"We need to show men they are lovable, desirable, and not disposable" Right in the feels

@jacobjacob4139

4 жыл бұрын

But, Are we lovable, desirable & not disposable?

@jankotz2264

4 жыл бұрын

@@jacobjacob4139-> yes ; except of course, you'd like to have a completely disharmonious society filled with anger and depression

@JessicaEconomou

4 жыл бұрын

Men are eloquently simple and I love them all❤️

@Mevlinous

4 жыл бұрын

Not only that, but that they are worth a damn, they are important and are needed.

@Qwufi

4 жыл бұрын

@@jacobjacob4139 I am.

This man is 82 at the time of this speech. That alone is impressive. Now he's 84 and still kickin'.

@markdemell8056

4 жыл бұрын

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@turtlesyay8381

4 жыл бұрын

wait what

@josef7461

4 жыл бұрын

Wtf he looks 60

@remybuitenhuis2433

2 жыл бұрын

looks way younger

@redremi83

Жыл бұрын

89 by now.

"When female teachers graded boys and girls, and then you took the names off the papers, the boys grades went up 30%." 16:20

@vikingking71

4 жыл бұрын

I completely believe this and agree but can you post the link

@ajdoyle9559

4 жыл бұрын

What is the source for this and what was the sample size ? How could such a big problem and injustice be allowed if it is definitely occurring ?

@vikingking71

4 жыл бұрын

@@ajdoyle9559 because negative discrimination is only wrong when done to women and minorities

@David-es4pi

4 жыл бұрын

I heard that too and I find that somewhat unbelievable. 30% is staggeringly high

@toplad8113

4 жыл бұрын

@@David-es4pi It really isn't so outlandish to be quite honest. Gender-biases tend to be often high in percentages because they're subconscious and often untold and thus hard to hold people accountable for.

I’m a farther, my sons 12. Just showed him how to wire some 12 volt lights for our lawn tractor. Gonna let him put the same set up of his mini bike. He helps me work on our vehicles, change oil, breaks ect. Works summers helping me frame houses... Just like my dad did with me. People need to listen to this... our children deserve better. I know All of us can work even harder to protect our kids, teach our kids!

@islamwasrightaboutwomen4420

4 жыл бұрын

Hate to be that person but... You spelt Father wrong

@user-fz3ip3ke8p

4 жыл бұрын

@@soonahero u do know the industrial revolution wont be in 10 years when his boy will be 22 and needs to fix his car breaks right? Soyboy

@user-fz3ip3ke8p

4 жыл бұрын

@@soonahero you got some tesla money? Im 18 and just got myself a car for 8k and plan to have it for another 15 years. The future will be alot but it wont be electric

@resolutehd4865

4 жыл бұрын

@@user-fz3ip3ke8p When Uber and smaller taxi depots want to make money, where do they go? Driverless cars, since you don't need to pay the worker. It becomes automated, and jobs are minimized. Truckers and bus drivers will also go through this stage at some point. Retail workers are losing jobs due to Amazon. Lower income jobs are getting replaced, and replaced with work that requires education. Our working class people will suffer 5-20 years from now because they won't have any sustainable income, and because they probably don't have work experience/education, it will be almost impossible for them to ever retire unless changes are made.

@user-fz3ip3ke8p

4 жыл бұрын

@@soonahero lmao bet u cant even drive non automatic

This is truly heart wrenching, especially when you realize that you're part of this group

@DoomStarRequiem

4 жыл бұрын

And that you know what he's saying is true because you've felt it personally.

@5erase

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah I was thinking the same thing

@TheParks13

4 жыл бұрын

So what are you doing to change that? Everything Zimbardo pointed out I experienced it and currently am, however, I've decided to change my outlook on life. I wanted to look good for 'myself' so I decided to work out and eat healthy. I wanted to be more sociable so I stopped playing games and started going out and socializing with women. I was extremely scared of rejection and still am but it's part of life and the faster we cope with it the quicker we can get back to living our lives. Change comes within and sometimes the fear of failing holds us back, but remember you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. Wish you all success and never lose hope in yourselves. 😁👍🏼

@Myspacedotwe

4 жыл бұрын

@@TheParks13 How's it going now man, any updates on your life?

@TheParks13

4 жыл бұрын

@@Myspacedotwe Given that I wrote this a week ago, I'd say pretty good actually. I'm about to get my Bachelor's in Social Psychology and plan to move to Dallas, TX. I'm still going to the gym every day with no excuses and starting to feel good about myself. I have more confidence in approaching women and also learning that it's okay if you get rejected. Not only that, I'm learning to love and respect myself by caring for my body and mental wellbeing. Some days are tough and it's not always sunshine and rainbows but you have to battle through it, you have to learn how to overcome the obstacles life throws your way. You have two options you either feel sorry for yourself and drown in a pit of misery or be the best version of yourself and focus on a brighter future. I hope this brings inspiration to those who read this and really change for 'themselves' and not for somebody else. Nothing good comes easy and everything must be earned in this world but it's doable if you're dedicated enough. Wish everyone success!

Society shuns and rejects men, then wonders why they opt out.

@gina333

6 жыл бұрын

Sad why is society shunning and rejecting you though. Stop blaming others.

@blah4054

6 жыл бұрын

okay, so for the rest of your life never ever say anything about sexism then since you want to tell this person "sad" to stop blaming others.

@flemishtemplar3766

5 жыл бұрын

Just go mgtow and do as i, find peace, serenity and no drama by only working for yourself!! You need to take care of yourself, man!

@huntermoseley86

4 жыл бұрын

Society isn’t shunning it’s more so teaching men the wrong things then once it starts realizing it’s wrong then trying to change it, but these bad habits have been instilled and men then start to form victim complexes because they aren’t willing to change because they were taught not to change.

@theweatherdog1816

4 жыл бұрын

@@huntermoseley86 What planet do you live on?

"You never get rejected" Someone has never played a mmo and tried to talk in general chat.

@SilverSF2

4 жыл бұрын

It is only to be expected that people in chat are indifferent or dude.

@xXTheBl4ckC4tXx

4 жыл бұрын

The game never rejects you, he isn´t talking about people. The game accepts you no matter who you are.

@Buddy420

4 жыл бұрын

Link achievement or no inv

@hypermelon_8654

4 жыл бұрын

Rokas M play classic my dude

@sterix_gg

4 жыл бұрын

@@Buddy420 U need Curve to get Curve 4Head

"I'm here to sound the alarm" *Funny alarm noise* "So anyways were all doomed"

@MrHDin1822

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

At least now I know why I'm depressed: I see myself in almost all of his talking points. yay

@MrNightpwner

4 жыл бұрын

You're projecting. Honestly we all have moments where we come up short. It doesn't define our ability, it hones it. I feel like this guy is just an old man saying generic things. Video must be popular with the mgtows of the world.

@greggeverman5578

4 жыл бұрын

Ahh, there's always hope, buddy! Watching this vid is the first positive step towards getting to a healthy, happy life!

@justanothernerdydude4391

4 жыл бұрын

Digital huggers ACTIVE! *Hug*

@manictiger

4 жыл бұрын

There's no problem so big that suicide can't fix it.

@justanothernerdydude4391

4 жыл бұрын

@@manictiger What about the problem of rising suicide rates amongst young men? Suicide seems to be making that problem worse.

10,000 hours of gaming on average? Thems rookie numbers, lads. We need to step up!

@slayallthedeamons

5 жыл бұрын

No, we don't.

@Rigotto90

5 жыл бұрын

LMBO!!!!

@joes7378

5 жыл бұрын

Bunch of noobs

@shylondonfox9805

4 жыл бұрын

Rookie numbers got to push em higher

@jordonjames84

4 жыл бұрын

lmao did he say 13 hours a week, man thats weak.

“Go into the world” aight imma head out.

@RianeBane

4 жыл бұрын

Ooh, motivational meme. Nice.

@Remtopkiller

4 жыл бұрын

Guys go check Alpha male strategies's channel, it's the solution to every problems listed here.

