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@zozoperry4220

3 жыл бұрын

Wow as we speak im going through this and married i havent enter the house for three weeks i do see the kids but she still holds a grude n anger.

@zozoperry4220

3 жыл бұрын

Hey at the end of the day,,,,,ARE U DOWN...REMEMBER ME....

@_Hunar_

3 жыл бұрын

I'm in a long distance relationship. We've known each other for 12 years. I'm scared some guy might hit on her because she is so vulnerable and feels alone as I cannot cime meet her. I'm scared to loose her. I am highly talking in terms of emotionally as she feels like there is no hope of us meeting any time soon.

@NewEnglandGaming413

3 жыл бұрын

I'm in this situation, i knew I loved her before, but I didnt realize just how much till she was gone, we didnt specifically say it's a break but we didnt end on a bad note, she has depression and bi polar, I'm serious when I say our relationship could not have been better, we have never even had a fight or called each other a bad name, last week her dad was arrested and she cares about him alot, I asked to see her and she said she needed time to process things, that's when the calls and text slowed, her mood towards me got more dull, and she didnt wanna make any more plans to hang out, then after a week of that she said she doesn't wanna be in a relationship, she had a really tough time saying it tho, I could tell it hurt her to do, she said she wants Space, over the past 6 days iv tried to but a few times iv failed, trying to start conversations or asking her meme how shes doing, her birthday is in 2 days and yesterday I drove over and dropped off gifts outside and left, I know I invaded her space when I did those things but trying to not talk to someone who you love so much and had such a amazing relationship with hurts, shes left me on read but still opened the few text I did send, did I ruin it, can I fix this, I'm scared she won't come back. Iv decided tomorrow I send a video stating happy birthday and apologizing for me failing to give space, saying I need to do better and I will do better. And that I love her and always have, I always will, if you see this and have advice it would be much appreciated, any questions about the situation that would help just ask

@beyondmindsprison

3 жыл бұрын

What if I am out of the house? How do I get the trust to get back in there together?

You’re saving me from anxiety attacks, I’m in this situation and it’s really hard. Thank you for giving me hope.

@GeoffreySetiawan

4 жыл бұрын

No problem man. Thanks for taking the time to let me know this :)

@Jocoseman

3 жыл бұрын

Same boat, felt like my world was ending when my girlfriend of 4 years asked for space. She doesn't want me to contact her for like 3 weeks (which includes our upcoming anniversary). I even got physically ill for a bit after hearing her ask for this, but watching your videos has really put me at ease and helped me to see things differently.

@BARRYCARRY

3 жыл бұрын

Jocoseman did u get her back bro ?

@anthonyaaron4332

3 жыл бұрын

Any update on your situation???

@trentc4576

3 жыл бұрын

@@Jocoseman how are things working out?

I'm scared if she left me giving her space 😢

@Bashteo

11 күн бұрын

If she does bro just gotta keep moving on, giving space shouldn’t be something you do only for her, do it for yourself, find a new hobby, or something that takes up your life and is more important than her. It’ll always give her something to chase if she wants your full attention but can’t get it

thanks bro, my girl asked for space just a week ago, and i’ve given her that space, and she’s already starting to come back, initiating conversation out of no where, asking to play games together online. it was a rough week but it was eye opening and helped me improve myself and habits

@noahmoreno1301

2 ай бұрын

Mine is doing the same thing I we got into it, I said some mean stuff and we had been arguing all last week and as of Friday she’s wanted space, hasn’t talked to me, blocked me on social media and just keeps saying she wants space. Tbh idk if she’ll come back but I’m just gonna trust that if I give it time and improve myself I’m hoping she’ll come back.

@juanyanez755

2 ай бұрын

I wish mine was diong that

As a woman, I can vouch for these being the right things to do! I know that out of fear it's natural to want to grasp harder when someone wants space, but either way she's gonna get her space even if that means leaving you for good. When you give her space as she needs it (maybe she's just introverted!), she learns that you are respecting her needs, preferences, and wants.

