Yes, Virgo Men Are Bad Communicators But It's Not What You Think!

We are discussing why Virgo men are bad communicators but the reasons why may surprise you.
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  • @Manduh-vs2ip
    @Manduh-vs2ip2 ай бұрын

    My Virgo said he thinks of me every single day, he always loves me and knows I love him so it’s not necessary to hear it constantly. But he doesn’t require talking every day. He only talks to me every day (this could be a call, text, etc.) because it’s something he knows I need for the most part, I mean he loves time with me but it’s not absolutely necessary. And he is always doing something too… he really compartmentalizes everything to manage everything. But he said the same… he hates text/calls. And prefers in person conversations. It took time to understand this. Plus it has worked for me, because I like my solo time and space. It creates opportunities for us to talk about things we had happen outside of one another.

  • @amykuntzman4336
    @amykuntzman43363 ай бұрын

    After dating a Virgo for 2 years. So accurate he works in shifts. It definitely takes some adjusting.

  • @CrystalCormier

    @CrystalCormier

    3 ай бұрын

    Patience is the key in dealing with earth signs of the zodiac. Especially with Virgos and Capicorns we have tendency to shut down and hold things in alot. I'm capicorn were very similar to the virgo.

  • @EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA

    @EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA

    3 ай бұрын

    @@CrystalCormier I am also a Spiritual awakening Capricorn I will say it's much easier for a Capricorn to deal with a Virgo because we are so determined to push forward in what we like and want I don't like holding things anymore only when it is Needed

  • @CrystalCormier

    @CrystalCormier

    3 ай бұрын

    @EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA Well hello there Enlightenment Queen!!! How do you know I'm spiritual awaken capicorn? Lol. I understand where you comin from in response to my comment. 🙂😉

  • @EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA

    @EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA

    3 ай бұрын

    @@CrystalCormier Thanks 😊 I am glad you understand us

  • @kirstenpeaco3087
    @kirstenpeaco30873 ай бұрын

    As a Cancer, I can deal with it mainly because I like to be alone 😭🤣 If anything, Virgo men think I'm uninterested because I barely need attention like that. Especially if I'm working on my businesses, I'm hyper focused and I'll probably forget about the world until I'm done lol If we can honestly vibe in silence, it's a match 🤣

  • @ThatSherylLafrance

    @ThatSherylLafrance

    3 ай бұрын

    Same with us Taurus

  • @Queenmother2508

    @Queenmother2508

    2 ай бұрын

    This me for sure 😭 I’m in school I’ll forget about so much so that’s why Virgos are so compatible with me I need my own space.

  • @BarbieNicole
    @BarbieNicole3 ай бұрын

    I think when a male virgo finds his match, he will communicate effortlessly and make time for those they love

  • @MsNellfraser

    @MsNellfraser

    2 ай бұрын

    He better because I’d never put up with a man going one week without talking to me or two weeks without seeing me. Hell no.

  • @EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA
    @EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA3 ай бұрын

    Hey ladies calm down with the Virgo men you got to understand them it's not easy but adjustable

  • @shenikafrancis3436

    @shenikafrancis3436

    3 ай бұрын

    How is it adjustable?

  • @EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA

    @EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA

    3 ай бұрын

    @@shenikafrancis3436 First of all you need to understand why do they do what they do and act the way it's adjustable when you understand how to adjust to them and a manner that they understand and you got to have a lots of patience with them and when they feel that acceptance from you they will open to you I know a Virgo that text me for 12 hour's straight just because they feel safe secure and confidence with me my brother is also a Virgo.

