WHY IM TRANSFERRING | how to know when you should transfer colleges + my advice // Isabella LoRe

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Why I'm Transferring, how to know when you should transfer colleges and my advice for when you think you want to transfer! you guys, I have been working on this process for over a YEAR and I have wanted to share it with you, but I don't think I was emotionally ready and sure enough within myself to tell you why I am transferring colleges in a video that actually made sense! So here it is, why im transferring, advice for if you want to transfer and how to know when you should transfer colleges. I hope this explains why mount holyoke college just wasn't the place for me anymore, and why I decided to make such a big change. Thank you for your constant love and support as I make drastic life decisions! love you lots.
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  • @julied8646
    @julied86462 жыл бұрын

    I’m a sophomore and have been having a super tough time, I’ve been thinking of transferring since last year. I always told myself to just stick it out but I finally decided to at least fill out some applications and see where that takes me

  • @kate_enns

    @kate_enns

    Жыл бұрын

    hey! what did you end up doing? i’m in somewhat of the same situation as you right now and i’m just curious what you decided

  • @bluzro

    @bluzro

    9 ай бұрын

    hey! what did you end up doing? i’m in somewhat of the same situation as you right now and i’m just curious what you decided

  • @avat276
    @avat2763 жыл бұрын

    Transferring was one of the best things I did, it took me a long time to tell people in my personal life and to the world, because on a certain level it felt like I had failed and then was having an imposter syndrome moment because I have an Instagram dedicated to my college journey. Everything happens for a reason, and once I took a step back and looked at everything I relized I was opening more opportunitys for myself now and in the future. It has been one of the best decisions I have made in my life so far. Proud of you!💕💕

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    3 жыл бұрын

    omg this warmed my heart!! I totally agree. I think thats also why I felt like I wanted to wait to share. A lot of people found my channel because of where I went to school and I didn't want to let them down, but you can't inspire others if you don't do what makes you happy! Thank you so much for sharing, this made my day! xoxo

  • @solnluna7825
    @solnluna78253 жыл бұрын

    GIRL I’m so happy for you! I actually transferred TO mount Holyoke and couldn’t be more grateful. The reason for transferring out of my old college was similar to yours but the opposite; I was at a coed state school and I wanted to go to a small liberal arts historical women’s college without a traditional college football culture. (I went to a big high school too and wasn’t a big fan of it)I also grew up in a big city (or very close to) and I really liked the rual location of mhc. Mhc also had the major I wanted that my old college didn’t and the campus was just waaaaay prettier imo. Best of luck to you at your new school 💕😊

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    3 жыл бұрын

    Omg THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! 💖 I absolutely love this, because it really shows exactly how different people need different school environments to thrive!! That’s incredible that you transferred, MHC is an incredible school and I’m so glad you found the school for you!💕

  • @doubled7302
    @doubled73023 жыл бұрын

    When I was in undergrad I transferred several times and each was without much planning or logic because I was young and didn’t know what I was doing. Even so, I was happy where I ended up and then I got in top schools for my graduate studies! You definitely should follow your dreams and make the most out of every opportunity.

  • @IsabellaLoRe
    @IsabellaLoRe3 жыл бұрын

    HI BESTIES! PLS READ: 1: my hair looks like its going to fly away LOL. it gets like that when it rains 2: i want to reiterate that I love MHC! it just wasn't right for me personally 3: I didn't tell you sooner because I personally wasn't ready :) 4: i am making a college decisions reaction video and then an announcement video for you soon! 5: you are the best and I appreciate u sm

  • @gelilaermias1852
    @gelilaermias18522 жыл бұрын

    so proud of you girl! I am in the midst of thinking ab transferring. Its so scary, but ty for this!

  • @christabelleisle
    @christabelleisle3 жыл бұрын

    thank you for sharing! I just finished four years at UMN and stuck it out because of my degree program, but it was not the best for me and has been super rough. I thought about transferring multiple times and sometimes wish I would have. But I just graduated and onto bigger and better things! So excited to see your journey from here! good luck

  • @kelanymichel
    @kelanymichel3 жыл бұрын

    Bella, my love! I wish you the best wherever you go! That’s such a big decision, I’m proud of you for knowing what you want and need! I hope to see you in NYC one day!

