Why I Chose to Be A Nurse Instead of A Doctor

Hey Nurse Fam! I get a lot of questions about people unsure whether nursing or being a doctor is for them. In this video I talk about my decision to become a nurse. Enjoy
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  • @leenaa.9671
    @leenaa.96716 жыл бұрын

    My parents are doctors and I hate when people think that nurses are less than doctors. Everyone needs to know that nurses are so so amazing and are very hard working. Nurses are so so close to their patients which is crucial. Nurses are amazing!

  • @MK-cf1rm

    @MK-cf1rm

    6 жыл бұрын

    Leena A. Can i ask you a question ? I want to become a doctor but the thing that keeps me off guard is the fact that people day that doctors have no free time and that the only thing they do is working ALL the time. I too want to start a family but idk if you can being a doctor ? May be you know bc your parents are doctors

  • @leenaa.9671

    @leenaa.9671

    6 жыл бұрын

    taehyung sure! You’re right, a doctor definitely has way less free time but that doesn’t mean you can’t start a family! It’s definitely possible you just have to be smart about your timing. I have to warn you, being a doctor takes years of studying so if you want to have a child before 26-28 it may not be the best choice. After that though, you can definitely take a maternity leave, book your schedule based on your children, etc. Pre schools and extended day programs at school are what my parents did to make sure we were supervised when we were younger. You could also get a nanny. There are many options so don’t stress! You can definitely be a doctor and have a family you just need to plan things out effectively. Hope this helped (ps good luck!!) 💘💘

  • @MK-cf1rm

    @MK-cf1rm

    6 жыл бұрын

    Leena A. Thank you so much !

  • @melaniedealwis6761

    @melaniedealwis6761

    5 жыл бұрын

    Oh thank you so much for saying nurses are vital.I feel like that's what I hate about nursing and the only thing I hate. Is when people or doctors think nurses are less then doctors. I come from a family of all doctors and engineers and everyone all ways asks me why I didn't become a doctor.

  • @leenaa.9671

    @leenaa.9671

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thenu De Alwis awe no problem, I hate that stigma!!

  • @happiness6388
    @happiness63886 жыл бұрын

    “Why didn’t you become a doctor” I agree that it’s one of the WORST questions! 😩Like it is two very different pathways to become a nurse or to become a doctor 🤦🏾‍♀️ Like some people need to know the difference.

  • @AneishaH
    @AneishaH6 жыл бұрын

    i chose to wanting to be a Nurse instead of a doctor because i want to live and start my life earlier. some people may say it sounds crazy but i’m being 100%! doctors need 12 years of school and nurses need 4 and years of training. the second reason is because i feel like nurses are closer to their patients than doctors and i love it💓 i would love to be a NICU nurse...

  • @TheNurseNook

    @TheNurseNook

    6 жыл бұрын

    Tiara yes girl I feel this whole post 100%

  • @tasha8620

    @tasha8620

    6 жыл бұрын

    I agree completely

  • @ValentinoFebryandy

    @ValentinoFebryandy

    6 жыл бұрын

    I agree

  • @deandrawilliams7762

    @deandrawilliams7762

    6 жыл бұрын

    Yes! I’m glad someone else said it. I also want to be a young, successful person and enjoy life NOW. I went into undergrad my first year with a doctors mindset and now in my 2nd year with a nursing mindset because I realized what I really want! You really have to look into the future and yourself to understand.

  • @LorenDraws

    @LorenDraws

    6 жыл бұрын

    Omg I’m exactly the same I’m young but I wanna work in a NICU and like being a nurse you spend more time and are closer with your patients and family etc.

  • @frandiablaise7853
    @frandiablaise78536 жыл бұрын

    I wanted to be a pediatrician first too but after being hospitalized for lupus seeing how much the nurses worked hard dealing with me and I barely saw the doctor helped make my decision to be a nurse

  • @fatimabagayan8756

    @fatimabagayan8756

    4 жыл бұрын

    Frandia Blaise what type of nurse ?

  • @DragonZombie2000

    @DragonZombie2000

    3 жыл бұрын

    Did seeing the nurse more help the lupus flare get better

  • @frandiablaise7853

    @frandiablaise7853

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@fatimabagayan8756 at first a peds nurse but I’ve grown to love working with geriatrics in the ICU

  • @lotusgrl444

    @lotusgrl444

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@frandiablaise7853 that is so awesome..when my elderly father was hospitalized, it was soo soothing to see caring nurses take care of him and be so kind and even kid around with him. It was the silvering lining of having to see my dad hospitalized. So thank you for the work that you do. We will all get old and to be treated with dignity and respect at that age is all that is asked.

  • @amberleighevers
    @amberleighevers6 жыл бұрын

    As a premed student, I’m constantly asked, “why not become a nurse?” Lol two completely different paths but I think nurses run the hospitals and are more one to one with patients.

  • @amberleighevers

    @amberleighevers

    6 жыл бұрын

    Clodia Frazil I didn’t say I was annoyed. I just simply stated that both medical paths are different.

  • @Tomipeace13

    @Tomipeace13

    6 жыл бұрын

    Same! I appalled nurses hut I couldn't do it. Too much people interaction. I'm moving towards research physician now tho!

  • @ebcutiepie

    @ebcutiepie

    6 жыл бұрын

    CNA's run them. We know the patient better than anyone there.

  • @joko3382

    @joko3382

    5 жыл бұрын

    Nope, unfortunately the admins run the hospital

  • @AntHawk

    @AntHawk

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@joko3382 lol true

  • @ViolinMD
    @ViolinMD6 жыл бұрын

    Great video! I really enjoyed hearing a different perspective around what it means to care for patients in the hospital! Thanks for sharing!

