Hey loves! Now that you've got the inside scoop on how mass jewelry works, I'm dying to know: does it change your perspective on getting an engagement ring? Comment below and let's discuss! 💭✨ Follow me on IG and FB👇 instagram.com/bybonniejewelry facebook.com/bybonniejewelry Our Website: www.bybonniejewelry.com

@suzakukururugi6613

Жыл бұрын

It does. Now I wonder if I made a mistake, but thankfully we didn't spend above 20k....lol. Still feel a bit foolish, but she loves it and stares at it often. It is and was a special purchase, so I think that she appreciates that aspect more rather than it being a diamond, because we did at least discuss diamond free (conflict free) options. I think it just means when I make a more educated and valued purchase later, there will be a greater chance of her liking it even more. Once it gets to car level prices and higher, I am less willing to pay for a name. At that point, it better be the value of the stone, the setting and the design, and I did see that in your designs. Unfortunately, I feel often times us guys are strapped for time and lacking in knowledge even though I did research and found the recommended internet sites to be lacking and really learned a lot from your videos, I didn’t want the pressure of making a grave mistake on something I know so little about (I did the surprise route, and intel from her friend) so I wish I had an expert and guidance. I think that is where the value was lost on my eventual purchase at a fancy T&C store engagement ring. I would say pop culture had more to do with my purchase than one done from wisdom.

I tried the red box, the egg blue box and at the end of the day no one does it like Bonnie💍🙌 Happy with my 10 year upgrade and now getting ready for that 15 year surprise!

@ByBonnieJewelry

Жыл бұрын

OMG! Thank you for sharing that!! I am so glad you love your upgrade. We will be here for your 15th :) Sending much love.

I recently lost the stone in my over 25 year old engagement ring and I was bummed to the point I was considering not replacing the ring. I started looking and just bought a ring from an online vendor THEN I discovered your channel! Well I can’t even count how many hours of your videos I watched and gained an idea of what I really wanted. I found a small family owned jeweler and it was a match made in heaven. The team was incredibly knowledgeable with an incredible on-site jeweler. Initially I was like, well I lost my original stone so whatever I get after will not be as special BUT I was wrong. My sales person was knowledgeable and very patient while I started to figure out what I really wanted this go round. I loved that I was able to see the actual stones and when they didn’t wow me, which was not his fault at all but my indecisiveness. I knew I wanted a pear but didn’t realize until I saw a few AND watched your videos that I preferred a wide plump pear with a certain ratio range. The ring he found exceeded my expectations! I also was very hesitant to get a new band so he made sure it would fit perfectly and not create a large gap. Well, we picked it up yesterday and it blew my mind! It’s simple and elegant but absolutely breathtaking!

I think this is exactly what everyone needs to hear! Thank you Bonnie for being so real with us! ❤

@ByBonnieJewelry

Жыл бұрын

I really appreciate your positive feedback

THIS is why we love you Bonnie!!!! ❤❤❤ You had me at "luxury"!!!! Been following you for a while and love everything that you represent in the industry. Final ring upgrade is totally yours when rhe time comes. Keep it coming!!!!! 💯 😊

@ByBonnieJewelry

Жыл бұрын

Ah Linda! Thank you so much ❤️ I am absolutely honored and looking forward to when that day comes. Will do!

You’ll get bad diamonds everywhere you go, big chain stores, family owned stores etc it’s about taking the time to find quality where you go. I have a friend who got engaged with a Cartier and the quality is insane, I’m sure there’s bad quality in there and I’m sure there’s great quality! Same with Tiffany’s, people don’t mind spending the money and they like the name it’s somewhat magical. I also have friends who got engaged with a family owned jeweller, and an online one and they’ve had problems! You can have problems everywhere you go. Also people like to be able to see the stone and ring in person, not have to fly somewhere just to visit a ring, or just hope for the best and order online. I understand what you’re saying, but big name jewellers will never go out of business.

