At 63 yrs old and enjoys looking my best everyday I loved this video. Thank you for speaking out in encouragement and empowerment. It’s true, investing in yourself is the best investment you will ever make.

@Myfemmedaily

3 жыл бұрын

This is such a lovely message. Thank you Sharon💕💕.

@maricelg777

3 жыл бұрын

So true

@alexisagginie4574

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you. Yes, Sharon, you are right. Taking care of yourself does lift your spirits, and is attractive.

@petersmith2040

2 жыл бұрын

Agree. Investing in yourself to look good and well put together is more important than investing in a luxury car. There are plenty of people driving late model luxury vehicles but once they stepped out of their vehicles, they look like everyone else as most people can’t tell the difference if they have a Mercedes-Benz or a Toyota in the parking lot once they are inside the shopping mall, supermarket, restaurant, bank, hotel, office building, church, etc. I’ve noticed that people who drive luxury vehicles like to show off their car keys, if they have the right opportunities, when they are in public places away from their luxury vehicles. They are trying to use their car keys to do the talking instead of their clothes, hygiene, grooming, and etiquette.

Even at home when you wear your best set of loungewear and you have combed hair and maybe some lip balm, you feel beautiful and motivated to get more done 💕

@ioanafilipescu2327

3 жыл бұрын

Yesss, that’s right!✨

@Myfemmedaily

3 жыл бұрын

That is very true and especially in the time that we are living now. Doing this will literally lift your spirit and make you feel better. You made a good point 💕💕.

@homehere9817

3 жыл бұрын

I will accept this as an “effort, no effort look” for very busy people with children and are single parents. Thanks!

@lydiaamah1967

3 жыл бұрын

Thats so so true 👍

@mariaasenova4935

3 жыл бұрын

Totally

1. You Will Feel Good 2. People Will Respect You More - Dress how you want to be addressed 3. You Will Attract More People 4. Improve Self Confidence 5. Prepared For The Unexpected 6. Career Opportunities 7. People Will Treat You Better (Look your best does not mean looking like a supermodel. It is your Hair, Makeup, Nails, Clothes, Shoes, Bags, The Way That You Smell, Overall Hygiene)

@OpulentAristocrat

2 жыл бұрын

YES!!!! This is extremely true

@rashmitamishra8970

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@isatumohamedallieu3100

5 ай бұрын

Especially number 6 I black lived in Germany I have witnessed it I was day before yesterday I was offered to be a model but I declined because I am model

I started really putting an effort into myself about 6 months ago and I can’t even tell you how good it feels! I don’t spend a ton of money, my skincare is simple and my makeup takes 3 minutes in the morning - but wow what a difference! I don’t just save it for when I leave the house - I dress and groom well every single morning now. It’s just become part of who I am. I do this for me not anyone else! Looking great even if I’m just home doing housework makes me feel great. Other people are treating me better, I’ve gained the confidence to start big new projects...it’s changed the way I see myself! Consistency is so key ladies! Don’t save this for other people, do it at home too. You’re worth the bit of time it takes I promise you. I got rid of all my frumpy and unflattering clothes and got just a few new pieces on Poshmark. I really like my small but well put together wardrobe. I even tossed my ratty old sleep clothes and got some classic button down pyjama sets for sleep and lounging - what an upgrade! I do my own nails, I’m growing out my natural hair colour. This doesn’t need to cost a fortune and you don’t need to go to a salon every week to be well groomed. Learn to do cultivate your beauty skills and be your own aesthetician at home! I do a beauty night twice a week where I do a hair mask, face mask, body scrub, shave my legs and see if my mani or pedi needs redoing. It’s really not all that high maintenance but it’s so worth it. You are worth feeling your best every day!

@CT-hm1yn

3 жыл бұрын

You’ve really inspired me thank you 🙏

@halcyondays8945

3 жыл бұрын

@@CT-hm1yn that’s so lovely to hear!! I’m so glad!! At first it feels like “work” but after a while it becomes “just who you are” and you don’t even give it a second thought. All the best!

