In my experience, the only way to get over the fear, if it even exists in the first place, is to simply stop caring about the outcome.

@musashi542

18 күн бұрын

nah just do it alot till it becomes normal .

@tristintejada8915

17 күн бұрын

Well said. Emotionally detaching yourself from the outcome is eye opening and typically does mitigate fear

@experience5988

16 күн бұрын

Stop caring about rape accusations then

@stroodlepup

16 күн бұрын

Or the process altogether

@Vnov93

16 күн бұрын

@@experience5988 No girl will accuse you of rape for simply talking to them. That’s paranoid. Even if they did, there’s not going to be any evidence, because nothing happened.

I had a job where this girl flirted with everyone and I realised through painful experiences in my past that because a girl flirts with you it’s for attention or in my case it has been. Anyhow a few months in a new manager asked how long me and this girl had been going out, I replied we aren’t and the manager said she was surprised as we clicked and would make a good couple. This girl was there whilst this conversation was taking place and she said well it’s because he hasn’t asked me out. I laughed and she went seriously you haven’t asked me out, asked her out and she never spoke to me again.

@msinna6433

20 күн бұрын

We call that an attention where, happens to every one of us dude just keep pushing. You shouldn't even want a girl that flirts with everybody anyways thunk about it

@FrickinCCDeVileV

19 күн бұрын

That's called histrionic persoality disorder on that chick

@Annntttt12

19 күн бұрын

Sounds like she’s a love addict who needs everyone to like her and then she moves on when she gets it

@lifeisbannanas

17 күн бұрын

Men do the same thing to women too

@TheEdwardAlchemist

16 күн бұрын

​@@lifeisbannanas Lmao where? Like 2% of dudes might do this. Foh some stuff is pretty much just one way

I think nowadays it’s not the fear of talking to them it’s more that they can shame you publicly or try to ruin your reputation if something goes wrong.

@nextfb5578

23 күн бұрын

100000% that’s the culture of woman on America today.

@karkitty202

23 күн бұрын

Imagine asking a girl out and she starts recording you as she rejects you. It's not even that hard to imagine because that's just how things are

@VoidMaker407

23 күн бұрын

Exactly, this chick i was talking to didnt me she had a bf cheated on him w me and then he found out and instead of telling him she told all of the internet that i rped her and i lost everyone i knew off of that lie.. girls are evil.

@VoidMaker407

23 күн бұрын

Fucked up my whole life..

@docd2295

23 күн бұрын

4-5 comments talking about this on here and how many ever had that happen? One. Are you afraid of what might happen or what will definitely happen? You will definitely die alone with no kids if you do t approach women.

Unfortunately the line between being romantic and creepy with the exact same actions is just how attractive the girl finds you. The amount of times I’ve seen girls I’ve worked with or been friends with humiliate a guy for just trying to talk to them, yet what he did is exactly what they want the guys they are attracted to to do.

@Annntttt12

6 күн бұрын

These women are sick. It’s not a reflection of you. They will get theirs in the end.

@BCulles

6 күн бұрын

Yes being attractive lets you get away with more in society wow big woop goes for both men and women, worlds not fair deal with it.

@BCulles

6 күн бұрын

Yes being attractive gives you societal privileges and allows you to get away with way more, big woop goes for both men and women. Lifes not fair deal with it.

@Annntttt12

6 күн бұрын

Not sure why my comment was deleted, but what those women did says more about them then the guy. Just shows a lack of character on their part.

@alexedwards9152

6 күн бұрын

@@BCulles it was just an observation I’ve made that I was pointing out, I see you were already aware of the point I was making though. Try and let others share their thoughts more without shooting them down in future, because who benefits from that?

Approach early, approach often -- the fear will go away with practice

@dudeguyman96

23 күн бұрын

This is true. Conquering a fear is to expose yourself to it as much as possible.

@bigbodybenz8707

22 күн бұрын

No one is afraid. It's the fact there are no consequences no repercussions for females at all.. they can lie. Ruin your reputation nothing happens to them... so men focus on themselves.

@PostClarity7

22 күн бұрын

Jail will come fast enough too 👍🏾

@graysongriese

22 күн бұрын

@@PostClarity7by talking to a person?

@ThePro499

22 күн бұрын

@@PostClarity7 How will you go to jail for talking to somebody?

This is the best version of Theo that I’ve seen. He’s being way more sincere than usual and it makes the podcast so much more interesting.

@TomaszOdkrywca

16 күн бұрын

For me it feels like this is him whenever a mental health professional or a spiritual person comes on. Those are my favourites, when Theo opens up

@murkartik

15 күн бұрын

you're both gay

@charlespancamo9771

6 күн бұрын

He'd still fk your girl, Greg

rejection is different now. ghosting out of nowhere on both sides

@davedavid7061

16 күн бұрын

We got ghosted in the 90s too

@kevinnorris6157

12 күн бұрын

Ghosting on both sides? U mean 90 percent of women ghosting 90 percent of men, and 5 percent of men hooking up with all the women and then ghosting them?

@Mmmmkaaay

9 күн бұрын

​@@davedavid7061Truth. We just didn't pick up the phone when it rang 🤣

@johnfisher8401

8 күн бұрын

no, ghosting from the 10 percent of men who have access to 90-95 percent of the women lol most men dont get anything at all. Literally 1 and 3 men are sexless.

@King9tails

8 күн бұрын

@@Mmmmkaaaylmao ghosting has been around forever. Like in the age before technology you just wouldn’t respond back to their letter or pigeon

Theo von explains what a lot of people will never speak on because it’s embarrassing But social anxiety, drugs, bad experiences will do that.