  • @MirelleKristine
    @MirelleKristine3 жыл бұрын

    Love this! This just goes to show that it's never too late to change your mind! i feel like we're all so pressured to make this huge college decision in our senior year and we think it'll determine the rest of our lives. I can relate to u in a way cause I'm also a sophomore in college rn and although i didn't transfer, I did change my major beginning of sophomore year. Best decision ever! Wishing you all the best at your new school!! :)

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    3 жыл бұрын

    thank you so so much mirelle!! i can completely relate to everything you said! I have had a lot of convos about it with my parents, and my mom made the exact same point. There is so much pressure when you are in highschool, and honestly what high schooler knows exactly what they want out of life for the next four years? congrats on changing your major!! i hope you are having the best day xoxo

  • @berthasolis
    @berthasolis3 жыл бұрын

    Super super proud of you love! I personally actually transferred myself and I remember feeling so scared / worried about my decision but it was one of the best decisions I made and I know you will be happy at your new school and can’t wait to see what the future has in hold for you, much love xoxo 💕

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    3 жыл бұрын

    girl reading this made me SO HAPPY!!! thats amazing that you transferred! I know in my heart this is what is best for me and I am honestly SO excited!!! I am so grateful to be able to connect with incredible people like you who also went through this process! sending you so so much love! xoxo

  • @BethGould
    @BethGould3 жыл бұрын

    PROUD OF YOU FOR DOING WHAT’S RIGHT FOR YOUUU💖👏🏻

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    3 жыл бұрын

    AHHH LOVE U BETH!!! thanks for being the sweetest!!! your moving content has been incredible btw xoxo

  • @adelemarie8446
    @adelemarie84463 жыл бұрын

    Love you with all my heart ❤️ so thrilled for your next steps!!!!! I’m here cheering you on as always

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    3 жыл бұрын

    ahh i love you always!!!! literally cannot wait to see you 💜

  • @ocean_princess
    @ocean_princess3 жыл бұрын

    I’m not in college yet, but these tips were so helpful and you’re so brave for transferring!! It’s important to do what makes you happy in this life ✨

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    3 жыл бұрын

    thank you so so much this is so sweet! i totally agree xoxo

  • @chazlyn.yvonne
    @chazlyn.yvonne3 жыл бұрын

    omg I can't wait to see where you go ahhhh!

  • @BilalDemiroglu
    @BilalDemiroglu3 жыл бұрын

    Isabella It is a pleasure to be able to watch a kind gentle lady like you

  • @sofiarose2809
    @sofiarose28093 жыл бұрын

    transferring is going to be a great thing for you! i’m so excited to see your vlogs at your new school. also parked car videos hit different😂

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    3 жыл бұрын

    Omg thank you Sofia!! I literally am SO happy I did this for myself. I had a lot of self doubt and almost didn’t apply but I’m so so happy I did!!! Also RIGHT?! Fun fact I wasn’t going anywhere this was in my driveway but it just felt right 😂

  • @skyleurp7
    @skyleurp73 жыл бұрын

    transferring was the best decision I could have ever made and I’m so excited for your future!

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    3 жыл бұрын

    omg i love to hear it!!! thank you so much! xoox

  • @miriamcousin
    @miriamcousin3 жыл бұрын

    Omg I feel the same way but with my high school. So proud of you for posting this video though and for going after what you want 💕 I’m sure this will help so many others go after their dreams as well

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    3 жыл бұрын

    Omg girl I totally understand!!! (I also felt the same way about MHC that I felt about high school now that I think about hehe!!) so excited to share this journey w u!

  • @luwuest6379
    @luwuest6379 Жыл бұрын

    going through everything you just said... so glad i am not alone :) and that I came across this vid!

  • @angieerami
    @angieerami3 жыл бұрын

    You and my sister are so alike 😭 she’s also transferring and 19 ! I’m sending her this video right now 💘 love you

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    3 жыл бұрын

    ah omg i LOVE THAT!!!! we are SO on the same wavelength omg

  • @isabellasiler7687
    @isabellasiler76872 жыл бұрын

    Hey! im transferring from a historically womens college as well and completely understand where your coming from! i also went because i believed it would be better financially for my family and tried to make it work, but i realized after my first semester i wasnt truly happy there, and the college didnt have what i needed personally to succeed. and as im continuing to watch this video i had so many reasons in common with you! thank you so much for posting this video and for your advice, its been extremely clarifying and nice to find someone that feels the same way as i do.

