As soon as I stopped allowing him to control my emotions, stopped acting like I believed his lies, stopped trying to explain myself, stopped trying to find logic in the marriage, HE LEFT!! (Thank God!!). My favorite answers became OK, FINE, and I GUESS. No more emotional back and forth. No more listening to him for HOURS. No more reason for him to stay. The discard IS the blessing!

They go to their exes so that don't have to start over.

@d.y.h.w.

11 ай бұрын

Bingo

Leave everything and never look back save ur self only u can

THANK YOU YOUNG KING👑💯🥰 I was there November 2022! Finally said " NO MORE" I stayed 32 years, this Dark Triad Narc took my very mind I allowed this Thing' to bring me ITS' trauma! I had to go to save my very mind....I was dying mentally, emotionally anguish every single moment of the day. I LEFT TOTALLY DEVASTED!!!! Arranged marriage and the family turned on me said I should've stayed.....I never left before but I knew once I left I would never ever return! I left like Tina Turner broken emotionally, mentally physically and financially. That Narc took it all. I've learned something I am a survivor, I am strong, I will win I have won 🏆 I AM STILL HERE, I AM BREATHING! I SMILE SOMETIMES

I needed this message. I am fighting for my life right now. He has drained me completely.

@mst8521

Жыл бұрын

Same here ! First day broken up

@shannawatson5330

Жыл бұрын

Same...

@jerricawilliams6826

9 ай бұрын

😢 me too

I left him on 12-3-20. I felt relief as soon as I did. Like a big weight! Do It! Leave you will feel better!

I don't care what my ex thinks I am done with my ex he could think what he wanted no contact no nothing I am done with him no matter what

TRUE!!! BEST THING TO HAPPENED TO HIM..WORST THING TO HAPPEN TO ME....

He lead me into the depth of hell...

It was always about him.!!!!

I prayed to God and one day He said he had to leave because God told him. It was a miracle. 😊

I've learned that evil is as patient as a rattlesnake.

Wow this is my marriage an life for the past 15 years....im so exhausted...

@NKO71

Жыл бұрын

My marriage in a nutshell.

Yep you are spot on, this video needs to have way more views in the millions and at least the thousands!!! I suffered 12 years before I ran it is the only way to get out!!!! And get your life back, do what you gotta do and if you have children with them God bless because that makes it 1000 times worse.

I’m speechless. What a powerful message. Thank you!

This saved my life. I'm out! Couldn't figure out why he wouldn't leave. I get it now.

I needed to hear this ❤ …. On repeat 😢

Ladies leave!!! I was in a toxic relationship for 15 years. 3 kids later and broke myself down. Started drinking gained weight insecure and finally walked away and couldn’t be happier!! Currently Actively dating healed men who are ready to pour into me but my cup was empty as hell!!! And I have no problem disqualifying a man; thank you ACE ❤

Don't let anyone lead you

I needed this

I really know that I died inside this relationship and told him that he saw me traumatized yes I stood up for myself and called his ass out but I got crazy .. I’m sure he knew that and what he did 😭

Agreed!!!! The Narc hit the lottery with me...That's why he stalks me and spy's. He will never get to PLAY GAMES with another woman like ME!!! Hii D Parker and Becky Mauh

It’s ALL ABOUT HIM! 😢 I am COMPLETEY EMPTY. Running on fumes. Going back home to my country in a week🎉

Chile, they have already started with another girl while they are still with you. They are never a one woman man. They need a massive amount of supply to get their energy fix. My ex-narc brought HIV to his marriage bed... I knew he was going to catch it.