I was speaking with a coworker of mine at the gym yesterday, and he took notice of a guy that was approaching some girls. He was probably mid 20s, they were 18-20 if I had to guess. Coworker was ridiculing the guy to me, then a few minutes after I walked by the girls and I heard them talking about it. Not sure why simply approaching someone has to be such a big fucking deal. It's brutal that a person could be demonized for such a thing considering the inherent risk it already involves of being rejected. It should be considered a natural process, unlike using apps or however else people may meet. But nah, people gotta be sensitive, or maybe a few legit creeps that can't take no for an answer ruin it for everyone. Crazy times.

@karkitty202

23 күн бұрын

I'm worried I'll be called a pedophile creep if I (25) even talk to a 18 year old girl.

@dash4800

23 күн бұрын

Dude, I used to have a decent amount of female friends in college and they all told me I should just go up to women and start conversations. Then a minute later they would be complaining about the disgusting creep who tried to talk to them in the line at starbucks.

@laptv2144

23 күн бұрын

I know the exact type of sentiment they were getting at. It is for some reason seen as weird to approach a girl in public, especially among gen z despite the fact that these girls still want to be dating. Not sure how they expect to meet people.

@laptv2144

23 күн бұрын

@@dash4800 Yeah were apparently supposed to magically know if we’re attractive enough to a woman for her to be flattered rather than creeped out

@docd2295

23 күн бұрын

@@dash4800so what? They didn’t like him. They like somebody. Only way to find out if you is approach.

Edwardo is right. You have to think about THEM and not yourself. Spot on I feel like this goes for women but also In interactions with people in general. I’ve met truly humble people who are genuinely interested in what I have to say. They always have the most confidence, because they love life and are being themselves.

@ethanbrunt7755

20 күн бұрын

Treat them almost as if they have chlamydia

@braveboy2445

19 күн бұрын

What does that mean bro? I dont get it

@ethanbrunt7755

19 күн бұрын

@@braveboy2445 overcoming anxiety is about forcing your attention outwards. You have to listen to other people and look at them. That’s a way to have better interactions

@lukester102d6

19 күн бұрын

@@braveboy2445 If you think too much about yourself or how you appear to others, you’ll end up causing anxiety and not even paying attention to the other person at all. You have to focus your attention on the other person, and think less about how YOU appear. At least that’s how I take it

@jjwilly5114

19 күн бұрын

Exactly. Your frame should be "do I like this woman?" and you'll ask her questions to get to know her. It doesn't matter if she likes you or not.

Because they're deeply insecure and the average modern young woman doesn't resemble past generations. The influence of social media on the psyche of young people has been a disaster and has propped up behaviors that are so toxic for the soul and society. The replacement of face-to-face communication has been disastrous. If I wanted to depopulate the earth, I'd do exactly what we've done the last 15 years.

@Ben-js7kj

23 күн бұрын

Wow. That is really well put.

@aiydanf

23 күн бұрын

Right. I hate to be a broken record about it, and I’m just as susceptible, but social media breaks down the fabric of natural communication. It creates scenarios and perspectives that can only be found online, and a lot of people who avoid social media tend to do better socially.

@user-lt1jd1ye3v

23 күн бұрын

The average woman is fine and normal, it’s your fault you’ve skewed your own brain by watching so much porn that you think all women are on onlyfans. Get out in the real world and realize most women are normal. But you can’t do that staring at a computer screen 24/7 complaining that women are “evil”. It’s just so damn pathetic. And you say women are the ones who are different when all modern men want to do is watch porn and complain about women all day long through the INTERNET when men of past generations were out there fighting WARS and protecting their families…… I mean give me a break. Be the change you wish to see in the world. Stop being so damn pathetic and man up.

@justinmonk3522

23 күн бұрын

You hit the nail on the head

@purplered-eq5of

23 күн бұрын

Fax

I cried when Mr Robert Green said " I wasnt on the level of Edouardo.." and Theo Von responded for him "Noooooo" That was hilarious.🤣

Im not afraid, im just tired man. I already live alone and have to support myself and work 10-12 hours a day and try to exercise 1-2 hours every day. Ive gotten zero dates in the past year, every girl i met last year rejected me and the few relationships ive had felt like another full time job just trying to keep her happy. I dont think it’s worth it at this point.

@user-uc7qb1su4e

7 күн бұрын

My question is why you wanna keep her happy?

@watermelon2223

Күн бұрын

cringe comment

@JorgeTorres_777

16 сағат бұрын

Sounds abt right 🎯

I just found out Theo Von is 44 yars old! That's insane, I thought he was like 10 years younger. Good for him.

@Jade-ms2ys

7 күн бұрын

really? wow he looks great.

@amalrajpr6800

3 күн бұрын

Its the hair, he maintains its good

Not afraid... I already work 2 jobs, don't need a 3rd.

@lastblood8550

23 күн бұрын

😂

@krusher74

23 күн бұрын

what about a hand job?

@yourmumsahoe1

23 күн бұрын

quit mcdonalds and wendys than you can have 1 job

@milwaukeebuds

23 күн бұрын

Excuses excuses😅

@purplered-eq5of

23 күн бұрын

Bruh, he cooking 👨‍🍳🍳

“Who is this damn Wizard?” Words we’ve all thought before.

@Ben256MB

18 күн бұрын

That thought comes from a guy who don't know how to talk to women .

@idontknowwhattoputhere.3572

8 күн бұрын

@@Ben256MBwatch out. We got a badass over here.

@amalrajpr6800

3 күн бұрын

​@@Ben256MBcome on don juan,stop putting us down, everybody had their moment

Theo’s writing poems and making collages for the ladies.

@Michelle.A79

20 күн бұрын

He’s an old school die hard romantic ❤️‍🔥 which unfortunately doesn’t exist today!

Y'all are missing that there's a much higher risk of doing this stuff today. Consistently hanging out at a hotel where models stay might be treated as something potentially criminal for example. We've had it beaten into our heads that women do not want to be approached in public.

