“I used to think that the worst thing in life is to die alone,but I realized that the worst thing in life was to die with people that make you feel alone”-Robin Williams

@Novastar.SaberCombat

Жыл бұрын

To live while surrounded by an indifferent society is pretty lousy. 🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨

@jeerahhh___jee

Жыл бұрын

The quote is from The World's Greatest Dad (2009), which he played the main roll. The screenplay was written by Bobcat Goldthwait.

@Kirsten4260

Жыл бұрын

Love the man. Miss him everyday.

@SierNotsruht

Жыл бұрын

Who tf is robin williams

@MohammedAadhil10

Жыл бұрын

which movie is this from

4:25 "You can make more friends in two months by being interested in people then you can in two years trying to get people to get interested in you". This hits hard.

@Batemane02

Жыл бұрын

“dale carnegie”

@ReligionAndMaterialismDebunked

Жыл бұрын

^_^ Fr. I'm mostly to myself. I was born and raised in infamous Miami, FL, USA, and happily live abroad from those 3 really toxic places. Vegan. Centrist. Spiritual, anti-religion.

@adarsh8269

Жыл бұрын

Dale🔥

@TotalPhilosophyTP

Жыл бұрын

How to Win Friends and Influence People is a must-read in my opinion

@Shannon_Robbie

Жыл бұрын

@@TotalPhilosophyTP The only issue with this is that you spend time being interested in their stories but they may not return the favour.

Being lonely and being alone are two different concepts that people often mistake to be the same. They are not. One is a choice and the other isn't.

@chrisaguilera1564

Жыл бұрын

@@Analyticalinadream When you are lonely you don't feel in control but when you are alone that more or less a decision as you could go anywhere and not be alone. Lonely is a state of mind while being alone is state of being.

@laurieford6373

Жыл бұрын

@@chrisaguilera1564 Words of wisdom !!

@maicholor2849

Жыл бұрын

@@Analyticalinadream If you can't figure it out, you're going to learn the hard way!

@navigator_g

Жыл бұрын

OH GOD DID YOU REALLY SPEW THAT GENERIC BULLCRAP OUT

@FxnkyFresko

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

"You can't make people like you, you can only try to understand them and hope they try to do the same back".

@aetherland1883

Жыл бұрын

Screw humanity!

I feel lonely only when I'm with people.. But when I'm alone, I'm with the best company.

@laurieford6373

Жыл бұрын

That's because you're your own best company !!

@laurieford6373

Жыл бұрын

As in I'm my own best company.

@mert_058

Жыл бұрын

Cope

@Yukinyun

Жыл бұрын

Same looks like they don't care about you never asking to go out and stuff, now I'm a loner an I love it be a man I believe in ya

@21daystill

Жыл бұрын

touché, i feel the same too a lot of times

I am alone, no friends, no partner, nothing . Yet I find joy in my heart by pursuing my passions, I have a job that I love, I have hobbies that I love, I find everything interesting and feel so grateful about the little things in my life. I don't even find time to think about being alone or to pursue connections. Something deep down tells me that I have enough in my life to be happy and don't need nothing more. In the end how you feel is dictated by what you focus on, so go on and focus on beautiful things.

“Be alone, that’s how ideas are born.” -Nicola Tesla.

@peezy1942

Жыл бұрын

Boom boom baby

@lifechann

Жыл бұрын

Thats how incels are born too

@iforget6940

Жыл бұрын

@@lifechann I don't believe they choose to be alone they are forced to be alone

@kenshobuq7105

Жыл бұрын

@@lifechann You don't know what that means do you? Just another stupid word programmed into people so they use them like Parrots.

@thevcountdown9824

Жыл бұрын

@@lifechann Well, if the only goal in your life are women (very sad thing), then you will become an incel

Being alone by choice may be the best way of not being lonely, while immersion in people can create intense loneliness.

@Novastar.SaberCombat

Жыл бұрын

Reflection is key in a world which contains almost none. Unfortunately, most people cannot look beyond the physical version. Yet the other three mirrors (mental, psychological, spiritual) are of far greater importance to face. "Before I start, I must see my end. Destination known, my mind's journey now begins. Upon my chariot, heart and soul's fate revealed. In Time, all points converge: hope's strength, resteeled. But to earn final peace at the Universe's endless refrain, we must see all in nothingness... before we start again." 🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨ --Diamond Dragons (series)

@brendakok7377

Жыл бұрын

True!