  • @kaiwindust7775

    @kaiwindust7775

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ahhh I love your channel!

  • @user-sl5uv2gg1s

    @user-sl5uv2gg1s

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@kaiwindust7775 aren't we wll omfg I got so hooked when I saw her comment around here!!

  • @DX-d

    @DX-d

    5 жыл бұрын

    It's a stretch, to say the least, to compare a nurse to a doctor.

  • @michaela4234

    @michaela4234

    5 жыл бұрын

    Diana D why you keep saying this?

  • @Aidamoon29

    @Aidamoon29

    4 жыл бұрын

    You’re awesome thanks for supporting nurses!

  • @fatimarahat8928
    @fatimarahat89285 жыл бұрын

    This is so true My dad is a doctor and when ever he comes home he has to write all these reports about the patients and he continuously gets Phone calls from the hospital and he has to answer them. I am not saying he never has time for his family but it’s a lot of commitment to become a doctor. I could not agree more with you

  • @adeyinkakauthar2909
    @adeyinkakauthar29096 жыл бұрын

    Here in Nigeria, some people even ask you "so, you will become a doctor after your degree?" And you have to start explaining how nursing is different from medicine. How they are two parallel lines. How our job descriptions are different. Then after you get over that, they ask you "so,why not go for medicine instead of nursing?" And thats where you start rolling your eyes and re-explain the whole process. Then they pray for you and say "God will promote you to be a doctor very soon" I just die

  • @Everythingvibez

    @Everythingvibez

    5 жыл бұрын

    Adeyinka Adeshina please tell them, the questions are overwhelming

  • @africanmaan

    @africanmaan

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hahahahaha

  • @rissmoua888

    @rissmoua888

    5 жыл бұрын

    This is officialy my favorite comment on the internet.

  • @hadesdite

    @hadesdite

    5 жыл бұрын

    Turn it around and ask them why 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 didn't choose to even set foot in the medical field. Then see what they say lol.

  • @monikacigerova6850

    @monikacigerova6850

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same here in Slovakia, i hate these stupid questions 😑

  • @KateyMaple
    @KateyMaple5 жыл бұрын

    As a medical student, I completely agree with and respect your decision! I prioritize my career first before a family because I want to create an environment that is financially stable for my kids, as well as develop my career and practice to the point where I'm not working all hours of the day. We need nurses just as much as we need doctors, so thank you for caring for other human beings. It's an honorable role in and of itself.

  • @courtneyannvd
    @courtneyannvd5 жыл бұрын

    I wanted to become a psychiatrist so badly but i knew I couldn't put myself through med school..So right now I'm majoring in nursing and I plan to become a psychiatric nurse practioner...literally the best of both worlds! & I hate when people ask me why I dont want to be a doctor..I know my limits and I know what i want. I feel like the nursing route is whats best for me and my goals.

  • @mariangely9546
    @mariangely95466 жыл бұрын

    Girl. We go through a lot of science classes (bio, chem, A&P, microbiology...) in college too. It’s literally a degree in science. It’s just not at the same capacity as doctors or people pursuing med school, obviously because we aren’t preparing to practice medicine. We learn the foundational science plus all the psychosocial “caring” stuff nurses are known and praised for. Many people think nurses are “just” nurses and that we “aren’t smart enough” to become doctors & that is not it. Personally there’s no way in hell I’d be cool with the doctor lifestyle of taking home my work, like you said. Work is work, it’s not my life 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @cutepanda6807

    @cutepanda6807

    6 жыл бұрын

    Doctors take home their work?

  • @mariangely9546

    @mariangely9546

    6 жыл бұрын

    Cute Panda yes many doctors work from home remotely, being on call, taking calls from nurses and other hospital personnel. I’m sure they are able to check up on their patients from home. Some less than others. But hospitalists and internists stay busy, I’m sure, because they oversee so many patients and they’re ultimately the decision makers, they’re responsible for putting in orders. As a nurse I only take care of these patients for the duration of my shift. Once I’m home the patient is no longer my responsibility.

  • @Beek009

    @Beek009

    6 жыл бұрын

    Most doctors have to finish charting at home, which takes HOURS. And then like she mentioned they are on call. its like your never off the clock.

  • @mariangely9546

    @mariangely9546

    6 жыл бұрын

    BKFutureNP yeah. Calls at home? No thank you 😅😅

  • @AB-qb4eh

    @AB-qb4eh

    6 жыл бұрын

    doctors with their own practice definitely take their work home

  • @AmandaLynnx
    @AmandaLynnx6 жыл бұрын

    Yessss!!! When I first started college I wanted to become a doctor but after sitting down and realizing how little they really interact with their patients and that’s one of the things I look forward to most about being a nurse. Having a family is also very important to me which is a lot more difficult to do while being a doctor. Another thing is that there are so many different routes that nurses can go and they can change their specialties whenever, doctors can’t.

  • @necessitybanger

    @necessitybanger

    6 жыл бұрын

    Amanda Lynn yesssss relatable

  • @AneishaH

    @AneishaH

    6 жыл бұрын

    Amanda Lynn yesss

  • @shesmiles27

    @shesmiles27

    6 жыл бұрын

    Me too!!

  • @amberleighevers

    @amberleighevers

    6 жыл бұрын

    Yeah. I’m a honors premed biomedical student and everything is narrowed down to what you are matched. Whereas the human cadavers, you have to be comfortable with it. However, the downside is being on call and knowing what orders/tests go into a patient. You can literally be on “vacation” and have to be back in a hospital settings when they need you. Doctors aren’t very one to one with patients, rather than being there for symptoms and discharge, but they put in the orders and deal more with paper work. Another downside is the number of math courses you have to take. It’s overwhelming because you have to balance out school, your personal life (e.i. kids, family, friends, bills), volunteer services (community, organizations, clinical), and school to get a “good enough” resume for medical school interviews. Not to mention is the massive student loan debt that accumulated interest.

