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@dearrationals

3 ай бұрын

How about you follow the sunnah first and get a full beard and cover your arms? Munafiq.

@xaviertr6240

Ай бұрын

make this video with spanish subs

"the point of hijab is to conceal your beauty, not to beautify your concealment" 💯💯💯

@onlineonlineaccount2368

4 ай бұрын

@JournalityOnAJourney.....The Hijab is a Arabic custom and tradition that has been adopted in Islam. Why conceal your beauty when Allah made people to be looked at. How can a man see a women ''beauty'' if she is coverd in a Hijab or Niqah doesnt make any sense. Just old ancient Arabic customs that has been made religious.

@son_of_alandalus

4 ай бұрын

​@@onlineonlineaccount2368if we follow the rabbit hole you made we end up with the modern western women going outside literally nud3 in public, race to the bottom.

@abunumaanjafor4445

4 ай бұрын

@@onlineonlineaccount2368 I honestly question if you are Muslim, because you clearly have not read the Quran. The word hijab means to conceal/veil, the word hijab has now been adopted to mean that which covers the awrah. whether it be for a man or a woman. But the Quran explicitly tells women to cover their beauty, the brother even quoted the verses of the Quran in the video. How could you possibly say that concealing one's beauty is not a part of Islam? The verse he quoted in the video even specifies the people to whom a woman is permitted to show her beauty, which includes her husband. That is the man who can see her beauty. But it stays covered from no-mahram.

@onlineonlineaccount2368

4 ай бұрын

@@son_of_alandalus No not all. Any women who dresses decent and modest is always respectable as muslim women or even as non-muslim. But there is the extreme like a Niqab which is a custom of dress that is Arabic in its tradition and later on taken over by other muslim women who follow a very orthodox in their practise. Alot customs like dress in the Islam are Arabic by tradition and customs and have been incorperated in the islam because islam comes from Saudi Arabia and is in origin a Arabic religion and belief system as we know.

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

I question whether this troll is Muslim or not as well

They won’t listen if you tell them hadiths against what they are doing.They are just following their desires.

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Fair but we still need to speak up about injustice and enjoin good as Muslims

@happyme3556

4 ай бұрын

Exactly. They will need to learn tje hard way.

@AndrewMania792

4 ай бұрын

@@FaiyadFit a good way to advise them is in the dm’s and say for example:Maybe you dont know brother/sister but the prophet a.s have prohibited this action so its not a good thing to do.But it still depends on person character if he prioritize desire over deen.

@ryojs4286

4 ай бұрын

Not fair We speak the Truth regardless of billions not listening ​@@FaiyadFit

@SkyMonkeyDrum

4 ай бұрын

Librandus/ Feminists are half apostates. They don't follow hadith, and most of the time rejects or ignores it.

I don’t think it’s good for sisters to go online, especially without proper hijab, and makeup on top of it. BUT, since it’s wrong, it’s also wrong for you to show their videos as well Speak of the topic of you wish, but don’t further expose anyone else’s sins. And yes, I get it’s public, so supposedly you can correct publicly. But what if they do decide to take their videos down, and you still have their videos in your videos? Also why can’t you explain without naming names or showing faces?

@shimmer4771

4 ай бұрын

I think it's dangerous in general to go online (cyberbullying, privacy, ect). It can really cause fitna. Sometimes, it's needed. However, why're men watching *women's* channels? Unless these men are serious about marriage, they shouldn't even be watching. I do agree, them not wearing proper hijab (especially tabbaruj) is wrong, but men shouldn't even be looking. That's wrong. It's still on them to lower their gaze and not fawn over them.

@sara.m88

3 ай бұрын

I came here to say this so thank you

@dynamic7351

3 ай бұрын

Thank you, this is exactly what i thought.

@HannahBrowsley

2 ай бұрын

Period

@catlovers4302

2 ай бұрын

I agree with you 💯 👍

You contradicted yourself by further exposing these sisters. If you think what their husbands are doing is haram (which it is), you shouldn’t do the same exact thing in your video. This topic could’ve been addressed without showing your sisters to the world. Have gheerah for your sisters.

@shimmer4771

4 ай бұрын

I see your point. The best way to address it is to privately message the person.

@ukhticookie

4 ай бұрын

@@shimmer4771 I suppose, but what they are doing is also public

@misaki1785

4 ай бұрын

Think again, their followers will think it's ok and doing such a thing it's good, this wrong, if someone did wrong thing in public you should give advise also in public

@opocoyo

4 ай бұрын

Advising someone doesn’t mean you need to do the same exact thing that you’re advising against. He’s say these brothers don’t have gheerah for their wives for exposing them whilst HE’S ALSO not having gheerah for his sisters in Islam and chooses to expose them further.

@shimmer4771

4 ай бұрын

@@opocoyo I just think he should privately message them and tell them. Lecturing them won't change them, though. Most people are stuck in their ways.

As a Muslimah I agree - Today Men have lost Ghayrah and Women have lost Haya so as a couple combined they have no shame, promoting this in social media even while in hijab. Hijab/Modesty is not just clothes, it is also thoughts and behaviour.

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Hijab is actually so much more than a piece of fabric. It’s a state of being with conditions about dress wear and eventually transcends into haya and modesty. Both men and women have to keep it in line in sha Allah.