I am a lone wolf, i like my own company, i appreciate it more than any other thing. But sometimes i can't avoid to feel the need to witness someone else's life, and to not be the only one to witness my own life. This feeling comes just from time to time, and it never comes weaker than before

@beridledodopidop4822

Жыл бұрын

Lol the only answer you got was congratulations from a bot, I don't know why but this made me laugh xD

@K4nj

Жыл бұрын

@@beridledodopidop4822 haha

@mansigandhi991

Жыл бұрын

I feel you, like you wanna know what stories others have to share or how they reacted in what situation. I am like that too, I love being alone but then it gets boring so I have to know the various thoughts of people and how they're different from mine. During these times, I talk to a friend, read books or try doing something new like go out and analyse people or watch tv and observe the characters.

@mansigandhi991

Жыл бұрын

Hope i helped to answer your doubt

@jeffsadowski7759

Жыл бұрын

We were meant to have that positive back and forth. It fulfills both sides of our heart at the same time. I think alot of people are missing that experience.

"Being a human is both a blessing and a curse and you're the one who gets to decide why." - Don't remember who said it

@christopherjmartin

Жыл бұрын

thank you for sharing this, I'm saving a copy of this quote forever

@ronaldpettifurd5957

Жыл бұрын

I love this channel because it causes us to ponder the many wonders of life. To re engage with that childlike wonder you once had, before you became jaded, cynical, and beaten down by the world. Maybe not the world itself, but surely the people within it. We are just as guilty as the rest. I often think back to the little kid that I was. That good little boy wouldn't believe in a million years, what he would turn out to be. That little boy would be ashamed and disappointed. I try to meet with that boy, he's in there somewhere, in the back of my mind, in my heart. He's there, and I want him to be happy, proud, and full of wonder.

I think that meeting people by chance is the best way to find the best people. if we’re constantly searching for a partner or friendship, we won’t know how to find them. we are capable of loving anyone and everyone because it’s all in our mindset. a love for another person feels more dear when the universe seemingly brought them to you.

@Novastar.SaberCombat

Жыл бұрын

Reflection is key in a world which contains almost none. Unfortunately, most people cannot look beyond the physical version. Yet the other three mirrors (mental, psychological, spiritual) are of far greater importance to face. "Before I start, I must see my end. Destination known, my mind's journey now begins. Upon my chariot, heart and soul's fate revealed. In Time, all points converge: hope's strength, resteeled. But to earn final peace at the Universe's endless refrain, we must see all in nothingness... before we start again." 🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨ --Diamond Dragons (series)

@Nextbigching

Жыл бұрын

Beautifully written, @samantha A. The best friendships are the ones that just kinda happen organically, sometimes by chance, and sometimes by circumstance. Especially when you deeply connect with a complete polar opposite, it just opens your fucking mind and world so much.

I love being alone, I just love the peacefulness of it, the solitude and freedom of only being responsible for yourself. I don't like being lonely though.

@Novastar.SaberCombat

Жыл бұрын

Reflection is key in a world which contains almost none. Unfortunately, most people cannot see beyond the physical version. Yet the other three mirrors (mental, psychological, spiritual) are of far greater importance to confront. "Before I start, I must see my end. Destination known, my mind's journey now begins. Upon my chariot, heart and soul's fate revealed. In Time, all points converge: hope's strength, resteeled. But to earn final peace at the Universe's endless refrain, we must see all in nothingness... before we start again." 🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨ --Diamond Dragons (series)

@barryjames3747

Жыл бұрын

@@Novastar.SaberCombat thanks for that quote, it's amazing really, I shall be looking it up. Hope you have a nice Christmas.

@YerlanYegisbekov

Жыл бұрын

same bro

“What someone says about something says far more about them than what they are talking about” or something like that…that got me good.

@Novastar.SaberCombat

Жыл бұрын

Reflection is key in a world which contains almost none. Unfortunately, most people cannot look beyond the physical version. Yet the other three mirrors (mental, psychological, spiritual) are of far greater importance to face. "Before I start, I must see my end. Destination known, my mind's journey now begins. Upon my chariot, heart and soul's fate revealed. In Time, all points converge: hope's strength, resteeled. But to earn final peace at the Universe's endless refrain, we must see all in nothingness... before we start again." 🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨ --Diamond Dragons (series)

This sums up my current internal struggle at age 30. I needed this video today. Thank you, #PursuitOfWonder

@sagarmc

Жыл бұрын

I suggest you listen to J Krishnamurti or Rupert Spira.

