1. Quality Time 2. Acts of Service 3. Physical Touch 4. Words of Affirmation 5. Gifts

@nefelibata4190

5 жыл бұрын

Lol only slow people need lists like these, fuck relationshits.

@kimberlyeantoine6267

5 жыл бұрын

Same

@3roses309

5 жыл бұрын

I have all 5❤😘

@beautifulyou2321

4 жыл бұрын

@@nefelibata4190 lmao

@raymondkarlsen9995

3 жыл бұрын

Same with me :)

1 quality time 2 words of affirmation 3 physical touch 4 acts of service 5 gifts

@jujubees711

3 жыл бұрын

These are from the book, the "5 Love Languages" by Gary Chapman

"We accept the love we think we deserve."

@learnnfresh8016

3 жыл бұрын

Why most relationships fail? There are many NATURAL REASONS why relationship don't work. I share this in one of my videos on my channel😊

Quality time; Words of affirmation; physical touch; service; gifts.

•Quality time •Act of service •Words of affirmation •Gifts

quality time >physical touch > acts of service>words of affirmation>gifts

Mine is loyalty. If I am loyally thought about and it shows. I'm all good. Through thick and thin

@meetrajpopat2348

3 жыл бұрын

It's basic in relationship often forgot by today's generation

Jay, it’s interesting to Review this information. Not very long ago I ended a 14 year relationship which for 9 of those years we were engaged. Our first year we read the book together and we were able to recognized our love languages. To me it was very obvious he was a solid words of affirmation. He became overwhelmed through out the years because he thought I was all of them, to which I still don’t agree. To make a long story short what I have found after 8 months of introspection is that: 1) even though I knew that i underestimated how much he needed, 2) when you can’t read the other person and think that what they need is what you think they need and therefore love him/her the way you want to be loved it creates a dissonance in the relationship and void, 3) through out the years your experiences may lead you into a path that may change your needs leading you to value other ways to be loved. This is if I started 14 years ago being a physical touch for example now after reflecting in the importance of being present in the days of so much distractions and work demands I am now a quality time person. What I mean is who you are and value may change along with your love language. Geraldine Thank you for giving your audience the time and help us grow.

@nwanduchikeluba4094

4 жыл бұрын

I agree totally. Nothing is set in stone. People change due to circumstances and we need to change with them.

I need: quality time, affirmations, and physical touch.

1. Words of affirmation 2. Quality time 3. Acts of service 4. Physical touch 5. Gifts

Jay, you have such a gift. Thank you for sharing your inspiring videos with the world.

Mine is Quality time, affirmation, physical touch, acts of service and gifts. Awesome video Jay!❤

Am definitely number 1. Physical touch and quality time matters most to me.

1. Quality time 2. Words of affirmation 3. Gifts

Hi, Jay. I love how you break down things and explain them so well, with such effort. I know there are thousands of people showing love to you. But I thought, I wanted to thank you for taking the time and sharing all your ideas, experiences and stories with us, for helping thousands of people understand and realize things that we don't often do. Your words and the way you express them, makes me realize so much about myself and about alot of other things. Thankyou so much for all the hard works that you do for us. Your words has helped me alot in life and I wanted to let you know that. I know you probably wont even go through this comment, but that's okay. And, the book may have explained about the 5 languages, but I think there's one more type of person other than those 5, and those are the people who prioritizes loyalty over everything. Thought of sharing this, since I think, I fall into one of those people.

I got a copy of the 5 Love Language on my birthday from my sister. I stored it away n found it one time n read through it. I can tell you. It is really an inspiring book. Simple and easy to understand with true stories from people to illustrate each languages written about. This is my 11th time to read the book. 1. Makes me realise why I am still single 2. Makes me understand why there r so many failed relationships, marriage failures, divorces and shattered family relationship. 3. Gives me knowledge on whom to choose as THE ONE. 4. Inspired me to cement n mend broken family ties. Life is awesome only if we not rush into emotional feelings but instead wisely choose the right path.

Why relationships are failing is extremely simple. There's no common goal. If you're going to the same place, there is almost never a reason to break up. It's because people stop going to the same place. Most likely because their kid starts being able to sort of take care of themselves and no longer link the need for a relationship. So they drift away, following their own personal goals that don't require their spouse. If there's no need to work together, there's no need to be together... It's that simple. I think it's being over complicated here. This whole love thing must really screw with people's sensibility. You can only try to please your partner for so long before you start feeling like you're not living true to your own self. Living for each other doesn't work because it's driven by the desire to keep the relationship and if there's no reason to keep the relationship then there is also no desire to keep it, obviously. You need to agree on common goals that you actually need each other in order to accomplish, such as raising a kid.

@MartineCayouette

6 жыл бұрын

Then how do you explain that a lot of people are breaking up even when the kid(s) is (are) still young and still need(s) his(her) parents? They still have a reason to be together but they don't.

