Why Fighters Date Hot Girls

I'm a lover not a fighter... but I'm also a fighter, so don't get any ideas ;).
Fighting has been part of being a man since the dawn of time... and while we live in a much safer environment than we have for most of human history, it's still something women respond to, and knowing how to fight has many positive effects on the male pysche.
Find out why this "non-game" skill (and experience) is so useful and important for attracting women.
And if you want to develop a winning mentality for life in general, check out my free course: toddwinnergame.com

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  • @Paul-yk7ds
    @Paul-yk7ds7 ай бұрын

    "After fighting, everything else in your life got the volume turned down. You could deal with anything." - Fight Club

  • @ricardom5699
    @ricardom56997 ай бұрын

    Last month I walk into my jiujitsu gym and see Todd on the mats. I couldn’t believe it lol. My self improvement journey started with pick up then I started training martial arts. I got in shape, became more grounded and grew as a person. Which obviously helps with game. It was awesome seeing you Todd. Kind of a full circle moment.

  • @JaredMaldonado

    @JaredMaldonado

    7 ай бұрын

    Which Gym? I'm over in Clifton NJ at Guma. Blue Belt here!

  • @yasuomain583

    @yasuomain583

    7 ай бұрын

    What belt is todd

  • @flashpeter91

    @flashpeter91

    7 ай бұрын

    that must have been a really cool moment :D

  • @OptimumAdvantedge

    @OptimumAdvantedge

    7 ай бұрын

    What gym?

  • @ricardom5699

    @ricardom5699

    7 ай бұрын

    Gracie University Las vegas

  • @Deuteronomy31.6
    @Deuteronomy31.67 ай бұрын

    “It’s better to be a warrior in a garden, than a gardener in a war”

  • @cmja09

    @cmja09

    6 ай бұрын

    vinland saga

  • @TheFreeMannn
    @TheFreeMannn7 ай бұрын

    All it took was a year of training Muay Thai & my confidence increase dramatically. When you get hit hard & survive …you lose that fear of getting into confrontations. You don’t seek trouble but you know that you can protect yourself.

  • @ty-le5lv
    @ty-le5lv7 ай бұрын

    As a wrestler and former security at the bars, knowing how to fight doesn't exclude your chances of getting killed in a street fight. Unless you have a gun, evade.

  • @MoparPentastar

    @MoparPentastar

    7 ай бұрын

    Even if you have a gun, that doesn't stop them from killing you before you can use it, and even if you do, there's a good chance you will bankrupt yourself with attorney fees defending yourself in court.

  • @MetallicReg

    @MetallicReg

    7 ай бұрын

    Yep. The first thing a good martial arts teacher will teach you is when to run as fast as you can whenever you can. Especially when you see a knife or several possible enemies. Fighting is a thing of last resort. Being able to fight also should prevent many forms of fights.

  • @jackmetcalfe8542

    @jackmetcalfe8542

    7 ай бұрын

    As a former British Commando I can confirm that knowing hand to hand combat is useless against an armed opponent But girls do like guys who know how to do it

  • @samrandall7595

    @samrandall7595

    7 ай бұрын

    Thanks for stating the obvious. That wasn’t the point of this video.

  • @jfkst1

    @jfkst1

    7 ай бұрын

    Correct. I'm a combat vet too disabled to be doing hand to hand combatives any more. But, I can still conceal carry and shoot well.

  • @TonTon.2142
    @TonTon.21427 ай бұрын

    Training martial arts is mandatory. Boxing, muay thai, or jiu jitsu. Pick one… or two. But, don’t get into street fights. Always run, if you can. Don’t die, or kill anyone, unless that’s your absolute last resort. Oh, and buy a gun and practice with it at least semi-regularly, depending on the laws in your state or country. Everything in this video was spot-on, though. Confidence, mental fortitude, increased fitness, great outlet for stress, sounds cool to girls, I guess, etc. Lots of good people in these sorts of gyms too. They say you are who you hang around. Men who are driven to be better make you want to push yourself harder too.

  • @MetallicReg

    @MetallicReg

    7 ай бұрын

    Yep. You have higher chances to die in a street fight as a martial artist that has a false sense of security. You are not secure and there are no rules - the enemies are unpredictable and their amount aswell. Pushing an unpredictable enemy higher can result in fatal injury.

  • @daniels.3062
    @daniels.30627 ай бұрын

    As a man gets older, it becomes important to his psyche to still feel dangerous.

  • @robi6317

    @robi6317

    7 ай бұрын

    except that usually you're not, and its still just best to avoid confrontation

  • @ryanchristopher3257
    @ryanchristopher32577 ай бұрын

    “It is not the violence that sets a man apart. It is the distance that he is prepared to go.”