@annetteredner7258

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much. This inspired me!

@halcyondays8945

3 жыл бұрын

@@annetteredner7258 awesome!! 😍 I’m excited for you. Your whole self image shifts when you’re consistent - even just at home by yourself!

@hunny585

3 жыл бұрын

thats inspiring n doesnt sound like 'work'

People treat you so much better when you take care of yourself, I went to miami a few years ago and reserved a table at the versace mansion, I asked for a table by the pool and they said ''no'' 😂, went back in summer 2019 with no reservation and they actually asked me if I wanted a table by the pool, I said yes so they told me to wait around 10/15 mins they'll hold a table for me. Mind you this was the exact same employee lolll

@diana_prince_1

3 жыл бұрын

Wow. What was the difference in your appearance?

@vturner

3 жыл бұрын

@@diana_prince_1 I was wearing braids the first time, jumpsuit & heels with no makeup if I remember correctly.The second time I had very long straight jet black hair, heels, a short dress, nails done & wearing makeup. My friend also looked amazing.

@diana_prince_1

3 жыл бұрын

@@vturner It's so interesting. I have also noticed that people treat me better when I am looking my best also. Thank you for sharing your experience. 💕

@vturner

3 жыл бұрын

@@diana_prince_1 Np, congrats & good luck on your journey 🥂

@Qasde423

2 жыл бұрын

It's called the Halo affect I have definitely experienced this. Literally the same people who disregarded you at one point will turn around and give you special treatment once you look polished/good.

From my youth my mom would let me know to ALWAYS look presentable. No matter if I am just walking to the Garbage Shoot, The corner store etc. So this was ingrained since childhood.

@Myfemmedaily

3 жыл бұрын

Your mother taught you well Shirley♥️.

I’d like to impress upon all ladies to also gain as much education/knowledge as possible. It’s always a pleasurable added bonus when you look good with BRAINS!! 🧚🏽‍♀️

People (both men and women) definitely treat me with more respect when I take my time to look good. I don't even wear makeup most times. Just a neat hairdo or nice turban with neutral colored outfits, wristwatch and simple jewelry makes people perceive me to be someone important. Don't get me wrong. Everyone is worthy of respect. But unfortunately the world is built in such a way that respect is subjective upon what people deem as deserving of it.

@ioanafilipescu2327

3 жыл бұрын

Oh, your last words...💯..

@Myfemmedaily

3 жыл бұрын

You made a good point, it’s about doing extra or doing too much. Just take some extra time for yourself to look nice and presentable. That alone will make you stand out. 🧡♥️.

@mstwelvedeadlycyns

3 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately. It never guarantees safety.

@gloriarosales1318

3 жыл бұрын

that s true

@dasylula3968

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, sadly.

“I don’t understand how a woman can leave the house without fixing herself up a little - if only out of politeness. And then, you never know, maybe that’s the day she has a date with destiny. And it’s best to be as pretty as possible for destiny.“ ~Coco Chanel

@vtomc

2 ай бұрын

You got that right! Quick story: after a bad breakup I traveled to another state to visit friends and get my mind off things. Always been ingrained to look good, and besides, travel is a privilege, not a right. I wore a turquoise pencil dress and a navy trench coat, nude heels. Mind you this is my traveling outfit. Destination? Palm Springs California. The desert. Paragliding event. Guess who I met that very day, upon arriving to the desert from the airport? 😊We have been together ever since ❤ date with destiny indeed, and I wasn’t even looking! 🎉

The problem of being attractive or feminine is that women who aren’t... hate u like A LOT!! Specially if u are the ... "polite / distant/ impersonal " one. I mean I’m not saying that I’m attractive but I’m very elegant In my day to day life in everything that I do...

