The easiest way to disappoint a woman is putting her to center of your life 😂

@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp

4 ай бұрын

for real

@melvincaldwell591

4 ай бұрын

As much as that doesn't make any sense, it makes perfect sense lol

@vxti_cxn

4 ай бұрын

As someone with an exemple in front of my eyes, you're right.

@inspectortiddles

4 ай бұрын

Funny this is how I deal with men too. It’s beyond stupid for a man to be the centre of a woman’s world.

@bsmoove69

4 ай бұрын

So what he's saying is you will lose money chasing women but attract women chasing money

This is a very good advice for young guys, he is saying the truth. Once you make a woman center of your life, thats when they start to lose their respect. Many guys like me did this during our younger and inexperienced times, and lost as a result.

@tedoandrews7047

4 ай бұрын

Bro you're right all my girlfriends left me for the guy that was being this way.

@carkawalakhatulistiwa

4 ай бұрын

In the past this was not necessary because of arranged marriages. that's why 16 year old boys can get married. Because this shit don't exist

@DavidZ4-gg3dm

4 ай бұрын

Yes, she'll take over your life, bleed you dry, then discard you.

@Revok7272

4 ай бұрын

Young guys simply don't understand so they will treat them like shit all because they don't understand what he's meaning by disappoint

@Revok7272

4 ай бұрын

​​@@tedoandrews7047gotta show them your never scared or cant be easily manipulated by her because she's testing you in the beginning to see if you will man up for protection her and y'alls future children..which is wrong she shouldn't test a man because he's going to respond way different to her rather than a real threat of another person

Clarification: the Aim is not to disappoint women. It's to have something that means more to you then her approval

@jasonmason2777

3 ай бұрын

it would’ve been too much for him to just say that

@RevealedFilms

3 ай бұрын

Which leads to her disappointment when you tell her ‘no’. If you were on a podcast you’d be boring af

@jasonmason2777

3 ай бұрын

@@RevealedFilms I’d rather be boring than corny.

@exhibitbray8262

3 ай бұрын

You missed the point. If a man is hyper focused in his goal and doesn’t put the her first, he becomes more attractive and less likely to be left by the woman. Pay attention to context.

@sibusiso2841

3 ай бұрын

​@@jasonmason2777what's funny is, there was nothing wrong with OP's clarification. Some people can't read between the lines of the video so the sh*t helps. Other people want to see a comment echoing their same level of understanding

Theres something so calming about a women who sits and observes without the need to battle every topic.

@_FJB_

4 ай бұрын

She's a cute little thing. She's deffinately more grounded than most all their guests but also still a woman.

@inserter400

4 ай бұрын

There is not such a creature 😂😂😂

@nickylee3648

4 ай бұрын

She don't speak English bro 😂

@imkolip0ki387

4 ай бұрын

Shes part of the show. Shes always there

@5fuckthepopulation9

4 ай бұрын

@@nickylee3648ofc she does

If you give her everything she wants, she has mastered the puzzle and will VERY SOON seek mystery elsewhere.

@MrAlio101

3 ай бұрын

How can there be mystery when youre in a serious relationship. You know everything about eachbother anyway

@marismith2416

3 ай бұрын

​@MrAlio101 easy... don't make yourself available at every beckon call. It's ok to make them wait. The same applies with the woman.

If you put a woman on a pedestal she has no option but to look down at you.

I wish I'd had a man tell me this as a young man. This short will save lives, literally. I almost ended it all over a girl in this EXACT situation.

@wesleyjma

4 ай бұрын

Its a right of passage for most men. I feel bad for those that get lost in the weeds... I learned it from an ex who had an ex that hug himself from a bridge. Needless to say, she taught me a thing or two about life and women. Pick wisely boys

@luvhandles90210

4 ай бұрын

Glad you're still here with us bro.

@kelliehand1

4 ай бұрын

That’s awful! Never let anyone make you feel that way! If someone makes you feel that bad they aren’t worth having. ❤️ good luck to you in your future relationships. ❤️

@badnewsbruner

4 ай бұрын

@@luvhandles90210 Thanks brother 👍I am too!!

@badnewsbruner

4 ай бұрын

@@kelliehand1 Trust me, it'll never happen again. I learned a lot from that relationship, and have been in a great relationship closing in on 8 years now. I appreciate that kind words, thank you.