  • @senpai927

    @senpai927

    5 жыл бұрын

    Psychiatrist interact with their patients often though, so your point is invalid.

  • @fernando.estrella
    @fernando.estrella6 жыл бұрын

    Great video! In high school I decided that I wanted to become a doctor. I shadowed a pathologist and was sure that was what I wanted to do. Then I go off to college as a Biology major. It turns out that I loved some aspects of biology and hated the other. I hated chemistry and could not grasp the major concepts which I knew would have doomed me in Organic Chemistry which is a course all Med Schools require. I started shadowing and volunteering at a hospital in my college town and I slowly realized that I loved what nurses do. So here I am now waiting for my 2nd year of college to start as a pre nursing major. Hopefully I get in to nursing school. Keep up the great content!

  • @darkoshmarko

    @darkoshmarko

    6 жыл бұрын

    fernando estrella, honestly organic chemist was completely different from inorganic chemistry. I truly did not feel like I needed any of my gen chem knowledge to be successful in organic. But glad you found nursing to be the right fit for you!

  • @yemialemu9902

    @yemialemu9902

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me too! OMG! I found somebody here that's just like me. I hate Chemistry and that's the major reason why I'm into nursing. After taking some chemistry class I was like there is no way in hell I would be able to survive organic chemistry. I HATE CHEMISTRY! Lol good luck to both of us in our journey.

  • @vanessaortiz9006

    @vanessaortiz9006

    2 жыл бұрын

    hey girl, Is it easy to switch majors like you did in college or what is the process of switching majors?

  • @fry6344
    @fry63446 жыл бұрын

    For us guys, that question is asked 10x more, here's what I say to people: Life is like a Box of chocolates. There's so many different choices. I just chose one that suited all my needs. And I like it, it was a super tasty choice 😁

  • @anthonymarquez6493

    @anthonymarquez6493

    6 жыл бұрын

    I hate when I get asked that.

  • @fry6344

    @fry6344

    6 жыл бұрын

    Anthony Marquez You're a Male nurse too huh? It's all good bro, just being honest with it will never hurt you. Because most likely, 90% of the general public will either want to ask you about it or think in their head about it and wonder. We're curious creatures bro lol

  • @fry6344

    @fry6344

    6 жыл бұрын

    Anthony Marquez My dad used to be a Surgeon and my mom was a Nurse. My dad was always working, he rarely had any time to relax, he was extremely depressed about life. He was so depressed he got his own apartment to be alone from me and my mom. He was never happy because at work he would work, then at home he would review all his patient files and prepare for next days surgeries and consults and EVERYTHING. Having a second hand experience from both sides of the coin, I can honestly tell you man, I never want to be a doctor. So for me it's very simple, I just don't ever want to be a doctor, I've seen what it did to my father & that's not the life I want. Honestly bro, we chose the best profession we could have chosen. Hold your head up high and say PROUDLY "I am a Male nurse. Ask me why I became a nurse, I will tell you why bahahaha" 🤘😁🤘

  • @anthonymarquez6493

    @anthonymarquez6493

    6 жыл бұрын

    I am a male nursing student and I constantly get asked about why i am not studying medicine or did I flunk out of med school or something along those lines.

  • @fry6344

    @fry6344

    6 жыл бұрын

    Anthony Marquez Ya just be honest about it fam. As soon as you accept the fact that you're a guy in a female dominated profession, that question will NEVER bother you again. My friends to this day are fucking around and calling a gay dude for being a nurse, and telling me how much they hate me for ruining their "Nurse fantasies" lol. It's all good bro, at the end of the day, it was your choice. You chose it, you're gonna be awesome, you'll do great things, and you'll be one amazing nurse.

  • @josephsammartano1156
    @josephsammartano11563 жыл бұрын

    Hi! I’m almost done with my bachelor’s in psychology and I’ve really been starting to consider nursing as a career, and applying to an accelerated BSN program. I’ve been watching your videos and it’s been confirming a lot of my thoughts and feelings. Especially when you brought up the fact that your priority is going to be having a family so the strict shift schedule is important, that is exactly how I’ve been looking at my life. I just wanted to say thank you for all you’re doing, as a nurse and as a KZreadr!

  • @miyaamo414
    @miyaamo4146 жыл бұрын

    I wanna be a nurse, but I have a long way to go, I’m only 11. :/

  • @SheeneArca

    @SheeneArca

    6 жыл бұрын

    Wow you're ahead of the game by watching nursing videos. Enjoy your present moment because before you know it you'll be applying for college.

  • @s.a.8548

    @s.a.8548

    5 жыл бұрын

    The earlier the better I say lol

  • @niapawina

    @niapawina

    4 жыл бұрын

    You'll get there!!

  • @laurenoliver7983

    @laurenoliver7983

    3 жыл бұрын

    Time goes really qk. Youll get there ❤️

  • @teatime9649

    @teatime9649

    3 жыл бұрын

    You got this honey! It's awesome you have a dream especially at such a young age! Look up lots of videos about anatomy and chemistry is my tip for you. It might seem like gibberish now, but you will be glad you did it in the long run! God bless you❤️❤️❤️

  • @juliettexo5013
    @juliettexo50136 жыл бұрын

    I never really knew it was extremely rude to ask a nurse this question. I just graduated high school so I usually asked “how did you decide nursing was the one rather than being a doctor?” because I’m not entirely sure which path I want to pursue. I appreciate you for enlightening me to this, because I’d hate to be coming off as rude without even knowing it.