@GeoffreySetiawan

4 жыл бұрын

Yes! Appreciate you watching and commenting!

@jjn411

3 жыл бұрын

How long after she says she needs space should I just reach out her to let her know that I’m thinking about her

@tonykrohn717

3 жыл бұрын

John Neely I’m in the same boat

@imkrispi9616

3 жыл бұрын

John Neely same here

@debbiethompsoncoaching

3 жыл бұрын

@@jjn411 I'm not the expert but my thoughts are: 1. When she's first telling you she wants space, you can ask & listen carefully to why she says she needs it (is it about you at all or is it something she's personally going through that has nothing to do with you). 2. Ask, listen to and talk about the type of contact she is ok with. Does she literally want none or just a decrease or different type? 3. If she's asking for no contact at all for awhile, you can let her know that you respect this & her boundaries completely because you care about her, and you'd like to know now if she would like to be the one to reach back out when she's ready or if she'd be ok if you check in with her in a few weeks? Or some other amount of time?

100000% agree. Dont pretend like it doesnt exist or keep it light and airy. That would turn a woman off. Dont ignore. Face. Work through the uncomfortableness. Talk about it. Fight for her.

Man your videos helped me realize that I was the issue the whole time me and my wife been separated for 3 months and I’m blessed to still have her in my life because we share 2 beautiful kids so we still work as a team at first I was coming at the situation with anger,frustration,desperation,and confusion but watching and learning from your videos made me realize that I’m destroying a good thing and now we are reconnecting stronger than ever and we are not rushing to bring our all back to the relationship because remaining best friends plants seeds that will eventually blossom

there must be so many people in this situation. thank you for sharing this with other people!

@borissanam9940

2 жыл бұрын

Hope this turns things around for me I really love my girlfriend with everything in me

I was super anxious/depressed the first few weeks. But I got my bearings and I’m good, nothing to worry about. Stay strong boys and girls

@GeoffreySetiawan

2 жыл бұрын

Love it Dyln. Check out this video too if you have not already. kzread.info/dash/bejne/fn9kyaxwn6nJmag.html

As a woman, I like this guy. He gives really solid advice. Every video I have watched of his I thought to myself “yup, that would work on me.” I like that he actually encourages men to actually fix the problem rather than manipulating.

@GeoffreySetiawan

2 жыл бұрын

Hi Keen Escapes, What I teach is something that we all want and desire on a very basic human level. So this content applies to all people. Thank you for your support.

this is gold. I battle with this. I fear rejection and overthink changes in her behaviour

I’ve watched a few videos from you and I’m starting to understand not only my weakness and what to improve, but also how to improve. These videos helped a lot so thank you.

Great advice, I read self building books over a week and told her I’ve enjoyed our time together and all the best for the future. She said that I sounded like was over her already. Indifference for me has switched everything up.

Thank you so much! We’ve done this before I watched this video. I cannot emphasize enough how much I appreciate your reinforcement of my choices. The healing process is going to be much better and greater now thanks to you!

Great video! The house analogy is terrific. Patience is key. you bring so much value to your viewers.

Yes! So good. It's definitely important to have space. No one wants to be suffocated. Plus, I think it makes people more interesting!

I really appreciate these videos, I really hope that she comes back because there’s never gonna be anyone like her, I’d do anything to get her back

Artfully giving her space was my insight. You gave me the right words to write her. Thank you for you videos.

I'm always skeptical about these types of videos but I'm thoroughly and pleasantly surprised by how mature and down to earth all of this advice is. It feels natural and reasonable to do this, thank you for your work and free advice!

The best video on KZread that describes what to do when your partner asks for space. It is her choice and only her choice. Respect her by giving her the space she wants and needs.

