New point of view , eye opening, waiting for part 2.

ITS TRUE AND GOOD EXPLANATION THANK YOU THOZAR

Book explains well,The editing is so,good,we need this editing style 4 upcoming videos❤

Nice points mentioned, I like the books and the topics you are coming up with... worth content

It's not only in the rape issue Ananthi... I'm going to marry a girl now recently i was getting advice from everyone about how to treat her and how to act as a man on controlling her..ect. I'm so much confused with them.., I want to be a normal person with her and I want to have conversation and relationship as a human nothing else.. but why in our society there is lots of conversation with this in a wrong way ... I don't know., Please make a video on this

@rakshithv6199

10 ай бұрын

True

@-NandhiniC

10 ай бұрын

Ignore that advices bro just be yourself to our partner and treat her well moreover its your life not theirs😊

@Pradeepkumar-kd8dd

10 ай бұрын

@@-NandhiniC 👍

@kaavyat9861

10 ай бұрын

Thirupi asingama Kelunga. Apo than puriyum.

@mahathi141

10 ай бұрын

Hello! I am glad that you don't want to control her... Rather than getting advice from other people, just let that girl know what kind of man you are and ask her what she expects...

Men who talk about false rape for anything and everything need to understand the fact that there are more rape cases went unreported than the false ones

@athirar2356

10 ай бұрын

Just because they count less in number, doesn't mean they have to be ignored. Both should be given justice. Before 50 years people who spoke about our (women's) sufferings were less in number, what if they were ignored? Think.

@Sri-vx9st

10 ай бұрын

​@@athirar2356we just ask you not to be so judgemental. Don't accuse anyone until proved( based on your assumption)

@athirar2356

10 ай бұрын

@@Sri-vx9st Exactly! that's what I wanna say to law systems, police and finally social media "Don't accuse anybody until proved". But, when it comes to women who is accusing against men, it is pre-judged.

@SyNaj

10 ай бұрын

They only talk about false accusation when rape is talked about, just to demean or neutralize rape, false accusation it is not a real issue for them. It is just a tool

@i8memes

9 ай бұрын

read this also tamil konngass Since the Nirbhaya Rape case happened in the year 2012 an alarming increase in the false rape cases being filed is recorded. Many innocents have been convicted guilty for their life. In 2014, Commission for Women submitted a report stating that 53.2% of rape cases registered between April 2013-July 2014 were false

I appreciate and hats off for RJ and tara kaushal

I appreciate your courageous effort to talk about this topic which is often categorized as taboo. I feel, today's men should talk about such topics more because when a woman speaks for herself, they are labeled as Feminist which itself is not acceptable for many men. They feel intimidating by seeing an independent woman. Breaking the barriers and speaking against the social evils such as rape, needs a real gut. 👏 👏 You have brought this book to our knowledge, hopefully this would give different perspective to understand different dark sides of people. Few men have no idea, they are narcissists, and most of the victims are their lover, girlfriend, sister, or close circle who are their loved ones. Could you please talk about that as well in the upcoming days with some book reference. It saddened my heart much about the attitude of such man who does rape, just to prove their physical strength and power. I wish educating people on their humanities and behaviour with their opposite gender would decrease the rate of rape. Respect to the author and you Anandhi.❤

@muthusiva4824

10 ай бұрын

true... but oru visayam enna na independent ana women ah pathu real men bayapadavo padharavo matanga...women epd irundhalum rape nadakudhu bcoz adhu pshcho thanam....kadumayana thandanai m awareness m valakura vidhamum maranum varanum adhu vandhale podhum...pengal pblms pathi pesa thana feminism iruku...pengal pblms pathi pesuranala aangalku pblm illa pengal inga avanga pblms pesurenu sollitu aangaluku entha pblm m illa aanai irupadhu easy nu soldra toxic feminist ah patha tha kadupagudhu...

@SyNaj

10 ай бұрын

Agreed

@i8memes

9 ай бұрын

read this also tamil konngass Since the Nirbhaya Rape case happened in the year 2012 an alarming increase in the false rape cases being filed is recorded. Many innocents have been convicted guilty for their life. In 2014, Commission for Women submitted a report stating that 53.2% of rape cases registered between April 2013-July 2014 were false

Amazing speech... well done Pls do part 2 video. Because the book cost is High... Thanks

We all should know about this . Your courage is amazing

Beautifully expressed by You!

