Thank you for doing these. I look for these podcasts for any kind of hope and encouragement I can get. I've been trying to get my unfaithful husband to see that his defensiveness is hurting us for 25 years. He still doesn't see it and I've done this entire healing journey alone while dragging him along. I'm exhausted. I love him so much but I'm so tired. I think the analogy of giving the betrayed the weight didn't express the realization that the unfaithful had been busy building up to that weight for years and had time grow into holding up that weight. The betrayed gets it handed to her all at once. I don't think anyone who hasn't been the betrayed actually understand the difference. And the amount of trauma it does to a body. You can't just go lift 300 lbs. Thank you for helping all involved, both the betrayed and unfaithful.

@TheNobleMarriage

9 күн бұрын

I pray for your heart and for your husband’s heart to heal open. You are correct. You can’t drag him along. He will resist and feel controlled and it becomes a parent/ child co- dependent relationship. You work diligently on your heart and relationship with Jesus and be a great example. And let him know you are done trying to control or fix him and you pray he chooses the marriage and chooses you. I hope that is helpful. God bless you.

Forgiveness is not trust

@TheNobleMarriage

3 ай бұрын

You are exactly right! Forgiveness is not trust. Forgiveness is freely given. Trust has to be earned. Thank you for the comment!

Thank you for sharing this. I have hope for my marriage after watching this. I just found out my husband betrayed me a few days ago.

@TheNobleMarriage

Жыл бұрын

I am so sorry to hear this and I’m grateful you found hope in this video. There are many other videos in our channel that may also be helpful for you. I am praying for your healing and grief as you are navigating this season. I also want to encourage you to include God in all of it. He is your source of strength.

@mrs.c5258

Жыл бұрын

Thank you, I appreciate you for taking the time to respond back to me. I give God all the praise in the midst of it all. I know that he will turn it around just like he did for our baby River. About five months ago, our baby boy was hospitalized with meningitis and rhino flu, during that season all i could do, was pray, it was out of my hands. I couldn’t do anything else, but to put God first, he was my strength throughout the whole stay, even now. I am to walk by faith and not by sight, I have my moments, but i dont stay there for long, I am reminded of the miracles he’s done for baby River. To anyone whom is reading I, know God is turning it around. Believe that God has a plan and purpose for everything, the battle has been won. I can wait to share more miracles to come. 🙏🏽

@smashlyyy

9 ай бұрын

Sending you love @mrs.c5258 I am navigating through a similar season. 🤍 Surrendering to God and loving my husband as Christ loves us.

Thank you all for sharing. You are a blessing to me and many others.

@TheNobleMarriage

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for this acknowledgment! We appreciate it so much. God bless you.

I felt the same what's wrong with me shame.

@TheNobleMarriage

6 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing this

8 yrs divorced is there hope?

@TheNobleMarriage

10 ай бұрын

Hey there!! Thanks for your vulnerability!! With God, there is always Hope!! Start with your heart first. Give it to Him. Let God restore your heart first.