This is such an honest video to make, this must have been hard to make, but it shows a real level of maturity, genuinely actually quite proud of you xxxxx

Nobody will ever be disappointed with a mother putting her kids and family first.

@carpenterfamilyfun1119

3 жыл бұрын

@@catworld8119 that’s what the delete button is for🤣 goodbye!

@DW-md5gr

3 жыл бұрын

@@catworld8119 I suppose you have the same attitude towards a mother who'd pay for the slaughter of humans for consumption because their kid wanted a wee bit of cake?

@MS-ib8xu

3 жыл бұрын

That really is the problem of the world... the Nazi's put their children ahead of Jewish children, so they engaged in the holocaust. This lady is "putting her children first" and paying for someone to slaughter millions of baby chicks. Do you have any idea how bad your argument is? Putting your children first doesn't mean setting them up to conform in society. It means teaching them morally right and morally wrong things. It is that easy.

@carpenterfamilyfun1119

3 жыл бұрын

@@MS-ib8xu 🤣🤣🤣🤣 bless your heart😂

@Daz19

3 жыл бұрын

@@MS-ib8xu well said

We are a vegan family and I can tell you that we aren’t disappointed in you at all. You have to do what’s right for you. We don’t watch you because of what you eat, that was just a lovely bonus after discovering you. It doesn’t mean we won’t watch you any more as we love your family and the way you gently parent your children. Please don’t feel guilt xx

@alisoncameron4937

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, another vegan family here. Our son is 15 now and gently struggling with being the only vegan (or even vegetarian) in his group of friends. He talks with us and we support him with any decision he makes. He a strong ethical vegan and hates that he struggles with iit at times. But he knows we will love and support him and will not judge him in anyway if he decides he can't be vegan anymore. Its hard to be vegan in a omni world.

@cheekygrin6258

3 жыл бұрын

We're a vegan family as well, my kids are so active and smart and luckily they don't feel left out because we have suppotive friends and family who also enjoy plant based food although not vegan necessarily and we make it work so everyone is happy. We also have some very health conscious vegan friends with kids and friends with gluten intolerance, friends that prioritize organic and we all find a common ground and are respectful of one another, but I've heard so many times that some vegans are not as supported or respected and it makes them feel like a burden to others so it makes sense that not every family will be able to stay vegan especially with many kids. Love to all of you❤

@amanda.jaynee5716

3 жыл бұрын

I’m vegan / vegetarian if there are vegan options Great if not I choose vegetarian

@bigbaldin

3 жыл бұрын

She should feel guilt though. It's not really hard to be vegan and those problems she described are not a good reason to "leave veganism". It's obviously better then 9/10 other people who don't care that much (or not at all), but she was already vegan - therefore she knows that consuming a few animal products here and there means a few animals suffer for no reason here and there

@Daz19

3 жыл бұрын

How is it decided what is right for another? There's many things others do, that as society we feel justified in condemning. It seems to justify what we do, one must have good reasons. Now I sympathise but I don't think her reasons were good reasons. It's kind of first world problems if I'm honest. Of course in an omni society there's going to be peer pressure and the odd missing out on sensory pleasures were vegans are not accommodated for, but is that good reason to fund exploitive animal agricultural practices? We know the harm and suffering they cause, to the animals and the environment. Sometime we should feel guilty, there's a reason we've evolved that emotion, it's to dissuade and create regret for choices that are harmful. If your children are not ethically vegan then what they choose to eat out of the house is up to them. If they are ethically vegan, then we should support and encourage them in that, not condone or advocate they participate in the norms and mores of animals exfoliation and murder. There's already a majority of people encouraging that behaviour.

A lot of people forget the part of the definition of veganism that says "as far as is practical and possible." At home we do vegan, but at school and birthday parties etc I allow my kiddos to have the cake... because it's just not practical to keep them away from all animal products all the time outside of my home.

@Bla274

3 жыл бұрын

This is how I plan on doing it once I have kids!

@seekingtruthandcompassion1707

3 жыл бұрын

Good on you 😁 its a good way of doing it !

@seekingtruthandcompassion1707

3 жыл бұрын

Good on you for being honest and making the best decision for your family :) i have twin girls who are two months old and i plan on raising them vegetarian but not vegan. I was strictly vegan after being vegetsrian but i have mellowed now i still eat mostly vegan but the very odd chocolate bar and honey i do let in from time to time :)

@FruitTangle

3 жыл бұрын

Do they not get sick when they eat non vegan food tho?

@Loveanimalsdonteatthem

3 жыл бұрын

You allow your kids to eat carcasses of abused animals just bc it’s “hard” to bring your own food?

If your "vegan friends" disown you for not being vegan anymore, then they were never your true friends. It sounds like you made the right decision for you and your family, and that is what matters the most. Good luck.

@CoconutFalafel

3 жыл бұрын

If one of your friends starts beating his dog, you dont say wow I respect your decision to beat your dog. You try and get them to stop beating their dog and realize the suffering they are causing.

@greenpeas154

3 жыл бұрын

@@CoconutFalafel Beating a dog and going vegan is uncomparable.

@ungetier3336

3 жыл бұрын

@NuraChung thank you! Finally someone who acknowledges the moral issue here..

