"Letting go means to come to the realization that some people are a part of your history, but not a part of your destiny."

Breaking up is hard, but letting go is even harder.

@karimabidi8312

20 күн бұрын

Tru, especially when the chemistry is good and there are so many memories

@kanchanm6351

20 күн бұрын

Letting Go is hard ..but trust yourself..it brings the authentic version of yourself, which u might have lost during the relationship phase of your life

@toppro9187

20 күн бұрын

And moving on is the hardest.... Like you can let the go and still love them to the core 💔😢

@kanchanm6351

19 күн бұрын

@@toppro9187 yes dear but their is always Day 1 for everything. Even if u start working upon yourself , their might be days where u will like quitting, but then if you really wants to free yourself from suicidal thoughts or unnecessary burdens u have on your shoulder , u will really start working on self 💪

@mskristina1000

19 күн бұрын

I almost had to let go of my BGF (best guy friend) at one point, he went MIA for a long time and thought he was never going to come back so, after not hearing from him anymore I realized that I don't think he was going to come back, I was almost on the verge of doing that, about to move on, until he came back after 2 1/2 months of being gone for so long, I didn't want to but almost had no choice, between January - March of this year, had to let him go temporarily for a good while since things were just getting out if hand, nothing was being resolved and just couldn't deal with him and bull**** anymore. But overall, he's not only my BGF but also a crush I accidentally, unexpectedly and wrongly caught feelings for a couple years back, we've known each other 7 years now, been through a lot, hell and back even, there's been times (still is at times) that I thought about letting him go, that it'd be better of without him but turns out, I can't really do that, I'd regret it and go running back to him, begging for another chance. Letting go and moving really is that hard to do, it's like grief almost, and just as hard and painful to go through, and I really don't want to do that to him. I love and care about him too much to do that.😞

It's better to let them go if they don't know how to appreciate and give a value to your efforts. 🌱

@sunburstshredder

20 күн бұрын

100% agree. If they don't see the good in you, they're not worth your time

A broken relationship is like shattered glass. You hold on tightly to it no matter how much your hands may bleed

@dorjjodvobatkhuu6457

19 күн бұрын

Amen 😢

@johnadams1976

19 күн бұрын

depends on circumstances.... sometimes a phonecall to the glaser for a new pane of glass is what's needed... no need to even clear up the old shattered one... they'll do it!

0:32 It is a distraction 1:09 Different values and beliefs 2:16 It is abusive 2:45 You have outgrown them 3:27 It just isn't working

@mom2suns857

19 күн бұрын

Thank you 🙏🏾

@noonegirl

19 күн бұрын

Thank you 😊

Remember people, It's better to do it *now* than doing it later, you'll procrastinate and remember it over and over again. Don't make my mistake when I was moving

@rassong752

19 күн бұрын

I can agree with you, don't hold on, you need to move on and live your life

@Inspired_by_Sarah

18 күн бұрын

Well too late cuz i already did it haha but now after 4years I've decided that i will be the one to let go of that relationship even if it hurt me ik it the best thing i can do in order to stop living in the past anymore and grow ❤

@aylinmadenci7344

13 күн бұрын

But i have nobody else, only him. I dont know how.

@Inspired_by_Sarah

13 күн бұрын

@aylinmadenci7344 Trust me it's better to do it now rather than regret wasting your time on that person later

best timing ever for my point in life rn

@Psych2go

20 күн бұрын

Hope this video can help you out! sending lots of love

@sweetea6550

20 күн бұрын

SAME…...

I had a crush on a girl who liked me back, but we never said anything. Her family moved out of state, and my crush mutated into an unhealthy obsession. It took me over 10 years to get over her while she (thankfully) didn't even know and long moved on. 17 years later I ran into her 2 weeks ago. I didn't tell her every single thing I thought up, but I finally got to say the important stuff to her face. She gave me hugs, and I broke down in her arms. I'm exhausted

@joplopz2791

20 күн бұрын

same but i did it earlier

@aaaverage

20 күн бұрын

Get some sleep man

@hyakuyonjuni

19 күн бұрын

this plot sounds familiar..

@plasmaowl5281

19 күн бұрын

@@hyakuyonjuni yeah, turns out it happens; people like each other, move away, and some cling to what-could've-been fantasies. I almost didn't make it past 2022. I'm significantly less sad now that I'm free, but emptier. Most of my peers started their own families, some of their kids are approaching the age I was when I first met the girl. I'm now struggling to forgive myself for refusing to move on like she did because I'm living this consequence. There's no rewind button

@martyvirtue4051

18 күн бұрын

Idiot.

