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Just because a guy is "nice" it doesn't mean he's putting on a fucking act.....sigh I'm so done with this world
@wyleejg
Жыл бұрын
They are strawmaning or gaslighting men at this point. That is why you can’t take them seriously.
@cautarepvp2079
Жыл бұрын
@@wyleejgStill most "jerks" get the women, to nice guys are laughed off
@gabacontri468
Жыл бұрын
Took me a while to understand but maybe this helps y’all. It’s not about being nice or bad, it’s about being confident, if you’re nice because that’s who you are it’s easy to tell and attractive but there are guys who want “their move” to be being nice and that’s a red flag
@somemilk
Жыл бұрын
Dude, don't worry about it, no woman is worth any effort anyway. You'll get much higher returns when you chase your passions and purpose in life. When you seriously think about it, women are really only useful to a man as the mother of his children. Otherwise there is really no point in getting into a relationship with one. And if you really need the sex, prostitutes are MUCH cheaper in the long run.
@thebenevolentsun6575
Жыл бұрын
There is a breed of man who seems to expect sex from women just because he's nice though. You have to remember that when they say "nice guy" they mean a guy who calls himself a "nice guy". They don't mean a regular dude who is a decent human being.
"Nice guys create transactional relationships." And women don't? "Did he pay for dinner, did he take me somewhere nice? Did he get me something nice for Valentine's Day?" The pot's calling the kettle black here.
@Seancarter2010
Жыл бұрын
Actually it’s more like the arsonist burning down house after house and then calling you one too because you own matches. They believe that their own uncontrollable actions is what everyone else wants to do when most people just use matches to light some damn candles.
@terrancesheppard8605
Жыл бұрын
Lol. These women are wired asf! How is being nice a fk-ing act!?
@bijanthegr91
Жыл бұрын
Alright, you get bragging rights. Remember though, be your most excellent self, and make women beg for your affection.
@zavdab5238
Жыл бұрын
All relationships are transactional. If certain minimums are no longer met, the relationship falls apart quickly.
@Tonyconstanza
Жыл бұрын
@@zavdab5238 they shouldn’t be though if I treat someone say a friend or a lady that’s all it is I value them
"Nice guys dont act out love" but bad boys do⁉️⁉️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@olumide31907
10 ай бұрын
You really cant make up what these women are saying
@bplayerr1
10 ай бұрын
@@olumide31907 it's hysterical! They can't be honest for one second, and that's assuming they are using their brain....
@Mctowngjay
10 ай бұрын
These 304s have twisted logic
@-timothe-
10 ай бұрын
It's confused speech. She said that because women who go with nice guys often do it for transaction (she means money) and not out of love. But her thinking this being mutual is insanity.
@Gibson-md9yi
9 ай бұрын
Christian grey was just that a manipulative prick
Don't mistake kindness for weakness. Plenty of guys out there I would consider nice, but by God I wouldn't want to piss them off either lol
@davesmith826
Жыл бұрын
I know the type. I've boxed for over twenty years and the most dangerous men I know are all - down to the last man - the most calm, relaxed and docile people you will meet. One guy I trained one - former national champion, handy on the streets as well believe me - was married to a woman who would throw glass ashtrays at his head in his sleep. He never raised a finger to her but she teed off on him mercilessly. I don't think she ever realised quite how dangerous he was. If she did, she wouldn't so much as raise her voice!
@siddeshnaik2296
Жыл бұрын
The most confident and secure person I know are the nicest person. People with hidden insecurities try to purposely act in a way. Most of this ideas is coming from movies where they show the good guy as kicking villains and getting the girl and happily ever after.
@DaDitka
11 ай бұрын
The most dangerous man in the world is the peaceful, calm man who goes to war. He knows that his life is over once that line has been crossed, and there is no going back to who he was.
@ronnycollins9125
11 ай бұрын
@@davesmith826 She DID realize how dangerous he was… … to OTHER MEN! She was a cunt because she trusted he would never do anything to her. Just like my fucking mother.
@anuragneti7098
8 ай бұрын
Gohan comes to mind.
If I have to change my personality from being kind, loving and compassionate then I’ll just stay single .
@bahaatamer1245
Жыл бұрын
I mixed both up, and it worked wonders for me. Long story short, be authentic, that's as simple as it gets. In other words, if you want something from her, don't beat around the bush. JUST ASK FOR IT (the longer you play the nice guy role, the worse it'll get!).
@simplycomplex7300
Жыл бұрын
Just be kinda relaxed, confident, and quiet. Let your innate compassion show through your actions overtime. Don’t gotta change. I’m sorta in the same boat. I don’t feel like morphing into a dickhead to get into a relationship. I wouldn’t even like the relationship at that point.
@holygrail7372
Жыл бұрын
Cool...
@saintgermain6031
Жыл бұрын
Women function on low spiritual vibration. This is dangerous for you as a man. Just remember all women by nature are beneath you because most men function on higher spiritual vibrations.
@MrKrushgutz
Жыл бұрын
Kind is different from nice
Actually guys, this is a warning. Keep on being a nice guy otherwise you might end up with a female like these two. And no one wants that. 😂😂😂
@juliocesarsalazargarcia6872
Жыл бұрын
Exactly!!
@stevejohnson8749
Жыл бұрын
So well said!! Run from these types of women fellas !
@tajemniczyklient9805
Жыл бұрын
these girls gonna die alone I bet guys everytime I watch these shorts during taking my shit I just see heartbroken women trying to seem strong and independent :)
@malumnexus7919
Жыл бұрын
These represent the majority of Western women. That's why I went overseas for a superior model.
@anony5021
Жыл бұрын
Lollllll
Girl, I wasn’t a nice guy cause I was expecting something in return, I was a nice guy because I cared enough to want nothing in return🙁
@bplayerr1
10 ай бұрын
Their twisted logic....
@Mctowngjay
10 ай бұрын
Being a nice guy ain’t bad it’s women who in their twisted little minds think that being kind or nice women we want something in return when the only fuckin we’re doing is being a good dude by caring about their feelings and emotions but in my soul fuck women their emotions and how they fuckin feel
@variance470
10 ай бұрын
That’s not “nice”, that’s “kind” And keep being like that, a woman who is actually worth you protecting will eventually shows up
@KM-ns3ki
10 ай бұрын
@@variance470That is nice. I have no idea what you're talking about. If you're a good honest guy who wants to be equal partners in a relationship and cares about the woman, treats her with respect. That's being a nice guy, and not because of wanting something in return.
@variance470
10 ай бұрын
@@KM-ns3ki Don't know if you ever meet a actual nice guy or not
Never listen to these, men. You don't need trash in your life.
@hrithikgupta2894
11 ай бұрын
agree
@frederick463
3 ай бұрын
I understand...
Fellas be nice and kind. If she doesn't bring you peace, she ain't worth fighting for.
@piratecat990
Жыл бұрын
Most men, that I've talked to, want peace and respect from their women.
