"No one is born ugly, the problem is we live in a judgemental society" - Kim Namjoon

@user-xo3vy1ly2c

5 жыл бұрын

@@prettyplease1989 dear, being fan and toxic is two different things

@user-xo3vy1ly2c

5 жыл бұрын

@@prettyplease1989 yeah not as a fan but as a human..

@user-xo3vy1ly2c

5 жыл бұрын

@@prettyplease1989 oh maybe i dont get your point but, the one who tell that guy ugly and short is an army? Im sorry i missed that part..

@user-xo3vy1ly2c

5 жыл бұрын

@@prettyplease1989 yes thats right. I hope they realise soon. That their words really hurt someone :(

@user-xo3vy1ly2c

5 жыл бұрын

@@prettyplease1989 ohh i see. Yeah i understand. Some people are just so mean. Not only bts fans but toxic people are exits..

How bad does the obsession with appearance in SK have to be that this guy literally escapes to the place with the smallest Korean population out of fear of judgement? That's so messed up...

@minae.d4540

5 жыл бұрын

@@jsk2691 I agree completely, and you know what? It's just insecurity. Nobody feels good about their self so they have to make comments about other people to feel better. They probably hate how charming and confident this guy is. Like "how dare you have self confidence when you don't even fit the standard!". If my parents offered to pay for my plastic surgery as a "gift" I would be heartbroken.

@minae.d4540

5 жыл бұрын

I must also add, the hosts of this show are kind of hypocrites. I think so because whenever someone comes with a concern regarding their appearance they will say things to comfort them like "looks don't matter" or whatever, but when someone comes with a concern that has nothing to do with their looks they judge them on their appearance. Like that guy who came in with a problem regarding his jealous girlfriend and they felt the need to point out and laugh at his "unnatractiveness". I just think its wild. Let's be nice to each other people.

@meganmize2892

5 жыл бұрын

Not just in Korea, it's worldwide and no one's fault for how they were born. I realized that I'd always be short in middle school and that's when I stopped growing at 4'7. It's really hard to seem like an adult or parent in front of people when they think they're talking to a kid. And I agree about this show, a person has a complaint about their looks and as they come down the slide, the hosts will point out everything or agree at first with what the guest is upset about. They were a little nicer in this one just because they don't want anyone to think badly about them for outcasting one of their own.

@virtualworldofcraps2237

5 жыл бұрын

It must b so bad... Just look at sasaengs syndrome

@mehmeh3745

5 жыл бұрын

LilMegs Mize I think their saying like we know it’s worldwide but Korea instead of like our world ( cause I live in America) they say stuff behind the back but SK is more upfront and while we let things pass they don’t even bother to not mention the subject nor do they forget about they just say what comes to mind ( sorry if it’s over the place or if I came off as rude )

The hosts kept on trying to light up the mood, but his story is just too sad that after the laughing session, another problem will be discussed. I hate discrimination

@thepriceofsalt9003

5 жыл бұрын

honestly, i used to like watching hello counsellor, until i thought seriously about some stuff that they talked about, that were more heavy in weight than others, and the way the hosts and audience members or others reacted sometimes. and i realised that it made me uncomfortable that they played off issues that really should be taken seriously and dealt with professionally and not on this show that's mainly meant to entertain.

@weightycarlos

5 жыл бұрын

@@thepriceofsalt9003 True. The problem is that they're supposed to make it entertaining, because that's the whole mood of the show. The hosts are sincerely concerned and very sympathetic, but they need to be funny as well. And that just makes some of the concern feel less serious irl.

@koroyoo

5 жыл бұрын

@@thepriceofsalt9003 I believe they did have a talk beforehand with the one that send their problems backstage and if I reember correctly the mc mention that they have professional backstage

@user-zu3tm5wm9e

5 жыл бұрын

Because this show is just variaty show. It 's not a professional mental care show

The way ailee explained what complex was in English was nice of her.

@Hyokwang123

5 жыл бұрын

What time is where ailee said that?

@clownvibes

5 жыл бұрын

@@Hyokwang123 1:55

@harmonyfuntime1082

5 жыл бұрын

Is he not korean?

@simaali4992

5 жыл бұрын

Do u guys know who he is?

@nataliea.1493

5 жыл бұрын

@@simaali4992 They said he was a model and chef named Austin Kang.

I’ve said this so many times and I’m going to say it again “ Society judges you based on your appearance “ they assume he’s a pervert cause of his height , they tease and mock him assuming that he is weak because of his height but in all honesty he is very strong and kind .

@F_M20

5 жыл бұрын

God said "Dont judge, or you will be judge" for me, i tried not to judge if i saw something unordinary. Because me myself dont want to be judge like i judge them.

@F_M20

5 жыл бұрын

And it's called bullying. We have law to take those people to jail bro.

@Password9141

5 жыл бұрын

Sad but true. Handsome and pretty people have easier life. 80% of your life problems was solved if u have amazing visual., the rest just 10% luck and 10% efforts.

@konodio9125

5 жыл бұрын

How does the prejudice that he's a "pervert because he's short" make any sense?

@liveinsoco2504

5 жыл бұрын

ks 1226 it's my concern too, i never heard this prejudice in my country 😅

Can you guys imagine he had to leave his own country bc of his height. Ive been into k entertainment over 15 yrs and it still feels overwhelming how the country is way into appearances. It is sad.

@zavrina4977

5 жыл бұрын

Wt do u mean by k entertainment? like kpop idols?

@konodio9125

5 жыл бұрын

That's so true. Asians, especially SK, discriminates a lot based on appearance. Being better looking than the next person can even help you employed over someone more qualified.

@hufronputra929

5 жыл бұрын

Its not weight but height omg

@wonhoscake1214

5 жыл бұрын

kissnote21 every country doe this omfg

@S_T_fania

5 жыл бұрын

@@wonhoscake1214 True but not this much for example in Italy where I am from judging someone for their experience is considered a very very disrespectful superficial and stupid thing to do And when you insult someone you never go for their fiscal aspect only general insult becouse it considered really low😂😂

„korean society is a saving-face shaming culture“- Pastor Lee, a man who saves over 1500 abandoned babies a year in South Korea

@dejahmiles6414

5 жыл бұрын

Whoa.