@greenpeas154

3 жыл бұрын

@NuraChung People eating animals are worse than people torturing animals for pleasure? Hmmmm... I hope you have same opinion on animals killing and eating other animals. They suffer too, when being killed and eaten alive by other animals.

@shoevegan6113

3 жыл бұрын

@@CoconutFalafel Beating a dog and going vegan is very comparable. We say let's cause as less pain as possible in our lives. Let's stop hurting a dog. Let's stop hurting pigs, cows, chickens, fish and etc.

We have a saying in France, "Only idiots never change their minds". What is right for you, is right for you and what is right for another person is right for them. No one should impose their choices on others. If your friends stop being your friends because of what you eat then they never were your friends in the first place. I have a lactose intolerance and gluten intolerance, I wish I could eat normally but I have no choice but to eat gluten-free foods and lactose-free even though I love dairy products. I always say to my friends that if they're lucky enough to be able to eat wheat and dairy, to do it. lol Because I wish I could.

@111mckenzie

3 жыл бұрын

What’s the phrase in French? :)

@bertillebbd954

3 жыл бұрын

@@111mckenzie "Il n'y a que les idiots qui ne changent pas d'avis "

@tigerkub9

3 жыл бұрын

@@111mckenzie "Il n'y a que les imbeciles qui ne changent pas d'avis". :D

@111mckenzie

3 жыл бұрын

Merci! Je prends des cours de français :))

@melissajarvis4829

3 жыл бұрын

Merci, aussi!

Articulate, honest, open, wise, humble. Good on you Chloe. What a great role model you are.

@MS-ib8xu

3 жыл бұрын

wise? articulate? No... she just made excuses so she can exploit animals who value their own lives.

Chloe, I have been following you from the beginning and you have changed and grown so much. I really respect you for allowing your kids to make their own decisions but yet guiding them along the way. Everything you do you do for your children and if people can not see that then who needs them honestly. I’ve been here watching through your journeys and every decision you make has your kids best interest at heart. Thank you for sharing with us ♥️

Life changes! Isn't it neat how we are able to change our minds? And isn't even neater to be accepting of people's choices as long as it doesn't hurt anyone else? A new adventure.

@lilax4332

3 жыл бұрын

It does hurt someone tho. Hurts the animals they're gonna be eating 😂

@lunamir9372

3 жыл бұрын

@@backlife So, they are vegetarian now?

@backlife

3 жыл бұрын

@@lunamir9372 at the end of the video she said they went back to being vegetarian. they still eat vegan food but don‘t restrict themselves to only vegan food.

@skyes6151

3 жыл бұрын

Such a great comment 😊

@backlife

3 жыл бұрын

@Cara B i know. Chloe just mentioned that they eat eggs now. they still don‘t drink cow milk. so they still try their best.

It sounds like you've made a sensible, balanced decision that was best for you and your family. This is why I loosely describe myself as a flexitarian - I try to eat vegetarian when I can and where it's practical. And if I don't, I don't.

@mariesahota1478

3 жыл бұрын

IT really doesn't matter what your ARE

@mariesahota1478

3 жыл бұрын

Rightly said

@bienemaja4007

3 жыл бұрын

Good mindset, well put

@Lizziel23

3 жыл бұрын

Really well said, it’s good to consciously try eat less meat/animal products but I don’t see why it has to be an all or nothing thing

@kirasussane1556

3 жыл бұрын

Thai is the right mindset to have.

Veganism was certainly never about being perfect it's about making reasonable adjustment and choosing vegan foods where possible ❤ Thanks for sharing, there's no shame in changing your journey and direction

@GarlandFarms

3 жыл бұрын

Please start acknowledging the effects of pesticides and crop protection permits. Thank you.

@TinyPigy282

3 жыл бұрын

@@GarlandFarms Sorry, I don't understand, please explain what you mean in regards to my comment

@junbh2

2 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately for some people it is about being perfect.

I am a 71 year old grandmother who is so proud of you for making this difficult decision and expressing it to your followers. You are still young and are discovering that life can be a very fluid experience and you are listening to your intuition and I think moving back towards your personality which is open and accepting. I know the feeling of ‘making the perfect choices’ and if not you are not perfect. I have struggled with that all my life and moved through many ways of eating as I listened to my own needs and those of my family. What I see is a family who are teaching your children in such a fantastic way to be open to learning, aspiring to follow their interests and this change will allow them to be more open rather than rigid in their choices. Life is all about choices and there will be many, many more to make. I am so proud of all of you.

@yuchunkung3746

3 жыл бұрын

We are animal based family with 5 years old and 1.5years old boys. I breastfed my older boy for 2 years 7 months, and still breastfeeding my youngest boy. We have farm. All animal we eat its grass fed and free ranged chicken eggs, we dont eat pork because its hard to find the good one. We drink raw milk, eat raw cheese, sheep yoghurt, cultured butter, cultured ghee. No using vegetables oil and seed oil. My son goes daycare 2 days a week do eat fruit and vegetables. Some people do think im crazy. But my children are healthy, happy and strong. Don't blame yourself, you doing great. Also my children really like your online store books and toys. We buy a lot.