Me and the boys failing at life

@wenelol

4 жыл бұрын

@@jadenkelly316 No, failing pretty much means not succeeding, giving up and just not being happy with life in general

@TheGabrielPT

4 жыл бұрын

Im failing, my friends aren't. At least I have friends, I guess

@ototurmanidze5578

3 жыл бұрын

yes great meme for that

@f100storys8

3 жыл бұрын

@@wenelol then go fix it, you deserve it.

@salvadoran_uwu

3 жыл бұрын

Yeyy!! D:

Brought tears to my eyes honestly. Made me feel a validation towards being left behind like it's not just some twisted world view. Men and boys really are left behind and considered disposable.

@annatar6453

4 жыл бұрын

Men were always disposable. Back in the day we were left to rot on the battlefield. Now we rot in our parent’s basements.

@AverageAngel

4 жыл бұрын

that's sad that the video brought tears to your eyes. I wishing you the best.

@r.h.f.6073

4 жыл бұрын

i'm sorry if you feel disposable, there would ideally be loving people in your life who show you otherwise.

@mikehillman212

3 жыл бұрын

There is an interesting documentary you might like "The Red Pill". It is honestly sad but might speak to your experience.

@adrianramirez6848

2 жыл бұрын

@@mikehillman212 Plz don't bring them into that sort of stuff

Dating today is tedious and sometimes dangerous with no satisfaction.

@SamY-ig7sd

7 жыл бұрын

How does this comment relate to the issues in the video?

@MYkeyMadeIt

7 жыл бұрын

um... It is a key reason why many would rather game and interact with a machine than an erratic uncontrollable human being. Why chase when it's right in your face? is a primary question in this issue. We like satisfaction be it long or short term. Success and productivity previously inferred that satisfaction awaited one on the other side. With growing evidence that this is not guaranteed in a world that would rather maintain problems to maintain jobs than implement solutions to open space for new jobs and roles, we are starting to think "what is the point? This is all bs..." and start grasping for things which we can start and finish and extract tangible feedback from. We have to have money, time, interest, charm, jump through tons of hoops just for the opportunity to be rejected and/or "two timed" by a confused narcissist or Activate Pornhub and a hand. Without an idealized vision to fight towards with intervals of satisfaction dispersed throughout, digital wins.

@Fguramafia

7 жыл бұрын

Sam Y he is talking on porn. Thats why I mentioned dating.

@metalim

7 жыл бұрын

Don't worry. 1st world population will die out because of shame, equality, tolerance and other social idiocracy. But 3rd world doesn't know such things exist and will gladly take the land. Humanity saved.

@projectjt3149

7 жыл бұрын

except 3rd world countries are becoming first world, cough cough China

"When a boy comes home with bad grades, the mother hugs him and says I love you anyway" lmao whut??

@xXTheBl4ckC4tXx

4 жыл бұрын

@jestersMadhouse I would have kicked my mother and not steal food for her.

@youssefakdim7695

4 жыл бұрын

@@xXTheBl4ckC4tXx i would end up graduating, and find a high income job, and ditch her

@xXTheBl4ckC4tXx

4 жыл бұрын

@jestersMadhouse I was 8-10 at the time shortly before I turned 11 the city got me out of the household. All becouse people noticed I was stealing bread and send the police with me.

@god6384

4 жыл бұрын

lol this is so not true. My mother screamed at me everytime hahahah

@ByValeful

4 жыл бұрын

My mother always did that with my brother so maybe that depends on the mother or the fact that I'm from italy, we excuse a lot here

When women prioritize their own happiness and forging their own path rather than following the role and expectations that society expects of them, we call it "women's liberation." When men do the same, we call it an "epidemic."

@davidbolha

4 жыл бұрын

The Rockefellers brainwashed women in the first place. 🤔

@raccoon_from_heaven

4 жыл бұрын

@@davidbolha brainwashed women? U mean feminists?

@aylbdrmadison1051

4 жыл бұрын

You guys don't even realize you are the subject of this talk. Bigotry is an obvious symptom of this problem, not a cure

@latt.qcd9221

4 жыл бұрын

@@aylbdrmadison1051 Bigotry is a symptom of the problem, for sure. The bigotry is coming from Feminists, however.

@BygoneT

4 жыл бұрын

Problem is, there is no "What society tells them". Because the messages contradict each other. Feminists don't say " Do whatever you want", they say "Do X because it was historically male dominated and it needs to be decolonised". That's not liberation, you just put a new sticker on the tyrant. These days the decent feminists can be counted on a single hand for fuck's sake

teachers biased in grading boys is really harmful. Schools should make it mandatory to grade tests etc. by codes and not names, so the teachers don't know who they're grading.

@ThorstenVXO

7 жыл бұрын

Muhammad Shafiq Where did you go to school?

@monsieurhassan

7 жыл бұрын

+ThorstenVXO not in the US.

@ThorstenVXO

7 жыл бұрын

Muhammad Shafiq I assumed that. Just wanted to know the country, as I always thought it was primarily a Western phenomenon.

@monsieurhassan

7 жыл бұрын

+ThorstenVXO well I keep certain details confidential on the internet for privacy reasons (grew up somewhere in Asia). To answer your concern, I don't think it is necessarily a Western phenomenon. I think boyish boisterousness is punished and villianised in the classroom anywhere because teachers are mostly women. I remember in classes 1-5, the teacher's pet was usually a girl. I was a taciturn and demure child so I was in the good graces of the teachers, but generally boys were labelled as the "bad student". Maybe the remedy is more male teachers in schools, but I think men don't want to be school teachers.

@wenigmehl

7 жыл бұрын

+Muhammad Shafiq After a while they often know the handwriting though :/

The real world is becoming less and less of a worthwhile pursuit. Jobs are harder to get, money is scarce, women have different values... Gaming is an escape from these challenges. The thing is... it's a simple, happy place to be. It is hedonistic. Boys see men divorced or working their asses off to support 3 kids and an ex-wife... and they say 'why'? They fulfil their own desires before those of others. The problem is that while they may be happy working small jobs, living simple lives, and entertaining themselves... it doesn't contribute to society. These boys/men aren't scared. They are happy. Society is scared. The old guard is scared. Things are changing and change scares the status quo.

@scutfarkus8631

8 жыл бұрын

Quite right. I don't think many people can articulate it better than that really.

@TheBadLiutenant

8 жыл бұрын

They are happy, but it's a prolonged adolescence, a selfish and lonely form of superficial happiness. If that's all a person wants to achieve in his life then he never had and never will have much of a life at all. Those things men do makes them feel like men. They work, they make money, they have a purpose, they raise children, they love women, they have friends. They are not hiding in dark rooms gaming and masturbating with noone to have a sensible and deep conversation with, God forbid someone they can form an emotional connection with. Gender roles are changing rapidly and it's hard for men out there, but it doesn't mean it should stop us from making something of ourselves and contributing to the world.

@scutfarkus8631

8 жыл бұрын

TheBadLiutenant What makes a man? A pair of testicles. See how the definition changed? What makes a man feel like a man? Well, not being nagged at by a dumb shallow bitch who is so demanding and immature that she makes a 5 year old ADHD-sugar-rush-crackhead look like a sweetie-pie, that's for sure. These guys work and make money; just enough for themselves. They have a purpose; hedonism behind closed-doors: away from a society that brands them rapists, chauvinists, murdering man-spreading-man-splaining fat lazy bums. Women initiate more divorces, they snatch the kids away from the father, they get more alimony and child support, there are enforced gender quotas which makes it easier for women and girls to get college spaces and jobs, they take more state benefits, they get the lions share of birth control... ...and we as men should contribute to the world??? *_WHY!?!?!?!_* WHAT THE FUCK IS LEFT THAT IS WORTH SAVING??? (except my pornography and video games).