@etrain3371

Жыл бұрын

Age 20. Internal struggles here as well.

@TrisnoadiWikantoro

Жыл бұрын

Age 23, just broke up. Let's fight together

@StoryFanatics10

Жыл бұрын

Feeling the same.

@introvertedcarat

Жыл бұрын

Age 27. Lonely and struggling. We'll get through this... I hope.

Why is it that with every video i watch from you i drift off into my own thoughts and 20 seconds before the video ends i snap out of it and think like:"Shit, i've missed the whole video"

@rudyb2755

Жыл бұрын

This typically happen to me in class 😂

@jeevesharma

Жыл бұрын

this just happened w me :⁠-⁠O

@Rarelychoice

Жыл бұрын

Every time...

Being alone is always peaceful for me ❤

@StoryFanatics10

Жыл бұрын

same.

@jaybomb5638

Жыл бұрын

Same

@remiboyer4892

Жыл бұрын

Same

Maybe I'm a dark person, but i find so much beauty in this level of melancholy. I want to feel sadness, I want to feel sorrow. It is a teacher, and a looking glass into what it really means to feel joy. I'm not addicted to sadness, It is in fact the opposite. I seek out joy. At my core I am a happy person, this is why i make myself feel deeply, only to remind myself that happiness is earned. Happiness is a perspective and such i seek to remind myself of what i have.

@xerainiac2278

Жыл бұрын

I assume that inside you want to be sad because being in that state makes you feel at home. perhaps you felt sad in your childhood and it's all you know, which makes it familiar and comforting. as paradoxical as it sounds

@Mnkyfd6

Жыл бұрын

@@xerainiac2278 👍

@mailanudalo4712

Жыл бұрын

you know how you put your feelings in your words. it's beautiful.

@Mnkyfd6

Жыл бұрын

@@mailanudalo4712 life is beautiful

The older I get, I come to the realization that alleged friends and family are not to be trusted. It’s terribly weird that after suffering child abuse, pre-school abuse, elementary school abuse, and right up to latent teenage years abuse, that this shit never ceases! Once upon a time, I was told by a counselor that in my family I was considered ‘second best’. She told me to be careful regarding my facies, that when you are treated as ‘second best’ it becomes too easy to appear as second best and others pick up on that, resulting in a never ending cycle of feeling abused and being mistrustful of most everyone. I’m aware of the fact that we as humans are ‘social animals’, but I’m better off spending most of my time alone. I don’t abuse myself and I certainly can trust myself. 🌝

@kalleskit

Жыл бұрын

There are many friends to have which can be just as trusted as yourself. You just need to learn how to see them, which can be easier said than done, of course. Hang in there, and don't lose hope in people!

@skiphopflipflopdripdrop

Жыл бұрын

@@kalleskit”learn how to see them” how?

@kalleskit

Жыл бұрын

@@skiphopflipflopdripdrop By staying curious and open-hearted, I suppose. By having no expectations from how other people or yourself "should" be, and at the same time have a high standard for who you let enter your life, who you put your full trust in. By recognizing and appreciating what kind of people you may have previously sought for a feeling of security. The people you think you need are not necessarily the ones that will be helpful to you, and truly supportive. For example, if a parent of yours was abusive, you may very likely develop a pattern of seeking out partners who are toxic or abusive, thinking that those kind of behaviors are what you must have in life to be love-able. Unlearn or at least observe the destructive beliefs you around love and security. There is no security to be had in this world. You are already secure, you are already loveable. Welcome into your life those who acknowledge your truth and worth unconditionally. It starts by being your own best friend. Are you?

@krokodyl1927

Жыл бұрын

@@skiphopflipflopdripdrop Exactly! There are a lot of ‘bad actors’ out there.

