WHY WE GOT MARRIED!?! || WHAT PEOPLE ASSUME ABOUT US!

Our marriage...Why we got married!?! Why did I marry you!?! The right and wrong reasons to get married! And...assumptions people make about us! It is quite interesting what people assume about us!

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  • @CrystalGrayArt
    @CrystalGrayArt4 жыл бұрын

    Very well said! Our nephew is a young, WM that dates young, BW and besides the hate that he gets from people, including some family members, because of his dating race choice, there is always the assumption that the female is with him for his money. That is NOT the case. His girlfriend is a beautiful black woman with a beautiful heart & they genuinely love each other & the fact that people think otherwise literally ticks me off to no end. Black women hold their own & don't need another race man's money to hold her up!! This world is never going to just accept that for some reason. Judging others is never going to stop & it sickens me to no end! Thank You for sharing so much on your channel! I'm going to pass along your channel to my nephew & his gf so they can learn & take advice from the two of you. I feel that you two can help them so much! Again, thank you so much for sharing your journey with us!

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    Well stated, Crystal!!! Thank you so much for your kind words of encouragement. I agree with everything you said. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. However, an opinion does not give anyone carte blanch to disrespect another human being. People can be very judgemental and be completely off the mark. And then there are people who are outright rude. They feel the urge to spew the ugliness and hate that lies deep within their hearts and souls, a true reflection of who they really are. God is love. Tell your nephew to be encouraged and to continue being a reflection of God. I'm sure he'll do just fine because he has a wise aunt in you. Live life the way God intended. Don't limit blessings based on man-made barriers. Thank you so much for taking this journey of life and love with us. Many blessings and much love to you and yours!

  • @miriamneal2086

    @miriamneal2086

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hey crystal my d- n- l is black and i love her like she my own. She's been in my family nearly 30 yrs, my husband and I knew our son from the time he was in kindergarten was drawn to black girls ! So we prepare our son for hatred and bigotry and the prejudices in this world! We have 4 beautiful grandchildren and more importantly they bring out the best in each other and in our family! So tell him to follow his heart for the heart is wiser!

  • @victoriacanty3022
    @victoriacanty30224 жыл бұрын

    You owe nobody nothing but to love them, you and Sam does not have to explain why y'all got married, if people are watching the channel they can see that y'all are in love with each other. God bless Mr and Mrs Sam Hamwiltref!

  • @TrustGodandDoGood
    @TrustGodandDoGood4 жыл бұрын

    Y’all really don’t need to explain anything to anyone. Thanks tho for your honesty!

  • @audreywashington5890
    @audreywashington58904 жыл бұрын

    EVERYONE DESERVES TO BE LOVED FOR REAL. IT DOES NOT MATTER WHAT COLOR HE IS. WOMEN ARE LOOKING FOR REAL MEN.

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely, Audrey!!!!!! Thank you!

  • @kevinmansell8746

    @kevinmansell8746

    2 жыл бұрын

    i am saving this to watch for later and Love has no color

  • @blambrax

    @blambrax

    Жыл бұрын

    @@kevinmansell8746 You must have heard that Beautiful song from the Great Billy Ocean. "what is the color of Love" if you haven't, you should give it a listen, it's on youtube.

  • @kimmcrae-bowens9971
    @kimmcrae-bowens99714 жыл бұрын

    Don't feel bad to block those who are not respectful on your channel.

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hey, Kim! Nice to see you! I just wish people weren't so hateful. I wish some people would learn how to express themselves without so much anger and hate. But I've learned over time to just delete them. Have a blessed week, Kim! Much love!

  • @kimmcrae-bowens9971

    @kimmcrae-bowens9971

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Hamwiltref Some people may not have had the proper upbringing to make them sensitive to others around them and life .so they learn to be negative about everything that doesn't suit them even if it has nothing to do with them. unfortunately if they're not taught you can't help them they're stuck in their ways, so block them and enjoy your life.

  • @pamellabell24

    @pamellabell24

    2 жыл бұрын

    Love this family. 🙂

  • @christines5430
    @christines54304 жыл бұрын

    People will make assumptions because their hearts are calloused. They cannot look at a lovely, happy couple like you and think the best, that you love each other. May the Lord continue to bless your marriage and your family. You are a beautiful example of God bringing two people together under Him to love and cherish each other.

