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@unitedstatesirie7431

Жыл бұрын

most women in the USA live an unrealistic life of fantasy, will men accept their foolish fantasy Feminist lives ?

@anyfriendofkevinbaconisafr177

4 ай бұрын

I can't believe how much I am enjoying your channel. But this is the first video where I feel you've missed the mark. It sounds like your saying guys simply have to accept being cucked.

“Guys, if you lose your job, your woman may not leave you immediately, but believe me, her countdown is on!” - Chris Rock

@paulcolin9071

Жыл бұрын

That's true

@vvvvel

Жыл бұрын

They will break up with you in stages.

@marcusavila2961

Жыл бұрын

Took her 1 month for me.

@AthenaCannon

Жыл бұрын

@@marcusavila2961 Sorry to hear it. She left - you have got the worst part over with. Wish you back on your feet asap.

@jw841

Жыл бұрын

Usually between 3 to 6 months. Depending on the resources you had when you lost your job.

My folks have been together for almost 50 years now. About 30 years ago my dad fell at work and broke his back. He was in the hospital for months and when he finally got home he was laid up in bed for a whole year. My mom went and got a full time job to take care of us kids and then some years later ended up with her own business just by doing a good deed for someone. Once dad was back on his feet he started doing the physical work for the new family business. They've been at it ever since, though in recent years they are trying to cut back and make things less stressful. Call it whatever you like, I think it's a sad state that women aren't like that anymore.

@Hyunx999

Жыл бұрын

Fairy tale indeed

@tassosplatis2143

Жыл бұрын

Marriages of yesteryear were based on mutual love and respect. That's almost gone now. It's like people forgot that not everyone is perfect, and that bad things happen in life. So many marriages today are based on convenience and money...

@uclajd

Жыл бұрын

Different generation. And sadly, many of us post-boomers grew up thinking things would stay like that. But no fault divorce, alimony, child support and custody rules, easy access to birth control, and of course feminism have all cheapened what marriage means and in many ways ruined women. My first breakup at 22 really sent me reeling, never saw it coming. "You mean women don't love unconditionally?" 🤣

@retrogamer82

Жыл бұрын

Those days are long gone since womanism infiltrated the west

@justsomeguy1141

Жыл бұрын

Wow your mum sounds like an absolute diamond, aint many (if any) women around like that anymore

If she doesn’t stand by you during your lowest point then she doesn’t deserve you at your highest.

@virtual-viking

3 ай бұрын

If you expect this of women, you're almost certainly going to be disappointed.

@JWS95000

3 ай бұрын

Exactly

@nicksmith4924

3 ай бұрын

@@virtual-viking women are disappointing. Water is wet.

@plouifasol

3 ай бұрын

Exactly! If she does, it wasn't love.

@xokelis0015

2 ай бұрын

She'll on balance of probabilities not stand by you. Its in her nature to want to leave, and to act on that want.

"A rich man can change a poor womens life forever but a rich woman won't even look a poor man's way" -21 Savage

@BoxyMan28

Жыл бұрын

I've said that for years.

@dask1516

Жыл бұрын

Not true.. the pool boy gets attention and ex from.her

@supernotnatural

4 ай бұрын

watch the video of homeless guy who got married educate women. That guy picked up a girl from streets. But he fixed his life later. But you are losers here.....

@Clintsessentials

4 ай бұрын

lol@@dask1516

@scaringclaring5240

4 ай бұрын

Fits Oprah and her friend Gayle. Oprah can't even commit in marriage to the man she's been with for decades. She has no kids, no one but herself to take care of and that wealth can support her for 500 years. Yet, she won't risk won't share those $$$, won't risk them.

There are levels my guys. You own a business, you make a lot of money, you treat her to whatever she wants, you just created a level. You lose that business, and fall below that level, she is gonna try and find that level you had her at. With or w/o you its only a matter of time. Spot on Rich

@PhantomFilmAustralia

Жыл бұрын

The wife in _Catch Me if You Can_ did the exact same thing. When they had to down-scale during tough times, she jumped ship and ditched her family.

@marketmaker873

Жыл бұрын

So true. And the courts will make you pay spousal support to that level in case of divorce

@ViburaBlanca

Жыл бұрын

@@marketmaker873 THAT is unreal, I seen my dad in handcuffs because of this

@ViburaBlanca

Жыл бұрын

@@PhantomFilmAustralia I remember that. Can’t believe its not talked about that much

@nocapnobs7845

Жыл бұрын

This is why I take them to McDonalds or burger king. Especially in the beginning when their interest level is at the highest!

*"Only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally. A man is only loved under the condition that they provide something."* -Chris Rock

@islamahmed9058

Жыл бұрын

"Only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally. A man is only loved under the condition that they provide something." not always true every men love women conditionally, children are loved conditionally, pet are loved conditionally

@nunka34ify

Жыл бұрын

If that’s true then I don’t ever want a woman. That’s fucked up!

@faridbouakline2862

Жыл бұрын

​@@mikecollon100my god ( Al Bundy) you just broke me up....miss you so much

@tonym3712

Жыл бұрын

Love is by definition unconditional. What you are referring to is called transaction.

@guzdo1167

Жыл бұрын

As a man I think my mom loves me unconditionally.

Married once. Divorced. No kids. Awarded the large suburban DC house and everything in it at settlement. Sold it during the housing frenzy of 2005, just before the real estate bust. Made a ton of money. Been single for 18 years…. AND LOVING IT!! Mortgage and two sports cars paid off. Zero debt. Life is GREAT as a single man. I’d be nuts to get wrapped up with some babe now. Doing what I want when I want is absolutely PRICELESS.

@ENIGMAXII2112

Жыл бұрын

Yes, get "wrapped up with some babe", she will TAKE IT all away.! I was married once as well, man that marriage game IS rigged. Lucky YOU got the house..!

@grahambamford9073

Жыл бұрын

Well Mr. Brock, you sir are living the dream.👍

@billbrock8740

Жыл бұрын

@@ENIGMAXII2112 Yep. It was a real drag, but I just waited her out. I lived in this nice house and she got an apartment. This went on for 22 MONTHS…. Until she surrendered and awarded me the house.

@billbrock8740

Жыл бұрын

@@grahambamford9073 A totally true story, Graham. It was a real pain in the ass but totally worth it when she finally surrendered the house to me.

@ENIGMAXII2112

Жыл бұрын

@@billbrock8740 Agh, Mr. Brock, I wish I had your luck.! She got the house, and me got some Shitty Flat..

Was speaking with a family friend during superbowl weekend. She mentioned her friend was on the verge of leaving her husband. He messed up his back, but finally got instant relief with a procedure the doctor performed (electric implant). This was after over 30 years of marriage. Women will leave you the minute you get injured guys

@ArmyWolves

Жыл бұрын

I have come across two or three comments of men who shared how women they were married to for DECADES left them as soon as they were diagnosed with cancer. These were in western countries.

@TheNotoriousNemo

Жыл бұрын

​@Man from Mogadishu yeah and I know most men stay and pay for it all until their woman dies

@clancydowrca

Жыл бұрын

​@Man from Mogadishu Yet if a man did that it would be all over social media and he'd be the worst man hated all over social media.

@jeremyromero2000

Жыл бұрын

It’s like sports, except the women are the team

@RealziesCuts

Жыл бұрын

🦍🤷🏼‍♂️

She's already made up her mind; she just wants validation for leaving him

@brianwaller7383

Жыл бұрын

And she’ll realize the grass isn’t greener because she’s post wall then want him to take her back lmao

@travelwithoutacause

Жыл бұрын

@@brianwaller7383 Bingo!

@virtual-viking

3 ай бұрын

Naaah, she's having cognitive dissonance between what she thinks a decent human being is supposed to do, and what her feelings as a woman will inevitably compel her to do.

@NatanStarke

3 ай бұрын

​Both you and the OP are right. @@virtual-viking

If women don't care about me and won't support me in difficult times then I'll stay single, I won't support them just in good times!

@jonathanpatterson4536

Жыл бұрын

Do exactly that

@supgizmo5021

Жыл бұрын

That's just their nature. It doesn't stop you from enjoying their company and having good times but only give them 3rd class priority.

@jcstream1

Жыл бұрын

That's y I just hit it and quit and go back to work.

@JohnSmith-ct5jd

Жыл бұрын

Right. "For richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health." Those words used to mean something.

@JT-cf5ol

Жыл бұрын

Amen

I saw this happen once. A beauty married this dude who had his own business because she said that was something she valued in a man. Two years pass and the business folds. He gets a job selling used cars. She divorces him soon after and one year to the day the divorce is final, she marries another dude who has his own business. It's the "Circle of Wife".