@turanx0
Жыл бұрын
Couldn’t have said it better myself. Well done lads, we need to stay like this and aim for peace and respect. If she doesn’t give that, run quick!
@knightlight5497
Жыл бұрын
I’m going to remember this saying.
@NazriB
Жыл бұрын
Lies again? Stupid rules followed by ridiculous modules
@over9000optimally
Жыл бұрын
Yep. Actually trying to break up with mine right now because of the disproportionate effort.
They are getting genuinely nice guys confused with hardcore simps. Being an alpha does not mean that you have to be a dick
@greglyons2526
Жыл бұрын
No such thing as an alpha male anyway.Term applies to wolves and wolves only cheers!
@tybs33
Жыл бұрын
people seem think the words simp/nice guy are interchangeable despite being not and looking at the comments it seems like they missed the point.
@pavasite4278
Жыл бұрын
What women like is a gentleman and a man that is kind. Nothing weak and unattractive about that, and that’s different from the quote on quote “nice guy” which is considered weak and unattractive
@charlesdavies2283
Жыл бұрын
@@greglyons2526 Also Alpha wolf behavior is only shown in wolves in captivity, in a natural setting they have family units with the father wolf being the pack leader or Alpha.
@WolfRhymesEntertainment
Жыл бұрын
It is instructed by the Lord to be a simp but when we can't take the rejection anymore then we gut the bitch the manwhores as well.Alpha 🐺 men are murderers of jezebels manwhores and their children. Those that date and fornicate in this world are rabbits bottom of the food chain. We only act nice to avoid jail ------Revelation 2:20-23 KJV Notwithstanding I have a few things against thee, because thou sufferest that woman Jezebel, which calleth herself a prophetess, to teach and to seduce my servants to commit fornication, and to eat things sacrificed unto idols. [21] And I gave her space to repent of her fornication; and she repented not. [22] Behold, I will cast her into a bed, and them that commit adultery with her into great tribulation, except they repent of their deeds. [23] And I will kill her children with death; and all the churches shall know that I am he which searcheth the reins and hearts: and I will give unto every one of you according to your works.
I disagree. Every woman who’s ever said to me “you seem like a nice guy” in a negative way, was toxic as hell. While every woman who’s ever said to me “you seem like you have such a kind heart” has turned out to be a great woman with a lot to offer. Toxic women like bad boys, high value women want nice guys. Simple as that.
@dennisrobinson8008
22 күн бұрын
Feminist and man haters say it that one way. Women who love men say it the other way. She'll say your cute which means sext and call u sweet.
No, children, she’s turned off by him because she secretly hates herself and doesn’t believe she’s worthy of being treated well.
@DavidZ4-gg3dm
5 ай бұрын
If they want a guy to relax with, why choose bad boys?!
@hyronharrison8127
4 ай бұрын
@@DavidZ4-gg3dm she wants exciting
@O_Canada
2 ай бұрын
Good. At least she has some semblance of a conscience; her one redeeming quality.
@hyronharrison8127
2 ай бұрын
@@DavidZ4-gg3dm they want someone whos a bad boy who secretly can 'turn it off' for them...they want someone whos fake
@zugmeister314
Ай бұрын
@@DavidZ4-gg3dmThey don’t want to “relax” with the bad boy. That’s for the nice guy after she’s been run through by Chad and Tyrone. 😊
Not every man being nice is putting on an act. These women are so broken.
@webeducation
Жыл бұрын
Glad someone said it. Pure facts.
@richardlongmore9301
Жыл бұрын
I hope they enjoy raising there kids on there own after getting the bank account fleeced while the bad boy they covert so much is out lining up his next bimbo to impregnate
@davesmith826
Жыл бұрын
The funniest part of this video, for me at least, is that I have been both types of men at various points in my life. I had a *wild* 20s and early 30s. Now that I want to settle down, I've become much more responsible and considerate. The end result is as ironic as it is amusing: I've found it harder than ever to find a good woman even though I offer more to partners now than I ever did. I'd love to hear a rational explanation for that!
@richardlongmore9301
Жыл бұрын
@@davesmith826 they want drama and excitement. Not boring old dependable security. As my boss says “ there’s nothing dirtier than a woman “😂
@aimfuldrifter
Жыл бұрын
These women are prideful and consider themselves special snowflakes while they're full of excrement. :) l
If being nice keeps these kind of women away , I’ll be nicer from now on
@davesmith826
Жыл бұрын
Do one better: deliberately be as nice as you possibly can be in the early stages of a relationship. I promise you this: it'll tell you more about the woman you're dealing with than a hundred conversations. Without knowing it, she'll reveal to you what her actual personality is and you can act accordingly once you get a read on her. I did this in my last relationship and it worked a treat. She confused my kindness for weakness and assumed she could run rings around me. I told her I was playing a game on her, not the other way round, and she was out. The look on her face was priceless - PRICELESS!
@smtandearthboundsuck8400
Жыл бұрын
Oh the cope 😂
@cmair77
Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@travis1572
Жыл бұрын
Right on
@paulwilliams5013
Жыл бұрын
..yes, be disarmingly nice, relaxed and ideally absent !!
A woman creating a transactional relationship isn't toxic, uhuh, keep telling yourself that 🤦♂️ What kind of twisted mind assumes a decent guy is an "act" and sees him as transactional? A toxic woman that's who. That's a 304 coping excuse. What a clown. Run, just run far away from these lunatics.
@TO8
7 ай бұрын
These stupid girls will realize in 10-15-20 years how wrong they really were.
Women like to sabotage their happiness... so choose accordingly.
@Percival-kl9yy
4 ай бұрын
*Thank god men are seeing through the gaslighting in these videos!* 👍💯
Correction: nice guys don't end up with women like you. And thank goodness I'm a nice guy.
@bigjob7551
Жыл бұрын
in the words of Phil helmuth "I'm dodging bullets baby".
@enriqueromero8859
Жыл бұрын
👍👍👍👍 yes, thank god. Well said
"Guys only do nice things with expectation of reward" ... Yes; because when I hold the door open for a 70 year old woman, I do expect her to drop to her rickety knees and give me the no-denture-adventure. There's a phrase used by women like this, that so perfectly applies to them... "Oh honey, who hurt you?"
@TheSeanzachary
Жыл бұрын
Hands down , one of the truest and funniest comments I’ve ever read. Well done brother
@Ed19601
Жыл бұрын
Indeed, as if plenty of bad boys don't expect anything. The true reason women don't go for nice guys is because he is already in the bag, now it's on to the bad boy who hasn't given her lots of attention
@j_stein
Жыл бұрын
😂
@Phoenix-tq8lt
Жыл бұрын
Lmao no denture adventure hahahah
@user-ho5vz5tg3r
Жыл бұрын
Good one!
Nice guys don’t get the ungodly women. Nice guys get the nice girls. Sadly 98% of them are not nice
Keep being kind guys.Don’t stop being good for these kind of women.