That girl is actually learning

@SpineChylz

4 ай бұрын

Madysen doesn't have to learn, she already subconsciously knows

@VaughanMate

4 ай бұрын

What? This is advice for men, it has nothing to do with what women should do. Listen better. Or think better, not sure if you’re horrible at interpreting or just horrible at thinking, but do better

@shawn14lodge

4 ай бұрын

she’s the only one on this podcast that has common sense and is willing to learn which is why brian keeps her on. She’s there to help negate the stupidity in the other women he brings on the podcast pretty much lol

@bleekskaduwee6762

4 ай бұрын

Does she she ever talk ? I have never seen the podcast just these shorts

@redwall1521

4 ай бұрын

@@bleekskaduwee6762 there's one podcast where she does, I think her parents come on in that show

I've made that mistake twice and it cost me big time, doing everything for a woman is never enough in their eyes

@1StepForwardToday

3 ай бұрын

Doing everything that a woman wants and ask for is exactly the thing that they don't want ironically the feminine eats its own tail it's the picture of that Dragon that's in that Circle that eats its own tail that's the nature of the feminine it's it's really two rings like that that contradict each other like the number eight, each circle represents a cycle, but the 2 cycles contradict each other, and even cancel itself out (by nature, it contradicts & self-destructs itself, when left on its own).

@marismith2416

3 ай бұрын

Don't do everything for women. You create a spoiled brat of you do.

If you say yes, and keep giving, she'll keep taking until you're left with nothing left to give

@77livingstonE

4 ай бұрын

The giving tree. One of the best children’s books bar none !!

@terihollis8603

3 ай бұрын

Umm that's called a high maintenance, child . That is not what you want...however, there are many woman out there who want to give space as they need their own space. The surest way to make me leave when I was younger is to smoother me..dude get a life...we'll have something to talk about later.

@brodyt3293

3 ай бұрын

@terihollis8603 there is a difference between smothering and doing everything you can for someone for them to turn their back on you

@simjam1980

3 ай бұрын

Then she'll leave because now you're a loser. Basically, they ruin your life if you let them

@shantaywicklander4773

3 ай бұрын

Mine was the opposite. We need balance. An interdependent relationship is the goal

I know what this guy means. My husband says no to my asks sometimes and at the very beginning of our relationship that was ‘new’ to me since guys had always fallen over themselves to accommodate anything and everything I asked for… but I didn’t respect those guys. And that’s the difference, I married the one that put checks on me, my asks, and I respected him bc he was not someone I could overpower. Not either my looks, my body, my words, my tears. He led and I willingly followed and loved him for it. I did not know I needed that but he knew instinctively, as a man, that it was right to not cave to my every whim. That also made him an amazing Father to our children. Still married, 30 years now. Still very much in love!

@user-lo4np1bs1r

3 ай бұрын

So it sounds like you are the horrible person and you take advantage of people and your nature is evil. Reread your paragraph from the perspective of a guy and ask yourself is it worth it

@adriananeri3288

2 ай бұрын

So you married a father figure. It's not what all women wants

@drcidd8153

2 ай бұрын

@@adriananeri3288 Not until they're ran through and in the downward spiral called their 30s.

@mayawilliams9960

2 ай бұрын

Can you explain what you mean by that, like for example if you wanted to buy something he’ll say no without really a reason to??

@deemanga324

2 ай бұрын

Beautiful! Contratulaions on 30 years of marriage and children too. 🎉🎉🎉

This is very true..i lost 8years of my life..and she still decides to leave. Never again.

@minnigmanmad

4 ай бұрын

I feel for you brother. Keep your head high 💪

@1SGCarter

3 ай бұрын

Same. I may get a dog lol

@elio3985

3 ай бұрын

yea stoney_g0420, so sad

this is very well put. to actually disappoint women in a most productive way. so, not for the sake of disappointment, but for the sake of life's purpose.

@kiljupullo

4 ай бұрын

Just being true to oneself. Not being selfish or a-hole, but being just to oneself and caring for oneself. That is not saying that one should not care or be just to others.

@urkittenmee

4 ай бұрын

beautifully put. it makes so much sense.