@starrjohnson1327

3 жыл бұрын

Yes!!! I was raised to be elegant, friendly and kind. I used to get so much hate at my job. I left that toxic job. The funny thing is people started to copy me. Go figure! I will not change who I am🌸

@estertellez4571

3 жыл бұрын

Yes or people think that you aren’t smart or capable of doing your job. It’s always fun proving them wrong though. We can be smart AND look great

@Sonia-rn1zz

3 жыл бұрын

Haters gonna hate. They're too lazy to be their best selves and hate anyone that makes an effort to be their best self.

@elyjane6078

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, and they think you are a snob or need taking down a peg. These people are toxic, leave them well alone.

@magnoliarose5910

2 жыл бұрын

Yes! My female manager did not like other females that were smart, friendly, well liked and put together, and this includes me. The toxic gaslighting she exhibited was terrible. So glad she is gone!

I agree that people who are well-dressed and groomed get respected more. I make it a point to make myself presentable when I go out, even if I am just going to the grocery store or post office. I find that people treat me like royalty when I wear lovely clothes and make my hair, makeup, and hands neat, whether it is at a grocery store, an upscale restaurant, an expensive cruise, or a classical music concert. Besides, I never know whether I will run into a close friend, an old friend, a former teacher, or even someone I met 20 years ago and haven’t seen since then. People I had not seen for years are amazed at how I look now, even if they have the image of me as an awkward preteen from years ago seared in their memories (in other words, think of “The Ugly Duckling” 😅). Your looks matter! Thank you for this video.

@Myfemmedaily

3 жыл бұрын

Gretchen, thank you so much for sharing this. And it’s so true, by looking good you wil be treated better. Why would we not give that to ourselves 🥰. Sending you much love. 💕💕

@alexandraeverafter1015

3 жыл бұрын

@@Myfemmedaily thank you so much! I agree that making ourselves look presentable is a gift to ourselves! Much love! ♥️🌺

@arielaava2102

3 жыл бұрын

I was running errands while looking messy (gained weight, sloppy clothes) and I ran into my ex. I still feel embarrassed looking like a mess while running into him.

@mukhlisakodirova1957

3 жыл бұрын

So true

this is very true, i always feel so good when i'm dressed up and have my make up/nails done, such a confidence boost ☺️ thank you so much!

@Myfemmedaily

3 жыл бұрын

Yes it’s such a confident booster ♥️♥️.

She speaks real truth. I’m a strong believer in looking my best and raised two daughter (from a previous marriage) to see themselves the same way. You absolutely never know who you may meet and in the most unexpected places. My fiancé approached me after watching me in a casual business setting. I didn’t realize that he was watching nor that 11 years later we would still be together. However good grooming is essential, being well spoken, polite and polished as well. He had been looking for nearly 15 years and told me later that it was love at first sight. Added bonus he is tall, well educated and a very successful businessman.

@vtomc

2 ай бұрын

You got that right! Quick story: after a bad breakup I traveled to another state to visit friends and get my mind off things. Always been ingrained to look good, and besides, travel is a privilege, not a right. I wore a turquoise pencil dress and a navy trench coat, nude heels. Mind you this is my traveling outfit. Destination? Palm Springs California. The desert. Paragliding event. Guess who I met that very day, upon arriving to the desert from the airport? 😊We have been together ever since ❤ date with destiny indeed, and I wasn’t even looking! 🎉 How did I catch his eye? I was best dressed there, even if only for a moment (I changed into more appropriate attire later, but still, clean well fitting clothing in good fabrics with the correct color and cut for me. Hair brushed, minimal makeup, at least some sparkle of jewelry).

Ladies, this is the absolute truth. I was not feeling well (woman time) and was exhausted from traveling. I needed to go to the store and seriously contemplated going out sloppy. I decided to put some effort in - not completely dolled up but put on a nice outfit, shoes, & styled my hair. I ran into an old classmate and lots of guys happened to be at the store. I was SO thankful I put some effort in!