  • @d_sportello
    @d_sportello7 ай бұрын

    Yep, thinking about adding it. You recommending it is another huge prove that I should, thanks Todd

  • @StrunDoNhor
    @StrunDoNhor7 ай бұрын

    This is totally anecdotal on my part, but something just changes in you after taking up a martial art & taking a few hits to the face. Took up boxing in my mid 20's, and it was one of the best decisions I've ever made for both my physical & mental health.

  • @kehbab

    @kehbab

    7 ай бұрын

    No getting hit in the face or hard on the body is a great reality check

  • @sdickinson5234

    @sdickinson5234

    7 ай бұрын

    Something about knowing you have been hit harder in training than some random guy in front of you can possibly hit you is comforting.

  • @kehbab

    @kehbab

    7 ай бұрын

    @@sdickinson5234 no because the dumbest hit could get you killed Its realising how easy is to end up in a bad condition so the other, previously scary, things in life seem so much less of a big deal now

  • @StrunDoNhor

    @StrunDoNhor

    7 ай бұрын

    @@kehbab Kind of. For me, it was just the physical realization of how easy & comfortable my life actually was. Spent my whole life convincing myself I was something bigger & better than I was -- taking up boxing reminded me I wasn't.

  • @Pala4765467141

    @Pala4765467141

    7 ай бұрын

    @@StrunDoNhor also once you start fighting and sparring you get humbled and realize it is much harder than you thought... so you know for a fact someone who's never trained before could hardly do any damage 1v1 against you

  • @orysher1
    @orysher17 ай бұрын

    Todd, first of all, I love you man. You are number 1 in your field as much as I concern. I want to add a small but great benefit I earned from practicing in BJJ. I find that it made me able to cope with little things that dont work (for example , a lock that doesn't open) calmly and smartly instead of using force and then more force

  • @petroverba6054
    @petroverba60547 ай бұрын

    Wow, I was thinking about starting visiting some kind of fighting gym during last month and here is "a sign" :)

  • @gabrielleal1353
    @gabrielleal13536 ай бұрын

    You are always so spot on, brother. I broke up with my ex earlier this year and decided to take on boxing. I’ve been boxing for two months now going on 3 and you’re right. You are very well spoken every fucking time man. I’m saving up for one of your programs. I just know I’ll find so much value in one of them. God bless you, Todd. I’ve known about you since you were with real social dynamics. Still to this day dropping nothing but straight wisdom. Can’t wait to level up!!!!!! 💯

  • @EnbL0187
    @EnbL01877 ай бұрын

    OMG, mechanical engineer and A FIGHTER!! Todd you’re my new hero!!

  • @Rad_Burn
    @Rad_Burn7 ай бұрын

    Great work and video. Thank you Todd. You became a real man.

  • @LedgerLiner
    @LedgerLiner7 ай бұрын

    Bro i just watched your chi bootcamp from 5 years ago. Right now - you look like a different person. Big up!

  • @the.hamel.mammal7802
    @the.hamel.mammal78027 ай бұрын

    I've been doing Judo and JiuJitsu for 11 years, and martial arts for 22 years now. I notice that I possess a calm around combat and conflict that other people simply don't have.

  • @charly40fication
    @charly40fication7 ай бұрын

    I saw this as a big blindspot of the PuA-Industry. The fact you made that video shows how good of a Coach you are 🤝

  • @prashunpcchakraborty70
    @prashunpcchakraborty706 ай бұрын

    Todd you look in great shape compared to earlier in the year videos. Amazing work man.

  • @RafaelGringo
    @RafaelGringo7 ай бұрын

    As much as I agree with almost everything said in this video, in practical terms unless you're a professional MMA fighter, it's generally recommended to avoid an actual fight all together, because 1) people tend to be cowards and will try to outnumber you, wether they're losing or not, 2) fighting doesn't teach you how to dodge bullets, 3) even if you win a fight, sometimes people will try to get back at you (usually unfairly). Been in a few fights when I was younger and it rarely was 1v1. I remember once, I ended up fighting 4 guys and even tho I got my ass kicked I managed to beat one (I got to choose at least one to hurt hehe) and they still felt like going for a retribution. So be mindful. Of course this will help you not to chicken out in every situation and build more confidence, but either way, getting into a fight should be a last resort.

  • @superseiyan

    @superseiyan

    7 ай бұрын

    4) you can catch a legal case. It’s a paradox but the benefits of learning to fight are mostly not actually fighting.

