Mirror his behaviour he’ll get it! If he ghost you; ghost him too when he returns act like you didn’t even miss him shoot apologies to him for not being in contact you’ve e been busy. I’m telling you he will stop the nonsense when you mirror the nonsense. Be straight up with him let him know you’re not putting up with nonsense it’s either you want me or you don’t. Tell him you don’t have time to waste ! Ladies you’re queens you’re the table. You’re not a construction worker if he can’t get it together go else where ! No matter what sign he is ghosting with no communication isn’t cool in relationship or friendships it’s selfish ! Coming from a Virgo female 👑🙏🏾

@559kelkel

4 жыл бұрын

@Robert Smith so what do you suggest?... Keep pursuing?

@559kelkel

4 жыл бұрын

@Robert Smith I disrespected my Virgo guy on social media with a subliminal, yet nasty post.. The thing is I didn't even think he cared that much. We've been talking since April with everything going at a snail's pace, so to me, I figured he wouldn't have been that bothered. I was wrong he was pissed...now we're in a weird space to where he ghost even more....I'm ready to just give up. I am a Capricorn so I hate pursuing or forcing myself onto anyone.

@naana-scelyne6370

4 жыл бұрын

I just started mirroring him and he asking what wrong with me???😂😂😂

@dopecakezinc.779

3 жыл бұрын

Ama Quansah 🤣🤣🤣 that what he get

@thebrutalgarden6842

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Stacyann J I needed to hear that!

I'm sagittarius and Lord! I don't have time for the Virgo man nonsense... Very exhausting...

@lalixlili

3 жыл бұрын

Same here. Starting to distance myself.

@mikinaama5492

3 жыл бұрын

@@lalixlili please do...

I’m a Capricorn and he’s a Virgo. I wanted more communication at one time but he was busy so when I became mad busy later on, he got upset as to why I didn’t pick up his calls. Now...I’m really busy focusing on me so I don’t even watch when he calls. I’m an ice queen Cappy so I’ve got my own stuff going on.

@aml8760

3 жыл бұрын

🤗🤗🤗

@mercygraceful4924

Жыл бұрын

That is not forward, there has to be a middle ground otherwise pride, closing may getting in the way.

Virgos r like this confused... and confusing souls

I love it when you speak truth!!

This came at the perfect time...needed this...now I understand my lovely man... thank you!

Ty, is always a blessings to hear you about virgo men.

I love it keep preaching brother we are attractive ♍ Men and being cold as well is a kinda of ok so that you are not a pushover defend yourself kings.💯💯💯

I love your videos, you explain so well, when so many people slag off Virgo men.

I thank GOD for you because now, I truly understand my Virgo Man. Peace and ongoing blessings to you and your loved ones Minister. J!

I'm not sure why but I just like listening to you Jonathan.

U ain't never lied

Great video 💕 Lord grant me more patience for this Virgo man🙏🏽 😂

@JonathanRWhitfield

4 жыл бұрын

too funny

My brother you looking fresh today 🔥. I see that Virgo swag👀👀

@lifecreator6545

3 жыл бұрын

It seems like a Leo swag to me

Your videos are a life saver! I have been studying Virgo for months now..im so here for this one. I understand so much better now.

@hipmoma

Жыл бұрын

you should't have to study a person for months....

This video just saved my ass! I know exactly what I won't do! Thank you for sharing

My Virgo told me I am the epitome of who he wants in a women. He said when he touches me he melts and that his mind is on overdrive about me. Now be says he wants space. I’m like wtf.. you started this. I am everything he wants but I guess he is afraid because why would you not want to be around someone who makes you feel good ?

@cristianharris544

3 жыл бұрын

Are you two together still?

@TheBraziliangirl86

3 жыл бұрын

The same thing happen to me

@siphookobama8344

2 жыл бұрын

It's normal give him time to regain his energy all by himself,he will come back

@siphookobama8344

2 жыл бұрын

Learn to understand him, bcuz I'm sure he understands you

@christinarichie6171

Жыл бұрын

Men always talk nonsense or get caught up in the moment. It's not REAL!