@hal1792

5 жыл бұрын

I’m guessing u watch Asianboss. Me too 😊😊. If not check it out it’s a good channel

@dotdotdotdotdotdotdottod

5 жыл бұрын

And yet they have a "population decrease situation" When in reality they just hiding that fact and replacing with another

@Ahonya666

5 жыл бұрын

What? 1500 babies abandoned??? 😣😣😣

@Ahonya666

5 жыл бұрын

@@jamessopkin I think that behaviour to single mothers has to slowly change but not only there, in some little towns in Spain there is like that too. I know some friends who are single mothers and it isn't easy to raise a child (neither if you have husband)

Watching this kind of concern makes me feel so grateful that i didnt born in SK. I am overweight with face full of acne scars. I dont think i can survive with constant criticism. In my country, the lookism problem isnt that severe. Some still mock you for being fat but they at least wont blatantly talk to your face like what Koreans do.

@vlogswithjojo876

5 жыл бұрын

Ikr ...

@F_M20

5 жыл бұрын

So do i

@F_M20

5 жыл бұрын

But you know? You need to love yourself more to take their mocking as something that came out of their insecure innerself.

@christienstephen7715

5 жыл бұрын

Honestly you’re beautiful just the way you are. People in South Korea tend to judge people but at the end of the day they are the ones with the biggest insecurities.

@jisungsmom1273

5 жыл бұрын

so do i ☺

why does Ailee expression looks like YUp..koreans are like that..been there..done that..😂😂

@lilyblack1979

5 жыл бұрын

She got shamed and bullied by Koreans because she gained weight and considered fat in Korea.

Wow are we not talking about his smile its beautiful

@maymunaraj8511

5 жыл бұрын

Monster X His smile is adorable, reminds me of Jeno from Nct dream😍♥️.

@desuchibi1214

5 жыл бұрын

Thats what i thought also i first saw him

you can see the pain in his eyes when he's telling stories about him being discriminated against and then he just tries to smile or laugh it off. its breaking my heart :(

Even for a non-celebrity korean, it was harsh and makes him wanna leave his country...I can't imagine the high standards/close to perfection standards the koreans have for their celebrities..

@mejjune2849

5 жыл бұрын

That country is a hot mess. Idk if I would survive there. I honestly would leave for Europe asap.

@cyanoxicrose

5 жыл бұрын

You have NO idea.

@Ram875

5 жыл бұрын

It applies to most of Asia Pacific. I lived in China and, all I can say is: wow...

@MA-gn5nl

5 жыл бұрын

Man, this got me thinking

@oliverxhmll

4 жыл бұрын

That's why all celebrities get plastic surgery

I feel like it’s great that he left. He’s broadening his horizons and learning about new places. He must have learned Arabic in order to live there and that’s wonderful

@bouchama999

5 жыл бұрын

Well he can live in Morocco without learning Arabic because most of us speak English

@shiloh8734

5 жыл бұрын

ksuper ma but you have to admit that learning Arabic is still useful and a bit necessary when you live there. Even though most of you speak English, you never know if the people he’s around doesn’t.

@samra2386

5 жыл бұрын

@@bouchama999 actually a few who speak English.. French is more common here..

@SelmaFed

5 жыл бұрын

@@samra2386 I assure you he can survive in Morocco even with sign language 😂

@kuntarinirahsilawati920

5 жыл бұрын

@@bouchama999 Really? In which part of Morocco do you live? People speak French more than English. Only educated people speak English.

Introduces concern from Morocco *Proceeds to play "Arabian Nights"* 🤣🤣🤣

Lookism in SK are pretty severe..

@JayHanju

5 жыл бұрын

It is .. I suggest you to read the manhwa "Lookism" in Webtoon app.. literally tells you all the problems in korea

@glanced9684

5 жыл бұрын

Right. It's a very judgemental culture.

@destinykhawlhring5763

5 жыл бұрын

and most of the people are not good looking..except the idols

@yezrm9235

5 жыл бұрын

ONCE FOREVER Twiceuu yesss

@maddaofdrgns

5 жыл бұрын

i never really knew how critical it is living in s.k until i read lookism. and all i can say is shits pretty frickin critical just for existing 😬😬😬 they portrayed realistic stereotypes and ideals of the s. korean society. i am still very taken aback by the fact that no one bothers to explore beyond your looks when they see you. your appearance is your first impression and from then on they will judge you starting from your imperfections and flaws. i really don’t think there will ever be a society to exist where appearance is meaningless

the kbs editing team is making it seem like morocco is almost all desert 😂😂 and at 7:02, how are the editors gonna put in tunak tunak tun when that's an indian song.. not even an arab song at least ?? :/

@mawmaa7706

5 жыл бұрын

Zekeya Idris Cuz they uneducated

@linaech1234

5 жыл бұрын

The disrespect

@sbjo

5 жыл бұрын

Doesn't matter that the Internet is fast in Korea...for some crazy reason, editors on shows can't even do a quick Google search -_-

@user-os9fx2ne8m

5 жыл бұрын

they love their stereotypes

@hs-ism

5 жыл бұрын

Representing the shallowness of south koreans

Omg he's so good looking and muscular and great attitude and can sing ..... I'm a 6'2" female who always hated being the tallest.... But facing reality and embracing truth leads to loving yourself and when you do nobody can make you feel insecure

@NurulSyifa67

5 жыл бұрын

Leah Quispe me too.. i used to hate being a tall girl.. my height is 173cm, and a girl with this height in my country is considered as too tall.. but then i realised that God must have his reason for creating me with my height

@NurulSyifa67

5 жыл бұрын

JT its okay, nobody's perfect :).. just be happy, and positive :) short is cute tho :)

@twoplustwo07

5 жыл бұрын

I'm almost 6 ft and was taller and bigger than all girls and most boys until I got to high school. If I wasn't good at sports I would have been picked on more. My son is 6'6 and 355 pounds. He is so uncomfortable with his size and body. Even with him playing sports he's still shy. He will see like many of us have that our height and size is who we are. Its just not ALL of who we are.