  • @MaggieHasper
    @MaggieHasper3 жыл бұрын

    I'm so proud of you Bella!!

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ahh thank you so so much Maggie!!!💖

  • @melaniebonell6117
    @melaniebonell61173 жыл бұрын

    I literally guessed this omg but so glad you’re doing the best for you!!

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    3 жыл бұрын

    Haha you totally got me hehe 🙈💕 thank you so much!!

  • @zakiyawiltz
    @zakiyawiltz3 жыл бұрын

    I love how honest you are in your video:) and you look so beautiful girly 😍😍😍😍💓

  • @aliyag766
    @aliyag7663 жыл бұрын

    u started the video crying and then when u said u were happy with ur decision, that literally warmed my heart! i’m going into my second year of uni and it is so refreshing to see someone put themselves and their happiness before the stereotypes that college/uni is supposed to be smooth and fun. ilysm and ur so strong🥰🥰

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    3 жыл бұрын

    awwww thank you so so much!!! ilsym too, and I hope your second year is incredible!

  • @aliyag766

    @aliyag766

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@IsabellaLoRe tysm ur so sweet! can’t wait to continue following ur journey ❤️

  • @KennedyStephens
    @KennedyStephens3 жыл бұрын

    SOOO EXCITED!!!

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    3 жыл бұрын

    ILYSM

  • @camden787
    @camden78721 күн бұрын

    having a really tough inner battle rn trying to figure out what i want / need and my mind is all over the place but ik for sure im not happy at my current college. thank you for posting this, i needed this insight.

  • @kristennicolosi
    @kristennicolosi3 жыл бұрын

    so excited to see where this next chapter takes you!🤍

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so so much Kristen!!! U know I’m going to be sharing allll about it hehe

  • @rebeccalevy8282
    @rebeccalevy82823 жыл бұрын

    can't wait to be roomies with you!!

  • @edwardleecaliforniausa
    @edwardleecaliforniausa3 жыл бұрын

    I'm so proud of you and you got this because you have been working so well on your channel and you are sweetheart

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    3 жыл бұрын

    this means so much thank you so much!!! I truly appreciate the support and hope you are having the best day!

  • @edwardleecaliforniausa

    @edwardleecaliforniausa

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@IsabellaLoRe of course sending you hugs 🤗

  • @rafaela5632
    @rafaela56323 жыл бұрын

    I’m in middle school but your an inspiration and I love your videos!! 💕

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    3 жыл бұрын

    aww this made me so happy thank you!

  • @brooklynnyc
    @brooklynnyc Жыл бұрын

    I feel this sooo much, thank you for sharing your experience of doing what’s best for you💙. I need to thrive & not get by! Love to your journey!!

  • @vanessarose5810
    @vanessarose58103 жыл бұрын

    excited for you!!!!!

  • @SamElle
    @SamElle3 жыл бұрын

    Transferring was the BEST decision I made as an undergrad and i would do it again!!!!

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    3 жыл бұрын

    WE LOVE TO HEAR IT SAM!!!! I literally have so many incredible online friends who have transferred and it means so much to me to be able to talk and connect about it!

  • @sofianystrom06
    @sofianystrom063 жыл бұрын

    Good Luck with all that the new school will bring to you!

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    3 жыл бұрын

    thank you so so much sofia!

  • @sofianystrom06

    @sofianystrom06

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@IsabellaLoRe You're welcome, continue being amazing as always.

  • @polinabozhikova6695
    @polinabozhikova66953 жыл бұрын

    I am so proud of you! It is really scary to make huge changes, but if you don't step outside of your comfort zone, you are not gonna grow! So go after what you want! :)

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    3 жыл бұрын

    yes i LOVE THIS MINDSET!!! so so so true! thank you so much for the kind words! xoxo

  • @bellacomellini
    @bellacomellini3 жыл бұрын

    gl on transferring girl

  • @catelynnex
    @catelynnex3 жыл бұрын

    so excited for you girly love you so so so much

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    3 жыл бұрын

    caitlyn that literally means so much to me!! LOVE UUU

  • @catelynnex

    @catelynnex

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@IsabellaLoRe 💗💗💗💗

  • @annyvitoria2662
    @annyvitoria26623 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for The tips. Happy Friday

  • @samanthacosta
    @samanthacosta3 жыл бұрын

    im so proud of you

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    3 жыл бұрын

    omg thank you so so much sam!!! I appreciate you!