@funnyguy1256_

Жыл бұрын

Just pray they fail and end up on welfare and an alcoholic lol

@selfdo

3 ай бұрын

Or a GOLD DIGGER. Nothing new under the Sun

This 100% my story. 2021 lost my dad to cancer & a couple months later my sister passed away. I also had some medical issues on top of being depressed from the loss of my family members. My wife of 17 years went behind my back & cheated on me multiple times. What blows me away is I was there for her when she needed support but turned the other way when I needed it. Human nature sucks & then it’s like she became my worst enemy over night. Young guys, I know you want to do the right thing. I know you want kids but the way the system is set up you will be screwed over.

@jankof76

3 ай бұрын

This is what America produces.

@flechette3782

3 ай бұрын

Same here. Dumped by one when I got cancer. Dumped by another when I started getting seizures. Cheated on me too Like any of this was my fault. My fantasy now is to get super rich, buff and have a flock of women wanting to jump me...and I turn them all down. I'd get a better high off of that than any sex I could imagine.

@Last_one_before_I_go

3 ай бұрын

@@flechette3782 You have reached enlightenment. I too used to love women dearly. I was married for over 27 years. But I've come to understand them. Your job now is to salvage your self, become single minded and work towards your dreams. Quit being a slave to your own dick. You're a free man, stay that way. Define your goal, draft your plan and fucking stick to it. I know you have challenges, I understand. You are on your own, it may seem unsurmountable, but it isn't. you will come to embrace where you are and what you're new goal is. Go for it.

@PhonoDirect

3 ай бұрын

Don't worry. This system is now rigged to the dysfunctional level. And it is the vital system functions that is directly affected. It's not a question if it fails completely, the question is just when and how.

@johnfatorich3494

Ай бұрын

Stop doing the right thing. Take care of your own situation. Ignore her.

“Nice Guys Finish In Divorce Court, Bad Boys Finish On Her Face” -Rich Cooper 💯💊

@ministryoftruth8588

Жыл бұрын

In my case I finish by spraying her uvula.

@PH-ih1pn

Жыл бұрын

Yep. No point treating women nicely. You will just get screwed in the end.

@teddychalgren

Жыл бұрын

😆

@Johnny.1965

Жыл бұрын

Sounds more like Terrence popp...

@PoyTroy

Жыл бұрын

So much truth 😂

I moved to Iowa City and started dating the local women. One recent divorcee started coming over and hanging out in bed with me. During our breaks, she would complain about her husband. A couple of months go in, and it turns out that guy has a horrible form of Parkinson's. She tried telling me other excuses for why she left him, but we all know what the reason was. The craziest thing is he just passed away recently. He was a professor at the University, and so he had a massive obituary with tons of people saying what a fantastic guy he was. It just goes to show that you could still have a good job, and your wife will leave you. This guy was in the worst time of his life, and his wife didn't stick around. She's super selfish, and I'm not talking to her anymore.

@ssjrose3simon

Жыл бұрын

Damn man that's dark did it takes any toll on you at all?

@anava84

Жыл бұрын

@@ssjrose3simon I never intended to date her because she's a divorced woman with kids, so I never was personally affected. More so, she's just a great example of women's true nature. I will never believe that a woman I'm with will be 100% faithful to me, which I guess is a good thing in the long run.

@ssjrose3simon

Жыл бұрын

@@anava84 yeah I gotcha

@briandavis1115

Жыл бұрын

Hard to argue with anything mentioned. Although I do have problems believing she does everything around the house.

@5tyyu

Жыл бұрын

My best childhood friend lost his business had IRS audit & was trying to restart his life. But his wife divorced him when he was at his lowest. Silly guy comitted suicide. I miss him.

In 2014 I went through a tough year. There was none I mean zero support from my wife of then 17 years. We are still married but I don't expect anything from her now in the way of support. She used to ask me why I didn't share anything with her. I told her I just don't see the point. Women don't care about your problems.

@ImYourHuckleberry205

Жыл бұрын

if you know your wife doesn't really love you then it is a sad thing, it just means she is a low value wife really. Better put your assets in a trust so she cant steal them from you when she files for divorce.

@szn1580

Жыл бұрын

Why not leave her? Most women are useless anyway

@johnzoidberg9764

Жыл бұрын

​@@ImYourHuckleberry205 She love him but you dont get the difference between man and woman love.

@allenblack3785

2 ай бұрын

@@johnzoidberg9764 She doesnt love him, she doesnt know what love is. She "loves" convenience.

@johnzoidberg9764

2 ай бұрын

@@allenblack3785 definition of love is different for man and woman. Your "true" one is how man sees it and "convenience" is how woman sees it.

I fiancee had the same thought too when I got laid off. I was new to a union so I got laid off in the winter. Jan-April you collect unemployment. 65% of your wage. She took this as fired, wrote me a "we should break up" because she had been talking to another guy and thought that situation was better. I moved out, April she sees my online post 'back to work". She's like...I thought you were fired! I laughed and said it's Union...job for life. Suddenly she's blowing up my phone because buddy ditched her after he fucked her.

@arkaleon1551

Жыл бұрын

She's nasty

@chiragshetty2336

Жыл бұрын

Keep her as a side chick

@wayneshawlinski4898

Жыл бұрын

Bravo my bro

@jwill9877

Жыл бұрын

Make sure she sees you leveled up on her with someone who looks better,and is younger and more agreeable.

@JT-cf5ol

Жыл бұрын

God blessed you!

I'm one of the rare men who got total unconditional support from my wife when I lost my business and everything. She gave me full financial, emotional and psychological support during the worst year of my life.

@strrangerthings7049

Жыл бұрын

Women sleep around despite being good and that's a fact from the beginning Their Promiscuous nature will not change until they get to their old age where they are dried up completely

@arkaleon1551

Жыл бұрын

Good for you man Hope you have your business back

@vr8944

Жыл бұрын

Lucky guy

@saltyabcdef3202

Жыл бұрын

This is rare but nice to hear. Good for you that you got to experience love.

@brendaatuherize

Жыл бұрын

Bless her soul 🤍

I married at 19 thinking my wife would help turn me into a king. Whoa, was I wrong while i was building my kingdom by getting an Engineering Degree & investing in Real Estate she was stepping out with guys who were already kings.

@rullangaar

Жыл бұрын

This. Stay frosty guys.

@melvinloyalist6758

Жыл бұрын

You gotta turn yourself into a king my guy, a women will never do that for you so don’t rely on them for that. You got what it takes man, wishing you all the best!

@klopcodez

Жыл бұрын

I was that guy she left me in prom for a guy with a dad who has a Lamborghini even after spending $90 for a ticket and close to 200 in HS. But who’s laughing now. I can never forget that night wasted my money and looked stupid and alone in crowd of people and my heart was dark when going home since I couldn’t grasp what happened to me

@clevelandwilliams5922

Жыл бұрын

My Father said build your empire first and that can be just paying off a home. If a V wants to be part of your hard work, you make her work hard for you just as you worked hard for what you built. Respond in like manner.

@funnyguy1256_

Жыл бұрын

​@@clevelandwilliams5922 I thank you and your father dearly. That is the advice right there. You can throw everything thing else away. Those are the exact words I needed to hear.

My business hit hard times from COVID. I told the wife all debt I accrued but didnt mention some of the rescue grants that offset those loses to see if she was a ride or die woman. She wasn't and wanted a divorce pretty bad. Even when she knew I was in a tight position, she wanted to get much more out of divorce. I'm happy the divorce is going through. I can now get a new start.

@prashanthb6521

Жыл бұрын

All the best for your new life.

@Prince_Sheogorath

4 ай бұрын

Marriage is a bad business decision. I hope you're a better businessman now.

@salvadorquiauhtlazollin6625

3 ай бұрын

Te salvaste de un destino infernal.

@Torrque

3 ай бұрын

You obviously already didn’t trust her. Nuff said.

@daniellouis8722

3 ай бұрын

Nice!! The minute they know things are bad...gone

A lady I know's husband fell ill with cancer and in the process lost his job. She left him (they have a 2 year old kid together) because "he is a useless husband who cannot supply for his family". She by the way have a good well paying job. Things like this make my lose faith in relationships and love.

@cruiser6260

Жыл бұрын

Too many boosters.

@marks2506

Жыл бұрын

At the end of the day we are just animals sadly. The disney fairytale is exactly that; a fairytale. Doesn't mean you can't get a woman who will love you, you just can't forget it will always be conditional love.

@jhonrestrepo3987

Жыл бұрын

304 trash.

@marioandultrachap

Жыл бұрын

​@@marks2506 yeah but guys can love other humans women really aren't capable of that. Very rarely.

@ImYourHuckleberry205

Жыл бұрын

That woman is a total scumbag.

"Women aren't king makers" - Hence why the majority of single moms' sons end up in jail for one reason or another. My mother taught me F/K all about life, and what's even worse, she kept me away from my uncles.

@johnsmith-ht3sy

Жыл бұрын

Girlfriends and wives will keep you away from your good male friends.

@sahaynam6470

Жыл бұрын

@@JT-cl9np TF does that even mean?