Creating space is so important for a relationship to thrive!

you are my hero. you calm my emotion down. Before watching your videos, I was pissed. "How could this happen to me! I gave her everything". now I understand. Any woman would be lucky to have you haha

Thank you so much, I've been pushing her away lately and she said she needs time but it just feels horrible that it's getting worse so thank you so much

I’m trying to give her space, it’s just so hard. Love this woman so much, I did hurt her in the past, but it was never intentional and we weren’t seriously together then, but I know she’s the one.

I wish I saw this video sooner. 😔First off, I was the one that broke up with her in the heat of the moment (I'm working on myself). I tried to get her back and she said she needed space. I was calm and good for a few days, but then started the typical begging and pleading. Gave her space again after that for like a week in the meantime started seeing a therapist and reading books. I was so excited about what I was learning and uncovering that I hit her up again, with many texts about how I feel we could approach our problems mixed with saying how much I loved her and would do anything for her. She appreciated that Im working on myself, but still wanted space. Her last message in response included "I hope you continue to find insight and happiness. I need to respectfully ask you to limit these texts." I took that as she was saying it's over over and responded with a very loving farewell message. I'm not sure I made a mistake in doing that, but I know I need to give her space for a long while regardless. Her birthday is also this weekend and I had already ordered her 2 arrangements of flowers to be delivered to her mom's where she's staying! Geoffrey, please help!

Thankyou so much for taking the time to put out these video's, they are truly life giving when you are in a world of hurt.

@GeoffreySetiawan

3 жыл бұрын

Awesome buddy! Glad to be of help!

This video changed a lot for me. I'm currently in a seperation and have massive anxiety. This video gave me hope and allowed me to calm myself and be patient. So far it's working. Thank you so much!

@GeoffreySetiawan

2 жыл бұрын

Love it Michael! What did you find to be most eye-opening about this topic?

@TheChrisHobsonProject

Жыл бұрын

Did it work? I'm going through this right now man..

@thestartupguy3975

7 ай бұрын

​@@TheChrisHobsonProjectme too bro. any luck? i just feel so alone

@TheChrisHobsonProject

7 ай бұрын

@@thestartupguy3975 unfortunately not mate, turns out she was a bit of a narcissist and not the person I thought she was, true colors and all that. Hope you do well though and hope your outcome is different to mine

This is gold!!! This is helping me alot through this hard time. In my circumstances, the roles are reversed. My husband needs space, and all your advice to men is literally the same things I need to hear.

@GeoffreySetiawan

3 жыл бұрын

Awesome! Yes -- this applies to both men and women!

We’ve been together for almost 3 years and she said she wanted space. She said she had mentally already told herself she wanted space in the relationship but just couldn’t vocalize it to me. I started to see her detaching and sharing less with me. We have a small 6 month year old daughter and that was one of the biggest things I feared. Losing her and the relationship with my daughter but I realized we both needed space before we completely lost for each other. I’ve already seen what I need to work on on myself. I fear her moving on for good and getting with someone else but that’s just life indeed. We win some, you lose some.

@lorrainystef8661

3 жыл бұрын

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@magaleans

Жыл бұрын

Hey friend, how are u? How is that situation going?

@ubee959

Жыл бұрын

she cheating.

@robbieakroman2448

Жыл бұрын

"Biggest things I feared". Dude, no one accompanied by insecure, condependent, and low-esteem individual. You abuse her. You are not afraid of losing her. You afraid you're not good enough for her. Thus, you act clingy, needy and condependent. You even fear of her moving on beside all of this. Therapy can help

I liked your analogy. You made it simple to understand.

So true! These tips on how to give us space in a relationship are great!

I sent a text similar to what you said, put some different words into it & it took forever for it to deliver. My heart dropped because I thought she had blocked my number. I'm not going to to say anything else but that message, I'm still giving her her space. It's getting so much easier to to do so, thank you so much!

@GeoffreySetiawan

2 жыл бұрын

Great, keep watching and keep learning. Make sure you are applying what you have learned and would like to invite you to come join me in my free 90 min master class to learn even more. relationshipsmastered.com/masterclass

This is such a tough spot to be in. Thanks so much for this video!