@5pointview717

4 ай бұрын

@@FaiyadFit Agree but as we know 'covered (hijab) while still naked (no modesty/shame) is the future. I think for girls it started when the need to make sure the headscarf is stylish/fashionable ie looks good and is pretty colours became more important than simply just wearing a piece of fabric to cover up (upto Gen X - 90s it was not a fashion statement). I know today young girls/women will not step out of the house until the headscarf looks perfect and they have atleast one layer of makeup on just to pop into corner shop for milk (why unless the point is to catch the eye of men or impress someone for marriage or going for job interview). We all have selfesteem and want to look good but this desire to always look 'perfect in clothes and skin' is the slippery slope to loss of Haya in both men and women.

@ibrahim_-_-_

4 ай бұрын

@@FaiyadFitcouldn’t have said it better myself. most women view it as just a piece of fabric, even worse, unnecessary, glad i can see some people who understand it’s true purpose

@glorybetoalmighty9698

4 ай бұрын

Sometimes i feel like i have more testosterone than some muslim men who appear with their wives in the vdos🤡 Is gheerah only a male thing cz my lady! I surely have more gheerah than these men (I'm not pointing at someone particularly). I've also seen a brother showing his wife's "funny" face when she fell asleep. Imagine being a dad with dignity and failing to marry ur daughter off to ar rajul💀 It feels like i'm watching 2 girlie pops making a "how to do make up tutorial". If the woman was alone making such vdos i'd give her the benefit of doubt thinking maybe she's new to islam or she's in a western country where she is influenced heavily by feminism so her men allowed her to do some things keeping some boundaries. So this might encourage her to become more religious. Maybe her men are dealing with her with diplomacy rather than being Strict right away. Now tell me what benefit of doubt do i give to those hubbies who make tiktoks along side them?🤡 Man my gheerah would never! U don't have to be all strict and can be polite letting your wife know that she should listen to u when u feel uneasy with some of her actions. That's the effective way to go. Bt what's all these. I can't help bt feel bad for those ladies on their behalf🥴

@anikamasudeve3202

4 ай бұрын

@@5pointview717 Keep your gaze down and stop looking at women. That's your first job.

I'll take it one step further. Not only should we not post our wives online, but we shouldn't post our kids either. Just think of all the goofy pictures and videos of kids being posted by their parents. They become memes and get spread thousands or millions of times. The more embarrassing the situation, the more it gets spread. And then 20 years from now, when that kid is an adult, that kid's coworkers will mock that kid for being part of a dumb meme that was spread like wild fire 20 years earlier. We need to stop feeding the internet with pictures of our wives and kids. Social media is a tool. Use it to grow your brand and make money. Don't use it to spread your family around. Keep your family protected from the internet.

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

This was powerful Jazakallahu khair

@malcolmx5633

4 ай бұрын

Yessssss

@malcolmx5633

4 ай бұрын

Pedo everywhere!!

@Theconfronter1

4 ай бұрын

U forgot that the internet is full of pedos

@3l3phantz

3 ай бұрын

One step even further - let’s step posting ourselves, point, blank, period. People use stupid excuses to continue using social media, ignoring the fact we’re wasting our time, accumulating sins, and enjoying the easy dopamine hits that come from the addictive, gamified nature of apps. Stick to Whatssap, text and other communications. If you really wanted to stay in touch with someone, you would within stalking their life on instagram. May Allah shield us from this social rot.

I’m a woman and I reverted to Islam 2 years ago .. I completely agree with this brother. If you don’t and you have been offended then please work on your iman, yourself and seek guidance from Allah swt 🙏🏼

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

May Allah bless you

@nitushe3938

Ай бұрын

totally agree with you!

Hasan al-Basri: If you had seen the Sahabah, you would’ve said: They’re crazy! If the Sahabah had seen you, they’d say: They’re not Muslims! Source: al-Hilyah 2/1324

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

SubhanAllah

Finally someone is talking about this! It was very necessary

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Alhumdulillah

When I saw it I agreed. Days later I realized that I disagreed. I am a converted Muslim, and if it had not been for seeing women on their social networks being happy, having good marriages, I would never have converted. I thought that Muslim women were mistreated and humiliated. It's good to have role models. Maybe they are not for the very spiritual, but for the general population they are. On the other hand, I see photos where you show your shoulders. They are attractive to me. Don't you mind tempting me? Men also have an ideal dress code. The worst thing about this video is that you put photos of two KZreadrs on the cover. That's wrong, if you wanted to help you would have told them privately. And coincidentally it is one of your videos with the most views. In the end, only God knows our intentions and we have to be more cautious when judging.

@rupontee

4 ай бұрын

The thing is that when you put yourself on internet as a public figure then you gotta deal with what comes with popularity. I mean they can make contents or whatever but the thing is that they are promoting themselves as muslim content creators but they are sharing the wrong concept of islam. I hope you get to know the real side of islam.

@ninc2518

4 ай бұрын

@@rupontee I agree with you. The Islamic utopia serves to be a model. And as in some hadiths, the Prophet (peace be upon him) accepted that in some circumstances there was more than one correct answer. In the end we were born to be imperfect and the important thing is to recognize our mistakes and repent. As I already said, the important thing is the intentions. Maybe they don't project Islam correctly, but we shouldn't be naive and expect a person who was born in the West to behave like someone from the East. We have to do the best with what we have, and only God knows why he chose us to be born in that place.

@rupontee

4 ай бұрын

@@ninc2518 exactly which is why Allah said that the reward which could be reduced by much worship during the Prophet's time can be earned by much less worship in the end times because the fitnah will be greater in the end times. I pray that Allah bless them to differentiate between right and wrong because all that glitters is not gold. I hope you have a nice day.