@TheBadLiutenant

8 жыл бұрын

What makes a man? Being mature is one thing, wanting to contribute to the world and to humanity is another. I personally feel like life is worth living if I'm out there, closer to others. Did someone hurt you? A woman? Your mother maybe? You obviously hate women. Maybe we just have different experiences. I had women who hurt me, but I also have women very close to me who love me deeply. I know what betrayal feels like and it's awful and can harm you for life. I've isolated myself before but it's not worth it if I lose out on the life that goes on the outside. The spiritual rewards are much greater. Maybe you cannot imagine it because the most exciting things you have ever seen are behind a computer screen.

@scutfarkus8631

8 жыл бұрын

Well, there we go, it's all subjective. You've clearly had mommy issues, you keep mentioning it (and therefore projecting your experiences onto us). I believe in live and let live, as long as you're not harming anyone else. But the world doesn't work according to our beliefs. The arising of the manosphere and it's ideologies is a natural reaction to what is going on this gynocentric culture. Like the original comment points out, the old guard and society are running scared. These boys are less productive, thus less tax being paid into the system; a system that is rigged against its most prized possession. Why can't women jump to the rescue? They're (supposedly) strong and independent.

"They're isolating themselves in their room" Nowadays more people relate to that than ever :D

Start incorporating trade school into high school as an option, this is where all the male teachers are.

@RatelHBadger

4 жыл бұрын

I teach 9-10 year olds, I have been fortunate enough to incorporate construction and electronics as part of my normal classroom options. Both the boys and girls really respond and love to explore how things work or constructing something new from the bits. I know sadly I'm one of the few teachers able to do this.

@emersonthomas7201

4 жыл бұрын

All male teacher I have had were all high school and above, and they taught; math, physics and graphics.

@randallsmith2521

4 жыл бұрын

@@emersonthomas7201 until I was in Middle School I never saw a male teacher (though I did have a male principals). Like you, my experience was similar. The male teachers taught science, math, computers, or some sort of "trade" course.

@aylbdrmadison1051

4 жыл бұрын

When I was still in school, yes this was long ago ty, we had metal and wood shop classes, music classes, and all sorts of classes that are now long gone along with linguistic literacy. What's failing men most is what is also failing us all most: our public school system has been under attack since the reagan administration. I still remember when arnold became the governator in California. That's the year all these things were stolen away from us. It's always been the conservative agenda to keep the poor downtrodden so the rich can keep getting richer. This is history, not some fake news like half of what we read on the internet today. This is what everyone knew as fact long before the internet. Nothing has changed except their ability to brainwash people has increased dramatically because of the internet. Movements like flat earth are just diversions promoted by the same 1% who only desire your paycheck in their pocket, your home and well being will be taken from you if they can find a way. I repeat: nothing has changed but their increased ability to brainwash people.

@trevorforever242

4 жыл бұрын

they need at elementary level though. We had two male teachers in my entire K-4 elementary school

It is called social programming and it is intentional.

@user-ji1hp

4 жыл бұрын

i agree, i truly believe the government is behind this to enslave the population.

@donovangordon1062

4 жыл бұрын

It's true. The globalists are everywhere and know full well that if they can neutralize or pacify the Male population, conquering the nation in question will be thousands of times easier.

@Splatterpunk_OldNewYork

4 жыл бұрын

A program of demoralization. Insidious really.

@disregardingsanity7005

4 жыл бұрын

Intriguing concept. And it implicates both governmental contribution as much as the private sector/ labour market, and home life.

@MrEdawg74

4 жыл бұрын

Cultural Marxism

So I had a wonderful upbrining, very involved and loving parents, did well in school, played sports for several years, am going to graduate soon from Purdue with a degree in mechanical engineering with a 3.7GPA and a high paying job offer already and after all of this I'm still a complete social failure with no friends and no social skills. What then? Am I just the ass of society? It seemed like all my life I've always been developmentally behind my peers in terms of life experiences and general social awareness. And I've been ridiculed all my life because of it. Even in college, even in the workforce. It feels like I do not fit in anywhere, as if this world was just never meant for someone like me. I've tried improvment; I've gone to counseling, I've worked out to improve my physical health. It never helps. What then is there left for me than the only things that seem to make me happy: video games, porn, etc? People like me are not the kind of people happy people want to be around.

@DeadFishFactory

7 жыл бұрын

Just ignore them. Society shames men into settling down with undateable and unmarriable women because "that's what you're supposed to do".

@AlW3390

7 жыл бұрын

I know exactly what you are talking about! I can relate to you in absolute terms. And I spent a tremendous amount of time and energy and resources to figure out why the heck this is?!!! I used to be very confused because I used to think that being an smart (above average, but not genious level) well-educated and accomplished individual should be an evolutionary advantage. I thought girls should be competing for me rather than running away from me. So why the heck the opposite seems to be true?!!! Long story short, the opposite is true because most of the rest of the population are afraid of and weirded out by smart intellectual people and this anti-intellectualism runs very deep in their genes. Langauage and Intellect parts of the brain is the pre-frontal cortex part of the brain. It is the newest part of outer brain that in only a few million years old. Most people mainly operate based on older part of their brains, the mid brain (mammalian brain) and the deep brain (reptilian brain). It is more about body language to them than using actual words. And when you think, many of them get a feeling of fear and want to run away. You are too detailed and way too "heady" for them to enjoy and be around. If you want to read books about why this is, I can recommend "The intelligence Paradox" by Satoshi Kanasawa and "Prometheus Rising" by Robert Anton Wilson. But understanding the problem does not help you much to get rid of it. In order to bypass the problem you will need to learn to "be present". "Be present" means to simply be here right now and do nothing. Specially do not think, and do not say anything that is makes any sense in intellectual ways, at least until after you get laid for the first time with a girl. And for American, being able to make and maintain eye contact and being comfortable doing so for prolonged period of time is a very key skill you will need to learn. In USA, no eye contact = NO SEX There is not a lot of new or more things you need to learn to do. If anything, you need to do less. Be less of an smart intellectual person when you want to relate and reproduce. I am not joking with you or messing with you. This is probably the best advice you can get on this topic because nobody else is talking about this. I could not learn to "be present" by reading books. It is a practical matter. I learned it by going to workshops by the Human Awareness Institute (or HAI for short). Here is their mission statement: w15.hai.org/mission-and-values/ It is a most wonderful organization with amazingly kind and supportive people and they create an absolutely safe environment for you to learn and prosper. I guarantee you that! There is a lot of making eye contact, hugging, and listening knowing very well that all you have to do is just listen and no say anything (the concept is known as "holding space"). Other interesting things are learned which are hard to explain. Things such as feeling a member of a community. The only way I cam make sense of it for you is this: You also have the same "Mammalian" and "Reptilian" brain circuits. You just don't pay attention to them and don't use them as much as your intellectual part of your brain gives you so much power and predictability and control over the world. At HAI workshops you learn to "be present" for prolonged periods of time and you don't really need to think. You just sit there and make eye contact and listen. It is like a form of meditation except others are involved. And then the next time you sit with a girl or girl you just tap into those skills and things just works out. You will always stay an intellectual. But this will help you exercise and use the other parts of your brain which you don't get to use as much. And it is those parts of their brains which others use to relate and start and maintain relationships. Trust me on this! Go and sign up for HAI Level 1. It will change your life for better. P.S. Yes HAI is a "Love, Intimacy, and Sexuality" workshop and it is "clothing optional". All of that sounds scary to you right now. And that's because that is the area where you need to stretch. Right at the edge of your comfort zone is where growth happens and HAI is great at helping you go there at your own pace in a very safe environment. HAI is absolutely safe. Their first rule is "being at choice" and their second rule is "getting verbal consent for everything" which you naturally operate on anyways. Nobody is forced to do anything they don't want. Trust me on this! Just go! :-) P.S.S. HAI is a global organization...

@Spartan8471

7 жыл бұрын

You just haven't been integrated into society. Develop social skills

@TravistheGREAT03

7 жыл бұрын

Very involved very loving parents? Sounds liek your parents fucked up your puberty socilization face by not letting yo go enough

@alexanderwhitehorse8934

7 жыл бұрын

This is an amazing point.