@docd2295

23 күн бұрын

You’re wrong. They do want to be approached. Just by a guy who they already are attracted to and makes them feel good. Practice your skills and it will go well more than not. Oh, and he handsome lol

@brlyalve

23 күн бұрын

a lot of women don't want to be approached in many places. how many times my girl has gotten hit on just walking home from school or work, there are acceptable times and places and infringing on peoples time because you feel entitled isn't it

@MrFrankEast

23 күн бұрын

@@brlyalve Buddy im sorry but for most of history the only way thats happened is BY infringing on peoples time. Factually across all time in human history EVER. Guys used to get married off of pestering girls at work, on the street, and during free time. Thats how its ALWAYS been until recently with this mindset lol

@user-lt1jd1ye3v

23 күн бұрын

I am what could be deemed an attractive 28 year old girl and I would LOVE for an also attractive young man to come up and talk to me…. Everyone is so lonely nowadays. As long as he were nice, good looking, and could carry a conversation I’d probably go on a date with him too..

@stevenlee5806

23 күн бұрын

@@user-lt1jd1ye3vwhat if there nice and can hold and convo, but you mind them ugly… then what

Theo is so much funnier and more insightful than I thought the first time I saw a clip of him. Don't judge a book by its cover.

Idk what world ppl live in but as someone who has paid attention to girl groups and working on his approaching skills it's harder now more than ever. Girls don't walk alone all like that anymore in NY and they don't give you that grace all like that anymore. If your not the guy...your not the guy, and they may try to embarrass you immaturely. I can't tell you how many times I've been nervous still had the courage to walk up to them than they take the h*ll off like I had vomit on my face 😅. The ladies have way more fear than we do and will run if needed trust me I've seen this multiple times and all I did was make eye contact and smile. I understand it's a dangerous world and guys do messed up things but I think we've taken it too far. Keep your heads up fellows

Only person to impress is yourself.

I used to be a dating coach/pua and let me tell you. Its not just porn, its FB and IG. People are unaware of how much time they waste on social media. For most guys its already too late. But the best advice i can give is delete ur social media accounts. If not for good then temporarily, now start going out and just saying "hi how are u doing" Then when u get comfortable with that u can move on to small conversations and so forth.

@sirloin7633

18 күн бұрын

This guy said he was a dating coach.....I am dead.

@TransformersNibbasInDisguise54

17 күн бұрын

It's not too late. It was doomed from the womb

@Luke_2828

17 күн бұрын

@@sirloin7633Shit I respect that more than the guy who acts like a hater about genuinely good advice.

@Kyle-ii4fp

16 күн бұрын

Can't do that in a small cow boy hick town with nothing to do (not my fault I live here, on disability ssi and cheapest place to live, I'm 29 never dated in real life) small towns also make dating rough.

@kashourikatsu2543

16 күн бұрын

@@Kyle-ii4fp your 29, u just now starting to hit ur prime u have ur whole life ahead of you, don't make excuses.

"I would hide under a bed in there."

@therestlessanxiouschild

20 күн бұрын

🤣

@andrewmaggit4879

19 күн бұрын

Funniest part 😂😂

They aren't afraid, they have just opted out of the dating scene.

@sadudas11

13 күн бұрын

Ok sure but let’s be real, talking to women is and always has been a scary experience to some degree. Especially one that is very attractive

@LordVader1094

13 күн бұрын

That's cope. Most of us have opted out because we're afraid.

@iLLSHiNEz

13 күн бұрын

@@LordVader1094 I'm sorry to hear that brother and I hope it gets better.

@ottomobili2575

11 күн бұрын

I’m going to make ~$190K in my career this year, it is simply not worth the risk of all that to talk to girls. Even at bars, CCTV cameras don’t capture audio, so in the court of law, a girl can put any word they want into your mouth and you can be indicted for it. This is the collapse of Western Society

@phillylegion

10 күн бұрын

yeah i can agree with that. there can be some fear/nervousness to talk to women, but mostly it’s just giving up. and i don’t blame us.

Wow! Theo really opened my eyes to my younger self and even to my current self at times! Really critical thinking and self analysis on his part.

The Eduardo story is fascinating to me because it gets to the heart of the saying “Confidence is Key”. Everyone always says it but… Why? The Eduardo anecdote shows that it’s not just confidence, but the lack of judgement of others (and fear of judgement from others) that confidence brings, and subsequent ease or peace both people in a situation feel from that. Love it!

@teamcoalhapcharcoal

23 күн бұрын

Absolutely right

@braveboy2445

19 күн бұрын

How do you become judgement free?

@miguelplays2921

18 күн бұрын

he's confident because he is 6+ plus jacked, tan, chad face, all his life he has had postive enteractiions with women so why would he be scared or anxious, confidence 😆 tell that to the sub 5 balding janitor

@Mattipazz0

17 күн бұрын

@@miguelplays2921 They're not ready for the blackpill bro, they should watch rehab room

@kristina769

17 күн бұрын

@@miguelplays2921 Improve your reading comprehension

Theo Von Clips, Subscribed because your videos are always awesome!

No one is afraid to talk to another. People are afraid to talk to a group of people who have gold-leaf thin egos and power they never earned psychologically.

Women say theyd rather encounter a bear than a man, why would i go where i know im not welcome?

@Solaxer

5 күн бұрын

“Women say” Wow all 4 billion of them said that?

@guy6044

5 күн бұрын

@@Solaxer 🤓☝️

@YourUnionRep

5 күн бұрын

I know what you mean. I went down the same mental rabbit hole. It’s a large combination of men and women being on the internet and consuming too much media. People aren’t like that in real life and if they are it’s obvious they’re chronically online. The greatest suggest I can give you, brother, is delete social media. I still wish I could post and look at others posts and what not but the benefits are undeniable. Hope this helps.