@ritesharora6032

3 жыл бұрын

@@yuchunkung3746 but is this good for long term

@yuchunkung3746

3 жыл бұрын

@@ritesharora6032 i think it got a lot health benefits. I make sauerkraut, bone broth, meat stock, sometimes bake sourdough bread, grass fed Cattle, wild caught salmon, homemade raw milk yoghurt and kefir, kids love it with berries.

@ritesharora6032

3 жыл бұрын

@@yuchunkung3746 vegan is not good?

@yuchunkung3746

3 жыл бұрын

@@ritesharora6032 not for growing children, pregnant women and breastfeeding women. I think vegan its fasting not for long tern, because can not get all the essential nutrition from vegan diet.

You sound so clever, not because of the decision (I have no opinion there) but the thought process. That's essentially the main reason why I follow your channel. You have a kind and clever family.

@karinaadams1480

2 жыл бұрын

This!!

You do you. And don’t ever feel guilty for your decisions. Everyone’s life is different and you just have to adjust as you go. You guys are doing amazing as parents and human beings. ❤️

@trishalwlr

3 жыл бұрын

Oh no kids are going on the down slide now on their health!!! Dairy milk/ cheese puss meat/ animal death 💀 honey bee vomit 🤮 eggs 🥚 chicken period!!!! Gross I’m unsubscribing CYA !!!your morels just went out the door 🚪 poor animal 🐓 🦒 🐮 🦔🦓 🐑 🐝 growth restriction that’s because they had another body in there they were fighting for it was no room

@flora8770

3 жыл бұрын

@@trishalwlr I really can't tell if this is sarcastic or genuine... Hoping for sarcastic :D

@susangrote9231

3 жыл бұрын

I so agree KC!

@mistymitchell2790

3 жыл бұрын

@@trishalwlr please it's not up to you to decide what's best for someone else. Unsub cause of the food they eat? So dumb.

@Storm_grey

3 жыл бұрын

@@trishalwlr this is exactly the kind of toxic judgmental behavior that gives vegans a bad name. Open your mind and heart. You are in no position to judge anyone about anything. Everyone has their own journey. Focus on yours

you are such a caring, insightful, well meaning person and mother. It’s really amazing to watch

Your words come from a place of maturity. You’re living your own truth and that’s a beautiful thing.

I just want to say even as a “meat eater” big ups to you for putting yourself and the kiddos over dietary options, you talking about the anxiety about people making you other meal alternatives weighs heavy on my as a very picky eater as I avoid going places for food that I haven’t cooked but good on you mumma! Very proud and love watching this new chapter with you and the kiddos

@theonlyabberdabber

3 жыл бұрын

Mad respect for anyone who puts their kids' health and safety over their ideologies. Humans evolved using animals for sustenance, and while we tend to use animal products waayyy more than we need to, a lot of our biological processes are tuned to breaking down animal products. Also those who question vaccines, but still vaccinate their kids even on a delayed schedule. It's good to question your surroundings and confirm its safety for yourself, but it's also good to listen to people who have studied these things and know more about it than you do.

@eleanorhenderson9896

3 жыл бұрын

@@theonlyabberdabber this was so well put! People need to study, question etc and make their own decisions but at the same time sometimes the professionals do know what they’re talking about ! Either way I always support questioning, changing minds etc just as long as safety and love come first

@jurrac8505

3 жыл бұрын

veganism isn't a diet its an ethical stance.

@theonlyabberdabber

3 жыл бұрын

@@jurrac8505 Congrats, a child's needs still need to come before ethical stances, especially ones pertaining to diet and nutrition that can impact a child's entire future.

@eleanorhenderson9896

3 жыл бұрын

@@jurrac8505 it’s can be a diet it depends on the person. Either way the ethical stance involves dietary changes which can be fantastic or be harmful depending on the person and how it is done.

The thing is, we would do anything for our children, and it’s very hard for any other moral position to overcome that. That makes so much sense, and I can’t see someone coming for you for that. Xxxx

@satis7561

3 жыл бұрын

but rest assured,people come 4 her.

@jurrac8505

3 жыл бұрын

i will, just because she has a strong maternal instinct doesn't justify raping and murdering animals.

I’m not disappointed, I actually feel like you are so much more educated and approachable and reasonable now. That sounds like a backhanded compliment but I promise it isn’t. Really proud of you and you seem like an amazing mum

As a former teacher of young children, I can honestly say that I love how you & your husband raise your children. You are both calm, caring & genuinely interested in each of their interests, etc. The fact that you are thinking about how your children are feeling at school when non-vegan birthday cakes, etc. are being served is a further testament to your good parenting. It is actually (in my opinion) very mature of you both to look at this situation in terms of what is best for your family. As you said, you have to decide what is best for your family. Just because we all have the privilege of enjoying your family here on KZread, doesn't mean that we have the right to judge your decisions. Have a blessed week! 💖

You are great parents, never doubt yourself and what is right for your family. If anyone disowns you because of your food choices, they were never truly your friends.

I love how honest you are. I personally always felt like restictions are not good for me. I don’t call myself a vegan because i am not vegan 100% of the time. I love vegan food, i love eating vegan when i have the chance but it’s triggering for me to restrict myself so i always leave the option open for dairy products/ eggs.