"Men isolate themselves from the world. The solution? Go into the world." Nah, I'm good fam.

@quinnschofield6714

4 жыл бұрын

Lucas Kirkpatrick I'd sooner die than willingly go outside

@ribriddler8114

4 жыл бұрын

@@quinnschofield6714 this is a uncertified unhood moment

@darkdarticanic362

4 жыл бұрын

Its more like find a society that accepts you, which is very hard haha. I recommend youth clubs or volunteering.

@Joyboy0101

4 жыл бұрын

@@darkdarticanic362 What is it about you that it doesnt accept?

@thomascook3336

4 жыл бұрын

@@Joyboy0101 men are not accepted in western society anymore. That is why they decide to join patriarchal religions like islam.

*Make learning competitive and watch how quickly boys will get involved.* I remember in high school, a teacher of mine would host a trivia game in class with buzzers. I won a few times and he asked me to be on the academic team that he coached. I didn't accept, but I was flattered. I still remember the feeling of accomplishment from that. Seriously, bring back competitive games in class, student rankings, rewards, etc. and boys will get into it. Also, bring back P.E. and recess. It's insane how many schools got rid of gym class and recess. Boys NEED these things to thrive.

@OnlyOneHunnids

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly, i'm a competitive guy, always work in trivia games, go as far as cheating to win lol. School system is broken, the teachers don't want men to win and train them to be bitches... They want school to be boring so people learn to be obedient and feminine. They don't want real men like us, because we are a risk to society, we're masculine we gonna take risks to win at all costs, they don't wanna see us win. Slavery is still alive, but today's world is enslaving men mentally rather than physically. We gotta reject their values and rebel against the people trying to enslave our kind.

@blondiepianist

11 ай бұрын

Yes! There's a reason that the phrase "healthy competition" exists, and it's not just pertaining to the business world. And in regards to PE and recess, yes! Movement, exercise, and sunlight are life. When you take those away, why should we be surprised that kids struggle more mentally and physically?

He described my entire life problems in 25mins. This guy deserve too much respect for his awesome thinking and he is obviously a hard working old man.

He made one point that I really connected with which is you have to earn respect from your dad unlike your mum. I used to have to do this during my childhood but since my teens I haven't seen my farther so I haven't had to earn his respect which I can honestly say has stopped me from pushing myself academically.

@SirenVosa

7 жыл бұрын

I thought it was a weird point because my experience was exactly the opposite. It's hard for me to imagine your situation.

@jotey5129

4 жыл бұрын

Declan I agree with you completely. Same here

I'm 21 and Dr. Zimbardo basically summed up what my life has looked like for the last 10 years or so. I'm so grateful that I've finally been enlightened in these last few months to realize what in the world was wrong with me. I felt so awkward and out of place as a young man. I've been making major life adjustments and directing my life on a much healthier path now.

Every teacher I've ever had would always joke about how girls are smarter then the boys Of course it was just a silly joke but it still kinda hurt :/

@jesuschrist7816

4 жыл бұрын

^😂

@tcsan93

4 жыл бұрын

No, No. He's Got a Point.

@cringeyidiotterry

4 жыл бұрын

With all dues to respect bro, it's best to simply ignore that, or just chuckle about it. My CAP Squadron's drill team commander once said that while briefing us, just before he also said that girls have lower PT(exercise) standards than boys, and longer times to finish running a mile because they don't workout as well, pretty much inferring to how boys tend to be physically stronger than girls.

@johnathant6735

4 жыл бұрын

Pork Sœda Those teachers are idiots. They are directly playing into “stereotype threat”. By adding a stereotype and making it known, these teachers will indirectly cause boys to perform worse. Shame on them.

@kallepikku4991

4 жыл бұрын

They are saying that because they are afraid that by saying anything else they'll lose their jobs. In both our middle school and high school classes boys usually graded better than girls in mathematics and science courses, yet girls got all the praise and support. On the other hand girls generally scored better in languages, and the teacher made casual remarks like "girls are smarter than boys in everything".

Boomers are experts at both creating and highlighting problems with our generation and at the same time offering no solutions

@exist7415

4 жыл бұрын

Many were our dads that walked away and winder why we don't listen to them or respect them

@holdenhughes

4 жыл бұрын

Did you not see the solutions he offered at the end?

@CoachKussenVuist

4 жыл бұрын

Oh quit blaming everyone and expecting others to solve your problems. The boomers had their own struggles as you have yours.

@JimmyFucker

4 жыл бұрын

But this one boomer has actually offered a solution

@brunobmrf

4 жыл бұрын

Charles watch at 17:40

The problem isn't men or women. The problem is people no longer have values. Things like justice, judgment, dependability, Integrity, dedication, tact, initiative, endurance, bearing, unselfishness courage, knowledge, enthusiasm, honor, courage, and commitment no longer mean anything and society is suffering for it.

@huntermoseley86

4 жыл бұрын

These values are superficial and never existed in the first place

@huntermoseley86

4 жыл бұрын

Trevor Sedis Because fathers are 9 times out of 10 the reason why a marriage doesn’t work

@JCobesV2

4 жыл бұрын

Beautifully said. This is the comment that should shine above all the rest yet won’t. I was talking to a fella about the same stuff tonight. Its all about what we value as a whole and we have been valuing the wrong behavior for too long. Its now catching up but people refuse to admit a simple truth.

@unboundedinc7446

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you the Game👌

@jessiestienstra6350

4 жыл бұрын

@@huntermoseley86 where is your statistic where does that come from or did you just make that up

This man speaks about men needing to man up and become "heroes". Basically he speaks about men taking up responsibility and accountability without getting any benefits for those sacrifices. Because the benefits are reserved to be enjoyed by women. You can't have men going to wars, devoting their lives to work and productivity and take the incentives from them to do that. This society is not giving men motivation to do that. In history, in a society with traditional values men just needed to be responsible and work hard, and they basically had a guarantee that they can get married with a quality woman who did value him as a man and his sacrifices and gives him authority for taking on the responsibilities that he took on. Boys today are taught that they are below girls, school systems are skewed to be more suitable for girls. Young women treat you average men like they don't exist, and are giving their attention to the select few men that fill their narrow attractiveness standards.

@tabbypanda82

4 жыл бұрын

@@hugrid9647 I AGREE WITH YOU. 🙌

@ExitStrategies

4 жыл бұрын

Tinder is basically just a buffet for femoids at this point tbh. They treat men like prostitutes.

@Punkpsychobilly

4 жыл бұрын

@guliteorm. I don’t know where to even start on your completely idiotic post. Do you honestly believe that? You got problems.

@Treman198

4 жыл бұрын

guliteorm Modern Schools are cesspools of feminism and standardized testing breeds group think and a hive mind mentality, which is how most women think. Plus with the VAST majority of teachers being women, they have a bias towards female students and most male students don’t have the same respect for their female teachers, as they would with male teachers. You can’t expect men to grow up to be strong men when they have no strong male role models in their lives and they have bitter mothers/teachers telling them what’s right and wrong.

@deepalijoshi4631

4 жыл бұрын

@@hugrid9647 more and more women are now rising to positions of power which is why they go for men who are equally or more powerful than them. They no longer go for the average men anymore. "And yet, when there are problems, suddenly it's the fault of all society including women": Tell me this was a joke and I am supposed to laugh Your last argument that the school systems aren't suitable for anyone contradicts the fact that more and more men are opting out of unis and more and more boys are not going to schools to get an education while there is seen an increase in women being admitted to schools and unis

Maybe the reason we prefer online interaction is that we aren’t instantly hit with a 50 megaton bomb worth of anxiety and not told how to deal with it.

@findinnen8970

3 жыл бұрын

69th like on that comment... nice

@nomadsland8322

2 жыл бұрын

“50 ton mega bomb of anxiety” I usually say I “turn into a fleshy and anxious pile of mush” but I think I like yours more now lmao thanks.

i never realized this until just now, but it wasn't until middle school that i had my first male teacher.