  • @adaezenjoku7527

    @adaezenjoku7527

    4 жыл бұрын

    I think people are more so annoyed when people ask why did you become a nurse over a doctor in a way that makes it seem like being a nurse is inferior to being a doctor. Or when then ask it in a way that seems like you're just "settling" for nursing. Like some people will say "oh you're so smart, why don't you be a doctor instead?" It makes it seem as if nurses can't be smart.

  • @juliettexo5013

    @juliettexo5013

    4 жыл бұрын

    Adaeze Njoku (lol i forgot all about this comment!) I totally understand your viewpoint and I agree. I also feel like people are looking at the wage gap between the two rather than the actual skills and qualifications it takes for both professions.

  • @juliettexo5013

    @juliettexo5013

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Bryan W Medicine. I’m almost in medical school. :)

  • @vanessaortiz9006

    @vanessaortiz9006

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@juliettexo5013 ahhh girl so happy for you, I'm sure you'll do great. What specialty are you going for?

  • @handixo2751
    @handixo27516 жыл бұрын

    You are glowing!😍You have inspired me to become a nurse and take it seriously. I pray to God that I stick to this route!

  • @lovelylexis12
    @lovelylexis126 жыл бұрын

    Exactly! I hate when people tell me that I should be a doctor.

  • @suereepmeyer6819

    @suereepmeyer6819

    3 жыл бұрын

    Don’t worry you never will be

  • @Mia-sp5wh

    @Mia-sp5wh

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@suereepmeyer6819 there is no problem with that

  • @OmarAbdulMalikDHEdMPASPACPAPro
    @OmarAbdulMalikDHEdMPASPACPAPro5 жыл бұрын

    Peace be to you! I'm a new subscriber! I was in Nursing school about 25 years ago whilst working as a CNA! The Lord had different plans for me! I'm glad you mentioned asking "why didn't you become a doctor" question😬! I think you stated really good reasons for being a Nurse! I don't think the general public understand the FULL range of things that Nurses can do (e.g. education, research, administration, business, etc.). It really is a dynamic profession! My mother is a retired Nurse (worked for 43 years!). She practiced such a wide range of specialties (e.g. NICU, Geriatrics, Hospice, etc.)! I work with groups of OUTSTANDING Nurses and NPs. What do you think about Master's degree in NP being phased out in lieu of Doctorates (DNP)? I wish you the VERY best of succes in your positive endeavors!🤓

  • @sexxiehighblue07
    @sexxiehighblue076 жыл бұрын

    Man, it’s beautiful to see how passionate you are about nursing. My sister is a nurse, and she also works in the ER...nursing just seems to be so overwhelming. Everyday you have people’s lives in the palm of your hand. Jeesh. It’s not like owning a landscaping business (where if you cut the grass too low it grows back in a week or two, because Lives don’t grow back) I have sooooo much respect for you guys!!!

  • @annasinclair9290
    @annasinclair92906 жыл бұрын

    So funny that you say your primary goal in life is to have a family. I just passed my NCLEX (yay!) And am working as a new nurse and I am so excited about where this career can take me.. but my number one goal in life is to be a good mom! I'm working hard to build a solid financial foundation so I can have kids and show them what it's like to work hard and be successful!

  • @TheNurseNook

    @TheNurseNook

    6 жыл бұрын

    Anna Handy mom life 😂😂😂

  • @harrietjones1409
    @harrietjones14096 жыл бұрын

    I’m planning on becoming a doctor, but there is something that is so lovely about nurses. I would be very proud to call myself a nurse. They know so much and are so funny and caring!

  • @danirosecouture266
    @danirosecouture2666 жыл бұрын

    I absolutely love this ❤️❤️❤️ and I recently got accepted into nursing school, watching your videos encouraged me to not give up after having to retract my teas test thank u!!! 🤗🤗🤗

  • @alejoviasogie8338
    @alejoviasogie83386 жыл бұрын

    Love it! I def agree with you. Family first then career!

  • @shayhii5409
    @shayhii54096 жыл бұрын

    I loved this video. I’m a current nursing major and I’ve been wanting someone to get real advice and insight from.

  • @SheeneArca
    @SheeneArca6 жыл бұрын

    I love your intro! Your channel is everything 🙌 your videos are going to help me through nursing school. I start this fall. I’m ready to embrace the suck with all the studying.

  • @immaculatasalau1087
    @immaculatasalau10876 жыл бұрын

    Thank you darling your quote on my goal is to have a solid family touched me hugs, some people thinks work is only to just make the money for the family first, before they know it there kids are already grown up

  • @yabagabagool
    @yabagabagool6 жыл бұрын

    I’m currently a communications major but want to return to nursing school. You help calm a lot of my fears and inspire me to pursue my dreams. Thank you ❣️

  • @ulakalicinska3223
    @ulakalicinska32236 жыл бұрын

    Your videos have helped me so much and I’ve been here since 20k and can’t wait until you reach 100k ahhh I’m so excited for you 😭❤️

  • @TheNurseNook

    @TheNurseNook

    6 жыл бұрын

    Ula Kalicinska Yass Nurse fam 4life ♥️

  • @abbeylakeman7865
    @abbeylakeman78656 жыл бұрын

    I’ve been struggling with becoming a nurse or doctor and this video was extremely helpful. My main girl is being able to be hands on sure patients and physically be with them a lot

  • @kezd4419
    @kezd44196 жыл бұрын

    SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE AT THE BACK! i'm in nursing school right now and i can't believe how many people have asked me "why i didn't go all the way?" already. So many people underestimate what nurses do but the psychosocial aspect is just as important as the more biomedical stuff that doctors do.

