Why I’m Leaving the Self-Help, Spiritual, & Coaching Field After This Year

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  • @nataliemarie4325
    @nataliemarie43252 жыл бұрын

    Your channel is gold. I hope you never stop making videos.

  • @tysian03
    @tysian033 жыл бұрын

    This has been a TOUGH TOUGH time for all Light-Workers, such as yourself. The energy of this world has been heavy and icky...I can only imagine how you are carrying all of this...and protect your own peace and energy.

  • @claudiaradilla4894
    @claudiaradilla48942 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for your shared wisdom. You are heard and acknowledged ✨

  • @nylevesemken
    @nylevesemken3 жыл бұрын

    I am a psychologist having a strong shamanic calling. This is the new modern healer grounded and open hearted. Thank you. Your passionate words are already calling in the new healers. They are coming. ♥️

  • @transitionsnc
    @transitionsnc3 жыл бұрын

    Zach, thanks for making this video. As an occupational therapist with 20 years of experience, I agree with your assessment. The mainstream system is broken and the new age spiritual community is as how you describe it.

  • @Amulchan
    @Amulchan3 жыл бұрын

    Dear friend, I receive your message with a heart full of love. I am sending you infinite gratitude for the service you have offered so selflessly with such love. “Spirituality” is just a word until it becomes a personal “beingness”” grounded in love and compassion which enable us to truly connect with our fellow human beings. When we are truly “spiritual”, we move from the heart, and we serve lovingly without judgment, not from some theoretical head-space devoid of deep human understanding. You are a true spiritual being and you have brought love, light and hope to your clients and to your community. I wish you well, I wish you infinite peace and love. I know that your loving light has made a difference in this world.

  • @missmimi6817
    @missmimi68172 жыл бұрын

    I am a medium but I agree with all you're saying. Indeed it's dark and we can't be pretending human pain isn't real. Human experience is rough and cruel many times. The whole be " positive" crap is so overused, the " we are chosen" is also toxic. Hope you found what you need bro. Keep speaking your truth🤗💙

  • @stellastar2083
    @stellastar2083 Жыл бұрын

    I found your channel today...2 years later after you posted this video. Am trusting you were able to get the community of healers and you will continue to be a light worker because your video on reparenting changed my life. You are a blessing.

  • @rickturnr
    @rickturnr2 жыл бұрын

    Your honesty is refreshing

  • @louisromero5001
    @louisromero50012 жыл бұрын

    I feel the shaman calling and after listening to your story and I couldn't agree anymore. Maybe instead of a spiritual community, maybe a new community is needed like a shaman community. A community that truly have universal consciousness

  • @flyingmm7804
    @flyingmm780411 ай бұрын

    Yes Serious people and Serious support 🙏🏻

  • @flyingmm7804
    @flyingmm780411 ай бұрын

    Truth!!!

  • @stormwilde1340
    @stormwilde1340 Жыл бұрын

    Great video mate. Take some time out. Sounds like your burnt out. Don't give up. Take time out doing normal stuff. Maybe go to "The Shamans of the Amazon or Peru". Or Native Americans. Your are one of the most honest grounded dudes on here. Take a break. But dont give up. Your very much needed 💕

  • @cicadasmasher8082
    @cicadasmasher80823 жыл бұрын

    This video touched me as I see an empathic sincerity in you that I don't see much anymore. While I agree with your assessment of the current state of mental and emotional therapy, I hate to be the one that delivers the news that things are much worse than even your candid assessment. The reality is that psychological, emotional (and everything effected by that) unwellness is being deliberately manufactured on a mass scale. And yes, some people in the field of treament are directly complicit. Its all just divide and conquer on a whole new level. Dissasociative and behavioral disorders have literally been weaponized and deployed, and have been for quite some time now. So, I mourn greatly when good people in the field like you become overwhelmed and have to leave. This only further paves the path for the manipulative, malevolent jackals in the field to run even more amuck than they already have been by playing gods and feeding their own sick, twisted and perverted desires and morbid idealologies. So, I'm not blaming you for leaving. I give you credit for having stayed this long. I think for your own preservation you should step away. There's so much wrong that it would be a miracle to not get drug down by it all. I do however look forward to seeing any and all insight from you in the future though, on any issue. Just being able to witness your empathy is a strong and powerful tool for good as there are forces (flesh & blood and energy) at work that are slowly methodically and deliberately amputating that benevolent trait from society. And we can't lose it. If we do, all is lost.

  • @personalaccount7534
    @personalaccount75342 жыл бұрын

    I coach people too. Make sure you have a coach to help you. We are not gurus on a hill, we are just a little further down the path. You still need to be doing the work just like I do still. I have compassion for by clients but I don’t get emeshed with their traumas since it’s their journeys not mine. I don’t rescue them either. I focus on action taking in the present and only if necessary delve into their past. If you primarily work with their past you will traumatize them and yourself.