@wshelby83

2 жыл бұрын

Wow!! That was great!!

@corrine.talbot8

Жыл бұрын

Wow!!!

You do not need money to look good and clean. dress the way you want to be addressed! thank you Uriana.

@Myfemmedaily

3 жыл бұрын

That is correct💕.

Yes, definetly! Today I wore a beautiful outfit and I finally wore a pair of shoes with lower heels that i bought recently but didn’t wear until today (cause it was too cold outside). I wore those heels with a pair of very nice jeans who fitted very well my legs I had a Brigitte Bardot style cream coat and I had my hair in a Brigitte Bardot type of tail✨ I really felt good and almost everybody on the street was looking at me. Plus: I was in the mood for trying a new cake shop that opened on my street, it’s a fine dessert shop I always wanted to try since it opened on my street but never did and today I did. The lady from the shop was very nice to me (ofc, I imagine she is nice to everybody as it’s normal to be, but she even said to me before leaving the shop when I was already opening the door to exit, ‘enjoy it’ once again, allthough she told me to enjoy also when I payed and ‘have a nice evening’. A lot changes when you feel and look good and it’s only for the best✨😌

@Myfemmedaily

3 жыл бұрын

Hi dear, this was so lovely to read! I really put a smile on my face, thank you for sharing this with us. It seemed like you had a lovely day💕. You looked good, felt good and attracted people like that to you. Such a great example of why we should look our best, imagine feeling like this most of the time♥️♥️.

@mukhlisakodirova1957

3 жыл бұрын

Wow

anyday i invest in my looks, i get a lot of attention. people treat me better. i love how I feel.

Ladies! This is so true, I was the living version of Andrea in The Devil Wears Prada and I decided to take care of myself. I was very attentive to details (because they are everything) in clothing, makeup, hair, nails, my voice projection etc A-N-D suddenly there was a 360 degrees change in how people treated me, how willing they were to help (because I was new in my job). I was amazed, and all it took was a change in appearance and attitude. It works ladies!!! (And if it doesn't, don't stay in that job, is not a healthy environmen )

Being a Leo , this comes easy and naturally! Feeling good 😌 because We look good. People are drawn to you when you’re happy and fresh and Looking good! It’s all about the spa, the perfume, the makeup and the smile! 💛

@5DNRG

3 жыл бұрын

So true for Leos... most admirable women in public tend to be Leos.

@starrjohnson1327

3 жыл бұрын

I'm a Gemini but I'm very attracted to Leos. I make sure I look feminine. The Leos I've dated expected that and rewarded me for looking good. They loved showing me off😊✨

With 66 1/2 years of marriage experience, my dear grandmother, who lived to be 85, and was also a 1950s housewife, told me this very valuable advice: "There are 3 things a man wants to see when he comes home: 1. His wife looking good/put together - not in her pjs, as he doesn't want to see a version of his mother. She said this doesn't mean for one to look so fancy, but good. 2.) Food ready in the table. 3.) The kids - but in their rooms, so that the man can share/talk about his day-to-day issues/business w/his wife calmly, w/her listening." Grammas know, ladies! 😉 She also said once about a woman's dressing, "The dress makes the man." 🙌 And, "Want to keep a man quiet? Give him something to eat!" Lol.

@Myfemmedaily

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this 😊💕.

@denisseavila9083

3 жыл бұрын

@@Myfemmedaily You're welcome. Keep doing your thing. 👍 You are appreciated.

@denisseavila9083

2 жыл бұрын

@@subscribee9792 Grammas are the bomb! I was blessed to have had her in my life so long. My husband never got to meet any of his grandparents. They all passed before he was born.

@janeynget3059

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing Denisse.

You are 100% right darling. Looks and well grooming are very very important for a woman and the sooner they realize that the better there lives will be. Your channel is lovely and there is a lot to learn from you

@Myfemmedaily

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your lovely message ♥️.