@thetopcat8946

Жыл бұрын

I understand what you mean. Sending love ♥️🙏

“Most of who we become close to is just by the random odds of proximity; chance, met with desperation and the fear of being alone. If you’re lucky, maybe one of those people you would keep close if you could live forever”

So I discovered this channel a little over a year ago and it's really helped shaped my mind and also to be a better person as a whole. I've been over a year sober now and I think your channel has helped my life in ways I never thought I'd imagine. Thank you for everything you do and all the hard work and effort that goes into these. This channel is a blessing in disguise for us lonely people that have no outlets to go to for support. I'd never thought I'd be in the place I am now in life without the words and advice I've gotten from here

@RainRemnant

Жыл бұрын

No congratulations from an annoying bot, but a congratulations from a person, sometimes we can't do something on our own and we need help from outside, and I can imagine why this channel has contributed to you turning your life around but in the end YOU are the one who did it! So I'm very proud of you and wish you all the best life has to offer 😊

a lot of the times i see comments saying they were thinking about the topic when u posted it, and it never felt that real... Until now, ive been feeling so lonely from yesterday and u drop this banger The entire Pursuit of Wonder team is amazing they always give so much thought provoking content

@joshuas.8239

Жыл бұрын

Bruh, this has happened to me several times, idk if KZread is reading my mind via algorithm or each channel is

@nebd1760

Жыл бұрын

i was going to search 'how to be alone' when i saw this in my recommended

Being happy being alone is a super power. 😊😊

@SparkTFS

Жыл бұрын

Indeed. It's good to be confortable around the person you're living most of your life with.

I’ve thought of exactly everything mentioned in this video, but never had the words for it. This channel is truly a wonderful voice and representation of human nature at its greatest, thank you.

This video hits me really deep; i was thinking this exact same thing during my solo trip in europe. The absurdity of the odds in meeting new people, each with their own stories, and being able to connect with them - while some leaving the “theater” messy. Thank you for this video, it has all been a blurry blob of thoughts to me, and this video helped made me understand it. Much love to everyone here ❤

3:36 - I’ve had that feeling so many times over the past several years and never knew how to describe it. You perfectly summed it up in a couple sentences.

Wow. I found this video and this channel at the best possible timing. I strive to be comfortable in solitude someday. I know it's a beautiful thing. And loving yourself and your own company is really a journey that cannot be fast-forwarded. It's a gradual process that will take time but at the end of the day, it will be so fruitful.

the cadence of your speech and the thoughts that flow from - something healthy restful - its good meeting -keep on

I'm so in love with your voice, especially when you do the fast paced seriousness.

Notes from the end of everything is one of my favorite things…ever. It helped me reflect deeply. Thanks for what you do.

@recordsmanukrnet

Жыл бұрын

What is it about in a nutshell?

@stephen148

Жыл бұрын

@@recordsmanukrnet a dying author reflects on his life and the nature of existence in the modern world.

This is one of the first comments ive left on any video or piece online, im 19. Ive started appreciating content that hasnt just been created to be viewed and discarded for that quick dopamine rush, but to be appreciated for its blatant honesty to the message its trying to convey. I feel like this video does that perfectly, it piques my intrest because it was able to show some clarity on some of my own interpretations but to also pull me along through someone elses current theories and beliefs, i felt like he wasnt trying to do anything but convey how he feels about a topic and how it applies to his life, almost like listening to his inner dialogue. i understand that there might be a script behind this video, but then the way this is written is very pleasing and genuine, i appreciate the effort that was put into this and hope to come across alot more of your content!!!

I don't know how to explain it properly, but I feel like loneliness is the difference between your current social situation, and the one you once had. If it was never great, you wouldn't feel like you're missing out on much. But if you did (which demands a lot of luck) experience true friendship, romantic love and family warmth, then no matter how much you will lie to yourself, you will want that back until time takes the vividness away. I'll conclude by saying that we are social species and there is nothing wrong with feeling lonely, it is an emotion like another, useful sometimes, not so much some other times. Like every feeling, you should analyze it, reflect on it... Never numb yourself, it has never done anyone any good in the long run. I invite you all to respond to my comment and let me know your point of view :)

@wanderingdew5423

Жыл бұрын

I agree

@Analyticalinadream

Жыл бұрын

I feel like there is an essential need or desire for some level of relationships, that one can be lonely never knowing what it is like not to be lonely. Loneliness is an emotion, but at times the pain of loneliness is so overwhelming that watching mind numbing videos (not this one) is the best way to deflect the loneliness....just my thoughts.

@659dude

Жыл бұрын

Agreed. In fact it's so painful I think soon I can no longer stand it and will die because of it.