@donkeyslayer8370

5 жыл бұрын

@@twoplustwo07 holy shit 6ft6 and 355lbs tell him to be proud of his size

Korea is a very dark place under all the pretty things only on the surface Edit: you all need to chill and focus on the second part of my sentence which said "under all the pretty things". I mean everywhere EVERY SINGLE PLACE has darkness in it. BUT we all know these ahead like we all know these and don't envy meanwhile Korea doesn't seem to be dark with all the pretty things on the outside like idols and dramas and even news don't show the bad sides MUCH. even on this program you can see that they all try to laugh it off they don't really care because we are manipulated to think Korea is the best in the world which we all should know it isn't. There are a lot of racist people there, sexism is the biggest issue body shaming etc. They don't show these, NEVER. They are so nationalist to the point that they think the nation has no problem except from the politics. Besides you all haven't even been to Korea and don't know anything. Just recently there is a foreigner girl got bullied and totally ignored by the police. Their economy is improving so much recently why do you think it is? They hide tons of things about their country.

@noopcoder

5 жыл бұрын

You are so right

@sophiejanekim

5 жыл бұрын

Aeri- L yes that true,,

@FloraNovax3

5 жыл бұрын

Every place has its darkness.. only idiots think it’s all beautiful and perfect like kdramas

@nelichairi3922

5 жыл бұрын

@@FloraNovax3 ooh you are so right👍

@sunsetcs5005

5 жыл бұрын

No where is perfect stupid of you to say such

People judge Africa way too quickly, it's actually a fun place with no judgements. It's sad that he learned everything about a country from a different continent just to escape discrimination. But hey, he got a lot of positive happenings.

@Iiquidme

5 жыл бұрын

Africa and ME is probably one of the most racist place. Look at the whites in africa being mistreated.

@rockandspace

5 жыл бұрын

@@Iiquidme Are you joking right now??? Are you talking about the whites in South Africa? Most of them are rich people and the farmers yes indeed get discriminated. But most Africans are friendly to foreigners so what are you talking about?

@Iiquidme

5 жыл бұрын

@@rockandspace but compare to places like uk... The discrimination is still high. And of course most Africans I meet are friendly.

@Cyhcg5uhgb

5 жыл бұрын

Friendly reminder:Africa is a WHOLE continent. Not a country. Morroco is a country in North-Africa. Morroco is not a place with no judgment. People are quite racist towards darker people and generally talk a lot behind people their back. Yes, they can be really nice especially in the villages. In the bigger cities everyone is trying to make money and trying to scam each other. I am not a fan of the big cities (especially not Marrakech).

@AsmaaPurity

5 жыл бұрын

@@Iiquidme hahahahahahahahahahaha what a silly joke What would your white people do in south africa? They came and kill people and colonise their country And strangely they still live their as owners of the country I ve never seen worst than white man mentality Killed 112milli9n people in america and started a new country over people's skulls You have no shame

i like his personality he got a very great attitude. SK have been known as a country that had a certain ideal looks that they prefer. i wish this man and his family will be even happier after this and people would treat them better

I just want to say for the record. I find him really good-looking. He has a Taeyang vibe because of those eyes.

@kc8724

5 жыл бұрын

iammai1 I was thinking seungri

@divaparkbom7165

5 жыл бұрын

His smiling eyes 💖

@lazycatt287

5 жыл бұрын

iammai1 OMG I THOUGHT THAT TOO

As a Moroccan, I'm glad he wasn't discriminated there. We actually look down on people who discriminate others for their looks and think they're ridiculous for doing that. As a foreigner, it's inevitable to face other problems like cultural differences for example. Also, living on his own even for locals can make him a target for thieves, especially if he lives in a poor neighborhood. I feel sorry for him, but things are worse in other countries! I hope he finds peace in Korea from now on, although it's difficult when a whole society is obsessed with looks. There should be some huge campaign or something to work on changing people's views to looks for the better

@okay033

4 жыл бұрын

Yes Morocco is changing to the better it’s remarkable

I love his smile! Its unfortunate most South Korean people can't keep their opinions to themselves.

Morocco is safe.. But depending on where you live.. I guess it's like that everywhere.. If u wanna be safer.. You should leave next to government buildings and/or near police stations.. And about marriage after 3 weeks.. I kniwppl here dating for years n years before thinking about marriage.. And.. Here there are 2 main ethnics: Arab and amazigh.. Next time u wanna talk about Morocco.. Be more educated.. We don't have only desert n camels.. Desert, sea, ocean, mountain, etc.. And about food.. It's indeed hard to be eating tagine everyday.. But there isn't only tagine and couscous.. Moroccan culinary is one of the most different and sophisticated.. If u had good friends they would've let u have lunch with them.. And finally.. You should have lived in the north.. It's not hot and it's more mild all over the year.. P.s before going to any place.. Ask about it

@dumdumtosucess

4 жыл бұрын

Man I felt bad when he talked how bad morocco is haha,saying people got into his house and steal sht(am like wtf)nooooooooooooo fk

@eklectiktoni

4 жыл бұрын

I figured Morocco isn't as dangerous as he made it sound. He may just live in a not-so-safe area. But I mean I get it. He's like a lot of uneducated foreigners. It's just the way people are unfortunately. People get a small exposure to a place and base their entire opinion off that experience. I have a friend from Germany who moved to Baltimore in the US. Apparently the area she lives in is kind of dangerous and now her whole impression of the US is that you can't walk the streets safely. Well, I've lived in the US all my life. I don't feel scared to go outside and I've even been out very late at night around 3am before and nothing happened. It has a lot to do with where you are.

@ayaatt3787

4 жыл бұрын

i agree with you any country is like that.and i think he knows nothing for living there for 5 years

@ekramchan1964

4 жыл бұрын

Their basically trying their best to support their ugly stereotypes

@aymanm.8462

3 жыл бұрын

@@eklectiktoni he probably had no money or connection in the beginning so i guess he landed in some "ghetto" neighborhood. my grandma has been living in morocco for 14 years now. never has she ever been robbed or held hostage with a knife. she sometime leaves the front door open for a whole day when it's hot while she is doing her thing upstairs. the only thing that happens is kids from the neighborhood coming up suddenly asking for water after playing in the sun.