@22rapper

3 ай бұрын

Wrong advice in bible says your spouse is top priority of everything second to only god even your work what people say sound good but god is only person to liaten too info thats been here lon ger than man

@Jdabomb93

3 ай бұрын

@@22rapper Well, let’s not let the REPUTATION of a book written by MAN, (though good points here and there) completely overshadow any new cognitive thought without question. (Be faithful but don’t be completely blind) We should always take ALL information into consideration before making a wise decision.

Ive been married to my husband for 12 years. He definitely has made me and our kids the center of his life. Hes been successful in his career but he has turned down a few of offers for the happiness of our family even though he could have made a lot of money. (Mostly travel) Ive always let him decide whats best. But i am incredibly happy everytime he has chosen us over making his career the center of his life.

@GerardoDelValle.

4 ай бұрын

It's because you are a sane woman , and remember when bullshit wants to enter your mind and asks you to destroy, keep those feelings and emotions just in your mind, I am happy for your marriage.

@kurtpunchesthings2411

3 ай бұрын

​@@GerardoDelValle. 100% we need more women like her in America alot more

@Jdabomb93

3 ай бұрын

Has to be a balance between work and happiness. Too much of either one while neglecting the other, may result in detrimental results. “Work hard, play hard.”

@mizer2597

3 ай бұрын

You’ve been raised well. Sadly theres statistically still a good chance you willstill leave him broken😂😂 thats y i refuse to do it. I am not a gambler, ive met too many depressed, suicidal men who sacrificed decades of their life for a women who ultimately got bored and destroyed them. Despite the fact they put her first in life, took care of them, ignored money ect. So its not good advice to give men.

@tradfluteman

3 ай бұрын

I get what you're saying, but this is still surprisingly excellent advice for the Whatever podcast, IMO. It ultimately means different things to different people. I interpret it as simply having a spine and learning to say no, even to someone you don't want to disappoint because you love them, and want them to love you. Simply never saying no is a cheat code that women will notice you using.

I think a simpler way to put it is that you need to have boundaries and you need to stick to them

@niconine268

2 ай бұрын

Yes. That's the deal right there. Boundaries

He means you should disappoint women by not giving your time and energy so freely, not actually disappoint them. I made the mistake of loving my ex too much, bc one of the reasons she left was “you love me more than I love you.” Focus on your career, your purpose, your family, and your friends, and having a woman will be the byproduct of all of that. They will want to be in your orbit.

Thing is, for many men a woman IS their purpose in life. The reason WHY a lot of men buy the expensive designer clothing, jewelry and cars is to impress women.

@swisscheeseplease97

4 ай бұрын

Make no mistake, everything a man does in life is to impress women in one way or another. But I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that. Just as long as a man has an overarching goal to achieve in life

@lucidairity7927

4 ай бұрын

Its because a mans overarching purpose in life is supposed to be Bigg enough or encapsulate generation and generation not just simple shit like one life if a women and man do that goal together correctly they'll have made life possible for eras

@mythocrat

4 ай бұрын

​@@lucidairity7927yeah and no, men want a legacy and a perpetuate it, even when they do not realize it. And to do that, women are one of the main points of it.

@adeadlyfart13

4 ай бұрын

Yeah that's problematic. A relationship is more effective when it operates as one unit.

@nilswagner1536

4 ай бұрын

lol, why would a man care about legacy? You are dead, you are not there to care about it. Sounds like something superstitious and weak men care about. Like what others think etc.

Just be the best version off yourself. Saves a lot of hustle, fake BS and energy.

@melvincaldwell591

4 ай бұрын

And leaves you with the most options to meet the best woman as a secondary achievement.

@Lonewolf_rider

4 ай бұрын

@melvincaldwell591 I'm done with (modern day) woman.

@gazthejaz8910

2 ай бұрын

@@Lonewolf_rideraww honey is it because you can no longer manipulate modern women anymore?? You see we Women just are no longer shit takers and we don’t owe you men anything without a reason.

