Why are Indian men LIKE THIS?
While on a walk at the beach or on the way to work, we see men holding hands all the time. This happens all around us and hence is not something that peaks our attention. But when Vincent Dolman, a British photographer noticed this on his trip to India, he found it to be very interesting and started documenting the same. It was something very alien to him and where he was from. So it begs the question, why do Indian Men hold hands and why is it not a universal phenomenon?
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I need to pull my homies aside sometimes because those idiots might fall in some gutter while walking sober
@rakshitsingh1922
2 жыл бұрын
Hey it's power train
@kallumama648
2 жыл бұрын
Big fan
@siddhantrs4545
2 жыл бұрын
big fan
@rakshitsingh1922
2 жыл бұрын
Extremely extremely extremely extremely extremely extremely extremely big fan
@gaurav4610
2 жыл бұрын
aare sir aap idhar bhi
It's not sexuality, but it's brotherhood.
@bijoymondal6005
Жыл бұрын
Father holds son's hand, brother holds brothers hands ,this not sexuality.
@Comrade_Harsh
Ай бұрын
its awkward & uncomfortable
@suryavanshiabhyuday8584
Ай бұрын
@@Comrade_Harsh Cricket me celebration hota hai wo kya 6 feet doori bana ke hota hai?
@probablyira
27 күн бұрын
@Comrade_Harsh bhai har cheez mein dikkat hai? agar 2 behano ne haanth pakda hai toh koi problem nahi hai lekin vahi agar 2 bhaiyon ne haanth pakda hahi toh vo "awkward & uncomfortable" hai. bohot sahi
@Comrade_Harsh
27 күн бұрын
@@probablyira Male and Female aren't same. They are different so they are judged differently
I think this is why western world is going crazy over RRR. The kind of bromance Indian films bring out is way too aspirational. They crave for somethimg like that, not being judged for showing affection. Friends had many scenes where Joey and Chandler hug, which is one of the reasons why the show crosses boundaries and generations and speaks to a larger audience. The whole non-sexual affection thing is so wholesome. Its great that such things are promoted in India.
@hirenahir76200
Жыл бұрын
So true
@permanentlyexhaustedpigeon5028
Жыл бұрын
their love was neither sexual nor romantic, it was PURELY platonic! it was just lovely seeing it in big screen. a fresh breath of air
@mridhulml3269
Жыл бұрын
I'm pro hugging. Just not holding hands while walking. That shit's weird to me man..
@holyromanemperor420
3 ай бұрын
Same was for the West, but things changed during the cultural revolution of 60s, 70s, 80s, and 90s.
@ad8447
24 күн бұрын
A lot of westerners labelled rrr as queer film😂😂😂
Growing up I never realised that how unique this small gesture of showing affection and a bond with your friend is. And how this bring us far more close to our friends .I hope our country don't loose this ☮️🤗
@dishwasher69
Жыл бұрын
It's going to lose it soon
@parko1130
6 ай бұрын
@@dishwasher69 IKR! sadly, our country is now being influenced by the "woke" culture of America
You should make another video on "why western people sexualise every kind of physical contact"😂😂
@JohnWick_897
2 жыл бұрын
True
@chandellakshika2720
2 жыл бұрын
True 💯
@Pillowlips77
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. They are insecure and homophobic. That's why.
@sparkly9143
2 жыл бұрын
Yess 🤦
@rahulchaudhary-xg9vz
2 жыл бұрын
So damn true.....
Simple reason : Because we are soo much addicted to Kabaddi we can't live without forming chain ⛓️
@avibcci1297
2 жыл бұрын
👬
@UniqueDimension
2 жыл бұрын
👨❤️💋👨
@roy8089
2 жыл бұрын
Good one
@himanshurana4706
2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@UniqueDimension
2 жыл бұрын
@@inmymind41 wok🤨
Holding hands is a great representation of our brotherhood in south Asian countries. We should definitely keep up this practice. Thanks Mohak for focusing on this interesting topic
@hisstory3226
Жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏
@holyromanemperor420
3 ай бұрын
It wasn't just South Asian, this was also very common in the West till the cultural revolutions of the late 20th century (Hippie movements, sexual revolution, etc... of 60s, 70s, and 80s)
Girls are seen kissing each other even in India then there's no problem man😂
@MotionGamerz2.0Official
Ай бұрын
Truee ladkiyon ko koi lesbian nhi kehta aur ladko ko ulta seedha kehne lagte h
@deveshsikarwar1533
Ай бұрын
Kissing on cheeks you mean ladke bhi karte hai haan ye zaroor hai ab jab jitna western ho rahe hai toh waha ki cheeze bhi laa rahe hai apne yaha
@TheRealChad.
27 күн бұрын
@@deveshsikarwar1533 Fr ek baar maine apne dost ko uske crush ki insta id (which was ofc female)di toh woh itna khush hogya that he kissed me on my cheek is just the bromance nothing sexual. but todays gen. cannot understand this.
@_cosmic_aurora_gameofcones
26 күн бұрын
Or kaho " men should be tough like stone "
IMO, More than holding hands... Theres more about laying hands on each others shoulders or side hugs. Every group of boys you see..there wld be atleast two guys who lay hands on their bros shoulders. It express unity and trust we have on each other.