  • @daniwilkins3277
    @daniwilkins32773 жыл бұрын

    Girl I feel that I went to community college for 2 years and liked it but only went there bc my dream school didn’t work out I’m grateful and loved it but I transferred to a southern school bc I always knew I wanted to go to a southern school and it was the best decision of my life for real I never thought I wanted to live on campus but I absolutely adore it

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    3 жыл бұрын

    omg I love that!!! I can totally relate. Transferring half way through college is scary but Im so excited! it sounds like it worked out so well for you, thats amazing! xoxo

  • @maisiewinter3732
    @maisiewinter37323 жыл бұрын

    I transferred out of MHC. definitely the right choice for me. I remember you from freshman fall!

  • @carly9976
    @carly99763 жыл бұрын

    Even though I’m in middle school this is still helpful

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aw girl I’m so happy to hear it!!!

  • @aleinafuentes6775
    @aleinafuentes67753 жыл бұрын

    Hi!! I just subscribed as I love your videos!! ;)

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    3 жыл бұрын

    omg HIII!! welcome to our youtube family!!

  • @annyvitoria2662
    @annyvitoria26623 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful hair,earrings and makeup

  • @Abbyel
    @Abbyel3 жыл бұрын

    I literally just subscribed to you a couple of days ago because I saw you went to MHC (I went a few years ago for a few weeks as part of a uni exchange and was feeling nostalgic) so when I saw this pop up I was initially a bit sad but having watched all of this - I'm so happy for you and I cannot wait to see where you go - looking forward to future videos 💖

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    3 жыл бұрын

    omg hi! I didn't even realize MHC had an exchange program, thats so cool! thank you so much for the kind words and support it truly means the world! so excited to share more college adventures, hope you are doing amazing!

  • @thelittlesoldier5139
    @thelittlesoldier51392 ай бұрын

    Hey girly, I just found your channel, you seem really nice and genuine and I hope things are going really nicely 🎉 new subscriber here 🫂✨🌸

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    2 ай бұрын

    Omg hi!!! Thank you so much, I’m so happy to have you here! 🩷

  • @thelittlesoldier5139

    @thelittlesoldier5139

    2 ай бұрын

    @@IsabellaLoRe you’re an absolute sweetheart, Ty for replying 💕🌸🌷

  • @annyvitoria3074
    @annyvitoria30743 жыл бұрын

    I loved your vídeo. Have a nice day

  • @catherineolivia6523
    @catherineolivia65233 жыл бұрын

    me a first year at mount holyoke already strongly considering transferring and then seeing this vid 👀

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    3 жыл бұрын

    omg im DEAD haha! always do what is best for you!! It is definitely a big decision but you have to do what will make you the happiest! xox

  • @catherineolivia6523

    @catherineolivia6523

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@IsabellaLoRe yess definitely!! you should be so proud of your decision :) it’s so hard when i haven’t been on campus and given mhc a “fair chance” but my reasons are pretty much the exact same as yours it’s actually wild lol

  • @maisiewinter3732

    @maisiewinter3732

    3 жыл бұрын

    I transferred out of MHC. Loved the place but it just wasn’t what i needed. I moved to Boston. Best choice EVERRR.

  • @misslovelydiy
    @misslovelydiy3 жыл бұрын

    at the end of the day, do whatever you feel is the best - so excited for you 🤍

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    3 жыл бұрын

    aw thank you so so much!

  • @emmajones3991
    @emmajones39913 жыл бұрын

    Ahhh! I really want to transfer to elsewhere too but I live on an island so there isn’t many choices for me and the largest school around doesn’t have my major. Otherwise I can totally relate to you.

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    3 жыл бұрын

    omg I feel this!! I feel like a lot of my friends felt like this about in state schools. In VT there are only like three colleges lol and in state schools are way way more affordable! I hope that your school works out xoxo

  • @eileen7060
    @eileen70603 жыл бұрын

    off topic but where are your earrings from? they’re so cute!!

