Why you should speak to strangers | Praveen Wadalkar | TEDxIESMCRC
Mother's teach us don't talk to strangers. Game of trust played by Praveen Wadalkar in his solo trips resulted in positive response and he learnt to trust strangers. Praveen is a CEO and co-founder of an IT company Techizer Tech Solutions Pvt. Ltd. employing around 100 people. As a story teller, Praveen loves to convert real-life experiences and observations into stories. An an entrepreneur , budgeted solo traveler and HMI certified mountaineer he gets immense opportunity to meet people and pick several stories for his audience. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
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@nexttowatch801
4 жыл бұрын
How he speak I never want to speak like that which he advertise course for public speaking
@prashantsuman6050
4 жыл бұрын
Me
@urvishjaiswal6979
4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@Natalia-cm8ez
4 жыл бұрын
His Ad is literally everywhere
@bggzxzbggzxz3251
4 жыл бұрын
His ads are on every Ted talk. 🤦🏽♀️
Interesting. Trust or Don't trust, but speaking to stranger, making relationship gives great pleasure in life. Far far better than making friends on social media.
@srinivasN2023
4 жыл бұрын
Very Interesting. Trust is must. Unless you trust on any thing you cannot move ahead. The way Praveen speaks is exceptional.
@SandeepYadav-ye6ze
4 жыл бұрын
Trust is not necessary to exchange thoughts👌
@curiouscommunity5144
4 жыл бұрын
Exectly
@vinayyalla6123
3 жыл бұрын
@@srinivasN2023 which part of his talk was exceptional?
@katscandance
2 жыл бұрын
@@srinivasN2023 yes. That is where having good judgement comes into play. And in order to gain good judgement, u must put yourself out there to people and understand which people are talking to you for good or bad reason.
that time i was in class 12 , our Bengali teacher taught us a statement " in this world you can hardly trust any one, but if you do not trust any one ,you may not be able to find the most trustworthy one ".
Tell him to come to Bhopal/Delhi and trust the strangers...next day rest of the story will be a headline of local newspaper....😝
@mylobynes7865
3 жыл бұрын
damn lol
This guy is so eloquent and seriously underrated. Came to know about him through a KZread add
@aimanrashid492
4 жыл бұрын
Samee broo
22 out of 24 is 91.66%. this is why I have trust issues 😢
@nitin6209
4 жыл бұрын
finally a guy who presented my doubt already😂😂
@amaze-on07
4 жыл бұрын
LOL, well 90% is also a great percentage isn't ?
@HarshPatel-dv3hm
4 жыл бұрын
@@amaze-on07 may be it's all fake just made up stories to convey deceptiveness
@edith3693
4 жыл бұрын
hahahhahhaha ykr
@s.k.1400
4 жыл бұрын
Same here 😂 😂
His voice is like attracting me to hear more and more his wordings.he is expressing his feeling without 0 hesitation
You are lucky to meet such people on your way while traveling. All i meet are creepy guys who keeps staring, snoring uncles, aunties who fight for window seat just to lock it up and people who don't know why headset is used. Don't know why people look incredibly busy when i try to look around and find someone to start a conversation or ask them help.
Reality is that your parents are the First set of strangers you trust and enjoy speaking to ,then you meet your wife , kids and in between a lot of friends , colleagues and so on , basically every single person you think you know is a stranger and you are to them as well...
@sucram1018
2 жыл бұрын
People never seem to think of it that way. People have been told to treat strangers as an inherent threat to their life even if that person hasn't shown to be a threat to their life.
His voice is like hypnotising and his way of constructing sentences makes me trust this guy. To be honest already got a feeling that i known him for long time. Great speech learnt a lot.
@muthamizhselvan802
4 жыл бұрын
I felt the same
@vijayjayaram606
4 жыл бұрын
Laughing at your comment 😂👌
@shashikalaraju5769
3 жыл бұрын
Oh my God.. I wonder how each of us have different reactions.. I think he likes his own stuff so much. I don't
@Ilove_my_India123
3 жыл бұрын
Your a constructive person, o really like you...
@Ilove_my_India123
3 жыл бұрын
@@shashikalaraju5769 excuse me madam, he is in ted to speak about his story, that's why he is speaking about him, rather he can't Speak about you or me Madam...
6:48 Trust me if somebody smiles at me the way he did... I'll be running home!