@condew6103

7 жыл бұрын

Yes. Women make a big deal about getting into formerly male-dominated jobs like engineering. But nobody seems to see anything wrong with continuing to exclude men from woman-dominated jobs like elementary school teaching. Where's the "affirmative action" when men are discriminated against?

@miguelpereira9859

4 жыл бұрын

@@condew6103 I doubt many men want to be elementary teachers, like women don't want to be software engineers

@xXTheBl4ckC4tXx

4 жыл бұрын

My maths teacher has allways been male, and my enviromental teacher too, everything else has allways been female.... I went to 3 different schools....

@kylebennett4196

4 жыл бұрын

Yes me too

@jc3teacher265

4 жыл бұрын

I am the only male teacher in my elementary school. Third year in a row!

Dont feel bad kings!!! Treat yourselves!

@nadirwoodson9321

3 жыл бұрын

thank you I truly appreciate it I hope you have a great day

@jeromeunder1421

3 жыл бұрын

No, do not treat yourselves. you need to prove everyone else wrong, you need to prove your teachers wrong. You need to aim for the highest score and everytime you fall short, you keep working to that goal.

@ahiezzehd221

2 жыл бұрын

@@jeromeunder1421 Thing is, is that they wore themselves out trying to do exactly what you described.

I tend to feel video games are not the cause of the problem but a by product of the problem.

@myguy4691

4 жыл бұрын

Yea but sadly people dont get to the bottom of the issue

@V1CCZ3XX

4 жыл бұрын

Agreed. People love finding scapegoats for everything. This type of ted talk should be on TV and discussed more, but what do we get instead? Bs news that boil down to nothing more than "kids these days". Women can be and are still oppressed, especially in lesser developed countries, and their so called liberation and emancipation movement is far from reaching its full potential. It's a lot to discuss here but let's just leave it at both genders have their issues, but honestly, why don't we see this type of discourse more in the media (or am I just not watching the right media)?

@illusionaryphantom3470

3 жыл бұрын

Videogames as a means for escapism is the symptom, not the cause. I was on that boat in my childhood and I still play today. Except now I play for the same reason I watch movies or read books: I appreciate it as an art.

@nadirwoodson9321

3 жыл бұрын

@@V1CCZ3XX no You won't find this type of discussion in any media and if you do it's a 1 minute special

@megauser8512

2 жыл бұрын

Yep!

For most boys these days, it's either play games all day, or live and keep thinking about how your life is miserable, which essentially brings you back to playing games.

"Schools need to teach kids life skills" I grew up in a liberal school district in the valley where all of our englishes classes in hs talked about microagressions and how straight white men are bad for all 3 years (went from 10th to 12th) I wish we had spent time learning to write essays instead of being told how to not offend people, something i amd anybody with half a brain already knew how to fo.

@2nooby2idol90

4 жыл бұрын

Instead of gaining you probably loss brain cells from a class like that.

@BygoneT

4 жыл бұрын

How does a school like that stay open? I am glad I live in Europe.

@is_koolboi5132

4 жыл бұрын

Rip

@kingtreedede7303

4 жыл бұрын

Marvelous Quasar Pork Man Europe gang To bad article 13 is gonna delete my existence

@shadowling77777

4 жыл бұрын

I feel so sorry for you zoomers You can help us call out these crazy Marxist ideologues and save the U.S

In college one of my professors was praising all the women in my class and pretty much "insulted" all the guys as to why the men in the class arent reaching the womens level. I wanted to walk out of the class, but I had to "man up and take it". The professor was a man btw.

@nsptech9773

3 жыл бұрын

Just show them what you are capable of... let them know what we men can do..

@andrewchavez5455

3 жыл бұрын

That’s ridiculous.

@MrDust2011

2 жыл бұрын

Dude I have seen this before. Some real silly stuff.

@ellycelly5278

2 жыл бұрын

Probs because that teacher wanted to get into the girls pants

Watching this whole thing like yes, uh-huh, yes I've been there, ok I'm still there yeah, alright---alright---All...RIGHT. Annnnddd what's the fix? Oh, try again with the next generation? damn.

@deleanor9665

4 жыл бұрын

The Lejund LOL

@cast897

4 жыл бұрын

The answer comes... You just have to be aware about the problem It just comes...

@Cubelarooso

3 жыл бұрын

The next generation will have all the problems we give them. Procreation is child abuse.

@classydays43

3 жыл бұрын

@@Cubelarooso so we'll become the second Boomers. 😞

@stephenc2481

3 жыл бұрын

change your situation and things will change for you. You have recognized your situation. Now, do something about it. Try doing things differently. Put out some effort. Reach out to counselor, preacher, neighbor, friend, or some community leader for advice.

Honestly, this is exactly how I was, I met my wife at my old work and she changed everything. Guys, I’m the most shallow of us all. Believe me when I say this, you’re good enough 👍👌

@Favoki

4 жыл бұрын

yeah, if you're lucky enough to find someone with low standards xd

@CivicKideZ

4 жыл бұрын

Noodle Bandit sounds about right

Ironically I'm playing a video game as I listen to this

@MegaJimbob125

4 жыл бұрын

Get off it lad and create a better world for us all in the real world

@MindDrip

4 жыл бұрын

@@MegaJimbob125 That's my purpose with my videos

@shadowboxing1729

4 жыл бұрын

Theres a kid, or many kids that would create a game and sell it for $1 to One Million people, which made him a millionaire. Think about that older generations

I heard a lot of “we need to...”. But the speaker forgot something: we need to change family courts.

10.000 hours spent on games by 21 ? rookie numbers.

@XxRoseBudsAJPWxX

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah. What a bunch of noobs. xD

You cant fully expect me to turn to the world when its turned it's back on me

@dru4670

4 жыл бұрын

You almost say it like someone should be sorry 😂

@davidthosome623

3 жыл бұрын

@@dru4670 can you blame him? I'm sure every man has felt at least a few things this speaker talked about in their lives. Hes not alone.

@theheat903

3 жыл бұрын

@@davidthosome623 the world never turn its back against anyone, certain groups, certain people do. There are always people who need you. Remember, these times will not make every man weaker, some will be stronger because of these challenges.

@nadirwoodson9321

3 жыл бұрын

@@davidthosome623 all* most men have felt almost all of the things this speaker has said

Imo, the schooling system is one of the largest factors in this.

@sexypianonotes6212

4 жыл бұрын

joe i agree. Most of the school systems literally everywhere are faulty for that.

@caralho5237

2 жыл бұрын

Bunch of losers spoonfeed you useless knowledge, then ask you questions and force you to answer them If you dont, you may never get to have a stable job

It's actually scary how accurately this describes my life as a 20 year old male. and how its been for a long time.

Real world is becoming more and more depressing to men thats why they are escaping in virtual world.

@9k111

3 жыл бұрын

me and the boys playing arma instead of doing good in school

@jeannedarc7533

3 жыл бұрын

As a 15 y.o, this comment is extremely relatable lmao

Either this man told me what I wanted to hear, or what I needed to hear. But after watching the video, I feel as if my life has been understood by someone other than myself for the first time. Constantly on the internet alone, an emotionally unavailable father giving me external motivation to succeed (which I did), an unconditionally loving mother, and essentially in the "pleasure/pain mode" for a ton of time. That's my life.

thank god this is finally being said. God, how long has it been guys? All our lives?

@rsriddel

4 жыл бұрын

@A human being I remember we began noticing that teachers didn't like boys in grade school....15 years ago

@deepalijoshi4631

4 жыл бұрын

I am sorry you had to go through this. Hang in there. Egalitarianism is on the rise.

The main reason for me as to why I refuse to contribute to society is the lack of quality women. Why would I want to get a steady job to support my wife if she's more likely to be disloyal than in any other era? Back in the day the majority of young women were virgins, but with feminism on the rise most of them confuse promiscuity with freedom. Men indulging in video games and porn isn't a cause, it's an effect.

@Noelle_S.