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Christine! All the Glory to God. Yes, I agree with you. I believe these assumptions come from a certain mindset, and heart that does not reflect God's love. Continued blessings, fam!! Much love!🥰

  • @christines5430

    @christines5430

    4 жыл бұрын

  • @warriorwoman1719
    @warriorwoman17194 жыл бұрын

    I appreciate how you both came on and explained your reasons for getting married. I have followed your channel for some time, so I knew that the reason for your both being married was because you love each other. Stevie Wonder can see it! Mr. Sam is so funny, genuine and sweet. You are kind,funny, and assertive . Whenever I have time, I watch your channel. It’s so uplifting and funny. Keep producing the nice content😊👍🏾

  • @miriamneal2086
    @miriamneal20864 жыл бұрын

    Janetta and Sam you guys hit the nail right on the head! I love you guys and your beautiful family! The world is full of hateful people. Always follow your heart it's wiser!

  • @cheryllucas638
    @cheryllucas6384 жыл бұрын

    I love your story. You both are beautiful. I'm newly divorced after 19 years, 11 months and 2 days and I'm not sure if I will ever get married again. Right now, I don't think marriage is for me but even though marriage is not for me anymore; I love seeing how you both display what a healthy marriage looks like. When I watch your channel, it really puts me in a head space where I began thinking I could really do this again only if... Don't tell anyone, that's our secret. Lol. I like seeing you both spending time together, interacting with the kids. Heck sometimes, I wish I could be there and join in all of the fun. My son is about to graduate and leave for college in the fall and then I'll be alone. Watching your family makes me wish I had more kids, a large family. Anyways, I'm a fan. Take care.

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wow, 19 years! I am so sorry to hear about your divorce. Don't be discourage. God is good all the time. Allow Him to guide you. He will never steer you wrong. I thought I would never love again either. After my late husband passed away, I felt broken. But God had other plans. Don't give up girl! God's got you. Praying that God restores your heart 10 fold. Another thing, you are never a fan, you are family Cheryl. It sounds like you've done an awesome job with your son going off to college soon. A new chapter for all parties involved. Let's write a good one. Call it into existence. Thank you for opening your heart to our family and for taking this journey with us, fam! Many blessings and much love!🥰

  • @tandrajohnson7130

    @tandrajohnson7130

    Жыл бұрын

    I was also divorced after 19 years of marriage. My divorce was final on our 20th anniversary. But the Lord brought me something better! So hang in there my sister.

  • @yarekim5932
    @yarekim59324 жыл бұрын

    It always seems odd when I hear the crazy stuff about why BW marry WM . How can they assume they don't just love each other ? Many people marry for better , but not for worse . Tough times happen , bad economies , health issues , pressures of life . How's Sam's shoulder doing ?

  • @donaldvincent
    @donaldvincent4 жыл бұрын

    I am one half of a mixed couple. We have been married for over twenty years. The only way to be happy after so long is to love each other.

  • @malirabbit6228
    @malirabbit62283 жыл бұрын

    I just found your channel. I have subscribed. You guys rock! Live long and prosper, y’all!

  • @jstewart7037
    @jstewart70373 жыл бұрын

    You both said it well, people need to keep there nasty comments to themselves no one asked for their opinions you guys are a great and blessed family and we your loyal subscribers love and respect you both and your family.

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hey J! Some people can be so cruel. When we see you here, it is a pleasure. You are always spreading love. We appreciate you. Much love, fam! 🤗

  • @shabrettefreeman6370
    @shabrettefreeman63704 жыл бұрын

    I love you guys and the chemistry that you have. We know ignorance is real.

  • @kennethw7831
    @kennethw78314 жыл бұрын

    You both are an excellent example of a loving couple/family period. Love is love and never settle because of age race or anything else. Thanks for your insight good talk. Enjoy your week✌

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hi, K Wilson!!! Thank you! I agree. People should live life as it is ordained by God. God is love. Some people miss out on blessings because of man-made limitations. Enjoy the rest of your week as well. Many blessings and much love! 🥰

  • @myrawade6581
    @myrawade65814 жыл бұрын

    Saying hello to the Hamwiltref family that I have great love and respect for, sometimes it's jealous and envy causes some people to say mean things about others. GOD BLESS YOUR UNION KEEP THE SPARK BURNING.

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Myra!!! I wish some people would exhibit a little tact and learn how to express their opinions in a respectful manner. Some people just love to spew the ugliness and hate that is within their own hearts and soul, a true reflection of who they are inside. God bless you and much love! 🥰

  • @pamelaclarke4625
    @pamelaclarke46254 жыл бұрын

    Lovely family,when I watch your video I can see how much you both love each other and Sam says the sweetest thing to you and blush that is nice to see.God bless

  • @deem9532
    @deem95324 жыл бұрын

    Fairly new to your channel but what I see seems like true love. The way you look at each other & interact seems like the real deal but why should you even have to address this issue. It's freaking 2020...get a life naysayers!!! If you don't like what you see then don't tune in! May God continue to bless you & your large beautiful blended family!