@fatehmohammad7191
4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@growmoretraders2234
4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@growmoretraders2234
4 жыл бұрын
That's good idea
@devanshxvii
4 жыл бұрын
Good, good... When you'll be running home, I will run also after you to your home 😋😂
@sarancryo
4 жыл бұрын
@@devanshxvii you proved the 4%😂🤦
I am watching this show to improve my English language.😂😝
@Zulkar337
4 жыл бұрын
Me too😅
@MaheenRoji
4 жыл бұрын
@@Zulkar337 hihi 😂
@halfmad_philosopher9825
4 жыл бұрын
😁😁.... To de is bat pe tali😂🙌
@PriyanshuSingh-cr2sm
4 жыл бұрын
Are bhai bhai 😹😹😹same
@MaheenRoji
4 жыл бұрын
@@PriyanshuSingh-cr2sm hihi 😂
Wooooow, he is such a great storyteller, I mean he kept his audience on their toes till the end. I felt something very unique and original about him. I really liked his idea about talking and trusting the strangers, because now-a-days, due to the news channel and Television shows we watch, we have with us a very strong belief that most of the strangers are bad, they're not like us, but the truth is likewise opposite. I genuinely feels great that someone finally step up for that.
@devanshxvii
4 жыл бұрын
Yes, you are right, Naval.
@dr.chetan4896
4 жыл бұрын
Crime patrol
Trust Is Very Dangerous Game But Yeah Talk To Strangers Fearless. 🙂
I am really impressed with this,despite of having all sufferings and pain in life , this guy never loosed his hope. Hats off to this from the depth of my heart.
The way he brought a new change in society not only to others but also to his son. Think of the journey he had. Wish even my parents sentme the same way.
This guy has bothered me on every video but one thing, he is great at what he's doing! I've never heard someone unknown for straight 10 minutes.
Truly amazing, big lesson for life .... I just regret that how many opportunities I missed... Before few months I just talked to a stranger and I got a business opportunity.. Thank you for sharing.
I travel every week to and from my home. Everytime a new person besides me sharing me their family Stories. The lessons of life comes to you when you interact with strangers and probably give or get solutions for future circumstances. Great speech.
Sir you are a great orator and it was amazing listening to you, and I too would love to travel solo and TRUST strangers, accept a stranger's offer to stay at his place at night or in his tent, accept free rides from people in their car, with them in control of the wheel. The only problem is that I'm a WOMAN. I cannot afford those 2 failures. So I gotta let go of those 22 wins since you cannot predict whether you win or lose.
He will irritate in KZread ad 😂😂
@Sacchit_16338
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah lol !
@SomTips
3 жыл бұрын
@@Sacchit_16338 ek bar video dekha to puri khandan ko ads milega
@swaminathan_r1
3 жыл бұрын
Whot doo yeu men by bublic spiken
@ilavarasansriraman4140
3 жыл бұрын
@@swaminathan_r1 bro ultimate 😂😂😂😂
@GaneshBhat_p
3 жыл бұрын
He made a video on this comment too. please watch it. As a summary, Please don't give control of irritating you in 5 second to someone else. :)
NOTE: Never try to do this GIRL "Trust Strangers" 😁😁
@techaadi8858
4 жыл бұрын
Correct.😁
@curiouscommunity5144
4 жыл бұрын
😁😁👌👌👌
@agnivamahata3870
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah Ma'am I totally agree to this! but before you speak to any stranger you should judge them right]\
@worldwepcineweb
4 жыл бұрын
Ha ha haaa
@PiyushKumar-dl6pm
4 жыл бұрын
😑😑😑🤐🤐
How beautiful sir, I too strongly believe that, Hum Achhe To Jagg Achha, as simple as that!!
Oh .. , Praveen , you got it all wrong . When your mother cautious you about strangers , she generalized it because you were unable to take care of yourself at that time .. after being matured , at some point , you must have to take risk to break the barrier which you have taken no doubt and been tasting the life in meaningful way .... Liked the way you presented the whole point .... 👍
@rejoicepoyyail6999
4 жыл бұрын
Exactlyyy
@bagaltech007
4 жыл бұрын
Ohh... i forgot this side of coin Thank you Sumit
One add made him Popular .. It's crazy .. no that is the power of speaking
TEDx is the superior way to learn english.