“They don’t do what they do out of love” That’s basically spinning it around so the woman don’t look bad. Wtf , you think the assholes do what they do out of love?? Most nice guys actually do it out of love. Women’s idea of love is truly fucked up.
@RonHarrisMuscle
Жыл бұрын
All men are trying to get laid, the difference is the nice guy will at least give you something else in return aside from penis
@BurriedTruth
Жыл бұрын
@@RonHarrisMuscle well obviously, women too, its just that women want to get laid on their own terms and have higher standards for it. And tbh alot of men actually want a meaningful emotional connection rather than just get laid, you reach a point where you want to have sex to get rid off the blue balls rather than it being fun or whatever. And nice guys aren’t necessarily looking to just get laid, i certainly passed up bunch of opportunities to get laid because i just genuinely wanted some connection. I knew bunch of nice guys ( usually religious) who genuinely wanted a relationship and love, and pretty damn good looking dudes at it too, they could get all the pussy they want but they choose chastity till marriage. There are plenty of non religious guys like that, but hey , dating is a female dominated scene, and men will make do with what they get.
@rainangel159
Жыл бұрын
Agreed 👍💯
@cautarepvp2079
Жыл бұрын
@@BurriedTruthlmao well, just do what you can.. everyone is in it for sex and procreation,
@BurriedTruth
Жыл бұрын
@@cautarepvp2079 i think people been going too degenerate in the west
"Elvis didn't follow a single rule, and women loved him for it". Sure, not following the rules is fun sometimes, but they're often there for a reason. If you want a man who fits that description, go to a maximum security prison and wait for 1 of the boys that gets their parole, does that sound appealing?
@aarongray1981
7 ай бұрын
And wasn’t Elvis a drug addict? Or am I missing something 🤷🏿♂️
@xavierwedel4691
7 ай бұрын
@@aarongray1981 I honestly wouldn't be surprised. Even at the top you still hit rock bottom.
@hyronharrison8127
2 ай бұрын
Unfortunately YES to some chicks, YES
Is this woman insane? If you’re being a nice guy, you’re depriving her of her desire to relax in your presence? How sick can this narrative get? Are we to understand that the worse you treat her, the better she feels? No wonder we’re in such a huge mess these days.
Don’t mistake kindness for weakness is my motto 👍💪
@supremelordoftheuniverse5449
Жыл бұрын
But they do, it’s biologically wired into their system and there’s nothing you can do about it
@andrew1717xx
Жыл бұрын
@@supremelordoftheuniverse5449I agree, thats why showing kindness to others and not her appeals to her. She likes being jelous.😂
@supremelordoftheuniverse5449
Жыл бұрын
@@andrew1717xx Unfortunately that's how it works and I learned the hard way
@andrew1717xx
Жыл бұрын
@@supremelordoftheuniverse5449 Part of my formula for understanding a women is making friends with those around her and show them kindness. I also make jokes to them, the ones who have issues with jokes have had their grace damaged. If a women is self centered/ high in narcissism, despite all efforts it will come out in the wash. Maybe i am a bit traditional, but sex is off the table until marriage. They have no excuse. If they can't demonstrate passion without sex, that is another demonstration that the women has lost her grace.
@utubefuku7132
Жыл бұрын
Nah, it's not "kindness". "Nice guys" are NOT "nice", they are thirsty simps. It's pathetic and disgusting, grow some f*cking balls boy
I’m a former Marine. Just because I politely open the door for you doesn’t mean I can’t stack bodies if the situation warrants it :)
@jonboy19823
Жыл бұрын
Well said
@72ndnyvi
Жыл бұрын
Agree. I might be a polite guy, but locked behind the doors there is a monster that can come out.
@toddjohnson271
Жыл бұрын
Most women are not bright....they confuse nice, with weak.
@darthconquest1046
Жыл бұрын
Hoorah Devil Dog!
@izicwindsor7987
Жыл бұрын
Oorah. I'd rather be single and stack bodies again.
Once I started loving myself, I only tolerated men that were kind and respectful. I must say, I'm VERY happy.
@hyronharrison8127
2 ай бұрын
Sounds like these chicks can learn a page from your book....many should
These are the type of woman you see in a refuge with two black eyes and a metal cheek plate!
@mrwednesdaynight
7 ай бұрын
They love attention. No one will give you attention because your guy was too nice to you. But a black eye and split lip, now that gets attention. And that's what they crave.
@bobuk161
7 ай бұрын
@@mrwednesdaynight you have a point thete
Men don’t fall for this shit. Be as nice as you want, just have boundaries and don’t be a simp or a pushover. Don’t treat people badly, carve your own path in life, have strong values and get after it. Emotionally immature women go after emotionally immature men. You don’t need that in your life.
@nina-raedelong158
Жыл бұрын
That's it. Be authentically nice. Some are nice solely for the expectation of getting sex, which is prostitution. For instance, if a guy gets angry about a woman telling him no, it tells her that the niceness wasn't authentic but transactional.
@MichaelRei99
Жыл бұрын
This is so true. All of the not nice guys I knew treated women like shit. Like a conquest then moved on to the next one.
@NEOMASSO
Жыл бұрын
@@nina-raedelong158 no one is nice and doesn't expect something in return. Guys are just sick of wasting their time. Girls will lead a guy on and turn around and say they were just teasing.
@giulianopisciottano8302
Жыл бұрын
@@NEOMASSOspeak for yourself I'm nice when i want to because I want to. Not because i need something. I don't need anything once i have food tv and a roof over my head
@bash8387
Жыл бұрын
Yes I agree 100 %
Just face it... There's no right or wrong way to approach women. Be nice, be masculine, be confident... It doesn't matter because they'll get bored and stray anyway
@michaelyemariamlij2633
Жыл бұрын
Bro 😀😀😀😀
@followerofTheLordChrist
Жыл бұрын
fr
@jl6523
Жыл бұрын
Facts
@achilles1191
Жыл бұрын
This is so facts. It’s so sad how blackpilled reality has become
@user-cw5pw3ml9i
Жыл бұрын
You forgot 6ft 6 figures 6 pack 6 inches
i’m dying of laughter, no guys are like this🤣🤣🤣
There is absolutely no more important or more powerful advice a man can fallow about women than this: "When a mans desire for woman turns to indifference, he becomes wise" Be a good man but never allow or tolerate your kindness to be mistaken for weakness and NEVER allow ANY women to think you wont without hesitation walk out of her life for ever treet woman not with kindness or poorly just with complete and utter indifference
Masculinity has nothing to do with being a “bad guy”.
@sadettinarslan5324
Жыл бұрын
She low key implies that an “alpha” man gives no shit about anything apart from his interests. He is not nice to you because he cares nothing about your feelings.