@bienemaja4007

3 жыл бұрын

Thats a good mindset. I feel the same way.

I like you so much as a person! I love how you educate your children, how you think and generally how easygoing you are. I follow you since the birth of the triplets :) hugs from Italy!

Thank you for sharing this with us Chloe. I cannot imagine how anxiety inducing it must be putting something like this out there knowing the potential backlash you can receive. You should hold your head up high knowing you did what was right for your kids and also by ensuring that you gave your kids a safe place to make the choice for themselves (re the school party related things). I think that in itself is an amazing and you should be proud of what an amazing mum you are! I hope you enjoy this new journey and that you find yourself feeling better emotionally with the pressure off. 🖤

You know what? I just read something yesterday that said "perfection doesn't exist... Nobody is perfect and nobody can be perfect because human life isn't perfect" I felt relieved because I was judging myself so hard in so many ways that I was going downhill, feeling sad and angry with myself... Everybody is different and that is perfectly okay... It's amazingly fine just doing the best we can ❤

Conscious consumption of all things be it food, plastic, clothing or even electricity. You're raising your kids to be kind and thoughtful young people and I think that is much more important than just you can't eat that because of a label we've attached ourselves to.

@vaurien3694

3 жыл бұрын

Vegans aren't vegan in order to be vegan. Vegans aren't vegan in order to be able to attach a certain label to themselves, or because we attached a certain label to ourselves. We are vegan for ethical reasons. We merely use the word "vegan" in order to make communication easier.

You made a good decision. I believe in the K.I.S.S Theory; "Keep It Simple Stupid". Don't stress yourself, you have enough on your plate! You're a great Mom.

@saraboyd1892

2 жыл бұрын

Yess Jane! K.I.S.S theory. I agree ! She is an amazing inspiration. She and Ro are great parents. Such love.

You still gave your kids the best chance with food, than most parents can. Your children have such a well rounded diet, and enjoy things I can only dream of my kids eating. They love veggies, and whole grains, and vegan options. My kids are the absolutely worst eaters, and I wish I stuck to healthy choices. You're an amazing mom, and ive always looked up to you guys. I love seeing all the changes, in lifestyle, in maturity, in watching the kids grow, it makes me feel so normal. Thank u. This must have been rough to make.

That fact of the matter with your guilt of giving the twins dairy formula is you simply did what you had to do to feed your babies. You gave them what donor breast milk you could and tried them on a soy formula and it just so happened that dairy formula is what they needed.

Never feel guilty for doing what is best for yourself and our family! It’s such a great thing that we are able to change and evolve as our needs/beliefs do. You are a great mom and human. We are all just doing the best we can and that is absolutely good enough.

Thank you for making this video! It touches on a larger issue that yes, a family may be public/on KZread and such, but they are still free to make choices that are right for their families. Even in families who are not online, you don’t know their entire story (and no one owes anyone an explanation!). Thank you for opening up dialogues such as this and promoting love and acceptance of the paths families and individuals take 🥰❤️

Thanks Chloe! I have been following for years and we often share the same perspective!! This is one of those times!! Thanks for your openness and your honesty and above all for being so flexible and following the flow of life!!

It’s amazing that you have been brave enough to tell us about you not being a vegan family anymore, don’t beat yourself up over it, it’s only labels, you’re a beautiful family with gorgeous children …

If your friends are decent people they will respect your decision and not let it affect your friendship. You do you ❤

@mrsTraveller64

3 жыл бұрын

Well, if your vegan and invite meat-lovers over to your house then make the effort to serve them steaks!!! You can have vegan for your family but of course you make the effort to have meat for your non-vegan friends. Don't let your style of eating affect your friendship!

@ruckercarlson6229

3 жыл бұрын

Veganism is a cult.

@nitakeiju5234

3 жыл бұрын

So many ex-vegans here with you, me also. :) It really is a cult.

@amymchasi

3 жыл бұрын

@@nitakeiju5234 the thing is... there are a bunch of people taking stuff to extremes and they destroy it for everyone else. Like the types of vegans that think they're better people just because they're vegan and that's just... yeah. Weird ppl. And it unfortunately somehow goes from I don't wanna harm animals to being a shitty person towards everyone who's not vegan real quick. And then comes prejudice. Vicious cycle :|

@cloudz4596

3 жыл бұрын

and if they don't then leave them.🤷🏾‍♀️

This openes things up for your family so much. I loved going to my best friends house for dinner, his mom is an amazing cook! Now your babies can experience lots of new things and not feel guilty. You have to do what's best for you and your family. ❤️❤️

I've enjoyed following your family on social media for many years. It has been really lovely to see the changes that you've undergone recently, from schooling to diet and the arrival of the twins. I think it is really important we all always strive to keep an open mind so the shifts life invites us to take are met with open arms. I wish you all the best of luck moving forward! I would never, ever feel compelled to criticize a decision you've made for the betterment of your lives. You have a lovely family and it's been such a joy to follow your ongoing journey. Sending love and positivity from the States

I am vegan. And i am NOT disappointed in you. ❤ i think you should do what is best for you and your family. Love all the way from iceland.❤

@debbiebousquet5677

3 жыл бұрын

Me too i agree too

@DoubleTroubles729

3 жыл бұрын

We did vegan and gave it up, I wouldn’t go back to vegan again, but each to their own.