You dont lose people, people lose u 💜

@melodiejohnston9528

20 күн бұрын

Thank you.

@Minmoni30

20 күн бұрын

So real

@johnadams1976

19 күн бұрын

unfortunately that's not always true and within your control

@LtSimonRiley141

8 күн бұрын

It's just a way to escape the reality which isn't in our hands....a harsh truth

Recently had to end a relationship for very valid reasons. Still doesn't stop me from missing them intensely and feeling sad about it. This video came at a perfect time for me. Thank you for it

@joylechanceux4805

20 күн бұрын

Yeah same, it’s really hard to let someone go and I also feel remorse and sadness sometimes but then I remember that it was the right thing to do

@iii9602

19 күн бұрын

Same here. Had to take the decision...they never prioritised me when I was there. Now after 1.5 months of silence they want to be back. It took every ounce of my energy to tell them no and it's over.

I had a bad experience with a toxic friend. I had to get out of that friendship. At the time, I had no friends other than her. She was the one who introduced me to her own group of friends. But she would treat me horribly. She would say horrible things about me, make me do all the assignments, make threats if I did anything wrong, purposefully exclude me out of group activities after all I’d do, and many more things that still hurt to this day…. The rest of her friends in the group would just follow along with her. I was afraid for about 4 years to end our “friendship,” because I felt that I’d be all alone, no more friends. I never told anyone about how bad my experience was with her. It felt like a trap sometimes. I’m happy that I found the courage to get out of it. But even though she treated me horribly, I struggled with letting it go, and I still did care about her for some reason. I guess this kind of friendship was all I knew about friendship. I never had many “friends” before this, so it kind of made me believe that this was normal. I also tried to emphasize with her that maybe she was going through a lot, but she would dismiss it whenever i tried to ask and just make fun of me more, so in the end, it was all just harming me too much. I had to get out. I hope she is a better person now and if she was struggling with anything, I hope everything is alright now. Wishing anyone else that had a bad experience in a friendship or relationship all the best ❤

@lizzie7929

20 күн бұрын

I can somewhat relate, hope you’re in a better situation, right now! 🙏And surrounded by the right people! I had a friend, turn on me so out of the blue! I honestly, have no idea , whether I did something , unintentionally or if they did something! They started harassing me as in being super bossy or unlike a friend would act at all! and to be honest it felt like bullying! So, I just dropped them! I did try and tell them how their behaviour was affecting me, but they seemed to carry on! Anyway, onwards to better, people! 😣🙏🥹

@LanasTutoring

20 күн бұрын

@@lizzie7929 I'm so sorry you went through that. I hope you're in a better place now! I'm proud of you for dropping it. They didn't deserve us and we deserve better ❤️ it took a long time for me to see that 🥲

@jicrown2719

20 күн бұрын

Yeah, hopefully all the people who got abandoned by their "Group of Friends" find something better to lean on and work forward on to being a better person. I was just getting abandoned by them several months ago and find out they are trying to get me suspended on every social media for their excuse. I thought I did something wrong at some point but in the end, they just want me to disappear for good. I cannot believe they went that far after the drama in my organization. They just keep on telling everyone that I was the cause of it, which I'm not sure about because all I see is themselves playing around until they burst out. All the dirty work was on them, and not me for doing bad action on their term. Later on, they blame me for incoordinate organization and so on that they forgot we are good friends not coworkers only. I'm struggling to see which one are the real friends, then they showed up like a bunch of bully ready to shove up all their bad deed unto me. Blaming me for everything and say I am way worse than trash.

@infjsolitaire.3538

20 күн бұрын

Hope you will do better and meet better friends too.

@elizabethmariavasquez6464

19 күн бұрын

I can relate with you. I had a few toxic friendships in the past. You stay because you don't wanna be alone or minimize the bad side of them. But, with self love/care, you can make it through and let them go. I don't have many friends too, and actually I'm trying to make new ones, but it's hard to find good people nowadays. Good luck in your chase 😊

I’ll never let my love to Pringles go.. it’s the most important thing to me rn. Edit: bruh im not used to this many likes, how the heck did this happen!? XD 🤣

@stewartrabbit3458

20 күн бұрын

Lol...