@JT-cl9np

Жыл бұрын

Uncles have helped West Virginia to received the reputation for interbreeding. So your (TF) The Fuc🌭 is right on da 😻+🍑

@prashanthb6521

Жыл бұрын

Damn true. My aunts are doing this right now.

@GoatHolyfield

Жыл бұрын

Single mothers raised nothing but weak emotional men you know the why Don't women like me I'm nice guy I respect women why don't they like me boo hoo and criminal with ironically do very well with women

When the going gets tough, the women start quitting.

@gregp7379

Жыл бұрын

And they start complaining. Constantly.

@marketmaker873

Жыл бұрын

Men are self made. Few women will help a man succeed in life.

@Fakestockguru

Жыл бұрын

Lol

@brettcary187

Жыл бұрын

😂😂

@BWater-yq3jx

Жыл бұрын

In this case however, when the going got tough... the guy was acting like a little b!tch. Reading the comments for this video gives Red Pill a bad name. It's like there's no actual thought process, just mindless trite observations.

When my business went bankrupt my wife cheated on me constantly and left. She got everything and I was left sleeping on the floor of some dive apartment. For years I just felt I was living in a daze with no end in sight.

@marketmaker873

Жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that. I am going through that right now. Business is down, wife kicked me out of house.

@peterheffernan7435

Жыл бұрын

Hang in there my man. The storm will pass . Cheers.

@MagnumOpusYT

Жыл бұрын

​@@marketmaker873 kicked you out of the house? Hmm.

@bigshoots1181

Жыл бұрын

We really have to shrink the government so they can't get away with this bs anymore. End the welfare state, it's a system that rewards bad behavior. Why tf should ppl you don't know have to pay for your child or you having a child?

@ImYourHuckleberry205

Жыл бұрын

@@marketmaker873 who pays the bills? if it is you then you are a beta male lol

Great video! Guys, I have seen this hundreds of times in my divorce practice. If you lose your job and do not very quickly land another job of equal or greater pay and prestige, the contempt and disrespect toward you will start. I have seen cases where successful guy marries a demanding woman. She quits her job. She gets extremely overweight. He loses his job (often through no fault of his own), she makes his life unbearable. If she works and makes more money than you, expect ongoing disrespect and constant pressure to make more money. It never ends well. Focus on being the very best version of yourself. Stay safe. Stay single. Do the things that bring you joy.

The irony is that if the guy was hyperdriven, ambitious and making them 7 figures a year she would probably still have an issue that he is emotionally unavailable or always working.

@hunterosophy

3 ай бұрын

There’s always something wrong in a woman’s brain. Live your life the way you want to.

@user-lg2nw2zj8f

3 ай бұрын

Absolutely

@user-lg2nw2zj8f

3 ай бұрын

They must complain about anything

@lorenguaylg

3 ай бұрын

Literally what I heard! I worked my tail to get my masters and then my own contracting business so she could be at home, divorced me and told me I wasn't around, she did everything😢

@user-lg2nw2zj8f

3 ай бұрын

@@lorenguaylg welcome to the club

Absolutely right ❗️I’ve supported my wife through her ups and downs including cancer treatments and losing her job but when I needed help she left me. I really believe this is how women truly are only want help from men but won’t return the help when you need them

@hiflyg1239

Жыл бұрын

Hey man this really highlights the imbalance of what a woman "as a general rule" has to offer a man. You have her back, but she is AWOL when you put any reliance upon her. Equality is a Scam perpetrated by Church, Society, and most likely your own family over the years. I know I've gone without sleep, poured my money into her needs, and yet when the shoe was on the other foot the concept of marriage was old fashioned and the woman abandoned all responsibility. So what is the Solution? Westernized aka Anti-God Anti-Family women are not worth wifing up. Never tie the knot with a woman who expects you to be there no matter what, yet they in return abandon you in your time of need.

@kly826

Жыл бұрын

I'm really sorry to hear this... Glad to see that you got yourself out of there and got to live to tell the tale...

@NP-io4ol

Жыл бұрын

I am so sorry.

@NP-io4ol

Жыл бұрын

@Nana Kwame I want to believe it's not a trait of women and yet it's lack of character

@PH-ih1pn

Жыл бұрын

Happened to me. I supported. When it came to my turn... crickets... and left. Shocking!

My father was military commander. In the war, he was injured and lost his eyesight. That was 30 years ago. My mother was totally supportive from the 1st day. She fought for us all. The first battles were for him to survive as he had several injuries, he spent some 3 months in hospitals. We were living in a country under sanctions, electricity rationing, food rationing, inflation, bureaucracy.. she went through it all. I do not ever remember that she complained about something being too hard for her. After the war my father established his new career in public sector, with her support and ours as well. He reached pensionable age 2 years ago but still he wakes up early every day and goes to work, he does not want to retire. My mother every day prepares meals for him, takes care about his clothes, she even colors his hair not to look completely grayish. He is recognized and valued member in the community, he even received a decoration from the president for his work. He had cardio events in recent years, needed medical support and operations, she also fought for all of that. When we were kids, my father had to go to military exercises, sometimes it took 2 months of absence. My mother never complained. I never deduced that my father was bad father because he had to go. When I leave my house over weekend to help my sister, my wife is bitching me in the front of the children and plays a great victim. I work from home and she puts on me labels of bad father which does not spend time with the kids. If I want to go to gym or run in the forest, I have to sneak out from the house to avoid arguments. Most of my friends have some issues with their wives. I am aware that most of the women around here are like the one from this video, but from my 1st hand experience I know that the other world is possible. The life and rules change across generations, our social rule or contract is different than the one our parents had.

@klopcodez

Жыл бұрын

This is a different story this dude in the story is a loser lost me in the sits in the house and does nothing

@MB-xe8bb

Жыл бұрын

Did she have other options? Or was she stuck, and he was still the best option. Or was it culture of not leaving her husband in those days. Or was she just a really nice person.

@PorousG

Жыл бұрын

Older generations of women were financially dependant on their husbands and so put up with bad behaviour because their survival depended upon it. Modern women are not financially dependent on men anymore and hence their true nature comes out in full force. That is the only reason older generations of women were more subservient and supportive of their husbands. Because their own survival depended upon it. Go back in time and give those women the same opportunities modern women have, and you'd see the same shit play out then. As men, we now have to accept that this is the true nature of women being unveiled and the whole till death do us part, unconditional love and support is just societal bullshit. Make your own money, make your own way, be very careful who you wife up, even if she appears to be a good woman, never trust her 100% and always have a contingency plan in case things go south. Maintain seperate finances and never let her know the true extent of your wealth. Never let her catch on that you may be in any trouble of any kind, and never expect any form of support from her. Use her for sex and as a trophy wife, always maintain your frame and always be just out of reach of her emotionally. Do not fall in love, or even if you do, do not show it to any extreme degree where she feels she has you reeled in. Always dangle the proverbial carrot on the stick just close enough to make her think she might get it, but never close enough that she can get it. All this might sound very cold and cruel but this is exactly what a man needs to do in today's world in order to protect himself and keep his woman in control. Women need to feel a level of safety but also need to feel a level of insecurity to continue to be attracted to their guy. The fairytale Disney shit is just that. A fairytale, and if you believe in it as a man, you deserve all the shit that your woman will eventually shovel at you. I fell for all this bullshit, and I suffered miserably for it. Luckily I'm young enough that I never got married and I can still turn the tide in my life and I'm doing just that. But the emotional rollercoaster that I was put through by a girl I loved with all my heart, just to see her run away when I needed her the most was exactly the kick in the ass and wakeup call I needed to understand the true reality of human nature.

@bojman

Жыл бұрын

She had her job. It wasn't uncommon to see wives leaving their husbands and children after husbands were injured in the war (100.000 people died and who knows how many were left injured). One positive factor was that the father was strong, not depressed, he never complained etc.

@PorousG

Жыл бұрын

@@bojman so basically, a decent woman will probably stay with an injured husband if he maintains the potential of a comeback and doesn't start whining and moping around. Fair I guess.

I guess I'm lucky. My present wife got with me years ago and stayed with me when my life was in shambles. I was an unemployed drug addict, and she was clean. She's a beautiful girl, who makes good money, and has an awesome, tight extended family. She got me off my ass. I've since got clean from drugs, have a great job, work full time, great pay, on top of side work. We go on lavish vacations, have a 3500 square ft. home, new trucks in the driveway, etc. She stuck it out with me the whole time, while I was going through my bullshit, and I don't know why. I don't know what the hell she saw in me, but I'm glad she did and believed in me.

@Freedom-Fighter1

Жыл бұрын

You are extremely lucky my friend

@SpiritusMundi4EVER

Жыл бұрын

Out of curiosity, do you look like Brad Pitt?

@Frankybroadcast

Жыл бұрын

@@SpiritusMundi4EVER I got "Leonardo Dicaprio" alot when I was younger. Lol

@prashanthb6521

Жыл бұрын

Very lucky guy.