It happened to me. I lost my life literally, shot 4 times in the back, and robbed. 3 days before I was, we broke up. Then, on day 4, I died for 6 minutes . I was in a coma for 3 weeks, and when I woke up, she was back. Twenty two surgeries, Lost my right kidney and part of my colon, Then moved in, started to control everything and became the center of my life. And I was in a vulnerable state then she started to try to control everything.. Well, there was a lot of pushback and the moral. The story is, we're not together. I have a giant scar and after 5 years. I'm still working on covering from this relationship. And this circumstance. The next time around. I definitely will be putting my priorities first. Not saying that I won't respect a woman but he's right. Do not sit there and just please. A woman because she'll take control of everything and leave you with nothing.

No one should be the center of ANYONES universe period.

@22rapper

3 ай бұрын

Wrong advice in bible says your spouse is top priority of everything second to only god even your work what people say sound good but god is only person to liaten too info thats been here lon ger than man

@mojojojo11811

3 ай бұрын

Wrong. A husband should be the center of the wifes universe

@stillready6405

3 ай бұрын

​@@22rapperyour answered the question correctly. God is the top priority, not your spouse when you want to take it from that point of view.

@mizer2597

3 ай бұрын

@@22rapper how many need you to share that Bible verse immediately…😂 nowhere in the Bible does see your wife should be first fater God.

@MrBitcoin999

3 ай бұрын

My wife and kids are. I think they're by far way more important than anything else to me.

In other words, don’t be a simp.

@nashbullet3213

3 ай бұрын

Exactly

Im a huge disappointment for women!😂

@brookinghouseof9457

4 ай бұрын

Me too. 🎉🎉🎉🎉

@asahall627

4 ай бұрын

😂

@Jdabomb93

3 ай бұрын

So they must be flocking to you like flies on a cow’s ass then, huh? lol 😆 (The idea isn’t to intentionally disappoint them, it’s to give them what they actually NEED, instead of what they THINK they want)

@Jdabomb93

3 ай бұрын

Then you should have women flocking to you, like flies on a cow’s ass then right?? lol 😆 (The idea isn’t to disappoint them, but to give them what they actually need instead of what they think they want)

@Jdabomb93

3 ай бұрын

Then you should have women flocking to you, like flies on a cow’s a** then right?? lol 😆 (The idea isn’t to disappoint them, but to give them what they actually need instead of what they think they want)

So true, once she's your everything, you lose everything you built, stay focused on you, and find a partner that helps you grow, not hold you back. I've made the same mistake too many times, luckily I've finally found one who supports me

Well I got disappointment down, now I just need to get them to like me. All downhill from here 😂

"If you want to make a woman miserable, give her everything she wants." -Ancient Proverb From Some Pimp

So glad I got married at 21, I don’t know what is happening anymore. What’s with all the games and mental jiu jitsu? Just find someone with your values who you enjoy being with, do your part to make the family and relationship strong and healthy and everything falls into place. It’s really not difficult. People are so selfish and self-centered now. 🙄

@kurtpunchesthings2411

3 ай бұрын

Yea I see way too much bs look guys A woman either loves you or she doesn't stop wasting your time on a woman who doesn't love you

@amandaboado7057

3 ай бұрын

Does this guy find it hard to get women to love him? Teach men how to breadcrumb women and see where it gets them 😂 Life doesn’t work like that. It’s a fine art that this guy hasn’t mastered.

@Sweettreat705

3 ай бұрын

Actually I am the wife…. So….

@Sweettreat705

3 ай бұрын

Bs about what? I married my husband almost 20 years ago and it’s still working because we’re adults who don’t play games. Good luck sweetie

@amandaboado7057

3 ай бұрын

@@Sweettreat705 So you love all the derivative talk about women because it pays your bills, I know, but is it ethical? He talks so much about tactics to manipulate. As for me I really desire authenticity, and inclusive care, you know for all people despite their gender. I don’t like blame games and lack of accountability as individuals. Most of the things these guys talk about is soooo toxic! I can’t see that it nurtures love and respect. It just feeds toxic emotions and narrow mindedness.

Eventually, you will disappoint her. Better to do it early and gauge her reaction. Always hold somethings in reserve.

@kurtpunchesthings2411

3 ай бұрын

Sounds like this video is telling you to deliberately disappoint your girlfriend How do you propose that? I saw someone suggest sometimes if she wants go hang out or go somewhere make up something else to do so you can't go I mean shit if you wanna play games hey go for it

@Jdabomb93

3 ай бұрын

@@kurtpunchesthings2411 Yea, these guys genuinely just want to control and oppress women. (Even to a small degree) Both genders need to work together in unison. Not have a power struggle.