U are looking good today!

I agree that Virgos have feminine energy...they remind me of myself. I'm like *in my Soulja Boy voice* "hold up, he copied my whole flow!" 😂 I'm trying to decide if I should call it quits because I need a masculine energy...you can't be the cat...I'M THE CAT! 🤣

I respect everything you're saying its been 2 weeks nothing i could appreciate if he comminicate but he doesn't i decided to step away no hard feelings im just not cut out for it...ill always love him wish him well

Great advice thank you 😊

Thank you HONEY right on point!

Love the outfit 👌🏾

@JonathanRWhitfield

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

I’m an Aries usually don’t have a lot of patience but the Virgo and I have a real connection like it doesn’t even bother me when we don’t talk bc I believe he’s doing what he says. I don’t have an attitude about it as usual. Even if this isn’t forever I appreciate the experience but I know he’s my soul mate. Hes just setting his life up the way he wants before totally bringing me and my children In.

@pepeann9096

4 жыл бұрын

Kosmo Krave Same, girl. I’m an Aries and the Virgo I was with helped me become more patient without me even realizing it. It just felt natural and, like you, I didn’t mind the time apart because he would be all in when we’d get back in contact 🙂

Looking good 💜

Omg the molecules thing, my guy talked about that like a scientist talking lol (I have no idea of what he was talking about lol)

6:20-8:00 he is spitting facts. I didn’t know how to articulate these feelings. “I can’t maintain the level of energy you are getting from me”. It comes off hot and cold 🥶 cuhz I’m recharging boo boo. Thanks for the words #VirgoMan “LoveCap”

@professormiles1890

2 жыл бұрын

And I just gave up doing like 4 jobs but definitely got 4 full hobbies/side hustles. I don’t think “we’re wrong”. I do recognize we need to communicate this better to negotiate a balance in the relationship.

You’re so amazing 😍❤️🥰 intelligent, vibrant and a man of great style. Taurus with Virgo rising here to learn how to get me a sweet Virgo man and embrace my own inner Virgo! 🥰🥰🥰

@JonathanRWhitfield

4 жыл бұрын

I receive that! 🙏🏿 Taurus and Virgo is a great match!

THE Best video that explains THE number one problem with these Virgo men If women can understand THIS and have a lot of patience THEN it is worth it they’re the sweetest men in the world ❤️❤️❤️ Thank you Sir Jonathan

Every thing so accurate

How is this so accurate?

This recently happened to me , my Virgo went ghost for a while but then he apologized & told me it had nothing to do with me & that he wasn’t trying to ignore me . i like him a lot & don’t want to push him away so ima be patient & see where it goes😊

@carolinemaingi4879

3 жыл бұрын

No girl. You need to move on. There’s other zodiac signs you could date without the drama and the hot/cold. I’m an Aries and he is a Virgo. I was patient for a year and he never changed. So he started being cold and I moved on. He didn’t hear back from me so he contacted me later and I told him since I presumed he had ghosted me and I didn’t have any choice but to move on.......He was shocked coz I said it out loud. I was like well if you the King of hot/cold I can be queen of no chills ♈️ 😄😄

@jeniagiri4999

2 жыл бұрын

@@carolinemaingi4879 same here. He's interested in me but the drama he puts on is something that I can't tolerate. Not of virgo I think a guy who is not sure of me is such a big NO. We r not anyone's option

My virgo like face to face conversation but he'll text me once in a while hell call which shocked me

You look damn good in this video. WOW!