@JustDilasX

20 күн бұрын

Bro’s fw his Pringles

@dalecollier2853

20 күн бұрын

😂

@KristinHTF

20 күн бұрын

Same but with Coca Cola (my beloved 🥰)

@stream3261

20 күн бұрын

Same, pringles are my soulmate

bro i just prayed about leaving someone and i saw this😭

This is great timing for me personally. I broke up with my first boyfriend yesterday, and the pain I feel is immense. I've never loved anyone like I love him, but he wasn't ready to let go of his past relationship to be with me, and I know I deserve better than that. This decision was the hardest decision I ever made, but it was the right one, even though it hurts the both of us. My love for him won't go away anytime soon but I know I did what was right for myself and for him. Be strong and do right by yourself even when its difficult. You can do it ❤

@joylechanceux4805

20 күн бұрын

3 months ago I also had to break up with my girlfriend because she wanted to become transgender and like you, it was my first relationship, the first person I loved (romantically obviously, I love my family and friends) and it was extremely hard The day she told me that we had already been together for 4 months and I didn’t sleep that day, but I made my decision, I knew that I just couldn’t be with her because I would just never be able to be normal with her in a relationship, so now we try to stay friends, she moved on and found someone else I haven’t completely moved on and I think I won’t be able to until I love someone else but I know that it was the better decision for us, especially for her I’d say and will I still feel sad because of that sometimes and also feel regret I know that staying would’ve hurt more Anyway sorry for the wall of text I wish you good luck, even if it’s hard you’ll one day heal and will find someone else who’s emotionally available and more right for you You can do this ❤

@Queen_Supreme

20 күн бұрын

@joylechanceux4805 Thank you so much for your kind words and your encouragement. I'm sorry for what you went through. Heartbreak is the worst feeling imaginable. My relationship also lasted 4 months, but it still wasn't easy to leave him. I still love him, and part of me wants him to grow from this so we can find our way back to each other. But life works in mysterious ways, I've learned to expect the unexpected. Thank you again for your kind words. I really needed them. You'll find someone who's right for you and will love you. We both will it's only a matter of time ❤️

@joylechanceux4805

19 күн бұрын

@@Queen_Supreme thanks a lot

I really don't know how to thank you for this video I needed it, I have anxiety issues and all kinds of attachment issues, I'm starting to feel obsessed with my best friend, we haven't been friends for a long time, it's only been 4 months but I'm starting to develop romantic feelings for her, I cant study for my exams because I can't stop thinking about her and waiting for her messages all day long, she likes someone else I'm not sure about her but their parents wants them to get married and I wish it wouldn't end up like this but I think I have to , we are so different from each other and we don't have anything in common, just normal stuff, she can go a whole day without messaging me but I can't even study for 5mins straight without checking my phone so I think I'm making the right decision. It is really difficult and painful to make this decision but its the right thing to do. I hope one day to get rid of my attachment issues that have ruined my life.

I once thought before that holding on to certain people is what made me strong but sometimes letting go is what makes you strong.

Letting go of a friendship is hitting me harder than any of the goodbyes and partings I ever had to partake in 😢

My mind right now: Only know you love her when you LET HER GO. I got this from the song, Let Her Go by Passenger.

Reminds me of Billie Eilish’s song ‘when the party’s over’ “Let me let you go”

@Psych2go

20 күн бұрын

that's a good one!

Psych2go, tf are you spying on me again? Ngl, this actually gave me some relief for what I experienced. Thank you.

and now you're making me cry even more.

If you truly care for someone, sometimes you need to let them go. No explanation required for this statement, am I right?

I needed this one. I did it and it hurts but it was so good for me.

I went through this before, and i definitely felt better after i cut off the person who i poured in so much effort in for a year, but everything they've done made me miserable, so i did what i did.

I agree with distractions…I, for one have been distracted by family members that have no sense of boundaries they often take advantage of your generous nature. When you see your reflection and you don’t realise that you’re health, Your money, your time, Social life, mental health, your bills, your house, is being neglected because you’ve invested all into looking after family members, who don’t appreciate your sacrifice. This has happened to me. I was trying so hard 100% focused other family members… that I forgot myself… now I’m on track of fixing what I neglected… crediting my bills and home… now mental health and physical health… I know I’ll see myself again… living my comfortable lifestyle my way. I hope other people can do the same. Take one step at a time. This can save your life.

Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

@ThailandLottery-vz3pm

19 күн бұрын

Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!