It surprised me that people actually tell those things infront of him.. If you do that in Latinoamerica for example you could get a big problem because people doesn't keep quiet after that

@mejjune2849

5 жыл бұрын

I've seen some stuff where ppl in Korea needed help. Yk look lost and need help. No one. Like NO ONE ever asked if they could help that guy. They only care about their business (which has its benefits) but also you should be able to go to people and help them. I was shook

@nanda_blues

5 жыл бұрын

No Brasil também é assim, não mantemos pra lá alguém falar mau assim. Infelizmente a Coréia é um lugar sombrio pra quem é diferente.

@moondvst4131

Жыл бұрын

​@@mejjune2849 yeah... our culture is the complete opposite so I have a really tough time being understanding of this "not me, not my problem" attitude. 😕

After a long time of following the SK's news, I am fully aware that SK should be a place for traveling not for living

@tendoukappa

5 жыл бұрын

same. many friends of me always assume that i want to live there just because i love kpop and tbh i don't even want to live there for college or work, just want to travel there is more than enough

@angelandi5140

4 жыл бұрын

Say it again please.

@florentinag1712

3 жыл бұрын

👌

This is reality about bad side of Korean Society. If you want to live in Korea. You have to pass their standard to live there peacefully.

@daneilbaugh7303

5 жыл бұрын

FrostA shaming others and being judgmental isn’t a cultural aspect anyone should want to adopt. It’s well known how large certain types of looks are in Asia in general. Just because it is common doesn’t make it right. How many episodes of Hello counselor draw on strangers just being plain mean and dissing people for no reason? A lot. If this is what you claim as a part of the Korean culture and standard, that is sad. In China you need money to live your best life, but that’s universal for many countries. Adopting a culture and not being rude/ acting like you’re better than everyone is a universal standard to live by when in a foreign culture. Everything is not for you. Being ugly about someone’s appearance, driving them to the point they want to leave the country, get depressed, shrink themselves into oblivion is not normal. Being kind to people is normal, not looking for a way to demean someone is normal.

@krm101

5 жыл бұрын

@FrostA dude. that standard is not considered part of their country's culture. these standard are created by racist and mean people.

They have to be white, skinny and tall to fit in the "Korean beauty". That's why some of them are ended up getting a plastic surgery. This is sad.

@idk-ji5og

5 жыл бұрын

@Spcsmile1040 I feel like all countries have beauty standards but in Korea they're emphasized a lot more. When I went to Korea everyone would say "you would be so pretty if you were pale" and I personally think of my tanned skin as a part of my culture and a part of me so it kinda offended me. In America no one has ever said anything like "you'd be pretty if you were curvy"

@suzu7270

5 жыл бұрын

Spcsmile1040 Korean beauty standards are disgusting. Yes all country’s have beauty standards, but if you don’t fit in to the beauty standards they don’t judge you and make fun of you. In South Korea if you aren’t pale, skinny, and pretty, then you will be constantly judged.

@suzu7270

5 жыл бұрын

Spcsmile1040 trust me when someone tells you that they aren’t being nice lol

@Iiquidme

5 жыл бұрын

This awesome !!!

@Nobody-tj9jo

5 жыл бұрын

Spcsmile1040 why would people in America make fun of your lack of curves when most women in East Asian don’t have curves?

I just don't get why they are so judgemental towards each other, I've travelled to a lot of places and Korea was the first place where I felt judged by people. The way some people looked, they don't do it just to foreigners but also their own people. If people could just focus on their own and live their life

@shiromoo8739

5 жыл бұрын

Same at here I have been travel to Korea twice , they really judge and look at you and sometimes i feel uncomfortable tbh. If you are pretty they will treat you nicely.

@yestoday1073

5 жыл бұрын

But of course not everyone there is like that right? I'd never travel there if everyone I pass by judge me like that

@SomenoneS

5 жыл бұрын

@@yestoday1073 no not everyone of course, we traveled to Seoul, Busan and Jeju-do and in Busan and Jeju-do people were more open towards you. Eventually we said to everyone that was looking "annyeonghaseyo" and the moment you said it they were suprised and looked really happy and started a conversation. So that way we opened up and they as well. I've met some wonderful people over there. It's the overall feeling you get but you can lessen that by initiating the first conversation. If you get the chance to go there, you should definitely to that. Despite that, Korea has become one of my favorite places to go because of the history, the nature and their culture. So I am definitely going there as well and so should you.

@lazycatt287

5 жыл бұрын

Kyusome damn and to think I was gon travel to Korea guess japan it is

NO!!! Moroccan girls dont ask their boyfriends to marry them after 3 weeks of dating... this is completely wrong YES!!! Morocco is a safe country....it depends on where this guy was living Those infos could be very misleading...I m sorry to say that but talking about personal experience is great but presenting it as a Fact is wrong. This is probably the 1st time for many koreans to hear about morocco i hope they wont have a bad idea.... PS: This guy struggled alot and i m sorry to hear that such ignorant people still exist nowdays...i hope he ll be more confident and happier

@sophia4573

3 жыл бұрын

@Malak Quoraichi El Idrissi That's the least i can do as a moroccan. The infos in this video are wrong, i didn't mention the "50 degrees" and eating "tajine" everyday🤭....

@cheesecake7274

3 жыл бұрын

@@sophia4573 It was probably where he lived, he was probably in the south where it gets warmer, and he has to eat Tajine probably because he is with tourists a lot who want to try the famous dish from Morocco. But they could have explained that better, that it is not how Morocco is, just his life in Morocco.

@eddaifplayz7994

3 жыл бұрын

Basically he is right because Morocco is an islam based country. In Islam there is no such thing as a relationship. You get to know the person first and then you can get engaged and learn more about the person and if everything matches they marry each other. You guys are only trying to look normal in western societys eyes.

i ve been 18 years in morocco and i ve never got robbed, maybe the place where he was living is insecure. ps: morocco it not just a desert, there s snowy cities ,sea cities... such a wonderful country. nd last but not least terrorism not definds morocco, morocco is a saaaaaaaafe countryyyyy, for all readers don t judge a country for the other's experiences. visit it than u can judge. with salma's love♥️

SK is a place where outside appearance is overrated and everyone goes for the same popular features. The result is that a lots of SK idols & movie stars look alike these days. I used to watched K-drama in the 90s and didn't have a problem of recognising different actresses. Nowaday I found that lots of SK stars look so similar to each other that I couldn't distinguish 1 from another. Not sure if it's sad or fortunate that height is not something plastic surgery can fix?