7 жыл бұрын

this 100%

@hellajeff5613

7 жыл бұрын

Tea Dawg this is very true, many men see video games as an escape, and women still trying to complain that it isnt "inclusive" enough.

@coitusinterruptus1180

7 жыл бұрын

This is why feminism is a thing.

@coitusinterruptus1180

7 жыл бұрын

HAHAHAHAHA. Of course, my dear inquisitor.

@andrewoakley737

7 жыл бұрын

Our society has a major problem with victimizing ourselves. We need to stop placing blame and accept the consequences of our reality.

I watched this man's educational videos in Psychology class in high school. I always thought he was so cool, and he was simply the best educator on the topics. It really gave me more motivation to want to purse Psychology. Thank you Dr. Philip Zimbardo

The sad part is that the video was published 4 years ago but nothing changed for the better, it only got worse.

I'm so lucky to have a father who pushes me to do my best. He's taught me moral values, introduced me to Scouting, and he supports my choral, math and science hobbies. I work out pretty regularly, I've done All-State Choir for 2 years, and I am 2 grades above my usual math level. I've been learning so many leadership and moral skills from Boy Scouts and plan to get my Eagle. Love you dad

This man just summed up my entire life and I don't know if i should be ashamed or say thank you.

How is no one talking about this guy being behind the Stanford prison experiment?

@Michael-td7hg

4 жыл бұрын

Haha right enough

@knote4958

4 жыл бұрын

To be fair, that experiment was the first to really bring major insight into how environment conditions behaviors, and he himself was amazed in how he began to act (and was unaware of it the whole time)

@notlikely4468

4 жыл бұрын

@@knote4958 Umm..it didn't prove anything... It was a terrible experiment What was his independant variable...chaos? We did things...other things happened...we don't why...we don't know if we could replicate the results But we can explain the out comes thus.... That's pretty weak science Millgram (by comparison) tested and retested his hypothesis...taller male athourity figure....white coat....in the room...different promps...different groups Each trial changed a single variable evaluated against subject performance Each trial called it's shots...if we put the subject in the room with their "trainee"...compliance should decrease...it will require more frequent and stronger prompts to acheive obedience That's science... See the difference?

@knote4958

4 жыл бұрын

@@notlikely4468 1) You need to settle down a bit, no need to go on the offensive 2) I was saying that despite scientific procedures (or lack thereof), or the intended hypothesis being tested, it was enlightening in what transpired during the experiment. I'm not saying the experiment was a positive one given its effect on the participants' psychology, however there's always something to learn even from a negative outcome

@blackmarketarmy

4 жыл бұрын

@@knote4958 Agreed, ethically questionable, but extremely important insight on role behavior. 'not likely' definitely needs to chill and realize that observational studies still have merit when studying social environments. Sure it's nice at times to control for more variables but humans don't live in labs therefore it can be beneficial to have less things controlled.

the way society is going is very sad. very sad, the relationship between men and women. If this continues, in as little as 10 years, this will be a disaster.

@mikesteelheart

4 жыл бұрын

It's already been a disaster for a long while. It's exponentially become more of a disaster each decade since the industrial revolution, and that accelerated in the 60's to the train wreck we see today.

@SerenityNow331

4 жыл бұрын

Nope... Forget 10 years. It's already a catastrophe. The scariest part is we haven't seen anything yet. But since you've mentioned a 10-year time frame, I predict a suicide pandemic, much lower marriage rates & birthrates as well as an increase in attacks committed by incels. I realize this may all sound like an exaggeration but let me ask you this. Did you predict this current state between men & women say 20 years ago? I sure didn't. Like a lot of kids growing up, I had dreams of marriage & starting a family of my own. Somehow, that didn't happen. I'm almost 40 and stopped trying. It's just too much energy being wasted at this point. I know I'm not the only one as the majority of my friends are in the same boat.

@kenvuaturmikszgep6362

4 жыл бұрын

@@SerenityNow331 Interesting idea. So evolution still find a way to get rid of useless men population if there is no wars.

@davidbolha

4 жыл бұрын

Less. 🤔

@SerenityNow331

4 жыл бұрын

@@kenvuaturmikszgep6362 Yeah, you could look at it that way my NPC friend. When you'll drop the "Alpha act", will you at least acknowledge that there is a serious problem right now between men & women? Say what you'll want about me, that's fine. Will you be saying the same thing to your children? To your son who's vilified? Or to your daughter who will grow up thinking the worst of men? Maybe I didn't get the point across in my last post. This has nothing to do with "useless" men or women but an attack on the family unit.

nearly all of my friends are like this. i'm almost exactly this way its sad, and honestly i fear what the future will hold for men myself and society.

@BNK2442

4 жыл бұрын

I wish I had friends like this. All my ex friends did was playing sports and going to party to get girls. It is the main reason I don't talk with them anymore. =-/

@brandontietje5421

4 жыл бұрын

@@BNK2442 I mean it's good that they were out doing things. Some of my friends just sit around and some like to go out and some are balanced

I have a 3 year old boy, he lives with his mother and I arrange to have him as often as I can every week. I talk to him and ask him questions and i want answers, you have to talk to your boys I tell him my experiences in situations , he doesn't understand but i can see he is listening. The best advice I give him is to listen and not react. But then again he is 3 and I hope our conversations become deeper as he gets older and I can share with him so he doesn't make the mistakes I made in life.

@animateme9843

2 жыл бұрын

Wow ,as a girl i will also follow this.

"I'm living in a world of fantasy Reality ain't meant or made for me"

@wingsofpurityofficial4031

4 жыл бұрын

@@buschfelix4723 Yay! Someone got it

Don't kid yourselves... Humanity failed already. So many saw this coming as far back as the seventies and we still couldn't stop it. We are being steered into this paradigm and nothing can stop it because the masters of this world want it this way and people love their toys and sadness.

@jimsmith9853

4 жыл бұрын

It is the New World Order. Resistance is futile. You will be assimilated.

@ibetternotseeyousimp556

4 жыл бұрын

Technology is advancing at an alarming rate and people are becoming too materialized

@shinski8114

4 жыл бұрын

then fight back with force

@brunoschoelkopf9174

4 жыл бұрын

@@shinski8114 the enemy is invisible

@envinyatar5712

3 жыл бұрын

I don't know about humanity. The West, however; has definitely failed and will fall within a century.

This video is so realistic I'm 21 years old and I confirm everything he said. Porn and game addiction is real and it's taking a big part in our life. Same as negative stuff that comes with it.

@Onestrangebrain

5 жыл бұрын

Men are waking up!

@cilantro_4839

4 жыл бұрын

@@Frozenanimeskelett I think that's why video games are so addicting. Instant rewards with very low risk. Life is full of risks. So video games are a safer option. I'm not against video games, because honestly a lot of people play them happily without issues.

@FrostmourneFK

4 жыл бұрын

@@Frozenanimeskelett The waking up is realizing that just because gaming feels good and is transiently rewarding doesn't grant a gamer a meaningful existance. You are depressed because when you turn the game off you have nothing in your life worth fighting your demons for. This isn't a criticism, this is the inevitable consequence of addiction, as the orator stated in the presentation. I was very nearly a victim to this mentality, sacrificing everything for the hours and hours I would play games when I was young... and then I also had people around me that were concerned about me. I'm very lucky for that, as they would not let me be. If they noticed I had wasted a day gaming they would tell me about it and not let me sink back into it. I was whipped around the house doing chores and cleaning until I was too tired to play the game without falling asleep. When I woke up the next morning the whole house was clean because... I cleaned it. It was always a much better feeling than anything I got from Starcraft or Half-Life or Fallout. Whenever I start on my downward spiral anymore the guilt from the meaningful activities I'm shirking to play around weighs heavily on my conscience and I can't enjoy the game. It's much more rewarding to live in the real world, as scary as it is. The risk out here has a true affect on your life. It'll hinder your ability to play if it goes wrong, and you know you don t want that... but the payoff for success is so much better than any feeling I ever got from playing a game. Beating a game is an empty feeling when compared to the joy that comes from working on your car, or cleaning your house, rewiring the basement, etc. It's time to wake up, brother. As much as you might hate to admit it, as much as you'll fight me, you know it's true.