@swisschalet1658

3 жыл бұрын

Get your affairs (financial and otherwise) in order if you're vegan. Make sure you have someone in mind to raise your kids, because likely you will be too sick to care for them, or will die...before they grow up.

@devhxpg

3 жыл бұрын

How do you even survive in Iceland? Go eat some fish girl, before you fall apart from Vitamin D deficiency.

@caleb7475

3 жыл бұрын

I love steak and i'm disappointed in all of you

So proud of you for accepting the fact that some things aren’t for you or your family and make the changes that you feel are best for you all. You are an incredible woman, mother and wife. 💜

@DoubleTroubles729

3 жыл бұрын

Amen, she’s a lovely wonderful gal, and an incredible mummy.

I think the overall message here is our life and circumstances change and we adapt to these changes over time. You’ve made a decision that suits you and your family best. 👏🏼

@saraboyd1892

2 жыл бұрын

Yes Holly. You are correct. It’s their life and they are no way a disappointment.

I love the fact that I couldn’t find a single negative comment on this video! That goes to show that we often judge ourselves so much more that others would. Let’s be kinder to ourselves and have a little grace! ❤️ It’s perfectly fine to be our imperfect self! Thanks Cloe for your honesty. You’re an amazing woman 😘

@mistymitchell2790

3 жыл бұрын

Might want to look again I commented on one persons negative thoughts

I was recovering from an eating disorder and I recognise a lot of how you’re describing how you felt during your veganism with how I felt during the height of my ED. There’s actually a description that might resonate with you quite strongly called Orthorexia. This doesn’t include restricting the amount you eat and isn’t always or even ever associated with weight loss, but it describes a very strict mental association with certain types of food as being very linked to morals and those rules can be incredibly strict (even as strict as, say, refusing to touch or use beeswax crayons). I’m so so glad that you’ve been able to reconcile relaxing some of those rules and conditions you imposed on yourself without automatically feeling like you were doing something Awful or being Abhorrent and Uncaring Towards Animals - because you can be both vegetarian AND care about animals AND be a good person. Xxx

@cindybrodie9769

3 жыл бұрын

Great info!

@gabryylpierce8586

3 жыл бұрын

I was just thinking the same things.

@queentatoune

3 жыл бұрын

Would people use orthorexia to describe the behavior of people who don't eat certain food for religious reasons then 🤔

@gerbilgal20002000

3 жыл бұрын

@@queentatoune great question! Usually there are religious guidelines that stop at the edges of your particular sect of religion where there suddenly becomes an area designated for personal choice. Unless you are the strictest of strict, most orthodox of orthodox, and that’s in every area of your life. I would think there could be circumstances where someone may come to view their very strict eating habits (absent to any other area of their faith where they are as particularly strict) as restrictive and harmful to them, and possibly a form of orthorexia. Label are only helpful if they are helpful and what looks like “orthorexia” or was orthorexia to one person may simply be “paleo” or “veganism” or “keto” for others. The main issue is “are these strict eating habits causing problems for me? Is keeping to these rules causing anxiety, or caused by anxiety unrelated to the food and more related to my inherent worth as a person?” you could take two people with the exact same eating habits and one could be experiencing severe anxiety around food and wish they could allow themselves to eat differently but just CAN’T and the other might be fine with their eating habits and really enjoying their strict diet. And there you have the difference. ETA: and that final example could also be the SAME person, 2/3/4 years apart. What started out as fun and fulfilling suddenly turning anxiety inducing and restrictive due to a change in circumstances, or simply time passing. It’s very fluid and labels are really only helpful if they’re helpful.

@jurrac8505

3 жыл бұрын

veganism isn't a diet its an ethical stance against raping and murdering animals.

Dear Chloe....it was really brave of you to share your deep feelings you have gone through.... Being a good person depends on how you treat other people and all the good things you do for the needy....So, no need to be afraid or blame yourself for the choices you make as a family, because FAMILY COMES FIRST... ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Lots of love!!

I’m pregnant (FTM) and my husband and I have been vegan for 5+ years now. We also have made a decision, because we are starting a family, to leave strict veganism. We can’t imagine dumping out our sons Halloween candy, not allowing him to have cake at a birthday party, or a pizza party at school, etc. WE like it and can make sacrifices, but we don’t want him to miss out on huge parts of childhood that we got to experience and loved. I respect parents that make either decision, but I am right there with you. ❤️

You're the only family I'm subscribed to actually. And I 've always watched you not only because you're all beautiful but mostly because you stand firm on what you know is good for you. Much love

You know what's best for yourself and your family and that's what is important!! 🤍🤍

You are a wonderful person !! You always were and you still are. If this feels right, it must be right for your family. Love from India ❤

You inspire us all. You are an amazing momma. You have shown us over and over how to be an incredible human and it warmed my heart completely to read down through the comments and see so much positivity and support in the community you have made here on KZread. Definitely passed the vibe check! Hugs and love from Georgia, USA

You are an incredible momma who does EVERYTHING for those kids. They have the most amazing lives. You’re doing what’s best for your family! ❤️ lots of love!