@mirrors8913

6 жыл бұрын

Easy! They don't care about the kid. The kid is seen as a liability rather than an opportunity to teach and assist. Or maybe they think the other person can raise them through that stage all by themselves, aka they're stupid. OR perhaps they do "love" the child but they love whatever they're excuse to leave is significantly more. Basically they either don't value their kid enough or they are misinformed about how much it takes to raise a child. There might be a reason to stay, but there's a bigger reason to leave. For those who are misinformed about the effort it takes- A child cannot be raised correctly by a single parent on child support, welfare, or constant work without care. That child will grow up screwy in some way or another. Two parents are practically needed at the beginning at the very least. Once they're old enough to understand, it might hurt their feelings, but at least they won't be an entitled savior of the earth who refuses to work, or various other possible problems.

@Honestandtruth

5 жыл бұрын

So, it is sounds like you know alot about Relationships. So, Can I ask you, WHAT IT TAKES TO MAKE A HAPPY RELATIONSHIP ?? It is just the question, okay....🤗😀

@vempriex

5 жыл бұрын

Mirrors This is a very interesting and raw truth of your statement There is so much more to relationships than what is being mentioned. I agree.

@ryalat3682

5 жыл бұрын

I agree with what you said: "They have to be going to the same place."

Jay good T-SHIRT printed as INDIAN 😁😁😁

@onlyme6662

6 жыл бұрын

Anish alter ..punjabi im thinking

@ii-yu8rg

5 жыл бұрын

It doesn't say anything. He has reached a different level, he has transformed. Learn!

@soniasurana2539

4 жыл бұрын

That's what I noticed 😍😍

@yusharthsingh1185

4 жыл бұрын

I want that t-shirt😅

Physical touch & Quality Time are honestly TIED for 🥇🏅🏆👏🏻 & then words of affirmation are second. Acts of service 3rd and then gifts last. I love your videos Jey!!!

Love your videos and positive attitude Jay! Look forward to seeing them all.

Quality time Jay!😊 Awesome video!❤

Quality time & Words of affirmation

Couldn't thank you enough for the teaching of these 5 Love languages!!! Thanks Jay!!

A hug means more than anything to me. Doesn’t matter if its from a friend, family or other half. It shows love and care.

For me: 1. Touch & quality time 2. Verbal 3. Gifts 4. Favors

1. Quality time 2. Words of affirmation 3. Physical touch 4. Act of service 5. Gifts

Dear Jay I love your videos. You are an inspiration and light worker on this planet earth. Thank you for your amazing speeches and the dedication you put into them. #1- Quality Time #2- Physical Touch

Thank you so much for everything ,because of your inspiring words I have learned to appreciate my relationship

5 types of love languages 1. words of affirmation 2. Love through touch 3. receiving gifts 4. spending quality time 5. acts of service

Your voice and your every sentence are so meaningful❤️ keep going

Hey Jay I just started watching your videos and I really enjoy them and the positive vibes you have keep up the good work

Hoping to meet you one day. You heals millions of hearts. Giving hope and inspiration. You know what you dont know how much you have contributed to entire humanity through your words of wisdom .

Thank you Jay.

This is great Jay .

Words of affirmation then quality time, physical touch, then acts of service and last...gift giving!

1. Words of Affirmation and Quality Time were tied for 1st 2. Pysical Touch was in a close 2nd 3. Acts of Service 4. Recieving Gifts. It was so great to see more ways to see how to see someone else's love language and things you can do. Thanks for sharing all your videos and wisdom.!

Please never stop these talks!! So very needed!!!

Physical touch and word of affirmation

This was kind of eye opening for me. Thank you so much 😊

All of these words are important in a relationship but the most important of all is 'quality time'. It is because spending time together is something valuable and irreplaceble.

@muhammadj2965

5 жыл бұрын

So you are number 4

@breendabeeharry8826

5 жыл бұрын

thank u jay for all these inspiring and motivating videos

@gangstamum

4 жыл бұрын

Important to you.

Quality time and words of appreciation means alot to me... :) ...you really explained things soo well... 💝😊

@paddybibs2738

5 жыл бұрын

You can have that from a Casanova too.

Words of Afirmations, Quality Time, Receving Gifts, Touch, Acts of Service

Jay you speaking word of knowledge man keep up the good work brother and God bless you and never lose faith in what you doing because I called them teachings to help other people who was struggling in life

Quality time ! amazing video jay

@harinireddy8423

6 жыл бұрын

2

Wow You Simplified the most complicated thing.

Quality time, physical touch, words of affirmation, then gifts and acts of service.