@Analyticalinadream

Жыл бұрын

@@659dude It can be really tough to go through. I hope you can find someone to reach out to. One person can really make a world of difference.

@marka.8535

Жыл бұрын

I had a close friend when I was too young to fully appreciate him . I also came from an abusive family . I’m not sure if it’s the case that if I hadn’t had this friendship that I would not feel loneliness now ; I think we can wish for an ideal and if we don’t reach it we can feel the sting of loneliness maybe with some regret added to it. I feel loneliness because my daughter and I aren’t close like we were before I filed for divorce ; that’s some painful loneliness.

Such a brilliant storyteller; your choice of words is breathtaking 🙌🏾👏🏾

@StoryFanatics10

Жыл бұрын

facts.

Although I have no problem socializing, I just love being alone, free from other people’s problems. Spending time to do stuff that I want, working towards my goals. I rarely feel lonely, I don’t have many friends, but those who I call friends, they are the best friends ever.

The last 5 years I became a loner, and it feels great! I live alone with my dogs and a cat and never was happier. Sometimes I'm visiting friends, but after 1 hour I can't stand it anymore.

@sherwinh1661

Жыл бұрын

Are u financially independent already ?

@blobtv7444

Жыл бұрын

@@sherwinh1661 no are u a nigerian prince ready to give me my $10000000000000000000000000000000000?

I just want you to know what you do is incredible. I mean this from my heart 😉, when I say ' I commend your work and hear your messages. I love the pace and journey of each video you do. I'am truly moved and it touches my soul when I hear what I already feel from another fellow human xx

i am amazed how people can stay in relationships. being by myself and still being able to have a really great time has since i was a small kid always seemed like such a great strength to have. not saying every day is great, but if i'm not having a great day its not because i'm lonely, and its not because of any problem related to a relationship.

@Salmasobhi1714

Жыл бұрын

Relatable 😅

@Stealth1337

Жыл бұрын

Yeah man, it's called doing drugs alone !

@Vurt72

Жыл бұрын

@@Stealth1337 Nah., personally i only drink coffee nowadays.. but i used to do ghb, weed, psychedelics (shrooms etc), 20 years ago. currently mostly making mods for games, making music, trying to get good at various programs such as GameMaker, RPG Maker.. making music is probably my favorite though.

Watching and listening to these view point makes me believe that I'm not alone to have such feelings about myself and my surroundings.

your videos always keep me on track and move me in ways i can't explain. thank you.

Freshman in college been commuting all year lost most of my friendships. At my most depressed loneliest stage of my life, I just feel numb. I just spent New Years alone. I’ve spent the last couple of days reflecting, beginning to accept my loneliness as good thing. This video is a great supplement. Needed it

I love the statement that "People are just messy and sticky." Wow! What an understatement. With a few of the many individuals I have had the unfortunate experience of meeting during my lifetime, it literally took years to get all of their messiness and stickiness off me and to successfully remove the damaged parts of me not unlike self amputations. So much time wasted on deleterious people who I genuinely wish I had never met!

"And to know that there are infinite possibilities for how life could go and that you'll only get to try just one"

This ties in neatly with another notion called "Sonder". Makes a huge impact when you truly experience that. Meanwhile - many thanks and the best greetings from yet another stranger...

I have been following your channel for quite some time. I could say this content changed me for the best. Love to see that ou have met my country. All good for you m8, love u

You can't make people like you, you can only opt to understand them and hope that they'll do the same.

3:35 ”There are infinite possibilities for how life could go, and you only get to try just one.” Damn, man…

I've been alone most days lately and enjoy it, in the past I thought I needed a girlfriend or friends to feel fulfilled in life but December been the happiest I been all year and all I've been doing this month is working on KZread videos, working towards this goal of becoming a successful self improvement KZreadr, when you find something you're truly passionate about it gives you purpose and takes away all the negative feelings like loneliness, go find your passion

@Michael-ru5zw

Жыл бұрын

I feel the same way when I'm making music

@TheDoomerGoGetter

Жыл бұрын

@@Michael-ru5zw beautiful, keep making music, don't ever quit

@siddhantahuja5384

Жыл бұрын

I feel the same when I am playing tennis.

