PsychFam requested a topic on gossip and we made it happen for you all! 😳 Comment below if you have gossip or someone gossip about you.

@margelatul2001

3 жыл бұрын

first

@vesea8976

3 жыл бұрын

Love your vids dude

@jenasis3872

3 жыл бұрын

well I’ve heard gossip from a best friend of mines

@margelatul2001

3 жыл бұрын

sorry im that person :(

@strawberry01753

3 жыл бұрын

heyy im early can u reply? :D

As Socrates beautifully articulated ― “Strong minds discuss ideas, average minds discuss events, weak minds discuss people.”

@joshuacarre06

3 жыл бұрын

Nice i got a strong mind then lol

@Basedhistoryenjoyer

3 жыл бұрын

*But hey, think about it. One of the best way to get where you want is by dragging down your opponent-*

@jovitabhengra

3 жыл бұрын

@@more1494 lol and teachers who discuss their students are the "weakest minded"

@bejeweledbat13

3 жыл бұрын

what about fictional characters

@retsuninja6080

3 жыл бұрын

With that logic, managers are weak minded? Because managers deal with ppl

“God removes people from your life because he heard conversations that you didn’t hear.” 💫

@mostlymo5103

3 жыл бұрын

Love that quote

@fairyfellermasterstroke

3 жыл бұрын

That's kinda depressing, like, the person you loved dies and you're like: Wait, God heard him say something bad? Nooooooooo

@Just1Independent1

3 жыл бұрын

Much needed💕

@flyingdart9819

3 жыл бұрын

Not very religious but this quote was nice.

@unbeatabel

3 жыл бұрын

WOW THAT'S A GOOD ONE!

1 reason why I don't gossip: I'm too busy climbing my own mountain to worry about other people's.

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

Loved it! - Cindy

@chinestupigan334

3 жыл бұрын

samedt!!

@mellydoughnut

3 жыл бұрын

Yep put yourself first instead of other people. The world won't wait for you to catch up.

@blossomheart3294

3 жыл бұрын

@@mellydoughnut love this

@Shay4YourMind81

3 жыл бұрын

LemonZeppelin Awesome philosophy!!

If you can’t say anything nice, then don’t say anything at all.

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

This is a good mindset to have! Did you find this video helpful? - Cindy

@kbcash35

3 жыл бұрын

Very true!

@WisdomWealth77

3 жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go I do. I will be honest I use to gossip and didn't see anything wrong with it, until it was being done to me..

@KB-xj7wy

3 жыл бұрын

exactly

@bigmamisvea3318

3 жыл бұрын

What kind of dumb quote is that? I always have to be nice and friendly? Get a grip, that's not how life's working.

✨8 Reasons why we gossip✨ 1) To break the ice: find common ground by gossiping about someone you and someone else know 2) To stay in the loop 3) To fit in 4) To feel better about yourself 5) To regain power and feel superior to those you’re jealous of 6) To distract yourself and pass time 7) To feel closer to someone 8) To hold people accountable

@amilkshake3843

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@enabaumland

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks ✨

@adritabasu8790

3 жыл бұрын

Wait This video was uploaded 10 mins ago, And your comment is a week old?!????!?!?!??!!? How is this possible?????!??!!?!!?

@Kanon..

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Blink!!!!!! 💖💖💖

@cockyrudeselfishloudgirlyg2852

3 жыл бұрын

@@adritabasu8790 time travel

For anyone who's confused how people suddenly became time travelers, membership exists

@fairyfellermasterstroke

3 жыл бұрын

@Zoya Hussain Ah, you have to sort them! Thanks for the info

@fairyfellermasterstroke

3 жыл бұрын

@Zoya Hussain No, wait, I still don't understand how to do it...

@fairyfellermasterstroke

3 жыл бұрын

@Zoya Hussain Now I did find one unlisted video, but I still don't know how to sort the videos...

