Why I Stopped Dating and How God Blessed Me With My Husband Against All Odds

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  • @bell_89963
    @bell_899632 жыл бұрын

    I’m turning 36 and still hopeful 🙏🏾❤️ I don’t date. It’s up to God to bring my husband and only him. I don’t want anyone else and thats why I don’t date. I’ll know who he is when we meet. ❤️

  • @kaywasinjapan9497
    @kaywasinjapan94972 жыл бұрын

    I know 65 year old women who remained single and never found love, even being devout Christians. Some people never get it

  • @CharbriaShine

    @CharbriaShine

    Жыл бұрын

    They have to put a demand in the spirit! Meaning were they confessing scripture over the situation. Did they speak life about getting married someday or did they say things like "girl yea I may not ever get married" "Or I'm getting too old and there are no good men left" ETC We impact our future and our prayers by our words and actions.

  • @tinasettle1026

    @tinasettle1026

    Жыл бұрын

    @@CharbriaShine I was looking for this answer, what Scripture would you recommend

  • @silveraruchi2421

    @silveraruchi2421

    Жыл бұрын

    @@tinasettle1026 Jere 33:11 and Jere 29,11 Isa 62:4-5

  • @kaylahood1000
    @kaylahood1000 Жыл бұрын

    I'm 34 years old and I am still waiting on God it has been hard. Because when I do go out by myself even just to run errands or sitting down at a restaurant by myself. I still don't have any men approaching me. I haven't really been on a date in years. I had to really let someone go that just wasn't pursuing me at all. Yeah it was hard. I can't no longer settle for less. I can't settle for a man who does the bare minimum and doesn't make any effort to really get to know me. And I am on instagram. But I am not in every man DM's either.

  • @Girlintheewild
    @Girlintheewild3 жыл бұрын

    I love this I’m 26 & I have my life wholeheartedly over to God in 2020. And I felt the exact same way & He sent a messenger to tell me that He has a husband for me & more. I’ve been holding on & it has been a struggle especially on Valentine’s Day! But thank you for telling your testimony & showing God’s love, grace, & faithfulness in it! ❤️

  • @CharbriaShine

    @CharbriaShine

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yay sis for committing your life to the Lord! That's amazing! As far as waiting for a husband, yes it is tough at times but stay strong sis! The wait is so worth it! It's better to wait now than to settle for a guy who isn't right for you and struggle through a toxic or bad marriage just because you were impatient or lonely! You can do it sis! Also are you apart of our Single&Satisfied Facebook group?

  • @CharbriaShine

    @CharbriaShine

    2 жыл бұрын

    You're so very welcome! Stay encouraged! God is faithful!

  • @nicolacooke7681
    @nicolacooke768111 ай бұрын

    Help me to wait on you Lord 💕💕💕🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @CharbriaShine

    @CharbriaShine

    10 ай бұрын

    Yes it is so worth the wait but while waiting enjoy and life a great life!

  • @sineadbradyfan2151
    @sineadbradyfan21512 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Charbria, for sharing! I'm 31 and single now and still in the process of learning how to trust God and be vulnerable with Him. Slowly, but surely, building up that faith that he's going to keep my husband from marriage until it's time for us to meet and then it's time for us to marry.

  • @CharbriaShine

    @CharbriaShine

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes God is so faithful! He's got you!

  • @Pacifica74
    @Pacifica74 Жыл бұрын

    I believe the problem is when you've been walking with God for many years, self-trust starts creeping back in so subtly we don't realize it. I really think that's because we've gotten really hurt along the way as we've been trusting God's mysterious plans for us. We DO have these hearts of flesh now so when we get hurt for righteousness sake over & over there comes a breaking point where we go "whoa, hold on, enough of that!". So we start to take back the control to safeguard our hearts. It turns into "co-trusting" God for everything.

  • @LovableMe137
    @LovableMe1373 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this sis

  • @CharbriaShine

    @CharbriaShine

    2 жыл бұрын

    You're welcome! Thanks for watching ;-)

  • @lindsaybekombo7450
    @lindsaybekombo7450 Жыл бұрын

    So encouraging!!

  • @CharbriaShine

    @CharbriaShine

    Жыл бұрын

    Hey! thanks so much for tuning in! Glad this encouraged you sis! Check out my book Single and satisfied the single woman's guide to fulfillment for more encouragement:charbriashine.com/store/p/singleandsatisfiedbook

  • @Synquette
    @Synquette3 жыл бұрын

    So relatable & real ❤️❤️❤️

  • @CharbriaShine

    @CharbriaShine

    2 жыл бұрын

    So glad you enjoyed it!

  • @Defined4hispurpose
    @Defined4hispurpose3 жыл бұрын

    Thats good sis!!!

  • @CharbriaShine

    @CharbriaShine

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks sis! Glad it encouraged you!

  • @micahshivka8837
    @micahshivka88372 жыл бұрын

    I’m holding on. I’m so impatient!

  • @CharbriaShine

    @CharbriaShine

    Жыл бұрын

    Dont give up! Dont settle! GOd is faithful! Keep holding on !