@jefferyczernecki442

4 ай бұрын

Thar's awesome

After reading "Unplugged Alpha" 2 times, I closed my mind and open my eyes to observe the reality. Its sad to see even though marriage is a bond where husband and wife are suppose to do problem solving throughout their life time, most of the women don't care about men's struggle and they don't even have necessary skill of problem solving. These women then get divorced and go out in the society and not only distroyes their own life but completely demolish other women life as well. One unhappy women can utterly destroy the whole society. Its sad but I just surrender to the reality to protect my mental and physical health.

@ezecskornfan

Жыл бұрын

better open your mind sometime later man.

@caucasianafrican1435

Жыл бұрын

I think that's why society, and specifically women, have and always will deride promiscuous women. It can cause too many problems for other women.

@allananderson949

Жыл бұрын

Women look to their man to be leaders and solve problems. It's never been a shared thing

@TrumpTrain911

Жыл бұрын

Does rich have an audio book

@joe92

3 ай бұрын

Then they go out and marry the government in the hope it will take care of them. Single women have horrible political beliefs.

Horrendous divorce at 40. Took in a woman who left her husband because he was under achieving at work and not bringing home enough money. 14 years later. F@&£ do i regret that decision.

@johnsmith-ht3sy

Жыл бұрын

Never rescue them.

@MagnumOpusYT

Жыл бұрын

Karmas a bitch

@timothygibney159

Жыл бұрын

Same. The doctor who should had an affair with found a younger gal to play with and she tried coming back ... After I got my act back together

@user-lh9eg1mk9n

3 ай бұрын

@@johnsmith-ht3sy - Yeah,learned that the HARD way. Thankfully i got out and vowed NEVER to repeat that mistake EVER again!

@user-xb9mz5vl7s

3 ай бұрын

As much as I don't support lazy men, most women don't appreciate the sacrifice of men. 😢😢

"I want to go out with my friends a *few times a weeK* ".That right there. Nobody in a marriage has time to go out with friends *several times a week* and still have time for a relationship.

@mortalwombat2001

3 ай бұрын

LOL good point. When she meets her poisonous friends it's only a matter of time until they poison each other.

I had a career setback at one point. The day I got notice of it I was devastated. Years of work down the drain. I was obviously depressed when I got the news and wanted to talk to my wife about it. But a couple of hours later, a female friend of my wife arrived at our door with even more distressing news - her (the friend's) sister had died in a car accident out in California. OK, that's a lot worse. So I put my shit aside, didn't mention it, and sat her friend down to figure out what happened. She was very distressed, seemed inconsolable, so I invited her to stay with us for a few days. For much of the next week, I took care of her, spent endless hours with her daily, talking about her sister, asking her to share stories. She seemed to cheer up slowly. I found it very strange that my wife basically ignored her throughout. While I sat with her friend all day, consoling her, the wife ignored her and just went about her daily routines. After staying with us for a few days, the friend left. I finally decided to broach my own career problems with my wife. She was very brusque, and didn't want to talk about it, as it had nothing to do with her and she was busy. I felt a bit upset at her reaction, and in an egotistical moment, I brought up my own recent example - "Hey, it's about turns. Your friend has nothing to do with me, but she was in distress, so I put my shit aside and sat down with her through it. People need people." She then revealed it to me: it was all a lie. It was all faked. There was no car accident, the friend didn't even have a sister! It turns out that on the moment I got my bad news, my wife secretly called her friend to come over so she wouldn't have to listen to me moan. The friend invented the whole cockamamie "death of sister" story to keep me distracted. I was stunned.

@zuhairreza

11 ай бұрын

Wow. I’m speechless. 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵

@risefromyourpain

10 ай бұрын

@@zuhairrezathat’s some sick shit

@bendingsteelmedia7488

9 ай бұрын

Whaaaat???! Seriously?? I'm dumbfounded and I'm not even you, bro. Hope you're doing better now. That is just callous and wicked. Unbelievable

@ShameTheSluts

4 ай бұрын

Lmfaoooo

@joe92

3 ай бұрын

Please tell me you dumped her sorry ass.

My X wife had over 30 damn jobs in our 12 years of marriage and I took it and didn’t cheat and listened to all her work related problems and why each job sucked, I lost my best friend at 39 he died of a sudden heart attack, and I went through a year of depression he was also the drummer in my band, I soon found out she was cheating with her boss at work and I filed for divorce, this is so damn true what Rich is saying, women don’t care about your struggles in reality it sickens them , but yes you as a man have to listen over and over about her problems and her x friend Sheila at work, it just the way it is gentlemen

@user-lh9eg1mk9n

3 ай бұрын

Thank the heavens you ditched the b*tch!

What I've found is that most women will ask "how was work" not because they genuinely want to know, but because they're using it as a barometer to check how stable you are-- both emotionally and financially (spoiler: they expect you to be solid in both areas).

@Walk_on_Part_In_a_War

Жыл бұрын

Yes. Yes. Yes. Thereby the reluctant default to a mumbled "okay", so that if I've had an extremely stressful day it's easier to hide. Living a lie to survive so that this person that I must still love can operate in her deluded reality that she got her fantasy man.

@nodemode8001

Жыл бұрын

Exactly...

@clevercloggs7029

Жыл бұрын

Never asked my husband that, ever. If there was something he wanted to tell me, he would, otherwise he was quite capable of taking care of business. I was his wife, not his partner. Now I am his widow. You should not allow women to treat you like a child: "how was school today"...

@AmbuBadger

Жыл бұрын

@@clevercloggs7029 Yeah, but that's the exception to the rule. If more women took their role as a wife as seriously as you did, we wouldn't be commenting on a channel like this because there would be a demand.

@clevercloggs7029

Жыл бұрын

@@AmbuBadger Good point. Gentlemen, we're out here working and living decent lives. You will not find us on dating apps (we don't need them), in bars or 'clubs'. We are pursuing our hobbies, our favorite sports, maybe taking a course in something like calligraphy or art. We are not promiscuous because we aren't desperate. Widowed young with a young child, now in her mid-twenties I can assure you that we know 'of' the type of woman Cooper talks about, but have no association. Yes, we are here and enjoy talking and meeting good men...my daughter would hate me for saying that, but it's true.

Women don’t care about your struggles, they hangout at the finish line and pick the winners! Coach Rich

@matthewjackson9615

Жыл бұрын

What's new ? Come back with your shield - or on it" (Plutarch, Mor.241) was supposed to be the parting cry of mothers to their sons. Mothers whose sons died in battle openly rejoiced, mothers whose sons survived hung their heads in shame. Women wait at the finish line to see if you return with your shield. You bet ,This is where I find myself.

I have to say I’m actually impressed she’s trying to understand why she doesn’t want to be supportive. The fact she’s curious about her own behavior is honestly respectable af

@hoots187

Жыл бұрын

Rare sight in any person

@user-zm1rq6xj9v

Жыл бұрын

I agree. It’s good she’s self aware and not being ignorant. Regardless, the guy should stop whining and find some work. He can still look for something he does like but a job should be secured first

@ImYourHuckleberry205

Жыл бұрын

It's only because she feels guilty, sooner or later she will divorce rape him if he was dumb and did not put his assets in a trust where she can't steal them.

@thisfuckingkai

Жыл бұрын

Yeah seems more she’s just trying to understand her own selfish emotions rather than trying to actually support her husband. You can word her questions as, “Why am I not being an accountable wife and not holding up the end of the vows I took?” The fact she “needs” to go out to get drinks or “hangout” with her friends should tell you all you need to know.

@GoatHolyfield

Жыл бұрын

I guess it nice for a woman to realize her nature I guess 🤷

Luckily my wife of 30 years supported the family as have I. While I was unemployed for 16 months, she was amazing working hard. Marriage is also a safeguard for the family where 2 people support each other, it should never be a one way streak.

My contract of employment for the British government got cut, along with 10000 others, 2 weeks later she left me! I have been single the past 12 years and I'm keeping it that way; me and my 3 motorcycles are very happy together 👍

@georgeelder8415

Жыл бұрын

As so you should. Bravo on you!

@michaelmclarney1994

Жыл бұрын

@@georgeelder8415 thanks, I may add a 4th if I can find the space 😂

@PH-ih1pn

Жыл бұрын

Doesn't sound like you lost much if she did that. Not yours, just your turn. Modern women are a complete waste of F ing time anyway. NOT WORTH THE EFFORT!

@michaelmclarney1994

Жыл бұрын

@@PH-ih1pn agreed! My focus is on building my own, modest, wealth and protecting it for the future generation, as they are both men.

@PH-ih1pn

Жыл бұрын

@Michael McLarney Wise choice brother! I'm doing the same now but got badly burned in divorce with kids. Wasting ANY resources on a woman is slavery plantation and very very risky in 2023. Getting married or cohab is complete insanity for most men!

I work with several men who like to tell me what great marriages they have. I tell them if you get sick ,injured or unemployed today, within 6 months they they'll be singing a different tune.

@allenblack3785

2 ай бұрын

Dude, within 6 DAYS.