@Solaxer

5 күн бұрын

@@guy6044 it’s not that you’re not welcome because you’re a man, you’re not welcome because you stink and can’t hold a normal conversation you fuckin loser 🫵🏽

@guy6044

5 күн бұрын

@@YourUnionRep I have a GF bro, nothing serious but she's real sweet, I know it ain't all girls I'm just saying I understand where a lot of guys are coming from when they just kinda check out of dating. I've definitely met a few of those girls in real life, and all thought there is not a lot, I do believe it's enough to strick hesitancy into the average man.

I believe the biggest thing is vulnerability. People are afraid of feeling vulnerable. I believe that's it because that's me currently. I was easily open to people when I was younger and getting burned for it that now I'm more closed off than I was before. I'm still working and trying to improve on that by getting out of my comfort zone.

@shnoopydoopy6707

5 күн бұрын

I can relate to this comment a lot. I'm not sure what happened but i get very very anxious when im finally about to ask a girl out and bitch out last second every fucking time. I feel like i used to be a lot less anxious about it when i was younger too. I'm trying to expose myself in those situations as much as possible though.

Dude I appreciate his honesty

Without a woman throwing you a choosing signal your way, like holding eye contact for more than a couple seconds, there is no reason to approach, period.

@user-lt1jd1ye3v

23 күн бұрын

I stare at men and they do nothing or ignore me or look terrified LOL. And I am considered I think a decent looking female. If I see an attractive guy at the gym I’d like to talk to I look but apparently I’m creepy for wanting to meet people at the gym..

@Ja50nkAt

23 күн бұрын

​@@user-lt1jd1ye3v Because of recent events in social media I think men are keeping to themselves at gyms so they don't get labeled a creep. A slim gal in a sundress at a grocery store or just out and about could get me to approach if I'm in the right head space,, that's the thing sometimes men just aren't in that mode at that moment to approach.

@elevidence8380

23 күн бұрын

​@@user-lt1jd1ye3v you'll have a better chance if you go talk to them like a normal human.

@gifi4

22 күн бұрын

I gather you're being sarcastic. If you're not, you're the problem.

@Ja50nkAt

22 күн бұрын

@@gifi4 Are you high? Women have always made that first move, the majority of the time in history. In the early 1900's women dropped the handkerchief. You're asking for rejection if you don't get that signal, unless you're a tall, handsome, well dressed man she will likely reject you.

People who talk about this always seem insecure and out of touch lol. They got no clue. They don't realize we already know more than them.

@zk3212

11 күн бұрын

Facts!!!

@nweeezy

5 күн бұрын

the out of touch part is on steroids too

@dyslexicbatnam1350

5 күн бұрын

@@nweeezy My thoughts exactly

Women wonder why men aren't giving them attention. It's because women aren't countering the waves of resentful women's propaganda which says that a man approaching a girl is somehow bad or negative. Women need to make it clear that make attention is wanted and welcome.

@FazeParticles

19 күн бұрын

attractive men's attention is welcome. it's ugly men and ugly people in general who need not apply. women would never say this but their face reactions show this to be true.

@lace5131

17 күн бұрын

Men still give women attention. Where do you all live? Space?Me and my girlfriends get approached all the time and im not even gorgeous or anything

@jonghoonpark5497

17 күн бұрын

​@lace5131 where do you live?

@joegambitt7414

17 күн бұрын

​@@lace5131he ment the type of women that would complain for the lack of attention, not every woman

@Mattipazz0

17 күн бұрын

@@lace5131 Juggernaut Law

Man, these guys are just vibing and having a great conversation about a great topic together. This is great

Get off of social media, stop porn, go outside. Eat healthier, exercise.

@ethanbednarek8080

19 күн бұрын

All of those made it way worse for me loooool except for the get off social media part

@tourdel2

18 күн бұрын

@@ethanbednarek8080 whyd it make it worse?

@ethanbednarek8080

18 күн бұрын

@@tourdel2people were accustomed to me being weak. As I grew stronger not much in terms of gym bro but complete health and fitness my family and friends saw me as an adversary. Family (all) and friends (few).

@coolswag4612

16 күн бұрын

@@ethanbednarek8080how does friends and family make you worse with talking to women are you having sex with your friends and family?

@Kyle-ii4fp

16 күн бұрын

I exercise, only on social media to meet people (small hick town with only bike access) meeting women is impossible in 🤠🏢

Are they afraid or just not wasting their time? Using the “you’re afraid” tactic so you’ll prove you’re not. Homophobe? Be gay to prove you’re not. When I was a kid we just called you chicken to get you to do stuff and then we laughed at you. Phobic sounds more mature so I guess it’s different.

It hurts to talk to women. I walk up to them and they say “Eww” or they just stare at you and shoo you away. Or you just say “hi” and they respond with “I have a boyfriend”. Ouch. I’m done getting hurt. I’m done approaching women.

@jeromefc1122

16 күн бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@user82938

3 күн бұрын

Hit the gym or something, dude. If you walk up and women are saying "Eww" right up front, you need to fix something.

@steven1671

3 күн бұрын

@@user82938 Do you think I should take a hundred showers too? Maybe that’ll help… lmfao

@NeighborhoodWatchMann

3 күн бұрын

I don't know man, he might be short lol. Back in the early 2000s, I never had a problem, but all of a sudden in the past 5 years, no woman wants me because I'm too short. I've literally been told that many times. I'm 5'6. It was so weird because even in the 2010s, the early 2010, I was in college and I used to pull easily. Now I'm more in shape than ever, I make six figures, I actually have a six pack, I'm definitely not a dumbass, but I'm 5'6 lol. And I've been straight told to my face that I'm short, like if I didn't already know that.

@user82938

3 күн бұрын

@@NeighborhoodWatchMann That's rough, man, sorry to hear it. In that case, you gotta become a fat slob like Stavros Halkias and get the girls who want to punish themselves.

Amazing clip! great fun and great real talk!