All I liked in this video is the way you speak, it's quite smooth and humble as if you don't boast that you know english otherwise many speakers in front of audience speak english so fast to show their accent. Secondly you proved that solo travelling opens your mind extensively.
I really enjoyed his talk and the way he was sharing his experience about strangers. (Speak to strangers and trust them)
How this man is still alive is a mystery to me...
@jocelin5957
4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
Amazing speech, the way of telling story, public speaking; was awesome. I also want to learn it
Super Motivating. I have bypass so many strangers in my life. But what I take from here is that, I need to wear that smile to to meet the righteous person(stranger at first). And now on I'm doing that. Thank you SIr.
Where have you been man what a great message to the universe. You are a legend I will keep on watch your videos
Every day I see your ad and fed up. Please no more ads 🙏🙏🙏 God save me please 🙏
@bijoyhansda2139
3 жыл бұрын
Clear ur cookies and preferences in ur KZread setting .. u won't get then
@navneet2415
3 жыл бұрын
@@bijoyhansda2139 thanks you saved me from watching this guy every day 10 times.
@homosapien804
3 жыл бұрын
Yes 😑💔🔥
What a speech. I really impressed but I've met many strangers in my life.but i Trust them and i spoke to them but they cheated me. I don't know y still I've confused.
@harishnegi0903
4 жыл бұрын
David, do you know why does it happens with you all the time because there is no sin in your ❤️ heart for others. By the way you are innocence from inside.
I totally agree with the principle of Trust! I believe in getting Cheated or Used but still a Hope is Hope!
Wow... Wow... Wow... What a mind blowing concept. Trust the strangers, speak to them & make relationship. 💐
Been a solo traveller for the last 10 years, I have made friends for a life time in my travels, memories that I will take to my grave. Go solo, that's the only you know yourself
@anjalipathak3372
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your advice 😊...I appreciate that!!
@sameerramdasi88
3 жыл бұрын
Thats great opportunity to know yourself and make a new friends.
Feels so pointless, watching this as a WOMAN!😊
@stundown
4 жыл бұрын
Why?
@deepankarkumar2914
4 жыл бұрын
Woman security is also a question.
@stundown
4 жыл бұрын
@@deepankarkumar2914 hmm yea
@maleekajain5880
4 жыл бұрын
So true
@stundown
4 жыл бұрын
@@maleekajain5880 yaad muje bhi aane lagi hay bheegi bheegi raton mein
For the previous three months most videos I click this guy pops out with an ad and explains me the necessity of Public Speaking Skills. Yea but he's good.
One of the most connecting public speakers ever he is.
i wonder why to we need to watched his ads before playing his tedx talk
@sbbjhgg
4 жыл бұрын
That's a mystry
@gouthamgoud4122
4 жыл бұрын
Marketing strategy....
@subhashnaik6570
4 жыл бұрын
Because that is only source of income of KZread
One of the best talks I was underestimating him initially.
@curiouscommunity5144
4 жыл бұрын
👌👌
@subhashnaik6570
4 жыл бұрын
Don't judge the book by it's cover dude....
When he reveal the results I got goosebumbs.
praveen wadalkar my favourite man of storytelling...
Soul touching and a life long lesson 🙏
Nice talk sir. A Different view. My request is, can you share that 2 failed experience also...
@PraveenKumar-kz1kf
4 жыл бұрын
Yah..I too was thinking about what would be that stories....
@GauravNavedia
4 жыл бұрын
Some people are like the glass is half empty, you don't appear so.
@tomiesaidno
4 жыл бұрын
Great speech!
@Shahbaz_Sayyed
4 жыл бұрын
Even those 2 failed experiences wouldn't have been so bad otherwise he wouldn't be giving a TED Talk.
@skarthikeyannisspart
4 жыл бұрын
To me, There's nothing called as good and bad experience, it can either be an experience or a learning. But this trust game is something we play every day.
Thanku Praveen.
He expressed all those things in a simple Manner... learnt a lot frm u
The way story narrated by Praveen makes more interesting. Pronunciations, poses, intonation all are perfect. Very nice 👍
Praveen my friend, trust me I loved your story, first ever video I watched full till the end, the trust game.🤗
Loved the talk , had a similar discussion yesterday with someone who had a difficult time understanding the concept of solo travel.
There are so many people who can speak in english but they have stage fear. I am one of those people who has stage fear. All your videos help me to come out my fear. Sir, I like up and down in your voice, your hands movement when you talk.