@Omaima782

3 ай бұрын

Salam, You converted because Allah wanted you to.. don't matter the way you found islam. Maybe i dont condone the way he speaks about it but its a real topic that our Ummah is putting aside. It's like we are letting the western view of life dictate ours while clearly the quran and the sunna prohibit the beautification of women. If it was a bad thing that lead you to good that shows Allah mercy. But at the same time we can't forget the rules of our religion. There is nothing wrong with being a content creator just the way you choose to do so in my opinion

@ninc2518

3 ай бұрын

@@rupontee 7:32 Ask, ˹O Prophet,˺ “Who has forbidden the adornments and lawful provisions Allah has brought forth for His servants?” Say, “They are for the enjoyment of the believers in this worldly life, but they will be exclusively theirs on the Day of Judgment. This is how We make Our revelations clear for people of knowledge.” I think there is a difference between dressing in nice, clean fabrics, being a presentable person, and dressing to attract the opposite sex. In any case, men also wear looser clothes, because their muscles attract me. Why is it never said that men also tempt women? But in the end it is our mind that decides whether to prolong a fantasy or not.

Thank you for speaking out about this. Glad to know I'm not the only one who sees what's going on. Crazy part is, this is common for non-muslims, but seeing other Muslims engage in this type of behavior is a new level of cringe. Also, great studies and data.

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

SubhanAllah

@MohamedMohamed-br1xv

4 ай бұрын

it's a calamity, let alone cringe

@jess13133

4 ай бұрын

your kind would blame the prophet when aisha was accused of having an affair. you should never blame the men for the sins of female since no one bear the sins of others.

@Retributivist

4 ай бұрын

@@jess13133 You clearly didn't watch the video. No self-respecting man is going to allow his wife to show herself to the world and other men. The woman doing it on their own is clearly a sinful act, and you'd be hard-pressed to prove the man who allows her to do that is also not sinning. Especially, as in a lot of these cases, when the men are actually the ones creating the content and posting to show off their wives.

@jess13133

4 ай бұрын

@@Retributivist You clearly dont read the title since it says the men are showing off the females when in reality its the females that are showing itself off. Remember that the wives of the prophets are also sinners, it is not the job of the men to prevent females from sinning. Men only need to guide. Its up to the females to follow or not.

I appreciate your openness in expressing your thoughts. Regrettably, there are several male influencers within the Muslim community who, post-marriage, bring their wives into the public eye through social media. They transform their spouses into public figures, making them part of their personal brand, instead of maintaining the privacy they had before marriage.

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Astagfirullah

@deenforce1142

4 ай бұрын

The issue is they think the hijab is ONLY the veil while in reality home also has a "hijab" in a since in terms of privacy. I recalled hearing Dr. Muhammad Saleh speak about this on HUDA TV, warning us that we are INVITING Hassad (Evil Eye) as well, asking for it by doing this. Sometimes I wonder what will be the outcome of these "publicized" marriage? divorce? what about the family children? I personally see a future in those making everything in life public.

nothing wrong with a woman going to the gym tho, as long as it's only for women

@imsoooboredjaehyun

4 ай бұрын

Same goes for men going to mixed gyms

@Fia-fn4ly

2 ай бұрын

Was thinking the same. Why would he make that an issue. Perhaps he thought it was a mixed gym…

@Jgol626

Ай бұрын

@@imsoooboredjaehyunfair enough, what if there aren’t any?

@yobro6053

Ай бұрын

​@@Jgol626gym at home, it's not the end of the world

@slickrick2420

24 күн бұрын

​@@Fia-fn4ly because he assumes the worst of his fellow muslims

“No amount of cloth can cover a woman that wants to be seen”

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

SubhanAllah akhi

@teeteeshouse

4 ай бұрын

It's not ok for women to be seen? Is it ok for men to be seen?

@Cloudydropslets

4 ай бұрын

​@@teeteeshouse be seen in an inappropriate sense not a literate way. He's talking about intentions. Even if shes she's wearing full niqab, IF she wants she can turn it into something inappropriate. He's not talking about women existing and having (good) influence on the ummah 🤣

@user-sd4dt7up7v

4 ай бұрын

real men should be out working and building themselves'? what are we doing wasting time on tik tok. Perfect your own deeds and focus inwardly rather than sitting in your room talking about this topic again and again. and Before you come for me- i don't use social media except youtube. If a social media app is making you angry just get rid of the app. KZread is more resourceful for information and you can tune out content you are not interested in. There is no way you can avoid haram content on an app such as tik tok or instagram. So if you are on a journey of self improvement, distance your eyes and your mind from this type of content rather than feeling so angry over random people on the internet.

@Sandra-1wiq

4 ай бұрын

@@user-sd4dt7up7vexactly lmao

Message from a sister, Well said Brother Tabarak Allah. InshaAllah this video reaches millions of views and makes a positive impact. A beautiful and much needed genuine message may Allah SWT guide our Ummah and keep us steadfast on the right path and reward you for doing this video.

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Ameen ya rabb sis

@zeeinvest9473

3 ай бұрын

As Salaamu Alaykum, Sarah, are you on discord by any chance ?

As a muslimah who reverted in 2001 and covered from day 1. The changes i see from then to now Subhana'Allaah its scary i am told i am extreme and all sortd as i fully cover in niqab and gloves too. Dont go out after maghrib and dont wear makeup or perfume out of my home.