Crazy how much the timing of this is perfect

“Who is this wizard 🧙🏽‍♂️” LOL

@weeklyalexa257

21 күн бұрын

😂😂

It becomes so much easier if you want to get to know the person, not the image you build in your head. In the past I was very fixated in getting a girl and build scenarios in my head why it would work or not. But once I put that need aside and just tried to have a good time and talk about stuff like with all my buddies, it was so much easier and I really noticed if I really liked a girl or not.

@MissArtsyDeee

23 күн бұрын

This 🙌 women just want to be treated like human beings, to be known.

@omotayosatuyi252

19 күн бұрын

@@MissArtsyDeeewhat makes u think that they aren't?

@RobertMorgan

6 күн бұрын

Seems like a waste of time to get to know someone to find out if you like them, rather than liking them and that being why you invest the time to get to know them. In my experience growing to love someone is total bullshit, it happens instantly or not ever. All you can grow is negatives, resentment. As you get to know them you fall out of love.

@MissArtsyDeee

6 күн бұрын

​@@RobertMorganyou're confusing lust with love.

Reasons why people don’t approach: 1. Fear of rejection(obviously) 2. The awkwardness 3. Fear of being shamed 4. Fear of looking stupid 5. Fear of women putting you on the spot 6. 80% of the time it’s a waste of time. (Even with a number or insta, they still ignore you, or block you) Guys in the end, girls still wanna be approached, it’s best to ignore these reasons and just go in for it. They’re also human too!

Always appreciate Theo being REAL. 🔥🙌🤙🙏

Theo is one of a kind 🙏🤙

Scarcity vs abundance mindset

I've never seen Robert Greene laugh so hard

This interview is a delight. I love the way Theo makes Robert laugh about '' Eduardo'' ! This is a great chemistry and very different from all the heavily deferential and serious questioning of Robert that you usually see.

Rejection is scary but I think young men should understand that being with someone that treats you like garbage is far worst than someone saying they're not interested trust me fellas once you're familiar with rejection it becomes the least of your worries

@Michelle.A79

12 күн бұрын

You’ve got brains 🧠

@BillyOnYouTube

8 күн бұрын

It's getting to the point where I'd rather be with someone who abuses me than to be alone. At least that person acknowledges my existence.

@TwanBankz

5 күн бұрын

@@BillyOnKZreadure pathetic lol find self respect

@fatmonkey4716

4 күн бұрын

Be alone guys, the juice isn't worth the squeeze, at least until we get the courts back to an even playing field.

@briankelly7978

4 күн бұрын

I’ve learned that when you get rejected when I was single it made me say “it wasn’t that bad” and I was glad I took the risk. It’s apart of life and teaches you a lot about yourself

It’s very easy for older people to sit here and criticize the youth. But even in the older guys analysis he’s not even being honest with himself. The truth is now young men aren’t chasing women. For many reasons, and if you think it’s a confidence issue. You are very out of touch.

@idontknowwhattoputhere.3572

8 күн бұрын

First of all if you’re not a jock or the popular guy hardly anyone care about you in this society, let alone women. Second of all once you leave school social situations which you can meet new people become very limited unless you go to church or something, and who goes to church to chase girls? Internet and work is only option left. And dating apps have just become hook up sites or whatever and you have to pay for them. And public places are hard especially if you’re all alone because you will be seen as a loser. There aren’t many options for men to be fulfilled in this world. I just be myself and hardly ever hit on women and if they come to me, great.

@Tre_Vor194

4 күн бұрын

100% bro! Not to mention how much easier these older people had it financially too.

@boxybox100

4 күн бұрын

List the reasons then instead of just being a negative shitstain

@slothnation2635

4 күн бұрын

As a young man this is not true. It is a confidence issue combined with increased consumption by young men of online propaganda about “modern women” that is informing their worldview. This is In conjunction with the limited negative experiences they have with women due to there inability to judge good character born from a lack of self confidence. Insecure men spend time with toxic and insecure women because they don’t have the self belief to say no to these people, then they get burned and turn to crap online to cope and it becomes a self-sustaining, self-reinforcing cycle. I said no to romantic opportunities for years before I found someone who I liked and respected enough to enter a relationship with. It’s about having the self respect, patience and emotional intelligence needed to find and impress somebody with good character. There is a lot of them out there, a lot of young men just don’t have the skills to find them today.

Another factor is a lot of women have vocalized that they don’t want to be approached in public as it makes them uncomfortable which is completely valid but for me it’s difficult to approach someone because I don’t want them to be uncomfortable

Juice ain't worth the squeeze anymore

The honesty was refreshing. Why are people s fake these days?

It's got nothing to do with fear of approaching and a lot more to do with the long term financial disadvantages of doing anything with her.

Long story short: Social media has shaped the way we view men and women the last 20 yrs, for most women it has been “liberating” a “win” and “empowering”, for like 85% of men, we feel we have declined in like every way in the eyes of ourselves and a potential partner, and I believe what used to be fun and empowering being a man has become so much challenged, questioned and put under the microscope that, over time we has lost trust in women, ourselves and society as a whole. We as a society tells men they’re useless and dangerous, incels and “subpar”. I guess that, if you live enough in your iwn bubble you have not noticed it, this is a reflection Ive made of society as a whole, and individually we can feel ok, but man, men has to redefine what is means to be a man, and nowadays you have all the demands, but no genuine understanding of the roles anymore.

@adelina1531

7 күн бұрын

is this a joke? social media has very famously harmed women’s self esteem and increased women’s mental health issues, self harm and suicide

i'd rather go my own way

@lav7161

23 күн бұрын

Yet you're watching videos on the topic that you said you will reject?

@blazehall8086

23 күн бұрын

@@lav7161came up as suggested, that’s the intent.

@impossiblegirl5700

23 күн бұрын

MGTOW in a nutshell

@teamcoalhapcharcoal

23 күн бұрын

There's a fork in the road. Alone or with a woman. The 'with a woman' road is blocked, so you walk the other way and claim it was a choice.