  • @justinb6028

    @justinb6028

    7 ай бұрын

    Yeah he completely forgot about the fact that in the us everyone has a gun lol

  • @ToddVDating
    @ToddVDating7 ай бұрын

    Hope you enjoy the video and it gets you taking positive action. One of the many benefits of fighting is the impact it has on your psychology--developing the mindset of a winner. For more on a winner's mentality, check out my FREE course toddwinnergame.com

  • @jean-christophechevallier5954

    @jean-christophechevallier5954

    7 ай бұрын

    Todd, which fighting sport do you practice ?

  • @streetgame5427

    @streetgame5427

    7 ай бұрын

    You forgot to pin

  • @PeterParkerwon

    @PeterParkerwon

    7 ай бұрын

    @@jean-christophechevallier5954he said a mix of krav maga,boxing and jiu jitsu

  • @scowlistic
    @scowlistic7 ай бұрын

    Todd with another bullseye. 🎯

  • @differentone_p
    @differentone_p7 ай бұрын

    i already wanted to learn that. Muay Thai is my favorite. definitely will learn it then.

  • @ArthurWhitehead
    @ArthurWhitehead7 ай бұрын

    Those flashes about to get someone an epileptic fit

  • @dj_mk_crazy
    @dj_mk_crazy7 ай бұрын

    I practiced training of a very aggressive fighting martial art and these things Todd says in this video are absolutely true. What my 5 cents to this are is that fitness, my body look, that I have bigger muscles, also helped me a lot in avoiding dealing tough situations. You see, when I mastered a little this martial art, my body was very slim and often some guys happened to insult me or at least to ignore me. Especially when I was approaching women and her boyfriend or husband was popping around suddenly, often their behavior was aggressive. Knowing a little bit how to fight gave me confidence but still, I had to deal with these aggressive males. Then I started much more actively to hit the gum and gained some muscles. And surprise! Now boyfriends/husbands are not so aggressive when they see me I have approached their girl. They just take her silently and go away. 😁😁

  • @PeterParkerwon

    @PeterParkerwon

    7 ай бұрын

    The best is a mix of a buff bodybuild,but the muscle memory from martial arts

  • @MarcosVinicius-iv2yn
    @MarcosVinicius-iv2yn7 ай бұрын

    Omg! I never imagined that i would have the honor to see the most chill Guy doing that (1:03) amazing as usual

  • @mezzuna
    @mezzuna7 ай бұрын

    I remember watching you shadow boxing in a very very old RSD video back in the day. I thought it looked pretty crisp. I boxed for 7 years and fought in Irish nationals and have done BJJ the last 5 years. I can confirm many fighters pull in girls they'd ordinarily have no business with

  • @ryancollinsvideo
    @ryancollinsvideo6 ай бұрын

    Ive done 6 years of BJJ and still find walking up to a girl more nerve wracking than fighting a brown belt 😅

  • @8triagrammer
    @8triagrammer7 ай бұрын

    Learning how to fight change my life

  • @adityapatel1704
    @adityapatel17047 ай бұрын

    Great video, been following you since years now... Just one tiny thing, please don't put that transition in videos, it's giving headaches because of the flashing lights.. thanks!

  • @theedit9028
    @theedit9028Ай бұрын

    The most beautiful video that I wanted , because I also believed in this

  • @C4ioPereira20
    @C4ioPereira207 ай бұрын

    TODD WITH ANOTHER BANGER

  • @dylanb2086
    @dylanb20866 ай бұрын

    Dope good recommendation

  • @TheBobberVlog
    @TheBobberVlog6 ай бұрын

    BJJ has improved every aspect of my life! Knowing how to fight does give you an unconscious confidence that people pick up on. You are less likely to get into trouble just because of that. Also, people who have trained don't tend to start fights because they understand just how skilled other people can be.

  • @youwilllaugh3136
    @youwilllaugh31367 ай бұрын

    Todd you hit an important subject, I wanted to know if actual fighters do have approach anxiety or not? Also what do you think a woman's reaction will be when two men physically fight each other, wis it correct to assume they'd select the winner no matter what?

  • @flashpeter91
    @flashpeter917 ай бұрын

    not only men, but also women should learn how to fight. everybody should be able to defend themselves. best option to chose some kind of grappling combat sport like Judo or BJJ and one with kicking and boxing (or ideally where the two of them get combined like Sambo or MMA)

  • @636Knight
    @636Knight7 ай бұрын

    Definitely, I'm 6'3ft/1,93m and 210lbs/95Kgs and although I have a nice physique, kickboxing has been really improving my motor coordination, balance, speed, strength and stamina. I can't help but feel evermore so confident and exhibit poise. Fucking love it!