@uchennakingsley1354

3 ай бұрын

​@@Jdabomb93 bro Women started it and the Law backs them up [fully] ., Our hands are in a Way tied. We [Men] can't keep letting things spiral out of control especially from our immediate small existing family Remember the Family is the core Nucleus of society., and an Unstable family structure is a sure way to society's demise. Heck ! I don't even want to go into Men's Mental health in it's entirety , and how that's affecting the affairs of Society at large [i.e. in General] .

Exactly true. It leads you away from your mission which destroys your purpose.

@infotechsailor

4 ай бұрын

The most painful and dangerous times of my life are the times I let a woman make major life decisions for me and my family. If you let a woman run your home you will soon find out

It's like that in all relationships. You have to be real, have to go to work, have to set boundaries, have to take some time apart to do things.. You can't literally or emotionally be there for someone 24/7.. but don't go out and TRY to disappoint people!

I wish I had known this before I was with my ex-wife. She literally became the center of my universe, and I lost sight of my goals and what I was working for. Now I'm divorced and haven't achieved anything and hate who I've become.

@kenpowell3557

4 ай бұрын

Please get your act together and move on

@kenpowell3557

4 ай бұрын

No excuses you failed do not blame your ex wife

@Jdabomb93

3 ай бұрын

@@kenpowell3557 Damn bro, take it easy. He learned his lesson.

Madison’s body language says she is just done with it.

@steved5960

4 ай бұрын

I hope she gets good money

@JohnWiku

4 ай бұрын

Tik tok brain 😂😂

@spaceyjacey_

3 ай бұрын

Literally. Idk how she can sit here and listen to this. She probably feels so small and insignificant

@1594simonsays

3 ай бұрын

She probably tunes out most of what's being said, she always has a blank stare

The main point in anyones life is to live well and teach it down we need to start that

The fact that you’re so focused on learning “how much to disappoint a woman” is already a sign that you are obsessing over her needs and making her the centre of your universe, making this advice kinda counter intuitive. If you’re truly focused on your own goals and ambitions then you’re not spending energy trying to determine the right ‘dosage’ of disappointment to manufacture for your spouse…

@freddiefackelmayer5267

4 ай бұрын

It was obviously a metaphor for setting boundaries with your time and attention, he didn't mean it literally

@cardenasr.2898

4 ай бұрын

Maybe he states it that way because "unlearning to focus excessively on women" would be less effective

@JonathanLukeAvery

4 ай бұрын

@@freddiefackelmayer5267he literally said “learning to disappoint women is important” meaning it’s important for you to take some proactive role in disappointing them intentionally lmao I don’t think you understand what a metaphor is brother

@freddiefackelmayer5267

4 ай бұрын

@@JonathanLukeAvery dude respectfully, I think you're the one who doesn't know what a metaphor is. It's defined as "a figure of speech in which a word or phrase is applied to aj object or action to which it is not LITERALLY applicable"

@JonathanLukeAvery

4 ай бұрын

@@freddiefackelmayer5267 and in this case it is clearly literally applicable. Thank you for proving my point

Something tells me no guy on this podcast needs help in disappointing women.

like Ray Barone said to Debra: "I'm keeping it real,I'm keeping it fresh❗️"

@jerryjeromehawkins1712

4 ай бұрын

We all deserve a Debra in our lives. 👍🏾

@DavidZ4-gg3dm

4 ай бұрын

@@jerryjeromehawkins1712 Complaining & being disappointed with us?

@jerryjeromehawkins1712

4 ай бұрын

@DavidZ4-gg3dm Hey David... hmmm, good point. She did have her moments I guess, lol.

The easiest way to disappoint a woman is to assume she has no purpose of her own.

So true, found this out the hard way. Sometimes you just need to learn the hard way cause the next time you get there with someone it's that much better.

I just love helmet chick for some reason. She's off the chart gorgeous

@ThisisSnakey

3 ай бұрын

You'd love her past too.

@Jdabomb93

3 ай бұрын

@@ThisisSnakey Only 8 body count I think. I think some men could be okay with that.