  • @anastasiast.pierre188
    @anastasiast.pierre1882 жыл бұрын

    You don't have to justify the reasons for your marriage to anyone. Always remember that. I have just come across your site. In the eyes of God your marriage and family is blessed and beautiful. I can see and say that as a woman currently going through a divorce. Hold on to your love.💖❤💖. Stay blessed. You give me hope of true love💖

  • @lovelight4388
    @lovelight43884 жыл бұрын

    I can clearly see that you really love one another. You have an unusual gorgeous big family and that's why it is so enjoyable to watch you.May God Bless you over abundantly 2020

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Love Light!!! Many blessings and much love!!!! 🥰

  • @kaywebbwilson7435
    @kaywebbwilson74354 жыл бұрын

    I think it is so rude to make nasty comments about personal things like telling you to get your tubes tied. You have a good man and you are a good woman and you are married and you can have as many babies as God blesses you to have! I pray you and your family continually be blessed!

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hi, Kay! I agree it is very rude to make nasty comments. I actually didn't mind her saying I should that I should get my tubes tied if that is her opinion. I was more concerned with the way she presented it. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but that does not give anyone carte blanche to disrespect another human being. This particular person used foul language and called me out of my name. It is very disturbing when someone feels the need to be hateful, use foul language, and resort to name-calling to express their viewpoint. I wish some people would learn how to communicate with less anger and hate. Some people feel the urge to spew the ugliness and hate that lies deep within their hearts and souls. That goes far beyond just expressing an opinion. It is a direct reflection of who they really are. Thank you for your kind words of encouragement. It means a lot to us. Much love!

  • @rosesrforever6198
    @rosesrforever61984 жыл бұрын

    So glad you both explained to the nay Sayers about your decision to marry and it's all for the right reasons (for love). You have a beautiful family.😊🌹🌹.

  • @donnaowens3023
    @donnaowens30234 жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ you both,🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 for you both,and your family.If God is for you who can be against you?The Word says whom God joined together no man can put you apart.You are genuine.

  • @dianewatson4006
    @dianewatson40064 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your love story with us. It was beautiful. I pray that people seek God for understanding before they make ugly remarks to others.

  • @jackiehazel1250
    @jackiehazel12504 жыл бұрын

    You guys have a true genuine love, it's so obvious, Stay Blessed! 👏 👏

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nice to see you, Jackie!! God bless! 🥰

  • @wendcooper2160
    @wendcooper21604 жыл бұрын

    Amen..I like this..you guys are wonderful..we all have ups and downs in relationships..some people are very very opinionated in the wrong way..keep on keeping on..loving each other mm

  • @jaybro3946
    @jaybro39464 жыл бұрын

    I think you 2 are dope. I just found this channel today and I think it's really cool. Especially the Caribbean cooking. And family is everything as I'm now starting to realize.

  • @rosettadenton2876
    @rosettadenton28764 жыл бұрын

    So wonderful.I love you guys. Keep living and enjoy life.

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for opening your heart to our family! Love you, Rosetta!!! 🥰

  • @brena338
    @brena3384 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing. I love your family. I think you two are awesome and your love truly shows. I look forward to more. Bless you.

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you family!!! Much love from all of us! 🥰

  • @lavernb26
    @lavernb264 жыл бұрын

    Ya'll have to do what pleases you both and take no one on, I see the love and may God's presence continue to guide your family 🙌

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, lavernb26! God bless you always! 🥰

  • @1lahlah
    @1lahlah4 жыл бұрын

    I ran across your channel yesterday and fell in love with your Beautiful family. Your home is so elegant. Thanks for sharing ❤️🌹🌹❤️☀️🌈

  • @anthonyhanson9
    @anthonyhanson94 жыл бұрын

    i personally feel that you two are a very lovely couple keep the love flowing

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Anthony! Many blessings to you and yours! 💞

  • @jannislewis13
    @jannislewis134 жыл бұрын

    I know that both of you have good values. Just enjoy your blessings. 😍🎆

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    Much love from all of us, Jannis! 💞

  • @busagyrl8109
    @busagyrl81094 жыл бұрын

    I love your channel and I appreciate your family videos. Continue to be genuine and have a blessed year

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Kim! We appreciate your continued support. Many blessings to you and yours. Much love.