@FumIsChum

5 жыл бұрын

YES. When I say every idol has at least something done, I mean it. Even some of my favourite idols out there will have something done, and it's not just "they hit puberty or lost weight" thing. I'm not criticizing any one out there that gets plastic surgery, because plastic surgery is considered normal in Asia, so no one should judge. Some idols has blatant plastic surgery, and people can deny all they want, but in reality, this would be considered normal. Korea isn't all sunshine and rainbow, because when you look around, it's like everyone has to fit a certain standard even to the way you act, people lose that self-confidence because they feel like they have to look a certain way to be treated nicely. Even when you go clubbing in Korea, they don't let just anyone in, you have to be a model or an idol, be skinny, look pretty, and can't be a foreigner.

@sincerelysof

5 жыл бұрын

If you're fast enough (meaning puberty), you can get hormones to grow taller. Sad, but true.

@dalilahdali6970

5 жыл бұрын

ikr, they all look same to me now lol..

@idontevenknow8646

5 жыл бұрын

Tbh what I don’t like about kdramas is not the surgery... it’s the damn filter they use that makes the actors’ faces look like a smooth marble with no flaws or indentations. It just looks very unnatural to me and puts me off. Like, people can have amazing clear skin with not a single pimple and they still wouldn’t look that smooth. Skin has a beautiful texture of its own, and them taking that texture away with the filter makes it look unnatural. I didn’t even notice that they were using a filter till it was mentioned in that one video of Conan acting in Korea; I just could never put my hand on what was wrong.

@lazycatt287

5 жыл бұрын

Annie Tran that’s why lately I can’t tell idols apart they look too much alike and that’s why I stopped watching Korean dramas too I got tired of them

Then what is the conclusion, why they didnt admit discriminated and bullying is a big issue in korea. They told him to ignore? He should fight and people around him who hear that should act. What is wrong with you SK people!!!

@pumpkins2393

5 жыл бұрын

@@aletheiathreskeia1844 they need a mirror to look them self having narrow minded and bad heart

@Alexandriappanimomo

5 жыл бұрын

This show never admits the problem of Korean society. They just show this as a way to break the ice since they can't actual speak bad about their nation. It's in their contract.

@skillbopster

5 жыл бұрын

Women world wide look down on and are repulsed by short men.

@eklectiktoni

4 жыл бұрын

I've never watched this show before, but I think maybe they didn't for 2 reasons. First, it doesn't seem like this show is the kind of thing that really goes in-depth about societal issues. It seems like it's more for entertainment purposes. So they needed to keep the tone somewhat lighthearted. Secondly, the realistic takeaway is that some people are awful people and you can't change that. There's just no way to *make* people be nice. So all he can do is learn to not care. As someone who spent my entire childhood being bullied for my appearance, I can testify to that fact. And I'm not Korean, nor have I ever lived in SK btw. I learned eventually you can spend your whole life worrying about other people's opinion of you, trying to please them, and being miserable when they don't approve. Or you can learn to love and accept yourself.

@eklectiktoni

4 жыл бұрын

@@skillbopster Not true. I know some who find short men particularly charming and less intimidating than tall or even average height men. Besides Kevin Hart, much?

He is charming and has a nice personality. You have to over come your own complex, only then you can stand tall and confront those.

I'm from Morocco I wish you had a nice life here. Good luck, I can relate for some problems here we even locals suffer from them, but is a beautiful country. Wish u all the best. PS: Morocco is not just a desert. We have also cities but we don't have big buildings so we can clearly see the sky. 🇲🇦❤

@gigigigi5581

4 жыл бұрын

واش تكلم بشكل سلبي عن المغرب

@hajaragourram5013

4 жыл бұрын

@@gigigigi5581 nn gal ze3ma ghiir t3ered lchefra bezzaf dyal lkhetrat

@hajaragourram5013

4 жыл бұрын

@@gigigigi5581 ama bel3eks chekrou f bezzaf tnawahi odker silbiyat li 3achhoum hetta houma

@gigigigi5581

4 жыл бұрын

@@hajaragourram5013 قولي شنو قال علي المغرب قال بلي المغرب غير امن

@hajaragourram5013

4 жыл бұрын

@@gigigigi5581 ouiii dakchii

5:57 since I’m an Arabic I got so excited when he talked and I understood him 😂😂 I’m a big fan of the show and I guess he’s the first guest to try to talk in Arabic.

This is so sad that you are being bullied by your own country men. Have to leave to have a peace of mind. So sad.

“I told him to go, he has so much to offer so I didn’t want him to be discriminated for his height” what a great friend :( it’s unfair he had to leave but it helped him get out of his comfort zone

'perfection is a disease of a nation, its the soul that needs surgery'- Beyonce

@ann-sharonv.mukanganyama3374

4 жыл бұрын

@Sara Shriram yeah now that makes sense hahahahah

Morocco is a beautiful developing country that is changing month after month , the unsafety thing isn’t actually accurate ! People there are sweet like no where else , a place that feels like home and feels liberating !!! Would recommend for exchange student or university students it’s great to have a melting pot of culture anywhere in the world ! Have a wonderful day and We love Morocco 🇲🇦

So stereotypical jeez we don’t live in the sahara and eat couscous everyday lmao

@safaaelasba6951

5 жыл бұрын

True

@jaebum7169

5 жыл бұрын

Not the point but ok

@femmestoic

5 жыл бұрын

jaebum i get the point and that guy shouldn’t have gone to this shitty ass show that don’t even try to help

@jazzg.6771

5 жыл бұрын

The images of the show were very stereotypical, thats true. But it was not the fault of the guy, i believe.

@femmestoic

5 жыл бұрын

Jazz G. Didn’t say its his fault, it’s just pointless to go there since they don’t offer any help

So sad....people are so judgemental...

@bintacamara4221

5 жыл бұрын

I know,so sad.

@rie4449

5 жыл бұрын

korea is so modern but their thinking...