  • @virtutepuella7766

    @virtutepuella7766

    6 жыл бұрын

    exactly😥😥

  • @SarahNicholls
    @SarahNicholls4 жыл бұрын

    Great video! I’m always so surprised how many people think that becoming a nurse is the first step to becoming a doctor. They are COMPLETELY different and both very valuable careers. Thank you for all your hard work in nursing! 🙏🏻

  • @britneyhay8543
    @britneyhay85436 жыл бұрын

    You are honestly so inspirational to me!! Like I have 2 more years of high school and I am so excited to become a nurse just because of you. Thanks sis!!!

  • @darkoshmarko
    @darkoshmarko6 жыл бұрын

    In my A&P class on my nursing track we got to work with human cadavers and it was a great experience. Disgusting at the time but glad I did it.

  • @BucckeyTemple
    @BucckeyTemple6 жыл бұрын

    I wish my grandpa would see that being a doctor is not for me. And it’s normal for people to WANT to be a doctor. He always says your smarter enough to be a doctor, as if being a nurse is for dumb people. Plus he always goes, but doctors make so much more money. I’m not going in healthcare for the money! Ugh lol PREACH

  • @medschoolvlogs6050
    @medschoolvlogs60506 жыл бұрын

    Everything you've stated was so true. They were all things that I've considered myself when deciding on which type of healthcare career I wanted to pursue. Everyone has different preferences and goals in life. We all couldn't live without nurses either!

  • @zaesuperfly7420
    @zaesuperfly74203 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely love your channel!! As an aspiring nurse at 16, though I am young, I have decided to pursue nursing rather than anything on a doctoral level. My main goal in life is to grow a family of my own and that is my first priority. Work and such come after the nurturing of my child(ren) and the support they need.

  • @App.pple.0
    @App.pple.06 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this video! I feel like a lot of people neglect the whole work-life balance when judging others career choices..but it is so important! I'm going to school to become and optometrist and I just keep getting asked by people why not be another type of doctor that makes more..but being able to spend time with my future family and being there to raise them is priority #1 for me.

  • @albusaidianna
    @albusaidianna6 жыл бұрын

    I had the EXACT same reasoning!! I initially wanted to become a pediatrician as well and I am now going into my senior year of nursing school to become a pediatric nurse! Love love love everything u said, literally took the words right out of my mouth 😄 I also get asked that question all the time about why i didn’t wanna go further and become an MD and I couldn’t agree with you more about how different Nursing is and all of its amazing perks that u mentioned. Thank u for being awesome! 🙌

  • @livinglikeana

    @livinglikeana

    6 жыл бұрын

    Anna Zim I also want to become a pediatric nurse, I am currently a senior in high school. How long have you been in school? Have you only been in nursing school for those 4 years?

  • @albusaidianna

    @albusaidianna

    6 жыл бұрын

    ana guzman yes it’s four years of undergrad for a bachelors degree in Nursing :)

  • @tereamarie9483
    @tereamarie94836 жыл бұрын

    Loved your reasons! I'm currently having this battle of going to nursing school or medical school & this helped💕

  • @Roro7477able

    @Roro7477able

    6 жыл бұрын

    Terea Marie me too 👏🏾👏🏾

  • @northtxhomes.

    @northtxhomes.

    5 жыл бұрын

    Here's a comment I put. Hope it can help: Just to speak for the "doctors don't interact with their patients a ton" remark, my mom (a GP) and a good friend (plastic surgeon) are doctors and they interact with their patients a lot. Even outside of my clinic, my mom does a lot of community events and provides homework help and workshops/events for the kids. My surgeon friend gets a lot of gifts from her patients, too. My mom also never takes work home. I haven't seen her do that in over a year, and even then she chooses to bring it home so she has less work tomorrow. I know there're lots of doctors who don't interact so much, but as someone in med school, I wanted to push that idea. For example, Natalie Crawford, MD is an infertility physician, mom and is soo involved in her patients lives. Dr. Rupa Wong, an ophthalmologist in Honolulu-the same. She owns her own practice, too and spends a good amount of time with her kids. The psychosocial aspect, I loved that you spoke about that. It's so true in many ways, though I feel I know doctors who implement that as well and if they don't, they feel they've failed as doctors. I love nurses, have nurse friends and seriously give my heart to the ones who helped me when I was in Canada

  • @LadyMilkyMoo
    @LadyMilkyMoo5 жыл бұрын

    I completely agree with you! RN here and this is indeed a very knowledgeable perspective to stand on. Thank you for sharing the love to nurses across the globe 🌍

  • @laurafazio3001
    @laurafazio30013 жыл бұрын

    Great video, this helped me decide that I want to go into the nursing program next year (since I wasn’t sure). I love the idea of making a difference in people’s lives💗

  • @AlexisStarjai
    @AlexisStarjai6 жыл бұрын

    I’ll be starting my nursing journey this fall but will be applying to medical school once I have my BSN. Obgyn doctor is the goal.

  • @SheeneArca

    @SheeneArca

    6 жыл бұрын

    OMG that is awesome. I start my nursing journey this fall too! I'm nervous and excited at the same time.

  • @user-lz3kr5pc7x

    @user-lz3kr5pc7x

    5 жыл бұрын

    Alexis Jack Why not just get a degree in something that isn't as risky and apply to med school? Just asking on why you took this path? Are you worried about getting in?

  • @noface3928

    @noface3928

    5 жыл бұрын

    Why not pursue a different undergraduate degree? I wouldn’t go through all of nursing school just to end up in med school. Nursing school is VERY rigorous and time consuming and burnout is high.

  • @BratayleyMusically-fk1kg

    @BratayleyMusically-fk1kg

    3 жыл бұрын

    How’s it going?