  • @EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA

    @EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA

    3 ай бұрын

    Ladies if you need help with your Virgo men pleaser let me know I do know how to bring some other behaviors out of them that they hold in freeze zones only you can get out if you know how

  • @Norella836

    @Norella836

    3 ай бұрын

    Okay please help me.😊

  • @EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA

    @EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA

    3 ай бұрын

    @@Norella836 Hi and what do you need help with understanding why they act that way explain to me your situation to help to me better understand first and we will move forward to resolving the problems

  • @Itsmebee287
    @Itsmebee28720 күн бұрын

    I went through this with a Virgo and I honestly lost interest. He wasn’t consistent but swore he loved me. I didn’t understand it, or maybe I just didn’t have the patience. I moved on and he tried to reach out like nothing happened weeks later. He attempted to pour his heart out, by then I could care less. I genuinely believed he loved me, but the lack of communication made me think otherwise in the moment. I had options at the time, so I gave them my time. I’m not your typical emotional clingy Pisces. Lol.

  • @216blessed
    @216blessed3 ай бұрын

    Why did this video pop up cause I was about to go ghost on his ass! And still might I’m an Aquarius I’m a communicator so yes this bothers me. I might need to exit like I did a few months ago! But when we don’t communicate then we get the text saying damn stranger but you the one being a stranger I don’t have time! I’m out! ✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾🤣🤣🤣

  • @tashaheidelburg5181

    @tashaheidelburg5181

    3 ай бұрын

    Girll Aquarius here...and I can relate!

  • @thatomphafudi

    @thatomphafudi

    3 ай бұрын

    Aquarius here lol yep!

  • @pumkinpie27

    @pumkinpie27

    3 ай бұрын

    I'm Aquarius and dealing with a Virgo and it's not fun. And this whole "I'm so busy" stuff... They create the business and stress they get burnt out from. They don't know how to balance anything but work. Work work work... That's all it's about. 🙄 It's ridiculous.

  • @216blessed

    @216blessed

    3 ай бұрын

    @@pumkinpie27 Exactly!!! I’m done I pray he doesn’t reach out anymore cause I’m definitely over it! If he does I will tell please don’t waste anymore of my time! Lol

  • @lovelock1994

    @lovelock1994

    2 ай бұрын

    @@216blessedI’m dealing with the same. Did he reach out to?

  • @prettymaondemand
    @prettymaondemand3 ай бұрын

    HORRIBLE COMMUNICATORS! I Had To Walk Away! Wasted Time! Smh

  • @JonathanRWhitfield

    @JonathanRWhitfield

    3 ай бұрын

    😓

  • @shenikafrancis3436

    @shenikafrancis3436

    3 ай бұрын

    The exact space I am in, the bad communication is a trigger for me!!

  • @straightbacks

    @straightbacks

    2 ай бұрын

    Yo loss ♍️

  • @jnwtk

    @jnwtk

    Ай бұрын

    Glad you walk away! Not all virgos but most lol, I had to walk away too, he strung me along for 6 yrs, glad I did cos I’m now married to a man who didn’t waste my time.

  • @straightbacks

    @straightbacks

    Ай бұрын

    @@jnwtk you still not over him

  • @vernaperkins2850
    @vernaperkins28503 ай бұрын

    (LEO & VIRGO) My Virgo man is the opposite he's a great communicator 4 hours on the phone every day INITIATED BE HIM. He is older which might have something to do with it. I don't know.

  • @Queenmother2508

    @Queenmother2508

    2 ай бұрын

    It probably took him a very long time to get like that might’ve taken alot of losses in the past

  • @ARoss83
    @ARoss833 ай бұрын

    We’re horrible communicators

  • @sweet_kandyy

    @sweet_kandyy

    3 ай бұрын

    Thank you for admitting this. Why is it so hard for you all to let go?

  • @EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA

    @EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA

    3 ай бұрын

    Yes you guys are but at least you admit that some want they just say that's how they is but to be honest it is some emotional disturbance this is a major problem with Virgo's

  • @EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA

    @EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA

    3 ай бұрын

    @@sweet_kandyy It's hard for them to let go because they really see thing's their way and most people don't understand a Virgo

  • @sweet_kandyy

    @sweet_kandyy

    3 ай бұрын

    @@EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA Thanks for the reply. I might have to sit down with him on his time since they’re so busy and tell him we need to talk. He’s flip flopping too much.