Good to discuss such things really needed for life

Part 2 video podunga inum intha book pathi awareness irukm

An interesting video and discussion ❤ Loved it ❤

நிறைய யோசிக்க வைத்தது மேலும் இது மாதிரியான content - யை தைரியமாக பேசியது சிறப்பு

Well explained, thank you ananthi

Need of the hour 👏👌

Waiting for part two see you soon 🔜

Rape and sexual abuse crimes should immediately stop. These rapists put the entire male community to shame. Every men is looked upon with suspicion and fear because of these rapists. *If a girl keeps hearing these kind of news of men sexually abusing women very often, then fear and hatred for men keeps growing in her mind, even to the point where she refuses to be around men and even marry any man.* Punishments for Rape should be as brutal as possible for the criminals to understand the gravity of the crime.

Wow! Very much needed information about patriarchy!!

Your narration was so nice.... literally uou made me curious to purchase that book.. thank you yaar

Hats off❤️✨️

Perfect!!!!

Awesome really a different topic ths time

Amazing explanation 👏

This part was super.ananthi you nailed it❤

Great excerpts from the book!! I wish you had provided the statistics with the data

தமிழில் இது போன்ற விடையங்களைப் பற்றி பதிவு செய்வது போற்றுதற்குரியது. வாழ்த்துக்கள் 🤝🏾

Waiting for next part.

19:51 Yes.. This is what i want to hear.. I can sense the true discussion that you want to bring out through this topic..

It is happy to see how men are also accepting and listening to this topic and supporting it. When I am opening comments section I expected and criticisms from men. But the reality is upside down . Very happy to see 🎈

🫡Akka...... so happy that u talked about the most sensitive topic's another side. It's really necessary to understand the psychological things from the side of a rapist. I do have a question akka...... WHAT DOES THE RAPIST THINK ABOUT THE CONSEQUENCES OR SENTENCES OF COMMITTING A RAPE? DESPITE FEARING PUNISHMENTS DOES HE FEEL GUILTY ABOUT THE ACT LATER❓️ Anything regarding this in the book......

Well said mam❤

Super awesome awareness about

Explained well super pa

What a great book 😳 , every minute in this video I’m hearing weird new perspectives

@i8memes

9 ай бұрын

read this also tamil konngass Since the Nirbhaya Rape case happened in the year 2012 an alarming increase in the false rape cases being filed is recorded. Many innocents have been convicted guilty for their life. In 2014, Commission for Women submitted a report stating that 53.2% of rape cases registered between April 2013-July 2014 were false

Outfit doesn't matter. there is a rape victims outfit exhibition. Most importantly. Not all the Men are rapist.

@r0dpr13s7

Ай бұрын

That's not true. MAJORITY of men are not rapists

I guess every woman one or the other way, should really feel relatable, Thanks for bringing this book out.

@i8memes

9 ай бұрын

read this also tamil konngass Since the Nirbhaya Rape case happened in the year 2012 an alarming increase in the false rape cases being filed is recorded. Many innocents have been convicted guilty for their life. In 2014, Commission for Women submitted a report stating that 53.2% of rape cases registered between April 2013-July 2014 were false

@Alchemist.22_

9 ай бұрын

@@i8memes yaru paa nee Elaa cmntlayum irka

@Jo-12-

5 ай бұрын

​@@i8memes oh my God... Ipdium iruka

Waiting for part 2

Waiting for 2nd part

I don't know why this video is so hard to watch. And I can't imagine how a rape victim would cope with it all. Women are really strong. It pains me to watch the video, how a girl would feel. However, there is always a great hope that such a big issue can get solved when people like you talk about it on a mass media platform. Please keep doing more videos so that you can blast everyone's(assaulting men) mind in some way and can reduce the probability as much as possible. What you doing now is a great mission. 👍

@i8memes

9 ай бұрын

read this also tamil konngass Since the Nirbhaya Rape case happened in the year 2012 an alarming increase in the false rape cases being filed is recorded. Many innocents have been convicted guilty for their life. In 2014, Commission for Women submitted a report stating that 53.2% of rape cases registered between April 2013-July 2014 were false

Mam, These concepts are not only strange and bizarre for you, Even for me as 34 aged Man. Only You would be the one can reveal such concepts does exist. I will give special attention for your video, I will take to this my heart.