Agreed Jay 👌👌 There's no perfect relationship Knowing the love language of your partner is gonna make the relationship work Thanks for sharing your wisdom 😍

Hi Jay, love each and every one of your videos. Thanks for sharing your wisdom with all of us. watch each and every episode of weekly wisdom. Just want to add one more element to it that I learned from Prof. Clay Christensen of Harvard business school. He says that just like customers don't buy a product or services, they hire them to make progress in their life. They hire them to do certain jobs that they are struggling in their life. And we can also apply this principle in our relationships with our friends and families. if we ask ourselves "why would a girl/boy hire you as a girlfriend/boyfriend?" What progress are they trying to make in their life by hiring you as a husband/wife ?" Understanding this can help us to make a deeper long term meaningful relationships with our family, friends, our communities etc. I hope this information is helpful.

@tracygallegos572

6 жыл бұрын

bhola prasad Sorry, but that’s ridiculous!

@bholaprasad26

6 жыл бұрын

Sorry, Tracy, I can't able to explain it well. What I really mean is think for a second " Why do a boy/girl need a girlfriend/boyfriend? Why does someone need a wife/ husband? If we can understand why our friends/families need you/me in their life, we can make a better relationship with them. Understanding the "Why" is the most important thing. I hope this explain what was I trying to say earlier.

@cholwekalenda1929

6 жыл бұрын

I lyk it

I am all 5 love talk. I love to touch and hold.I love do things for my mate and to people too. i want to be together and do things together and give them space if they want it.. My mate love gifts.I love build people up not tear them down all the time it hurt them and hurt you too. I want to be good to my mate and everyone too. I don't want anyone abuse me in my life. thank you . very much reading this. god bless all of you.

1)Quality time 2)words of affirmation 3)Physical touch 4)Acts of sevice 5)Gifts

I like the quality time and touch, and affirmation

What if you are all 5? I love quality time when there are geuinine exchanges of words of affirmation and affection. Receiving gifts that are thoughtful and kind always make me happy. Physical touch being used for love, care and affection makes me extremely happy. But so does acts of service, like when my partner notices what chores I do and does small thing to make it easier on me. Like putting his laundry in the basket ready to go, or carrying the basket to the laundry, or putting dishes away and putting all the condiments of the kitchen away so it's all tidy so I wont have to spend more time doing that and can instead spend quality time with him. Is it possible to be all 5? My priorities exist between quality time, words of affirmation, and physical touch.... but I value acts of service and gifting just as much as if they were second priority. So if all 3 physical touch, words of affirmation, and quality time were my number 1 all together.... Acts of service and gifting would be my number 2. I'm unsure if it's weird or perhaps I'm just complex and different. But I love all those languages of love. Thanks for reading and thank you for any replies! -Angel

Jay are you an Indian? •-• I'm getting positive vibes since I started watching your videos!

quality time,thank you for the phenomenal video jay

1. Words of Affirmation 2. Physical Touch 3. Quality Time 4. Acts of Service 5. Gifts

An awesome video... I wish u uploaded this at least one month ago when I was struggling to make my relationship a successful one.. I wish I could make everything alright...😔😔..but I doubt now Quality time!!-1st priority

@INDIANGORKHAHISTORY

5 жыл бұрын

Life is nothing or everything it's you decided..... To how can deserve it

2 and 4

@ch.k4580

6 жыл бұрын

me too XD

I've just discovered you Jay.. You were born to do this!! Thank you 🙏

Really interesting! I’m going to pay attention, and try harder with my friendships. I guess it’s the same theory for all relationships, not just your spouse! Thank you Jay. 😇

Master n all those things!

@jessicagonzalez5775

6 жыл бұрын

Arun K Agreed. A real relationship should balance all them together

Mine are in this order: quality time acts of service words of affirmation receiving gifts physical touch

@pierre-louis9218

6 жыл бұрын

Teresa Pacelli i

@Adme09

6 жыл бұрын

I think my ex girlfriend was the same type, our love was pure but my laguages were compleatly different. She just wanted me to spend time with her and be there for acts of service, I wanted her to support my passion in sports and encourage me to get better. We broke up still loving each other, but unable to be together.

1. Quality time 2. Acts of service 3. Words of affirmation 4. Physical touch 5. Gifts

quality time

Can you please make a video about ''Must read books in your lifetime?" I really NEED recommendations please 😩 I want books that inspire and give you advice!! Books like the one Jay showed by Gary Chapman! That is fine

@SunMilkey

6 жыл бұрын

Dale Carnegies book about stop worring changed my life :)

@hunter1029016

5 жыл бұрын

The Bible

@groslinchristina9593

5 жыл бұрын

Bible is the best book referred ever.