@absolutelysobeast

23 күн бұрын

@@teamcoalhapcharcoalyou obviously chose the wrong road. And now you are looking up at the single guys wishing you had gone left instead of right. But that woman tricked you into going right. Now you are stuck on a road you dont want to be on and you claim it was a choice

Also the biggest thing is “ caring”. The less you care, the better it goes.

@RobertMorgan

6 күн бұрын

And if you don't care you don't participate anyway, so it's a self-solving problem.

@nakki889

5 күн бұрын

If you dont care, why do you even approach? Approaching a girl you are not interested in feels like nothing even if you get positive reply.

Great wisdom. Genuine interest and connection does have a diffrent vibration.

Great comedian and amazing author! Great combo!

Because they don't want to go to jail? Makes sense

Choose self love you don’t need someone else to fulfill your peace & happiness.

Good to see my man Rob laugh 😂

I really like mr. Vs podcasts. He is a lovely guy

Some say afraid others say know their worth or simply want to spend their time differently

Im not afraid to talk to women, I genuinely don't like them. If I meet a cool chick, dope. But on AVERAGE girls i've met are across the board mean. If they aren't attracted to you on the FIRST impression they legit don't see you as human lol. There is no "winning her over" anymore. People don't even stay together that long anymore and because we've become so hyper independent we're always asking each other WHAT CAN YOU DO FOR ME????? Its not the fact that young men have never been rejected MOST have been rejected a good bit lol Its the fact that older guys have literally never dealt with THIS TYPE of rejection AS MUCH back in the day. Sure you might strike out 8/10 times on a night out in the 1980-90s but MOST of those rejects were "No thanks, haha I have a boyfriend, no your not my type" Not "Wtf is WRONG with you? get away from me? You really think I would get with YOU??" Its defo not all women but its a LOT of them.

@VRKyurem

23 күн бұрын

You mad bro

@MrFrankEast

23 күн бұрын

@@VRKyurem Nah not really, I just get with chicks who like me right off the jump no mo chasin thats crazy

@shrunkensimon

23 күн бұрын

"We don't like you!" - Patrice ONeal

@VRKyurem

23 күн бұрын

@@MrFrankEast you’re almost 60 years old

@MrFrankEast

23 күн бұрын

@@VRKyurem My guy I am not older, im in my 20s im talking about what OLDER guys have said about dating and women back then. Its true ask MOST men from that age or slightly younger and they say its night and day after like mid 2000's

These are the podcasts that young men need to listen to!

Social. Media.

@SisterT2242

23 күн бұрын

Yep.. the good ol' www aka internet

@kaj7135

23 күн бұрын

I call it the Women’s Narcissism Factory.

@erikkibler3466

23 күн бұрын

No not the internet.social media.like they said

@SisterT2242

23 күн бұрын

What about gaming?

@inquisitorfederov5470

23 күн бұрын

@@SisterT2242 absolutely not. One of the most avid gamers alive right here. No correlation. Just unchecked parenting, destruction of the nuclear family, aversion to moral standards, etc.

Your mom was right it’s that damn phone! Nobody wants to say it because everyone is addicted to it but it’s the only answer I’ve come across that holds water for me. It even stated before the introduction of the iPhone so I guess you could argue the breakdown of community is the cause

@kalgore4906

23 күн бұрын

@overlordfemto7523 no I disagree the internet is part of the problem but the phone is the catalyst. You can see it all around you how many people do you seen in your daily life that are glued to their phones and almost ignore the outside world? How many people walk around with AirPods/wireless headphones in and shut out the world? Maybe I’m wrong but I’ve gone through all the excuses and causes and for me the breakdown of community and me me me culture is the problem and it seems like nobody wants to change anything

@muscleman125

23 күн бұрын

@overlordfemto7523 I think it's more that the smartphones made the internet highly accessible to literally everyone and their mothers in a brand new, extremely easy way that fits into your pocket. Prior to smartphones, if you wanted to browse the internet, you needed a computer. If you wanted to browse the internet anywhere, you needed a laptop. Then when the iPhone dropped, Great Grandma and Baby Billy both had streamlined access to facebook, youtube, and the rest of the internet right in their pocket. This is what has led to the brain rot of society. The boomers, early millennials, and gen Alpha did not experience the internet in it's prime. They never saw the wild west era of the internet and what was capable. The iPhone marked the start of the "corporatized" internet. The same people that taught my generation internet safety is the exact generation who gets scammed, believes propaganda, and became vane with social media.

@dynamicdingus7003

23 күн бұрын

The internet is the drug. The phone is the dealer

@KriegerIngarten

20 күн бұрын

@@kalgore4906because theyre on the internet using their phone idiot

@Cazket

4 күн бұрын

​@@kalgore4906women didn't want to be approached before phones by regular dudes. You gotta understand, gen-z is the first time women can choose out of want and not need

The biggest thing for me is I have absolutely no idea what to say

@PauperPeccator

16 күн бұрын

What do we even have in common? Are we really of the same species? Some of the things I think about, regarding the opposite/fairer sex

Make it all about her, forget yourself and just listen to her, ask good questions. Great advice from this fellow.

It’s not fear, it’s knowing if something goes wrong they will slander your name to everyone they know.

Ive never had a romantic experience/relationship with a woman that wasn’t initiated by the woman first. It’s just not worth being publicly humiliated and having your reputation ruined for going up and talking to a woman who isn’t interested in you.

@awsambdaman

13 күн бұрын

Same this is the way I prefer to do things too

@demonslayer6648

5 күн бұрын

Cope. I’ve been rejected few times. Never regretted it

@TheLowest

4 күн бұрын

Publicly humiliated and ruining your reputation? God knows what you think of as initiative but we're talking about asking someone out, not pulling a trump and grabbing someone by the pussy. You wouldn't have your reputation ruined by letting someone know you like them and wanna date them, what type of world do you live in man?