@JaxYTB

Жыл бұрын

was curious to see what your channel was about and closed that tab so damn fast im sorry bro making videos like that gonna make you miserable 😭😭😭

I understand that it’s ok to be alone, but the feeling of loneliness is something I don’t want. It’s sickening…poisoning…empty…it’s killing me. I wish it would end, but despite my best attempts, here I am once again. The close of yet another year, lonely. Somehow hurts even more at 29 this year…

@Analyticalinadream

Жыл бұрын

Feeling lonely is really, really tough. Been there....hang in there....

@Novastar.SaberCombat

Жыл бұрын

Reflection is key in a world which contains almost none. Unfortunately, most people cannot see beyond the physical version. Yet the other three mirrors (mental, psychological, spiritual) are of far greater importance to confront. "Before I start, I must see my end. Destination known, my mind's journey now begins. Upon my chariot, heart and soul's fate revealed. In Time, all points converge: hope's strength, resteeled. But to earn final peace at the Universe's endless refrain, we must see all in nothingness... before we start again." 🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨ --Diamond Dragons (series)

@chenstormstout9456

Жыл бұрын

I’m 28 this year, man. I know exactly how you feel. I’ve pretty much felt that way since leaving high school.

About finding yourself feeling impossible: i used to think the same thing. I've always been a very passionate and curious person, but for some reason always struggled with keeping things up and staying motivated. I got burnt out so fast on things i usually love. Then my intense fear of the future started to creep in. I was starting to feel like I'm just chronically depressed and stressed. But what it actually was all this time, was dysphoria, about who i was. Now that I've finally come out as a girl, everything has sorta clicked. My fear for the future is suddenly gone. I'm suddenly a morning bird with an actual routine. And i enjoy stuff I've always loved even more for some reason. I never thought one "small" change could do this much to my mentality and energy levels. So yes, finding yourself really is possible, be it work, passion or Identity

I just came back from a solo backpacking trip a month ago. When I was back home, I didn't know how to articulate my experience to whoever that asked about the trip. Thank you for this video, it definitely helps in putting them into words.

@StoryFanatics10

Жыл бұрын

I feel the same after my trip.

words truly can't describe how much I love this channel

I reeaaally dig this installment.. poetic and profound, an instant favorite alongside Amor Fati & No One Asks To Be Born.

I love to replay videos like this a couple of times to let it really sink in.

this was over before I knew it, genuinely beautiful words as always

Man if I can write and express myself like this. This video is amazing.

That one was a banger, damn. The thing about theaters of other people was good, changed my perspective, good job!

I think balance is the key. Too much loneliness will be problematic and too much socialising too. It's fun and refreshing to see some friends, having fun, laugh together and all. But I love loneliness too. Especially after a busy day with people. When i'm just all by myself. You need to have both. I think, that's the best.

You're one of the best writers/thinkers of this (and Any) century. Sincerely .

Somehow you've compiled my every thought recently in this video. Most of these thoughts I've actually thought this past year. These things are things I've recently come to realized.

WOW This is probably the most beautiful thing I have ever seen and heard. Every single word hits home

Wow. Just beautiful. The story unfolded so well through your style of writing and delivery.

Your journey is amazing, happy I could be here

This speaks to me directly. Thank you for that video!!

This was truly and utterly poetic. Struck all the right nerves. I'll be saving this one for later. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, friend.

This whole video is sooo intelligent! 5 minutes long, but it feels like an infinte story of self-inquiry. Beautifully done!

@StoryFanatics10

Жыл бұрын

True.

As a solitary being, I find myself in a state of perpetual solitude. Conversations lasting more than 20 minutes with anyone other than family have eluded me for the past 15 years. Nevertheless, I do not experience any sense of loneliness, as I have grown to cherish my own company and find solace in being alone. Despite societal norms dictating that one should crave human connection, I have come to accept that I am not like most individuals. Through this acceptance, I have found a sense of contentment and happiness. Living in this manner is not for the faint of heart, but rather requires a certain inner strength that most individuals may not possess. For me, the universe itself provides the companionship that others may seek in human interactions, and my loyal canine companion has become a steadfast presence in my life. I feel incredibly fortunate to have found such peace in my solitude, and it is something that I reflect on often.

@resistdisinformation9931

Жыл бұрын

I feel exactly the same except that I don't currently have an animal companion by choice due to having experienced too much painful loss previously. Enjoy your serenity!