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

May Allah bless you

@zamzamp2757

4 ай бұрын

MashaAllah sister. About going out after maghrib for women, you mean you don’t go out unnecessarily and alone, right? As in the UK sometimes maghrib is as early as 3.50pm. Is there anything in Quraan and Hadith about this? As far as I have seen, the restriction for going out is only at the time of maghrib because of the supernatural as opposed to after maghrib?

@ummyusuf8817

4 ай бұрын

@@zamzamp2757 i do not go out after maghrib as i get everything done before, Nothing good happens after maghrib bad things happen. Unless you are with ur zawj or a mahram then it be okay. I know we can go out to masjid and to learn. ALLAAH SWT knows best. Why would you want to go out after maghrib if not to masjid or classes?. So much so women can even stay home and pray salah

@queen_haya

3 ай бұрын

SubhanAllah may Allah swt reward u dear sister ur doing amazing mashallah don’t listen to anyone it is Allah swt who is most important and ur pleasing Allah swt don’t care about anyone else

@annieluna7715

3 ай бұрын

Following in the footsteps of Mohammed, - Islamic sanctions paedophilia via “marriage.” - Adult men can molest girls of any age as long as she's 1 of his 4 wives. Imams and clerics issue fatwas (1809) on the permissibility of mufa’ khathat (a grown man rubbing his penis between a pre-pubescent female childs thighs) because 54 year Mohammed did that with his 6 year old wife Aisha. Aisha would then clean the semen [Sahih al-Bukhari 230] - A man can have sexual intercourse with a child over the age of 9 years still playing with dolls, irrespective of the likely damage to a childs reproductive system - because Mohammed did [Sahih al-Bukhari, 5134; Book 67, Hadith 70; Aisha [RA], in Sunan an-Nasa'i 3378; Vol. 4, Book 26, Hadith 3380] It's a medical fact that sex with children causes reproductive damage. Explains why Aisha never had children despite being subjected to relentless rapes as Mohammeds favourite wife. - ISIS and Islamists practice rape and sex slavery in the 21st century because Mohammed raped and owned sex slaves [Quran 4:24; Quran - 23:5, 6; Kitab al-Tabaqat al-Kabila 151, Tabari's History, volume 39, page 194, Sahih al-Bukhari 3, 432; Sahih al-Bukhari 9, 506; Sahih al-Bukhari 5, 637; Sahih al-Bukhari 2, 3371] By the logic of Mohammeds satanic revelations, the Serbian soldiers found guilty of war crimes for the systematic gang-rapes of an estimated 20k-50k Bosnian Muslim women, should be acquitted. The INDEFENSIBLE atrocities outlined above, sanctioned and practiced by Mohammed, are considered the most heinous crimes against humanity: paedophilia, rape and sex slavery.

With all due respect brother, and just to add on- I have listened to your podcast the 3 muslims and I had usually liked your content. But Don't you think posting these other influencer videos in your videos contradicts your point? By showcasing them? Especially being sarcastic and mocking them? How are we any better? YES I understand your point of the whole video and I do agree that what the influencers doing are wrong. But I think you could have started putting the message across in a much better way. You could have blurred the women in the reels or in fact blurred both the men and women. Especially considering your content is male-audience driven. Or you could have avoided showing their content as well by keeping the haya. I dont think just to put the message across you can show that content, I think it could have been avoided. Because the audience who this message is for anyhow would understand your point w/o having to see the reels.

so many powerful statements said in this video!! its so important that ppl watch it and understand. may Allah reward u for taking the initiative to advise (respectfully too) our brothers and sisters ‼

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Allahumma ameen

@annieluna7715

3 ай бұрын

Following in the footsteps of Mohammed, - Islamic sanctions paedophilia via “marriage.” - Adult men can molest girls of any age as long as she's 1 of his 4 wives. Imams and clerics issue fatwas (1809) on the permissibility of mufa’ khathat (a grown man rubbing his penis between a pre-pubescent female childs thighs) because 54 year Mohammed did that with his 6 year old wife Aisha. Aisha would then clean the semen [Sahih al-Bukhari 230] - A man can have sexual intercourse with a child over the age of 9 years still playing with dolls, irrespective of the likely damage to a childs reproductive system - because Mohammed did [Sahih al-Bukhari, 5134; Book 67, Hadith 70; Aisha [RA], in Sunan an-Nasa'i 3378; Vol. 4, Book 26, Hadith 3380] It's a medical fact that sex with children causes reproductive damage. Explains why Aisha never had children despite being subjected to relentless rapes as Mohammeds favourite wife. - ISIS and Islamists practice rape and sex slavery in the 21st century because Mohammed raped and owned sex slaves [Quran 4:24; Quran - 23:5, 6; Kitab al-Tabaqat al-Kabila 151, Tabari's History, volume 39, page 194, Sahih al-Bukhari 3, 432; Sahih al-Bukhari 9, 506; Sahih al-Bukhari 5, 637; Sahih al-Bukhari 2, 3371] By the logic of Mohammeds satanic revelations, the Serbian soldiers found guilty of war crimes for the systematic gang-rapes of an estimated 20k-50k Bosnian Muslim women, should be acquitted. The INDEFENSIBLE atrocities outlined above, sanctioned and practiced by Mohammed, are considered the most heinous crimes against humanity: paedophilia, rape and sex slavery.

word for word. bar for bar. this man told zero lies.