@tynation9103

Жыл бұрын

I agree...one can run to a problem just about anywhere. A friend bought a ring from a local store. That ring commands attention whenever she wears it. It's just a stunning ring. And another friend, ordered hers online and the ring is just beautiful. Though, another friend bought a ring from a local jewelry store. Spend $25k and her ring looks lifeless. I couldn't believe just how dull the ring looks. I ran into one lady that says, she will never buy her ring from anywhere besides Costco.

Looking forward to your upcoming series! 🎉

Thank you so much for this video, Bonnie! So informative and helpful. I can’t wait for your next video ✨💕

@ByBonnieJewelry

Жыл бұрын

THANK YOU for watching my videos :) I'm glad its helpful. Stay tuned 😊❤

I already bought my engagement and wedding band from a "luxury" big box store, since I felt it was too stressful not knowing what to look for. But for our next big anniversary, I think I will come see you! I feel like I overpaid for the brand name...but I rather have quality rather than "heritage"

@ByBonnieJewelry

Жыл бұрын

Hi dear! Oh my, you have no idea how many times I heard similar stories like yourself. "I felt too stressed out about it so I just bought it and wanted to be done with it". Thank you for thinking of me for your anniversary. We will be here to help you navigate it, and most importantly you will have a lot of fun at By Bonnie 😊 Can't wait!

Thank you Bonnie for sharing all these valuable information .

@ByBonnieJewelry

Жыл бұрын

Thank YOU for watching my dear ❤❤ Appreciate you showing love.

Love this!! Very informative.

@ByBonnieJewelry

Жыл бұрын

Thank you I'm glad you enjoyed it❤

You’re amazing and very helpful!

@ByBonnieJewelry

9 ай бұрын

Thank you so much 😍

You're the real deal!!! Thank you

@ByBonnieJewelry

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Patricia❤Appreciate your kind words.

Great information. I always enjoy your videos, and the craftsmanship is impeccable. You’re gonna make me fly out from Memphis when I get ready to upgrade one day!🥰

@ByBonnieJewelry

Жыл бұрын

Hi Ebony! Thank you so much, it makes me so happy to hear you love them. We do have clients flying in all over the world every week so please come when you are ready! We will be waiting ;)

Thank you!

I love you videos Bonnie!

@ByBonnieJewelry

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 😊❤

Came across ur videos bcos I’m about to purchase my first diamond for myself 😆 Question: what is Eternal Flame diamond and is it worth the extra money??

Great video Bonnie! You are always so informative. I can attest your curation & quality is like none other. I love thé eternity band you created for me ❤Curious, what happens to the bad decision mistake rings your clients purchased from big box? What do you recommend they do with it?

@ByBonnieJewelry

Жыл бұрын

Hi dear! I'm so glad you are loving your eternity band. Good question! It depends on the situation. Sometimes the client is still within the 30 day return window, and just returns it. (Those are the lucky ones) Even though actually getting your money back can take a while. I've heard stories of "canceled orders" and it still showing up at their front door 6 months later and being charged for it, and they claimed that it was "after their 30 day return window". BE SMART! Other situations I have heard is that they had to pay for 2 custom settings (non-refundable) but were able to refund the center stone. And certain times, they are completely stuck with it. In those cases, I would ask the original place you bought it from to take it back (but of course, you would have to take a loss on the amount you paid). Perhaps ask for store credit to apply on something else like diamond earrings or necklace for future use. This is the reason why I made this video! (I am sure there are many who received good jewelry with good experiences). But for those who didn't, those are the things to look out for! Anyways, thanks for watching love. Appreciate your support ❤

@suzakukururugi6613

Жыл бұрын

@@ByBonnieJewelry wow, so scary and sad

Bonnie is speaking the truth. 👏 ❤

@ByBonnieJewelry

Жыл бұрын

🙌❤

I wish i found your channel before i had my upgrade.But for sure the next big upgrade will be from you.:)

@ByBonnieJewelry

8 ай бұрын

YAY ❤️ Thank you so much for your support!

Costco has the best quality and price for engagement rings. They have IF-I, nothing lower- also, all the rings are VVS or Better with platinum. They have a forever return policy so you can upgrade your ring or simply return it if you need the cash back. When you buy from this lady, or any other company- you can never get your money back on your hand. I buy all my jewelry at Costco. The forever return policy applies to all their jewelry- even years later. A lot of people don’t know about this! You are welcome.