@ThisisSnakey

3 ай бұрын

@@Jdabomb938 before turning 18. If any man thinks thats okay needs to get his brain scanned.

In love with maddy

@graham5990

4 ай бұрын

Me too bro...................me too lol

@Nick-jz9yz

4 ай бұрын

Me too bro............... me too lol

@wakes_inc

4 ай бұрын

Me too bro.............. me too lol

@r.p.h.yuttkarsh4155

4 ай бұрын

Me too bro...................me too lol

@paco.g.seignon

4 ай бұрын

She's mine, she's miiiiiiiiine! 😊

Very fair. I mean, I feel like I'm ready to bounce when I lose touch with myself, and we have more arguments. When I'm feeling myself, she copies me and starts to feel herself to, and that's the woman I love

The best thing you can do for a woman is tell her no. You must let her know that she is not the center of your universe.

If he’s a good man, he’s gonna make sure you feel like #1. My guy works, loves it, but I know that if I need him: HE IS THERE. (I am also not frivolous when it comes to his expenditure)

I made this exact mistake. Simping ain't easy young bucks. Once you get her on the hook, let her come to you.

3 guys sitting in a room with zero loved experience as a woman telling each other what they think is a cheat code to woman while sitting next to a child female with a random hat on. Why do these people get exposure?? It’s ridiculous

This podcast should be renamed to "how to stay single forever"

Theres me disappointing women every day

Nope, nope, nope. Teamwork does make the dream work, but if you're with someone that is a leech and not a partner... that's on you and her. Not just the woman.

@LMCorvinus

4 ай бұрын

THIS. relationships are an ongoing process, not an item you acquire. if you're not doing work, daily, to maintain a relationship the same way you maintain yourself or your home, then what you end up with is not worth having. people value the things that they have to work for, period. this goes for everyone, it takes both parties trying to make it work

@carlosurquiza1021

4 ай бұрын

@@LMCorvinusthat sounds like too much work

@Hammerinhank999

4 ай бұрын

Ok white knight, he is is not saying to take everything, he is saying don't be a simp and just give. So it is not nope nope, it is ah yes!

@vulturewaterbug

4 ай бұрын

@@carlosurquiza1021 Then stick to your hand.

@SKAN0

4 ай бұрын

@@vulturewaterbug🔥😂

You need to demand her respect and set clear boundaries for yourself, and expect her to set them too

This doesnt sound like disappointing women, it just sounds like an iverly complicated way of saying "Tell women the truth"... if a man is so stupid as to make a lie they can't keep up to than they are causing their own issues Women being disappointed in you is NOT how you get a wife fellas!!!

@-hachibee-

4 ай бұрын

Do women hate when men express love(not with straight words) a lot of touches playing kissing telling her compliments? They want cold non emotional man?

@fuchsiasecret120

4 ай бұрын

@@-hachibee- Good women want men that can talk with them about anything when he is ready to, a good will also listen to that man and keep note of it as needed and do what she can for him (easy ex, he mentions he is having issues with energy at work she might pack him a lunch instead of making him eat the cafeteria food like he has done since before they got together and told her he doesn't need her to make his lunches) A good woman wants a man who has Just enough control of his emotions that he doesn't break down and cry all the time or on a regular basis, a good woman will understandably make exceptions to this rule (ex, funerals, births, close family has just gotten terrible or amazing news, when she knows he has reached the absolute end of his rope and is just releasing everything in the only way his body knows how to) This is at least what I know of from my experiences, and the advice I've been given from my family (both immediate and extended)... that is where I take A Lot of my relationship advice from... I had great grandparents and great aunts/uncles who were married for 78+ years before either passed... LOL... my one set of great grandparents (married 83 years before he passed away)... granddad couldn't see, grandma couldn't hear, they always joked that if they swapped disabilities than he could take over cooking and cleaning with the added bonus of never being able to hear her nag about his cooking and cleaning LOL... after he passed she said she missed his smile and warm eyes, she loved him beyond compare and sadly we watched her slowly die of a broken heart; she couldn't do anything without remembering his jokes, his touch... emotions were so mixed up at her funeral because we were heartbroken when she died, but we knew they were together again and it was hard to be properly sad thinking about them being together again if that makes sense... their love was so strong and pure, and it resonated through their children, their grandchildren, and now us... not one of us has divorced yet and we pray that we can teach those values properly to our children

@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp

4 ай бұрын

women don't want ANY "truth" that hurts their feelings AT THE MOMENT, like children. Same with children. cannot give kids everything. gotta disappoint them sometime to teach them tolerance. women lack that.