@fairyfellermasterstroke

3 жыл бұрын

@Zoya Hussain Now I did find one unlisted video, but I still don't know how to sort the videos...

@Psych2GoKr

3 жыл бұрын

@Zoya Hussain The secret is out Oo

I used to gossip when I was in High school. It was a horrible and desperate attempt at fitting in. Now that I'm older I understand why it's wrong. But for reasons far beyond my understanding I had family that still continues to do this shit. literally people in their 60's gossiping and bullying behind our backs. it's so pathetic.

_"Your desire for social acceptance may outweigh your desire to do the right thing"_ - Loved it. The answer to everything here.

My life changed after I stopped being around those people who constantly inquire and discuss the flaws of others Suggesting y'all to do the same!

If gossiping is a sign of low self-stem and envy, then I guess there are A LOT of people who are jealous of me lmao I hate gossips.

@grottoking7355

Жыл бұрын

Facts

@sharonseymour8037

5 ай бұрын

So Do I ❤

Man, I used to feel so insecure back then, when I knew people were gossiping and talking bad about me behind my back

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

Sometimes they have things to say that are not true 😕 . I hope the people gossip behind your back is no longer in your life. - Cindy

@checkreactz

3 жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go Thanks Cindy. I’ve pretty much moved on at this point, but as a result I’ve become much more introverted and lonely, yet so confident at the same time

@pantherman8719

2 жыл бұрын

That's why I grew to have a disdain on most people. Even friends tend to do that.

@jesuschrist1817

Жыл бұрын

@@checkreactz I agree

gossip is honestly the worst!! I remember the worst of it was in middle school and I was super sad and didn't have any friends because someone made up a rumor about me. I'm happy that most people grew out of gossiping as I got older

@audrenesangria1742

3 жыл бұрын

OMG girl HI 👋🏼😂

@unbeatabel

3 жыл бұрын

Good for you! I hope you're surrounded by people who actually care and love you now^^ just remember that God keeps you away from certain people for certain reasons

@SamElle

3 жыл бұрын

@@audrenesangria1742 your hi’s make my day hahaha

@SamElle

3 жыл бұрын

@@unbeatabel yes yes I’m always so grateful for the people who are in my life!! It’s so easy to forget about them when you’re surrounded by toxic people but it’s something I remind myself of

@Ana-ty8sl

2 жыл бұрын

Same thing happened to me, I actually had to make a new friend group with people a grade below me… since no in my grade would speak to me! I never learned what the rumor was?

Don't gossip and don't trust anyone that gossips and keeps a lot of mess going because you better believe that if they do it with you they'll do it to you.

@Anonymous_Anon882

Жыл бұрын

True. When they come to their senses and drop the senseless rumours they might try and subtly-worm their way back into your good books but by then it’s usually too-late. Gossip about someone you know you shouldn’t be talking about and the damage is done if it gets back to the gossipee. It doesn’t matter how “sorry” you feel afterwards. It’s too late.

People gossip cause they find it *"entertaining"* badmouthing someone, spreading rumours as they have no life. As a personal experience of being the target of gossips I hate it so much but ykw they still continue and never will stop whatsoever you say. When I asked a girl in my class why she does while pretending to be my friend she replied with "it runs in my veins" lol

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

You are right about people find gossiping to be entertaining. A good rule is If there is nothing good to say about someone, then don't say it :). I hope the girl gossip behind your back stops. - Cindy

@lacuna3499

3 жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go true that, I follow the same rule as well. If there's anything you don't like about a person confront them, that's the best way. Tbh I am now used to, she apologized but did not stop and I am not even surprised about that and thanks ❤️ I love your videos, let me tell you that you are doing an awesome job and your videos help me understand myself and my surroundings more.

@Anonymous_Anon882

Жыл бұрын

Gossip is one of the reasons I’m not one to socialise an enormous deal. It’s not always bad as such but I just tire of people who talk about the ins-and-outs of random people (sometimes to the point of spreading damaging and erroneous rumours) as if there aren’t ideas and just other things to do with life to discuss. It’s like some people live and breathe what other people are apparently saying and doing and it’s just boring if not particularly obnoxious. In respectful moderation it’s fair enough but people who only talk about other people’s lives I just find shallow at the best of times. I can’t have someone like that as a proper friend.