  • @omargrey951
    @omargrey9512 жыл бұрын

    You’re both so loving towards each other.... the world needs more God loving families ! ❤️👍🏽❤️🙌🏽

  • @mikem957
    @mikem9574 жыл бұрын

    Beautifully well put! You are both beautiful souls and I love your personalities and how you are respectful and how you look at each other. That's LOVE! 💟👍👍 To those who are rude and disrespectful to you, they are just jealous of what the two of you have and wish that they had that in their own lives.

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hi, Mike!!! It is always nice to see you stopped by. Thank you for your kind words of encouragement. It speaks volumes to who you are as a person. Much love!

  • @mikem957

    @mikem957

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Hamwiltref Thank you! 😀

  • @sandyc.117
    @sandyc.1174 жыл бұрын

    You guys are such a beautiful couple, love is love. 💕

  • @lenorapeoples4543
    @lenorapeoples45434 жыл бұрын

    I love your channel. You two are a beautiful couple. Thanks for sharing.

  • @evelynwright4936
    @evelynwright49364 жыл бұрын

    Keep loving one another...you are very blessed💜

  • @cluster5116
    @cluster51162 жыл бұрын

    B i G honesty, B i G Big LoVe continue the patience and the passion. Both of you believe it was God's doing.

  • @jfinner86
    @jfinner863 жыл бұрын

    I came across Your family channel by mistake...You all would be the 5th mixed couple on You Tube I'm subscribed to....happy to see you all...My parents are an interracial couple who married when that was very critical in society, yet they survived all these years Still, my father escaped from Hungary when Hitler took over and my Mother was born into a Mid- Class A.A family when that was exceptional for those times... Love the Love...it's the Family gatherings for me...🥰💯

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    3 жыл бұрын

    Awww...thank you so much, Jill! Thanks for sharing your family background with us. Great story of love!!! Welcome to our family. Many blessings and much love from all of us! 🤗

  • @maureenlyken-edwards344
    @maureenlyken-edwards3442 жыл бұрын

    You guys are a beautiful couple, those who are disrespectful should definitely be deleted, you have no time for hate, I support you guys 100%! All of your children are so beautiful btw

  • @jackiedennis23
    @jackiedennis234 жыл бұрын

    Sister dont ever worry about what people assume. I'm a black christian lady and my husband died in 2014 and I tell you I would marry outside my race in a lickety split if he is a man of God. The word of God teaches that marriage is honorable among all and the bed undefined Hebrew 13:4. Brother Moses can testify to this. And I wouldn't care what people say. I love your and Sam's marriage God bless you. I'm glad you two love each other. Blessing to you both

  • @lisareed-stepney3206
    @lisareed-stepney32064 жыл бұрын

    I say keep doing what your doing you have a beautiful family and no one that brings negativity in your space should be allowed

  • @betsyhinson9754
    @betsyhinson97544 жыл бұрын

    Thank you guys for sharing , well said

  • @wen-a8703
    @wen-a87034 жыл бұрын

    Hey guys! This was a beautiful video. I agree with u about the hurtful comments, some people dislike seeing other people happy. I'm sorry someone was that mean to say those things to u, who knows maybe that person can't have children and tried to hurt your feelings, but nevertheless your life is yours to live the way u choose to live it. I love the way u handled it. I want to respectfully say also, and forgive me for being this long. I'm so happy u guys did not use the words "interracial" and "biracial" boy how I dislike those words, I hear it so much from mixed couples. If we look at those words carefully what other word is there in the mist? Why use them and especially by black people? they need to be thrown in the garbage! I loved your choice of word "mixed" that's what it is and always would be, I wish others will follow suite. Thank u, your love for each other shows, and have as many babies as your body will allow u too. Love, Muah!

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your kind words of encouragement, Wen-A! Many blessings and much love!!!!🥰

  • @wen-a8703

    @wen-a8703

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Hamwiltref You're welcome! 🥰

  • @tamarawilliams6311
    @tamarawilliams63114 жыл бұрын

    THE LOVE IS GENUINE!!!