@Jerome12222H

19 күн бұрын

Yes, dr.porassss. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

@adhamsoliman-ue2kn

19 күн бұрын

I wish they were readily available in my place. Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac. He's constantly talking about killing someone. He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.

@ThailandLottery-vz3pm

19 күн бұрын

Is he on instagram?

@Jerome12222H

19 күн бұрын

Yes he is dr.porassss.

Yes. Letting go was no easy task, but it sure as heck set me free mentally and spiritually. My breakup was just 2 years ago.

Thanks for this video! I just ended a friendship and this helped me feel better about it. It was the right thing to do.

I've been letting go of friendships where I've been the one keeping it going and hoping for more the entire time. It's hard and sad, but worth it for my own mental health.

i let go of a close person to me and I still think back about them. i wish things hadn't changed like they did, but I'm glad I let go

Y’all are cooking ❤ I need these kinds of videos this year

Just let go of someone yesterday. Realized I should have done so quite a long time ago 💚 but I cant blame myself, they were so tied to our mutual friend group, there was always this pressure to "work it out" or "just be chill" and I thought the problem was me. Only until others started to see his issues more recently did people say "Oh, man, its okay you feel this way, I didnt know this side to him" a side I saw years ago. I shouldve trusted myself enough to do it, but I might have lost other friends at the time. Who knows. Im not sure whats next. But felt good to finally let go. 💚

I've never loved anyone yet, but thanks for meaningful and valuable video as always

I never had any real friends until this May.😢

the perfect timing seriously- i'm just going throught letting an ex-crush go, thank you!

Initiated a breakup going on 6 years ago for all the right reasons (personal growth, mostly) but never let them go truly. Wasted time on other relationships in the meanwhile and grew up, then our paths crossed again. Now I can say I'm happily together with them again AND prepared to be an adult. Sometimes it's the timing, not the person or relationship itself that's wrong.

@prakhya123

10 күн бұрын

You are giving me false hope that he will come back in the future😅 he broke up with me though

Thank you for this.

Literally how did you know I was thinking about this the entire day. Am I living in the Truman Show??

@karimabidi8312

20 күн бұрын

Same - well, I think about it nearly everyday for more than half a year now, but yeah😂

What a coincidence! I’m never gonna see my crush ever again starting today and this video popped up 😮

Learned that years ago but thanks for the reminder

Man, this dropping in my feed today was perfect timing. Almost like the universe was giving me a sign.

I really needed this video ❤

If you want to fly, you have to give up what weighs you down.. To accept is to let go of what was, and believe in what will be; experiencing errors and mistakes can be awful, but it gives you lessons that you can take throughout your journey; those scars are the proof that you are strong. MAKE PEACE A PRIORITY!

I let go one of my friends over a year ago because our friendship simply wasnt working like it used to and had become a bit toxic. I still miss my friend so much and i often wish i could see them again even though i know i made the right choice.

Timing of KZread algorithm just couldn’t be more perfect… Thanks for the video! ✨

Its unreal how these vids always extremly relevant😢

Videos like this make me feel like no relationships will lasts when there are so many reasons to let go

this came at the perfect time thank you . . . .

Recently (a month ago) had to part ways with my ex girlfriend. She was the one to leave me first and I can't describe how much I thank her. Yes, it hurts a lot but she did it for me, because I was too obsessed with her that I was literally centering my life all around her. I miss her and to be really honest, wants to cross paths with her again in future just so I will be able to thank her. For all of you guys going through such situations, I wish you all good luck! Please keep it up, you are doing good job already and you'll get over it eventually and be happy.

@ancientonesx

10 күн бұрын

goodluck bro!

@kingentertainment128

9 күн бұрын

@@ancientonesx thank you! I need it

Turns out that when I moved across the country to completely avoid you, I truly thought I was letting go. Then four decades later I realized I only buried the memory. I never let go of anything. Hard , sad big waste of my life. Don't let it happen to you.

Needed this so bad

Very good timing for this video in my life

"But getting to it... That's not the hard part... It's letting go."

I believe in healing. In a break to have time to heal. To overcome codependency patterns so it would be a fresh start in the future. You have to feel stable yourself first ❤

Knowing when to let it go it's the best gift you can give to yourself and you won't regret it!

The title made me think it was talking about post breakup, like how to let go of them after the fact

Coming across this vid almost feels like a sign from the universe... I hope I'm making the right decision....

Great Stuff!

The universe is giving me a sign

"Let it go, let it go... The cold never bothered me anyway!"