This is great stuff man, and such a sensitive topic!

Ohhh I loved the house analogy!!

i have seen a few other videos of yours. this one here, REALLY was significant for me. thank you

This is very helpful. There is a lot of information about space that I can use. I love the idea of opening the door. That is a huge thing for me.

Really helped my state of mind. My girlfriend of 2 years had some really bad things happen in 2022 (death of a friend and pet, laid off of a job). I wanted to be there for her but she needed space to figure herself out again, she felt that she could not be a girlfriend. I left a door open to her and agreed to work on my own life for a bit. It has been hard without her but this gives me hope that she can find her way back to a good state of mind and that I did what I could to be supportive and respectful. Thank you Geoffrey!

@joeysauce

Жыл бұрын

Awesome. How's it going so far?

I'm in this situation too. Thank you for putting this so clearly and understandably.

I have absolutely no idea if what you're saying in your videos will help my current situation, but I have to say: I cannot remember a time in my life where I've had my way of looking at things changed so massively, and in such a short time. I'm sure there are plenty of others who have said what you've said. But the way you articulate things just resonates with me. I will definitely be better equipped for the future. Thank you so much!

@GeoffreySetiawan

4 жыл бұрын

Haha awesome! Let me know how I can be help further!

Thanks for sharing! Don't invite me back to a house that isn't decorated, great analogy.

@GeoffreySetiawan

4 жыл бұрын

#SayNoToUglyHouses :D

This video is a need! I know people who tend get worried about giving space. Good job in explaining how to handle the situation. Thanks!

Great advice, very helpful for me right now! Thanks

As a woman I can say that this advice is very good! Great video

Thanks for this Geoffrey

For me, the fear is definitely that if she slipped away, all our years together would become wasted time and bad memories.

@GeoffreySetiawan

4 жыл бұрын

That's the fear A LOT of people have!

@Eric-ps5un

3 жыл бұрын

If you stay for the wrong reasons, it will be more wasted time and bad memories.

For me giving my wife the space she's asking for the fear I have is her finding out that she can live life without me. That she can do everything that needs to be done without the burden of me. For 3 years I begged my wife what was wrong I beg her to tell me what was wrong all she said was I don't know she was pushing me away and so finally I stepped away and then she told me she wanted a divorce we avoided the divorce but I'm terrified of the space she's asking for

So much awesome information! Thank you for sharing.

The best thing I've learned is for the couple to (pre)agree when one person needs a "timeout" is to agree on the space and time alone. Looking forward to your masterclass. Congratulations!

@GeoffreySetiawan

4 жыл бұрын

Good to see you here Danielle! So honored to host you for my masterclass!

This really helped me… I’ve been so paranoid and on the verge of having an anxiety attack due to the space and the ultimate fear of losing her. I now know how to go about it when she does reach out me

@GeoffreySetiawan

2 жыл бұрын

Hey Tyler Funk, If you liked that one, then you will really enjoy this one. Let me know what you think. kzread.info/dash/bejne/fn9kyaxwn6nJmag.html

Def gonna share this with my hubs! Thanks for the tips! ❤

My wife decided that she was moving out, and suggested divorce, I’ve been praying that me giving her space, and the time to heal, and working on myself will be enough for her to see I’m capable of being the man she wants. I wish I could’ve found you before I made some of the mistakes you talk about in other videos. I pray I can find a way to save my marriage…

@tb87670

11 ай бұрын

How is it going?

Definitely needed to see this!

This is the single best advice I have heard on this topic. Great analogy!

@GeoffreySetiawan

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Amlan! Glad it resonated. What's your main takeaway here?

@Xbox12469

3 жыл бұрын

@@GeoffreySetiawan to make house beautiful before calling inside. Anything other than that is taking away freedom. No one likes it.

This hits the spot and i feel i have matured just from your content. Thank you

@GeoffreySetiawan

2 жыл бұрын

Love it Rixx!