" *Small minds discuss people* - Average minds discuss events - Great minds discuss ideas." The older I get, the more accurate I find this quote is.

@abyssal_phoenix

3 жыл бұрын

So how old are you now? Cause I have been like the great minds since my 11th or so

@agentjordan605

Жыл бұрын

True statement

I never allow myself to be around a gossiper for any reason, needless to say I spend a lot of time alone, which is fine because I'm good with my own company

@Anonymous_Anon882

Жыл бұрын

They often think you’re the problem/socially-maladjusted one if you grey-rock/avoid them when in reality you just hate people who never mind their own business/spread rumours about people they hardly know (if at all).

@nightfangs2910

Жыл бұрын

@@Anonymous_Anon882 exactly spot on

@Anonymous_Anon882

Жыл бұрын

@@nightfangs2910 everyone gossips on some level at the end of the day and that’s actually fine (as I said elsewhere) but my gripe is even people make their rumour-tidbits sound like absolute gospel and shout it from the rooftops so everyone can have a negative opinion (which mightn’t even be accurate) on the person (usually someone the rest of them don’t even know that well). People are always going to tear people they don’t like to shreds behind closed doors (I do and I’ll readily admit that) but if you’re wise it stays behind closed doors. There are certain things that the wider public just don’t need to know about, especially when you yourself don’t really actually know the ‘gossipee’ that well.

@ay-tj7pj

3 ай бұрын

They will also gossip when you mind your own business. Toxic people will always be toxic no matter if you're good or bad. The problem is them, not you.

I hate gossips. It affects my mental and emotional well-being. Especially for a non-sociable person like me. It makes me hate to be around a lot of people

@Anonymous_Anon882

Жыл бұрын

Same here.

If someone gossips about others to you, then chances are they gossip about you to others. If someone points out other people's accomplishments or good deeds to you, then chances are they point out your good traits and accomplishments to others. If you wanna be likeable, be positive and seek out the good in people If you wanna be feared and disliked by your social group of people, then gossip and be negative Karmaaaaa :O

Sum: 1. To break the ice 1:06 2. To stay in the loop 1:31 3. To pit in 1:54 4. To feel better about yourself 2:19 5. To regain *POWAH* 2:48 6. To have a distraction 3:17 7. To feel closer to others 3:45 8. To hold ppl accountable 4:15 Ahhh long time no see ;)

@mellydoughnut

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!😁

@teenshii

3 жыл бұрын

It's "3. To fit in" not "pit in". :D

In grade 7 I got stuck in a group that only gossiped because my friends liked them. I remember if they couldn't gossip they had nothing to talk about. Near the end of that year I finally met some nice people. Long story short I felt awful after realising how badly it can hurt someone. Even if they never find out it's terrible.

"Gossiping destroys families, alienates friends and makes YOU a fool." - brian padrick drake

To whoever read this: You're unique and the prettiest person. Don't judge yourself. Love yourself.

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

Beautiful - Cindy

@ameliaandwatson

3 жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go Awww. You replied me😍😍😍😍. You're so sweet sis. I'm one of your biggest fan

@vijzon

3 жыл бұрын

Oh man oh wow you don't know how much you helped by saying that i could cry

@ameliaandwatson

3 жыл бұрын

@@vijzon Thank you. I'm so happy that I could help you

@bruce4139

3 жыл бұрын

Only 1 person can be the greatest, and prettiest

My class are full of gossip grup ;-; and I hate that, cause people that like to gossip are mostly fake