Learnt this the hard way but I had to as it was toxic

Life definitely improves after you let the people that aren't good for your mental health go

It was hard, he left me for someone else. After 10 years of marriage...I was finally able to let go, he was abusive mentally, emotionally and sometimes physically... He made me feel like I was crazy at times...

PS: I find the blog Tiny Buddha a good resource for the themes of letting go and acceptance, because Eastern philosophy and advice from yoga or meditation circles seem to emphasize more of those themes, while Western philosophy and self help tends to emphasize going after what you want as aggressively as possible. Though this is an oversimplification, I think people generally need to learn a balance between both, and so the type of advice of letting go of what you can control, and doing your best to do what you can with what you can control (both things that allow for a good balance between those worlds) is very helpful personally for me. It might not be everyone's thing, and that's okay, but I at least want people to at least take a look or a try anyway. The KZread channel Einzelganger offers a summary of more Eastern philosophy ideas if people want a brief summary to see if it makes sense for them or not, and I find stoic philosophy is a Western philosophy that emphasizes similar themes of letting go of what you can't control, so I recommend the blog Daily Stoic for a brief summary of those ideas. These are all just suggestions, of course.

The last topics are very similar to my current situation😢 So hard to let her go..still miss her. Even 3months later.. Wish we could go togehter our way in life. Hope this happens for a good reason in the future. It feels like we're still connected in some way. Never experienced this before. Thx for this video .

I just wish this video was posted sooner, but it's still useful in another way My best friend and I were in love with each other, but she couldn't let her ex go. Now *I am the one needing to let someone go* after having my heart thrown into the garbage yet again.

There was a video with this elderly woman named Madea portrayed by Tyler Perry and she said if people want to walk out of your life, LET THEM GO! If you want to walk away from them, you have every right to do that as well.

All things in life are transistory, embrace that

Broke up over a year ago. let go after about 6 months of keeping contact. Man did It hurt A LOT. But better for it now.

it is the best to let them go. i found myself and many other people

Where was this channel 20 years ago?

Ty

Trying to decide if going is best for kids is fun.

I had a special friend who originally shared a lot of the same romantic feelings that I had for her. Unfortunately, she fell on hard times a year ago, and despite my best efforts to be understanding and supportive of her, she’s been avoiding me ever since and refuses to speak with me anymore. It’d be so much easier to move on if she at least said goodbye or explained why she specifically avoided me, but I’ve got no real closure from this whole thing. I’d like to believe she had good intentions that I just don’t know about, but I can’t help but feel completely betrayed. I’m in the process of trying to let her go just for my own mental health, but it’s hard to tell if someday she’ll just pop back into my life out of nowhere. It’s such a conflicting feeling.

@annelouisemaclellan485

12 күн бұрын

That’s the feeling they wanted to leave you with. She weaponized lack of closure.

@d1l4te43

12 күн бұрын

@@annelouisemaclellan485 I don’t believe it was intentional on her part. I think she was just afraid to say goodbye to me, which definitely makes her selfish, don’t get me wrong on that. The right thing for her to have done was to make her intentions known and just rip the bandaid off with me instead of running away without a word. I wouldn’t have liked it, but at least I’d have understood and accepted it. That said, I just don’t see her as someone who would weaponize anything against anyone. I have a hard time seeing that as a possibility, but then again I thought she would never be this avoidant of me in the first place either. Perhaps I never knew the real person inside her at all, but that’s honestly even worse if that were the case.

getting a notif for this video a few hours after breaking up is...

3 months ago is when we started talking. He was really sweet and kind and I immediately starting liking him. He asked me out about 2 weeks after we first started talking. He said a girl had broken his heart and he apparently liked me. I thought that was weird but said yes anyway. He lives around 5 hours away and this was my first long distance relationship. Apparently it was his first one too because he broke up with me 3 days after asking me out because he “couldn’t handle long distance.” I told him I understood and we stayed friends. I stopped liking him and we continued to text. He became very distant about a week later so I thought he was talking to someone. A few weeks later he told me he still had feelings for me and asked me out again. I told him I didn’t like him and he said he wished we could have dated. That confused me because did we not date for 3 days!? About two weeks after that, he told me he liked one of his friends. she also lives 5 hours away in a different state. He told me all about her. He said he was thankful to have a friend like me. I am now talking to someone else and when I told him about me talking to someone, he seemed mad. I am currently trying to let him go. He texts me good morning and good night everyday though. I don’t know if he still likes me or is just texting me for entertainment. I am trying to let him go. I know that it will help me a lot mentally and physically.

when it comes to death, i can't just let someone go and i don't want to let them go. I have to always think about my loved ones. That's how I think which is why a lot of times, when I grieve it transmogrifies into complicated grief.