Your traveling experience is good... Then, that experienced share to with us also wonderful... "Don't trust stranger" this one mainly good message to all... 👏👌👍
@nareshkateel7280
4 жыл бұрын
Praveen Wadalkar is a big cheater his public speaking..is bogus and cannot link
What a speech I really appreciate 👌
Don't know who he is, but he is an excellent storyteller. Also his voice control is A-M-A-Z-I-N-G.
Your experienced has though me something to decide my life...where I was very much confused now clear after listening your speech. thank you sir for sharing your experience of your life.
Parveen: Trust strangers. Me having trust issues: We don't do that here.
@ilhamluqmanazmi8851
4 жыл бұрын
Same with me, but i try to speak with strangers by video game
@jurakpreetsingh2155
4 жыл бұрын
@@ilhamluqmanazmi8851 pubg?
@ilhamluqmanazmi8851
4 жыл бұрын
@@jurakpreetsingh2155 Nope, "Sky" u can check out on playstore
@syedfasihchannel9598
3 жыл бұрын
So many ppl have it, but that doesn't mean we ignore trustworthy people 😒
@jurakpreetsingh2155
3 жыл бұрын
@@syedfasihchannel9598 ok bhai
the language and the manner were admirable and the moral was very thought provoking but sir my question is shoudnt we respect the demarcation between speak and trust
He is amazing. His speaking skills are quite engaging and attractive. It's great to see this video.
I would say....daring...perhaps some women may not accept ur concept...but i loved the way you deliver.....awesome..charismatic...
Amazing video.....I really like it , I love the way how you talk when I listen you I don't know why but I was smiling nd I really enjoy your video. I love it.
Fabulous buddy Yeh, I have some good memories of my solo travel.
Yes your correct strangers every where and strangers met and transform and good friend. You speaking is very clear we are understood thank you.
This is a wonderful presentation and a much required one. Excellent Trust Strangers and Mae relationship. 👍👍
Amazing bro... continually I'm trying to stop thinking about that 2 failed moments
@nareshkateel7280
4 жыл бұрын
Praveen Wadalkar is a big cheater his public speaking..is bogus and cannot link
A big yes for trust! and a great talk.
@nareshkateel7280
4 жыл бұрын
Praveen Wadalkar is a big cheater his public speaking..is bogus and cannot link
The way of his speacking is more attracting.. He can hypnotize with his speaking... I'm watching his video for his speaking only...
The way he constructed his stories ......i am his fan now
I am introvert game over.
@ilovemyindia9384
4 жыл бұрын
if you dont change your introvert character you have to suffer a lot trust me
@imhafzee
4 жыл бұрын
Relatable.
@pradnya31ca
3 жыл бұрын
@@ilovemyindia9384 How?
@pradnya31ca
3 жыл бұрын
we are in the same boat
@Pranay471
3 жыл бұрын
@@pradnya31ca introvert army💪😤😄
Dear reader, We ARE good people. _Trust_ me..
@chandnitarajayswal7673
4 жыл бұрын
Nice
@Siddharth3211
4 жыл бұрын
@@chandnitarajayswal7673 hey chandni
@MrKrupabhaskar
3 жыл бұрын
Yes I do...😅
Beautiful... Very soothing to listen to your beautiful thoughts..
It's a great idea to talk strangers. I also like a solo travelling but I tried it many times but I got bored. Same as he was uttering my mother said "Don't speak to strangers" my mum said too. May be this reason I don't able to speak any stranger. This is phobia which is stay with me always whenever I want to talk anyone.❤
I tried talking to a stranger today. Asked her: Your dog is cute. What is her name. I just tried to be nice. And she said: Mind your own business you douch bag. I knew being introvert was way better!😶 I am never gonna talk to any stranger ever again.
@HIMMATSingh-hv1cr
3 жыл бұрын
I think you met the rest 4% not the 96% part.
@syedjafferimam5789
3 жыл бұрын
That stranger had the trust issues. Try one more time and you'll make a lifetime friend.