I messaged someone after 2 days of space just to check in, she was happy with us staying in touch. It was amazing and we chatted quite a bit yesterday but I had to acknowledge that this wasn't exactly giving her space, she said it was just as much her fault as we get on so well. We agreed to not talk again for a few days, it is hard but I get giving her space as things felt nice yesterday and she said she'd missed me but that isn't what she needs at this time. I left it with her today saying I'm here for her if she needs me and the door is always open. Thank you for this video as it helped me get across in words what I would have struggled to do before and the analogy helped my brain see it in a clearer way.

@GeoffreySetiawan

2 жыл бұрын

Great! I love seeing how my videos can be so helpful to others. Be sure to watch this Fridays video to understand what it will take in order for you to restore hope in your partner once again.

Thank you so much for the advice, really praying hard that it works🤞🏻

@GeoffreySetiawan

2 жыл бұрын

Love it! Thank you for your comment and support.

Thank you for watching folks! What did you find most helpful or insightful in this video? Leave a comment below!

@YKSOFG

4 жыл бұрын

The most helpful information I found was getting to understand what needs that I had to work on. On top of working on my own self confidence. Also like your thought ,trust in her that she will notice the change you have made.

@GeoffreySetiawan

4 жыл бұрын

@@YKSOFG Right on Jason!

Thank you Geoffrey for offering an honest and correct approach ! Unfortunately most of the other advisors they go for the Ego game of one month no hear no see….it may work but only for short and the wrong reasons.

Great video! This one and others have really eased my anxiety. It’s been the hardest few days for me since she said she wanted a “no contact” exclusive break. Meaning we are still dating, but we just aren’t communicating. I’ve felt physically ill and have puked these last days, but i’m definitely trying to better myself for myself but also for her. I hope this doesn’t last forever. Much love!

@MrFujin

Жыл бұрын

How is it going bro?

@sockheadd

Жыл бұрын

@@MrFujin oh she broke up with me

I've been watching and re-watching all your videos, its definitely been a long 6 weeks since my wife asked me for a divorce and kicked me out the house. But in the last 4 weeks she went from zero contact to sending me small messages (mainly about our son) and wanting to be friendly. She currently says we will never have a "marriage relationship" but also saying we could build a friendship. This has definitely been hard for me, but has allowed me to see all the things I've done almost to a T and learn how they hurt us and learn what i need to do to better myself. Thank you soooo much for making these videos.

@_multiverse_

Жыл бұрын

Hearing that is heartbreaking, but its best for your son to rebuild somewhat of a relationship for the good of your son. I grew up with a mother and father who hated eachother and it scarred me emotionally, this being the main reason I lost my partner of 6 years.

@ryanmedows6072

9 ай бұрын

Update

This is great advice. Good communication is definitely key to a successful relationship.

Thanks for the tips! I’m trying to get my marriage back. My issue is that our past keeps coming up and messing up our good times. She does not seem to want to work and move forward or let it go. I can’t change the past or erase it, sure wish I could! Now I’m giving her the space she asked for.

@GeoffreySetiawan

3 жыл бұрын

You got this!

Needed this. This all happen this morning.

Going through this right now, and want to thank you Geoffrey Setiawan. I do have so much to work on for myself and she, I don't want to make her feel the way living with me has made her feel anymore. I will use this time to focus on myself and no matter what, I will be a better person on the other end.

@deathscythe213

3 жыл бұрын

your not alone man im also going thru this right now

@magaleans

Жыл бұрын

Hey bro, how is it going?

Thank you so much, i needed to hear this

ABSOLUTELY brilliant!

Thank you for your content. It gives me hope in finding the love in my 4 year relationship again.

great video geoffrey. wise words.

Being without the person i put time and effort into, I have to become a better listener and be more understanding not just solution, your videos really help me out a lot

Thank you for this brother.. you deserve my subscription.

watched a lot of coaches on youtube. Your advice makes more sense and like how you break things down

@GeoffreySetiawan

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Michael! What has been the more valuable takeaway so far?