  • @kriscrystaline9793
    @kriscrystaline97937 ай бұрын

    I want to train martial arts but how do you balance enough energy for gym, game, sex, work, and fight training throughout the week

  • @tobisteffen
    @tobisteffen7 ай бұрын

    If you want a similar effect but don't want to hurt yourself physically, I can recommend social dance + gym. Almost all good social dancers have hot girlfriends or a couple of hot FBs. Until you get to that point, the women will have shittested the shit out of you until you are literally invincible. You learn to resist any kind of BS while still being charming, creative and socially calibrated in your masculine role to the max. I noticed that while I became better in dancing Bachata Sensual, the women in my everyday life started to like me more and more as well. So it definitely changes your personality.

  • @adanalyst6925

    @adanalyst6925

    7 ай бұрын

    What do you mean by social dance (idiot here)

  • @EnbL0187

    @EnbL0187

    7 ай бұрын

    A combination of fighting gym and dancing!!! Boi! Your unstoppable.

  • @tobisteffen

    @tobisteffen

    7 ай бұрын

    @@EnbL0187 I know guys who do that. They‘re doing pretty good.

  • @EnbL0187

    @EnbL0187

    7 ай бұрын

    @@tobisteffen I know. Cuz I do it. 😁

  • @eastafricannomad

    @eastafricannomad

    7 ай бұрын

    What do you mean by “the women will have shit tested the shit out of you?” I also recently started my Muay Thai and Bachata journey

  • @Mayank-xw9xh
    @Mayank-xw9xhАй бұрын

    Todd will u post ur sparring footage ? as u have posted infields haha

  • @the2kking307
    @the2kking3077 ай бұрын

    I was always interested in martial arts and boxing

  • @pahyzhahyz9634
    @pahyzhahyz96347 ай бұрын

    can you make a video on abundance mentality and why it’s important

  • @JasonS-eo7sh
    @JasonS-eo7sh7 ай бұрын

    I'm 6' 6" 252 lbs. sub 8% body fat and have Black Belts in HapKiDo (Korean JuJitsu) and TaeKwonDo. My PR's in lifting are 485 bench, 515 Squat and 545 Deadlift. Ty Wiggins was my buddy in college at the University of Wisconsin. He is a former world champion kickboxer and now a stunt coordinator in the movie industry. And we sparred together for 3 years. My point is that I could most likely beat up 9999 out of 10,000 guys and I haven't been in a fight since one year out of college. There is one reason for that. In LA, you fight, you may die. I worked at The Troubadour in Hollywood (a world famous live music venue) as a second job after graduating college. On 2 occasions, I had guns pulled on me by guys I tossed out. Fighting, these days, is beyond stupid. I also have a very high profile career that pays me extremely well. I'm not losing my career because I got arrested beating some loser's ass.

  • @robi6317

    @robi6317

    7 ай бұрын

    exactly. im with you, and yes i WANT to have martial arts skills, but i never got into it (when i was bullied a little in my youth) and at 55 what would be the point now? even at 40? i feel like being able to fight might ATTRACT fights. unless you're attacked physically you'll never get in a fight chances are. even if you get robbed, you just give over your shit, and no fight. i do agree its a confidence builder and a great skill to have, great exercise, but eventually you age out of it. if someone really wants to fight me after a verbal altercation (i seem to attract assholes) theyll have to chase me after i slowly leave while hurling insults... then ill fight if i have to. also i wouldnt want to lose work time from being injured while sparring

  • @Curiositytaughtmethat

    @Curiositytaughtmethat

    7 ай бұрын

    Amen

  • @PeterParkerwon
    @PeterParkerwon7 ай бұрын

    Funny thing is I started practicing muy thai a few weeks ago cuz I figured if i’m going to procrastinate gaming again I might as well do something that will boost my sense of masculinity and is related to self development. Not suprised Todd knows self defense I imagine a lot of men in nightlife will feel threatened by his level of game and will wanna intimidate him. How would you not let one activity get in the way of the other?

  • @definitelynottigerwhitten5865
    @definitelynottigerwhitten58652 ай бұрын

    I’ve done 8yrs combined yrs of bjj and wrestling (hs and 1 yr collegiate). Yet going into a club scares me more than fighting in a tournament😂. Just beginning to get over my daygame AA through dozens of sets per week.

  • @gordodacat
    @gordodacat7 ай бұрын

    Boxing and wrestling is what you need for self-sefense

  • @davecooper360
    @davecooper3607 ай бұрын

    I've always wished I could fight. I can't in the slightest lol. The other day I hit the heavy bag at the gym and it hurt my wrist!! 😅

  • @BenDover-cm5mo

    @BenDover-cm5mo

    7 ай бұрын

    Be careful to wrap your hands when u hit the bag! I hit the bag without wrapping my hands a few years back and I ended up injuring my wrist - for four months!