What a wonderful and true video to why we should always look our best. This reminds me of Queen Esther and the Proverbs 31 women. Both Godly women always looked their best as well. Thanks for sharing 🙏

@Myfemmedaily

3 жыл бұрын

That is such a lovely comment, thank you for sharing that with us♥️.

@lbu9542

3 жыл бұрын

@@Myfemmedaily thank you! 🙏

I cant believe this isnt normal! People come to the airport with bonnets and house slippers and its so sad

@Priesthood275

3 жыл бұрын

what!!

@amenyob2661

3 жыл бұрын

Just tragic. My mother always taught me to dress well because you never know who you’ll run into or what unplanned event you may happen on. Gotta stay ready at all times 😀

@sylviasmiths4909

3 жыл бұрын

@@amenyob2661 your mother and mine mother who taught me the same. I also was taught this when I was in modeling school, always look your best. This is something women need to go back to, taking pride in their appearance.

@gaillewis5472

3 жыл бұрын

I remember when people would dress their best to travel. I understand the TSA regulations of having to remove shoes and belts, not wear underwires, not use any metal hair ornaments, but we can choose tasteful fashion that does not violate airport security demands.

@kiera6326

3 жыл бұрын

@@gaillewis5472 I prioritise comfort whilst travelling more than fashion. I’m obviously not going to go looking like a slob but I’m not going to wear my best clothes since they’re usually in my suitcase, and I’m not going to be sitting freezing or uncomfortable on the plane, or have to be fumbling about with trying to remove certain items to get through the scanner, or risk getting oil or rust or anything like that on them. And that’s not counting the sweat if I’m landing somewhere hot. I change when I get to the hotel, but dressing up for the airport is absurd

Yes be realistic with where you are ladies it starts by taking a bath daily or twice a day moisturizing your skin basic hygiene even if u dont have the nice clothes or able get your hair done as often keep yourself groom cut away those split ends if your hair is extremely damage cut the damage hair of to the healthiest hair shaft or even go bald I realize in my leveling up journey it is the basic things first

Yes definitely makes a difference when I'm well groomed. I've found that men stare and overall people treat you with respect. You feel more confident and you just want to keep looking good. I feel more in touch with my feminine side. Thank you so much for doing this video ☺️. This is the time in my life when I really need to hear this. You're beautiful.xx

Yes I see a difference in how am treated when dressed in a more sophisticated or well put together way. When I just got married I went all out so I had that glow and after just coming back to work everyone called me pretty girl, kept complimenting me and staring at me..I felt like the most important person in the building that week. I went from the typical nerdy me to being called Pretty in such a short time.

@wshelby83

2 жыл бұрын

That’s nice!!! Must have felt great! I wish you all the best in your marriage

Channel is growing , congratulations and I love your content.

@Myfemmedaily

3 жыл бұрын

Yes the channel is growing and I’m so grateful for that. Thank you for noticing dear♥️😘.

About the example of the 2 women at work, I think the boss might think the woman who takes better care of her appearance is naturally showing her skills of being able to pay attention to detail & do a thorough & beautiful job, & of being respectful to herself & others. It shows her character.

Imagine sitting down in a restaurant...most would be more likely to eat from a dish that has been presented neatly and attractively on the plate rather than thrown around in a dirty platter. We would enjoy our meal more and respect the work that has been put into preparing it.

Thank you Urania for this video, very beautiful and well spoken as always, I am a medical student and I used to get shamed for putting myself together every day, when I said that I was struggling a bit with my studies, some people that I know and even my family told me to stop wasting time on looking put together, unfortunately I did it for a while and it was a mistake, I have never felt that way in my life, I literally stopped enjoying life, and now with reflection I realized that I needed to get back on track, so here I am watching your channel and I fell in love with your content, thank you from the bottom of my heart, I really want to get back to how I was , and ladies, don't ever listen to what anyone has to say , if you love something keep on doing it no matter what, sending love to this beautiful community of women supporting each other , you slay queens 👑👑👑♥️♥️♥️

@Myfemmedaily

3 жыл бұрын

Hello Lamia, thank you for sharing your story🌹🌹. You can get back to that. The most important thing is that you feel good. If people don’t understand it, well that is unfortunate for them. Take small steps and get back to doing what you love and make yourself feel and look good. I’m sending much love 💕💕

Literally, saw this and dressed up last night. Wow, thank god I did because I ended up stumbling on people my husband does businesses with. It made me look great and he looked like he was with a stunning wife.