@_ray401

3 жыл бұрын

@Binoy Binoy i don't say I don't do gossip, I do sometimes to you know, almost all people do gossip sometimes. But not like my classmates, they gossip averyday (when we still school like normal, before quarantine) and I heard some of them are making a gossip grup, when you're not in the group they will talking about u And bruh- that's just getting out of hands 😐 (I want to write longer but my bad english 😔, I just gonna say there a fake stabing people trust me)

@redrosereindeer

3 жыл бұрын

Same dude :(

@shadow_hikari6447

3 жыл бұрын

That is the reason I like to have a class with more boys that girls. Boys don't rlly gossip the way the talk is like not rlly gossip but they just talk to each other very loudly that every can hear. And most the time if a class with more girls will have more drama and it's annoying. It happened to me once. Those girls made me alone in class. And talk shit about me and all the girls just believe it.

Gossiping about others only speaks the truth about how they have too much time on their hands. They are real cowards, instead of speaking to a person face to face, they'd rather say false things about others that is farther from the truth.

I really hate when a person gossips about me and they put their head down whenever they see me. When people are guilty they need to understand that their body language is powerful when they put their heads down or up, no eye contact and act extremely uncomfortable. I feel like saying to them ''You are so guilty''. At least know how to hide your actions.

When we feel good/better about ourselves, we don't need to talk about people behind their back to make us feel better. Our innerworld is the reflection of the outside.

Be careful about those who gossip to you, they probably also gossip about you.

I gossip solely for reason #8, albeit not too often since I mostly keep to myself. Sometimes there’s just some people who do ridiculously scummy things and I always feel a need to talk about it for some reason and express my disdain for them. I don’t know why it always seems to take hold of my conversations since it just makes me depressed about how there’s so many crappy people in the world and how some of them keep getting away with the things they do.

I think gossip might be a generational thing too. This could be because they have nothing better to do, but I've noticed older generations tend to gossip more than people closer to my age. No matter how old they are I just try to avoid it. If someone talks badly about about another person behind their back, they're probably doing the same thing to you.

I always found gossip can be destructive even when it's done with the best intentions. You could be talking about someone in the most positive light but eventually it spreads and someone most likely will misinterpret and put a negative spin on it. Then worse case scenario the negative information gets back to the person that was the object of the gossip and they find out it was you it was originated from, now you have broken trust to deal with. Open honest communication with the person that is the subject of the information is best way go before it gets to someone else.

this is not my proudest moment but back in middle school i resorted to gossiping about this girl. she was like a “grade school bully” to me and instead of resolving matters with an adult i resorted to gossiping to many people about her to relieve that tension. again, not my proudest moment but it just goes go show how we as humans are so similar

I've never gossiped and I hope I never will. I've been gossiped about before and it's not nice, especially when the gossiping turns to rumours.

Is gossiping also when you talk positive about someone, cause I talk a lot about others, but positively. But people try to gossip with me, but I just turn in the positive and nice things I know about that person, to kinda defend them

@strwberrynight4610

3 жыл бұрын

You are a saint. Keep up doing this 😄💕

@abyssal_phoenix

3 жыл бұрын

Maybe I should make a video about this subject. I’ll write it down as possible video idea

@meettheartist5506

3 жыл бұрын

There are going to be a few/many things that a person you both people are talking about you will find pretty wrong or problematic for you. But talking in a philosophical way, focusing on the positive of any situation, object and person will help you move forward with optimism. When you gossip or talk... Just keep a balance of what you're talking about. If there is positive, put forward. If there isn't don't make it a secret conspiracy to spread hatred for that person - consider the negative and let go of the topic.

@extrapathos

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@Ana-ty8sl

2 жыл бұрын

That usually what I do, I usually let people know what I think of them (good or bad to their face.) Oh, I forgot to say that I do believe talking about someone without them present can be gossip. Especially if that person likes to keep their life private.

2 years ago i was a gossiper to a T. i'm proud to say that i've found myself, survived the karma of doing such terrible things, and have healed so much. you can do it too, and gossiping does not define you. YOU DO.