@JonathanRWhitfield

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

I'm a Capricorn woman & my new Virgo guy, he's is more beginning to fall back. Nothing happen, he's just gone, not texting or calling....I call him once, no answer. Text him once, no answer. Idk how to take it. I'm like if you're not interested just tell me & I will go away. To be honest, it feels like he's testing me, to see how I'm going to react to him going ghost for a minute..idk🙄 I'm just going to leave him be. If he comes around cool,a conversation will be had & if not, It was nice while it lasted ♑🥂❤️🙏🏽 Thank you for this video

@cutieangelpie101

2 жыл бұрын

Same situation Im a cap as well 🙁

@hipmoma

Жыл бұрын

he's playing you

In general it’s impossible to explain emotions but accurate nonetheless.

Thank you so much I am dating a Virgo male and I am being very patient with him we taken it very slow ❤️

I guess I'm going to just go ahead and get me a session. The only thing is I don't want to pay and my Virgo ain't worth it.

@TheBraziliangirl86

3 жыл бұрын

Your comment made my day 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀😭😭😭😭😭

Well, my Virgo man stopped speaking to me shortly after his September birthday...I saw him briefly at a work event (we don’t actually work in the same department) and when he made no attempt to say “hello”, I ignored him. That was over 2 months ago so I deleted ALL the text messages and his number. Too young and not ready for a relationship...I didn’t have any more patience to spare 🤷🏽‍♀️. Btw I’m a Pisces ♓️ so maybe the compatibility just wasn’t there...

@JonathanRWhitfield

4 жыл бұрын

Pisces are the Virgo nemesis lol

I met my Virgo man last year! after get away weekend I ghosted him For 6 months I come back he waited Girl if u r his dream girl he will move mountains So don’t let him ghost u!🥰 Yes they are down to earth ppl sexy and sophisticated… patience’s attentive Best in bed ever 🥰yes he moves slow…. But there are signs that he truly loves u I think bc he introduced me to his childhood friends talking about his father passing Just stay away not heal Virgo 🫶✨🥰 But appreciate ur channel it helps me to understand my man better….

Zaaaddy Shark Do Do Do Do 😜😂

@kuyoros24

4 жыл бұрын

😩😂😭😭😭

@JonathanRWhitfield

4 жыл бұрын

lol

@StacyannJ

4 жыл бұрын

Shai Cooper looool 😹😹😹

I love my Virgo man

Omg I just went threw this and it's driving me crazy, on the flip side it naturally makes me want him I'm Aries so it's very challenging and soon as I turn around he right there..smh

@kosmokrave8954

4 жыл бұрын

black magic I’m an Aries too sis! I haven’t talked to this man in a few days but he text to check in sooooo confusing.

@blackmagic7843

4 жыл бұрын

@@kosmokrave8954 girlll it's crazy as hell 🤣

@angierose969

4 жыл бұрын

Aries here too and he's got my head all messed up lol ugh.. Never had a man this confusing

@blackmagic7843

4 жыл бұрын

@@angierose969 at least you know u not alone and crazy 🤣🤣

@angierose969

4 жыл бұрын

@@blackmagic7843 hahaha isn't that the truth😂 one thing is for sure is that I've watched MANY vids on Virgo males such as this and I've seen several Aries ladies that are dealing with the same issues as us.. But there must be something to the whole "Aries female Virgo male" chemistry since seen more Aries women in these comments trying to understand their dudes than any other zodiac.. Some of those women said it's been a journey dealing with their virgos but all of them said to just have patience and it's worth it in the end so that gives me a little hope even tho I struggle with going so slow lol . Which I believe patience is the major key in dealing with these slow ass mfs lol

My Virgo man calls and we speak for hours but not everyday as both of us are super busy.

My Virgo is playing 3 females. I am a Sag and I explained I did not want to embark on another woman's happiness! So the Virgo lied and I fell for it and got crushed! They didn't give up the others and soon rubbed it in my face! No thank you! I'm out and good luck treating anyone like like a Virgo does! So you can BE ALL THAT FOR THE WORLD BUT SCREW A PERSON YOU LAY WITH????LOL fractured foundation towards love and EXPECT ALL THIS WAITING! LOL

I'm so in love with my Virgo boyfriend. As an Aries, I want to tell him all the time but, since he doesn't say it to me, I'm holding back. I don't want to scare him away.