Have elderly unwell spouse While caring for them, taking care of daily life and Realizing letting go is a big part of allowing the elderly to move towards their end It's hard , a hard path

💯❤️ Always tuff stuff…

The only art that i couldn't do

This commes exactly in a right point. I think my girlsfriend is about to break up with me. The information helps me have more understanding, even if I dont really want it.

@pablovelasquez6917

16 күн бұрын

She did yes.

"Its a distraction..." "spending all your time and energy pleasing them..." But, when you do this; spending your time/energy for them; and they don't respond positively at all... that's real bad.

Telling people to break-up over "Belief Differences" is a death-sentence for most relationships. Women have turned radically left. Sharing values solves this, but much of the radical shift in this direction is based on belief -- which can be disproven. Having a commitment to truth, and sharing core values solves for this.

I've heard that opposites attract but people forget opposites distract

Should i let go of my father? I think so😅 Cuz weve never been so close but he acts like we are and tries to be in my family zone but he doesn't know that i want my friend zone closer than my family zone😅

@UchralAltanOvoo

20 күн бұрын

I wanna leave em all and find other people(friends and gf)😂

i never had any problems with letting people go it is what it is

I tried and now I am all alone. People are leaving me like flies

Somehow this popped up just as I am going through it

This video beautifully emphasizes the strength and empowerment that come from making difficult decisions for personal growth and well-being. Given that many relationships require effort and compromise, do you think the advice to let go when values or goals don't align might sometimes lead people to give up too easily on potentially valuable relationships?

maybe I should do this

Sometimes you just have to move on.

Holding on hurts more than letting go

This just happened to me yesterday-

@coloursphere3637

20 күн бұрын

me too lol so timing

@andromeda2734

20 күн бұрын

Same here, just last night. It's tough man, hope you're doing alright.

@szymeq.haizaki4898

20 күн бұрын

This is adultery, and Jesus clearly said that adulterers will go to Hell. You should get back together, because in God's eyes there is only one love.

@MyfavoriteMelanie

20 күн бұрын

@@szymeq.haizaki4898 ?

It's hard to do, but sometimes you have to. I've had to let go some friendships because they became toxic. Other thing that they didn't mention is when only one of the parts make an effort to make it work. I.e: a friendship where you are tecnically chasing them to meet or talk

I will never understand stalkers, they are the polar opposite of what I am

Don't want to get into details, but I had a really strong attraction to my friend which was, fortunately or unfortunately, unrequited. Even more, she had another relationship but she kept it in secret from me for 4 months. We tried to maintain our friendship but eventually we split up and it took me about 8 months to let go. Now I'm in my first relationship ever. I want to warn everyone reading this comment to not do anything stupid or even dangerous to yourself or your object of sympathy or anybody that related to them

Well.. i stayed with him while he unintentionally emotional abused me (2.5yrs), because i loved him.. thought it was just a phase... he met new friends and discarded me.. we came back together, his friends weren't available at this time, all good, friends came back and 3 days before i wanted to come over he did it again... since then he ghosts me.. no remorse, no apology, nothing... 3 weeks later he completely moved on... i really want to let him go but i dont know how...

I feel like I'm annoying her :')

All of these make sense to me but the last one. If you really genuinely love and care for someone so much and you can't find a reason why you feel unhappy, shouldn't you put in the work to communicate those feelings and figure out what is causing the disconnect? Consult a mental health professional to figure out why you feel unhappy and work towards feeling more fulfilled? In my experience, when people can't find a reason or explanation for why they are unhappy in a relationship then it is because they have some work to do on themselves and the answers have *always* lied in factors outside of the relationship itself. Through all of my friends and family and my own experiences as well, a relationship is the easiest and first thing to end when someone who is struggling is dissatisfied with their current life. Instead of working with their partner (who in healthy relationships is often one of the BEST people to help support them through these struggles), these people often shut down and cut off the first limb they can when they begin to spiral. In which case, yes, letting them go for the time being is the best choice while they take the time to work on themselves independently. But in that case letting go does not have to be so permanent. Hopefully, those people heal enough to resolve the real issues at hand and come back to the people that love them.

Can you make a video on how to go trough a break up ? Pls 😢❤