  • @skmonie

    @skmonie

    3 жыл бұрын

    YESSSSSS I’m currently doing the same

  • @dowheniqueclunis9100
    @dowheniqueclunis91006 жыл бұрын

    IVE BEEN WAITINGGGGGGG‼️😭🙌🏽❤️❤️I LOVE YOUUUUUU❤️❤️❤️

  • @2a_romkertbeal.820
    @2a_romkertbeal.8206 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for clearing up my confusion. I was torn between proceeding to medicine after medtech as my premed or studying nursing all the way but my dream has always been to make a happy cohesive family. I was afraid being a doctor would take too much of my time at home but i still really admired the profession. Now that you mentioned about your primary goal is to be a mother and have a solid family, my priorities are now set and im reminded of my dream. Thank you

  • @keepingitrealnaturalist5472
    @keepingitrealnaturalist54726 жыл бұрын

    Girl, I cringe at that question. I feel like it makes my profession sound like less than. I'm like its a completely different thing and I don't want to be a doctor. I feel like nurses contribute more to the quality of life for patients and like we're the ones who help will patients back to health. We each of our place, so those who want to be doctors go on ahead. I'mma stay right here with my nursing.

  • @ChefNurseGuy
    @ChefNurseGuy5 жыл бұрын

    I rarely comment on videos, but your sentiments are literally word for word my own LOL. Thank you for posting this; it's good to hear that I'm not alone in that way of thinking (family over work=100% of the time).

  • @vinnd
    @vinnd6 жыл бұрын

    Hi!! I really love your nursing videos and they are so helpful for me since I'm a pre-nursing student. I LOVE AND RELATE to this video LOL. I have two older uncles that are doctors and I constantly get compared to them and looked down on because I want to be a nurse. I concur about loving the nursing model more than the medical model. Nursing is such an amazing profession and I like that patient care and interaction, and really want to get to know my patients and getting to see how much you can impact a patient is so rewarding based on what ive seen volunteering in the ER. I know youre probably not going to read this but you motivate me to become a nurse with every video. Im applying to UNF and UCF nursing in a few months for Fall 2019, so figures crossed! You go Alexis, continue to be a kick-ass ER nurse!

  • @vinnd

    @vinnd

    6 жыл бұрын

    PS Now I know what to tell people who ask "why don't you want to be a doctor instead?" LOL

  • @madeleine0804
    @madeleine08046 жыл бұрын

    Thank god i found your channel😍 ive been so confused on which path to choose for some time, but ive been leaning towards nursing aswell❤️

  • @luisjauregui7963
    @luisjauregui79636 жыл бұрын

    💕💕Congrats on 100K💕💕

  • @thesteph7352
    @thesteph73526 жыл бұрын

    I don't normally comment on KZread videos, but you are without a doubt my favorite person on KZread EVER. I am starting nursing school this Fall, and every time I watch one of your videos I am reassured that I can do this and it is the right career path for me. Thank you thank you THANK YOU! please keep making videos! I will forever be a subscriber. You are an inspiration to me!

  • @TheNurseNook

    @TheNurseNook

    6 жыл бұрын

    the steph awww thank you this is so sweet ♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @mariamaria720
    @mariamaria7203 жыл бұрын

    Your videos are great!! I just found your channel and it has quickly become one of my faves. I am in my early 30s and have worked in event production for most of my career. I have just recently decided to switch careers and become a nurse. It is definitely an intimidating switch, especially at this point in my life, but I know it is what I want to do and am passionate about. Your videos have REALLY helped me with my decision and giving me the resources to start my new journey. Thank you and keep up the good work!!!!!♥️✨. You’re amazing

  • @GiftyB
    @GiftyB6 жыл бұрын

    Girl, thank you so much for this video. I learned so much because I am still in high school and still trying to figure out what field I want to work in before I get to college. Since I've been thinking about mainly the medical field, I'm trying to determine if I want to be a nurse practitioner or a doctor, so you've helped me out a lot.

  • @rickias96
    @rickias966 жыл бұрын

    I completely agree with your view. I'm also a nursing student and hearing this question is aggravating. I just use it as an opportunity to educate on the differences.

  • @naomihayyim9831
    @naomihayyim98316 жыл бұрын

    ahhh i love my boo❤️ i’ve been subscribed since forever and i can’t believe how far you’ve gotten! i’m only 13 and i’m so exited to become a nurse! i’m volunteering at a hospital this summer to see what it’s like :))

  • @JoseGarcia-se1nx

    @JoseGarcia-se1nx

    6 жыл бұрын

    Naomi 777 how did you get this opportunity? I want to be a nurse too and I’m going to be working at the hospital starting the beginning of July, I think I’m going to be in the ER and I’m so excited!

  • @naomihayyim9831

    @naomihayyim9831

    6 жыл бұрын

    Jose Garcia there’s a hospital volunteering program that i signed up for.

  • @user-lz3kr5pc7x
    @user-lz3kr5pc7x5 жыл бұрын

    I always try to remind myself that I can choose the kind of MD I want to be. Meaning I can be right their at bedside if I like, I can be as interactive or as distant as I choose based upon care given. I like that aspect of it. ❤️

  • @temioluwaremilekun9893
    @temioluwaremilekun98936 жыл бұрын

    I relate to this so much, I'm a freshman in college and I want to change to become a nurse practitioner, obgyn was my dream but I'd do something in the nursing field related to that. I freaking live your Chanel and relate to so many things especially the family aspect and not working 24/7, thanks so much

  • @candacemichelle8345
    @candacemichelle83455 жыл бұрын

    My sister is in medical school but I want to pursue nursing. It has nothing to do with me thinking I’m not “smart” enough yes her & I have different strengths but I just want my life to get started and also I want to spend time with patients (hopefully kids) & mentor them & care & be a support bc I feel like that’s really important. Thankfully my parents are super supportive of the both of us! (I’m still in high school) my brother is a pastor! So we all went/are going different paths but I’m so thankful for my parents bc they understand & they love us for who we are & what we want to be!