@wshelby83

2 жыл бұрын

That’s awesome!! Thank God!

Just booked my hair appointment 💞

@Myfemmedaily

3 жыл бұрын

That is lovely, snout it dear♥️.

@homehere9817

3 жыл бұрын

Lol I need to book my box braiding appointment because of tired of wearing wigs!

My mentor and sponsor once told me: People treat you better when you look presentable and he would always encourage me to dress better and always maintain a good image no matter where I am; at home relaxing on the weekend, going out to run errands or going out for coffee or date night. Thanks for sharing this.

All of us women are different this is a great video I always dress feminine for me I never wear pants maybe leggings snow pants when I go out I always smell good my clothes are clean ultra feminine Yes people are nice and are more helpful to women who look more feminine the world isn’t fair and that’s the way it is.

Very very true. I’m usually casual, jeans T-shirt and flip flops kind of girl but I’ve been wearing classy skirts and dresses lately. While I was treated well before, people go out of their way to treat me well now

Very true, I personally experience this. I'm a person very concerned about my dressing, make ups, hair done, nail done and accessories which looked expensive and branded. Most of the time people treated me so good.

Im planning to change my closet this year.I wolud like you to make a video on staple pieces(clothes and shoes) an elegant lady should have it will be highly appreciated 🥰🥰🙏🙏.Thanks for another great video.

@Myfemmedaily

3 жыл бұрын

Hi dear, that sounds exciting. I think this video of mine will help you with this. Good luck♥️🧡 kzread.info/dash/bejne/nXmYyaild9zIZco.html

I LOVE that you addressed the issue of how unfair this is, and that yes, it is incredibly unfair, but it is also the reality of how the world works. I think it is the inherent assumption that if you care for yourself, you will also care about the work you do.

Hi Urania Can you please do a video about "simple everyday makeup". Your makeup always look good 🥰

“Dress the way you want to be addressed.”

Hi this really motivates me to do my hair every once in a while, cut, style, and dye it. Sometimes I get so overwhelmed in life and work and forget to look my best and feel guilty then I to do my hair and feel like am wasting time but actually no - I do not care if I’m single I’ll take care of my looks for me

I love that you get straight to the point

I agree, I will never step out without looking on point.

This was an awesome video.I like when you said that we should treat all people with respect because you do not know what others is going through.

Thank you for sharing this, I'm so excited to level up and put more effort into myself 🥰🥰

I can feel the contentment and happiness by the way you talk and through your facial expression. Thank you for sharing good vibes :)

There is a HUGE difference! I wish I could make leggings outside of the gym illegal, and I wish more places had somewhat of a dress code. I am so tired of people wearing sweats out in public. You don't even have to dress up really to stand out anymore. Just by fixing your hair, doing minimal makeup and wearing a couple pieces of jewelry with jeans and a regular shirt you will look nicer than 90% of the other people out there! I like to wear really nice clothes and yes I stand out, but I'd rather stand out for looking my best then looking like a slob. Dressing down makes me look really bad and I don't want people thinking bad things about me. I leave the house everyday looking very cute and I get handed free stuff all the time, and people are just really friendly. I love getting compliments on my outfits :)

@Victoria-up6vz

3 жыл бұрын

Girlll, you know itt

@samsunggalaxya1323

2 жыл бұрын

But sweat pants can look good too! I have some that make my figure look very good and when I wanna go for a sporty look, I think sweatpants, some clean shoes, a crop top and a high pony tail look amazing. Now I'm curious, if you think I would still look sloby or messy? (I will continue wearing it bc I love it, but I wanna hear other ppls opinions)

Thanks for taking the time to create these videos. Sometimes it's easy to forget to do the simple things. I'm happy to have your content to help me move along through my self-improvement journey.