Very much needed ! Mindset of Rape ! After having seen and hearing so much about it always!

i am also men, but i am not a guy who think about a women in wrong way,its haram. its prohibited. and my mindset is not like that

it was nice questioning the ideology of women being an asset for men

Part 2 seekirama venum ka!!!

nice explanation sissy💌

@RJ Ananthi, please talk about mental health which is the root cause of all these. Mental health is so important which is not spoken about much in India as much as it should be. Everyone has trauma in their lives. Since the age of 6 if children can be taken once in a while to psychologist or education in school about mental health is important. or parents should be guided to speak to children, learn about their feelings. Parents who don't know these how to bring up a child of good mental health, thats when teenagers develop to become narcissists. All parents should be educated on how to handle the emotions and thoughts of their kids the right way. Just providing food and things for children is not bringing up children.

@i8memes

9 ай бұрын

read this also tamil konngass Since the Nirbhaya Rape case happened in the year 2012 an alarming increase in the false rape cases being filed is recorded. Many innocents have been convicted guilty for their life. In 2014, Commission for Women submitted a report stating that 53.2% of rape cases registered between April 2013-July 2014 were false

Thanq❤️ kka

Nice one

I Appreciate you ka nice book review

Need part -ll🚶🏼‍♀️

As a guy whose brought up in an elite environment and who's life revolves around well read and well aware people, issues like these often ignored and are thought of as something that happens only in rural places or in places with people with backward mindsets... Until things happen to someone you know. Keeping the negativity aside, it's really important to open up our minds to such realities and the core mindset of people indulging in such crimes. Also, I'm looking forward to further parts of this review, where u might discuss about well read and educated men... What would their mindset be? They would certainly have felt some shame...right..? And finally, what do u think is a solution? Is it just getting as many people educated as possible, while instilling such topics into early education?

@shaktishrivithiya496

11 ай бұрын

A good friend of mine who is an activist told me that in india its only recent year all this good and bad touch is taught and taken seriously and there is very little help or knowledge most sexual abuse are from known people. And most woman don't react even if they know a child or woman being abused cos they are financially dependent on that man and worried about their society as most of India is not city. So i guess the recent year this has been changing.

@i8memes

9 ай бұрын

read this also tamil konngass Since the Nirbhaya Rape case happened in the year 2012 an alarming increase in the false rape cases being filed is recorded. Many innocents have been convicted guilty for their life. In 2014, Commission for Women submitted a report stating that 53.2% of rape cases registered between April 2013-July 2014 were false

Nice...

So nice video

The core is - Man donno its rape and they cannot accept if a woman denies them (esp husbands). Thats the biggest problem. As a single woman, i repeated hear this problem from married women about their Hubands and the endure it continuously for years and years.

@rajkumar-cd4gv

11 ай бұрын

சுவாசம், பசி, தாகம், தூக்கம், கழிவு நீக்கம், பாலியல் உணர்வு இவை எல்லாம் அனைவருக்கும் அதாவது ஆண் பெண் இருவருக்கும் ஒன்றுதான் அப்படி இருக்க ஒரு ஆண் தனது மனைவியிடம் பாலியல் உறவு வேண்டும் என்று கேட்ட்கும் போது மனைவி பாலியல் உறவுக்கு விருப்பம் இல்லாமல் இருக்கும் போது அந்த மனைவிக்கு என்ன பிரச்சனை உள்ளது உடம்பில் பிரச்சனையா அல்லது மனதில் பிரச்சனையா அல்லது கணவருடன் பிரச்சனையா அல்லது கால இடை வேளையில் பிரச்சனையா என்பதை அந்த மனைவி கூற வேண்டும் இந்த 4 விஷயத்தில் பிரச்சனை இருக்கும் போது அதனை ஓர் பாலியல் மருத்துவரை மற்றும் ஒரு மன நல மருத்துவரை பார்த்து ஆலோசனை பெற்று பிரச்சனையினைக்கு தீர்வு காண்பது தான் ஒரு அறிவு உள்ள ஒரு மனைவியின் செயலக இருக்கு வேண்டும் அதற்கு மாறக பாலியல் உறவு வேண்டும் என்று சொல்லுவதினால் பிரச்சனை முடிந்து விடாது மாறாகபிரச்சனை அதிகம் தான் ஆகும், நீங்க இந்த பிரச்னைக்கு என்ன தீர்வு கொடுப்பிர்கள், ஆண் மற்றும் பெண் இருவரும் மருத்துவ அறிவியல் மூலம் பிரச்சனைக்கு தீர்வு காணவில்லை என்றால் RAPE, குடும்ப வாழ்க்கை, குழந்தை வாழ்க்கை, சமுதாயம் போன்ற பல பாதிக்க படும், constitution of india article 51a கிளாஸ் H என்ன சொல்லுது என்றால் to develop the scientific temper, humanism and the spirit of inquiry and reform னு சொல்லுது அதனால இந்த புக் 1கோடி பேரிடம் பேசி எழுதியது என்பத்தினால் மட்டும் எல்லா பிரச்னைக்கும் தீர்வு சொல்ல முடியாது மேலும் ஆனந்தி மனநல மருத்துவரும் இல்லை பாலியல் மருத்துவரும் இல்லை just அந்த book க படித்து தனது point of view சொல்லும் ஒரு நபர் மட்டும் தான் ஆகையால் ஆனந்தியிடம் இதற்கு எல்லாம் அறிவுரை கேட்பது சரி அல்ல, ஆனந்திக்கும் தெரியும் நான் சொல்லுவது உண்மை என்று