4 күн бұрын

Why do you believe women would humiliate you? Is it something you've personally experienced or are you just afraid it might happen?

I love Theo.

God bless you, sir.

I was the opposite (as a female) I was afraid and nervous to talk to guys because I came from a strict family. Theo, is a romantic at heart ❤️ which comes off naturally, you can tell by the way he talks on how he would try to get a date with a girl ❤️

this is gold

The truth for me is that I feel that it's impossible for me to build that connection. I've noticed the same worldview even as I've grown older and stronger and better looking

@CharmingMountain

19 күн бұрын

Why do you feel that? maybe we can change that for you. It's best we don't die alone. Check me

There's been several times I havent talked to someone i found beautiful, but I remember one time I went to work and the moment I locked eyes with this girl (who wasn't as beautiful as some of the girls I didn't approach) and something inside of me forced me to approach her.. I don't know what it was about her, but me and her ended up being really close ever since. When you REALLY want somebody, you will get them

"the lighting"🤣🤣

i have a fear of women. women can influence how i think and what i can do in the moment or in the long run

I think the reason is we all have this idea deep in our psyche that we can only sustain rejection so many times. It's akin to the idea that we can afford to lose only so much and still be us. Mostly it's a lie on the former. The later I don't know. But speaking to women just relax and talk to her like you would anyone else and be reasonable with who you approach or ask out. Don't approach a woman that looks like a super model unless you do too or are really rich. If you could somehow trick or connive her into a relationship with you it would be the worst mistake of your life. Of course there are always exceptions. Don't build your life around the possibility of outliers. Don't waste your life.

@CharmingMountain

19 күн бұрын

This is silly advice. How old are you? I'm the GOAT of this stuff and I cant say I approve of your message, at all.

@darrellowings2343

19 күн бұрын

@@CharmingMountain You can't talk to women but you find my suggestion objectionable? OK educate me why you think men are afraid to approach women and why didn't you include that as a counter point. I have no idea what you think only that for no reason given you don't like what I think. You don't think part of the problem is there are a large number of shallow Hals out there that have looked at so much porn they think it's reasonable to approach women out of their league because I do. Sometimes getting close to the truth isn't comfortable but it's where hope is for those that will receive it.

@CharmingMountain

19 күн бұрын

@@darrellowings2343 I cant talk to women? what?!!! I'm literally the best seducer alive. That's a fact. Check me out. "Don't approach a woman if she looks like a supermodel unless you do too, or if you're rich" Thats the weakest crock of S, I've ever heard. There's a multitude of reasons but a major one is that weak beta males like you, who spread misinformation based on their own insecurities and inability to foster real confidence that isnt shaked by countless rejections, is one of the foremost reasons why most men are afraid to talk to women today.

@Chriss-ez7xk

18 күн бұрын

⁠@@darrellowings2343 lmao the fact that you say ANY woman is out of your league says a lot about your mindset, you basically put women above you and have made them God & idk if you’re even aware of it, no woman is out of your league. What would even make you even think that’s the case ?

@user-uc7qb1su4e

7 күн бұрын

@@Chriss-ez7xk this is the correct view.

Well, speaking for myself, I recently decided to have more of an attitude towards women and got some numbers and a date, but what I realized is that most of them expect you to be an amazing man, have unrealistic expectations or just give you attention until they find someone “better than you”. Many girls today desire exceptional men but give nothing in return. I'm not the kind of guy who thinks no woman is good, but for now I'm the guy who won't waste my energy on girls anytime soon.

I have run into many Eduardo's over the years and all of them, when I've gotten to know them and asked them about their views on life, love and relationships, mentioned experience with psychedelics as a profound influence.

With the “Me Too” crap it’s now very risky for men to approach women and ask them out or even flirt. If she decides you’re not up to her standards you’re automatically “creepy”. She can then proceed to run you up the flag pole and ruin your reputation or accuse you of “sexual harassment” as the definition of the term has become so broad that it includes basically anything the woman wants it to.

@adelina1531

7 күн бұрын

me too “crap” ??? women finally speaking about the sexual violence and harassment they’ve been forced to accept and be silent about for centuries is not some fad

@rickstevenson9585

7 күн бұрын

@@adelina1531 not saying there aren’t past wrongs that too place, But you have to admit it’s been taken WAY too far. The entire make population is basically being punished for what a small percentage of the population engaged in.

@adelina1531

7 күн бұрын

@@rickstevenson9585 it hasn’t been taken nearly far enough. most rapists and domestic abusers still get off scot free. it’s absolutely NOT only a small percentage of men who harass and assault women or enable other men to do it. you’re not going to be accused of harassment if you nicely approach a woman in a social setting.

@rickstevenson9585

7 күн бұрын

@@adelina1531 most men aren’t sex offenders. It would be like me saying it’s not a small percentage of women that divorce their husbands and take all their money and never allow them to see their kids. Wild exaggerations aren’t helpful or productive. And it only appears that most offenders get away with it ( how do we know they are guilty in the first place in he said she said situations that make up a lot of the cases. The legal standard is innocent until proven guilty, and there’s been a fair number of incidents of women making it up to lash out at a ex boyfriend that dumped her, her ahole boss she doesn’t like, etc.). And what social settings? No one goes out anymore, women just swipe left and right on guys from home. If you’re a guy that didn’t win the generic lottery, then you’re going to have to try and strike up a conversation with a real life woman out in public, you know the old fashion way.

@adelina1531

7 күн бұрын

@@rickstevenson9585 yeah that would be stupid to say because the percent of of divorces where women unfairly take too much money or don’t allow the dad to see the kids for an unjustified reason is literally minuscule??? yeah that’s exactly your problem that you think the number of women that lie about it is remotely significant especially since men literally lie about being victims of abuse and falsely report people of committing crimes more than women do?? (and men are more likely to win custody in a divorce if they actually ask for it so don’t start)

I’m not young. I’m around theos age. Women ignore me even though I have a 300k income, I’m 6’4” in shape and not bad looking. I’ve found it 95% of women don’t pay any attention to me, will look away or act like I’m not worth their time, basically they’re not receptive and when I do, ask them out mostly they reject me. Now before everyone says I am the problem, recall that this is the typical experience for 80 to 90% of men.