I love your videos!! I learn so much! I hope to buy a piece from you one day!!

@ByBonnieJewelry

Жыл бұрын

Thank you sweetie! I'm so glad :)) Keep watching to learn more. I appreciate you showing me love ❤ Can't wait to make you a piece in the future 😊

@sarinagersten

Жыл бұрын

@@ByBonnieJewelry 😁🧡

Best video ever!!!

@ByBonnieJewelry

Жыл бұрын

👏👏👏

Loving your videos, though, at this point I'm a widow, so not looking for an engagement ring. I do have a question. For our 25 anniv. my husband purchased a tension set wedding band, 3.74 ct. in 18 ct. gold. I have no idea how to clean it. I was told sonic isn't good because it could loosen the stones. Can't use a brush either. Can you advise me?

I wish you do Moissanites too. It's more affordable.

I want to learn more color diamond

Are your rings cast from a mold?

Dear Bonnie, since I started watching your channel on yt I cannot even imagine that somebody else could do my (upgradet) engagement ring. Before I thought that only Tiffany&CO is for my but now I know I need someone that could give me a good advice and someone that I can trust.

@ByBonnieJewelry

Жыл бұрын

Hi Paulina! THANK YOU! We appreciate you so much. We're here whenever you feel ready. Meanwhile, keep watching to get inspiration! Sending you sparkles :)

@paulinabrzozowska708

Жыл бұрын

@@ByBonnieJewelry ❤

Ms. Bonnie you look great even without make up 😊

You a good stocking stuffer

Is your background with the lovely furniture real?

I'm currently looking for my engagement ring. I've never been looking before and when I did I went to big chain jewelers and left so stressed and disappointed. I found your channel soon after and learned so much. I do have more of an idea of what I want because of you and your informative videos! My heart is screaming to go with you but I live in New Mexico and there is no way I'd be able to be there in person. I'm nervous to do it online. But I truly wish that I could have you make my dream wedding set!😭Is there a fee for an estimate?

@ByBonnieJewelry

Жыл бұрын

Hi Ashley! I am glad you were able to learn and narrow down your search. To be honest, we have ALOT of clients who are out of state like yourself, and we can help you via a consultation via Zoom/facetime/email. If you want, you can first browse our website to get an idea of styles & pricing. And schedule a phone consultation + send us any photos/ inspo. Happy to help you navigate through it. I know it can be stressful but I promise we will make the experience butter smooth for you ❤ I hope this helps, talk to you soon! www.bybonniejewelry.com

@ashleynicole294

Жыл бұрын

@@ByBonnieJewelry Thank you so much! I will check out the pricing💗

Bonnie, can you explain if buying from Family Own Jewelry store is better than the Big Box?

@ByBonnieJewelry

Жыл бұрын

Hi dear! Sure. I think it largely depends on what you are looking for in your ring/jewelry piece. Are you looking for craftsmanship? Are you looking to be able to service your jewelry right around the corner from where you live? Do you prefer an online experience with all the spinning videos? It just depends on what you want sweetie. Then you can research and identify the place that does that best! But we always love supporting local businesses ❤

Hi Bonnie, GIA PAPERS... DO NOT BUY ONLINE UNLESS YOUR BUDDY HAS GIA DEGREE...I hear horror stories daily from people buying on internet..BUY FROM TRUSTWORTHY HONEST PEOPLE. . PLEASE Y'ALL... The ❤️ talented goldsmith does the MAGIC-->BONNIE AND HER STAFF..OR BOBBY WHITE IN LONDON.. YUP, THATS ALL.. NO CALL PRO PLUMMER... Good points..😊❤❤

@ByBonnieJewelry

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your support love ❤ Couldn't agree more. 😘😘😘😘Craftsmanship is so important

I deleted the other comment chain but I stand by what I wrote. I think you’re great and always have been and always had humor and personality, regardless of what the other commenter said. But I also think you don’t need to ham it up for anyone.

