision we would never get back together but as time has passed she has said things ended amicably and she wants to stay friends, but also there are other men she calls friends in her Life, we text and have phone calls sparsely but when I reach out to her she answers whenever she wants as when she responds to me I answer in a more timely manner. When asked about a chance of us in the future now her reply went from never gonna happen to I don't know what will happen in the future I have to view you differently before I can say anything. She says things need to form naturally and be organic. So I'm very confused if I should limit contact or what next steps to take or if these steps can apply to my situation. Thank you

@BradBrowning

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, it has to happen naturally. How you proceed though really depends on which phase you're on. Never skip the "no contact" part! Watch this to get an overview on what steps you ought to take in each phase: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aX6oz7ibdM7InNo.html Best of luck!

Brad, I bought the Ex Factor Program and I saw the clean slate. I am unsure as to one tiny thing: We broke up on october. I started applying No contact 23 days ago, but the last time we talked we had agreed to go get a coffee, I asked to confirm one day before hand and she said she had forgotten and that she probably couldn't (she had cancelled twice before), and my answer was bitterly "Well, if you want to or even care to, let me know". She answered the next day saying "Ok, I don't think I can make it but thanks", and all I answered was "okay". (I bought your program two days later by recommendation of a friend who bought your program and it worked for her) Now I am worried I should have applied the clean slate message in your book. Should I apply it now and restart the no contact period or just hold it out until the end of the 30 days? Thanks!

@BradBrowning

5 жыл бұрын

There's no need to send the clean slate in this case. Your only mistake was reacting bitterly. The safer choice would've been to not react at all and just opt for the "no contact" rule. Do this and don't reach out until you're really sure you're ready to reach out. The solution: give it AT LEAST 4 weeks of the "no contact" rule. Follow the guide down to a tee and read it again until you master it, okay? Good luck!

@RabbitMaaginen

5 жыл бұрын

@@BradBrowning Thankyou Brad! I will continue to study your book!