They are trying so hard to portray Morocco as a bad country, while ignoring their own problems which drove him out of the country

I have a question: Do you think Morocco is just desert? Because when someone doesn't know about Morocco and hears that it's in Africa their imagination betrays them! Are moroccans thieves? To be honest, in every country there are criminals! I know my comment it's far to be about his concern, but I was just uncomfortable to continue this video! Moroccans don't always eat tajine and couscous, we have other dishes too! Moroccans are very kind, but of course, there will be some who aren't but that's normal!

@liliaaron2028

5 жыл бұрын

Chefti weld h... comment il a parlé du Maroc je pense qu il a exagéré sa situation pour passer à la télé du sensationnel bête quoi normalement on doit lui interdire l entrée au pays hit il a dénigré aw bezaf en plus fi un show très regardé en Corée

@Flicker-0

5 жыл бұрын

@@liliaaron2028 Je n'ai pas aimé la façon dont il avait parlé du pays, mais comme même il avait dit qu'en Maroc personne ne la jugeait car les marocains s'en fous souvent de l'apparence: petit,grand maigre ,gros ça n'a pas d'importance ! Ce qui m'a dérangé c'est qu'il avait vécu 5 ans au Maroc comme même il n'y a pas que des voleurs, que la mer, que le désert ! Il ne fait pas chaud toute l'année! On ne mange pas que du tagine! En plus quand on dit tagine, il y a différents sortes et c'est un repas complet (légumes et viandes)! Et enfait au début de la vidéo ils avaient coupé le Sahara du maroc par contre,ils montrent une partie du désert pour montrer comment est le Maroc!

@liliaaron2028

5 жыл бұрын

@@Flicker-0 yep wallah j ai été dégoûté ga3 des bêtises qu il nous a sorti sur notre pays en plus il y a plein de restaurants asiatiques et de grands hypermarchés qui ont des rayons plein à craquer de produits asiatiques pff je te conseille de regarder les vidéos de la chaine bohemian kitchen c'est la chaîne d'un coréen qui s est installé avec sa mère au maroc vers la région de chefchaouen ça n'a rien à voir 😤😤😤

@ajieaojulu5001

5 жыл бұрын

방탄소년단A.R.M.Y this is just his experience there he never said that’s how it is for everybody.

@ajieaojulu5001

5 жыл бұрын

방탄소년단A.R.M.Y he also said something positive about Morocco and that is people don’t judge there.

Those Korean are so narrow minded. I'm 145 CM and i'm Proud with it. Have a dark skin, weight around 53 kg... Still look cute. Stop body shamming!

@clownvibes

5 жыл бұрын

Did I write this comment in my sleep? You literally just described me haha. But for a long time I was like the guy but I'm glad I realized that as long as I don't care what people say I won't feel sad all the time because of how I look.

@asyawee8639

5 жыл бұрын

Yeay. Finally meet some one same height as me.

@andreasamuel6460

5 жыл бұрын

So cute^^

@shazmin788

5 жыл бұрын

Yes gurllll keep doing u. U r awesome

@gaoleeyang

5 жыл бұрын

I’m 18 & 148cm. I’m like the only short person around where I live 😭

In a lot of Islamic countries I think they don't judge you by your looks at all. I mean none of my Muslim friends did that so that's my conclusion

@user-rx7uh9mg4f

5 жыл бұрын

It's part of the religion to not discriminate and harass people based on looks or color of skin.

@nelichairi3922

5 жыл бұрын

So true, muslim people actually they are soo nice people👍

@HarunaMaurer

5 жыл бұрын

well, at least if they judge you, they dont say it to your face...

@nya45dy89

5 жыл бұрын

@@HarunaMaurer every body have judgements but you have to know that before judging somebody, you should know that you're not perfect either and have alot of flaws too. That's what people should do. Some don't have judgements because they know god gave them these faces and flaws and everything and they learn to accept themselves and thank god for what he gave them, physics are not important, only the heart does I would never marry someone that is super handsome but a jerk.

@bloodmajesty414

5 жыл бұрын

@@HarunaMaurer As a muslim myself, hell yeah judgy people exists everywhere (we even have special nickname for these people, translated to "onion auntie and uncle" in english) BUT you have a solid counter-attack if they go too far-- just say "This is the gift from God, I hope you will find the light to shine you dark heart" or something like that. People will shut up pretty quickly. And another thing with SK is the "respect your senior" thingy is too severe, people older than you can boss you around and say shit to your face but if you talk back, you are the evil one. That's pretty dark.

In my opinion, this show sounds a bit ineffective for guests. Hello Counselor seems like a place to vent but they don't really tackle to improve his issue. Most of the counselors don't seem serious as they should be and I notice they make more unnecessary humorous remarks than really addressing the victim's problem with a solid solution. It's a Korean thing to be friendly and light-hearted but it shouldn't fit in this situation. The only effective person was Ailee who really sympathized with him the most. This guy needs a strong positive circle and learn to accept his flaws. That will make this guy unstoppable.

@idontevenknow8646

5 жыл бұрын

VincentsLegacy tbh I think maybe the hosts of the show are getting... bored with it? Maybe, I don’t know.

@motro1301

5 жыл бұрын

@@idontevenknow8646 Well its because this is not meant to be alternative to real counselors anyways...at the end of the day this is categorized as entertainment...not a medical program...and i mean they cant solve societal problems here do they? People dont change just because of a program...although as a korean some episodes do make me cringe cause the producer wants this program as provocative as possible... But the duos known as cultwo in korea got this mc job cause they are popular radio djs here who in korea listen to a lot of different episodes from listeners...they are part of a long running show

I've plan to work in korea but reading a lot of comments about the negative attitude of korean people so i choose for japan.. p.s not all korean's but i guess japan is way better

@silvervixen007

5 жыл бұрын

Nah not necessarly

@pamelaong5907

5 жыл бұрын

Japanese people just don't say it in your face while Koreans says it out openly. Japanese people are equally judgemental when it comes to appearances. Trust me when I say this.

@milanasmile6161

5 жыл бұрын

yeah what the other comments said is true, japenese people judge too but they don‘t tell it in your face, but i never felt judged in japan or unwelcome like i did in korea sometimes

@saraha6571

4 жыл бұрын

@@pamelaong5907 really? Do japanese judge appearance?