Yea man I’m in the exact situation with my wife of 15 years…it’s tough but this info right here may very well be my saving grace…thank you sir!

@GeoffreySetiawan

2 жыл бұрын

It has for so many of my clients. Go check them out for yourself. Thank you for your support of what I do. kzread.info/head/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU

Even though, she won't come back. I am happy to hear this from you

the fear is as you mentioned they don’t come back or that they come back and don’t give you the chance to express and show your changes

@GeoffreySetiawan

3 жыл бұрын

This fear will kill you and suggests you're not in the right frame of mind to actually reconcile in the first place.

Thank universe showing you buddy❤

Thanks Geoffrey im gaining the knowledge more and more bout space, relationship and getting her back appericate your advice

@GeoffreySetiawan

3 жыл бұрын

Of course! It's what I do! Thanks for taking the time to leave your kind words and commenting!

Thank you for this insight!

@GeoffreySetiawan

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this comment!

I sent a message, and she have it a heart. That cheered my mood up. Now I just need to change, and better myself for her. I just hope she doesn't move on

@GeoffreySetiawan

2 жыл бұрын

Just make sure you are bettering yourself in the right ways, the massive ways, and make sure they are permanent or you will be back in the same situation.

My biggest fear of giving her space is that she will leave for some one else, but as you said the trick is understanding giving her space is my best chance as i cant control the outcome We have kids and she just moved out of our bedroom to get more space im doing my best to understand and respect this Thanks so much for your videos friend

Ty. This is so helpful

Thank you. Im so scared. This was helpful. I see things clearly now

@GeoffreySetiawan

3 жыл бұрын

Hi Rod, You are welcome!... Am happy that this video was helpful.

Im very thankful for your videos. I can really analyze my behavior and our problems now. I see problems and why things happened

I’m going through this right now it’s hard but I believe in change and better

Been watching your videos as I go thru a hard situation of her wanting a separation and space and I wanna thank you for such good advices and your videos have give me confidence and knowledge on how to handle this current situation with my dearly beautiful wife... There's many things I'm discovering about myself with your videos and I'm so impressed on how I ignored many bad traits of me that it was actually hurting her and pushing her away. I'm doing my best to follow your advices even tho I'm torn into pieces knowing I'm close to lose the love of my life. We've been married 15 years and have two beautiful kids.. We currently live in the same house and sleep in the same bed because financially we can't afford to live on our own so I'm giving my all to give her space while living under the same roof. If you could respond to me or maybe make a video explaining what to do when we can't afford to live separate but yet finding a way to give her space I will really appreciate it from the bottom of my heart. I'm currently working on myself little by little while trying my best to give her the space she needs... Thank you so much!! You been really helpful

@blackwallnthesestreets7054

2 жыл бұрын

How did things work out?

@Luridmoirai

2 жыл бұрын

I would also like to know

This really helped, my gf and i went through something last night and she said she needed space. I know what i did wrong now and this helped my anxiety a lot and dealing with the fact that these next few days are unclear but its ok

you stop me from overthinking

After 15yrs together, my wife told me she misses and wants her freedom. That she no longer wants to compromise on her wants and desires, that she misses being able to make decisions without having to discuss it with anyone else. When we first got married, she also had a tough time with her "freedom" and she felt initial resentment about having to involve someone else in her life choices. Now, after a particularly trying day, she took a look at me during the drive home and asked herself, "Why am I doing this?" .. and my life has been in a downward spiral since.

I love this video it really enlightens a more mature approach to fixing the issues within. One thing I wonder is what if she fails to reach out for an extended period of time?

These videos are needed even when you are in a healthy relationship. My gf just broke up after a 9 year relationship, and if I found these vids when I was in a relationship I would not be single now. But I will try to get het back by giving her space

@GeoffreySetiawan

Жыл бұрын

Exactly Randy, these skills I teach are the ones that are need to create and maintain a thriving relationship.