I agree about the “all or nothing” approach. I studied environmental science at university and a professor once compared veganism to driving a car. Like obviously we all know that cars are bad for the environment and even mass transportation has some drawbacks, but it’s just not feasible for everyone to walk everywhere. Insisting on walking everywhere would prevent people from thriving because that’s not how the system is set up and it makes more sense to invest in alternative transportation and energy efficiency than never leaving your house!

@FieldOfFireflies

3 жыл бұрын

That's a false equivalence. Veganism is a stance against an injustice, whereas driving a car isn't. It's like someone comparing anti-racism or anti-sexism to driving a car. They're not even close to the same thing and therefore can't be compared. Would you think an "all or nothing" approach to any other injustice (sexism, racism, homophobia, etc.) is unreasonable or not practicable? If not, then why is it any different when it comes to a certain injustice, but not others?

@lilymcmanaway

3 жыл бұрын

@@FieldOfFireflies its an analogy mate

@DW-md5gr

3 жыл бұрын

​@@lilymcmanaway Yeah, and the analogy either fails or misunderstands veganism (if it's strictly about the environment). The disanalogy is that funding the slaughter of animals involves rights violations and driving a car doesn't.

@FieldOfFireflies

3 жыл бұрын

Irrelevant. It makes no sense. It's a false equivalence, mate. You can't compare a stance against an injustice to driving a car. Nonsensical.

@bigbaldin

3 жыл бұрын

@@FieldOfFireflies comparing the environmental impact of two things doesn't mean that they have to be the same or that other parameters have to be the same. If doesn't make sense to limit environmental impact comparisons to injustices in this case

I am extremely proud of you and your decision as a family. I'm impressed with your maturity to be courageous enough to change and grow as you see fit. I'm impressed with your willingness and openness to the changes in your children's lives that needed adjusting so they could freely experience the own encounters, especially as opportunities arise now going to school. A brilliant choice of school by the way. I wish I had sent my children to as school like yours. You really are a good example of relevant and present parents who are willing to make changes to benefit their children's all-round growth and development. Your children are blessed to be in your home. I would be honoured to have people like you as my friends. Keep doing "you" as you are very good at making excellent choices for yourselves. Thank you for sharing your lives with us. I live in Perth too. Maybe one day we will cross paths! I wish you all the very best for 2021 and onwards!

Very interesting chat. Thanks Chloe. Amazing Mum doing amazing things, keeping it real and spirited from inside. Watching for years. Love it

wow. i just sat there an nodded my head while i watched this, i totally agree with and see why you've made these decisions, especially in regards to the food relationship area...i myself have struggled with disordered eating most of my life (i'm currently working on it!) , and having a daughter of my own im SO aware of things that could impact her relationship with food.

I love the way you explained this so honestly and completely get your decision. I just try to make educated decisions about what I’m consuming - I figure that I’m not perfect but every little bit helps. I won’t buy anything with goose down feathers like quilts and cushions bc of the cruel way the feathers are harvested. I try to buy cruelty free makeup and skincare. I only buy certain types of eggs etc. I’m certainly not perfect but I do my best without overly restricting myself XX

I avoid foods that were made or raised in a factory, so essentially I eat free range everything where it's possible. But sometimes it's not convenient or I may feel I can't afford it on occasion. I used to feel guilty but now I remind myself i make the best CHOICE when I can and when I can't, that's OK. You have quite enough going on without additional stress. One day things may change again and you may change again. Whatever works for today, with the best of intentions, is the right thing to do, in my opinion. BTW anyone who decides not to be your friend over this wasn't your friend in the first place.

i love how intelligent and brave you are. such a role model for your children

Would love to hear the children’s thoughts on this change. I’m pleased your more comfortable in this new journey xx

Thank you so much for being open and honest!❤️❤️

Such powerful messages. Thank you for setting the example for flexibility, self care, adaptability and a willingness to accept imperfection. There is no one right way to live life, we all have to find our own place of peace and joy.

I hugely respect how you & Rowan are raising your precious children. The relationships are just amazing. They are thriving in a Steiner school and you've always brought elements of Steiner into your home, probably without noticing. You are choosing what's best for you and your babies. Nobody has the right to judge you for that. I was also a mom with no milk, not even a drop. I followed the Pediatricion's advice and my daughter flourished.

Thank you so much for sharing this Chloe! I’ve been struggling a lot with being perfect in these things as well in relation to my mental health and you’ve removed a lot of the guilt I was feeling. I’m very thankful to you!

Thanks for sharing, this is important for people to hear, and it’s ok to make changes that are best for you 💗

Aww the cake story is sad, and if I'm able to support students and families by bringing something all my students can eat, I will try my best. I personally dont follow a diet I try to eat what my body needs but an conscious of what goes into things. It's always a learning process, and nobody said you have to stay on one lifestyle forever. Also I'm a future teacher, but taking in everything I learn, hear on the internet to try and be as universal and adaptable as I can be.

@dianawright2030

3 жыл бұрын

As a mom and teacher, I brought fun pencils and erasers for my kids to share on their birthdays. This prevented lots of allergy and dietary issues.