Once I learned to enjoy being alone I stopped needing having other people around and it feels quite liberating

I've literally share *EVERY* singular thought & contemplation expressed in this video. I juggle them often & frequently. Infinity is a long time. All that's required of us is patience. ❤️⚖️🧠

@ma-burke

Жыл бұрын

The human life span, the extent we can participate in infinity, is a long time. When our imaginative modes of our minds enlargen past the moment, or the hour, or the day, there is too much to sink our attention into, so we cannot create new meaning. However, if we can remain humble in the __now__, if we can be patient, we can create infinity, for at every moment we’ll be living a meaningful life. Or something of this flavour. : P I like your mention of “patience” here. One of my favourite insights I came across was from a piano cleaner who wrote about meditation. He said that, when you know what you need to do to learn something or experience something, e.g. an expert golf swing, all you need to do is do it. You know that in 5,000 swings you will gain excellence; so in doing one swing you are doing the best reality can provide. Such is true for revising the ideas in this video, or building a healthy body. The patience from knowing what is the best course of action is so transformative. It defeats worry, procrastination, perfection, inaction, self-doubt, a lack of confidence. Although I’d like to end with “all we need is patience”, to me it is more we need to “find patience”. Patience appears to emerge through understanding, but once we have it, infinity seems manageable.

@earnyourimmortality

Жыл бұрын

@@ma-burke Your comment is greatly appreciated. In a song I wrote recently one line simply states: *tune in with fate, create prophecy* When I wrote it, the depths of its meaning didn't hit me right away. My belief is that our active participation in this *forever present moment* does indeed allow us to have an active hand in prophecy. ❤️⚖️🧠

i could care less for other people. they are ignorant and small minded. i am perfectly content knowing i am the only person to have the pleasure to know myself truly

I’m a big KZreadr, as in I watch a lot of KZread. And I never comment. But, something about this video, tonight with what I’ve been dealing with, hit home so cleanly that I’m just super grateful for it. I want to thank you for sharing your ideas and your journey. I’d be interested to know how you make your videos. Where does the inspiration come from? You touched on it a bit here in talking about travel, but I follow you and it’s rare you talk about yourself. I’ve seen a lot of your videos and usually your I is an esoteric everyone. It was nice to see a bit into the creator. Anyways. Thank for your videos. I bet you touch a lot of lives when they need it.

Thanks to the team of Pursuit of wonder 🙏

I can't explain how hard this video hits home. I feel like it summarized the last 3 years of my life.

@StoryFanatics10

Жыл бұрын

true.

I appreciate your content so much. Thank you

I like that people like you exist in this world, thank you

Pursuit of Wonder: VERY VALUABLE video! THANK YOU SOOO MUCH for it!

I've been through a lot despite being young, and I learned from bitter experiences while I was walking in the cold breeze of an empty world that this is me. This is the real me. I live alone, I think alone. I have my own philosophies, beliefs, ambitions, desires, and goals. I am walking to a path where I will be complete. A path not many would be able to reach because its too painful, lonely, and cold. Before seven years ago when I was still a teenager. I didn't understand what it means to be me. I always lied to other people so I can be accepted. But now I feel even more freer and at peace even when the feeling of sadness crept up to me. I was adapting to this new perspective. A perspective I've denied for so long because I was afraid. I always questioned why no one was there for me when I was suffering so much. They couldn't understand what I was saying or feeling. No matter how many cries of help I said to them they stopped caring. So, I gave up after all those years once I got to the age of 19. This peace and solitude. The feeling of walking alone when no one is there at your back to support you even when a storm hits or a blizzard slowly freezing you. I am the only one that can support myself, because I am the only one who can understand me far better than a world of lies. There is no point in looking back into the past of deceptive moments. Those feelings of happiness were delusions made by people who never cared about me in the first place. It is a give and take relationship, that's all there is to it.

Inspiring observation of the self, quite the narrative! Perhaps I might add, through the experience I've had; I tried tirelessly to 'find myself' not just externally but internally also. But interestingly, it all seemed to serve no progress but that of understanding some parts of the external universe from that within. To my suspicion, the self could never be found, as the laws of this world will continue to gravitate counter wise. We are ever changing beings whose origin remains to the unknown, we can only understand our behaviors and how we perceive ourselves and others. Being alive momentarily might be found as cheesy buy honestly, it's what has taught me gratitude and forgiveness. Love to all in this space. Thanks for your efforts in putting this together.