Those ar big factsss

Blessssss u for this because this is my truth #7 years and I finally opened my eyes slowly but I'm cutting it this time for GOOD#IT'S NOT EASY BUT HE HAS MADE IT SO BAD THAT I HAVE TO LIFT A STANDARD FOR MY DAUGHTER AND WHAT I TELL HER TO NOT ACCEPT AT 19#SHE WATCHING AND I'M NOT BEING A BAD EXAMPLE FOR HER SO EVEN THOUGH I CAN'T DO IT FOR"ME". I'M GOING TO DO IT.... FOR HER

I LOVE YOU ACE. The tears won't stop falling. You have been a true life support in my life & thank you for knowing exactly what to say when going through the different trials of love ❤God bless you ❤️

Wow... thank you!!! I knew he wasn't happy so I wondered and asked him why he didn't just leave. And we've been finally divorced almost 4 years, because i lft. And he's still not moving on. 😂 I had no clue, until now. Thanks 😅

This is my relationship in a nutshell 😢💔

@meaganjones1347

3 жыл бұрын

I was in a relationship 14 years with my child's father. When I say I was so broken it's not a good feeling at all. I read Ace books and started listening to him and when I say. I wish I would let a man do me wrong again. Baby girl I'm not telling u what to do but Love u more than I love him and when u start doing that OMG It is a good feel. Keep your head up. It's gone be alright.

@saraliburd7752

2 жыл бұрын

I finally did Out 6 months Thank you Ace ❤️

@LotusFlower732

2 жыл бұрын

Yup! Trauma!

@Dr.Mahadrasjethwani_MD

Жыл бұрын

Just go!!!!

This video touched something in my spirit and my soul. This has been my life for the last four years. It was so crazy between my ex and I that he cheated consistently throughout the four years and once we broke up, he asked if we could be in an open relationship. It really messed with my mind, but I finally understood the entire time it’s always been about him. And yes, I was diminished and I was broken. This video explains why he would say I love you, you’re my soulmate, you’re the best thing to ever happen to me. Blessings to you Ace.

💯 Facts

I have my own, but I have developed an attachment to him. I live in his hometown, where I don't know anyone but him. I don't do clubs and bars, but I do go places. I travel a little and have fun. This hurts like hell. He never makes me feel less than or that I'm not worthy of love. Thank you for the message❤

Thank you

Glad you're speaking on this! That's why you GOTS to block, etc these folks. Thank the Lord I woke up to see what I needed to see. He started over and married someone else but hoovered me by text 3 months after he got married, when I shut him down, he went into a rage text...BLOCKED FOREVER!

I'm trying to leave stealth mode but this guy won't leave me alone he won't leave me alone. I'm going deeper into God now and I don't need nobody else in my way of what God has for me.

Thank You

Ride TO die i really felt that

It’s that bad? Strangulation? Choked? Thrown across the room? Threats of hitting or punching. Dragged me out the room standing up? Cussing degraded me? Threatened suicide once I took him back he addmitted to being careless and abusive he now discarded me. I stood up for myself remember crying all the time.. didn’t care if I died previously had an abortion he left me manipulated my mind controlled me used me I was suposse to be a one night stand cause of his wife across the country they had problems same behavior I got it worse 🥺😭 I did everything I could . Learned new culture I mean jeez. Threatened to punch me blamed me for being in his way and threw me across the room and left bruises on my arm and butt and my elbow I fell into the dresser .. 😭

I needed to hear this...thank you

Thank you. I did. I do deserve better and the restraining order is making it possible. Today I’m blissfully happy, and free. May God continue to bless you with these important messages.

Not me I'm happy I find a real men

Facts

I left in 2022, still thriving......

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Thank you.

Well said

Been married to one for 13 years 😢

Well he discarded me already but mentally leave now when is good up for myself and had a whole wife in another country but yeah.. we’re Nothing alike sucks

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I have to walk away for my sanity. You're right he will not leave me or leave me alone. We have a car together, so I pay my half through Cash App, so I don't have to see him or talk with him, I do have the car it's in my garage.

😅

Lol 😂😂😂😂😂

I will be leaving and getting a divorce but how do I avoid contact since we have a 4 yr old daughter.

@kellithomas9080

Жыл бұрын

Low contact, parallel parenting. File for joint legal custody.

Mental breakdowns

HOW DO YOU KNOW SO MUCH ? YOU TALK SO

@tamikahayden2947

10 ай бұрын

God

You are the best thing that happened to them… yes but they have 200 more bests on roaster alongside you… aka Narcs

Him.....right, like women are some how in capable of being narcissists... some of the biggest narcissists I know are women...

Facts