@brightenkingsleyofficial679

5 жыл бұрын

@@hunter1029016 your right 😇😇

@alyssamonaco5780

5 жыл бұрын

Books I need to buy: The alchemist The denial of death by Ernest Baker They say I say The myth of Sisyphus So you want to talk about race -ljeoma Oluo Scythe- Neal shusterman Bone by yrsa Afterland Mai der Vang The hand maids tell

affirmation, then touch, then quality time! Great video!

Quality time is the most precious Gift that you can receive

Hello jay thank u for all ur videos.They really help me a lot.Please come to mumbai and do a meet up.We all want to meet u.I am very desperate to meet u.Lots of love from india.♥

@onlyme6662

6 жыл бұрын

Mangesh. ..mumbi? Sweet☺

I'm all... Now what???

@nasseral-momen1463

6 жыл бұрын

Styleby Cre no human is everything. The question is to dig deep and understand what it is you truly want. What truly moves you

@thealopeciadoctor

6 жыл бұрын

Nasser Al-momen uhm... that's not far fetched. I need quality time, to be touched, affirmation, i love when my partner does something nice for me, and especially feel loved if he buys me something i needed. So yes, i need all 5.

@TSBOFRLM

6 жыл бұрын

What he said is “get them into a bit of priority order so that you can understand yourself better”....He’s trying to get you to understand what kind of person you are, what is important to you, what do you require etc and then figure out why and then it can help you understand that maybe your partners priority is different from your own ....if that helps.😘

@arpithaacharya5750

6 жыл бұрын

Hey the point here is to understand Wt ur partner is and do accordingly.

@geaninamedana

6 жыл бұрын

Take the test! We are all a combination of all 5, but the test helps you find your top #1 & #2, that's your most imp. For example, I.am 9 points in Acts of Service, but 11 in Physical Touch

1. Gifts 2. Acts of service 3. words of affirmation 4. physical touch 5. quality time

Words of Affirmation and acts of service!! Awesome vid 🙂

So... physical relationship?🤔🤔 What if it's a long distance relationship 😓😥😥

@paddybibs2738

5 жыл бұрын

You don't need that.

@barbarahammer9037

5 жыл бұрын

IF you like physical touch don't go into a long distance relationship. I haven't see my long distance boyfriend over 2 years now. IT hurts you can't be together and touch each other and other thing too. THING twice before you get into it.. thank you..

@tiyasarma6516

5 жыл бұрын

@@barbarahammer9037 😓😓😓

@parveenlathar9235

5 жыл бұрын

Just don't let ur love fade away b'coz of any one out of these urge/want... Love truly and faithfully and one day all u need will come to u with never lasting happiness...😊😊

@tiyasarma6516

5 жыл бұрын

@@parveenlathar9235 🌹🌹ok

I need quality time. I just want him to give me that :')

1. Words of affirmation 2. Quality time 3. Acts of service Thanks, Jay!

4th

I was thinking that you are Indian, Today your T-shirt said it..😇😇🇮🇳🇮🇳

Acts of services. Quality Time. Vocal affirmations. Touch. Gifts

Indian 😁👌👍

@san.n7763

6 жыл бұрын

WHO ARE TOM ALTER AND RUSKIN BONDS?? EXCATLEY

1.words of affirmations 2.gifts 3.quality time 4.physical touch 5.acts of service

#5. Acts of service.. I read this book about 10 years ago. It definitely helped me to understand myself better. I just discovered your videos and I love them. Thank you!

1) Quality Time 2) Physical Touch 3) Acts of Service 4) Words of Affirmation 5) Gifts

1. affirmation through words 2. physical touch 3. gifts as top priority 4. quality time 5. acts of service - a small favor etc 2... 4... 5... My most important I think

My love language is words of affirmation and quality time! Thank you for sharing your thoughts and advice!

Thank you so much!! This video will surely make my relationship with people much much better

Quality time for sure Affection,care and love Appreciation Respect and trust

Jay love all your videos been threw so much hurt and your videos are helpful thanks x

I ended up buying all 3 books because it was like a lightbulb had switched on, it helped me work out what each of my children needed from me in order to feel loved and they all have a different love style! Revolutionary stuff because it applies to not just the intimate relationships but every relationship in ones life!

For me No.1 is Quality time. I love your videos. It encourages me a lot.

Really helpful Appreciate the work you're doing to make people's life meaningful

Physical touch , words of affirmation , quality time

I am a person who wants affirmation... I always get those words of encouragement from brothers

Ur videos are so inspiring ..keep up ur absolute good work

Words of affirmation.. amazing video Jay..

Quality time, acts of service, affirmation

quality time, acts of service and physical touch

Words of Affirmation & Quality Time

Quality time, words of affirmation and acts of service.

You 100 % correct. Love your wisdom. 🙏👌

"Genuine conveyance of love". 👏👏👏

Words of affirmation. I constantly need that like air. It pushes me to do better in life generally.

Quality time words of affirmation ,physical touch,acts of service,gifts