My series about how to let go of the wrong man and what to look for in a good man got a lot more attention (for my small channel) than previous videos.
Unfortunately, the people who responded weren’t quite my target audience but the opposite.
Still, it was thanks to their comments and responses that my videos got more views than I usually get, so I’m thankful.
I am aware that there are many trolls out there, but I still wanted to make a response video to some of the comments and go a little deeper with a few things.
Specifically two things;
He should treat you like a queen
He should serve you
These two statements got a lot of negative reactions (from men) and I wanted to talk a little bit more about these statements
To be treated like a queen doesn’t mean you’re above him in any way shape or form. Just as he should treat you like a queen you need to treat him like a king as well.
It’s about showing respect to one another and seeing each other’s value.
And just like he should serve you, you also need to serve him.
It’s not about being a servant, "less than" or a slave. The Bible says that we should serve the Lord with a gladness. We serve God because we love him and we want to. God doesn’t force us to serve him and it’s the same with relationships. We want to serve each other because we love each other. This could be as simple as taking out the garbage or doing the dishes.
It has nothing to do with being "less than" your partner. To be a servant is a good thing and something we all should strive for.
In a relationship, it’s all about give and take. When I say he should treat you like a queen, it does not mean that you are above him. And for him to serve you because he loves you and he will do it willingly it’s not a forced thing. You guys are equal. You also should serve him because you love him and nothing else.
Romans 12:10
Galatians 5:13
Mark 10:45
I also got a comment that said calling each other queen and king was cringe. Would you think it was cringe for your man to call you a queen? Or if you are a man watching, would you think it was cringe if you’re a woman who you loved called you a king?
Think about it.
Much love,
Melody