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

May Allah keep me speaking truth and no lie

@maxwilliam1063

3 ай бұрын

@@FaiyadFit Ameen!

@eliasziad7864

3 ай бұрын

This guy is totally wrong lol. he is accusing righteous Muslim men for having adulterous wives even though they are covered up completely... This guy "Faiyadfit" is gaining way more sins then whatever those content creators are getting.

@dawnofhayyan

3 ай бұрын

@@eliasziad7864 I don’t think he’s accusing these men’s wives of committing Zina. By definition, isn’t a dayooth a man who just has no gheerah? That doesn’t necessarily mean they let their wives sleep around. That just means they have no jealously over other men seeing their wive’s beauty as it’s on display for everyone to see online. Correct me if I’m wrong?

@maxwilliam1063

3 ай бұрын

@@eliasziad7864 I don't know really what to think right now...

All Muslims need to watch this great detailed video on protective jealousy, best video on the internet up until now on this topic, spread the word!!

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Allahumma ameen

I knew you were going to make a video on this. I just wasn't expecting you to actually mention the channels. But Alhamdulillah, a much-needed direct approach.

Great message. Since I can't control what other people like to do in social media, I just quit social media. Sadly lots of my friends (in social media) do the things you point out in this video. It just doesn't feel right for me to keep consuming their relationship life.

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

I agree

@jojos9788

4 ай бұрын

Don't quit it. Keep it and keep on posting videos about the topics like this, share videos. To make them aware. Don't mention anyone. Write what Islam has permitted regardless of anyone liking it or not. That way one day maybe one person would read it and change their life. This is how I plan to change my friend's haram relationship. I stopped advising them. It's time I post and make them aware

ITS ABOUT TIME SOMEONE SPOKE ABOUT THIS masha'Allah bros saying what we all silently think

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

May Allah empower the truth speakers ❤

@JournalityOnAJourney

4 ай бұрын

​@@FaiyadFitameen yaa rabb

@ok_e3w

4 ай бұрын

@@FaiyadFit Ameen Yaa Rabb

@ok_e3w

4 ай бұрын

@@JournalityOnAJourney *Rabb

@malcolmx5633

4 ай бұрын

Yessssss

Secular, but with what's been happening in the world (Gaza) I've been reading up on Judaism and Islam. It's interesting to me that some of the concepts in Islam just feel natural, like I've been living by them all my life already without knowing it. When I saw the title to this video I was shocked because I was just thinking about this yesterday. I've been watching many Muslim couples lately and for the most part the women and men are both humble and respectful but there were some that just didn't seem right. This video helped me understand this a little better.

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

That’s amazing bro. Would love to have a discussion with you open ended about life and religion and philosophy on my channel or even privately, let me know if you’re interested

Really wanted someone to talk about this as it's becoming very common in Muslims and they are not even concerned about this all May Allah give us all hidayah✨

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Allahumma ameen

Alhamdulilah, thank you for this video. This was my first time being introduced to terms such as dayooth and Tabarruj and I definitely learned a lot. May Allah make us all the best of Muslims

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Allahumma ameen may Allah reward you for sincerity sis

@GintamaKintama-sx3zz

4 ай бұрын

​@@FaiyadFitWhat a joke! I honestly thought you're a good Muslim because you dare speaking about the truth that many Ustadh refuse to talk about it like the topic of Ad-Dayooth. But then, I'm doing a little research about you, and I find out that you're probably not a Salafi, you are from the3Muslims who are friends with the philosopher and ahlul bid'ah, which is Muhammad Hijab. I almost subscribe to you but Alhamdulillah, Allah showed me your true color. Stop acting as if you are righteous, that sis you're talking to are showing her beauty in her profile picture, you dare talking about ghayrah but you have no ghayrah looking at sis you're talking to in this post. How can you defend yourself now when you are clearly exposed like this?

Thanks for this video. A lot of thoughts were going through my mind and I needed to hear this. May Allah bless you, brother.

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Allahumma ameen and you!

Thank you for the reminder, I support this video and women should be protected at all times!!

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Absolutely sis

JazaakAllaahu khayr for speaking about this. Entering people's homes have etiquettes and nowadays people have left their homes wide open

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Wa iyaakum sister

I agree about women who commit tabarruj. I feel like I was influenced to wear the hijab a certain way to make me look prettier like the influencers. I still see women who don't cover correctly and get offended when they are advised about it because they say only Allah can judge me and other excuses to please their nafs. They forget that Shaythan makes it seem like what they are doing is okay.

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

May Allah reward you and guide these sisters

My brotha Faiyad is bringing the HEAT!! Man! May Allah protect you fam

Jazzak’Allahu khairan brother,keep up the work

Phenomenal video bro. You are on fire right now with the videos keep going inshallah

@ok_e3w

4 ай бұрын

inshAllah*, your also making great videos my bro especially raising awareness of what the P industry really is, May Allah bless you my man

@fishbarbeque8540

4 ай бұрын

Your content rocks too!!!!

@ldrago6031

4 ай бұрын

Munafiq 😂 you legit post nked women 😂 inshallaj both you and this fitna creator get punished to the highest extent on judgment day . Ameen

Best video on this topic until now Masha'Allah. May Allah bless you brother Faiyad.