@shaktishrivithiya496

11 ай бұрын

@@rajkumar-cd4gv lol i can't read tamil. But i hope what you write benefits others.

@Queen-oq9yg

10 ай бұрын

​@@rajkumar-cd4gv I agreed with your point. Just like happiness, sadness, hungry and angry... Sex is one kind of emotion. I know there is no gender barrier in this emotions. But... If your partner is not willing to share her body to satisfy your needs you should respect her. Because as like you, she has the rights over her own body. And one more thing... The fact she denies sexual intercourse means she has some problem with her body or mind so she need to visit doctor and go through some sort of counseling and stuff means... If men couldn't control his sexual needs, means may be they are sexual adict and may had some mental disorder regarding that adiction... so why can't they visit the same psychologist and get a theropy first?

Hats off akka🫡👏

Love a single partner is blessing . Accept as they are is blessing. Accepted their family as yours is blesising. Ups and down have a same face is blessing Respecting your parther as yourself is blessing

@i8memes

9 ай бұрын

read this also tamil konngass Since the Nirbhaya Rape case happened in the year 2012 an alarming increase in the false rape cases being filed is recorded. Many innocents have been convicted guilty for their life. In 2014, Commission for Women submitted a report stating that 53.2% of rape cases registered between April 2013-July 2014 were false

Many good things are pointed out in this video. This is a very important issue, which become a very big disaster around the world. From my own research, I found out three reasons and all are from research papers. 1) Most crimes happen in the influence of alcohol, and we can see that many grape have been happening because of intake alcohol, which make your mind to be not on conscious. 2) Addiction in pornograpghy, statistics tells that more 45% of people who graped others are pornographic addicts. 3) psychologically affected people from childhood thinks that, it's not wrong because some extreme cases happened in some countries like mother graping her own son or like father graping his own daughter. I am not a modern feminist because that ideology went too extreme that some women started to grape men and boys. As well as fake abuse and grape cases on some innocent men. i used the term " some" because as a logical human being we should never generalize bad behavior to any gender, race, religion or colour. As per biological study, men have little more drive in sexual behavior than women but it never supports grape in any way or form.

After reading these comments i feel like our future generations guys won't repeat it, they've got an understanding abt women, even some were these cruelty happens but there are many more men to support women and raise them

Manusmriti book review paneengla.. antha video link knjm share panunga please..??

I did happen to chat to the authour through social media. She is a genuine person, does responds to readers. Most of the crimes are done without knowing its the crime. Still there are many people who are not aware what is right and wrong. One sees how a person been treated at home. Some of the books and programs guides it wrongly. The fundamental change needs to come from education system and awareness. In country like sweden both men and women are equal in chores and earning, raising the kids. At least the same template can be tried. Moreover the law and investigations needs to be integrated with technology. Like body language anslysis and not just with words, when there is no fear and one could get out of the crime i dont get how law and order be acheived. Its been said punishment will be severe if victim dies. Ideally a punishment was to change a person by taking the psychology aspect a person needs to be released, but that doesnt happen. The permanent solution is to have an emphatetic people, respecting others boundaries, irrespective of caste and gender. Unless this happens the crime continues to happen. The reported issues are few, the missing cases and unreported cases will be more. This is something needs to be addresed by considering psychology aspect, if it needs to be controlled in coming days. Good choice of book well presented ma.