  • @siennaa1430
    @siennaa14305 жыл бұрын

    We are verysimilar with our views and goals. I didn’t even know this was a path! Thank you so much!! 💗💗

  • @TheOfficialKimm
    @TheOfficialKimm6 жыл бұрын

    I’m currently in highschool & doing LPN at the same time & its a lot but your videos encourage me to keep going !!!

  • @LolaSemone

    @LolaSemone

    6 жыл бұрын

    How are you doing both?

  • @calebmorgan6638

    @calebmorgan6638

    6 жыл бұрын

    Lola A Whole new playing field for us. Highschoolers get endorsements/pathways to follow in HS. So I picked Health Science Endorsement, and then specifically picked Sports Medicine to become an Athletic Trainer. Im a student trainer and its my goal now in life.

  • @calebmorgan6638

    @calebmorgan6638

    6 жыл бұрын

    Lola A If you have any questions I have the link too, with all the specifics for my HS course guide

  • @TheOfficialKimm

    @TheOfficialKimm

    6 жыл бұрын

    Lola A I’m a highschool student and my highschool is a technical highschool so it’s a highschool and college and in your sophomore year you choose which program you want to go into and your junior year you start working in it I make videos about it if you want to watch !!!

  • @adaeze4873

    @adaeze4873

    5 жыл бұрын

    Kimberly Louis I’m doing the same thing! Would that by any chance be excel tecc?

  • @lilymela2674
    @lilymela26746 жыл бұрын

    I'm only in 8th grade but I've wanted to be an ER nurse since kindergarten.

  • @eurifo
    @eurifo6 жыл бұрын

    I agree with you, I'm currently weighing between nursing and being a doctor

  • @kaylaelaine710
    @kaylaelaine7106 жыл бұрын

    This is funny to me because the reason why I’m choosing to become a doctor instead of a nurse is I’m terrible at people skills and small talk, And that’s like half of the job for nurses 💁🏽‍♀️

  • @agodbole540

    @agodbole540

    6 жыл бұрын

    Kayla Elaine you’re honestly probably too dumb

  • @s.a.8548

    @s.a.8548

    5 жыл бұрын

    +A Godbole Rude.

  • @s.a.8548

    @s.a.8548

    5 жыл бұрын

    Kayla different people are good at different things lol

  • @destinynj2013

    @destinynj2013

    5 жыл бұрын

    YES!! I think that’s one of the major differences honestly. Not all nurses are too dumb to be doctors and not all doctors are perceptive enough to be a nurse. I think it’s a difference in learning styles/personalities.

  • @DX-d

    @DX-d

    5 жыл бұрын

    But that's essential for being a doctor! A doctor is not a computer, you'll learn more about the importance of communication since you haven't already.

  • @BlueBabyAkaAj
    @BlueBabyAkaAj6 жыл бұрын

    I'm going for my MD-PhD. I work as a MA during my gap year before med school. I also worked as a scribe in the hospital. I respect all nurses. So compassionate and patient even when the Dr is frustrated. Very helpful. Calming. You do alot. Amazing. Stronger relationships with patients.

  • @shia_a319
    @shia_a3194 жыл бұрын

    I'm torn between being a nurse or a doctor..When I was a fourteen I'm certain I wanted to be a pediatrician. I've planned my goals and possible pathways so I did a lot of research and preparation for this dream but then as time goes by and here comes realizations in life. Well let's just say perspective changes and then now I'm an in coming senior high student. I don't see myself taking other courses besides STEM though I got other dream jobs in mind I don't see them as options in the mean time for some reason. I honestly wanted to do a lot of things in my 20s and in my opinion I think I can hardly do a lot of things if I choose medicine. I respect all the doctors out there for me I see them as heroes and nurses too hehe God bless you guys especially these days. I usually don't comment too long but hey this matters to me so much and yeah. Thank you for this vid:) I think I know where am going.

  • @masielove2938

    @masielove2938

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the comment ❤

  • @nnataliered
    @nnataliered6 жыл бұрын

    I love that natural sunlight gurl!

  • @designera19
    @designera195 жыл бұрын

    I LOVE that your number one goal is to be a mother and have a family! Any time I say that, I get judged so thank you for that !

  • @sophiebeaty8695
    @sophiebeaty86956 жыл бұрын

    thank you so much for posting this!! I’ve been looking for so long for a video like this!! subscribed ;) x

  • @danas3148
    @danas31486 жыл бұрын

    Hey from Bama! Excellent video and I too share your take on this topic. I am in nursing school with NP dreams as well... But RN first next year. Thanks for continuing to inspire!💚

  • @DazshaKabree
    @DazshaKabree6 жыл бұрын

    Ima need you to start putting these cute little tops you wear that be peaking through on your videos in the description 😂💗

  • @rkatherinew
    @rkatherinew5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing! I believe family comes before career and that can be hard for people (mainly family) to understand

  • @digitalhomegirl
    @digitalhomegirl5 жыл бұрын

    New subscriber ❤ just saw a few vids back to back haha. You're such an inspiration! Literally keeping me motivated to work harder in nursing school

  • @jojorubiox3
    @jojorubiox36 жыл бұрын

    Love you Lexi! You give great advice ❤️❤️ I follow you everywhere 😘

  • @jojorubiox3

    @jojorubiox3

    6 жыл бұрын

    Like social media lmao

  • @elaminmochichi7767
    @elaminmochichi77675 жыл бұрын

    Agree with you, I'm a Doctor and we have worst social life, I take my work home all the time and I barely ever get to spend any time with my family. I have a lot of respect for Nurses, I admire their handwork, dedication and compassion towards the care of patients.