@ByBonnieJewelry

Жыл бұрын

Hi Val, One of our intentions when creating content is to educate our viewers on the industry and what jewelers are less inclined to talk about. :-) -Team By Bonnie 💎

A still can't get over that giant ass bowtie on the schmiffany & schmo ring arghhh. and i compared the pave on the ring that was bought online, to the one in my "final exam piece" which was after 8 lessons at jewelry school, and mine is way better even though it's objectively shit lol. WHY. ARE. PEOPLE. Bonnie, if this is so infuriating to a hobbyist jeweller, I can't even begin to imagine how you feel, with this being your life's work, I bet you punch things on the regular.

@ByBonnieJewelry

Жыл бұрын

OMG, I just choked on my coffee reading this! First of all, SENDING YOU LOVE AND HUGS! And how awesome is that you went to jewelry school! (SO YOU KNOW WHAT IM TALKING ABOUT).To be honest, when that scmifany client came to me, she had asked me to reset that stone. I politely declined because I said A) You lose all warranty if you do that B) The stone isn't nice to begin with so resetting doesn't even matter. AND don't get me STARTED on that pave ring that my client Di bought, it was just black/fully included industrial quality melees, shoved into the mount. The metal itself had so much porosity and crap in it!! I mean don't get me wrong, NOT all online jewelry is like that but the 3D image he saw was "perfect" and item received was 👎. They were based out of NYC so I guess he just assumed it's good its from a US based company 😅. OH BABY, my staff almost bought me a punching manikin (6 pack one lol), they were so tired of watching me go crazy hahahahahahaha!! THANK YOU for stopping by, you made my day. Hehe!!

@tippytappy

Жыл бұрын

@@ByBonnieJewelry if any of your staff are reading this, I urge them to get you that mannequin 😆 When people end up with crap rings, even if they keep them, I think most of the time they just think about the gesture for the most part. It’s a symbol of love, and that’s what matters - not everyone wants a ring for showing off (I think this is more of a thing in the US), so a piece that’s “good enough” and doesn’t fall apart when you get dressed suffices. And that makes room in the market for a lot of shit jewelry 🙃 It’s so awesome that you’re educating people about quality and mass market pieces ❤️ Keep doing what you’re doing!

60k going towards a house at 7.5% interest over 30 years is 150k. I will buy my wife a 150k ring after she stays with me 30 years.

❤️❤️❤️

@ByBonnieJewelry

Жыл бұрын

❤️

Tongue piercing looks so cheap.

We all want the most amazing things but even garbage is expensive,,,at what budget level can you help us?

@ByBonnieJewelry

Жыл бұрын

It can be, so definitely do some research before purchasing! It depends on what you are looking for. Our engagement ring starts at 5K.

@ginkat1318

Жыл бұрын

@@ByBonnieJewelry thank you so much

@Lei05Lei

Жыл бұрын

Diamonds are garbage. Lol. They literally aren't worth anything. We have been conditioned. 😂

@ginkat1318

Жыл бұрын

@@Lei05Lei I have a bad case. Of all the unnecessary things in the world, diamonds give me the most joy

If you can spend that much on a ring you can loose that money and it not affect you much

Who is this person?

I just went to blue box company. They are disgusting and entitled.

@ByBonnieJewelry

Жыл бұрын

Aww, I'm sorry your experience wasn't good! Stay positive love, we will be here if you need help. Thank you for stopping by ❤

If you were to make my girlfriend's ring, I would be honored.

@ByBonnieJewelry

Жыл бұрын

We would be honored as well, Eugene! Please reach out to contact@bybonniejewelry.com and let's see if we can make it happen! -Team By Bonnie ✨

Bonnie are you based in the Bay Area? I’m in LA. I’d love for my boyfriend ti have you make me something one day😍🤞🏾

@ByBonnieJewelry

Жыл бұрын

Hi dear! Yes I am based in the Bay Area :) Absolutely, we would be honored. Email us anytime when you feel ready. Until then, enjoy my videos to get inspiration

😂

@ByBonnieJewelry

Жыл бұрын

😅😉

Jessi?