My ex-girlfriend once had 8 jobs in one year. No way would she have stayed if I had 8 jobs in one year.

I think your so right on with how women are. My ex started the same shit with me. Going out with her friends and spending stupid money on trinkets clothes watches purses instead of working on our own marriage so I dumped her after 21 year’s marriage. But she still thinks I’m going to be there for her even though we don’t live or see each other. She still calls me telling me her problems and dates she’s been but it doesn’t getting me mad or jealous I’m over her and when I finalize our divorce I’ll be free . Freedom freedom 😊

@kirahund6711

Жыл бұрын

Tell her "Listen Becky, I'm not interested in your crap" and hang up on her. Don't give her your attention. Keep it professionl until the divorce is over, then ghost her completely.

@denismoreau3646

Жыл бұрын

@@kirahund6711 yes ghosting her good analogy. That’s my intention thanks 😊

@jonstersmall2716

Жыл бұрын

_'Right on'_ means 'politically correct' where I live. Did you mean that?

@kk_kk714

Жыл бұрын

Why are you even taking her calls or even wasting your time listening? You still don't get it.

@denismoreau3646

Жыл бұрын

@@kk_kk714 it’s all in the calculation and timing.😙

leykis used to talk about when his girlfriends/wives would move into his house, that they would then mysteriously, and without warning, "lose" their jobs.

@georgeelder8415

Жыл бұрын

Yup. I remember this, it s no chitter!

@tallswede80

Жыл бұрын

@@georgeelder8415 that's why he said you should never live with a woman. If she lives by herself then she has to live within her means. If you live together, then she thinks she has the right to have whatever standard of living that you provide to her.

@georgeelder8415

Жыл бұрын

Yes. That's very true! He also spoke about having a woman living in your home as dangerous. In Canada, and in some locales in the US, living together can be a cause for litigation in favor of the woman... As men, we can't be too careful... Best of luck gents, it's a jungle out there...

During the 2008 recession, I saw many great guys lose their businesses or their income tanked hard suddenly. This caused many foreclosures. The number of people I saw get divorced was staggering. Those beautiful blonde ladies with 2-3 kids and happily married were out the door as soon as things started to dry up. I divorced as well and I was doing well financially. I think we have to look at it like leasing a car. It’s never truly yours, it’s just what you’re driving right now. Hell, even older ladies are leaving their husbands these days.

@selfdo

3 ай бұрын

They'll leave HIM, but not his MONEY.

@user-yw8qf8cc3t

21 күн бұрын

Thieving para☔sites

Exactly. Be the king, be irreplaceable, always strive for improvement, never show weakness.

Better to be single, and just work part time, relax. My wife was same her, my business went down, and I got stuck due to covid. I had given everything to her and the kids, and she cooked up a fake DV charge, divorced me, and took the kids. You wouldn’t believe what they said in court, the feminist judge, without even knowing me. Made out, I hadn’t interest in my son, while I spent the last year and half during covid taking my son to the mountains, hunting, beaches, everyday to school, while his mom worked. 1 year suspended sentence, which I probably messed already not doing the community service, kicked out of Europe, because a violent felon on paper. Alimony and child support, 800 Euro a month, and I don’t even work. Plus restraining order, no visitation, no communication to my child. I just walked away, and I’m spending my nights play on my computer in my tiny little apartment, near the beach. Started to feel happy again. Like been a kid. I’m never going to put myself through this again -

@flux9433

Жыл бұрын

Marriage isn't worth it nor the problems with having kids that come along just not worthy you don't know how that kid will turn out to be on top of that everything can change and you as a man get nothing to doby the court the kids are hers not yours friend of mine was raised by single mom who used to call unknown males every weeked had him traumatized once when we went to drink and we took alot of drinks he started saying how having a mother of that sort destroyed him he is drug addict on top of that alcoholic but works amd doesn't bother with anything else just enjoying his early 30

@dingdong6005

9 ай бұрын

How are you doing now ? Too late for me unfortunately

Loving relationship = He loves me, I love what he provides me. No woman wants to be the provider, and the main cause of divorce is because men lose their job or earn less than their wives.

Reminds me of a scene in the 1980's version of "A Christmas Carol" which I watched over the holiday. Scrooge is shown a woman under a bridge with her husband and children. He laments his inability to find work, yet she declares she will stick by him. I laughed at that scene. She would be gone as soon as the eviction notice showed up.

@JohnSmith-ct5jd

Жыл бұрын

That was a portrayal of life in the old days. Back in the 1800's divorce was frowned upon. The scene was realistic for the time period portrayed. Of course, things are different now. I think feminism killed marriage.

Richard spitting facts. It yet another reason why to NOT get married or live with a woman. Its pointless to have to support someone who wouldn't EVER support you in ANY way when you need it.

@gamer61701

Жыл бұрын

If I could go back in time, I would never live with a woman. I would date and have a lot of fun until they gave me that ultimatum, at which point I would just end it and start over with someone new.

@BWater-yq3jx

Жыл бұрын

Have been married, no intention of doing it again. However, if you think that the example in this vid is a reason to not get married, well maybe... for women.

I had some insane amount of trauma I had to deal with. My partner at the time was a therapist and was use to dealing with peoples traumas and support them through it. However she couldn’t do the same for me and almost left me when things were the worst. It was my rep pill awakening that women like to feel secure and safe and don’t give a flying F about you outside of a need you provide.

@bigd1223

Жыл бұрын

Being vulnerable with one will dry her up instantly.

@newjustice1

Жыл бұрын

First mistake dating a therapist you had no energy for you after her job

@keisha625

Жыл бұрын

Insane amounts of Trauma? sounds like you needed an actual therapist yourself before entering into a relationship. Work on yourself so you can enter into a relationship whole and mentally healthy.

@Westcoastrocksduh

Жыл бұрын

@@keisha625 I was IN RELATIONSHIP with her when it happened. A therapist would not have been able to help me. I needed someone else. I got through it.

@Westcoastrocksduh

4 ай бұрын

@@victorvelo they all are

It's just narcissism. Lack of ability to empathize, etc. Heads she wins, tails you lose.

The urge for a woman to want a successful man, is the same urge as a man wanting an attractive woman.

@jerradwilson

Жыл бұрын

So would a man leave a woman if she got fat? For me, it depends.

@chrisjenkins9978

Жыл бұрын

No it isn’t. The overwhelming majority of men are not obsessed with female beauty. This is a documented fact. Men may be attracted to beauty but, they are not obsessed by it and they instinctively know it’s fleeting. There is a reason the centerfold changes every 30 days.

@GoatHolyfield

Жыл бұрын

​@@jerradwilson if your girl gets fat and you tell her to lost some weight and if she refuses to do so you're 100% in the right to leave if you wanted a fat girl you would've have gotten a fat girl but According to society you're an asshole and you should love her no matter what but it perfectly OK for her to leave you when you're at your lowest tho😂

I’ve noticed this with platonic female friends as well. They never appeared to be around when things were rocky but always reappeared once things were resolved. I have since discarded these types of people from my life. Men and women. A quick tip, if you want to avoid these people. Act humble and don’t show off your successes. There’s a reason you have less friends when you’re not flexing. There are more fake people than there are real who will appreciate you regardless.

@marshkid1

Жыл бұрын

I like that tip

"I have a stressful job and don't have time to come home, clean, cook, and be supportive all the time. I want to relax a little bit." So you're having the traditional man's experience in marriage and not liking it. Got it. Enjoy the equality.

@Kwanka69

Жыл бұрын

Nailed it! 😂

@tgm2474

Жыл бұрын

It's not the traditional man's experience unless you think traditional men are cooking and cleaning at home. And if a male breadwinner had to go home after a hard day and also clean up his house and be supportive, he'd leave too. Nobody keeps deadbeats around for long, not just women. This is why Rich's narrative falls apart.

@magigooter2096

Жыл бұрын

@@tgm2474 That's what I'm saying -- a traditional man doesn't want to provide by working years of his life away just to have to come home and do chores in his off time forfeiting any time to destress and relax. Nobody wants a deadbeat but that's exactly what women want to be. Just look at how many women who are surveyed say they want the man to provide with _his_ income for bills, groceries, vacations, etc while she keeps her own income to herself. The problem the woman in this video is having is a prime example of why men see so many women today to be of little to no value beyond access to their holes and yet women still don't get it, or more likely, get it but just don't care. They're deadbeats with a meat wallet, but if ever the tables are turned, they're immediately upset.

@tgm2474

Жыл бұрын

@@magigooter2096 I guess we run in different circles then. I have never, ever met a woman who wanted to be a deadbeat. Maybe you should seek a better class of human to hang with.

@magigooter2096

Жыл бұрын

@@tgm2474 I don't hang with them, but they're not hard to find.

Well his first mistake was pushing his emotions on his wife. He needs some friends(men) to blow off steam with.

@MB-xe8bb

Жыл бұрын

Then what are wives for?