@christbenitez8797
Жыл бұрын
The btch doesn't know the alpha's burden.. They think an alpha is just a masculine and strong kind of man that doesn't give a fück. The thing they don't know about a alpha mentality is 1:Being a good leader 2: neither you're a path finder or problem solver, you shoulder all these trait for the survival of your pack and yourself. 3: being compassionate and likes to listen on both sides so you can determine on how or what the shit is all about. It's not like you don't give a fück or two about it. Being nice and tyrannical is quite necessary thing in order to bring order for both side if no one is willing to listen but make sure you have your reasons with. 4: learn to trust someone, and you felt the sense of betrayal or manipulation, confront them and don't hold back.
@dougvuillemot8670
Жыл бұрын
@@christbenitez8797 . They dont understand the value of men bullying other men either. Lol its our social order.
@eta_carithebrightlord3396
Жыл бұрын
@@dougvuillemot8670 Bullies usually don't do well socially ironically, they're usually middling
@dougvuillemot8670
Жыл бұрын
@@eta_carithebrightlord3396 . Some. Its not nessicary for or always the alpha being the bully. Men use bullying of each other as a way to make each other better. I'm sure it can also be used for bad purpose. Depends on who you have in your circle.
Rule #1 Don’t be a nice guy Rule #2 Don’t be an asshole Well, WTF, then?!
@DivineProphetessCoral
Жыл бұрын
Be authentic, masculine, genuinely kind but genuinely strong, genuinely passionate. Be yourself! And lead!
@xavierwedel4691
Жыл бұрын
@@DivineProphetessCoralEasier said then done.
@xavierwedel4691
Жыл бұрын
Not all men are natural leaders or are naturally masculine anyways, a lot are emasculated from a young age. But it shouldn't matter that much. The problem is that masculine women can get men because they match, feminine women can get men because thats an accepted norm. But men cannot be too effeminate or masculine out of risk of being viewed as "weak" or as "toxic and misogynistic". But if you're in the middle then you're "too average".
@DivineProphetessCoral
Жыл бұрын
@@xavierwedel4691 Let me slim that down for you. Be genuine. Be masculine.
@MikeLarry37
Жыл бұрын
Nah be an asshole, it works. They must know youre comfortable walking away. Also dont take advice from women, ever. Except! Dont be a nice guy, theyre being honest with that one 😂
Its hard. my homie is very popular and always gets girls and he tells me that i am just not trying that i can get anybody with my kindness. Welp has not worked.(im a kinda emotional guy and always when im mean to someone i hope i didnt Cross the line and break my bond with them)
then these "alpha" males who don't follow rules abandons her with a child and she will regret her choice drastically.
And when those bad boys abuse you and smack you around -- we don't care. You made your choice, now live with it.
@cstuartdc
Жыл бұрын
And I don't particularly need a lecture from a woman on any kind of basis, daily, weekly, monthly. I'll continue to be the nice guy that I am. They can sit down, be quiet and accept that.
@twofeathersat6707
Жыл бұрын
Preach
@henryrmarliniii8360
Жыл бұрын
My mom told me, how my aunts. We're in a abusive relationship, some had to the er for broken noses. Go right back to that guy, its like the lights are on. Except no one is home
@pamulakmabono
Жыл бұрын
Women Take Responsibility Challenge IMPOSSIBLE (Gone Wrong!)
@zzmanzzas3038
Жыл бұрын
😂 Thats right
Glad more women like these 2 start posting on the internet. You know whom to avoid 😂
@leebartelt2802
Жыл бұрын
They want us to love them for being bad girls..... 😂😂😂
@moroni8442
Жыл бұрын
Nice hahahhaha
@jaydiamond7330
Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@chriscoughlin9289
Жыл бұрын
@@leebartelt2802 Hang on - let me grab my Thesaurus... Are 'bad girl' and 'vapid twit' synonymous now?
@leebartelt2802
Жыл бұрын
@@chriscoughlin9289 fair enough
Most women mistakes kindness for weakness. We do show our kind side to you but we can show you hell as well when we are pissed.
“Nice guys don’t act out of love.” Yeah, I’m supposed to assume that assholes do??! Make this shit make sense👏👏👏
If she can't handle me at my best, she doesn't deserve me at my worst.
@gabrialgreen659
Жыл бұрын
That statement would actually make sense if it were the other way around... Think about it.
@franklinbluth8542
Жыл бұрын
@@gabrialgreen659 that's the joke... The inverse statement was super common from women on social media a few years ago
@dandude5196
Жыл бұрын
@@gabrialgreen659 Fahhhhgeeeeeeeet
@likeitornot-cg1fy
Жыл бұрын
@@gabrialgreen659 it's the famous marilyn monroe quote that dumb chicks use cuz they think it's cool. Used to be cool in the 60s. In the 2000s not so much.
@jlspracher
Жыл бұрын
I remember those days.
BUT they cannot separate Narcissism from "confidence/masculinity" and therein lies the problem in our society.
@davidhealy4534
Жыл бұрын
They think full of mouth is"Confidence" Then he gets punched out.Where is the confidence then?
@mxusa8383
Жыл бұрын
Literally every woman’s ex is a “narcissist” or “abusive” I just laugh when I hear a woman regurgitate that statement. I actually patiently wait to hear it. I just let her talk and talk and then BAM there it is! Lol every time!
@briansmith48
Жыл бұрын
Those two will think that way until they hit the wall. 🧱 Then they'll be chasing after the nice guys. 😅
@adamsmith4813
Жыл бұрын
And when they realise the bad guys with their sex appeal and charm have nothing else to offer except big talk. They have no security or prospects because the rest of society keeps away from them.
@jdsimons6115
Жыл бұрын
@@briansmith48 Here's the problem; the nice guys they fked over to get with the playboys get "not so nice" after that goes in a while hence why "there are no good guys left" and it's their fault.
Women loved Elvis for his good looks and deep singing voice, not because he got fat and addicted to prescription drugs
I went from being a nice guy and pushover to whatever the complete opposite is. Only now girls my age are used goods with kids growing up without a father. By the time I hit my late 30s I decided I was done with this game. I own my house. I make good money. Spend my free time at the gym, reading, hanging out with my neices and nephews. It gets lonely at tiime but the juice isn't worth the squeeze anymore. Nice guys finish last. But we also get the last laugh.
"I am kind to everyone, but when someone is unkind to me, weak is not what you are going to remember about me.” Al Capone
@giulianopisciottano8302
Жыл бұрын
Well that's funny said by him 🤣. Mbare Capone sapia cum parlà
@Clevelandsteamer324
Жыл бұрын
He loved thikkk women
@NerdlySquared
Жыл бұрын
Most women are naturally incredibly lazy and just want to follow you around like a puppy not having to think or decide things. That is why always deferring to them nicely just pisses them off, because they are then forced to do something or think, something a lazy person can’t stand.
@troubadourzgk5973
Жыл бұрын
Hoes down gs up
@KBlade1
11 ай бұрын
That explains not only AL Capones mindset, but Michael Jacksons, a man who made a song called AL Capone, and also a man who was wifeless when he died, for a reason maybe? 😂
Actually a lot of nice guys do nice things because they love their girlfriends/wives and want them to be happy. Guys are naturally providers meaning they enjoy providing things.
