100% correct and your never going to be enough for people like this. It's a game to them, that they have to be the winners at all costs. That's the way they see relationships. Self-centered and self-absorb in their own little fantasy...

Trauma bonding is so debilitating. Addiction to an abuser is such a conundrum. You can't explain it to anyone who doesn't know about this. I am starting to act like her. It's so f'd up.

@behindtheshades

25 күн бұрын

these situations are dangerous as many times we don't realize we are in it until we are bonded to the person

@victoriavitoroulis3273

22 күн бұрын

Exactly only ppl who’ve been in a cycle understand what these ppl are really about , the real pandemic

@anitajohnson381

20 күн бұрын

@shawn2350 praying 🙏 for you! I have been in your shoes

It is a big misconception that narcissists do not have friends. I was born into a narcissistic family and married to a covert narcissist and they all had friends who adored them, spoke highly of them. They protect their friendships in order to cement their public image and discredit their targets if needed. There are many different types of narcissists with different and similar behaviors.

@thinkingallowed1st

18 күн бұрын

I agree with your statement. They leave you friendless and isolated. The narcissist has friends to prove they are decent when they actually arent. I say friends loosely because they are really lying to the people who has their backs

I felt this so much. You really be wondering what have you done to be in this situation!!😢. Going through it now. So tired

@behindtheshades

21 күн бұрын

it is an exhausting situation that many of us find ourselves trapped in it without realizing how it happened.

@anitajohnson381

20 күн бұрын

@Encornelious May God Strengthen you!

What a great interview. Stephany did such a good job explaining in detail just how easy it is to fall prey to these demons. Great interview!

@behindtheshades

25 күн бұрын

we are happy you enjoyed it and it was a well needed conversation.

Married 20 years, have autoimmune, PTSD, chronic anxiety and depression, autism, ADHD, degenerative disc disease, and degenerative faucet disease. Appealing LTD and back pay from March 2023, as well as pending SSDI decision. He commented, “if you leave…I’m never gonna see any of that money”. Is he entitled to my disability money if I file for divorce once approved? It will be direct deposit to bank account that is mine alone. Counting on this $ as a way to support myself…

@behindtheshades

21 күн бұрын

That is unfortunate and a difficult situation assistance can be provided to you.

@anitajohnson381

20 күн бұрын

@@sharonvaldez9059 it's your body that is disabled for disabled payments..not his body. It's all your money.

Not completely true! Narcissistic people often marry a Malignant Narcissistic person. ..not always an empath! This has been researched.

Wish the attorney keeps on telling her story and not get interjected with questions or comments that seem very distracting and unnecessarily prolong the clip.