@ImYourHuckleberry205

Жыл бұрын

@@MB-xe8bb Exactly. Women these days are non-supportive, you cant marry one who has any feminist ideas. women do not want to be women these days. good luck finding a decent one, they are almost non-existant.

We were taught growing up by movies /TV etc that women are caring nurturing creatures that could do no wrong, then you go out into the real world and marry one only to get destroyed in divorce court

@Freedom-Fighter1

Жыл бұрын

I’ve found out that men are the true Romantics and women are pretty much materialistic.

@toddpacker1015

Жыл бұрын

Women watch these romance movies and shows to use that against men. And they watch a lot while we watch none... so the advantage they have is massive

I am a mid 30 guy and got a bad allergy induced IBS and spine issues (discs and scoliosis). It got worse somewhere in 2019 and from time to time, my stomach makes me unable to function normally outside my house. 1.5 years ago I lost job after 2 years working there. I get that job after being laid off from previous job after 3 months. I lost my previous job because of my condition. Man... My wife gave me no support. Only a silent days, silent months and constant fights. Now when i finally work for a 9 months straight I have a worse days with my stomach from a couple of weeks and my wife started to be a cold person almost daily. I am a mess.

@prashanthb6521

Жыл бұрын

Hey try intermittent fasting and keto diet. Please go read the respective subreddit pages. Ask your questions there. It will definitely solve your health issues.

this helped me alot. I was a carpenter and had many layoffs and every time it was a nightmare how I was treated. day one of layoff and it was always the same.

@DC_PRL

Жыл бұрын

that's fucked up, that's a hard physical job. my dad was a roofer and my mom would never say shit about his time off in the winter....she got a job too, to fill the gap

@marketmaker873

Жыл бұрын

@@DC_PRL your dad married a good woman.

This is why it's better to be independent and financially successful before getting married. That way you won't ever have to ask for your spouse's support on anything.

@Hiflyg123

Жыл бұрын

You are going to have ups and downs in a marriage no matter what. Put her in a position early on where she has to support you and test her loyalty. She fails being loyal then it has nothing to do with how much money you have. Create a test, and put her to the test. Do You really wanna tie all your wealth to a woman who will definitely leave you in your time of need? Nope, she has to earn that spot by being willing to support you through the good times and the bad. Otherwise it's a house of cards that can drop on the whim of the slightest interference.

@mrmo4059

Жыл бұрын

50% wrong. Dont get married. Making really good money puts you in the driving seat and in control because now multiple women want you (leverage), why would you settle for one legal wife? Getting married means half is hers and she will take it whenever she likes. she can cheat, get fat, do nothing in the house, refuse u sex, party all night with friends, quit her job, spend your money and refuse to give you kids and if u dare to complain she can leave and still take half(zero leverage)! Did you struggle to finance your business goals, struggle to win customers, struggle to grow the business, learn how to be more effective and profitable just to lose half in a divorce? Be independent and financially successful and lay dow the law with the WOMEN you deal with. If they dont like it they can leave and watch you with 5 other women. And heres the secret, women actually EXPECT successful men to have multiple women but will try to see if they can trick/manipulate/bamboozle you into giving her wifey status. that is the ultimate ego boost or validation she can get because it is a transfer of power and wealth from you to her.

@spud4079

Жыл бұрын

Never say never.

@vintagetriplex3728

Жыл бұрын

@@Hiflyg123 we all already know that women are not reliable. There is no need to test. Plus as a real man you shouldn't need support from anybody anyways. You should be independent and self reliant married or not.

@AthenaCannon

Жыл бұрын

Disagree. Never lead with your wallet in a relationship. The more she pays, be it financially, energy, attention or her time, the more loyal she would become. When she has nothing you need, first of all you won’t be attracted to her, second, when she’s attracted to you she’s going after your wallet and your house.

Saw an old friend at a high school reunion about 10 years ago. He had had a stroke and his wife dumped him instantly. Her marriage vows should have read, "for better or gone."

I sprained my wrist last week at work, mentioned it to one of my girlfriends, she doesn't even bother to ask, how did it happen, does it hurt bad?, sorry to hear that, hope you make a quick recovery...etc etc.. no words of comfort...nuthin except...ohh ya...then proceeds to go on and on about herself, suffice to say, won't be bothering with her anymore, my other gf, was the complete opposite, showed some empathy, made all kinds of suggestions and recommendations for a quicker recovery, which is how it should be, careful who you choose fellas, not all are warmblooded

I remembered some of the girls in my school that liked football. They used to support whichever football club was top of the league and they constantly changed who they supported so this is normal behaviour for females.

@ameza1757

Ай бұрын

lmao that's so funny

Boy do I have a story to share with you fellow men. First off, my kid's mom and I had my kid when I was 17 and she was 16. About 5-6 months in to the pregnancy, she went ghost for no reason. I had went over to her mom's apartment(she still lived with her mom since she was 16) 10 times and she was there, but acted like she wasn't. Months go by, I end up finding her at her school. My kid was 11 months old about to turn 1 years old. Her and I get back together. It only lasted for 4 months because she was trying to take my kid away again. This happened on October 2014. On November I get a knock at the door, my brother answered and said it's the police they are looking for me. I go outside and the sheriff is reading the restraining order papers my kid's mom filed against me. As he sees me step out the house, he started laughing because what he had read and seeing me it didn't add up. On the restraining order, my kid's mom and her mom had wrote that I was abusive, physically and verbally. ALL LIES. When the court date came, my kid's mom and her mom were trying to play the victim card so hard that the Judge stopped them and asked, "where's the proof?" They stayed quiet and then her mom chimed in and said, "well he was verbally abusive to my daugh-" the Judge interrupted again and asked the same question, "where's the proof of the abuse?" They didn't know what to say. The Judge looked my way and then their way, chuckled at them and started telling my kid's mom and her mom you can't be telling lies about someone that he/she didn't do. The Judge dismissed her case and before hitting the gable, he asked, "is there anything else?" I IMMEDIATELY raised my hand told the Judge that I have a joint custody case. I gave the case number to his assistant. She found it. Then the Judge granted me joint custody of my kid, but only could see my kid on Saturdays from 9 a.m. to 6 p.m.. The look on my kid's mom's face and her mom's face was -->😤😠😡. That following Saturday she was supposed to take my kid to my place, but she didn't. About a week goes by then I receive a letter from the Department of Child Support. Not surprised. I go to the Department of Child Support and show them that my kid's mom is playing games because on the restraining order that she filed, she also wrote, and I quote, "I don't want ANY financial support from my kid's dad at all." The lady at the department of child support understood and went to the back office to talk with a lawyer to see what she can say to me. 5 mins later she comes back and said that I don't need to pay her anything because I wasn't working(I was working, but I wasn't going to let them know. I was using a different name as well.) So I ended up doing something petty in return. I had filed for swab testing to see if I am the father of my kid(I already knew I was, I just wanted to be petty asf.) Test come back saying I am the father, not surprised. She then asked me why I wanted a swab test to see if I was the father, but I wasn't giving her the response or the reaction she wanted out of me, so she called me "immature". I just laughed it off because I know I'm not. I can tell she just said that because she was butt hurt. 2015 I filed for more days to see my kid and have my kid sleep over. Of course she had a problem, but couldn't do anything about it. She tried, but I was 10 steps ahead of her. A different judge granted me more days and my kid was able to sleep over at my place. In 2016 she ends up hooking up with a guy that looks EXACTLY like my brother and has the SAME name as my brother. That right there confirmed to me she would have cheated on me with my own brother and I laughed it off in front of her. Her reaction -->😡😤. In 2017 she ended up having a kid by my brother's twin(since her man looks EXACTLY like my brother). Fast forward to last year, 2022, they're having problems because my brother's twin started accusing her of cheating on him. I don't know if that's true or not, but I won't be surprised if it was. Anyways, during the time her and my brother's twin are having this problems, she's trying to flirt with me to see if the old flame can be rekindled. I COMPLETELY ignore it and don't give her what she wants. I keep my focus on my kid and on my other priorities. She thinks she can keep me at arms reach in case things don't work out with my brother's twin. Boy oh boy, she's a disloyal unstable creature.

@cruiser6260

Жыл бұрын

There would be less than 1% of guys who are going to get violent with cops when they serve a restraining order, so theyre going to be laughing a hell of a lot.

@nikhil-kulkarni

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the story. I read it fully.

@funnyguy1256_

Жыл бұрын

You deserve your win brother. I hope your living well.

She lost her job, went through school and I supported her. The moment she made just as much or slightly more than me...she was gone.

Well, what can you say. The dude is not far from being single and the wife she's clearly looking for a way out. Once women start asking for advice and thinking about this and that, it's game over. Dude better see what other options he's got and let this women go.

No matter how adonis, alpha protector, wealthy and a gentleman you are a woman will have complications and issues about you and make you feel like its your fault.

@DutchPyro2011

Жыл бұрын

All women will shit test. No matter how good your frame is. Just never give in

@jwill9877

Жыл бұрын

Never give in, never admit, never be a gentleman. Be an as hole and she will chase you.