Thanks for creating these video. Some really good information. Alot of your point is exactly what I'm going through right now. It is so painful but ever day is getting better. "Baby steps"

@GeoffreySetiawan

4 жыл бұрын

Right! Let me know if I can be of any help!

The thing that scares me the most is when she eventually gets back to me she says she's thought about it and ending the relationship is her final decision. But hey, can't force anyone.

@GeoffreySetiawan

4 жыл бұрын

No decision is ever final. Even a "final" decision isn't final. I've seen a lot of couples reconcile after years of divorce. The reality is that when you become the person who she just cannot say "no" to, they cannot help but say yes. Of course, this is different if they quickly re-marry or get with someone else -- but if your changes are really that valuable, then you should have any difficulties creating a wonderful relationship with someone else. Either way, you have nothing to be afraid of if you genuinely better yourself.

@giochavez7212

4 жыл бұрын

@@GeoffreySetiawan I'm definitely bettering myself. I always told this girl no matter what happens I will always prosper no matter what. I have a prosperous business and I'm the leader. If I lead my team with positive energy and they see as always a man with a vision everyone there will be fine. It's been already five days since she asked for time and I bravely and gently said yes. I still can't understand why the time off when I've been for this girl through heaven and hell in her life. I was in Italy in January and she said she was feeling hungry, and all the way from over there I ordered what she wanted to eat. I always told her that I never mix my money with our relationship, but small details like that I'd do them all the time. I always called her, sent her beautiful messages every day -because I genuinely cared for her. Now I'm here every night heart broken because I cannot find a reason why this time off. It's so sad.

@giochavez7212

4 жыл бұрын

Update: To whoever reads this. Geoffrey, good video. The truth is, time-off, space, a break, it's a "softer" way of breaking up. Once someone says to give them time, it's all over, don't make yourself illusions people. The best thing that probably happened, and not too exciting whatsoever, is that one begins to love themselves a little more and finally opens their eyes to see wrong things the other person did. Not everyone screws things up, I didn't, so after beating myself emotionally came a day that I said enough. I was a very good man, and that will never change. I'll just fly away and prosper alone!

@stealthman6617

3 жыл бұрын

@@giochavez7212 so you are saying she didnt come back? Have you even spoken to her? if you have was she cordial or did she straight ghost you

@giochavez7212

3 жыл бұрын

@@stealthman6617 Straight ghosted me. It've been over 9 months. I texted, called, nothing worked. She just ghosted me.

This is brilliant thank you

Wow this is great , thannk you so much, its so nice to find your super generous work!

@GeoffreySetiawan

Жыл бұрын

Love it! Thank you for your comment and support.

Hey! love the analogy. I want to ask if this just happened in quarantine situation, and I just think she needs a space because she change her reaction towards me. I know this is a difficult situation for everyone. So do you think I can apply this too in this situation?

I really admire your wisdom!

@GeoffreySetiawan

4 жыл бұрын

Wow -- Thank you Shiraz. What was your main takeaway here?

Haha, need to share this with my hubby! I do absolutely agree with all these points as well :-)

@GeoffreySetiawan

4 жыл бұрын

Nice! Glad it was helpful!

I'm currently staying with my parents...I might have to play this on the TV for them :)

My partner of 14.5 years and with 2 kids wanted a break and space. I took her for granted and spend more time in the gym and with friends most of the weekends.I gave her anxiety and panic attacks but never realised. When she moved out 2 years ago we still friends and spent Xmas at her mum and dad, I used to sleep at her once or twice a week for about a year and had the house keys. I no longer sleep there anymore and she took the keys from me. She always asked me for the space but unfortunately due to being immature I never gave her. 3 months ago we went together to her mum for lunch with the kids. She now said again all she wanted is space and she is talking to someone. Your advice gives me hope and the motivation to live and not doing something stupid with my life. All those horrible thoughts coming into mind. I hope that I don't lose her forever. I will give her the space and leave in the hands of the almighty God and work on myself in being a better partner because she means the world to me.

@lorrainystef8661

3 жыл бұрын

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