@AZ-gm2md
Жыл бұрын
'Nice guy' in this sense means a man who constantly provides for the woman without expecting anything in return.
@christianriddler5063
Жыл бұрын
@@AZ-gm2md No, that's the opposite of what they said in the video. A "nice guy" is a person who does nice things to get stuff out of people. He is manipulating people around him to control them either using gifts, favors or other things. This creates really toxic situation. Women do it too. But overall it's just toxic when anyone does it. Because it's not genuine kindness, it's done with an ulterior purpose.
@AZ-gm2md
Жыл бұрын
@@christianriddler5063 Either way, the point is that a 'nice guy' is not someone a man should want to be.
@christianriddler5063
Жыл бұрын
@@AZ-gm2md A man should be kind, but not necessarily nice.
@AZ-gm2md
Жыл бұрын
@@christianriddler5063 Yes
It should be obvious to all that these two lovely young women are toxic poison. Stay Away!
Yikes… at this point, what do women even want? And that’s coming from a woman.
Women like this is why I'm single!
@leonardobraynen1524
Жыл бұрын
Stay *THIRSTY* Brian, stay thirsty!!!
@millermc74
Жыл бұрын
Right, good luck ladies.
@cluggyahoo
Жыл бұрын
Yeah. They're disgusting
@gagaga298
Жыл бұрын
@@cluggyahoo they are yuck 🤮
Thanks for the motivation to keep being a nice guy, so I don't ever end up with someone like this 😂
@MartyJackson
Жыл бұрын
Amen
@matthewwilson5019
Жыл бұрын
haha yup same here, those 2 women are just play toys for rich assholes
Those are not women, those are girls, their age doesn't matter. But when a bad guy beats the shit out of you or leaves you pregnant, do not come looking for a nice guy to give you comfort or ask him to take care of that child . Find another bad guy who's going to be even worse..
@hivenlembo2497
Жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@WolfRhymesEntertainment
Жыл бұрын
Lonewolves in the wild are excited to see a female but face so much rejection before attracting a mate or die alone. Yet this society throws simps under the bus. Alpha 🐺 men are murderers of jezebels manwhores and their children. Those that date and fornicate in this world are rabbits bottom of the food chain. We only act nice to avoid jail . Canis lupus (grey wolves) can sense traps underneath the snow so a man as a wolf would avoid jail until the judgement day and all he can do is howl hoping his God will hearken to his cry. You all will start off as nice guys until you learn to hate them after much rejection---Revelation 2:20-23 KJV Notwithstanding I have a few things against thee, because thou sufferest that woman Jezebel, which calleth herself a prophetess, to teach and to seduce my servants to commit fornication, and to eat things sacrificed unto idols. [21] And I gave her space to repent of her fornication; and she repented not. [22] Behold, I will cast her into a bed, and them that commit adultery with her into great tribulation, except they repent of their deeds. [23] And I will kill her children with death; and all the churches shall know that I am he which searcheth the reins and hearts: and I will give unto every one of you according to your works.
@WolfRhymesEntertainment
Жыл бұрын
@JerseyDevilGMan thank you 😎
@dehavillandcanadatwinotter9621
Жыл бұрын
Exactly, women only have short relationships with these “bad boys” they speak of, and then either divorce or the relationship falls apart dramatically. Then if they’ve matured they marry a more mature, higher quality guy who is more respectful
@leonardobraynen1524
Жыл бұрын
@JerseyDevilGMan thats what *KEVIN SAMUELS* been preaching to men all around the world.
This mentality actually says a lot more about modern women than it does about modern men. What she is saying is that the only things of value that a man can provide are things that have nothing to do with his character. Men fall in love with women's character and personality. Women fall in love with what a man can do for her. That's why men have to become comfortable with being replaceable. Men are only valued based on what they can do for others. That's why the saying "it was only your turn" exists. Chris Rock said it best, "Only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally. Men are only loved on the condition that they always provide something."
A 'nice guy' is like the man who carries a concealed gun and warns people not to cross the line, sometimes avoiding conflict entirely, because he knows that if he ever gets pushed to the point he has to reveal his weapon there will not be a warning shot.
Fair enough. As long as you don't complain when you get your heart broken...
@albertosalash.3834
Жыл бұрын
Well said
@willbaskin700
Жыл бұрын
If more “nice guys” had a real backbone there would be a bigger dating pool and they wouldn’t have to get their heart broken lol
@adampritchard1154
Жыл бұрын
@@willbaskin700see you are the problem,
@jonboy19823
Жыл бұрын
@@willbaskin700 who said that a nice guy can't have a backbone?
@adampritchard1154
Жыл бұрын
@@jonboy19823 she probably just wants a good looking man that is a complete asshole lol
I started putting on my Tinder bio they I am an ex-felon and now I get more matches. That tells you all you need to know about women.
@callummurphy4671
Жыл бұрын
Bro actually for real? 🤣
@ahaok6245
Жыл бұрын
😁😁😁
@carpie955
Жыл бұрын
Women are easier than we think
@carloscabrera5311
Жыл бұрын
You will get Psychos....don't do it. Unless it's what you want..
@metsfanal
Жыл бұрын
A coworker told me that her friend suggested to her an "adopt a felon program," a sort of charity where you visit a prisoner like you would an old folks home. The women were using it to find boyfriends. They would rather volunteer to visit violent criminals for relationships where they only see the person once a week for an hour or so, than go on a dating site and risk a date with a normal guy. There are stats out there that show felons have a higher percentage of reproduction than the average population of men.
Nobody is trying to appease you🤦♂️. If he's nice, provides for you and the family and treats you well along with occasional gifts while you sit at home all dah that doesn't mean it's an act💀. So glad I'm single. I do whatever I want
Don’t be a Nice Guy or a Bad Boy. Just be a Good Man. Tough and tender at the same time. Adventurous with a moral backbone. And be a Good Man because you are a good man, not because you think it’s a strategy for getting women.
@pitmatix1457
7 ай бұрын
Until they decide to put the phrase Good Man in quotation marks like they did with Nice Guy.
Don’t mistake my kindness for weakness! Never judge a book by its cover. Words of wisdom
@davidanderson4748
Жыл бұрын
Exactly. It’s takes more strength to be temporate and “nice” than it does to be a selfish bad boy.
@alandrian
Жыл бұрын
Women tell nice guys from good guys from physical statistics. If your physically the right body types it changes her mind about you. If she sees you as being nice and having physical atributes its seen as acceptable.
The flaw in that logic is that you're insinuating that alpha men ARE doing it out of love 😄
@umarcga7823
Жыл бұрын
@@tesseract4056 na buddy first of all alpha in wolves is a mith.. Sec that are very strong animal that are kind.... And plus there arw men who are best at getting ladiea attention and are nice as well... So if you think yoy are tougher then every guy who is nice. You are out of your mind
@Sinistercabbage
Жыл бұрын
@@tesseract4056 is that why women then cry how they were manipulated?