  • @evelynwright4936
    @evelynwright49363 жыл бұрын

    I love the two you together. I love your love. I love your family as well. You are such a beautiful and realistic loving family. So...What do I love more? Your Christmas decorations💜

  • @dianaevans5047
    @dianaevans50473 жыл бұрын

    Truly appreciate your openness and honesty, I feel the same about relationships, and marriage. Race is not a problem to God or me,,i believe your attitude in life and about God is amazing, God bless you all. My family is also mixed. So i know the blessings you have in your lives. I love my beautiful children and God. I have 6 children 5 girls and 1 boy. All grown now, ages is 50, 47,45,42,39,37. All married and have children of their own. And i have 29 grandson and 9 great grand children. They are all amazing. I did want more children also, but did go through menopause early in life started at 31. I am very happy with my 6 children and all was taught to respect themselves and others and their elders. They have the heart of God and for God, we are a big family and we love it that way, the more the merrier.God has greatly blessed in many ways, and we are very thankful every day. Hope the best to you all. Your love is strong and that is what it takes to hold a family together for Jesus. God bless and keep you. Take care love youse.

  • @earthangel1564
    @earthangel15644 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing beautiful family😊 God Bless ❤

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for being a part of our family, Edith! Many blessings and much love! 🥰

  • @jacalynwilliams5972
    @jacalynwilliams59724 жыл бұрын

    When we do it God's way will never fail we might not understand it all every time but if we follow God it'll all work out we have trust that he knows best

  • @sharonbutler83
    @sharonbutler834 жыл бұрын

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾bravo u 2! I'm sooo glad u chose the hi road Jaretta & deleted that offensive comment! Those ppl who chose 2 leave ugly comments r more than likely jealous of the beautiful love & family u 2 have, or they r just out rite lonely- miserable nut cases who need a str8 jacket & medication!😠 I love 2 see ur pure love & admiration of eachother. Its a physical testament if what God can grow a relationship n 2. I am so gr8ful He lead u two 2 create this channel. Proof that love WILL prevail regardless of color!!!😁😁😁 Love u guys 2 the moon & back. Haters can go kick rocks!😌

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hi Sharon!! I smiled all the way through your comment. Very well stated. You are a blessing! Thank you for opening your heart to our family and showing love. God is love. Many blessings and much love!! 🥰

  • @carolinepoll643
    @carolinepoll6434 жыл бұрын

    Mom dad you are so very 2x Eunice, and very special to me! I LOVE YOU BOTH SO MUCH ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ OUR GOD IS HONORED, AND GLORIFY THROUGH YOU. there is a song I used to lesten to, and title is the ink is black, the pach is white. That tells me to just look at my hair, and look into the mirror, people don't have any idea how good you are.

  • @deborahanderson9363
    @deborahanderson93634 жыл бұрын

    Awwwww, How wonderful yr marriage is. I miss being married. I married yung age. High school byfrnd. But now, I'm a widow. I'm very happy for you two. I always think of a Christian date site. Hope it works-out, for me. My late hubby & other byfrnds, went to church wth me. Pray for me...I will always subscribe yr channel. Love y'all😍💘

  • @irayah01
    @irayah014 жыл бұрын

    I love this video cuz!

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    We truly appreciate your love and support, cuz!! Many blessings and much love!!!! 😘

  • @alisonallison808
    @alisonallison8084 жыл бұрын

    Hi you two happy New year , I don't assume anything I know that you love each other , here in your home land we have a saying if you have nothing good to say shut up , don't give life to negativeity , a three fold cord is not easy broken that is you your husband and God , please stay covered under the blood of Jesus Christ , hugs , kisses and lots of love 🙏🙏💯🧡

  • @shelley-annb930
    @shelley-annb9304 жыл бұрын

    Happy New Year to you and your family. Blessings flow!

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Shelley-Ann! Many blessings to you and yours in this new year and beyond! 🥰

  • @shelley-annb930

    @shelley-annb930

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Hamwiltref Thank you so much

  • @dst1667
    @dst16674 жыл бұрын

    Love your videos!💙

  • @janicedfrancis8433
    @janicedfrancis84334 жыл бұрын

    I just love watching your family. Don't stay so long to post another.

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for opening your heart to our family, Janice! I will try to do better. I appreciate your patience and continued support. Many blessings and much love!

  • @jackiebrown3360
    @jackiebrown33604 жыл бұрын

    I’m just glad that you found each other 😂

  • @virgylleu101
    @virgylleu1014 жыл бұрын

    Hi jeretta and Sam happy new year to youll. There is a lot of love in your family.jeretta I admire you and your sweet family the children are very respectful and I love that.be blessed

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Virginia, for opening your heart to our family! Many blessings and much love!!!🥰

  • @sexymariett
    @sexymariett4 жыл бұрын

    Keep loving each other, God Bless 🙏 your KZread family love you guys🤗

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    We love you, T Thomas!!! Continued blessings! 🥰

  • @marynghumbu8437
    @marynghumbu84374 жыл бұрын

    You guys love each other stay blessed, love you 🥰

  • @lindab4289
    @lindab42894 жыл бұрын

    Hello Mr. And mrs hamtrief congratulate on your years together. I hope and pray God sends me a man that love me and God .because l do date out of my rich but it been a long time keep up the good work be bless pebbles of Washington dc.