  • @tristenreed1701
    @tristenreed17015 жыл бұрын

    This is a debate I'm having now (nurse or doctor) so thank you so much for posting this it helps so much ❤

  • @perpendicularbisectors3276

    @perpendicularbisectors3276

    3 жыл бұрын

    Can’t compare the two?? Doctors are more trained and qualified!! Nurses are very essential too!

  • @HRU-ou3vi
    @HRU-ou3vi6 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the video! It was true that going the Medical route took longer but I really think that is changing for the Nursing Profession. Now to become an Advanced Practice Nurse it requires a BSN, RN (4years of school), at least one-year of bedside training in that given specialty, and a DNP or Ph.d. (3-4 years of school) with board certification exams to practice. The average total is from 8-10 years of schooling and training or just as long as the Medical route! I think this is better for the Nursing Profession because it is requiring a higher level of educational attainment. You will be great!!!!

  • @wifeyjany3340
    @wifeyjany33405 жыл бұрын

    Loved this video so much ! it really helped me decide if I wanted to be a nurse or doctor

  • @habim9491
    @habim94915 жыл бұрын

    yes girl! so tired of people underestimating nursing. it’s so annoying! my own college and career advisor in high school told me I was selling myself short because I said I wanted to be a pediatric nurse instead of a pediatrician. It took me forever to get over that. Girl, I wanted to be a pediatrician too!

  • @ajones21606
    @ajones216066 жыл бұрын

    I love how you got right to the point

  • @gisellegomez1360
    @gisellegomez13606 жыл бұрын

    Chantel Jeffries and Catherine in one is you so pretty

  • @mayabudhram8742
    @mayabudhram87425 жыл бұрын

    unrelated but you’re so freaking pretty oh my godness. Anyways! I’m going into a really good nursing program next year when I start college and I’m so excited! I can’t wait to start this journey :D

  • @4theloveofjill
    @4theloveofjill6 жыл бұрын

    So thankful for you and this channel it’s such a huge helpp💖🤗

  • @carolanneblackford4591
    @carolanneblackford45914 жыл бұрын

    For sure. My foster dad was a doctor with his own practice in a speciality. He will tell you he's still paying off loans.. he gets up at 5am and gets home at 7pm. He takes calls off of work as well. He has to keep up with studies once he gets home too. It's a lot!

  • @deanjoshua1948
    @deanjoshua19483 жыл бұрын

    Literally everything that you just said is on fleek. Just the perfect words for my situation. Thanks

  • @Emma_Rymzz_
    @Emma_Rymzz_2 жыл бұрын

    for me Being a nurse is like a blessing.... I’m not yet but i loved nurses so much....💕💜

  • @wshelby83
    @wshelby836 жыл бұрын

    I also wanted to become a paediatrician when I was younger but at age 11/12 I knew it wasn't for me because I knew it would be too much work and too many years in school. I went for nursing instead because I still wanted to care for sick people. For the summer I'm taking biochemistry which is somewhat like organic chemistry and I'm SO glad I didn't decide to become a doctor. That information is another language lol.

  • @Rainbow-qg5nl
    @Rainbow-qg5nl6 жыл бұрын

    Your such an inspiration to me im trying to decide rather to be a crna or anesthesiologist and im quite an introvert so im not really a big social person so i think i would actually prefer being a doctor even though i still have to interact with them i love caring for people but i would rather do the unnoticed work and just feel good that i helped the patient but nurses are definitely a necessity in the process of caring for a patient i hate when people put them down as if they dont matter its just plain disrespect because yall save lives too

  • @keleshah1
    @keleshah16 жыл бұрын

    You sound just like me. I recently switched my career choice to nursing from wanting to be a doctor

  • @teatime9649
    @teatime96493 жыл бұрын

    I am really grateful for this video. I have been torturing myself wondering if becoming an RN was the path for me. I love children and really like making people happy and smile. I have been told so many negatives that I almost wanted to give up. But hearing this information from someone who also loves kids and wants to have a family solidified my decision.

  • @niapawina
    @niapawina4 жыл бұрын

    Such an important...EXTREMELY important video. Thank you so much!💛

  • @Bryan-bx7dj
    @Bryan-bx7dj6 жыл бұрын

    Right when she said she isn’t the brightest, the sun came back lmao 😊keep up the good work !!

  • @JJEWEL-wh9dw
    @JJEWEL-wh9dw6 жыл бұрын

    As a nursing student I feel the exact same way! I loved this video.

  • @melopsicodelia
    @melopsicodelia5 жыл бұрын

    We dissect cadavers in nursing school, so it really depends on the University.

  • @pamelagraceatendido4369
    @pamelagraceatendido4369 Жыл бұрын

    My very first dream profession was to be a Nurse. I always look up and had a huge respect for them since I was inspired by a Nursing student neighbor and my aunt. More than a decade later, I am on the road to be a medical doctor.

  • @iDREAMnPURPLE
    @iDREAMnPURPLE5 жыл бұрын

    When I start my VLOG I am going to touch on this as well. You are so my spirit Nurse I went through all these same things!

  • @saada7970
    @saada79705 жыл бұрын

    Rahh😭😍she’s the prettiest nurse I have ever seen

  • @beccafaks
    @beccafaks6 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so muuch for this video this video has helped me to really decide on why I should be a nurse instead of a doctor becuase I want a outside life outside of working not just be in school my entire life, I want to have a family, travel and at the same time enjoy what I love doing.

  • @joseph82848
    @joseph828486 жыл бұрын

    When you said that your primary goal in life is to have a solid family and be a mother. God bless you! That is your creation role and God is fully pleased with you😊

  • @Iycee303
    @Iycee3036 жыл бұрын

    My literal life currently! Great vid! Randomly, what kind of camera are you using to film??