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Ameen and you as well akhi

So relevant nowadays. More videos like this one are needed

im so glad you reconfirmed what was troubling me, i had put my pic up on a matrimonial site and the amount of unwanted comments that was sexualized towards me revolted me, even though i had said i pray 5 times, i do not mix with the opposite sex , and personally i dont like men looking at me or talking to me, but i had no choice cause i want to find someone to marry so i put my pic up , i am modestly very well dressed and gracefully dressed however modern i look I am fully covered , have hardly spoken to men unless its work related. Im in a leadership position so am considered alpha female as im head strong and very confident. I am considered by many as relatively very attractive so I'm uncomfortable with men giving me compliments in a nice way or sexualized way which i get angry and give them a peace of my mind and bring their sisters and mothers up . I dont have male friends and have zero desire to talk to men and as i grew up in a female house hold we were not allowed to mix with the opposite sex even though we had so much freedom to do as we pleased, dad was encouraging to make sure we stood strong, but with the opposite sex mixing we knew the score it was a no brainer, which is ingrained in me till this day, even though my parents died decades back, we had all the freedom to do as we pleased which we never abused. However no matter how religious i am i do not wear the hijab ( only thing i dont practice) but today i removed my picture from the muslim matrimonial muslima site, when i heard what you said and it confirmed why i was so unhappy of the opposite sex looking at me and saying shit like hi beautiful, hi sexy. These is not the caliber or type of man i want to be married to. So just now i removed my photo which was a massive relief as im a very private person. Thank you brother i knew what you were saying all along was right i just wanted to find that one decent guy which sadly i didnt, but im happier with removing my pic. You just reconfirmed what i had been thinking all along.

You hit it right on the head Faiyad. May Allah SWT bless you. امين

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Ameen ya rabb thank you friend

I agree, this is definitely one of the most important videos these days, may Allah bless you for putting in the work, even in such high-quality way allahumma barik! I'd wish, however, that you'd also have addressed the fact that this issue even extended to our sisters in Abaya and Niqab. It doesn't always have to be the apparent Hijabi, but the Niqabi and the husband in the thawb is also very certainly affected and posting pictures as a Niqabi sister and blurring your husband's face is totally being fetishised and romanticised

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Underrated comment thanks

This kind of video is very rare! I've had lots of concerns around this lately. Thanks brr for putting this together.

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Alhumdulillah akhi

This is a topic that I really wanted someone to talk about, I really appreciate your honesty, may Allah bless you, keep the good work brother!! May Allah gift all Muslim women with men who love them and have ghayrah on them ♡

thank you brother. it’s pretty tough not placing value on social validation as a woman, when we grow up being told by media to look beautiful and appealing. i grew up religious but none of the immediate women in my family wear a hijab. we wear modest clothes but no veil. inshallah one day my mum and i wear it, before we pass into the next world. before Allah swt loses patience with us and shuts our book of deeds…🤲🏻

Alhamdulillah and thanks for sharing this video ❤❤❤

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Allahumma barik

BarakAllahu fiikum akhi. May Allah guide us to become better Muslim men and have that sense of gheerah for ourselves and for our wives 🤲🏾

THANK YOU for this video....I indeed think this is absolutely important to talk about.... Jazakum Allahu khairan

Jazakallah Khayr, my only advice here for this particular video and future ones is to cover the faces of the women (even if they are already out there), also the photos of the bodies of your online program.

SubhanAllah. May Allah grant you the best in this world and the next. I feel so much shame when my wifes scarf is on the slightly short side, or the clothes she wears hugs her clothes lightly.

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

May Allah preserve you.

This real talk is so necessary in the modern age. JazakAllah Khyr brother.

@FaiyadFit

Ай бұрын

Wa iyaakum habibi

BarakaAllahu feek for bringing this up!

WhY iS sHe EvEn GoInG tO tHe GyM? 😂

@alizzahkhann

Ай бұрын

tabarruj queen, guess you dropped this (💄)?

Allahumma barik very true. And the wives might act like they appreciate the ‘freedom’ but really it is not true love. If a man has gheerah over you it means he loves and cares about you. And a woman naturally knows this, even if she ‘acts’ like she doesn’t like it yes she does, she feels protected. But some women are brainwashed into thinking it is bad, and some men are brainwashed into losing their masculinity and not protecting their women which is sad. May Allah guide us

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Allahumma ameen

Doing great job Spreading Awareness

Loved it bro please continue no matter the views please please

I wanted a talk on this subject. Thank you so much.

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Allahumma barik

MashaAllah akhi, your editor just edited this video perfectly imo. perfect balance between it all!

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Allahumma barik

thank you / shukran brother for spreading this

Brutal truth. May Allah bless you for bringing it up with clear references. Jazakallah khair.

We need videos like this

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Alhumdulillah

If you think they’re doing something wrong or “sinning” why would you share and publicize their sins???

@misaki1785

4 ай бұрын

Because they are doing the sins in public and influencing many people so their followers will think it's ok and good think to do like them, why let people be misguided

@opocoyo

4 ай бұрын

Why is he also exposing their faces? He can warn against this publicly and blur the women’s faces…

@farahjichi4617

3 ай бұрын

​@@misaki1785why is he opening social media with naked women everywhere??.. It only matters when it's about controlling women. Lol

@limshid3141

3 ай бұрын

Hi feminist

@farahjichi4617

3 ай бұрын

@@limshid3141 is that suppose to be a insult? Lol

I was surprised when I saw how many comments you reply to. May Allah bless you with jannat al firdous brother. You and the others on the podcast have helped and informed me a lot. Barak Allah oufikom

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Allahumma ameen Wa iyaakum

I’m a revert and once I have up social media , my life has been the most peaceful that no money or ‘clout’ can buy. Alhamdulillah. This is a wonderful video and may Allah help the umma.