Love to see a more personal video of you. Makes me feel more connected, makes me realise your channel is not as 'scripted' as many others are

This is my internal dialog verbatim. I feel less alone because I so strongly relate to your stories and perspectives. I love this channel.

@MasteryOrder

Жыл бұрын

Use solitude to build greatness. Use great ideas to build yourself into a man of strength and character, a man of your word, skilful and with a purpose that serves the ones around you as well. If you enjoy ideas about masculinity and mastery, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel. Challenge yourself with some concepts about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire. We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well. Looking forward to your points of view. All the best to you!

Going through the exact same thoughts these days, it's nice to hear your perspective on them

@StoryFanatics10

Жыл бұрын

Perspective is everything.

I’ve previously loved being around people who are superficially different from me, not because it made me feel the differences, but specifically because it has made me feel more connected.

Being alone is your choice, sometimes its what you prefer and your comfort but you will bear the consequence of it at time of being lonely. just a blip because having your own live and space will still be important.

I always thought if I could everyone I see on for being relationship or friendship with me but now it gives me better perspective about this.

@sadmansakib2266

Жыл бұрын

One of my best friends recommended me this channel and we don't even talk.

I’ve watched a lot of your videos by now, and they’re usually very good no doubt about it: but this one is truly exceptional. Incredibly done wonder :) ❤🎉

@eddiesondangmailcom

Жыл бұрын

Hello! Lady! Can I ask you a question?

Your storyteller and watching your videos at night feel awesome 😄, we're all alone from beginning to end in the way we meet some people stay with them make friendship, relationship and other ships they are temporary in our own lives.

I really appreciate how deep this went. I do this all day long and its exhausting

Left me in tears man 💯

Thank you. I really enjoy your writings and listening to you 🖤

I just spent five minutes hearing parts of my inner monologue and I heard things I really want to add to it

As usual, another great video... Very entertaining and insightful

This is a masterpiece bro. Thank you. I didn't even knew I needed that but I definitely did. Peace

@StoryFanatics10

Жыл бұрын

Agreed.

That was very personal! A trip into your theatre. Thanks for that

All the stock footage from the beginning of the video seems to be from Lisbon, and the fact I literraly just moved here to get a change of pace in life and try to re-invent myself is scarily resonating with the part of my mind that sees patterns in this complex web of interconnectedness we call Earth.

I have "art of living a meaningless existence" wrapped up under my Christmas tree.

"What someone says about somehthing, says far more about them than the thing theyre talking about." Now this, this is something special my friend.

Thank you for making this.

Definitely a video I'm going to rewatch again

This video helped me attain calmness...maybe it were the words or just the vibe but it was really, a truly calming experiece.

“People are just messy and sticky” Nothing more true has ever been spoken. Lol.

I should be going out making poor decisions. I’m 21, and I was the unfortunate “class of 2020”. I never got to say goodbye to my friends. I didn’t think I’d never see most of them again. Didn’t help that right before covid, my closest friend who I had genuine feelings for left me and I never got to try and explain how I felt. Never got to explain how I really felt to a lot of people. How many of those would share a closer bond than what we had.

@Novastar.SaberCombat

Жыл бұрын

Reflection is key in a world which contains almost none. Unfortunately, most people cannot see beyond the physical version. Yet the other three mirrors (mental, psychological, spiritual) are of far greater importance to confront. "Before I start, I must see my end. Destination known, my mind's journey now begins. Upon my chariot, heart and soul's fate revealed. In Time, all points converge: hope's strength, resteeled. But to earn final peace at the Universe's endless refrain, we must see all in nothingness... before we start again." 🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨ --Diamond Dragons (series)

Greatt video, i teared up and im an emotional hermit, thanks for helping me realize i need to get my head out of my butt and live with others. Im 20ish and my life has been a lesson of being independent but I’ve overdone it. I feel lonely and its my own fault, i just have to connect with those around me and not take them for granted. I also have to learn to accept myself before others can accept me, because if i cant accept myself then there isn’t a self for others to connect to. I have pretty bad ocd and it keeps me from living a satisfying and fullfilling life. It feels like im a robot with autopilot scripts and when i get home and take the mask off, i feel hollow and not wanting to be alone, craving a distraction. Becoming myself is the best thing i can do to imorove the relationship i have witn others and overall myself❤