@melvincaldwell591

4 ай бұрын

A lot of women would rather hear an easy lie than a hard truth. The whole does this dress make me look fat scenario is a perfect example of that. He's not saying to lie to the woman or even imply that, he saying have goals, have some mystery about you, and make sure you have some time apart. Too much familiarity breeds boredom and resentment.

@nicolasvenezuelaverde1184

3 ай бұрын

Women are kinda weird like that we trust the science because we lived it

Madison is awesome her blank stare is fantastic 🎉

@MaryCaroline-qt2fz

4 ай бұрын

I don't think she's buying it. I think it's a stupid question in anycase. I don't understand this so called psychologist at all. 😂

@Hammerinhank999

4 ай бұрын

​@@MaryCaroline-qt2fzolder men and this guy e Understand women more than women do. Very few women know why theu react like this since it takes critical thinking whi h these days most women lack. Truth hurts so they and you just reject without thinking deeply about it. It is just women's nature, nothing wrong with it. Men just need to wake up and they will then help themselves amdnthe women that are with amd lead.

@vulturewaterbug

4 ай бұрын

Simping.

@gerryflynn1888

4 ай бұрын

Simp

@LethalOwl

3 ай бұрын

No simping for whores, gentlemen

I would not have understood this 10 years ago. This is so true, it’s mind blowing.

I’ve never heard it articulated in that way, but now my life experiences make sense.

Never take advice from a single man.

It's basically like not spoiling children.

@uchennakingsley1354

3 ай бұрын

both Women and Children ., Are privileged beings We Men are definitely not [in the eyes of the World that is - ] ., So yes both of them have the capacity to get spoiled and Act Spoiled and Live a Spoiled Life without any form of reprimand by society , as we see it as normal. And to Curb the Nonsense., Caution Needs to be taken - and that's where they [the Redpill] say Men come in 👍🏾

@nyahhbinghi

3 ай бұрын

yes

GIVE HER EVERYTHING...and...SHE'LL GIVE YOU A DIVORCE

If a woman hasn’t found her purpose in this life she will always try to seek EVERYTHING through a man. And oftentimes she doesn’t even realize it.

"I dissapoint woman all the time" Are you single? "Yes. What does that have to do with my statement?" Everything man. Everything.

I couldn't agree more. I let my woman take over my life, now I don't care about anything.

This is giving “value yourself over your family” vibes. I put my family above my own ambitions. I think that’s what we should all do

This just happened to me. This is very real. Never lose yourself boys.

This guy is so full of shit. Guys if you want to keep a woman then don't play games with her and disappoint her because if you do she will dump you and get married to a man who doesn't do this to her. That's what l did to my ex and when l dumped him l found Mr Right and married him.

@MaryCaroline-qt2fz

4 ай бұрын

And he talks so seriously. As if he's bestowing great wisdom! 😂😂

It is vital for both men and women to have boundaries.

“My girl is the fourth most important in my life, it goes 1)Myself 2)My Career 3)My Mother 4)Then her” Patrice O’Neal

This is 100%. Good advice, and of course, easy to say and difficult to act that way.

It's effortless for him to disappoint women obviously 😂he does not need to learn😂

The center of a man's universe should be God.

Unpopular opinion; it’s gay if a woman helps a man achieve his goals. A woman’s job is to make a home and raise his children.

@ebunnyrose

4 ай бұрын

No it’s not, as a woman you are supposed to support your partner and help him achieve his goals in a way that you both see fit. (Women don’t have to be homemakers either) plenty of couples need both people to work because the cost of living is so high.

@baddog6003

3 ай бұрын

@@ebunnyrose That's just a problem with modern society and is a legacy of feminism. That has no bearing on the ideal job for women being the homemaker.

@gazthejaz8910

2 ай бұрын

@@baddog6003stop blaming feminism for everything, feminism at its core is good and was needed because women were seen as inferior my men of the past.