  • @kiraneetu
    @kiraneetu3 жыл бұрын

    Zack Please don’t leave..just relax..take a small break and come back..ppl need you..

  • @zackalexander1173

    @zackalexander1173

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you I truly appreciate that!

  • @elovingrosepsychic6771
    @elovingrosepsychic6771 Жыл бұрын

    There are grounded healers out here… I’m so sorry you haven’t connected with any of them! I hear you loud and clear about the “spiritual escapism”… I wish you all the best in the future! It’s someone else said, maybe take a break, take time for some R&R and come back if you feel up to it. Many blessings to you! 🥰

  • @sacredvedicastrology
    @sacredvedicastrology3 жыл бұрын

    I would love to join a community of healers. I am so tired of spiritual bypassing.

  • @zackalexander1173

    @zackalexander1173

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too!

  • @mslauralee6478
    @mslauralee64783 жыл бұрын

    Excellent explanation of the brokenness between the client and the healers....I hope you have started an awakening for accountability in healer.Thank you for reaching out and speaking the truth!

  • @astralhealing5496
    @astralhealing54963 жыл бұрын

    This video is soooo FIRE. I love the fact that you are so vulnerable, honest and passionate.

  • @journeyingwithin8601
    @journeyingwithin86013 жыл бұрын

    💚💚💚 im currently seeing a somatic therapist and we go deep and into the dark and into the pain while being anchored into the body, and is the only healing modality that has worked for me. I have hope that we are moving in the right direction, as more and more therapists are getting training in somatic therapies. Thanks for sharing the truth, and calling it as it is. This message is needed more than ever.

  • @clairepalmer4017
    @clairepalmer40173 жыл бұрын

    Hi zack thank you for this. I just found you today and everything I’ve heard from you has echoed my feelings exactly. Thank you for sharing your authenticity and for being truthful about the state of the spiritual community as I’ve noticed how escapism permeates this culture and deepens many subconscious wounds. Your voice is imperative right now, i share your anger and frustration and I hope we all come to this understanding soon

  • @Mosdefinitelyable
    @Mosdefinitelyable3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for your heart and soul. You’re really real. Witnessing someone else’s pain is the most powerful way to heal. It’s so hard to find because people can’t deal with their own pain. I really appreciate your work and this video will help open us up. Thank you.

  • @reneestregus7342
    @reneestregus73423 жыл бұрын

    I’m gobsmacked that people would be told they’ve manifested their trauma. That’s absolutely awful!

  • @zackalexander1173

    @zackalexander1173

    3 жыл бұрын

    Its more common than you would believe

  • @raspberrykissable

    @raspberrykissable

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Irene-en4ec no this is very detrimental thinking. People may manifest somethings but to say they manifested their trauma is not something you should ever say.

  • @KeminaF
    @KeminaF3 жыл бұрын

    yes! i too have attracted clients with heavy trauma. i totally agree with all of and the massive amount of spiritual bypasd going on. i find it is left to people like us cause thev world has been denied the truth about proper healing for many, many years. please don't give up. we need you. if be have to chat to you if you feel you need someone who works in it and gets it

  • @annelisecherie
    @annelisecherie3 жыл бұрын

    You just expressed everything I have been going through over the last year. I’ve tried countless ways to express this very thing. Thank you thank you thank you for this video.

  • @lockeyn9411
    @lockeyn94112 жыл бұрын

    You are absolutely right.. Dissociation has become norms .. I had a evil spirit for 3 years in my body

  • @astralhealing5496
    @astralhealing54963 жыл бұрын

    I love the fact you are who you are. when you stare off to the side i can feel you getting information from spirit. amazing So many things you said in this video i have experienced also.

  • @LucidLivingLL
    @LucidLivingLL2 жыл бұрын

    I'm devoted, I admire you for the amount of commitment you show to the world. I want to do the same, and make sure we make this about healing rather than materialism. It's serious and it deserves the devotion you yourself show.

  • @victoriakerr2089
    @victoriakerr20893 жыл бұрын

    I have found the so called “spiritual community “ to be so full of themselves And inauthentic Scared work has no room for that So much respect for this total transparent truth ❤️

  • @zackalexander1173

    @zackalexander1173

    3 жыл бұрын

    There definitely needs to be more accountability within this community for sure

  • @victoriakerr2089

    @victoriakerr2089

    3 жыл бұрын

    I have thought of this video all evening and then again this morning I’m sorry the support you were seeking left you with more questions and not a full cup of emotional support I admire the depth of commitment to your practice and clients - reading books studying/ classes to gain a greater insight on how you could provide the best session I listen to Dr Gabor Matte almost daily - a profound teacher on trauma and how the body holds said trauma Much love and support in your journey dear one !