@Tuba.k007

7 ай бұрын

Finally, I thought I was the only one who gossips after reading the comments.. But ofc going to work upon it

In my former workplace i think gossiping is so contagious. I have no energy for gossiping and i just do my work. Im a victim of those people who make stories and gossips. I tend not to care and still kind to these people. But my mental and emotional health get stall. I resigned from that job.

@lamzy3773

2 жыл бұрын

Because they see the greatness in you lol. The same is happening to me at my current job.

@chuuchuutrain6232

2 жыл бұрын

I agree too but as a student I would rather choose to be happy alone by accompanying myself with work.

Why do we gossip? Schadenfreude. Oh, and we are human. 💗 Dr. Liz

@mehwishmanha9250

3 жыл бұрын

'MAKING PEOPLE FEEL BETTER THEY'RE NOT YOUUUUUU' Avenue Q-

@chiefinspectorkido2999

3 жыл бұрын

Your Zen Within | Relax with Dr. Liz Didn’t know y‘all are using German words in the Us 🤔. Greetings 🇩🇪

@guccion

3 жыл бұрын

Cause we are like that - my words

@Psych2GoKr

3 жыл бұрын

Good one. That would be interesting to mention.

@DrLizListens

3 жыл бұрын

@@chiefinspectorkido2999 we don't have an equivalent word to schadenfreude and it's such an interesting phenomenon!

1:54 Who needs fitting in when we can just be ourselves?

@lemonink3685

3 жыл бұрын

i know right

I've always thought that gossip is a waste of time and pointless

To the 1 person who’s reading this: *you’re lovely and incredible be safe*

@amrithapai8436

3 жыл бұрын

thx :D

@amirornot0484

3 жыл бұрын

Ty 🥺👉👈

@deltamico

3 жыл бұрын

Oh we were 2 reading this at the same time.

@loonugu

3 жыл бұрын

Shut up 🙂

@agentjordan605

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the compliment

A lot of people in my family are asocial or super busy so I gossip mostly to stay in the loop. It CAN be fun and helpful if you do it in a healthy respectful way

@Sunset553

Жыл бұрын

There’s public vs private information. you can mention who moved, got married, had children, without gossiping.You can discuss your own visit to your friends new home and that you got caught up and it was great. there’s really no excuse for gossip. it’s just a bad habit

I am always trying my best to not gossip about other people by distracting myself so I always have something to do. Gossiping is tempting because it is entertaining.

Her soft sweet soothing voice makes talking about somebody sounds so sweet.

Time travelling is so fun. Anyways I would love to see you guys making a video about reasons why a person is an attention seeker or signs someone is an attention seeker or how to stop being an attention seeker.

@amilkshake3843

3 жыл бұрын

Yes it is, and that’s a good video idea! Sometimes I have the feeling I’m seeking attention, but I actually don’t wanna :/

@idolization1831

3 жыл бұрын

Wait tell me your secrets

@shaereub4450

3 жыл бұрын

Convince psych2go to give you access to their time machine.

@nabbieLIVE

3 жыл бұрын

I NEED TO KNOW HOW YOU DO IT

@redrosereindeer

3 жыл бұрын

Time traveler

your videos are always so relaxing!!! it's always such a comfortable experience, thank u so much 💗

Thanks for video. I don't understand people who gossip. Through my school years I was always considered "the weird one" who didn't fit it. It was mainly because others had "gossiping groups" and I never understand why they were gossiping and it was always very boring for me.

I've been discovering I have several of the things that you mention in your videos, and I have been trying to find a doctor in the things that are; for example "bipolar disorder" and some of them I'm really thankful, your videos are very useful!

The was this one girl in my class and no one wanted to tell her anything important or embarrassing because they knew she would tell the whole class and school thier secret. Yet she got information out of them and used it's against them, she would act like everyone's friends and would seem trustworthy. Even I have fallen for her trickery and boy did it backfire.I always wondered why she acted this way, I figured it was just because she wanted to seem like the person to go to for the daily news. Now I have a better understanding of why she acted this way.