  • @0ijm3409fiwrekj

    @0ijm3409fiwrekj

    7 ай бұрын

    Go again

  • @steamer2k319

    @steamer2k319

    7 ай бұрын

    Two things persistence brings: * Improving technique allows you to achieve better results (e.g., more force delivered to target) with less cost/pain. * Your body will adapt as well. With heavy bags in particular, if you hit them with gloves, you can build up bone density over time. In general, you can build stronger, more flexible muscles and ligaments if you're careful/smart about it.

  • @sdickinson5234

    @sdickinson5234

    7 ай бұрын

    @@BenDover-cm5mo I think it's better to learn to punch the right way with the knuckles on your first two fingers and a straight wrist and don't wrap your hands, that way if you get in a real fight you won't break your hand. Of course you can't go full power right away like that. If you're training for boxing it's different because you wrap your hands in a match anyway.

  • @sudiyopsy
    @sudiyopsy7 ай бұрын

    great hair

  • @antsmasherjack
    @antsmasherjack7 ай бұрын

    Finally, my Five-Point-Palm-Exploding-Heart technique is useful in the dating field.

  • @MrResale
    @MrResale7 ай бұрын

    as someone who fought professionaly it did nothing for my dating. Fighting doesnt make you jacked, it actually makes you skinny majority of the time to fight in the right weight class. Women want the appearance of someone who can protect them they DO NOT actually want someone who can do it. Be a bodybuilder not a fighter.

  • @pahyzhahyz9634
    @pahyzhahyz96347 ай бұрын

    Please do a attraction manifesto and comfort manifesto

  • @mattdempsey8173
    @mattdempsey81737 ай бұрын

    I’m a pro fighter I agree

  • @kamarilanier8975
    @kamarilanier89757 ай бұрын

    I am actually going back to boxing next week after taking a few months off.

  • @davidking1426
    @davidking14266 ай бұрын

    Fighting is Power 🔥 Women are massively attracted to Powerful Man, despises the Weak Man. I think Rollo Tomassi also gave some mind blowing stats on this topic. Thanks Todd V 👍

  • @nathantanti8283
    @nathantanti82837 ай бұрын

    Yeah honestly being good at any martial art just makes things better. Completely different person.

  • @ilkoTheTiger
    @ilkoTheTiger7 ай бұрын

    Tell me about it, 4 years boxing, became a hunter this year, and I can confirm with a hand on my heart that that that's absolutely right! I was a kid to be picked on a lot, being slim and short, so I enrolled in boxing after 3 years of soccer and another fight forced on me due to tackle. I just had enough, I wanted to f-up everyone. who picked on me ever since. First 3 months, I was a total disaster, injured myself so badly that I still haven't recovered after more than a decade. Around the 1st year in boxing, very consistently though, I got knocked out by the best boxer in the gym, and it wasn't that I gave up easily. I was told to take 2 weeks off from boxing but instead, I went the next day and asked the same guy to have a sparring again. I was just about ready to die but also the fight did not die inside me. He refused as I was pale as a ghost that day but I'll tell you what. I haven't missed a day in the gym since then, and I committed fully to learning boxing in and out. We had more sparrings with this guy, and 2 years later in one of our sparrings, he told me: "If you would push slightly more, he will be the one dropping this time". By then, I'd already forgiven him but the point is he took a piss and had a "cool" lifestyle going out with girls at the age of 14, drinking and smoking, I was completely the opposite. Even though he was 2 years younger, heavier, and taller, I managed to match his fighting capabilities with only about 10% of his experience in competitions, sounds crazy but I actually started knocking out heavier opponents than me quite regularly after my third year in boxing. It was quite a spiritual process of growth for me. Turned me from a shy boy into "the tiger" as the fellows would call me. I only started going out and doing pick-up once I quit boxing at the age of 18. Since then, I have not had that many fights at all but I'll tell you what, it happened and it happened without warning, and it was not during night out, a guest in my house attacked me but I managed to defend myself well even though he landed a right hook in my jaw out of nowhere. There was more to follow, but I could parry it all, eventually, we caught the attention of the housemates and he had to leave me alone, saying I would be dead if I mentioned it to anyone, which I did the next day, as I reported him in the police even thought I rejected to fight back but the matter of the fact is, I could and I decided not to. Don't allow someone to walk you over but be humble enough to not seek revenge, as it will get you down as well. Also, still got my pair of gloves and even thought about teaching locals how to fight, as a side hobby even before I saw this video, and I certainly don't believe in coincidences.