Ma sha Allah I wished my husband shared your beliefs. Your wife is blessed alhamdulilah. Jaz Khairan ❤

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

I see what u did there …

Thank you brother for trying to be a good influence on the muslim community.

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

May Allah keep my this way and purify my intentions

@TRYno397

4 ай бұрын

@@FaiyadFit don’t overwork yourself and take care your brother from Morocco 🤝🏼

Thank you for advising them in a caring way. A lot of times people are dealt with so harshly when they sin that they end up sinning even more.

Thank you! Finally someone has said it. Legend

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Alhumdulillah

"Part of the perfection of someone's Islam is his leaving alone that which does not concern him." (Ibn-Majah: 2518)

@1x.youssef

4 ай бұрын

You are the best community ever raised for humanity-you encourage good, forbid evil, and believe in Allah. Had the People of the Book believed, it would have been better for them. Some of them are faithful, but most are rebellious. -Surah 3:110

@iznij3284

4 ай бұрын

@@1x.youssef You know why I quoted that hadith? because I do not watch such KZread videos, as others people's personal life, financial life, and married life is not my concern. Most people who watch such marriage goal videos are muslim youth if they stop it wouldn't get so popular for other to make them. These videos are made by content creators on demand by people asking questions in comment section to do/answer this and that, which shouldn't be their primary concern.

@TOBI-sr4mo

4 ай бұрын

@@iznij3284 that's mean i can sell drugs if there's a demand?

@iznij3284

4 ай бұрын

@@TOBI-sr4mo Same with alcohol. But is it halal to do so?

@TOBI-sr4mo

4 ай бұрын

@@iznij3284 of course no! and - muslims must blame and admonish who doing bad things and that's mean you are incorrect using this expression “leaving alone that which does not concern him“ according the religion: if someone doing bad things - you must warn him and clarify why it's wrong not "leaving alone"

Advised all these brothers in their channels several times! But subhan ALLAH none of them read the comments or maybe just didnt listen! In fact advised the sisters who post vids without covering their faces several times....still none listened or just didnt read them! may ALLAH SWT forgive us and guide us all.

@JustinKFlynn

4 ай бұрын

💯 Ameen..

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

People will do as they please until they feel otherwise

Thank you for addressing this important issue

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Allahumma barik

Much needed video akhi. It is a pandemic. But blur the women as well, we don't need to see them committing tabarruj.

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Jazakallahu khair will do

@IBAR_DAWAH

4 ай бұрын

@@FaiyadFit wa iyyakum

This is liberalism. In the same way you look at "conservative Christians" and see they're not actually conservative at all, but closet liberals who call themselves conservative, because relatively speaking they are conservative, when compared to extreme left liberals. In the same way, these Muslims may believe they are following deen because when compared to people who don't pray at all, or compared to Muslim women who are walking around in min-skirts, relatively they are more religious. But in actuality, when compared to the authentic Sunnah they may be far from the deen. The overall effect of this is, as generations go by, the general perception by society of what following the deen actually means, changes for the worse. After three or four generations, you don't see any deen at all. This is a trick of the Shaytaan, and the only way to fight it is to always return back to the authentic Quran and Sunnah and how the Sahabah understood and practiced the deen. This is what the Messenger PBUH commanded. May Allah Guide the Ummah back to the Straight Path

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Ameen bro. People fail to see the bigger effect of this cute romantic storytelling and public display of your marriage. Over time the non Muslims will f*tishize hijab bc hijab has been made to be stylish and alluring and they’ll think of Muslim men as dishonourable with no standard.

@jojos9788

4 ай бұрын

Bro you LITERALLY have said something that I have been thinking but couldn't put into a sentence. English isn't my first language. Anyway BarakAllahu feekum

@72-bit

4 ай бұрын

great take

Jazakah'allah khair brother needed this great reminder I never felt as an attention seeker are anything but I have been out of character 😢 alhamdulillah glad I found ur channel

i really wanted someone to talk about this..jazakallahukhairan

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Wa iyaakum

Great video keep it up you're doing amazing things 😁👍

Thank you for not lecturing us people, rather, you parted with some pertinent useful pieces of information - much food for thought here. Please remember your OWN protection duas and may Allah Taala keep you grounded in His sincerity, humility and correct criterion. Allahumma Barak and MashAllah I don't see myself as very religious, and its the first time I've come across your channel - but i can say, its a breath of fresh air from the ALL singing ALL dancing cheesy pageant smile stuff im seeing lately. Thankfully I can see some of these couples already beginning to grow out of this and moving on. Wish them all the best in their new pastures. Jedi

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Allahumma barik welcome to my channel ❤️

Thank Goodness someone talked about it.

Excellent and much needed content. Well done brother.