End of point 6 was very kind and sensitive. 👏👏

I am so thankful that I have found your videos :-) you've not only validated many of the beliefs I've had, but you have helped me get into the mindset of being the best me that I can possibly be and putting my best foot forward. For some reason, I was raised to believe that humility resided in making yourself small, but as I grow in my relationship with God and as I watch video such as yours, I Now understand that true humility lies in understanding the Magnificent creature that God created me to be, treating myself as such, and showing others respect and love. Thank you so much

I definitely see the difference in how people treat me when I look good and put together versus when I dont. I mean this is not fair as you said. But since I cant change things I better take the information and use it well. You have got one subscriber.

Urania, you are truly gifted in this department of helping women on our journey to leveling up. You have been endowed with the charisma of presentation which encompasses your speech, knowledge content, and area of concentration of subject matter. I personally believe these gifts are God inspired. So with that in mind, continue to be a blessing. I so look forward to your next video.

@Myfemmedaily

3 жыл бұрын

Melissha Lindsey, your message truly touched my heart ♥️. Thank you! I enjoy making these video’s and helping other women leveling up in the best way I can. Receiving amazing messages like yours is what makes me so happy and proud to be doing this. Im sending you lots of love 💕💕, Urania.

I don’t want to admit it and I don’t want any of this to be true, but unfortunately this is the world we live in and people do treat you differently on the way you look. Good point on trying to make it work towards your advantage knowing these facts.

This video has made me thankful that I work for a company who value my mind over my make up 🙌🏾

Thank youuu sis. Love it I’m attracting growth and prosperity to my KZread channel.

I definitely get treated better when I put effort into my looks. I went to check in at a hotel and forgot I looked like a homeless woman , the room I received was dirty , I went to the front desk and was treated horribly, told to stand to the side, I was ignored, I was like this nevers happens to me I atleast get a let me see what I can do. Look Matter but attitude and the way you carry yourself matters more.

I love your deeper perspectives on this.

Yes i agree when you feel good you look good,,👍😊and being attractive will boost your confidence.

I am a stoic female and I don't stress about wearing fancy cloths or looking super nice and I am not insecure at all and is actually at peace. There are plenty of monks that have lots of love and they aren't shopping for cloths every year.

Thank you for the great video! I totally agree that look matters.

Great video! I am generally treated well because of my naturally kind and brilliant energy. I've noticed that when I put in effort it's like waving a magic wand!

Great video!! Lots of excellent points!

People gravitate toward me and I do get treated better than I used to when I cared nothing about my looks. It is a big plus and I enjoy having a higher confidence level.

So true my grandma always like to say stop look like your problem Do your best to look gud

Omg this is very true,man like woman to look good and respect them

this is unfortunately true. I feel it on my skin. I don't have expensive things, but I make an effort to look good and since then people just treat me a lot better and with a lot more care.

yes babe!! thank u for this!!

I love your channel I’m 17 and your videos really help me Being a better woman

Urania dear, thanks for this video

I loved your video and I agree 100%. Ty 💙

Such a lovely message to take care to treat everybody equal ❣️

@Myfemmedaily

3 жыл бұрын

I’m glad that you appreciate that message dear💕💕.