  • @sycbball23
    @sycbball237 ай бұрын

    Which martial art do you recommend to take? For self improvement and confidence purposes? Does it matter which one?

  • @sixobreezo1126

    @sixobreezo1126

    5 ай бұрын

    BJJ or Boxing

  • @definitelynottigerwhitten5865

    @definitelynottigerwhitten5865

    2 ай бұрын

    Bjj 😎(I’m biased)

  • @youwilllaugh3136
    @youwilllaugh31367 ай бұрын

    The thumbnail is funny as shit

  • @codandreas2169
    @codandreas216920 күн бұрын

    This guy is promoting the right things

  • @miesvaillanykyisyytta3252
    @miesvaillanykyisyytta32527 ай бұрын

    I have been a fan of martial arts for a long time. I'm also a fan of pro-wrestling. I think men gravitate towards combat sports because we associate pain with accomplishment. It has ritual functions going back a very long time and it probably provides spiritual experiences for many practitioners whereas a sport like tennis may have a relatively brief history and has not been a factor in nation building. At the same time the high emphasis on men's martial development also comes from a time when we believed that women would lose their virtue if they were to get an education or not be viable mothers. Nobody believes that anymore at least in the west but many young men still have this idea that if you cannot "fight" then you're useless. I would be curious to know if this idea is less common in countries where conscription (having to serve in the armed forces during peace time from six months to four years) is still in force. In countries and cultures where men no longer have obligatory combative rites of passage men may find it profitable to stand out from the crowd through martial arts. In countries where men are conscripted simply gnashing your teeth through involuntary service separates you from the vast majority of females. Then again conscription seemingly does not make men less violent or tame; Russia seems much more violent than Western Europe and Russia is known for their brutal armed service (and now forcible conscription into the war in Ukraine). I don't believe that martial arts very useful for attracting women in general and could be a big waste of time if you don't love it. From the testimonies of men who practice martial arts I've also got the impression that their black belt did not help them to get over their fear of women either. If you want to mingle with women, you could just get into dancing which I personally found much more awkward and difficult than martial arts.

  • @V12509
    @V125093 ай бұрын

    Been boxing for 2 years. Where are my hot girls? I’m drier than a desert. Oh well, at least my footwork’s good and my punches are hard 😂😂

  • @sudiyopsy
    @sudiyopsy7 ай бұрын

    you started?

  • @LIBERWOCKY
    @LIBERWOCKY7 ай бұрын

    🙏🏻

  • @luispadron8225
    @luispadron82257 ай бұрын

    10th Planet baby

  • @user-td6xg3fq2o
    @user-td6xg3fq2o7 ай бұрын

    Hey Todd I agree I am blind visually impaired But if you sit in your house without knowing what’s outside, you always going to be sitting on your ass inside the house just because you’re blind doesn’t mean you have to be scared to go out in the world I would also like to get a coaching class with you. How 9:18 from today, Saturday, November

  • @KHhero
    @KHhero7 ай бұрын

    Advice where to start for 100lb guys in 40s who never in any fight before?

  • @cageaudio8158

    @cageaudio8158

    7 ай бұрын

    Just start somewhere- life weights , take martial arts, eat healthy and bulk up on protein, obviously take it easy at your age. it will take a bit but youll get there.

  • @makingtoast
    @makingtoast7 ай бұрын

    Why did I not know this 10 years ago? It's too late now.

  • @steamer2k319
    @steamer2k3197 ай бұрын

    Next up: Sparring/dating collab with Hard2Hurt? 😆

  • @AfroLatinoJG
    @AfroLatinoJG7 ай бұрын

    Who wants the smoke?

  • @CoachSteveJandS
    @CoachSteveJandS7 ай бұрын

    Muay Thai is the truth

  • @bennoreuter4393
    @bennoreuter43937 ай бұрын

    In a boxing, bjj or km gym, you won't get support, you will just get beat up or they won't spar at all. I have never experienced a gym where sparring was supervised and you got useful information on how to improve your style. Go in now, stay for a year, you will notice that nothing changed in your ability to fight. Worse even, you will get injured and don't know why. There is zero feedback on your "journey", all you are is a paying customer. Martial arts is nothing but a workout, unless you do Tai Chi, then it's not even that.

  • @AshTheDuke
    @AshTheDuke7 ай бұрын

    but am just a gun guy

  • @feedittothegoat388
    @feedittothegoat3887 ай бұрын

    As a professional musician, if I didn't prioritize my manual dexterity and abilities, I'd go for this advice. However any potential of harming my hands is a flat no. But....Todd, strong video , psychology and all. The man right here 👈

  • @davidt5694
    @davidt56947 ай бұрын

    Todd what do i say to a girl who says I'm being super intense

  • @steamer2k319

    @steamer2k319

    7 ай бұрын

    Go out and build relationships with 10 other women. Sounds like you're too desperate for the one. Women would rather share a confident guy who doesn't need them (because he's got 10 others in the wings) than have one needy guy all to themselves.