Jesus! I need to just stop expressing myself. If my feelings & emotions is overwhelming him he needs to stop asking “how do you really feel about me?” & after I share he says WOW...then goes ghost🤦🏾‍♀️ Now I’m emotionally drained because BOOM he goes cold! How can you treat someone like that if you care about them?😔🤔

@ayana5258

4 жыл бұрын

Coach Keisha K he lacks emotional intelligence.. Do u gurl. You want someone that will give what you give in return. You deserve it

@JonathanRWhitfield

4 жыл бұрын

he may not know he's causing you to feel that way.

@CoachKeishaK

4 жыл бұрын

Jonathan R Whitfield I have expressed this to him, & he keeps assuring me how interested he is...🤦🏾‍♀️ I’m just frustrated because I can’t tell...I only have his word.😔

@CoachKeishaK

4 жыл бұрын

Joy's Channel I’m a Leo and I’m not use to someone ghosting me & treating me like an option. 😔 Leo’s desire attention. I honestly do like him, but he’s not available when I want him to be.

@CoachKeishaK

4 жыл бұрын

A Yana I know sis. I honestly do like him & we do have a spiritual connection that I love. 💖

This was actually EXTREMELY HELPFUL. Life changing revelation and effect communication. Virgos seem to be very poor communicators. And this behavior though understandable how you explained it, makes them seem as if they play games with the emotions of the very ones trying to love them. They express how they feel about you, but their actions don’t match what they say. It is very emotionally taxing.

@cutieangelpie101

2 жыл бұрын

Going through this now...and yes it can be very emotionally taxing 😮‍💨

Thankyou Mr jonathan R Whitfield. I'll more understand about him he Virgo. It time .I'm patience. As you say he text. After 2or 3day.at sosial he's pictures.

Ok you looking good good to👏🏾day

@JonathanRWhitfield

4 жыл бұрын

thank you! :)

Im a Capricorn and I totally understand this energy cap analogy. The only difference between me and my Virgo man is that I’m better at expressing it. It’s kinda like he just expects me to know... which now that we’ve been together for awhile I do know and understand and don’t take it personally. But when we first got together it drove me crazy. Stick it out with Virgo men ladies, they are worth it💕

@AnubisFenrir

4 жыл бұрын

😢😭😫 wow my capricorn never wanted to talk about the problem just ignore it and blow up on me later, wish i had a cappy like you😋😂😁

@sammyellis7845

3 жыл бұрын

I’m a Capricorn woman too and I sound exactly like Virgo man (as described above). I need my space, get engrossed in things I’m doing and i’m poor at emotional communication. My Virgo understands me.

Car Chronicles 🥰

One told me he doesn’t see me or anyone else in his life.

We are waiting Scorpio woman Virgo man looooooong video😊❤

@SzilviNet

4 жыл бұрын

Well said 🙂

Hi Mr jonathan R Whitfield can make video about Virgo man long distance relationship

@Sussexxsquad

3 жыл бұрын

I had the WORST experience of my life doing this.

@MakeCannabisLegal

3 жыл бұрын

@@Sussexxsquad Ditto, am a pisces & gave plenty of space, only to find the space was being filled with other women to entertain him. He future faked of being together, then took no action to make it happen & then when he had a chance to live/work in same town, he goes & buys an apartment 3hrs from me knowing i don’t want LDR anymore & then he expected LDR to continue forever (never be in same town) & after all his discretions which i’ve grown tired of. He stupidly took a Pisces kind heart for granted, thinking the grass was greener elsewhere & now he’s facing the cold reality of my absence from his life..

All Virgos like to get their way

OMGoooosh look at you😂😂😂💘you gotta hot date? Whoa

It drainin bein a virgo . Really trying to see what's in a woman mind body soul and sprit .. frfr always overthinking

Virgo is alout work nobody got time fir cold hot stuff life is already complicated i dont need no one to add to my life.