So true! That's why I don't like people who gossip all the time, especially fake stories

I loved your voice it’s so calm & soothing

Especially that last one in the video is what i do. Don’t talk to jealous people… they often have a victim mentality and aren’t really open to admit their own flaws! They rather put blame on others instead of changing themselves!

I don't gossip, i say it in front of their face

Love the idea of animation and self-help and mental well-being! That’s awesome!

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!! Did you find this video helpful? :)

In my area gossiping is the unofficial national pastime. It's a rural area, of course, and people here just about check all these boxes. I also note a correlation between religiosity and preponderance for gossip.

Nobody: Literally nobody: Me: See mom, I told you time travelers exist

@aclamp79

3 жыл бұрын

Nobody: Nobody at all: Me: these are not funny at all. Stop.

@Vxq0

3 жыл бұрын

@@aclamp79 urs isnt any funnier

@rurue-hf6nu

3 жыл бұрын

@@Vxq0 lol good one

@rurue-hf6nu

3 жыл бұрын

@@aclamp79 I ain't trying to be funny, I'm telling my mom the truth

@aclamp79

3 жыл бұрын

@@Vxq0 I'm not trying to be funny. I'm not funny at all. My point is I'm sick of seeing the same sort of meme everywhere. Life feels like a repeat and comedy is becoming boring for me. Same with school and same with people I talk to. Life is repetitive and all i ask for is something differant. Sorry.

I actually dont gossip but I had a class mate, I wasnt her friend but she always tried to stick with me but all she did was "talking at people's back", soon I realised what she was doing was wrong so I just got off and stopped havig interactions with her.

your videos are always so calm and happy!

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

Glad you like them! Your comment makes me happy to hear :). Let us know if this video relates to you after you finish watching - Cindy

People around us do that and the thing is they don't even know anything about me nor try to get to know me so in turn others believe them when those people don't know me either. I hope I am making sense😂

Interesting. In schools manual policy about spreading gossip and rumors are prohibited. It leads to misunderstanding. False information for attention and you are right about small towns. A old friend of mine complained when, she lived little town in Georgia. I don’t know what town? And, she says gossip happened in grocery store, church, beauty shop, Walmart, you name it after her divorce she moved to Richmond, VA and didn’t hear a peep there.

Very much needed!😩✊🏾

Number 9: You got really excited about something and it slips out.

This video literally just got released after i had huge online drama and had many false accusations thrown at me and now people are saying things like go to hell and "get out of my life" when they basically exaggerated the whole incident and led to others believing rumours and jumping to conclusions. I feel so hurt because i thought they could be trusted 😔

I have defiantly gossiped to vent my frustrations. The one subject to this gossip is someone who I have never seen nor meet, so I can only imagine who they are by their hideous actions (not just towards me, but towards others who were at the same event that night.) He has caused great grief and anger within me and what could only be imagined as indescribable pain within others. Talking about the event and how horrible that guy was with my friends who were there is sometimes a way for me to let off steam... (and believe me, I would hold the guy accountable if I could...)

Wow i never thought someone will make a video on this topic , awesome job 😊👍

Currently dealing with middle school gossips :,) (8th grade) Heard them talking about me the other day… made me feel like shit. I couldn’t hear exactly what they were saying about me but it was along the lines of how “weird” and quiet I am, and were talking about something I apparently did that was “weird” to them. I, thankfully, no longer feel too bad about it, but it still bothers me that people are talking about me behind my back in general. Now that I think about it, people were gossiping about me for a while, but I’ve always turned a blind eye subconsciously. Not one for confrontation. I believe if I ignore it they’ll have no power over me and will get bored.