  • @dalecarver7415
    @dalecarver74154 жыл бұрын

    My favorite couple! It is an honor to call you friends and I hope you feel the same. I agree with you in the fact that some people may pick romance as a reason for marriage. A couple truly needs to work through the process of learning about each other. Also use much,prayer,. Again from the Florida west coast we say love you both. ❤️

  • @goodday2274
    @goodday22744 жыл бұрын

    You both are a Beautiful couple who love each other and are meant to be together. God Bless y’all 😇

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Famof3!!! God bless you and yours!!!! 🥰

  • @DVineInspirationsByMartha
    @DVineInspirationsByMartha4 жыл бұрын

    Hi friends. You are a lovely couple. I enjoyed the video. Life is full of ups and downs. It is also too short to entertain ignorance. You are loved by God. I love you too. Thanks so much for sharing. Enjoy your week. ~Hugs 🕊🌹🕊

  • @marycrawley7298
    @marycrawley72982 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful Family!

  • @curlygurl43
    @curlygurl434 жыл бұрын

    Oh Lord! Let these beautiful people have alllllllll the chirren they want! They obviously can take care of them, so what do you care! Ms J or G, sorry I don’t know how to spell your name, do you like I know you are going to do. Your family is beautiful, the children are so sweet, your hubby is so chill- it amazes me! But people get on my nerves with those assumptions about why BW marry WM. There’s so much inner racial discrimination also, it gets one n my nerves. I’m too light, I’m not really black, I’m mixed, I never had no real problems! Pa-leeze! Walk a day in other peoples shoes and you’ll see the struggle is real for us all, maybe different but we all have issues. Be kind to others and lift each other up, why bash this beautiful couple because they’re a interracial couple. Whew! Thanks for letting me vent. So now, I’d like to know what does the morning look like in your home getting all the kids ready for school, or even the nighttime routine? Ooh chile I struggled with 2 girls! Share your secrets! Love the channel and God Bless!!

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hi, curlygurl43! It's J. Lol. I hear you. You have expressed my sentiments exactly. Thanks for venting for me!!! It's not so much the opinion, but the delivery, the foul language, and hate. Some people just like to spew the hate deep in their hearts and souls. Routine, routine...Lol! We kind of go with the flow. At bedtime, the kids usually follow my lead. When momma moves, everybody moves. Sam is the primary cook in the house. So, that's a major help!!! I homeschool most of the kids. So, we are not really bound to strict timeframes/schedules. We get it in, but we have flexibility. For example, we started school late this morning because we have 3 sick kids in the house. My two eldest help out a lot. They take Kaitlyn and Jordon to school. I allowed Kaitlyn and Jordan to try brick and mortar school this year since they are in high school and wanted to try the social life in a school setting. This week has been hectic because my two eldest are in Paris, France this week. So Sam and I are doing a whole lot more running around this week than we usually do. Minute by minute, things can change drastically in this house. Like today, running around all morning with doctor appointments, filling prescriptions, administering medicine, cleaning vomit, etc...Some days are busier and crazier than others, but we manage to pull it all together somehow. Somehow people don't see the frenzy, but I do. I'd describe our routine as organized chaos. I should really do a video on it. 😂Sam says I downplay my parenting skills because he is impressed. So, the inner turmoil might just be me and my relentless drive to be a perfectionist. Well, Sam is a perfectionist too. So, together as a family, we make it work. Continued blessings to you and yours!!! 🥰

  • @crystalogden1954
    @crystalogden19544 жыл бұрын

    Forget what the naysayers say.. y'all are a beautiful couple whom I admire because I can see true everlasting love between you two and I pray and hope one day I'll meet my true love 💯

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, for your kind words of encouragement, Crystal!! I pray that God blesses you with all your heart's desires. Many blessings and much love!!! 🥰

  • @andreajackson5943
    @andreajackson59434 жыл бұрын

    LMBO!!! Sam is hilarious.... 😂😂 You can say ghetto Sam!