You inspired me, thank you :)

I met my Virgo man last year! after get away weekend I ghosted him For 6 months I come back he waited Girl if u r his dream girl he will move mountains So don’t let him ghost u!🥰 Yes they are down to earth ppl sexy and sophisticated… patience’s attentive Best in bed ever 🥰yes he moves slow…. But there are signs that he truly loves u I think bc he introduced me to his childhood friends talking about his father passing Just stay away not heal Virgo 🫶✨🥰

It takes 10 secs to send a text 🤷🏽‍♀️

@JonathanRWhitfield

4 жыл бұрын

facts, these guys just hate texting

@alove8592

4 жыл бұрын

Jonathan R Whitfield Thanks for all the knowledge about Virgo men. My Virgo man has the hot and cold behavior... however I’ll stick it out with him... I see ya having something special 🥰

@rlshiftydoggit9256

4 жыл бұрын

@@JonathanRWhitfield I don't see it as hating texting personally I hate phone calls unless it's really needed I think it's just that we get way too busy

Looking hot there😉

@JonathanRWhitfield

4 жыл бұрын

thank you!

Almost 3 years and he uses hot and cold to manipulate and punish me

I am a cancer women and am with a Virgo man and every thing u say is true

Don't make no sense 🤣

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

♊️ & ♍️ are ruled by mercury 🙌 we both hot & cold so..... I hear ya !

Virgo men are hard work very selfish and hot n cold .. I’ve dated two now and they both act same selfish dismissive and dissapearing act they arnt givers they are all takers … not all my sons a Virgo and the sweetest … depends how they’ve been brought up … but they are very me me me

So young man, why are you still single after all these dates and women you have dated....What haven’t you learnt yet?

@JonathanRWhitfield

4 жыл бұрын

Why is any Virgo single?

@jennifermckay4991

4 жыл бұрын

Jonathan R Whitfield I guess, for the same reason that any person(of any sign ) who has these high standards wont commit. No one will ever be good enough.

🤕😩Honestly he steps back to recharge on cheatin y I speak this is because my birthday was December 10, 2019 two days ago I caught my Virgo baby daddy/boyfriend cheating on me with a girl he been wit 4years at his house and denied our child in front of his stepmom and I cried my whole birthday away and he didn’t even say happy birthday or try to talk anything out with me he just left with the other girl in separate cars haven’t heard from him since listen I’m broken N Scarred me like how can someone fill your heart up with so much believe of love N then destroy it apart like it wasn’t even whole from the start and rip it apart.💔💔

@rishmahazel2045

4 жыл бұрын

Robert Smith thank u N yes I’m actually in love wit him but I can take the bittersweet love 🤕😩

@rishmahazel2045

4 жыл бұрын

Robert Smith I agree 😔 it will take sum time N if he cums bac around I wouldn’t b around.

@AnubisFenrir

4 жыл бұрын

@@rishmahazel2045 I know I'm like 8 days late so i apologize love 😤😔 but.... happy belated birthday i hope you enjoy the rest of the year and your wishes with your tru love come true😊😋

@rishmahazel2045

4 жыл бұрын

Elegant Pharoah thank u so much

@AnubisFenrir

4 жыл бұрын

@@rishmahazel2045 No problem luv😌😏😋

Hot and cold doesn't always apply internally. It could be externally. Depending on your actions as a woman. Could be the biggest factor in his excessive change. I am virgo And if I see a woman improve her actions I reward her with more time and attention. If her actions decline. So do I. I don't have time to mess around your either support or a distraction. If I think your worth a few chances that means your special because I don't play with time most will be filtered by the first interaction. So any woman that hates virgos hates not having the control. We are basically enforcing your feminine demands on you. Stealing your control the media and government gave you. And telling you to be a woman and support your man. If that sounds to hard. Get one of those beta male puppets. U might get bored but beggers can't be choosers.