@mymindsin144p4

2 жыл бұрын

Me too.. Those guys seem to abuse the word "weird" when discussing me.. T.T I usually feel bad for eavesdropping, but when it comes to people like that I feel no pity whatsoever! Cause they're bad people! I think it's best to ignore them and also tell an adult, cause if you take action nothing you can do will stop them, and if you tell a teacher they'll know what's going on (although they may not be able to help they'll understand what those people are doing and what you're going through)

thanks for the insight

Lmao, time travel👁👄👁👋 But besides that, this video helped me a lot:)

thumbnail: do you gossip? me, an introvert: *no*

@lykhra2178

3 жыл бұрын

That’s... not really a Extrovert and Introvert type of situation

number 9, some may start gossiping this way but later on when they don't have a reason they still gossip because its like a habit.

Wow, always learning something new in your videos! This makes me think about dealing with gossiping now... How do you deal with others that gossip about you? Thank you ❤💙💛

These videos are very insightful and I love the animation!

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! Glad you find it insightful. :) Would you like to see more of this animation in the future?

*1)* To break the ice *2)* To stay in the loop *3)* To fit in *4)* To feel better about yourself *5)* To regain power *6)* To have a distraction *7)* To feel closer to others *8)* To hold people accountable

Why are there no positive connotations involved in the video. Nothing in the definition states that gossip is inherently negative; only that it's sharing personal information about somebody other than yourself. Which isn't necessarily negative. For instance, gossip can be about someone's accomplishments. Not knowing and speaking on or knowing and divulging someone's deepest darkest secrets are two sides of the same coin. That being said, I enjoyed this video very much. Informative, entertaining, and best of all, beautifully narrated. I would have liked to see the 'tails' side of said coin. Now, with all that said and out of the way... if I've misspoke or had incorrect Information I apologize. I've been awake for 5 days and honestly didn't research anything. It was just a curiosity of mine and I am in no way hating on anything. Than you for your video, the time and effort spent has not gone unnoticed. Be safe and have a wonderful day!!! Cant wait for the next one :)

I don't like to gossip. I don't like when people gossip about others. If you have a problem with me, say it to my face.

Lol , I almost feel bad for those guys who tries to be first but can't because of us time travelers . *Almost* . Lmao

@elliestras.9336

3 жыл бұрын

Yep😝

@lizziora

3 жыл бұрын

Sksksk Ikr

@lumity.jpeg1

3 жыл бұрын

Lol why does it say your comment was 5 days ago-

@JustCas

3 жыл бұрын

How the heck-

@margelatul2001

3 жыл бұрын

i was first on the replies on their comment tho

The animation's always very cute. Thanks so much! Actually, I don't gossip much, but my besties like to do that too much, hehe. But, if I know the one's they were gossiping about is me, it's okay man, I don't take it too seriously, I know they're my friends only.

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

I'm glad you like it! You have a positive mindset on don't take it seriously. This is a new animation, I hope everyone likes it! - Cindy

Me: Wow I’m none of these *number 8 comes* Me: Oh , yes I love my revenge

@RainbowUnicorn.-.

3 жыл бұрын

Come on, you gotta vent. Sometimes there are scums who really hurt you and letting it off your chest can make you feel better.

I would suggest making a video about how gossip and bullying can hurt other people's emotions.

I usually don't gossip about others, because I couldn't care less about what other people do. Unlike some people, I have a life!

Wow you are uploading videos so often! Thanks💖

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

We are trying our best! - Cindy

Well...there is another reason why it can happen, which isn't talked about in this video. It might just be me but: To get a different perspective on things. I wasn't specifically speaking poorly about the person but rather of a person's behavior and words. I was in cruel need of advice on how to approach the situation in the best way, and I outlined how it frustrated me and where I wanted it to go. It kind of frustrates me to have people validate my emotions when I am more in need of solutions to help both people in that situation. I understand how nice it can be sometimes (for example on personal achievements), but it makes me feel dismissed when I can't seem to see a way out, ask someone because I am aware of previous experiences, or they have been of good advice in the past, and to receive that sort of approach.

#4 big time for me. Just being honest. I largely only do it about people who have put me down in the past so I don’t feel guilty.