  • @justme88882
    @justme8888211 ай бұрын

    I am so glad that the Lord blessed you with a godly spouse! I have also stoped dating because it was not working for me. Still no husband in sight and I am 39 so I am losing hope and faith that I will ever marry, or become a mother because i see no evidence that i ever will marry or become a mom ( I am getting to old ) But it is really encouraging that He blesses other people like you. Although the Lord is witholding me from something i really desire, He blesses other people and that gives me the feeling that He is a loving God who anserws prayers, although he is not anserwing mine. Thank you for engouraging me, I still can see trough your testimony that God is a loving God!

  • @juleeninspires
    @juleeninspires Жыл бұрын

    I can relate girl, that's the place I am at the moment.

  • @CharbriaShine

    @CharbriaShine

    Жыл бұрын

    I hear ya girl! Definitely been there but hang in there sis because God is faithful! I trusted him and refused to settle and now I'm happily married!

  • @ericclark4320
    @ericclark43209 ай бұрын

    Amen. Great advice 😃👍

  • @CharbriaShine

    @CharbriaShine

    9 ай бұрын

    You're welcome. THanks for watching. I have more resources on singleness and dating here at the link charbriashine.com/store

  • @adayinthelifeoflauren
    @adayinthelifeoflauren9 ай бұрын

    This was such a refreshing word. I’m at this stage of life ❤😂 I’m 32 and giving it all to him and focusing on my relationship with him. Dating is a waste of time.

  • @CharbriaShine

    @CharbriaShine

    9 ай бұрын

    Yassss sis! God is faithful! Keep trusing here. Also I have more encouraging content for singles. If interested click the link:charbriashine.com/store

  • @drea4373
    @drea4373 Жыл бұрын

    Against all odds is being 52 and trusting God for a husband😂😂. Great testimony.

  • @CharbriaShine

    @CharbriaShine

    Жыл бұрын

    Yasss! God is faithful! He can bless us with a spouse at any age ;-)

  • @SunnyWithNoChanceOfRain

    @SunnyWithNoChanceOfRain

    Жыл бұрын

    Ms. Drea, I am standing in agreement with you. The Blood of Jesus never fails.

  • @marquitadavis7815

    @marquitadavis7815

    Жыл бұрын

    How about 55 and trusting God for a husband? 🙂 Talking about all odds.

  • @shaye455
    @shaye45510 ай бұрын

    Amen awesome

  • @msshay421
    @msshay4212 жыл бұрын

    My sister that passed is 2005 name is Shaumbria 🧡 God is faithful 🙏🏾

  • @CharbriaShine

    @CharbriaShine

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes he is!! That's so sweet that we almost have the same name ;-)

  • @msshay421

    @msshay421

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@CharbriaShine I thank you so very much on days like this it just feels like my sister throwing a little love my way. God Bless You

  • @CharbriaShine

    @CharbriaShine

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@msshay421 You're so very welcome ;-)

  • @DAUGHTERofSARAH23
    @DAUGHTERofSARAH23 Жыл бұрын

    Hi, I enjoy your videos and am trying to figure out why they cut off while your still speaking. Are there part 2’s to each video? Thanks.

  • @CharbriaShine

    @CharbriaShine

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi how are you? I believe we only put a clip on youtube the full video I believe was on a facebook liie some time ago! So glad you enjoyed it thanks for watching! Check out my book Single and Satisfied the Single Woman's Guide to Fulfillment for more encourgement:charbriashine.com/store/p/singleandsatisfiedbook

  • @DAUGHTERofSARAH23

    @DAUGHTERofSARAH23

    Жыл бұрын

    @@CharbriaShine Okay, a lot of the videos do that on the channel. What is the Facebook page so that I can see the full version? Thanks.

  • @CharbriaShine

    @CharbriaShine

    Жыл бұрын

    @@DAUGHTERofSARAH23 Hey! These videos were posted a time ago on my Facebook page but you may be able to find some of the Live videos that I did on there. My facebook page is Charbria Shine and I have another one that is Charbria. Hope this helps ;-)

  • @bastycruz5464
    @bastycruz5464 Жыл бұрын

    I love my boyfriend

  • @lawandacole6547
    @lawandacole65479 ай бұрын

    I'm just turn 42 on Aug and still hopeful best patiently and waiting l don't other want Godly man only sent for me and God reminded KZread videos about not too sexual sin on now on right track.

  • @CharbriaShine

    @CharbriaShine

    9 ай бұрын

    So glad this helped you! Thanks for tuning in!

  • @Jedi_Prince
    @Jedi_Prince10 ай бұрын

    I NEED HELP with my love situation today pls pray her name is Kamaria , and above all for her to be born again now

  • @CharbriaShine

    @CharbriaShine

    9 ай бұрын

    Will definitely pray!

  • @doricanyirenda5897
    @doricanyirenda58972 жыл бұрын

    🙏🙌🙌

  • @CharbriaShine

    @CharbriaShine

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for listening! Glad you enjoyed it ;-)

  • @marqueedahudson1815
    @marqueedahudson18152 жыл бұрын

    🙏💙😇

  • @bastycruz5464
    @bastycruz5464 Жыл бұрын

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    @bastycruz5464 Жыл бұрын

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  • @bastycruz5464
    @bastycruz5464 Жыл бұрын

    My boyfriend mom. Is baby boy to my boyfriend is 40

  • @bastycruz5464
    @bastycruz5464 Жыл бұрын

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