  • @lovelock1994

    @lovelock1994

    2 ай бұрын

    @@sweet_kandyydid you get to have that talk yet?

  • @feliciamabry1452
    @feliciamabry14523 ай бұрын

    Love all your videos, but this one is my favorite!!!!!! as you explained I saw my Virgo in my mind, and you hit it .😊

  • @LadyL579
    @LadyL5793 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this video Jonathan...much appreciated/I was literally JUST thinking about a particular Virgo man in my life and your video popped up!#TheLordMakesNoMistakes

  • @carlynduenas5923
    @carlynduenas59233 ай бұрын

    Virgos are ruled by Mercury, like Gemini. Rulers of communication! But they are the worst at communicating! They have to take you in doses! You need to have extreme patience when it comes to a Virgo!

  • @breanahaustin5558
    @breanahaustin55583 ай бұрын

    I'm a scorpio sun libra moon i'm really feeling this virgo man and this video really helped me out . now i understand it. i really like him too so i hope he will reach back out to me😊💯

  • @lovelock1994

    @lovelock1994

    2 ай бұрын

    Did he reach back out

  • @jessicajackson2438
    @jessicajackson24383 ай бұрын

    Well he don't NEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEED to date lol just saying but I hear you

  • @216blessed

    @216blessed

    3 ай бұрын

    Facts stay single!!! It’s draining!!

  • @jessicajackson2438

    @jessicajackson2438

    3 ай бұрын

    @@216blessed Right just stay single keep that unavailable energy over there I mean I get we all have our own lives but when you're dating you lay it on heavy so of course we women want more but going silence for days weeks or months isn't cool and then they're confused when we're upset with them 🤣🤣🤣🤣Man get somebody else to do it

  • @MsNellfraser

    @MsNellfraser

    2 ай бұрын

    Correct because nobody is that busy! Go two weeks without talking to me or planning a date and ima block him!!!

  • @spytiriga
    @spytiriga3 ай бұрын

    It's all so true! it's very funny really!!😂😂

  • @mysticp4915
    @mysticp49152 ай бұрын

    Horrriibbllleee communicators! I’m a Scorpio and it drives me to the edge, but he makes it worth it when I’m with him.. it’s the compromise I have to make I guess

  • @amykuntzman4336

    @amykuntzman4336

    Ай бұрын

    Scorpio here too and I feel his highs and lows and his distance so hard. But yes worth it when we’re together.

  • @dhanha
    @dhanha2 ай бұрын

    This is so true. I met a Virgo last year and he is always working. We communicate every several days but when we are together we have a good time. I realize that. This video confirmed what I realized.

  • @theresagilliam5770
    @theresagilliam57703 ай бұрын

    I probably get more of his volunteered attention than anyone and I do appreciate it. And im definitely on a shift and that’s ok.

  • @sailasails
    @sailasails2 ай бұрын

    My Virgo man will tell you what he wants from you, but seldom follow up to get it. Very disappointed as I'm a Virgo, too.

  • @annetrabowman6508
    @annetrabowman65083 ай бұрын

    17 years with a virgo and you are correct!

  • @christophersmith9683
    @christophersmith96833 ай бұрын

    Deep down, women love us b/c they love a challenge 💯💯

  • @nymeria19no14
    @nymeria19no142 ай бұрын

    I literally feel like a mirror 🪞 lol bc I to need my space and I’m a busy Woman, Mama, daughter, sister and auntie ofc ima be pulled in all directions but I will still make time n communicate just not all day or everyday n I’m fine wit that! I take care of me first so then I have that energy to keep up with everything goin on I’m a ♊️ and I love my freedom don’t be breathing down on my neck

  • @kingofall92
    @kingofall923 ай бұрын

    Yeah I get nerves when some I like talk to me 😭😭😭what Chris brown say stuttering

  • @MelVidal-cc8mk
    @MelVidal-cc8mk2 ай бұрын

    I understand

  • @fenderson2192
    @fenderson21923 ай бұрын

    I agree

  • @quetalk1619
    @quetalk16193 ай бұрын

    What is the best way to contact you?