Vera Mari 🔥👌

Hats off to you Sister! As a College Boy 😢 I am Worrying for Psycho Men. To solve this Problem Government should increase the Punishment for Rape Case like Death Sentence immediately after Pure investigation. And society should be taught with good positive psychology rather than Only language math science and social.

@Mr_Harith1021

11 ай бұрын

Despite of goverment parents also shpuls take a seriois responsibility on these kind of topics to their kids

@163devinej8

11 ай бұрын

Nee solra mari punishment ah increase panna death sentence kudutha prechana theerumna kandippa illa Ippo oru ponnuku unna pudikala ava unna ethirka nenacha easy ah rape case kuduthutu poiruva society unna nambathu avala thaa nambum pathika padurathu namma thaa

@V_i_g_n_e_s_h__S

10 ай бұрын

Bro I am 1st year BE EEE in KCT coimbatore

@i8memes

9 ай бұрын

read this also tamil konngass Since the Nirbhaya Rape case happened in the year 2012 an alarming increase in the false rape cases being filed is recorded. Many innocents have been convicted guilty for their life. In 2014, Commission for Women submitted a report stating that 53.2% of rape cases registered between April 2013-July 2014 were false

Every one in this world has a choice to say no and their freedom is not with any one but them, If it is not acceptable by brutal beings hatred and unlawful thoughts arises it is shown by them their action

Part 2 please madam

Negaa soldra content elameee nalaruku aana oru kind request...nega soli mudichi video end laa oru review maari like over view maari solugaa kaa inum konjaa nalaaa clarity ahh irukum... Moral of the story maarii.... ✨

Toxic part but information.but handle it well

So simple...punishment avlo seriousa ila nama naatla

Akka neenga Vera level

Part 2 podunge

It's a very simple thing, tickling makes one giggle, but it does not mean they are comfortable and receiving. When you make a move on a girl and don't stop when she says no, it's rape, even if she isn't able to do anything about it in the circumstance. Most victims go into a state of shock that immobilizes them. Absence of resistance is not consent.

From this we shall understand the perception in manipur issues

yes its true true true true

Mam pls thanthra vazhiel thampathya vazhkai book pathi sollunga pls

@arasuthangadurai4851

11 ай бұрын

Sir antha book ella bookaiyum oram kattidum.

🤔I think a few blank lines have been answered that an assumption about pre-male society is the nature of how it is taught to this day. Thank you for this video madam at the right time 🙏

Hi Ananthi, how did rapists families react once they got to know this incident? Or didn't they aware of it?

@shakthi9524

10 ай бұрын

I've heard somewhere a rapist's mother pleaded in the court to free her son😑

@SyNaj

10 ай бұрын

​@@shakthi9524worst case

@exoticfreak8325

10 ай бұрын

​@@shakthi9524 Bruh that's disgusting.. I wonder what kind of mother she is..supporting her rapist son.

19.58 I think that is where we have to analyze

Sister, I've been in lot of temples, but I never seen any girl doing priest job, please talk about that. Thanks for giving the information.

Akka , as u said at 19:53 , Only very very few men rape … Apdina antha Book ooda title “ Why do some men rape “ nu tana avanga eluthirkanum🧐. Why she wrote a book titled “Why men rape ?” Which portrays all Men are bad😕

@ganeshk9635

10 ай бұрын

Correct question than , ena panrathu

@ashnathan916

10 ай бұрын

ithuku peruthann pseudo feminism xD

@oruvan123

10 ай бұрын

Ivlo neelama vacha page pathaathu!! Basically men yen rape pandranga'ndrathu thaan!!

@IvyLoverBoy

10 ай бұрын

Finally some one asked....

@yathevbala5867

10 ай бұрын

It’s because this book is not about why women rape ! That’s why it is named why men rape and it also doesn’t say why all men rape! ( arivaaaa kelvi kekura perla cringe pannaaathenga bro)

🔥🔥🔥

Please review this Tamil book "Thanthara vazhil Thampathiyam". It has complete solution for men & women relationship

Sister..இந்த book எப்படி வாங்குறது

Hi ananthi..are girls only abused physically.. most of the time we are abused mentally by our family.. not able to tolerate it .. I really want to come out of my family 😞