Let me tell you a story as well.... "Once a poor old man was passing on road who was suffering from cold in snowy weather at some hill station.. A Rich man met him and told him on the street, who used to live by the end of that street. He saw him while passing in his car near the old man.. he stopped and after hearing the old mans story he promised him to provide him with warm clothes and blanket and asked him to wait ... the old man kept waiting.. the rich man went inside his house the aroma of warm food and warmth of heater made him forget his promise. .. the old man kept waiting there for the whole night .. next day when the rich man passed again form there while goin to office he saw a crowd of people mourning over death of that old man that freezes there... His resistance to defend against cold was much higher when he wasn't under a false promise but as soon as he waited his body left resistance"
I love your enthusiasm Praveen Really you are a magician I'm Chetan a cbse board school teacher I really love you.
Sir , you had teached us a new lession of life , thankyou so much
What about the other 2 times? We would like to hear about them too.
Praveen after long time today i learnt a new thing from u......""trust game"
@nareshkateel7280
4 жыл бұрын
Praveen Wadalkar is a big cheater his public speaking..is bogus and cannot link
Just fallen I. Love the way you tells stories. Going to follow you and surely going to see your online webinar
Hi Praveen, I had a friend by the name of Sridhar in Hyderabad who did his MBA and then joined HDFC bank (early 2000s), he was a very talented person just like you... for quiet some time I though it was Sridhar.... because I could not believe that it is another person by the name of Praveen that I am listening and looking to.... I am so happy that you are doing a great job... all the very best.
Am I the only one who think that, this man is exactly sound like Gaur gopal das!
@priyankarathore5638
4 жыл бұрын
No,I think it too
@priyalshah7276
4 жыл бұрын
@Sweta Sharan correct.. i feel that the way of speaking is very similar to him
@curiouscommunity5144
4 жыл бұрын
Yaa me to
@asht3065
4 жыл бұрын
Thats true, they both use storytelling techniques, with their voice, tone and gesture, to add impact to their story and make it more believable.
@traveltoday3245
3 жыл бұрын
Yes your the only person 🤐 your comparing guru Gopal das with this person 🤣
thank you so much for helping us to trust people
@PraveenWadalkar
6 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Stephanie DeGange
Thank you for your visiting today in our Nktt college.. Great motivation lecture.. ABCD is the best part..
you are such a great man mr. pravin...i like the way you are talking and your philosophy about life.
Congratulations Praveen ji for such a wonderful talk.I am a veteran of the Army,I am a bloggerauthor of motivational books,a columnist and s You Tuber.I am also a Toastmaster. I will be grateful if you can guide me to deliver a TED talk?
@DrSRanjanMBBSAcupuncturist
4 жыл бұрын
Have you heard PSAI?
One of the best TED Talks..!
@ravindersinghshekhawat7340
4 жыл бұрын
Right
@nareshkateel7280
4 жыл бұрын
Praveen Wadalkar is a big cheater his public speaking..is bogus and cannot link
Thanks @tedx @praveen, for such beautiful message.
What a enthusiastic story you have.. it make so much happiness in mind
Great talk and I know for a fact strangers are human beings with emotions,feelings and experiences. You have really narrated it so well Praveen. Sherry.
@PraveenWadalkar
6 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Sherry
My friend asked me to go with him on a ride. I sat behind him on the bike. I was playing trust game! A few moments later... On the hospital emergency bed.😂🙏
Hi sir ..your language is simple and attractive .On the top of that you know how to speak to people in a convenient manner...👍
This is the speech, i am looking for so long....
"Whot doo yeu men by bublic spiken" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@ffg9333
3 жыл бұрын
Atleast someone said that😂😂 Annoying accent and ad
@ffg9333
3 жыл бұрын
Another "people hate their job according to the gallop survey"
As always, your talk was amazing, Sir.
@PraveenWadalkar
6 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Khajista Nizam
@khapadey7703
4 жыл бұрын
@@PraveenWadalkar You have an amazing power of attracting people towards you. And I myself is a victim to that. Love your words...Your voice...and the way you speak.
wow... simply Superb Praveen Sir.. Great Great Storyteller and kept his audience busy.
Beautifully explained, trust game is very important in today’s world. We as an individual must start this game you never know how you end up with someone. So, I think we should start from here itself, this comment box can be the place we can start this game and start conversations.
The idea is excellent but you literally just googled and came to TEDx. He is more of a scam artist than a helper.
@Sacchit_16338
3 жыл бұрын
Right !
As a women its totally impossble to trust strangers
@Fun_with_family_v
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah!!!
Awesome !!!! I love the way he shares he stories . I mean..... incredible ❤️
I don't even knew him but his words attract me like a magnet awsm words clear accents damm good man💝