  • @daria8704
    @daria87042 жыл бұрын

    I have all over goosebumps Thank you very much🙏❤️ We have do stand up💪

  • @ogcorp
    @ogcorp2 жыл бұрын

    Zack for some reason found this video but you don’t need to carry on all that baggage. Choose your own path travel reconnect leave pandemic behind you can’t save the whole world! Maybe you can be a teacher for teachers but reconnect to your soul. You are amazing for all YOU have done all the rest is dust. Reminds me the movie soul in disney you are beautiful soul 🤗

  • @Mong_Le_333
    @Mong_Le_3333 жыл бұрын

    Thank for teaching me your lesson and mistakes, I am now more aware.

  • @Elijah_Al-Naysaburi
    @Elijah_Al-Naysaburi3 жыл бұрын

    It's different , people who practice spirituality & people as healer like u who meets people.

  • @WastelandWarfighter273
    @WastelandWarfighter2733 жыл бұрын

    I understand your frustration and wanted to say thank you for speaking your mind. Change has been growing and chaos is learning new tricks. Take time for you and don't forget how important you are. With time comes revelation, nobody can hide from it, not even you my friend!

  • @zackalexander1173

    @zackalexander1173

    3 жыл бұрын

  • @christar.larsen4560
    @christar.larsen45603 жыл бұрын

    I really like your point of view. You are authentic, and have a good heart.

  • @nicholaslandry6367
    @nicholaslandry6367 Жыл бұрын

    You're assistance is not only needed, You're "self-ness"/"being"(

  • @mariec.mauter8640
    @mariec.mauter86402 жыл бұрын

    I hear you, Zack: the systems are broken! I’m a social worker, have reiki training, yoga therapy cert, and am trying to find my way to help people! That manifest shit pisses me off, as well! I try to incorporate somatic experience in my sessions! I don’t know where I fit in as I try to learn, etc. def feel isolated! So lets figure this out!! Blessings to you!

  • @Monia044_PL
    @Monia044_PL3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for those wise words.

  • @dan-arebjrngrnvik3513
    @dan-arebjrngrnvik35133 жыл бұрын

    I think we need a new spiritual system here in the west that has the ability to do 3 things. 1. Transform the person 2. Create things in physical reality 3. Bring people closer to the felt oneness with God. It has compatible with the hard sciences like physics, chemistry, engineering etc. It has to be built on practices and create results for anyone and everyone who uses them and if it has a firm root in neuroscience and depth psychology then that's even better. What are your thoughts?

  • @iolite2
    @iolite22 жыл бұрын

    Having had years of awakening and healing myself, I can understand your frustrations. I also think there is a point where you can become over-invested emotionally in what's going on within for others in the spiritual community and how they conduct themselves. It's having expectations of someone and making your wellbeing subject to what you've deemed is appropriate from them. It just brings suffering. All of these people are on their own path, with unresolved issues, and ways that they haven't shown up for themselves. It's reasonable to question why their behavior matters so much to you. What unmet need within are you depending on from them to meet in some way? It seems to me like you are burdened by the aspect of community healing, that makes sense when in actuality, a healing community is a collective of individuals who have had the courage to be their own medicine first and foremost. Then they come together and collaborate in a way that carries a lightness to it because they are responsible to themselves first, not relying on others to hold some sort of pre-determined expectation they've crafted.

  • @user-qx2ty8oc7z
    @user-qx2ty8oc7z3 жыл бұрын

    This is 'right hand path' bullshit... I was just talking about this to my friends.. I choose the left hand path & shadow work now. I'm still here luckily. I'm with you on this mad as HELL!

  • @zackalexander1173

    @zackalexander1173

    3 жыл бұрын

    Way to go!! The shadow work path is the one to go down!

  • @annelisecherie
    @annelisecherie3 жыл бұрын

    This all the way.

  • @christar.larsen4560
    @christar.larsen45603 жыл бұрын

    Could You educate people how to heal ancestial traumas? I would like to learn more about it

  • @RD-ms9gn
    @RD-ms9gn3 жыл бұрын

    Hi Zack, I read somewhere if you do a salt scrub after being around draining people it's supposed to help recharge your own battery. What do you think? What type of regimen or habits do you do daily? Thanks. I hope you have a positive day.

  • @flyingmm7804
    @flyingmm780411 ай бұрын

    We are already loosing people in droves to the broken psychiatry and unserious new age and coaching stuff!

  • @dan-arebjrngrnvik3513
    @dan-arebjrngrnvik35133 жыл бұрын

    Sounds like you got alot of impractical advice.

  • @zackalexander1173

    @zackalexander1173

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol yes I did