@tete8151

3 жыл бұрын

@@saraha6571 of course the good looking person dominates in Japan

you're loved, and amazing person... love yourself :3

I'm Korean and wanna say to other young Koreans. Let's make it change. We all know that's a serious problem in our society. As he mentioned, we all have to work on it together. Let us start from our generation to make Korea better

MOROCCO IS A BEAUTIFUL COUNTRY....NO NEED TO PORTRAY IT LIKE THIS.....

They as public figure never told to the audience, they should not do that, thats a bad attitude. Never told to the audience we should respect others...... and more focusing on something else than the point. Such a same!!

i still think it's damn fucking weird to have people compete for the most tragic story contribution to get a cash prize. the shot of him at the end, eyes sad and glossy while smiling and holding the cheque is haunting. lol

@anisatajy9445

4 жыл бұрын

Your LOL at the end ruined your comment for me

I feel like the hosts r trying to blame it on insecurity. Insecurity is clearly not an issue here bcoz this guy is literally running away from Koreans. So he must have given up his hopes on SK society. This should b an eye opening.

As morrocans we my mum and i had a robbery and a braken in twice and of course the police never did anything . So cheer up you are not the only one to get robbed in this land . Stay next to your mother and build a shield around yourself just like you are building those muscles, make that shield strong so when people try to brake you they will get nothing but dust . Some people are born fighters others will have to learn how to become one .

@fatehahibrahim14

5 жыл бұрын

I like that last sentence 👍

The Arabic text they use made me laugh. They didn't understand arabic letters are conjoined (for the most part) and it goes right to left not left to right.

Kudos for the team👍👍 Hope this will make people realize and watch what they said, it can be so hurtfull for others...

Why did they play tunak tunak tun in the background knowing this is about Morocco and not India lol....

@muna706

5 жыл бұрын

amina bread chaser they're obsessed with this damn song I don't knw why

@amina-cq7gh

5 жыл бұрын

Muna Mohamud LMAO, mfs can’t even see which culture they’re talking about

I don’t understand why morocco = sahara

@aoiaoi7061

5 жыл бұрын

They don't know that we have mountains and seas and snow hhh

@BEBEiiCR4Zii

5 жыл бұрын

yeah lmao

@AsmaaPurity

5 жыл бұрын

And indian music 3alam had nass 😂

@annukimuni3389

3 жыл бұрын

That's since they're ignorants, they have no interest about foreign countries.

@tete8151

3 жыл бұрын

@@aoiaoi7061 Morocco snows goddamn I'm coming there in Kenya it doesn't snow

Are you serious playing Aladdin music when showing morocco ?

7:22 I know she was just making a "joke" but to be honest I think she meant that

@larashlomi8582

4 жыл бұрын

*YEAH TRUE*

They didn’t address the issue with their lot, they only advise him to ignore it. Smh

I’m a tad bit irritated that they’re acting like “oh my no way” like come on...know ur people. Not all but most Koreans are very arrogant and are/can be rude talker. Even in America we know our race so it don’t come as a surprise but to act like sk are the sweetest and most innocent type of people and making me mad like the minds are really discriminated

@desertsoul4693

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah I have to agree with you on that one. My personal experience with Koreans aren't that good and they tend to be rude. I was only in primary school and even though it's an international school, Koreans dominated the school.

he must be so smart to learn arabic. he might be better person with his intellegent than tall people

Even her mum is taller than me She is 150 cm, I am 146cm only I deal with this every day People can be really cruel

@aletheiathreskeia1844

5 жыл бұрын

It said that she is under 150 dear

@ritaarora4567

5 жыл бұрын

My bad 😅

So sad,nobody should leave home bcos of something like this.the people talks about his short he are very narrow minded,HE is a great guy and I him all the best.stay strong👊

theyre a very honest family, its so refreshing to see. everyone is laughing because of his mom complaining but being proud of him, but that's family. you love each other while being disappointed in each other and fixing things and making an effort because we are connected by blood.

For those who read this, You’re beautiful, you’re worth it, you’re intelligent, you’re appreciated. Criticism will not lead us to anywhere, appreciate every single soul around you! If any of you facing any kind of judgement, I just want you to respect yourself and let it go! I love you from the bottom of my heart, i got your back ❤️

Unfortunately, there are ppl who will be judging on your height and looks all over the world.

It's so damn weird to see people crying because they're short Like what the hell is happening in Korea? For real?

@inspireandbeinspired579

4 жыл бұрын

Ikr... This guy is a gem he has some much more to offer than his height 😔

@masochisticdoll

3 жыл бұрын

Men height for korean beauty standard is over 180 cm 6’0

Hang in there boy! I think until the end of the world people who really judgemental about other apperances never really gone. You have so much positive energy, charming and a lot of a good things on you and there would be no one who flawless in this world. So just prove anyone that you can stand on your way, because efforts never betray the result and they always people who truly respect and love you the way you are. Fighting!!!

Dear Lord I could notttt watch him cry AT ALL!! What a loving and soft person~ He's so so cute to boot! How could ANYONE say no to that face? 💔

When I was in Incheon Airport, I felt extreme tension and pressure for some reason. Maybe it was the fashion, maybe it was the constant beauty store workers, maybe it was the language. But I got such a weird vibe, like I definitely didn’t belong at all. I’m also short (not as short as the guy with the concern) but I felt like people were looking down on me. It makes me fortunate to live in America, because although we’re not perfect at all, we have much less prejudice than Korea does. My height isn’t a problem. My sexuality is much more respected. My ethnicity is accepted. I hope this episode of “Hello Counselor” really challenges the people of Korean society and makes them really think on how they can be more open-minded to people outside of their beauty standards.

Poor guy! I hope he finds happiness where ever he goes! Come to Australia ❤

@tunkytunky

5 жыл бұрын

Aren't Australians pretty tall? He'll be discriminated against more quietly but similar amount. Plus lots of Koreans there...

I really love the way they dealt with the situation & the comfort they gave him. I loved the show even more. يالكم من أناس دافئين، أشعر بالسعادة من بعد مشاهدتي للجزء هذا ☺💗

His smile is brighter than my future. Glad that he is doing very well in Morocco.