AssalamuAlaikum wa Rahmatullahi wabarakatu brother, JazakAllahu Khairan for bringing up this topic. Very well explained. I do have one complain however, you should let your editor/thumbnail maker know that he should blur the sisters. JazakAllahu Khairan

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Done bro Wa iyaak

@free_the_0ppressed

4 ай бұрын

​@@FaiyadFit assalamu alaikum brother i'm glad you explained this issue that is often overlooked and it is overall a important topic. However i have one request as a muslim to conceal the people and to not expose their sins. in the thumbnail you can hide both the man and woman and just keep the just like the video titles or use a general AI picture that is not those specific people. As muslims we should talk about important issues but also conceal and not point out clearly individual's mistakes as this would lead to anger and hate and animosity between the muslims as they feel like you are exposing their sins maybe if they saw this advice without their videos and pictures they would take it seriously but now their face is there they will just be angry and feel shamed. There's the story of man who commited zina and kept announcing it to The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) but the prophet(may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) kept turning away every time away from him, hoping that he would retract his statement and repent to Allah in secret. the Prophet peace and blessings be upon him also said: “Whoever conceals the faults of his Muslim brother, Allah will conceal his faults on the Day of Resurrection'. Ibn Abbas رضي الله عنه said a powerful statement : “Even if you smell alcohol on your brother's beard, you should assume that someone else has spilled it there. We should talk about issues but not expose people so please remove them my dear brother may the Allah Almighty bless and reward your efforts and make you a light for the ummah ameen.

Beautiful video ma sha ALLAH.subscribed to your channel today and hit the bell icon.may ALLAH reward you abundantly for making this video.Alhamdulilaah

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Allahumma ameen

Good points 👍👍👍

I love that someone is finally addressing this 💓👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

such an insightful video as a woman i benefited so much from it

@eliasziad7864

3 ай бұрын

Everything this guy said is false.

@Mimi_vivii

3 ай бұрын

no not rly@@eliasziad7864

Akhi, excellent video as always. And your editor is doing well, but a small suggestion to him, to avoid sound effects with musical instruments (vocal type is aight). Jazakallah khair.

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Alhumdulillah bro Wa iyaakum

Fantastic video❤

As a women you're absolutely right , i know that it's not gonna be easy especially when it comes to the topic of beauty that many women love and enjoy receiving compliments for ( even if they deny it ) However , we should learn how to leave what we love for the sake of Allah , it's not just about claiming faith , but also demonstrating it thgrough our actions , we should be responsible and adhere to our principles as muslim women and not imitate the west in everything they do , ofc we dont say that you should be ugly , but our beauty should be reserved for our maharim

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Absolutely sis

Jazak Allahu khayran for the heads up. I have been saying this as well. Just next time, refrain from using music even for just a milisecond. You know that I am assuming akhi. May Allah forgive your sins and allow you to have barakah in this channel.

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Ameen Jazakallahu khair

MashAllah, brother . Thank you for this beautiful video

As a recent hijabi this is so encouraging I’m glad you are bringing this perspective and every point you make is valid and true. What do you think about women on social media who are trying to spread knowledge and try to cover up well?

@shimmer4771

2 ай бұрын

Hello. As long as it's for a beneficial purpose and helps spread Islam and she's covered, I see no issue.

Ya akhi, I would suggest you re post this video without all the images and videos showing these men and their wives as that will just cause even more fitna and spread the sin they’re doing. Hope you understand where I’m coming from, InshaAllah

@idkbro4932

4 ай бұрын

I agree. I don’t know why he didn’t blur it out. Hopefully he sees this.

Salam akhi I understand that we can comment on their videos/content on why this is haram but honestly(and sorry if this is offensive) I believe it is best for you to discuss with them one one one about it given that you are a content creator yourself and can explain what content is best for them to follow.

Great video brother, keep up the good work

on top now !!!!!!!

Subhanallah this is what I've been thinking too, that there are many muslim men who are pretty much showing off their wives on youtube or other social media and those that do are the ones that I've stopped watching because theres someone else's wife in the video and it's also haram for me to look. I don't understand though, after all that time of waiting and then getting a wife just to show people how she looks like? May Allah guide us

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Allahumma ameen

I love this video. You are so right. These cringey couples showing themselves of is really annoying and so un-islamic. I know, nobody is perfect, we all sin, but it is getting out of hand.

This is what i am searching for a whole year it's MUST WATCH BY A FAMILY TO EDUCATE THEM

good stuff

Spot on brother! It's all about money in today's time.

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

May Allah purify our intentions

@hajirachandlay

4 ай бұрын

@@FaiyadFit Aameen

may god bless youu. I'm 17 years old and so glad that allah has guided me from a very young age. I thought I was the only one who felt uncomfortable about the fact that muslim men willingly display their wives to the world. I'm so glad I found your video plus subscribed. Jazakallah khair :)

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Alhumdulillah sis!

great video , masha allah and jazakalah khayr . i have never felt comfortable posting a picture on social media alhamdulilaah maybe in my 29 years i can count how many pictures that i have posted but i always felt it was wrong and validations from other , altho i need to improve my hijaab insha allh thank you for this kind of content i am grateful for social media only because i have learned a lot on my deen for that i cant hate it

Someone spoke about it, finally May Allah guide us all

@FaiyadFit

4 ай бұрын

Alhumdulillah

I'd think a person like you who already does a lot of dawah on youtube should be aware that just because they show themselves on social media, doesn;t mean you have to show them as well. You can get the msg across by blurring them in their pics and vids. Some of these aren't even proper hijabis and we all get sins for it. You carry our sins too coz you showed us their pics/ vids. Edit: And just in case any1 attacks me or it wasn't already clear enough I'm not against exposing dayooth men, I'm against further sharing the pics of the couple without blurring

@humanfirstever

4 ай бұрын

true

@deathstrokegamer23

3 ай бұрын

Well said. Because in Islam we not expose them more if anyone did something wrong or they didn't know to much about Islam then that's not our way to expose them more and say they are this and that but instead advice them in private with their elder members what their young's doing is haram.