*So, do you think you're difficult to satisfy as an INFJ?* Comment down below 👇

@marysuerrealism

Ай бұрын

Dunno if I am INFJ but this all resonated with me so deeply. Yes, I am VERY difficult to satisfy. 😔

1:03, very true, I panic on such unexpected plans or surprises. If you are giving me a surprise, make sure I am comfortable with it and make sure the people attending are the people I am most comfortable with. Without consulting me arranging something to surprise me actually shoots up my anxiety and disappointment. I may act like i liked it just because the person arranged it for me. But I would definitely try to reduce my interactions and relationships with the person who arrange d it for me. 3:30 exactly :)

1. I don’t sit around freaking out if someone I don’t know turns up at an event. But then again I plan most outings anyway. 2. If someone wants to do something nice for me I appreciate it. While yes things are organised my way if ppl are doing a nice thing for me I show appreciation. 3. Depends on who it is, but I’m not automatically suspicious. 4. I have learned to accept compliments even though they make me feel awkward. 5. My standards for myself are waaaay higher than those I have for others. I don’t live in a fantasy land in my head. 6. I agree with somewhat. 7. I love giving gifts receiving meh. 8. I live my life day by day. I do meditate and manifestation work but it’s for a certain time each day. 9. I am a private person unless I absolutely trust you. My business is mine. I am easy to satisfy. Treat me with respect and spend quality time with me. That’s the big ones. Do that and everything else pretty much works itself out.

I thank you deeply for the insights and descriptions of what it is to be an INFJ empath. This latest episode nails down my daily struggle to reach beyond my walls and open myself to be a normy a person who doesn't fear. I still will always be conflict adverse I can't tolerate anger yet in its way your channel helps me get control of the emotions that pour into me. Thank you again.

Two thumbs up 👍👍 on this video! You folks always do good work but I’ve found this piece to be spot on (obviously only speaking for myself). Very well done. Cheers from Toronto 😎

There was a time when I was unsure if I am an INFJ. Not anymore.😂 All video's points confirmed!

All so true! Just thinking to myself how I have a very slim chance of being "happy" with most aspects of life, yet I am very purposeful about being content. Possibly its something to do with being despite being able to see alot of greys in the world I am in many ways a literalist. I do call people buddy for example but in my my mind if I consider someone a friend, its with a capital F and I take it seriously. Whereas alot of people think of friends in a more general sense. Similarly I wont say the H word unless I am extremely happy. Maybe thats the perfectionist in me but all the conditions need to be right inside of me and all around me to qualify as all being right and therefore being happy. Its not sad really. Because those 2 or 3 times in my life that I could actually say I was happy are picture perfect in my mind and will stay that way forever. This makes the day to day attitude of being content so critical but attainable. It leaves me free to be intellectually honest with myself from day to day to say, "nah this is far from perfect but I will be content with it anyway" I had to learn that, and its very freeing. A helpful bit for loved ones who may on occasion want to help in a tangible way is first the INFJ has to be direct with the person. For example, my husband has on the odd occasion tried to surprise me by folding a load of laundry to which the sloppy way he does this may give a reaction of 😒...lol. But instead me saying I appreciate the gesture, but how about next time you want to surprise me you just go ahead and grab the laundry and bring it up to me in the laundry basket so its right at my fingertips to fold? This to me would be a great surprise that I would truly appreciate. This idea just dawned on me by watching this video and i have yet to try this since that last point 10 (hesitant to express needs) about us is so true :) Great video. I thank you for the way these videos promote that healthy self assessment and exploration💐

I don’t know if I’m INFJ, but I felt like this whole video was personal. 😂 Like damn. How does this know so much about me???

Most of it, yes. But regarding point #1, I've grown up and live in a place where spontaneity rules, and got used to deal with it. When a friend invites me to a party or dinner, yes I want to know all details except for who's coming, because for me it's enough having my friend there. If there's someone I dislike, I just ignore and choose not to spend time with that person.

I am extremely grateful that i know you guys ❤

Wow ! You are right on !

Much love brother

Ummm... no. Speaking as an INFJ, much of this video doesn't apply to me. I'm not suspicious if someone offers a compliment or an old friend reaches out (Unless we were on bad terms when we went our separate ways to begin with). True I like things organized in my life, but I don't freak out if someone were to clean my office or car as a nice gesture. High standards? Yes, but usually I'm more concerned that the person knows what they are doing and if the end result is functional. Self-critical? Yes. Not materialistic? Yes. Distracted by potential futures? No... however I usually will work for an intended future or outcome. Challenging to express their needs? Not really unless the person I'm trying to communicate with is unreceptive for whatever reason.

@superiorone

Ай бұрын

We might all be INFJ’s here, but it doesn’t mean we’ll all have identical ways, a couple of things here and there might differ.

@elkape1841

Ай бұрын

​@@superioroneAre you really an INFJ ? The point in common is we want truth, so, thinking to be as "the best" is clearly a lie to the self. There are lot of people thinking they are INFJ just to have a way to fake self steem. The other talks as an INFJ, and no matter is not thinking bad of some acts, that means he's not exploding from pain from inside... ... Yet!

@superiorone

Ай бұрын

@@elkape1841 yes mate, I am well and truly an INFJ, at the beginning, I tried to deny it, but I got to accept it as time went on and now I embrace it.

@elkape1841

Ай бұрын

@@superiorone That is just a sentence. INFJ usually shows the process instead of the name of things, INFJ usually are books without bookcover, not just the cover. Mean, if you really were an INFJ, instead of just saying "I tried to negate it, but no", that is not a process, and as it's not a process, is not enough as proof. Since it is just your word in self opinion. "In self opinion the lazy is more wise than seven that know how to speak counsel." -Proverbs And saying"I'm INFJ just because I cannot say that I'm not" ... Sorry but that's blindness no matter you were real INFJ. ¿Where is your extraverted way to speak, all under introverted two times checked logic? Some pages are still missing on that book. I don't say you're not, but I still cannot say that you are.

@GoodGreyBree

Ай бұрын

So would you say you …. Aren’t satisfied with this video?

Number 2 is so true for me. The way I organize my desk is definitely not very 'presentable' to my family. I always argue if being presentable is more important than getting things done. 😁 I can attest that most of the points in the video are true for me.

I know I could be satisfied if only there was effort or consideration being shown by the other party

Not true. A lot of little things can make me happy.

@sojourneroftheland

Ай бұрын

I dont think what was said in the video has to be in opposition to what you are saying. We can be perfectionistic in our thinking, while at the same time really appreciate the little things in life that might go unnoticed by some others.

@nwbest4336

Ай бұрын

@@sojourneroftheland As an INFJ I don't believe in perfectionism, I scoff at the word, although I believe that..what I think is what I think or the way I see or like things to be, is what I like, and if people say that is perfectionism, then be it. It's all personality traits.

Your infj videos don’t resonate much anymore. Truly, you say things lately that sound like everyone else. Your earlier videos were so good and so spot on.