  • @exnihilonihilfit6316

    @exnihilonihilfit6316

    7 ай бұрын

    You're probably too serious and, um ... intense. 😅 Yeah, you probably need a lot more experience with _many_ women to start playing _it_ like a funny lil game.

  • @AcTaRus-fk6nj
    @AcTaRus-fk6nj7 ай бұрын

    1- Fighters have hot girlfriends: is having a hit girlfriend the ultimate goal? In my view I much rather have a high value girlfriend (which is very hard to find). 2- Todd, don't make people believe that after six months of fighting training they can handle a street fight. No one can handle a street fight. 3- Fight training certainly gives self confidence. Sometimes too much as people think they can handle a street fight. 4- your video made want to restart Judo, lol Thanks!

  • @aikighost

    @aikighost

    7 ай бұрын

    points 1-3 are all true, and yet you're still better with training than not be the situation conflict or not. 👍

  • @GuyCorrino
    @GuyCorrino7 ай бұрын

    Dont buy the mentorship programm ! You cant Access and after 4 weeks trying to cancel it I still got no response and they charged the full amount!!

  • @ClanVevo
    @ClanVevo7 ай бұрын

    i genuinely dont say this to be mean im actually curious.... when did he get so old... 7 months ago he looked 10 years younger

  • @Curiositytaughtmethat
    @Curiositytaughtmethat7 ай бұрын

    That camera flash sound made me want to fight. Mostly because it annoyed the shit out of me

  • @BALDANDRETIRED
    @BALDANDRETIRED7 ай бұрын

    Done muay Thai nowadays boxing. I have been travelling many parts of the world walked confident in back streets of Havana or Cario or Minsk . Man respect who can fight so its good for business Woman secretly love the man who can fight. Not only confidence or protection but dominance in bedroom . I m surprised that took Todd too long not to talk about this . Yea bro go to boxing gym most of you can't handle muay Thai anyways and actually might not be that required considering the amount of man turning to feminen . Boxing will give you the practicalities of a self defence no really need to go to stupid gym which gives you only pump. But nothing to learn on your brain like the footwork etc.

  • @bobbanks6217
    @bobbanks62177 ай бұрын

    If ur going around sleeping with people's gfs u need to learn self defense 😅

  • @furiousfellow1583
    @furiousfellow15837 ай бұрын

    Strongly disagree on this one, I've been boxing and wrestling for almost 20 years now and didn't get girls until I discover Todd, had wimps that I could beat with one arm getting girls I like because its not that important. It could help hard case newbs to gain confidence, but a normal guy is better learning technical game rather for getting girls

  • @sdickinson5234

    @sdickinson5234

    7 ай бұрын

    Agreed. Also it seems weird that you would need to tell young males they should learn how to fight. They must have gone to a better school than I did.

  • @PeterParkerwon

    @PeterParkerwon

    7 ай бұрын

    I think you’re misunderstanding the point Todd is making with this video. He’s not saying it will be the difference maker in getting girls, but it can give some guys a boost

  • @furiousfellow1583

    @furiousfellow1583

    7 ай бұрын

    @@PeterParkerwon thats what I meant on my last sentence, sure it will help if you are already a super insecure guy, but any somewhat normal guy could just learn game

  • @techsnmechanics7521
    @techsnmechanics75217 ай бұрын

    More like your face can be registered as a certified punching bag 🤣

  • @MrCharrrles
    @MrCharrrles7 ай бұрын

    I don't understand how fighting translates to getting women unless you're a pro fighter (and are good enough to win). Are you walking around telling all the women that you fight? How do they respond to that?

  • @josephgegelashvili
    @josephgegelashvili7 ай бұрын

    👌👍👌👍👌👌👍

  • @bartdegryse9345
    @bartdegryse93454 ай бұрын

    doing krav maga 🤗

  • @marioottaiano475
    @marioottaiano4757 ай бұрын

    ...mmm...this time I do not agree with Todd. I would say you must learn to be assertive, have a tough mentality, not be scared easily and go all in for what you really want in your life, but fighting? Leave fighting to professional athletes, guys if you go out with your girlfriend and two guys want to steal your money and your phone, you do not fight because if they have a gun your life is gone

  • @GISLE5959
    @GISLE59597 ай бұрын

    jesus christ this editor needs to chill with the shutter sound-effect, why are you using it on EVERY cut?? Great example of "doing too much"