  • @mittensisnotacat6161
    @mittensisnotacat61612 жыл бұрын

    I am currently attending a small women’s college and I’ve been thinking of transferring. I feel like I’d do better in a mixed gender environment with more people to talk to. I love the small classes and the professors here but I feel a bit trapped. I’d love some advice from anyone who can relate to this.

  • @gooses7315
    @gooses73152 жыл бұрын

    as a vermonter who's planning to go to mount holyoke, i'm nervous that it's going to be small, but i grew up in middlebury, so maybe it'll be different!!

  • @user-tn5gf1tq4k

    @user-tn5gf1tq4k

    Ай бұрын

    how is it?

  • @KennedyStephens
    @KennedyStephens3 жыл бұрын

    OMG THIS IS THE BIG NEWSSS

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    3 жыл бұрын

    AHH I CAN'T BELIEVE IM FINALLY SHARING THIS LOL. I have been working on my applications for over a year!

  • @misslovelydiy

    @misslovelydiy

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@IsabellaLoRe c c po

  • @annyvitoria3074
    @annyvitoria30743 жыл бұрын

    7:12 I agree with you

  • @teodoraneagu3093
    @teodoraneagu3093 Жыл бұрын

    Should I transfer to another highscool if I feel alone in my classroom (I try to talk to them but they somehow don't respond meaning they don't see me as a friend and when there are Projects they refuse me :( but I really get along very well with friends from other classrooms, but what they learn doesn't match with my goals in life :((

  • @aaronius4444
    @aaronius4444 Жыл бұрын

    did you leave after a semester?

  • @davidparnell4675
    @davidparnell46753 жыл бұрын

    97 degrees in phoenix today

  • @annyvitoria2662
    @annyvitoria26623 жыл бұрын

    Isabella 🌞❤

  • @annyvitoria3074
    @annyvitoria30743 жыл бұрын

    Hello Isabella

  • @amnaashfaq8570
    @amnaashfaq85703 жыл бұрын

    hey! Is this the second time you’re transferring colleges?

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    3 жыл бұрын

    hi!! nope, I have never transferred before 💜 ( I did do a year at university during high school though!)

  • @kevindecoteau3186
    @kevindecoteau31869 ай бұрын

    Its not me it's you. Be brave.

  • @melissacharles8410
    @melissacharles84103 жыл бұрын

    Girl I just got into smith from community college. I was gonna come visit but ur not gonna be there!!!!

  • @libbygrace9375
    @libbygrace93753 жыл бұрын

    where are you transferring?

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    3 жыл бұрын

    I actually haven't gotten all my decisions back yet, but as soon as I do i will make a video announcement about where I am going!

  • @b3tsology
    @b3tsology3 жыл бұрын

    Heyyyyy

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    3 жыл бұрын

    hiiii I hope you are having a great day!!!

  • @b3tsology

    @b3tsology

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@IsabellaLoRe I hope you are to gurl!

  • @itseve9692
    @itseve96923 жыл бұрын

    Firsttttt

  • @IsabellaLoRe

    @IsabellaLoRe

    3 жыл бұрын

    omg hi i love you!

  • @itseve9692

    @itseve9692

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh

  • @itseve9692

    @itseve9692

    3 жыл бұрын

    OMG HI ISABELLA!!!!!!!!

  • @itseve9692

    @itseve9692

    3 жыл бұрын

    I ACTUALLY LOVE U SO MUCHHHHHHH

  • @itseve9692

    @itseve9692

    3 жыл бұрын

    EEEEEEEEEEEK ILYSM ISABELLA

  • @Grace-xt6ym
    @Grace-xt6ym3 жыл бұрын

    wait how did i not realize you were from MA ahaha… i am too btw :))

  • @lvodniza

    @lvodniza

    3 жыл бұрын

    She was studying in MA but she’s from VT

  • @mimiascher1115
    @mimiascher11153 жыл бұрын

    I bet she is going to UCLA

  • @melissacharles8410
    @melissacharles84103 жыл бұрын

    What’s ur Instagram

  • @shawngoesonn
    @shawngoesonn2 жыл бұрын

    I applied to mount holyoke and I know why you shouldnt go there (There arent any boys 😂) Plus the admission counsellor is sooooo rude (he flatout told me you are a boy so bugger off )😂

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