As the saying goes: A man's loyalty is tested when he has everything; a woman's loyalty is tested when her man has nothing.

Agree with Rich’s analysis. I have a solid job in government and three masters’ degrees. I would never go out with a professional woman. No way. I only go out with women who do not have a degree and have an average job. Keep it simple.

Rich is right. I hope he sees this comment because I had something happened that confirmed everything Rich says. I was seeing this woman that would call me to vent all the time and no matter what I was doing she needed someone to talk to and complain about her life and job. One day I was having a rough day at work and I had an anxiety attack. I broke down to her and was upset and her words were "what am I supposed to do with this information?" She got mad at me and said I was complaining and she felt unwanted and didn't like the tension so she left. What happened to me had nothing to do with her but I expected her to care about me having a rough time and she didn't. That's when I knew "Women don't care about our struggles". Rich is 1000% right and he knows his shit. - Nate

@user-yw8qf8cc3t

21 күн бұрын

No empathy nor compassion Just dark triad psychos

They want empathy, they are not empathetic.

She wants you to be the rock. She wants to be supported - financially, emotionally, etc. She doesn’t want to provide support. She might do it in a pinch, but like at your job you better not have two bad quarters in a row.

Same happened to me I lost my job because of a vaccine mandate right in the middle of the pandemic, instead of sitting around crying like the dude in the video I started delivering food on my bicycle. Busting my ass biking 50 miles a day. Still came home to a rich dude in my bed with my wife petting my dog

@zuhairreza

11 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

@dingdong6005

9 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂❤❤

So nailed it!! I've seen this up close often enough... Yes, men and women are so different, and it's ridiculous to say otherwise.

There are some reasons to live with a woman. Friendship and support are generally not among them.

@brent4073

Жыл бұрын

If you date down, which I've done before, they will support you and be your friend. When she knows you are the absolute best she can possibly do in her life, she will support you to keep you propped up.

@cristiandemirel1918

Жыл бұрын

@@brent4073 From my own experience I can tell you that most women are good friends only with other women. They listen to each other, they are supportive and loyal. Perhaps that would also be the case in a woman with a man friendship, which is a very rare situation. However, in a love relation real friendship and support don't work from the woman's perspective, because she wants her life partner to always be in control. If you are in need of support, then you, as her partner, are no longer in control and that means game over for your relationship, the reason being that she loses respect for you.

@Freedom-Fighter1

Жыл бұрын

@@brent4073 Western women are so bad, I’m looking to go full retard. That way I know she’ll appreciate me.😂

@Vaughnsb2

Жыл бұрын

​@@brent4073 As a man, you almost have to date down

@gamer61701

Жыл бұрын

Ain't that the truth. In case anyone is wondering what those reasons are: 1. Hole #1 2. Hole #2 3. Hole #3 There's a very small percentage of women, maybe 5%, whose list will be longer than that.

Bro makes it make sense. I’m 24, own my own house, have my own business, and I’m about to expand big time. I did about 130k last year, and will probably do well over 220k this year. I’m 6’1, good looking, hit the gym 3-4 times a week, and have a very stable life. My girlfriend of 4 years left me because I didn’t focus on her enough. Guilty. I took it on the chin and moved on. No one is going to distract me from my purpose, and sure as shit not gonna make me feel bad for waking up every day and doing what I have to do. Hell, I figure by the time I’m 26, I’m really going to be set, and will have more time to think about relationships and a family. But the last thing I’m gonna do at that point is get back with someone who didn’t have any foresight and couldnt weather the storm for a few more years. Worst of all, her dumb-as-a-sack-of-bricks best friend is the one who put her up to it, and even went as far as convincing her that I was talking to other women, when I spent every second of my off time with her. She’s going to face a hard reality pretty soon when she realizes what she left. I’m gonna have more time on my hands and more money in my pocket🤷‍♂️

@joe92

3 ай бұрын

She'll figure out she screwed up at some point and reach out. Wish her well and don't go back.

@kingofkings2934

3 ай бұрын

It always the jealous single friend that convince them to leave you so they can live out some sex in the city fantasy but it never pans out for them😂

@Overt_Erre

3 ай бұрын

just learn from the lesson. Getting well-off early is dangerous since it can get you sapped by some succubus and ruined later on. Women can really change shape to be whatever you like. Don't be tricked by the "perfect girl" and don't "follow your heart". Ask her what she values most and if it's anything other than "family and keeping the people i love close" or something along those lines, then you're stepping into a conditional relationship for sure. Make sure you know what the conditions are exactly and test them out before you find out 15 years later. Loyalty is rare among men and extremely rare among women.

I've had two girlfriends: when the first one was about to leave me she searched for excuses and went straight out with another guy (while she was still seeing me!). When that happened she was always agressive and looking down on me on each and every thing I did: she said "the other dude is more generous than you", "he has it bigger", blah blah. When the second girlfriend left me she said "I want someone more confident", "I don't like that you talk too much" and right after going to gender feminism subsidized courses she would simply vanish, tell me I had no empathy for her and that I didn't empathize with the situation of women: I was also super supportive of her but, still, she created in her own mind an alternate unrealistic reality: another example of women's solipsism. Oh the classic one: "I want to be alone" but she went on to get to know several dudes that, according to her, they thought equally as I did.

Wedding vows don’t mean sh*t. Keep in mind her potential to leave you when you’re at your lowest. No marriages, no commitment, line up her replacement guaranteed there’s your replacement in her social media DMs

@generfeld

Жыл бұрын

I have seen this play out with my own eyes.

@sculptureshard377

10 ай бұрын

"To have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, until parted by death. This is my solemn vow." This is a vow made to and before God; it is Holy. How does a woman stand before God at judgment and give the excuse, "I wasn't happy, he lost his job, he got really sick, he didn't make enough money, I thought I could do better on the greener side of the fence."

@ThatSherylLafrance

9 ай бұрын

And men leave women when they feel like they made it. That's why I won't build any man. I need you to have a vision. I'm a help mate not a builder…

@Ur2ez4me81

9 ай бұрын

It’s true, it happened to me.

@Ur2ez4me81

9 ай бұрын

@@ThatSherylLafranceIt happens to men at a far greater rate.

this video made me think about the famous quote: "behind a great man there is always a great woman". I totaly believed it, but probably because back then, when women had traditional roles, this quote made somehow sense. Nowadays I realize that Rich's point of view is more accurate! Thanks!!!

My aunt and uncle were married for over 50 years. She nursed him until he died when he went senile. They don’t make women like that anymore.

@bashiruddinahmad408

4 ай бұрын

That's beautiful man..love that very rare indeed in today's time

@user-yw8qf8cc3t

21 күн бұрын

Nope. Basically all prosxtitute worldview

To sum it up, women care about one thing: themselves. Truth.

@kengaroo5170

Жыл бұрын

Narcissists.

@steveunderhill5935

3 ай бұрын

Me too.

@user-yw8qf8cc3t

21 күн бұрын

Psychos

@JohnnyB-Trading

15 күн бұрын

Exactly. Ok the US, they do not even care about their children usually.

I love learning new words from Rich.

Two of my best friends are married, one is an ATM to his wife supports her financially in everything and does not seem happy. My other buddy has strong presence bedroom and was in the brink of financial disaster, lost his job a year ago and had bad luck with upward mobility. I helped my second buddy get back in the workforce in a promising role and he revealed to me that his wife was getting frustrated with the financial stress and afraid she might leave him, I have a feeling I might have saved his marriage, had he not figured out his finances.

In 2008 went through the same thing lost my job, and she started looking for a better option

Women like things comfortable and consistently increasing. If a man hits tough times and they need to scale their lifestyle back, she feels she's being deprived of what she deserves and will find it elsewhere if she can no longer have it at home. It's far easier for a woman to go from a cottage to a castle than from a castle to a cottage. Men, on the other hand would live in a fridge box if they didn't have to impress or keep a woman.

@AthenaCannon

Жыл бұрын

Don’t do it for women. Do it for yourself. I like money, I like to be rich. I go out there to make money. I like beautiful homes. I buy a condo with good view and a bunch of fancy furniture and electronics. I like cars, I buy a premium car. That’s … that’s it.

@richardboran749

Жыл бұрын

Just bought a Tag Heuer formula 1.. (from tag direct buyer beware!) and about 1000$ in colognes.. Got sued frivolously for 11 out of 22 years now I’m having a blast.. Do it for yourself = 1000%

@scotttracy9333

Жыл бұрын

@Richard Boran Just $1000 ??? That's light weight my man. A few Bond 9s and you're at $1000 alone !!

@searcymasonry

Жыл бұрын

dude, are you ragging on my fridgebox ?

@Cahluvca

Жыл бұрын

Helpmeet vs nonhelpmeet....if you still have necessities and she acts funny/leaves, that man choose a nonhelpmeet

Even your own mom does not care about your struggles...maybe to a certain point and/or extent a mother may.