@tesseract4056
Жыл бұрын
@@Sinistercabbage They cry because the man they want, doesn't want them the same way in return. They believe that because Chad clapped her cheeks and rearranged her cervix, he is in love with her. They fall in love with the guy who has a lot of options.😂🤣
@Sinistercabbage
Жыл бұрын
@@tesseract4056 You avoided the core of the question. Who is the fox then? Even masculine men lie to women like that. Its nothing to do about being a wolf OR a fox.
@tesseract4056
Жыл бұрын
@@Sinistercabbage My bad. I was pretty high when I posted that shit. The point is that the nice guy and the not nice guy both want the same thing. But women see straight through that nice guy act.
My boyfriend is both nice and very masculine. Nice guys are the best.
@paulafabikova3785
10 ай бұрын
By nice guys she was talking about those who only want sex and manipulate to get it, like the ones you may see in reddit stories, its just a misunderstanding
@anthonyjordanmoviesandmore2470
7 ай бұрын
Unfortunately most women don't want them My ex who looked for every excuse to not be attracted to me to break up with me who couldn't stay attracted to me even though out of her own mouth I was the only guy to ever respect her Got so desperate to marry this guy who only cared about getting her in bed she paid for both wedding and her engagement ring for him to agree to marry her So yeah while I don't plan on changing being a nice guy anytime soon I have a very cynical attitude about it
There needs to be more nice guys in the world. I never wanted the bad boy. I don’t wanna be stuck in a toxic relationship. If he’s nice to me, I want to be nice back. It’s not about just being nice, but being a good person. Not all women want bad boys 🤢.
@pitmatix1457
7 ай бұрын
There's plenty of guys like that out there. The bad news is that the worst attitudes of women's behaviour has propagated, been reinforced by other women to such a degree that many men have just walked away from the idea of looking for a relationship. We are practically minded on the whole and if the Risk/Reward ratio looks dangerous we'll just "nope" and head in the other direction. On the positive side it does mean if you are a good woman and can pluck up enough courage to make your feelings clear towards guys you have a far, far greater chance of success than a guy doing the same. Good luck!
@skylopez2593
7 ай бұрын
@@pitmatix1457 I’m not looking. Guys? I’m not looking for more than one. Men and women in relationship should treat each other respectfully no matter what. If a person has had a bad experience from the opposite sex shouldn’t treat the next person like crap because of their bad experience. I don’t like bad boys because I don’t know their background and I don’t know their true intention. I don’t wear my heart on my sleeve in front of any guys, ever. I’m only interested in friendships. I know I’m a good person and have morales.
Women want " transactional relationships." They are more than happy with a guy spending all his money on them, for a hug and a kiss.
@bryanwoods3373
Жыл бұрын
Or just for nothing is fine with them. Just spend money on them without any expectationback, and they think you're the nicest guy friend ever.
@LeeEverett1
Жыл бұрын
The whole concept of a man dating a woman is transactional. The woman gives the man sex and children to keep him happy; the man provides, protects, and leads to keep the woman happy.
@hushpuckena126
Жыл бұрын
The hypocrisy when she maundered on about transactional relationships was staggering, given the women I've known who would have their hand out, followed by giving you the bum's rush. Next step: they cry to you over some guy who done 'em wrong. Seen it with male friends through the years also.
A nice guy would love you for who you are, while a bad guy would use you and move in to the next, so it's actually the other way round of what you said
@supremelordoftheuniverse5449
Жыл бұрын
This is just them rationalizing to try and save face. But the basic truth remains: they are attracted by bad boys not nice guys period
@ChrisSimpiamson3
Жыл бұрын
Yeah but the nice guy only does that because he lacks options. Not because he is a better person lmao. The “bad boy” has options and sees women for what they really are rather than assuming that most if not all of them are these pure angels like a nice guy would.
@christopher5585
Жыл бұрын
@@ChrisSimpiamson3 Bad Boy has options??? Hahahahahaha...... No. He's a Bad Boy because very likely he's too uncomfortable in his own skin. Lived long enough to see these shallow, surface only dudes. They're pretty much all gym boys with no talent or intelligence.
@supremelordoftheuniverse5449
Жыл бұрын
@@ChrisSimpiamson3 They lack options because they are nice guys, not the other way around - don't mix simps with nice guys
@millermc74
Жыл бұрын
@@ChrisSimpiamson3 You can have these ladies, good luck.
Who forgetting the nice guys with masculine traits?
treat her like shit out of love. more genuine and authentic. youre right!
Security patch update: nice guys don't put on an 'act', that's just their nature. That doesn't mean you can cross a nice guy and just walk over him! Also nice guys fall for nice girls.
@Clevelandsteamer324
Жыл бұрын
How’s that working for you dude? Stop with the nice martyr act.
@Jambuc829
Жыл бұрын
@@Clevelandsteamer324exactly
The hell are you on? Kindness and humility are among the most attractive qualities men can have. Can’t relax in the presence of a guy who’s nice? That’s a you problem bruv. Do not project that shi
@mementomori5374
Жыл бұрын
You nailed it
@matthewwilson5019
Жыл бұрын
100% correct, I would never give those to dumdass women the time of day
"Nice guys don't do things out of love" - bwhahahaha! Can someone tell them it's the other way round? Bad guys usually have such big egos that they'll never truly care for you. Period...You'll always be less important than his friends, his hobbies and most importantly - himself. Being truly nice and kind require empathy, intelligence and good heart. If you want to date a douche then don't surprised you'll get either dumped, disrespected or (sometimes) beaten up. Stay true to yourselves guys!
They should be saying have confidence but don’t be a douche about it. This is why you don’t take what women say about dating as truths.
"Treat them like a dog and they will follow you like a pup". A proverb.
A gentleman and a simp are two different things. You can be kind and polite but still know what you want and how to get it
@somerandommenace
Жыл бұрын
You can also be a nice alpha. Just have a nice demeanor while also taking charge
@MonarchEAS
Жыл бұрын
I’m unfortunately just kind and polite. I’ve lost all my confidence.
@imperial_Dragnix
Жыл бұрын
Both are worst just follow chad who treat women like clothes Or follow sigma lone wolf who don't want relationships
Imagine being so used to manipulation that you assume every guy who's nice wants something from you.
I'm a woman and I like nice guys
I'll carry on being a nice guy and staying away from these toxic deluded women.
@greglyons2526
Жыл бұрын
Good man and well said. I am 51 in a few weeks and am still getting dates with women in their 20s and 30s. Trick is just be yourself and remember people move in different circles. Put the Rambo types into a room with a bunch of bookish types and people will laugh him out of the room. Gotta find your scene first after that everything else will follow. Best wishes.
@lifeofjsb
Жыл бұрын
The streets can have them
@armin3057
Жыл бұрын
And they are full of shit anyway , at the end they see someone who they find attractive No matter who he is
@grizzlybear2702
Жыл бұрын
It doesn’t matter what kind of personality you embrace just as long as you have a good looking face and are at least 190cm tall then that the only 2 things a woman cares about.