@Mel-by7re

10 ай бұрын

yes. it is important to learn emotional and mental abuse. When you know your family is toxic, first step is don't let them affect you mentally. Get mental help and support from therapists, friends etc... I do not know your age. Find out who are really good people around you, who won't take advantage of you, form a good trust worthy friends & relative circles for your own self. Start building yourself up in studies and professional work wise, become super strong mentally, emotionally and physically. Give yourself love, take care of your own physical health, mental health etc... do things that make you happy to counteract the negativities in the life, fill it up with other positive interests, like learning new things or travel what makes you happy that doesn't hurt yoruself or others (stay away from bad vices like smoking, drinking or drugs). watch self love and self improvement videos. you can do this. and once you are strong in all these ways, move out, detach yourself from toxic family members. good luck

Nailed it 🔥☺️. According to those people everything lies in women's virginity. Surely need of the hour. Iam sure the writer would have a great research about the incidents. Victim blaming is a common factor we observe in our day to day life.The point is they're not worried about women's consent. If they're allowed to they would have chosen their partner wisely and the population wouldn't have increased like this 😮😢. When I was small i didn't know the difference between sex and rape. When i came to know that I was really shocked. The patriarchy has made us talk about women as a property and scold someone using the words mentioning female parts. As u said in cities they atleast know that's a crime so many cases are reported then what about the villages..even in animals the females are taking their own decisions. The males have written everything in the name of religious text which should be followed by women and they're are made to without realising that they don't have freedom to take their decisions on their own and should listen to males.The absence of women in history is man-made. Let's see part 2

@i8memes

9 ай бұрын

read this also tamil konngass Since the Nirbhaya Rape case happened in the year 2012 an alarming increase in the false rape cases being filed is recorded. Many innocents have been convicted guilty for their life. In 2014, Commission for Women submitted a report stating that 53.2% of rape cases registered between April 2013-July 2014 were false

Hi even men’s gets abused by men yes I had abused in SETC bus when I was 20 I was going to my hometown after pongal leave in company I think it was morning 5’o clock Some thing was going in pants I can feel it I was in deep sleep Because I am to tired of double shifts then I suddenly I wake and I see a hand of decent Old man and I pushed his hand Out of pant because he opened my zeep in my pant I was terribly angry I don’t know what to do after that also he is trying to touch my pant and hitted in the bus side wall he changed his seat You know I am a body builder I can hit him He can’t do anything But I was silent after few minutes he asked me is it trichy bus stand arrived But I was silent I didn’t say anything Even now I didn’t say to anyone because it’s a shame for me to say to others then what will happen nothing will happen no one trust me to…. Because I am a Boy

I felt from my own experience is. its a ken world...

Why men of that family accept him even after convicted?

Im very worried about these kind of psycho why thiss happen for women how can control it really don't😢😢😢but as a women I have fear about this 😭

@VasanthKumar-bf9je

10 ай бұрын

Are you a cyber security analyst. or just person doing grey hat stuffs

Also wise versa.. male and male children gets abused by some women's recent times. Cannot tell out

@blue_moon1_1

10 ай бұрын

Ratio isn't even visible for this

Akka.I am a male of 17 years.Ennala gender equality puringika mudiyuthu.aanaalum ennala oru ponnukitta poi pesa mudiyala athuku reason ava ponnu ndrathu mattum than. I dont know why?please tell the reason and intha video neenga sonnathu romba cleara irunthuchi.

@shakthi9524

10 ай бұрын

Ponnu kita pesa mudiyathaku karanam ava oru ponnu apdithana😂😂 apona paiyan kita pesurathu

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People should walk freely just as Ghandi dreamed. People should without fear face their fear or problems. Speak feom heart what they want without hesitate. I'll make that somehow.

Your pattimandrum speech poodunga plss

The men who are involved in the sexual harresment why they dont have the feeling that they will be punished severly.

Who knows. its spontanious reaction to frusturation and opportunities to use

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Ethana vedio va pathutu suma namallum rape panum nu sila per panuranga akka ( etha mathri vedios ha stop panalam la ? )

Salute you Anandhi mam. Great speech and great book . It’s like connecting dots for me. I don’t live in India, I miss the food and social life there. Also I don’t want to return because of this unsafe situation. It will be a rebirth for me to imagine a life in india if there is no rape. We have our cinemas with slum guy who is a rowdy stalking Anglo Indian girl . If he keeps stalking she have to love no option. If she don’t , after all his effort and time , he will definitely rape. Reminds me all Dhanush movies. Even KGF. Idhula mother sentiment veera. Actually the truth is, they made girls believe that when a boy stalks and follows only then she have to tell yes. I thought it shows the intensity of love , but it is also breeding the boys with mindset not to accept NO.