@Hyunx999

Жыл бұрын

No they don't

@brent4073

Жыл бұрын

This is my first winter alone after my divorce. Was really depressed and called my mom the other day saying I dont want to live in Wisconsin anymore because of the winters, she told me to just take the antidepressants again. So ya, even your own mom will not really care about your struggles.

@TheGalacticEmperorOfLabels

Жыл бұрын

My mother couldn't give a shit about my struggles. Doesn't even pretend. To be honest it doesn't bother me.

@DudeDesi07

Жыл бұрын

@@TheGalacticEmperorOfLabels the more you surrender to the existence of female nature the more stronger you are as a man and less likely to let any woman hurt you

@dh12.

Жыл бұрын

Step mother's care even less

If your girls idea of blowing off some steam is going to a club, she’s not blowing off some steam, she’s blowing some guy named Steve

Rich, damn….you hit the nail on the head with this post today! You touched on the core with this one if you know what I mean. Gents, once you’ve been down this road and are able to come back from it….you’ll NEVER see women the same way again even if you’re still married to one! 🤔🤨😏

Went to party come to find out something became a medical issue for myself. I had to leave. She made the choice to stay behind. This confused all of our friends.

@neoreign

Жыл бұрын

I'm not surprised. You set up the relationship in which YOU provide, time, energy, love, blah blah blah. It has to be set up from the beginning. I usually set it up so SHE does more, from the get go. I don't want to sound shady so I'll stop there but it is either her or me, that's what I learned. There is no 50/50, that's a feminist fallacy.

@tidasium1785

Жыл бұрын

@@neoreign your opinion is much appreciated thanks for the input

@georgeelder8415

Жыл бұрын

Now you know what and who she is...

@tidasium1785

Жыл бұрын

@@georgeelder8415 damn straight. It's moments like that, that makes you that much more focused on your oun goals.

@Gizziiusa

Жыл бұрын

partying > you. kick her to the curb...or better yet, use her up then kick her to the curb.

Male and female interactions are so interesting. These videos are really informative for me on the younger side, especially as a self-improvement KZreadr. The more I understand the necessity for these psychological interactions (regarding how it ties back to survival for both sexes, genders, etc), the more it makes complete sense. Thank you for this video, as always. 🙏🏽

@brent4073

Жыл бұрын

The sooner you recognize that we are evolved monkeys and women have rewritten the laws to allow them to act and get away with acting like a monkey, the better off you will be. Men are still held accountable for 100% of their actions other than the poor Chad and Tyrones that can have as many kids as they want without paying child support

@retrogamer82

Жыл бұрын

You’re lucky to have this knowledge as we older guys didn’t have this stuff 20 years ago

@acct4600

Жыл бұрын

none of women's b.s makes sense, but glad you're getting this info at your age as opposed to older. another great rp channel is the alpha manifesto. he gets deep into women's mind games & b.s, chris williamson, alexander grace, etc

When Poverty comes in at the Door, Love flies out at the Window... (German proverb)

There are 3 women in my life that I have a lot of experience with. My mother has stuck with my Dad for over 50 years when she had many reasons to leave him. My sister in law stuck with my brother when he had a stroke and is now the main bread winner. She's totally dedicated to him. I expected the same support from my wife when I was made redundant and started a business but it struggled to get off the ground for several years. Unfortunately she wasn't made of the same stuff and decided to leave me a year ago. I thought she was the odd one out, but it seems that it's actually my Mum and Sister in Law who are the rare exceptions and I had a very skewed view of women because of that experience. I should have been more aware of the risks than I was and I learned that lesson too late. Oh well, at least I know now! If there is a next time, I will be a lot more on my guard for this.

Women are fucking savages damn. Men have to be on their game. It's just crazy to me. 🤦🏾

@saltyabcdef3202

Жыл бұрын

Yep. Women are the pragmatic sex and men are expected to provide income and romance. Work too much and she's not getting enough romance. Work too little and she's not getting enough income. It's a balancing act on a razor's edge. If the balance is maintained there's still no guarantee that it will work.

This is so true. Women can be cruel. I gave up work, I earned £20k more than her, to look after our baby as too young for nursery so she could go back to her job that wasn't necessary as had a year of maternity leave. Fatal mistake. Fatal. The King is dead. Long live the woman.

@Rocket9944

Жыл бұрын

Big mistake

@garethwilliams4467

Жыл бұрын

similar to me. My wife lost respect when I couldn't hold down a job and stayed home to with my daughter. The divorce followed after about 7 years - wouldn't change that time with my daughter though.

@fidelcastro9579

Жыл бұрын

@@garethwilliams4467 Terrible shame. Sorry to hear that. Yes, that time together is worth the pain. 👍

Rich, you are completely right. I had a health issue I was struggling to get solved. I still maintained a good job, made money but I couldn’t sleep at night unless I kept a strict sleep schedule and it made me tired. I still took her out on good dates and kept performing to the best of my ability. She bounced when she expressed that she wanted someone who would stay up late and party with her and bc I went to bed at 10 pm it was interfering with the fun she wanted to have staying out until 2 pm. Well she stayed out late one night and slept with a Kevin from sales and I was devastated and found your book. I just ghosted her after a year without explanation. Anyways, I got the problem solved and returned to normal, started feeling like my old strong self and got my energy back. I even put on 20 lbs of muscle and I’m working hard to be the best me. I’m forever grateful for your advice. I had always been there for her but I had one issue and she left and slept with someone else. Women are not like us. What a joke and lack of loyalty. Good thing I didn’t have a baby with her or marry her. Now I’m spinning plates and I’ve broken the Oneitis which was terrible.

I've been running a fairly successful small biz for 17 years. Ive been married for 17 years. 3 wonderful kids... she is part of the biz for the past, maybe 12.... i was really into her.. biz was consuming me, and i could have handled it better but man, i felt that she left me hanging when things were bad... i equated it to her being my worst enemy... marrige is on the rocks, but i see she seems to want to settle.. i can't, i can't forget that i was left hanging... i probably need to grow up..

"women don't care about men's struggles they hang out at the finish line and they pick the winners"

@brianwaller7383

Жыл бұрын

And the winners get used up ran through psleeve lmao

@Bloodcurling

Жыл бұрын

KZread has subtitles, you're out of a job

@ludovico117

Жыл бұрын

@@Bloodcurling no way... Realy? Embittered.

@Socutensi

Жыл бұрын

How is this belief help you with having a good relationship? Yes, some women are like that. And some men are like that too. You dont want that kind of women. If you think that ALL women are like that, you will inevatably be unhappy. Because you'll attract that kind of women. Your belief system is the one that dominates your life. I used to believe that all men are pigs. Because my childhood was like that. My grandpa sexually abused me, my father was disrespectful to my mother and very weak man. Guess what kind of men I attracted? Abusing, disrespectful and weak. And I thought that ALL men are like that. Well I was so wrong. Then I had to do a lot of personal work to erase that belief and today I believe that men are wonderful beings. Kind, strong, respectful, etc. I dont hate men anymore and I dont blame them for everything that is wrong in my Life. I have a husband that is great and we are happy together. So be careful what this red pill content is trying to make you believe. Women are bad, they only love money, they are not as inteligent as men are, etc. The more you believe that, the less chance is that you'll get a good, suportive, clever, respectful woman.

@ludovico117

Жыл бұрын

@@Socutensi congratulations. But we are in a modern time. And there's so little women worth it. And those who worth are allready taken. For anything in a relationship you need resources, money. If the man does not has that, he will be rejected. Or would you be happy with your husband if he is poor? If he lose he's job?

Guys who don't work get no respect. Was working with a new, young co-worker who told me her boyfriend lost his job and doesn't want to find a new one. That piece of information was all I needed to know she was going to monkey branch and now she's on my rotation

@esteban1487

Жыл бұрын

No, you're on HER rotation. 🤣

@lanikinlywalker4596

Жыл бұрын

@@esteban1487 Touche ;)

@AcidicJO

Жыл бұрын

Be careful. Losers like that are often unstable. Hoes are not worth getting shot over.

@MilanElan

Жыл бұрын

Why should the man get any respect if he's a bum? Men don't have respect for bum women either. Man up or stay single.

@uclajd

Жыл бұрын

@@MilanElan Nah, men have to make themselves, women just have to exist. It isn't equal.

This is why we have to always be working on ourselves, especially if you have a quality woman. She will not be satisfied with complacency in you. She absolutely has to feel like you're her best option. Moreover, as she excels her expectations increase also. There are consequences to success. Human nature is deeper than modern ideology.

Sincerely, this has to do more with recent and posmodern times than anything else. I see a lot of old (or older, in the sense of other generations) couples where the husbands went through a lot of difficult times (remember, back then men were the supplier) and their wives remained loyal and supportive.

Steam is usually 6’2” and very muscular 😂

@starguy2718

Жыл бұрын

Steam: is that Chad's new nickname? 😄😄😄