@armin3057
Жыл бұрын
@@grizzlybear2702 if you have the right face for her , she will when love your height (most likely ) Face gives all the halo you need
Someone didn't get the attention they should have gotten at home. Nice guys are putting on an act ??? These women live for drama but complain about the drama, a nice guy won't give you drama
@willbaskin700
Жыл бұрын
Most nice guys don’t have a backbone, have a backbone first, be nice second. If you’re constantly trying to appease you’re not your own man your just a reflection of what you think others want from you. Don’t accuse every girl that read 50 of shades of grey of “not getting enough attention at home”
@viking7142
Жыл бұрын
They are just telling you not to be beta bro
@BurriedTruth
Жыл бұрын
@@willbaskin700 that’s complete bs , i (up until recent) was a hardcore nice guy, and i don’t mean a simp , i don’t mean stepped on, because i was also pretty fierce if someone bs-ed me. Most nice guys i know are actually tough SOBs. But hey i come from a culture where niceness is ingrained in upbringing and men should act honorably, maybe you grew up in an extremely trashy environment.
@PuntedKitten
Жыл бұрын
There's a book called "No More Mr. Nice Guy" (can't remember author) who describes the pathology of "nice guy syndrome". It's worth tackling and comprehending. This conversation of "nice" vs "not nice" is too simple.
@454bard
Жыл бұрын
@@willbaskin700 there is a big difference from being a nice guy and being a "simp" I think we need to distinguish between the two. Just like we should define "bad boy" my interpretation my be far different than yours. This way we can have a clear concise conversation.
"Being the nice guy" Genuinely loves her and treats her well because he loves her and doesn't expect anything in return "Ugh I'm so tired of him. Hes a beta" Don't be the nice guy *proceeds to not be nice* "Honey, why don't you take me out or buy me any gifts? Why dont you love me anymore?" Man😂🤦♂️
some of us are simply nice because we were raised the right way. if you take our niceness the wrong way, maybe you're the problem
I'm in my 60s so I'm invisible to women.Thank God. I couldn't imagine going thru what guys these days go thru with these toxic harpies that call themselves women .I live on a small farm. I ride motorbikes and have a muscle car in my shed. And no women is getting her hands on any of it.Peace brothers.
@jack-vi6rg
Жыл бұрын
Must be nice brother happy for you yes these girls aren’t worth it if their still acting like children
@pr00009
Жыл бұрын
sir i have no choice but to live alone. the last girl i dated said to me " loyalty is a male ego misogyny on women" im paraphrasing. but you get the bullshit
@guitarbandit408
Жыл бұрын
@@pr00009 “Internalized mysogyny”
@brettwilson7680
Жыл бұрын
Enjoy it all in peace.
@leonardobraynen1524
Жыл бұрын
Fantastic life, James! All the best as you approach your twilight years. Stay in peace, James.
Good luck with them cats when you're 40 and no kids
@023achilles
Жыл бұрын
Women these days are literally told that raising kids and caring for a man is 'slavery'. But working for a corporation is 'empowering'.
@ashleyoasis7948
Жыл бұрын
Stupidity always breeds to ruin the gene 🧬 pool
@LiquidDreamz93
Жыл бұрын
@@Goddess_Aidathere are none cuz as long as it doesn't phase you then it literally phases nobody lol like at all, you're dust in the wind
@bryanbecker8399
Жыл бұрын
Most likely three kids with three different guys...
@Goddess_Aida
Жыл бұрын
@@LiquidDreamz93 funny, feels more like a fireworks,not dust.still better outcome than to waste years on some toxic dude who gonna just cheat on me
Be as nice as you can. And if women don’t like that it’s their problem. Approaching women in public in a sophisticated, benevolent and gentle way is regarded as creepy and sexual harassment nowadays. Which isn’t creepy and sexual harassment at all. And nowadays it’s also the norm that women don’t reply when having a match on a dating app. That’s why I left online dating for good. Good thing is that nearly all men leave the dating scene nowadays, stay strong and healthy guys, and enjoy life to the fullest 👍
John Legend has been married for 10 yrs… he’s doing pretty well if you ask me
These are the same girls that will call the cops on a mofo for verbal abuse
@2pathsB4u
Жыл бұрын
💣
Fact: women love handsome, sociopathic narcissists the most
@danielanderton6125
Жыл бұрын
They (being the women who choose abusive guys) hate themselves and do not feel comfortable in a relationship unless someone is sh#tting on them.
@saiyansatan
Жыл бұрын
As long as they have money and are at least 6ft tall
@stevenhenry5267
Жыл бұрын
Until they grow up
@alexfrank5331
Жыл бұрын
extremely incorrect. Psychopathic not sociopathic. Psychopaths are very good at manipulating others to like them. Women love being adored, but all your flowers and sweet-talk will get boring after their ego get overinflated. Instead, it's much more exciting for women to adore the man, and psychopaths being master manipulators are the best at keeping that going.
@JonA-ih5he
Жыл бұрын
Well vacuous air-heads like these 2 perhaps. TBH I'd run a mile from women like this
Men: “We want women to tell the truth.” Woman: *Tells truth* Men: “YOU ARE TOXIC AFFF!!!!”
@Edward_Malez
11 ай бұрын
That is not the truth, it appears to be fantasies and fetishes, most successful and great leaders are polite if you read history, they talk very little but are polite, effective, and formal, that would draw a psychological trap line between you and your subject and they would not dare to cross it, and you need to embrace your both femininity and masculinity, people who use terms like alpha would mostly fuck you and leave you
@Edward_Malez
11 ай бұрын
There is always a balance of act for persons with IQs greater than 60
@YimYum911
10 ай бұрын
Stop the cap 🧢
@adamivey9103
8 ай бұрын
The problem with modern day women's reality is it is not reality. Not everyone in the world has the same personality. So not every guy can be a self-centered asshole and not every guy can be a nice guy. It's called the world. And it takes many different people and personalities to make it run right.
@joelbeauchamp6687
8 ай бұрын
If we hear a bark, we know its a dog. Same thing, if that is their truth, they ARE toxic.
If you're using the "nice guy", then you're also being transactional.
Don’t listen to these creatures. It takes a lot of shit to be nice. Be nice to man, woman or child. That’s what a real human does.
@nicknord7575
Жыл бұрын
@Steve Jobs Agreed, being Human is being Humane.
All in all guys, do not do it for the girls. Wake up with determination and sleep with satisfaction. No girls involved. Just your goals and self development.
@juliocesarsalazargarcia6872
Жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@ARTDEVGRU247
Жыл бұрын
Facts
@paulbartos8547
Жыл бұрын
Definitely something I've learned recently.
Y’all aren’t getting her point 🤦🏿♂️. She is saying when the man (the leader of a relationship) starts putting the needs of his women before his this creates a bad dynamic in the relationship. Beacause the man (the leader of the relationship) can’t effectively lead because he prioritizes pleasing his woman at all cost before performing his roles as a leader.