  • @Electrik51
    @Electrik517 ай бұрын

    Or You can get your teeth kicked out or get a concussion in sparring as well

  • @Kochos
    @Kochos7 ай бұрын

    Banged my hottest girl right after the end of a sparring training. Iranian muslim who totally forgot her religious views and took every drop in twice in a car in the middle of nowhere. Fighting is an absolute must for every male and even female. The adrenaline rush is such a game performance enhancer and the good news is that there are no side effects nor tolerance development. Jordan Peterson says that those who have swords and are able to keep them sheathed will inherit the world. Martial arts training teaches both the skill of swinging the sword and keeping the sword sheathed, both cases when appropriate. JP also states that one must not be nice or harmless but a monster. A monster that can be self-tamed. Martial Arts teaches that. One's performance in the world outside picking up girls, needless to say, is optimized too. Voice becomes easily projectable, people bend and get in to your frame. They walk out your way. One becomes more focused and enregzised hence more productive. One becomes way less intimidated in any situation. And girls go full dripping for such a person.

  • @zakiyajohnson4104
    @zakiyajohnson41047 ай бұрын

    Bruh u gon get shot tryna fight somebody we in 2023

  • @flavio888
    @flavio8887 ай бұрын

    I'm 25 have premature hair gerying. how much is it important and what should i do? Do girls see me as a old guy?

  • @adanalyst6925

    @adanalyst6925

    7 ай бұрын

    As a guy looking older doesn’t hurt you as long as you don’t look “elderly” if that makes sense.

  • @seeker2182

    @seeker2182

    7 ай бұрын

    Don’t worry about it dude. Just own up to it with confidence. If the girl mentions it make a joke about it.

  • @sdickinson5234

    @sdickinson5234

    7 ай бұрын

    As an actual older guy with greying hair, I use a product called "Just for Men Control GX Grey Reducing Shampoo" and it works great. You see a lot of older guys who color their hair and it looks weird but this looks totally natural. I only need to apply it about once a week, and whenever I get a haircut.

  • @zero1188
    @zero11887 ай бұрын

    And you csn also just walk around with pepper spray

  • @steamer2k319

    @steamer2k319

    7 ай бұрын

    Yeah, both. Knowing a hand-to-hand system is of limited value if the other guy pulls a knife or a gun. It's still helpful to be able to work empty-handed, though. You might not have time or opportunity to pull your own weapon.

  • @zero1188

    @zero1188

    7 ай бұрын

    @@steamer2k319 i agree both is good to have both. I walk with spray because i rather hit them from a distance than even risk a physical fight. It only take one hit to kill or paralyze you. People heavily underestimate fighting in the streets. Im fighting dirty as heII

  • @flpmlks5181

    @flpmlks5181

    7 ай бұрын

    and chloroform? :D

  • @steamer2k319

    @steamer2k319

    7 ай бұрын

    @@zero1188 I've also heard good things about 'tactical' flashlights. They're relatively small (compared to the maglites of yore) LED units that have an ~overdrive function for blinding assailants at night.

  • @jackmetcalfe8542
    @jackmetcalfe85427 ай бұрын

    Todd becomes Andrew Tate

  • @marioderose1693
    @marioderose16936 ай бұрын

    Not really.. i spar every Saturday.. krava maga muay thai… nobody cares lol

  • @Leo-yn5fx
    @Leo-yn5fx7 ай бұрын

    Learn how to talk shit. Too many guys end up getting in the wrong fight cause the lack of verbal beatdowns causes them to use their fist instead.

  • @GaryAJMartin
    @GaryAJMartin7 ай бұрын

    Oh yeah. I take one look at Toddy, and my knees knock together with fear.😛 I guess he could wrap his arms around my legs.😂

  • @ArisAris-fs1ip
    @ArisAris-fs1ip4 ай бұрын

    Go get a real job

  • @jacko89d
    @jacko89d7 ай бұрын

    Usually the most emotional and weak people today are the ones who want to learn how to fight, because they can't control themselves or the person they are talking to, very fragile ego.

  • @lancecryor

    @lancecryor

    7 ай бұрын

    Well. After all, wouldn't learning to fight only improve their confidence?

  • @kingsleyvoecador5062
    @kingsleyvoecador50627 ай бұрын

    Somebody finally accepted Jesus as king😂. todd have been following Andrew tate i can tell 😂🥳

  • @abhinav_091
    @abhinav_0914 ай бұрын

    Thnxs todd now I know what i am doing is right . Maa chudiye duniya daari . Todd sab aap mahaan ho . 🫡