@sydniaunderwood2000

3 жыл бұрын

@@dianawright2030 yeah that helps too. My parents, and alot of my friends parents did the whole party thing though. Class goodie bags and cupcakes, chips, drinks. Which yes is alot, but its something my mom never got (a single birthday celebration) and that's what she wanted to do for us and our friends. I'll keep all this in mind though, who knows maybe parents have calmed down since my last classroom birthday party 😂😂

You're caring parents doing what you feel best for your family. It's so easy to become anxious about things and to cultivate that anxiety in the children. I'm so glad you're freeing yourself up and that the children can enjoy all their school activities without the burden go over -thinking. Well done for making this post. Bless you all.

I loved this video, I love that you have put so much thought and care into your decisions. Such a great role model ❤️❤️

Sounds like the perfect decision for your family at this stage in all your lives. 🤍

I just want to say the children’s school sounds freaking amazing. Learning and seeing a direct connection between the animal and the animal product itself is amazing. It’s educational. It’s more practical. Anyways just wanted to say we can all see how great you and roe are at parenting. You guys have so much love to give and put forth so much effort in (wht seems like) all areas. So I think the majority of youre viewers will trust youre decisions based on that alone. I always trust the mama. You know best and I’m so proud of your honesty to share this. It’s the reality and important to be shared to others. Thank you always ♥️

I think you are amazing! You could see the courage it took to out this obviously very important aspect of your lives and whilst it’s no one’s business what choices you make, I applaud you for putting yourself out there anyway. What a ‘perfect’ example to your children to be able to stand up, admit your past and present and the acknowledge the growth it’s had on all your lives. There aren’t enough people/ parents like you. Good on you! I have a lot of respect for the likes you. Thanks for keeping it real!

I absolutely love how reflected and realistic you always are 👍❤ Lots of greetings from Germany!

It’s just a new season of life. Everybody grows and changes - as long as you’re happy and your family is happy no one has a right to judge your decisions!

@bienemaja4007

3 жыл бұрын

I find that to be so interesting. Me and some friends and family changed so much during lockdown in this or a similar way. Maybe due to the reason that we had the time to rethink everything...

I find "plant based" to be a helpful label, as someone who eats maybe 30% vegan meals and 80% vegetarian - it means you can choose where you add your own margins for those products

I really enjoyed this and I'm not sure how I stumbled upon you guys but love watching family channels and I'm originally from WA however was always intrigued about the choices you guys made and when I saw u be open to school not just home school (I sadly never had kids) so not really one way or the other just love understanding people and being challenged on ideas etc I was truly impressed at your openess to let the kids explore and didn't enforce ur ideas upon them etc and this is again another example and I think all dietary choices are great but just ur openess to explore and change is impressive so thank you for such a good discussion and can be applied to many more areas of life. We go through season and its important to be self aware alert and change where needed or stand firm as needed - thank you

Thank you for being open about your journey. I struggled to produce breast milk during my pregnancy and placed my little one on formula. He grew and flourished on cow's milk. You did the best thing for your babies and they look so healthy 💕.

Truly, I do strongly believe it's an exceptionally difficult path (and often not healthy, physically or mentally) to be extreme in our practices. I admire you both for recalibrating when it became a hindrance. That's intelligence and wisdom right there. ❤️

I’m older so for me , feeling bad about what people may think about the choices I make in my life, is something that’s just not my frame of mind. Like I would not even think twice about making a video sharing something like this. (Thinking other people will think I’m a bad person and/or judge me ) . Do what works best for you and your family, my dear Nothing but respect for all that you do. 🤗💪🏽

This video proves you two are doing the best you can for your babies. They are so so lucky to have you. Amazing parenting!

As a person with so, so many food intolerances and allergies as well as physical digestive issues, I have a very limited diet and totally understand the issues of eating outside of your home, especially if people invite you over and want to cook. I really applaud your decision to do what feels right for you and your family. You can still stand up for animal rights and ethical issues without avoiding certain foods. Life is short, at the end of it the only thing that matters is, did I have a good, happy life. So do what makes you and your family happy.

This is a very brave of you to share it.

Not an easy decision and I completely respect your choice and your openness. Love your family, love your videos❣️✨🤗

I am beyond thrilled for you!!! Welcome to a more fun, vibrant, happier, healthier, easier life! Good for you Chloe and family

Congratulations for having the courage to choose what is best for you and your family right now. You are teaching your kids to be open minded, tolerant and free to think and choose what is best for them. How could we be disappointed with that? Loved your video ❤️

I admired your devotion to veganism and I continue to admire your openness and honesty. Thank you for sharing your family.

I’m in a similar boat as your family! I feel better now I have incorporated animal products again. Proud of you. Hope yous are all thriving 🤍

You are amazing. Your sincerity in always wanting the best for your family is beautiful. If you decide with your heart you will never go wrong

I think you’re a wonderful family! Everyone is on their own journey and need to do what’s best for their family. I just love all your kiddos!

I think it’s great that you considered your kids’ mental and emotional wellbeing when making this decision. It would have been hard to see them feel guilty over using wool and other stuff. Not to mention the social aspect of not feeling involved/included when food isn’t vegan.