There is a difference between a nice guy and a good man. A good man is self-assured and strong, and doesn't need validation from others. While nice guys are unreliable and crave validation.
So you go for the bad guys and run to the nice guys when you were treated horribly by the bad guys then say all men are trash but you want someone who has a high possibility of hurting you😂 Confusion now pushed to a whole new level
@chrismckell5353
Жыл бұрын
If you're looking for sense from 'modern ' women? you're looking in the wrong place.
Rule# 1 “Never trust a Dating Coach”- 48 Laws of Dating by Richard Wallace
@metsfanal
Жыл бұрын
Dating roach
Guys , i usually don't comment but i really want to talk about this being a girl who "dated" a nice guy So long story short , i really liked him at the beginning i liked that he was kind and good and all that , but a while after when i started doing more things in my life and needed actual support, he actually was never there for me , because he had such a low self esteem we never were able to have a healthy conversation, i would confront him with something and he always would turn the table or just try to defend himself instead of actually listening He just never listened he always wanted to prove that he didn't do something wrong instead of actually listening and trying to change , also ,yes I'm a girl who prefers someone confident enough to share his opinion and tell me to my face if he thinks I'm doing something wrong Also something i noticed These guys don't love for who you really are, they just love the idea of you Especially if you're kind too Thats just what they care about,they don't see you as a human being with flaws who's capable of making mistakes ,he always judged me for any mistake i did I was at one time suicidal and stayed at the hospital for a week , and his response to all of thay was "this is not an excuse not to text me " you see my point ? Guys it's not about being a kind person It's about not being confident ,affirmative enough , if you're struggling with self esteem work on yourself first it's ok I've been there too ,never started dating before i was mentally ready I honestly at this point of my life don't even want a friend whose sensitive and insecure It's more like babysitting rather than dating and feeling safe with that person ,it's just the truth Just like you guys say out loud you don't want a pick me or a prostitute, we want a confident guy and we have the right to have an opinion when it comes to a sensitive important topic like this one!!
Ladies make sure you keep that same stupid ass energy when the bad boy, cheats on you or puts hands on you because apparently he's more genuine than a nice guy....🤦
Being nice is most masculine thing, being nice means you are self aware and you have selfconfidence, being nice means you have well developed personality and you are mentally strong.
@kaidbsz4927
Жыл бұрын
Yes
@gustavo2113
Жыл бұрын
Stupid female see that as weakness
@sasapocuc6616
Жыл бұрын
@@gustavo2113 I Agree with you bro, but stay strong and be yourself and you will attract same girl as you, strong and real lady.
@jack-vi6rg
Жыл бұрын
Women don’t realize this they really aren’t superior to us in any way are they
@WolfRhymesEntertainment
Жыл бұрын
Lonewolves in the wild are excited to see a female but face so much rejection before attracting a mate or die alone. Yet this society throws simps under the bus. Alpha 🐺 men are murderers of jezebels manwhores and their children. Those that date and fornicate in this world are rabbits bottom of the food chain. We only act nice to avoid jail . Canis lupus (grey wolves) can sense traps underneath the snow so a man as a wolf would avoid jail until the judgement day and all he can do is howl hoping his God will hearken to his cry. You all will start off as nice guys until you learn to hate them after much rejection---Revelation 2:20-23 KJV Notwithstanding I have a few things against thee, because thou sufferest that woman Jezebel, which calleth herself a prophetess, to teach and to seduce my servants to commit fornication, and to eat things sacrificed unto idols. [21] And I gave her space to repent of her fornication; and she repented not. [22] Behold, I will cast her into a bed, and them that commit adultery with her into great tribulation, except they repent of their deeds. [23] And I will kill her children with death; and all the churches shall know that I am he which searcheth the reins and hearts: and I will give unto every one of you according to your works.
Imagine if all men followed this advice. Everyone around you would be an asshole. What a world would it be. There is too much push in this direction because people forgot about humanity and just want to be animals. Stay true to your own principles. Don’t try to please woman cause that will lead you nowhere.
@adamivey9103
8 ай бұрын
How can you please someone who is not pleased with themselves.
Imagine being so broken from your childhood that a human being haveing a nice personality is "inauthentic and manipulative" im sorry neither of you had strong men who gave without expectations when you were growing up. It shows.
Being a “nice guy” and being a “kind guy” are two deferent things. The nice guy is a persona to try and get/keep a girl. But being kind is a trait that every masculine guy should have.
Life is not a movie, so guys keep being kind and do not listen to these ladies
@davesmith826
Жыл бұрын
Indeed. These 'influencers' will be singing a different tune once they hit their mid-30s and realise they can't shuffle any more decks of cards. Then, when the bills have to be paid and the child has to be raised, they'll be fighting tooth and nail for the last nice guy in town, only to find he has already found someone nice of his own. Will we be treated to a mea culpa then? I doubt it!
@Jambuc829
Жыл бұрын
Being kind is what you should be to your fellow man and animal alike but that has jack shit to do with knowing how to build sexual tension
@davidz3879
11 ай бұрын
Waste a fortune on her?
@bplayerr1
10 ай бұрын
As a nice guy who pivoted, they are right. "Most" women dont value nice guys. Now, it is completely twisted of them. 1) women mistreat men that give them the EQUALITY they say they want 2) the contrast of being with a GOOD man makes it obvious to them how crapoy they themselves are, they cant blame the good man for their self created drama and issues. With Chad, they dont have to face themselves for it is EASIER to place all the blame for their own short comings on him. No accountability. 🤷♂️
@bplayerr1
10 ай бұрын
@@Jambuc829💯, being kind to women causes the opposite of attraction
Don't confuse your standard to all women , if you love disrespectful men that's your own cup of tea
I don’t know why they are called “the nice guy” because the thing is, they actually aren’t nice. They only act nice to get something out of someone and it’ll be easier to pick up on this the more you get to know them.
@Crazyhead432
9 ай бұрын
So you can pick up on it but can’t stop it? That’s odd…cus every girl I’ve attempted to go at the older I’ve gotten is a girl that’s had a narcissistic and abusive ex. If you’re not turned on by the gestures of your friend just tell him. Don’t give him the run around of friendship. L. You’re just not into him. It’s not bad, but don’t tell him he’s doing a good job. Don’t tell him he’d be good for someone else. You and everyone else likes qualities in someone that can lead to drama…cheating, abuse, etc., and most men don’t want to even GET CLOSE to that. I had a friend who is middle eastern tell me about how it turned her on to have a hijab on while she fucked because it made her feel like she was fighting the patriarchy or something…and he sued her 4 months later for something else…and she then cried to me about it…she only tried to fuck me after that went down while she was trying to be with someone else…it was all very confusing. Which is how y’all feel. This gen ain’t gonna figure it out. But the next gen will
these comments saved my faith in humanity