@Michelle.A79

20 күн бұрын

You’re NOT old! Old is like 80yrs old!

@LovedByYou

20 күн бұрын

What’s your personality like….. KSI girls are drawn to charisma….?

@Throwaway-jn1jm

13 күн бұрын

@@LovedByYou I’m decent charisma. I was an actor before I was a doctor. I would say I’m a 6 or 7 depending on the girl. I’m probably above average charisma, nothing special. Basically in a normal world where men are appreciated for character, not cheating, being a provider, I would be a top tier man. In the world of entertain me, show me your instagram, how much status and how much charisma do you have? I’m average. So I will probably go somewhere where I am appreciated. In some parts of the world, like Eastern Europe - women would see me as top 1% type of guy - but in America I’m just seen as a boring provider who won’t cheat on a girl but they don’t care because you have to give them the feels first. I’ve dated hundreds of girls by this time (20 years). I think I’m giving up on American women.

@SomeBody-ce3gq

12 күн бұрын

​@@Throwaway-jn1jmI was getting ready to tell you you sound like a catch but I'm a woman who lives in Eastern Europe 😂 thus confirming your theory lmaooo

@BalkanManic

12 күн бұрын

@@Throwaway-jn1jm asia > american girls

Disgust and disappointment override fear 9 times out of 10.

Appreciate you Von. We need to warn this new generation!!!

I’m 41 and never been with a woman and now most women my age are married or single mothers. I guess now I’m gonna stay a single man, I’m ok with it.

@devinc9

23 күн бұрын

It really isn't a bad deal, lean on friends and family.

@aculx2639

23 күн бұрын

hopefully you go to the gym a lot. You gotta release yourself physically somehow.

@D87943

23 күн бұрын

@@aculx2639 it’s weird so I have a free membership at Lifetime but during the week I can go from 9:30 AM to 3:30 PM only and on Sunday it’s free. I forgot what Saturday was cause my brother was talking to a employee on the phone.

@krusher74

23 күн бұрын

@@aculx2639 you will get kicked out of the gym for jerking off!

@freeweezybitches

23 күн бұрын

You need to get some and then you can stay single if you want

“I was afraid that my legs were going to climb into my butt” most relatable shit ever

They’re completely missing a huge part of this, which is the fact that men are shamed for being men and growing up we get taught to look down on our own masculine urges

@adelina1531

7 күн бұрын

define masculine urges?

*‘Why Are So Many Young Women Disrespectful To Men?’* There fixed the title for ya

"Make her a collage" Bahahahahhaaaa

@kwent86

23 күн бұрын

rofl, he glossed over it, but I feel like it really happened. "this is the Bentley i'll be buying after becoming a famous standup comedian *points to collage*"

@raymeester7883

23 күн бұрын

Not sure I was expecting that from a guy in a mullet.

@Jade-ms2ys

7 күн бұрын

I thought that was beautiful and poetic and a really attractive kind thing to do.

So interesting to hear a guys prospect, as a girl you’re always told that men only think about one thing when approaching you, it’s so nice to see comments proving this to be false. But I know many women, myself included that would be happy to be approached by a man, if done respectfully, and are always hoping to meet them in a natural way

Theo is too funny 🤣

It’s not afraid. Just not worth it

@OttoVonBizmarkie

6 күн бұрын

Sounds like cope

@lamartv3d366

6 күн бұрын

@@OttoVonBizmarkie I have a girlfriend already. 😭

@OttoVonBizmarkie

6 күн бұрын

@@lamartv3d366 so it is worth it?

the last woman i tried to talk to threatened to mace me. never again

@warlord1207

12 күн бұрын

it's foreplay, mace her back

In high school I used to know this kid named Jaden. Even though he was 5'6", a band kid, and looked a decade older than his actual age due to his beard (which are all things girls my age say are unattractive), all the girls were in love with him. Why? because even though he was short, associated with what many assume are weirdos, and and not the most handsome kid in school, he was confident, secure, and undefensive. He was incredibly nice but he wasn't too nice. He wouldn't kiss the ass of every girl he knows, and he'd talk to a lot of girls. The more girls he'd like or talk to, the more other girls like him.

The scary part is the possibility of rejection and failure because that confirms a dysfunction core belief of not being good enough that were formed from traumatic past rejections. I guess you have to face that fear more and more until you get success and can use the interaction to let go of triggered sensations. And you have to bring the focus of your control on your own actions (whether u approach the girl or not), rather than trying to control the outcome (whether she says yes or not)

It's not just rejection now though, it's also false rape accusations, MeToo stuff. I think most Gen Z women now think that a man approaching a woman sometimes or always constitutes harassment. But at the same time, women want men to make the first move. But that's harassment.... Women said what they wanted, and it's for men to stay away from them.

@Chriss-ez7xk

18 күн бұрын

Why are you living your life based off what society says?

@Martin-ej6tc

18 күн бұрын

@Chriss-ez7xk Because I like not being in prison, personally. I also like not being plastered all over social media and mass-shamed. Why would one not live their life based on what society says? Society has immeasurable power compared to me. Women wield that power and society will side with them by default without even considering my view. Obviously they get what they want, to be left alone.

@harsh3948

15 күн бұрын

@@Chriss-ez7xkbecause we live in a society

@zk3212

11 күн бұрын

​@@Chriss-ez7xkbecause you have to?

@adrianw0w757

7 күн бұрын

You should touch grass from time to time

Wrong choice of words "afraid".

@jamescheaye927

18 күн бұрын

Apprehensive, yes. Afraid, not really