This is a big amount of korean speaking about Morocco 😍😍 grateful

@ummnaim5862

5 жыл бұрын

Assalamu Alaikum sis ! Yes I'm happy when they talked about Morocco but they used so much stereotypes... Yikes... Even Indian music at 7:58, that's very ignorant of them

@Oumamamusic

5 жыл бұрын

@@ummnaim5862 yes and they showed sahara so much as a foreign country it's normal to have stereotypes they don't know much about north africa

He has the prettiest smile. It's so sad that he trained himself to smile to protect himself from getting attacked.

the way he smiles, reminds me of doh kyungsoo🥺 he’s such an adorable man, i really wish lots of happiness in life. who cares if he’s short?! as long as he has a good heart, that should be the only thing to matter, not his height.

he needs a vlog channel he's too funny with a nice personality

Every country has its bad side and I wish people didn’t always think of Korea as a place that’s all rainbows and sunshine. I think kpop plays in a lot of people’s perception! Looks are a BIG deal even if people say it isn’t it is! At work women are expected to doll themselves up and men are expected to be well groomed! The back handed compliment thing happens all the time there “you’re so pretty but if you lost weight...” “you’re so tall to bad your face doesn’t match” and don’t even get me started in politics and the government!! 😤😤😤

@idontevenknow8646

5 жыл бұрын

R A tbh I personally think there’s nothing wrong with caring about looks. It’s natural; humans are visual creatures. What’s wrong, is that some people feel entitled to blatantly tell others to lose weight, do something about that hair, etc. If someone really is doing something wrong about their appearance, then they should head it from someone CLOSE to them, and in a good way, not bullying. And at the end of the day, it’s their choice wether to follow that advice or not. What’s wrong is outwardly commenting on others’ appearance. But looks really are important, and there’s nothing wrong with caring about them, in my opinion.

Height should never be a factor in love! My mom was only 4'11". She found love and had my sister and myself. With his personality and smile I'm positive he will find Love! He is a very handsome man! Not all women with good are that closed minds. Be confident in yourself and your perfect women will find you! You are perfect the way you are!

@jesskhan09

5 жыл бұрын

Cheryl Medeiros - height is a big issue for men. This is not just a Korean issue, as a lot of short men have problems finding acceptance. But that doesn’t mean he can’t find someone. It’s usually other people who project their assumptions on him.

@cherylmedeiros6287

5 жыл бұрын

@@jesskhan09 still, he has the sweetest smile and such a great personality! That is why this world is so messed up! Hopefully he will find his soulmate!

When he teared up I really wanted to give him a big hug and tell him that he’s a wonderful person, no matter how tall he is

So much respect to this man bc he doesnt give up on his life despite what he has been through over his entire life 👏🏻👏🏻 i’ve experienced body shaming since i was a kid and it really breaks my confidence, almost everyday i want to end my life (ik maybe it sounds ridiculous to some of you) bc i know no one loves me and i wont have partner or bf or husband in the rest of my life bc of my appearance and to the point that i just dont care even if im alone forever :)

Not just Koreans but people in GENERAL are small minded and are too judgemental...Nobody was put in the world to be judged like they weren't superior and that they were lower than everybody. We need to really step up cause I know we ain't about causing people depression, anxiety and other mental issues that hurt. We need change.....

@maya_jones3411

4 жыл бұрын

BTS4EVER Don't generalise people. There are many kind and open-minded people out there.

i kinda feel sad that he is living like this in morroco i have been living here all my life and never have i ever experienced things like these

@slach3346

5 жыл бұрын

Me too! Morocco is a beautiful country. Don't woryy bad and good things everywhere😄

@okay033

4 жыл бұрын

True ! Hope it will get better

actually morocco was the best place for him to live in , i admit that we don't usually judge people by their looks .. and im so grateful you liked morocco , welcome again ..

I'm living In Morocco for 19years and I've never get robbed!!

Why did you cut half of the Moroccan map ??????????? This is confusing!!!. you cut the MOROCCAN DESERT (SAHARA), but in the program, you presented many pictures and videos of the MOROCCAN DESERT(SAHARA). I hope you are familiar with the history of the KINGDOM of MOROCCO before you talk about it

From what I observed korean people want to achieve the definition of “perfect” and that’s the problem they criticize/judge someone and that’s the reason they need to change something in their body or face. even its their culture or something I still want to lecture not only them but everyone that stop judging someone by their body or looks everyone is beautiful in your own way remember you are unique.

Editor nim working my last tear duck thank you very much!!!

I truly relate to this guy. The only difference is not my height but skin color. I know how it feels to be the subject of ridicule, I know how it feels to pretend you didn't hear anything hurtful when truthfully you heard it, but at the end of the day, I'm thankful because I grew stronger from those wounds. But back to this guy. He doesn't seem too short for me, he looks completely normal. I wish him all the luck in life!

Wow they really did show morroco like that..... We don't live in desert and we have the whole contry not half of it... Bro this is messed up😒😒

@zaniabsalam8542

4 жыл бұрын

What is episode????? ارمي عراقية 🇮🇶🇮🇶🇮🇶

He is so damn handsome tho! His smile and voice melt my heart!

This seriously hurts my heart. When you're young you just want to be loved for who you are. When you're older it doesn't matter quite as much, but it still hurts. I wish people would really look at who is in front of them! This young man is perfect, inside and out.

사연자분 너무 매력잇으시고 미남이세요.앞으로도 활기차게 잘 생활하시고 한국 귀국하셔서 행복하게지내세요!!!응원합니다

We don't have Tagine & Couscous everyday though

People these days don’t know that the pretty is on the inside instead of the outside... These really made me cry and made me mad cause My dad use to experience those kinds of things cause he is deseable and can’t walk😭😭😭😭😭

When I saw him tear up I wanted to hug him so badly

사람들이 그렇게 생각없이 그렇게 얘기하고 정말 맘 아프셧겠어요 ㅜㅜㅜㅜ 제 남자친구도 키가 165 안되는데 너무 행복하게 잘 지내고 있어요! 힘내셔서 꼭 좋은분 만나셨으면 좋겟어요 진짜 너무 매력적이세요!!