One point that wasn't discussed. Gossip sometimes is an effective coping strategy when u are in a family unit/dynamic that has been touched by addiction, or trauma. Many times people struggling with addiction or spinning their tires from trauma tend to lack self awareness, and the respect for people round them b/c they're struggling & are often too blinded by their own problems. .... This puts a ton of stress & anxiety on the people around them. Gossiping sometimes provides an outlet where two or more people can discuss behaviours that need correcting. .... Gossip is usually looked at through a superficial lens which then denies that we are social beings & we require communication, and sometimes learning to cope with difficult situations comes from sharing our own personal experiences. This is the reason group therapy is often so useful. Ie. Addiction support grps, Victims of violence/ murder support grps etc.

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing! You have made a good point - Cindy

@jonathanedward7895

3 жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go Thanks for that, I love this channel- it's an incredible resource for the world to have!!

I'm in a new community leadership role, and people constantly want to tell me gossip. I discourage gossip as soon as I hear it. This weekend, I learned that my reputation in the community is as a very trustworthy person who doesn't tolerate gossip. I intend to keep my well-regarded reputation in this area no matter where my life takes me. Question: how to keep myself from gossiping when I feel under a great deal of stress? Answer: Go for a walk or take a nap.

I often gossop one girl from class because 1. She's taking my friends away for her 2. She made me really angry and I cannot forget that 3. I don't like her

One of the reasons some people gossip is because they're envious of that person's success. Another reason is that there are many people that prefer to gossip rather than get to know that person better or do a small research about the situation or problem.

thank u for showing me this

People have gossiped about me. I gossiped about them right back

I never gossip, AT ALL. But I have talked behind someone's back once. Promised myself I never do it again.

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

Wow, good for you! It's not easy but very important thing to do! What's your strong motivation for doing this? - Cindy

@kenrickbautista6141

3 жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go thanks! And my strong motivation is to try to keep things to myself.

@thatgui88

3 жыл бұрын

I try my best to do this.

best thing to watch before bed :-) your voice is super calming and the animations are so cute T-T

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much :) Glad you enjoyed this video!! What other topics would you like us to talk about next?

@annawithluv

3 жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go hmm maybe topics related to the mind and thinking perhaps? or like faces/sides of us that we show to certain people, etc. :)

I haven't really participated in gossip or been a victim of it and I'm very happy with that.

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

Wow, you're a rare gem! It's never easy. How do you make it happen? - Cindy

Don't start believing that evil and wickedness is POWER. Evil and wickedness will eventually destroy the person.

Ah yes I gossip whenever my sister irritates me. xD

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

Oh no! How does it make you feel? Does this points relatable to you? - Cindy

I was just watching your other videos right before you posted :D

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

Hope you enjoyed it! Which other video were you watching? :) - Cindy

@xCibriz

3 жыл бұрын

@@Psych2goThe "7 signs that your batteling with your inner demon" video :)

Summary- 8 reasons why we gossip 1. To break the ice. 1:06 (Mainly to make small talk and find something to talk about) 2. To stay in the loop. 1:31 (To listen to town gossip to know more about people) 3. To fit in. 1:54 (To be socially accepted) 4. To feel better about yourself. 2:18 (A guilty pleasure) 5. To regain power. 2:48 (Due to jealousy) 6. To have a distraction. 3:17 (To pass time) 7. To feel closer to others. 3:48 (You might do it to ask questions your to afraid to ask your loved ones) 8. To hold other people accountable. 4:15 (To avoid confrontation) You’re welcome. :) I recommend watching the video for more. P.S. I love this animation

Keep your Tongue from evil and your Lips from Lying ...

I'll save this for when a friend of mine starts gossiping.

I despise gossip.

Love this. Can you make a solutions video about this? How can we stop?

People also gossip if someone else they hate gossip about them, my best friend's bully gossiped about my best friend so she started gossiping about her and telling me stuff, but i listen because i think that makes her more happy and better so i listen