@FrostmourneFK

4 жыл бұрын

@@Frozenanimeskelett I get what you're saying though. Sorry about the mind dump.

@cilantro_4839

4 жыл бұрын

@Yami Kibou There have been studies done on this. When you win in a game, your brain gets a rush of dopamine. That is the reward I am talking about.

I am 14 and everything he is saying is true. I have been making efforts to change and even decided to get a flip phone so I can learn social skills as well as working out everyday. I can say if your watching this in my old position.(overweight and depressed) make small goals and slowly get the confidence to change your life.

I am addicted to TEDX, once i watch a video,i cant stop till i have watched all of them, and thank u tedx because i am learning a lot from you, greetings from europe

Excellent presentation! Thank you for putting soo much work into this Philip Zimbardo.

No matter how old Zimbardo gets, his goatee remains the same age.

@usererror7007

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah, late nineties

This sounds more like society is failing men than men failing society.

@enesjamal6579

8 ай бұрын

The same society created by men right?😅

Hits hard knowing I'm part of those statistics, I think my escape to the internet and video games world began in my childhood because I was often told to "man up" and they didn't want me to cry hence repressing my emotions and also I never felt like they gave me uncondicional love

''men have to turn on people'' alright who wants to see my anime collection? ;)

@BNK2442

4 жыл бұрын

Why I don't have any weabo friends? All my friends were idiots who didn't shut up about how many girls they picked up and how cool was the game yesterday. It is the reason I stopped talking with them.

@MN-dd2mx

4 жыл бұрын

Enter Name Me.. 🙂

@Pikasatupu75

4 жыл бұрын

@@BNK2442 lol can we switch friends? My friend is a weeb and I am looking for a gamer friend.

@Purpial

3 жыл бұрын

Did this guy ever share his anime list lmao

Men, you are valuable. You are loved, you are needed. Every person is valuable, it isn't divided by gender. Man or woman, it doesn't matter. Everyone at the end of the day is human, and we have the precious opportunity to be living in this world full of beautiful things. It obviously isn't perfect, no, it has a lots of ups and downs, but, we are all human at the end of the day and we are able to change things for the better. Talk to each other, be kind, support others. If you feel like it isn't worth, or, "that has no way of helping anyone", just imagine for a second how much you needed to hear those words at some point and how you can make a positive impact in the life of others just by showing how you care for them. Some people might think wrong, but, on the other hand, you can make a difference in the day of a person, the week, or even the life. Take care and have a great day! (Btw, sorry for my English, it obviously shows that it isn't my first language, I hope it isn't to difficult to read lol)

Show this to girls and most of them will dismiss it and say man up

@nadinemorcos7028

4 жыл бұрын

Not all of them.

@roca967

4 жыл бұрын

Or, as I saw in a turd of a comment floating around here, revel in a sense of revenge for the highly dubious idea that men have oppressed women for all of recorded history. This particular person even reaches into the archaeological record, wanting 250 thousand years of revenge on men to get even, lol!

@itiswhatitis_842

4 жыл бұрын

I'm a girl, I don't feel men need to man up. I want to help men after this video.

@antonmanu5817

4 жыл бұрын

@@itiswhatitis_842 and i appreciate that

@HiankoWillem

3 жыл бұрын

@@itiswhatitis_842 Same, I feel bad for them. I would just want for every man that is reading this to know: You are valuable, you are loved, and you are not simply disposable like other comments are saying.

i remember that in university i had an assigment, its theme was '' quality management of honey'', and there were a group of girls that had the same assigment. while i wrote and explained exactly what the title suggested, ''quality management'' and having written almost 50 pages more, the girls team where graded higher even being out of the subject. their 45 page assigment was only quoting the quality of honey and nothing about management, yet they scored higher even when their assigment was half complete.

@piratekingthethtaroo

4 ай бұрын

Why did that happen?

@piratekingthethtaroo

4 ай бұрын

Right

@user-du6op6qx5s

4 ай бұрын

@piratekingthethtaroo because , everything must be a lot easier for women. We even see it in court rooms. Women have more lenient sentences than than men. In my country they don't even convict a woman, specially when family matters like divorces and custodies. 100% of men loose custody of their children only to be completely phased out from their ex spouses, and loose touch with their children. No woman is convicted for that. In school they always enjoy better grades without even trying harder. They demand ceo positions not by skills but by percentage.

@piratekingthethtaroo

4 ай бұрын

@@user-du6op6qx5s That sucks. But aye don't hate on women or anyone, hate the system and find ways in which you can improve it. That's the only right way to go about it. You do your best to improve yourself and the world around you, I will too! Best of luck to you!😁

Let's just take a moment to notice that this was recorded in 2015. Who would imagine back then...

If I'm working 11 hours a day at 2 separate jobs and I use all my money funding a business project am I allowed 1 hour of video games a day? Plz?

@aaronkottke2518

4 жыл бұрын

I eat bowls of cigarettes for breakfast no! Back to the assembly line with you.

@heckinchonker577

4 жыл бұрын

Aaron Kottke I only eat ramen noodles and work 9hrs a day for only 7 dollars an hour

@trevorforever242

4 жыл бұрын

definitely!

@vansserafim

4 жыл бұрын

Aaron Kottke no one talked about people like you. Of course you are allowed. In fact there should be more men like u. No time to be depressed and you create a business

@middleagemoto

4 жыл бұрын

Fuk yeah you are. And with your work ethic, and entrepreneriul spirit, youre destined for sucesess

Even watching this video makes me hopeless because i know those changes this man is talking about arent going to happen until a few decades later... or never. Even the fact that this video was made YEARS ago and nothing really changed, he is literally telling the story of my life in 25 minutes or less.

@kittycatrina1861

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah, i mean we can complain about our society all we want but nothings really going to change. Both sides are going to feel like a victim, and wish for a better future, but just look at the rest of our history.

7 years on youtube and not even 1 million views, share this video whit the boys of your life/family, and put a little somthing "to make the world better for everyone"

Damn bro *We be living in a society*

@Dennell_Mount_and_Blade

4 жыл бұрын

This gets me not sure why

@mcchicken4483

4 жыл бұрын

gamers rise up

@liltunturi1251

4 жыл бұрын

more like trying to survive in a society

I tried to find a woman. All I got was expectations, expectations, expectations... Not to mention that I was rejected 90% of the time. I gave up on finding a girlfriend. I am in my 30s. MGTOW for life.

@tcsan93

4 жыл бұрын

I asked women the question How a good relationship look like do you think? -The guy should be like this,like that,like this,like that and if the guy like this like that then the relationship can work :D was the answer most of the cases. What could be the problem here?

@thenorthbear2445

3 жыл бұрын

be your own man.. walk through this life alone.. but in that time alone better yourself the whole time

@Jay-og4yb

3 жыл бұрын

Sounds like you're mgtow But not by your own choice lmao

It's because our society and culture is falling apart. Nothing left to care about.

@thenorthbear2445

3 жыл бұрын

ya your right

im so glad so many people actually cared to pay attention to this

Sense of purpose and direction in life was a struggle when I was younger. Once got an apprenticeship I gradually played less games but the games weren't the cause - I was looking for purpose and a form of escapism from the stress. I did loads of cycling and other hobbies as well. Give boys a sense of purpose and they will go for it.

For the boys and men out there, if this can helps anyone don't get into this victimisation confort zone backed up by some statistics. If you want to accomplish something, don't let anything to hold you back, go for it, be smarter, stronger, sharp your skills, read more, practice some martial arts, workout, whatever works for you but do some daily exercise to take care of your health in the long term. We never needed society aproval, all we've done it was despite of it, do it for your better self. Be strong, keep calm and have a nice life.

@27jerry27

Жыл бұрын

💯

The most polite example of blaming the victim I have seen in many a long year. Well done.