No wonder losing my main ex stung so much and specifically felt like I lost a huge part of myself

False: Be disappointing to each other.

What is Brian's purpose? To create a podcast because women do not desire him. What is my purpose... To die hated because you hate the fact, you know I am correct.

That is one absolutely beautiful woman.

Wow. My gf is exactly how he described women. She just wants more, more, and more. My gf is starting to realize that I’m not going to give her everything that she wants, but that’s after me learning how to set boundaries and learning how to deal with her negative emotions. For example, when I want to have time for myself or when I take time out to work on tasks that generates secondary income, she starts to get an attitude. I no longer allow it to deter me from what I need to do. Our therapist even recommended me to do that as well.

I've been getting in practice by disappointing my mom. When the time comes, my queen is gonna get disappointed so hard!

He has a roundabout way of saying something that has been known to man since dawn of time. God comes first.

Probably the best advice I'd give, women will take, take, take and it's better to live as you need. If she runs off with another guy, she would have done that anyways. Better she ran off after you made something of yourself than when you gave everything to her that you have nothing to show for it.

This dude learned well. Took me some time to get a grip on that , but once i did it changed everything for the better.

I have done that and it got me nowhere in life. No more!

Goes both ways. If you aim to disappoint, you will get the same treatment eventually. Even if the woman initially liked you, cherished you, cared for you, it will go away, if she is treated poorly

After the question she immediately folds her arms in the defensive position😂😂😂

Oh my god... I told an ex about 15 yrs ago... "you want everything I have and am part of. But you actively exclude me from 'you' "..... God damn. It was my worst relationship. Oh Kristen, how I wish you could see this

Props to the girl sat there ..she has a brain ...there is hope after all

I don't think an emotionally mature woman is like that. Problem is there are not many out there. By the time they get that way they usually want to be by themselves. Which is too bad.

@justtekina6709

4 ай бұрын

women mature in odd ways, like them not liking virgin men because virgin men dont know what they are doing is, a ick for me, im joking a bit, but its tellling to female nature. a woman doesnt really center a man, in her life, but center herself, and men are extra or a want not a need, andi guess asshole get "play" because they use him for sex only, and use nice guy last, for security. which are to selfish needs, for her, ---women should talk about unity more.

As someone who experienced this myself. Making your woman the center of your attention will end in heartache for you as the guy.

Dudes right. Showed this to my gf and asked her thoughts. She agreed with him.

Its called expectation management and its the single greatest business skill I picked up when I was working for myself. I can do the same work for two customers but the customer with lower expectations will be happier with my work because I didnt promise them too much.

Nobody likes disappointments. The correct advice here is don’t lose yourself in a relationship. Have goals, be focused and manage your time effectively. It’s a big turn on for women to see that you are busy and you still make time for her. It shows you really like her and you’re organizing yourself to make her a priority (but you can still accomplish your tasks and goals).

Im not sure “disappointment” is the right word or the exact goal here, but basically don’t be whipped

Been there, Done that. Absolutely regret it, but have learnt the lesson that may help me in future

This man has no boundaries

It’s so important to talk about women as if they are all the same and have no individual qualities, passions, unique purposes, desires, or identities. Equally as important is to make clear that they are NPCs in a man’s life and live only to serve men, the true gods of the earth, so that men can fulfill their main quest.

@gazthejaz8910

2 ай бұрын

What’s NPC stand for?

He’s right. The older I get the more I realize I’ve lost myself as a result of struggling to make everyone else happy, mainly my wife and kids.

If this were true, I'd have numerous women in my life.

As someone that is a lil romantic and have had this exact thing happen. Unfortunately you cant show you care to much.

Yes coming from a relationship where my man tells me no and sticks to it makes me mad but in the long run it makes me have so much respect for him

That poor child is still sitting there eyeballing 😂

Well at least I check that box.

You gotta just find that middle ground

That fellow was on track. Have given up much of my interests for a woman once. She used all the tricks...tears, s*x, etc. Never again. Never make women central. It is too high a price. And the other parts of your life are usually more reliable and fulfilling long term.

Give a woman what she wants and watch her stopping to want you

Dropping some heavy deep truth with that one.