Being flexible improves your life, be strict when your can, and flexible when needed. Takes away a lot of the stress. If you can explain (to yourself and kids) why breaking rules (about lifestyle, not the law 😊) within limits and with thought is oké, you might even be a more perfect parent then when only black or white! ❤️

girl. you are an incredible, smart, and strong woman/mother. despite your dietary choices, your ability to make decisions for your family is such a great trait, the thought process you went through during this was so relatable and admirable. i will always support yalls channel, i wish you and yalls children health and happiness in the future!

Chloe, you do what you feel is best for you and your family. Your family looks so healthy and trying to do your best is perfect. You are doing fabulous.

You always have to put yourself and your children first and not be concerned about others feelings. It's very nice of you to give people an explanation even though you didn't have to. Am not a vegan but I enjoy watching your family for how special it is and not because how you guys eat.

I’m not disappointed, it’s okay, Chloe! What I want it’s you and your family be happy and healthy ❤️

Thank you for the honest chat. I think this will help lots of people who might be struggling with similar issues. You did what was right for you and your family which is all that matters. Life is a journey that constantly changes and that is just fine ❤

Chloe, I follow you since the triplets were tiny babies, and I should say I admire you so much, I think we're about the same age and you inspire me a lot with the way you (and Ro also) raise your sweet little beans. And this is just the thing I always see you doing, making the choices you think are the best for your family, and It's truly beautiful! I'm planning my first pregnancy next year, and I should say I've learnt a lot with you about parenthood, you are an amazing Mom! Kisses and hugs to all sweet beans and their lovely parents, from Brazil

I'm not vegan. I'm also not zero waste. I try to reduce waste and buy local when I can. It's just not always possible for me. Are you disappointed in me? No-one has the right to look down on you for keeping your family happy and healthy. You are an awesome person and a great mum. Keep at it.

I feel like the vegan community is very judgey against non-vegans. I can see where it could become toxic and anxiety inducing. Good job on making a rational decision for your family based on experience.

@DW-md5gr

3 жыл бұрын

I feel like the non-racist community is very judgey against racists. I can see where it could become toxic and anxiety inducing. Good job on making a rational decision for your family based on experience.

@PatrykKarter

3 жыл бұрын

@@DW-md5gr wanted to write this comment 😂 so true

@Assassin99584

3 жыл бұрын

@@DW-md5gr nice deflection

@twylabobette2012

3 жыл бұрын

One time I joined a group for vegans because I needed some recipe ideas, and it said that non-vegans were welcome. A single mother made a post about how she was really struggling with veganism for various reasons and wanted to started incorporating a few dairy products back into her diet, but she felt guilty. Most people were commenting saying "you just have to think of the animals, then you won't struggle to stay vegan", so essentially making her feel more guilty. I commented saying that veganism is great but if it's not working for her, eating a bit of dairy doesn't make her a bad person. Then the admins deleted my comment because I was apparently "promoting animal cruelty". That kind of sums it all up, for me. People should be allowed to just do what they can, even if that means not being perfect. The guilt-trips put far more people off of even attempting to eat more plant-based food, than they do convert people to veganism.

@bigbaldin

3 жыл бұрын

@@twylabobette2012 you were promoting it and no, if you join a vegan group you shouldn't be allowed to do so. If some people struggle, they should be helped, solutions can be found. But just saying "eat some animal products again" is just as absurd in this context.

I love watching you with your amazing family. Your kids are happy, healthy, inquisitive, affectionate and kind. What could be more important than that?

Love your family and your videos! Don't worry about disappointing your viewers. Just keep making decisions that are best for your family. Love all the recent videos!! Thanks for putting in so much time to make and edit them!

We love you and your family for you, not for what you eat. You are amazing and I have always admired you. You are awesome. There are so many things I admire from you and I still do.

As someone who has been vegan a long time, this makes sense to me. It’s not an easy decision, but lifestyle wise it’s very easy to slide back into vegetarian. Life gets so busy with kids and work and pets and vegan can be expensive and hard at times. What I don’t get is people who become full blown carnivores, or never eat a vegan meal again, or eat a ton of meat after being vegan. Being more flexible does help with the heaviness of it. Great explanation, very thoughtful.

@junbh2

3 жыл бұрын

When people swing so far in another direction I guess it could be a kind of burnout, like they are so tired of what they were doing they just want something as different as possible. But I also think some people just have very passionate personalities, and whatever choices they make in their life they tend to do them with huge enthusiasm and even kind of to an extreme.

@twylabobette2012

3 жыл бұрын

I agree with the other comment - I think that the "all or nothing" toxic perfectionism mentality really does burn people out. So instead of reducing their consumption of animal products, they just feel like they can't do it at all anymore, so they go back to eating meat. I think the same thing happens with zero waste too.

I’m very impressed with you for expressing your transition. You are an amazing family and you are a big reason for that. Hold your head up and feel good about being true to yourself and keeping an open mind. Just recognizing that you were judgmental at one time is a huge sign of growth. God bless you in this season and beyond.

You and Ro are great parents and people! That’s what is most important. Keep raising your Beans in the loving and healthy way you always have!