@KingKhan-123

6 жыл бұрын

its because these are boys..not girls or whatever.

Had 1st timed watched this informative video in 2017, but just watched the very first video uploaded in 2009 in ""TEDxTalk", so thought I need to re-watch this again! and it was worthy of time!

Very educational, very thought provoking. Time is all we have and it's up to us to use it wisely

"If you get bad grades mothers will say they love you anyways." Lol whenever I brought a bad grade home my mom would spend three hours explaining what a disappointment I am.

@SirenVosa

7 жыл бұрын

Exactly. It's always the mom who gives you a hard time and is always pushing you beyond what you're capable of.

@InASeaOfShells

7 жыл бұрын

I mean isn't it a parent's job to push kids to reach their potential? Obviously pushing your kids too hard can be just as bad as not pushing them at all. I think the key is a decent amount of push until some sort of results are shown and then helping your child at least maintain the positive results or even improving further if they are capable of more growth. I also thInk there are many ways to push a child to improve and that a lot of parents are too lazy/ignorant to try and figure out what those are. I think it always ends up being the mom pushing the kids because a lot of dads want to be the "cool dad" and be nice and not punish their kids (possibly in part because of having a rough relationship with their own parents). That or the father in question just doesn't have interest in being a parental figure in general (or they never wanted to be parents to begin with or work takes up all their time.) Honestly, you could list the reasons forever. The same can be said for mothers who are too strict or not strict enough.

@SirenVosa

7 жыл бұрын

That's a very unhealthy way to get a child to be the person you want them to be. In the end, the insult to the child will overwhelm any success they could have had in their life. Support is one thing, but hurting someone with the belief that it will make them "healthier" and more "ideal" as a person in your eyes will come back to bite you. People just don't work that way.

@InASeaOfShells

7 жыл бұрын

+Pineapple Torte I never meant to imply that you hurt the child or go overboard in anyway. You can push someone to be stronger without overdoing it. Positive reinforcement is usually a good way to go about it. But I'm not entirely sure what you're talking about.

@InASeaOfShells

7 жыл бұрын

+Pineapple Torte When I say "push" the child I meant encourage them to reach their potential. Obviously you let them be their own person but a parents job is to guide the child through life in a positive direction.

If girls and women opt out of participating in the economy, we would simply revert to our traditional ways. If boys and men opt out of participating in the economy, we are fucked.

@Haannibal777

7 жыл бұрын

Soon technology will make it that men won't be necessary. Or may be they would only be any good to farm their sperms.

@SurfbyShootin

7 жыл бұрын

Same goes for artificial wombs, then men and women wont be necessary and will be replaced by robotic AI that will farm us to make pies.

@GolDRoger-kn5kw

7 жыл бұрын

Haannibal777 what technology? the Software that is made by men?

@nikkid4890

7 жыл бұрын

hectorae86 You talk like women aren't even human... what a load of rubbish and very sexist. It's comments like this that bred those awful feminazis.

@hectorae86

7 жыл бұрын

What the F are you even talking about? women never used to work in the past, this is fact and nothing you say can change that. And if men stop working, we are absolutely F'd as a society and deep down inside you know it too. Camile Paglia was RIGHT, if society were left in the hands of women from the very beginning, we would still be living in grass huts.

I really like how he qualify that it's >present< hedonism that's the problem and not hedonism in of itself. Searching for pleasure and avoiding pain is not the problem, the problem is the narrow time frame some people apply this to. A realistic hedonist would know that certain pains are neccessary for greater future pleasure. Thinking about the future reduces overall pain and increases overall pleasure.

5 years after this was posted, nothing has really changed. If anything, it has worsened. Only men care about this issue, and it's not even a majority of them. More men are now deciding not to participate in society, not to marry, not to pursue relationships and start a family... and feminists are just mocking it, laughing it off. Well, it may the case at some point that --because we stopped caring about our joint issues as a species, instead of our separate issues as genders-- we will lose our ability to interact and live with each other harmonically. Ultimately, only those who were not exposed to this new internet-bred hopelessness might be able to live according to what feels natural and desirable, instead of second guessing their every act. It's only them who won't feel like walking on eggshells or frustrated because they get told every day their issues don't matter or that they are disposable.

Why is it that when men fail they are 100% to blame, but if any other group in society fails it is 100% society to blame? Why cant we just be rational in that maybe significant issues can be blamed on society in some cases and on the group itself in some cases?

hi from Czech republic. I very much admire Philip Zimbard, his book and this video. I just want to say that I have to identify myself very much with this video, I am one of them. The funny thing is that when I was with an ordinary psychologist last year, he couldn't help me. This topic is not widespread in our country at all. Finally, I would like to point out that I would introduce this topic to the Czech Republic. Thank you so much for opening my eyes.

I haven’t heard anything that reflects my life better

We are witnessing the onset of new matriarchy era.

@G30rg31415

3 жыл бұрын

Which is gonna collapse before it even starts

I'm an Armenian. My brother and I used to talk with our parents at least an hour if not more as kids, definitely more. I never remember an issue of staying away from our parents in our culture. It was never discussed by us kids. The lack of communication between parents and children is more typical in the western wolds as far as I understand going by what I see and read living now in Europe. And I've got to say - only once you become friends with your parents is when you really know them, not just as your parents who you should respect and love but as your best friends, as the bestest ppl in the world :) As to porn... I'm recovering from porn addiction (hopefully didn't get to manage porn-induced ED). No more FB and stuff, real life is so much better, it is so much more bright and colorful :) And it's where your friends and parents live ;)

He's got some points, some feel a little generational but at the same time true. He's basically saying back in my day we used to actually get out there and do things! Socializing as adults now in a sense feels demanding, we feel like everyone else or everything else is using up our time. And when we do have time we spend it on insta gratification. Our phones grant us dopamine highs ( when we expect to find something interesting to watch or read, inevitably searching for hours) and this wastes a substantial portion of our time, leading to days getting 'shorter,'. Time slips away, we blame others, and ask where it all became.

Wow, 6seconds into this talk, it spoke to me! Brilliant talk

"...an endless array of pornography, which we will look at in a moment". I am disappointed, Mr Zimbardo. Not even a single pornographic picture in the presentation. You are an odious liar, Mr Zimbardo.

But for real, Why? Why would i even bother trying in a world that does not give a shit if i succeed or not.

@UltraTribes

7 жыл бұрын

Exactly.

@pooplord6688

7 жыл бұрын

Because this is a shitty attitude, and because you can have an excellent life. I mean seriously, imagine if any of the great minds in history had thought like this. "The world" has never cared if anybody succeeds or not. You don't do it for the world. You do it for yourself.

@THECHAOSEMPEROR

7 жыл бұрын

So I keep all my great inventions to my self? Sweet!

@Kulze

7 жыл бұрын

It's simple, because you do it for your own satisfaction, why would someone need someone else to clap their hands at them? We are so used to the conception of having someones approval or disapproval that we loose the sight for what's important, the personal well-being. Also, many of those problems arise from this mentality, without the resilience to push trough hardships, one doesn't stand up in the first place, the fear of failing abolishes the chance of succeeding therefore, and this is clearly not the healthiest way. Learning to adore failures is an important aspect nowadays, learning from them was and is important.

@eatgrass123

7 жыл бұрын

+littfamily1 you are a perfect example of an entitled person who contributes nothing to society and thinks everything is due to them. Your mentality is precisely the problem with our culture today. I'm going to guess you were a Bernie Sanders supporter. Disgusting.

This happened 6 years ago and we are still facing this in society today.

Dude. Best 1 min into ever. Straight to the point. Balls out!

"Become goal oriented" I haaaaate setting goals. Like legit loathe it. That statement hit me hard.

@maxtheawesome4255

3 жыл бұрын

Same. It's because I'm scared of the failure. But without the chance of failure there is no victory. I've learned that when I'm scared of doing something I need to do, it's obviously very important, important enough to not want to fail, instead of hiding away. I wish you luck, internet guy. Don't just rot away.