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    🤣

  • @bettyredmond7474
    @bettyredmond74742 жыл бұрын

    I can see why you two are married. I love the atmosphere you two have. Just a beautiful couple that have well behaved children. I would get married in a heart beat if I can have what you two have White or Black. I dont see any color. Love you Sam. Love you Jarretta. GOD is the answer 🙏

  • @dolphinsbluesky4257
    @dolphinsbluesky42574 жыл бұрын

    I'm sorry of topic but watching your husband cooking that stew chicken I HAD TO SUBSCRIBE LOVE YOUR CHANNEL I'M CURRENTLY BINGE WATCHING YOUR CHANNEL STAY BLESSED MY NEW FAMILY 😊😊😊😊😊😊

  • @Dollsfromlondon
    @Dollsfromlondon4 жыл бұрын

    BEAUTIFUL FAMILY💕

  • @daretobedifferentministriesabq
    @daretobedifferentministriesabq3 жыл бұрын

    People are ignorant you are a beautiful and loving couple a good example for other married couples

  • @stephencrisdale9693
    @stephencrisdale96934 жыл бұрын

    The power of attraction knows no man made rule or guideline. Scientists on the one hand and psychologists on the other are still trying to understand the principles behind what makes something (or someone) attract something (or someone) else. Not only did the power of attraction bring you together, it has clearly strengthened the bond between you both as your appreciation and love for each other has deepened with each and every step of your married life together. Your commitment to upholding the vows you've made to each other, because of the love you have for each other is something all people, irrespective of their 'superficial' outward appearance, gender or beliefs, should perhaps notice and appreciate... Reality; however, shows that there's always going to be someone who just has to be the one who either deliberately has to "put something down" or truly just "doesn't get it". I guess it wouldn't be the human race if we all agreed on something... 🙄😯😏😁🙂

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Stephen!! We truly appreciate your input. It was perfectly stated, logical, and somewhat poetic. I honestly don't have a problem with opposing views. It is in the delivery where I find fault. I wish some people would learn how to communicate with less anger and hate. It doesn't hurt to exhibit some tact. It is unnecessary to express a point of view in a disrespectful manner. However, some people feel the urge to spew the ugliness and hate that lies deep within their hearts and souls. That goes far beyond just expressing an opposing point of view. It speaks volumes to who the author is. Thank you for sharing your pleasant heart and soul. It was an enjoyable read. God bless!

  • @juliannahguillaume8360
    @juliannahguillaume83604 жыл бұрын

    Guys, I love your love and the family is wonderful. However, bring the kids on a little more and do other things while you both have chats. You know, pick it up a little...lolol 😀😀🧡

  • @ceegabe1555
    @ceegabe15552 жыл бұрын

    When you get a compliment, be grateful, smile but don't make them take it back or try to prove them wrong... How do I know? I do those things but I'm growing. 😊

  • @rosemarienarcisse4756
    @rosemarienarcisse47564 жыл бұрын

    You are a lovely couple with wonderful family. 🙏🏽❤️🌻

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Rosemarie!!! God bless your kind heart! Much love! 😘

  • @pernellapollard1202
    @pernellapollard12023 жыл бұрын

    I am a Barbadian living in Canada and my husband was from Alberta.I had never experience such ridiculous remarks like u guys. We were a pea in a pod.living in our own world. We were engage with each other. I was 20 years younger than my husband we both had professional job.He was the love 💘 of my wife.We had more good times than bad time..He had three previous children and I had one. And we had one daughter.we became one when we say " I do until death " He past on. We had fund until the end. My husband was Mormon faith and I am a born again. We had excellent communication and lots of good qualities.I could go on and one. I guest in America people think differently. I never had any problems in our faces throughout our 💑. God has be good to us.stay in Christ,trust in Him and believe in his words. He makes all thing perfect.My husband and I had a strong attraction and I can see that in both of you. Stay save and may The Almighty God continue to bless your home, marriage a your children. It doesn't matter what people say. Just keep the fire 🔥 burning, keep your love for each other fresh in the bad times and the good times.

  • @yourcupoftea5066
    @yourcupoftea50664 жыл бұрын

    💗 blessings

  • @reneeshaw6587
    @reneeshaw65874 жыл бұрын

    I don't understand why anyone would say negative about y'all, because y'all are so positive. The whole family is so nice

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Renee! Many blessings!