@ngozijanea

3 жыл бұрын

@@Myfemmedaily yes! This just made you an instant fave. I appreciate your genuine care for others 💛

@mstwelvedeadlycyns

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed

@doll9763

3 жыл бұрын

Agree

Thanks for the tips as i start my journey

Thank you for sharing 🌷

Your accent paired with your delivery is beautiful!! Very worldly and elegant. Subscribed xoxo

Found u a few days ago, I love the way u speak and what u speak 💗

Am lucky to come across your videos Am new waau my level up journey start right away 🥰🥰 thank you so much

Appreciate your brutal honesty. Some people don't like hearing these things, but it is reality, we humans still have a our primitive qualities built in from millions of years of evolution. Once you understand this, life is easier.

Oh loving the comments and vibes on here! I have luxurious candle bath followed by very nourishing and overflowing body oil all over with a good face massage 🥰

Yes! There is definitely a difference made and yes, my confidence takes a hit.

Such a likable personality ❤️ Just subscribed. It will be lovely to see your morning routine 🌼

I’ve just discovered your channel and you are so lovely and beautiful. I love this content! Thank you so much ❤️

Love this❤ and your hair!

U look fabulous yourself. Thanx fo the video.

This video was right on. I have worked in an office with that perfect girl that everyone talked about. She did get promoted and she was always respected

@wshelby83

2 жыл бұрын

That’s awesome!!

I like looking presentable everyday . It definitely uplifts my mood . Whether I am at home or running a quick errand, my hair (earring my fave ponytail extension) & makeup (mascara & a red lip) and my outfit (somewhat matching is always 100% on fleek. ) Even since I’ve invested in watching these lady elegance videos , my family and friends think I’m too superficial or fake to dress up. TBH, I don’t care what people think because if I learned anything at all, “YOU ARE THE PERSON YOU ATTRACT” so dressing up , to look and feel good is more of my “forte” so to speak , than to be vibe out this “lazy bum” look . You know what I mean? Even at my best “bum” look, I can pull off fabulous ( messy bun, mascara, lip gloss and eyeglasses 🤓, plus graphic tee, joggers and sneakers topped off with a blazer) but I would never step out of the house looking like a zombie . I’ve also noticed that when I do make the effect to dress up, customer service raises up to friendlier , happier level of respect towards you. Thank you dear for these videos to help me become the BEST VERSION OF MYSELF” have a beautiful lovely day ❤️🙏🏽😘😘😘✌️

These are all beauty standards that we are trying to break. I agree with you that looking our best as in caring for our hygiene helps us feel better. Yes , a lot of psychological data backs that up regardless of gender. Also the quote you used towards the end was written by a man who is part of the patriarchal society. And looking our best is unique to each person and if the beauty standards are so unattainable how can the majority of women including myself who are not inherently wealthy who do not have the best features for the culture follow what you were saying?

@valinatoussaint5485

Жыл бұрын

Society standards are not always realistic, not everyone can be elegant but that doesn't mean they shouldn't be valued or respected, let's just try to walk in love see ourselves through the eyes of others and help those who don't have the confidence and knowledge we have

My mother would always say never” judge a book by its cover”. Nice video! 💜

I enjoyed your video thank you ,I have learned a lot self love is very important before people appreciate you learn to love your self and know you are worthy and everything will fall in place❤️💕💕🔥

True I always look my best definitely makes you feel good .

Very well said. Thank you.

Yes I have noticed, when i take extra effort to look 👀 good, he appreciate me

Gorgeous! Loved this!

Thanks for this !

It is fair to be treated better when you look better! It shows you value yourself more and you’re putting effort into it, it’s not that easy!! 😁

I agree with you 100%

I’m treated differently and I feel differently. My spiritual energy also increases.

You are a beautiful and classy woman Urania. I really enjoy your videos. Thank you for making the world a better place.

I love your style. You are so classy. Thank you for all your videos which help so many women. 👩

Thanks beautiful and it’s true, l will try my best as well you’re the best 🥰🥰

Everything you say is true, but I just don’t look that great , I wear clean clothes and makeup every day and do what I can with my hair. My husband loves me and finds me attractive but he’s the only one. You do look beautiful and so polished, and you are so kind .