The sad truth is a narc will destroy you if you leave him. He practically tried to destroy my life when I left him. Took EVERYTHING FROM ME. Even my daughter! Yes, I do have ptsd from what happened. Now My daughter is closer than ever, and last I heard about him is he is miserable! Stay strong and be at peace with yourself!🙏

I lived with one, 37 years, I left too. It’s wonderful to get rid of that kind of person. Your story is similar to tons of people, no need to explain. They are meaningfully that way and proud of it. Good for you!!

I'm sorry people have not been nice in the comments. Those people obviously and thankfully have not experienced a relationship with these demons in meat suits. I was with my narc ex for 12 years and he decided to leave me because i wasnt giving him enough supply and he has made this divorce process 2 1/2 years of playing every game he could. I know God will reveal who he is and it will end soon. Thank you for sharing❤

"Get over it" sounds like what a narc would say, maybe.

I am currently married to one sadly. 😢