  • @Cancerlady717
    @Cancerlady7173 ай бұрын

    My Virgo said do you and your best friend really need to be on the phone all the time 🤣 he’s happy about that cause I don’t get on his nerves💀

  • @jessicajackson2438

    @jessicajackson2438

    3 ай бұрын

    🤣Not his nerves lol I hope the best for you guys

  • @iaby288
    @iaby2882 ай бұрын

    my ex is virgo, we broke up for 8 months but still go on date and stuff, but recently he is seeing another girl, he only know her less than a month. When i knew it, i pissed off and text her which make he felt bad, i think. Now he and that girl still remain good relationship (i think) but he's kinda ignore me, he want no contact but sometimes he still care about me like he worried about my health and my life. Is that mean he's in a rebound relationship and use that girl to make me jealous or what, i'm really confused right now

  • @MsNellfraser
    @MsNellfraser2 ай бұрын

    So as the relationship progresses he’ll start communicating more? Because idk how a man can love a woman than go more than a day without hearing from her. What if she’s dead hurt or anything

  • @therealpreciousk1205
    @therealpreciousk12053 ай бұрын

    Hi I’m dating a Aquarius sun Virgo moon guy I’m a Aries sun cancer moon I can’t figure out why he is so distant with me I really like him please help me!

  • @theeladyj

    @theeladyj

    3 ай бұрын

    Hiii virgo moon here , he definitely will be distant until he gets comfortable. Virgo moon needs stability but also him being a Aquarius sun there will always been a level of detachment honestly enjoy your life and he will come around

  • @IttyBittyPiglet
    @IttyBittyPiglet3 ай бұрын

    What if he calls me everyday, multiple times a day but is really silent on the phone? we've been dating for a year and a half. He use to talk more in the beginning, but he is going through alot in his life right now, so im being patient and giving him grace.

  • @gigihappiness4118

    @gigihappiness4118

    3 ай бұрын

    My Virgo do the same .. unless he wants to vent then I just listen as he does..

  • @IttyBittyPiglet

    @IttyBittyPiglet

    3 ай бұрын

    ​@@gigihappiness4118I do the same. There are days where he vents alot and I just listen to understand, so I don't mess it up

  • @mahoganyshanae6116

    @mahoganyshanae6116

    3 ай бұрын

    I'ma Virgo woman my dad is a Virgo man.. He goes through a lot and when he's goin through a lot he isolate himself and reflect on his self. I'm the same way about when I'm goin through. I'm in my room goin through my depression and shutting down.. I go in isolation to think about what goin on and what's needs to change. When Virgos go through it they don't talk much.. Very introverted..

  • @calculatedrisk1
    @calculatedrisk13 ай бұрын

    Thank God I have a Gemini moon lol… It baffles me that people run everything off their Sun sign. I doubt 75% of people who are into astrology even know what their signs are for each planet. Not to mention north nodes or ascendants smh…

  • @colette635

    @colette635

    12 күн бұрын

    I’ve always wondered that myself , never really been big on astrology til I hear it mentioned more n more lol but I was wondering how do you find out your sign with other planets like ur sun n moon ?

  • @calculatedrisk1

    @calculatedrisk1

    12 күн бұрын

    @@colette635 They have online calculators to figure it all out. You need your time of birth and birthplace to get an accurate read for your rising sign. I’m old so I have a book called”The Only Astrology Book You’ll Ever Need”. I’ve probably bought that book five times because people never return it lol, and I’ve given some for gifts. It’s really detailed. It even goes into which foods are best for your body. Hope that helps…

  • @sweet_kandyy
    @sweet_kandyy3 ай бұрын

    Definitely bad communicators. I told my friend what was being said on his job and he got mad with me. If I want to end the friendship he won’t let it go?! I’m running 🏃‍♀️😅