  • @lucretiawatts-ug8xh
    @lucretiawatts-ug8xh Жыл бұрын

    Love your beautiful blended family

  • @gaynellfraser349
    @gaynellfraser3492 жыл бұрын

    Great love y'all

  • @mossomosso5991
    @mossomosso59914 жыл бұрын

    I just love this Family ❤️

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    And we love you, Tammy!! Thanks for all the love!!🥰

  • @maxinegivans6683
    @maxinegivans66834 жыл бұрын

    Everyone is entitled to there opinions but some things are for the kitchen talk I believe age is a number I see true love right here continue to be an example to others thanks for sharing.👍

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hi, Maxine! Thank you for your kind words. I agree with you. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but that does not give anyone carte blanche to disrespect another human being. I honestly don't have a problem with opposing views. The problem is in the delivery. It is very disturbing when someone feels the need to be hateful, use foul language, and resort to name-calling to express their viewpoint. I wish some people would learn how to communicate with less anger and hate. Many blessings and much love!!! 🥰

  • @maxinegivans6683

    @maxinegivans6683

    4 жыл бұрын

    Your welcome 👏

  • @margaretvillafana1031
    @margaretvillafana10314 жыл бұрын

    To my u tube family happy new year all the best to you and family what god bless together stayed together lov u guys may God continues blessing u and family from Trinidad and.Tobago lvu blessing

  • @shirleyfretty487
    @shirleyfretty4874 жыл бұрын

    I see true love between you two!!!!!

  • @ywanajackson465
    @ywanajackson4652 жыл бұрын

    Hello i think you and sam are a beautiful and amazing couple, do not worry about what people may say they are jealous

  • @maydine1
    @maydine12 жыл бұрын

    God bless you guys

  • @theresaforte2202
    @theresaforte22024 жыл бұрын

    Amen! Very well said....

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for stopping by and spending this time with us, Theresa!! Many blessings to you and yours!

  • @jillbutler45
    @jillbutler454 жыл бұрын

    Sam that is okay because you are saying what people think. People marry for love no matter what race or age they are.

  • @warriorwoman1719
    @warriorwoman17194 жыл бұрын

    BTW, there is a ministry called the “Block Ministry.” In 2020, I hope you guys become very familiar with this ministry; as it allows you to block nasty comments. Stay encouraged!😊

  • @CarolAnnCulbertJohnson
    @CarolAnnCulbertJohnson2 жыл бұрын

    Amen!

  • @dymplzdeep307
    @dymplzdeep3072 жыл бұрын

    I absolutely love u & ur family. Ur very positive & u kir. U have avery beautiful family. I can feel all of the love between both of u. The heart loves who it loves eg iiwii. Keep doing what u do pls

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Dymplz! You are so kind. Warm holiday wishes and cheer from our family to yours. 🤗

  • @armondchappelle2664
    @armondchappelle26644 жыл бұрын

    Hi Well I just finished work And i was listening well to both of you ,,liked what was said ,,my question tonight to both of you is what do you feel is the key To A good marriage? And do you pray with one another as we are not perfect ,,yes we love another ,,which is good ,,we have some things in common like how I met my wife online ,,it continued through text and then later a number and so on ,,it did help that she lived here and not abroad ,,,I kind of wish you lived in Canada so we could be friends ..as my wife said the other night too me she wishes she had a mentor,,we both work hard ,,one year anniversary has passed Recently and I can say we made a good choice to get married ,,but I was not in a rush,,because I was married before and I did not work for me For different reasons,, Sam seem really nice too me and I wondered what kind of work he is doing and yourself ,, But I will stay within my limit here as God is watching me here,,,,in my heart I could not let her get away. Thank you

  • @jacalynwilliams5972
    @jacalynwilliams59724 жыл бұрын

    Don't even worry about what people say because one thing the Bible says every man has to give in account for the wrong he does so you continue to do what you do when you love your kids your husband continue to love God most of all and be blessed

  • @tomsz2881
    @tomsz28813 жыл бұрын

    Love doesn't see color love who you love and forget the rest

  • @bybybaby2128
    @bybybaby21284 жыл бұрын

    May GOD continue to shower his blessings upon you both/ family is my prayer for years to come. What GOD has joined together no man can separate. Love this video💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗😃🙏🙏👍

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    Amen!!! Thank you, Annette! Many blessings to you and yours!🥰

  • @bybybaby2128

    @bybybaby2128

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Hamwiltref you're welcome my sis and brother in Christ. One day maybe i can share my love story with you both, because this is very encouraging to me.all in the Father's timing.😃

  • @Hamwiltref

    @Hamwiltref

    4 жыл бұрын

    That would be nice, Annette! I love a good love story, especially the ones with happy endings that glorify God. Thank you for opening your heart to our family. God is love. Many blessings to you! 🥰

  • @bybybaby2128

    @bybybaby2128

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Hamwiltref Thank You!!!!😃💗💗💗

  • @deloreshare7735
    @deloreshare77354 жыл бұрын

    People like to make assumptions. You both know why you got married and that’s all that matters.