@PS-ml5dt
2 жыл бұрын
Ya, i haven't seen two boys holding their hands...generally it's dome by two girls
@user-mk7qi6gc2m
2 жыл бұрын
saddam hussian 😳
@I-47-I
2 жыл бұрын
This Holding hands only happens with Rural Based Guys I've never seen Urban City Residing Men even touching each other ( Same as west ) Its just that Rural Men are just Unaware and Uninformed of these concepts and perceptions. Indian rural population is so behind the curve they cant even approve normal Heterosexual PDA.. Let alone Homosexual PDA.. They are just Ignorant Thats it 😂😂😂😂😂
@gurdeepsg12
2 жыл бұрын
You from Iraq?
@bahotaccha1560
2 жыл бұрын
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@itsmebhavya
2 жыл бұрын
true
@bhavyaa5966
2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!!
@mrholmes2855
2 жыл бұрын
With
@akshadchavan5528
2 жыл бұрын
I see 3 bhavya's here 🗿
@Lokendrakushwah12
2 жыл бұрын
@@akshadchavan5528 he came here from 3 I'd 's 😆 just kidding
Western countries need to adjust their lenses. This practice is absolutely fine... Us boys cannot think of our lives without same gender bffs.
5:20 my father cooks food for the entire family. My mother also cooks but my father always helps.
@danielle-bi3tk
Жыл бұрын
same my dad is in the army and whenever he comes home he does most of the household chore and honestly he does a better job than my mom lol
It's no more gender specific. Nowadays anyone who's attached to someone emotionally hold their hands
@avibcci1297
2 жыл бұрын
Western folks have weird culture
@galaxy1234
2 жыл бұрын
yes
@suraj0909
2 жыл бұрын
Yes
@sachinsaini3476
2 жыл бұрын
Yes as I hold his sister hand 🤣
@inverseLaplace
2 жыл бұрын
Maybe in big cities but not in villages
It's pretty common here but I've observed that it's gradually ending as people are getting aware about homosexuality. It makes them conscious.
@sakshamtyagi9652
2 жыл бұрын
Trueeeeee. My social circle even though is very homophobic but knows about homosexuality unlike older generations so I haven't seen men holding hands ever.
@The_Experience_Guy
2 жыл бұрын
@@sakshamtyagi9652 Exactly! People don't want other people to assume 'stuff' about them because they were holding hands so they don't do it at the first place.
@kirtisinha404
2 жыл бұрын
Trueeeee
@vinitasingh8548
2 жыл бұрын
So trueee just now I was talking to my friend and asked him about this and he said no we don't do that who will hold hands when I asked him do he hold hands with his sister or gf he said yes
@scientia.veritas
2 жыл бұрын
It's the downsides of being progressive. As we break some barriers, we create new ones. We went from "sex is a taboo" to "everything is about sex".
Because its a symbol of care. And showing trust and unbreakable bond between brothers/freindship.
This was a very important and needed to be highlighted topic.
This guy makes us feel interested in topics that we really didnt care at all. Hats off 👏🏻
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2 жыл бұрын
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2 жыл бұрын
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@vinodhkumar5405
Жыл бұрын
🙋🏻♂️👍🏻
@playerjack2566
Жыл бұрын
You are the only one that think like that
@mujtaba1719
Жыл бұрын
Communication skils
Didn't thought this would be a matter of discussion 😂 Hostel boys literally pile up on each other.
@kashyap5186
2 жыл бұрын
And as strange it sound but after all we boys sleep together in hostel 😛
@ritinsharma5330
2 жыл бұрын
*dint think
@aadiliqbalkhan8216
2 жыл бұрын
*dunt think
@Priya-jn6mp
2 жыл бұрын
Ding dong*
@americabaidya5466
2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
love that you highlighted this unique and wonderful thing
This video is so beautifully made ! Such an open minded and pure representation of love everyone needs to understand and just live and let live .
I never thought holding friend's hand is a weird thing untill i heard it from western stand up comedians nd media😳😳
@syedashamsianazneen5032
2 жыл бұрын
True me too
@devd851
2 жыл бұрын
Didn't care man We should Make our own Standards ❤️. Bhai hai tu bhi 🧑🤝🧑
@syedashamsianazneen5032
2 жыл бұрын
@@devd851 sahi bola. Yeh westerners har cheez ko se xualise karte hai, our brotherhood should remain still.
@siddhantrs4545
2 жыл бұрын
fr, but i still don't think its weird
@Sanskar-1705
2 жыл бұрын
@@devd851 our prime minister is prime example about how to hold your friend's arm😁😁😁
*Love without being sexual exists* because we Indian men hold hands of our bro-friends .
@anurag02075
2 жыл бұрын
Thinking of western culture is narrow minded in thier own ways . How can holding hands be homosexual 😂 ? We are bros , so we act like bros .
@eternal1967
2 жыл бұрын
@@anurag02075 in America, when they hold hands, it means something else🤣🤣
@atikurrahaman2529
2 жыл бұрын
@@anurag02075 sirf hat nhi me to gale pakad ke e rehta hu pure wakt unke shoulders pe dard ho jata h
@anurag02075
2 жыл бұрын
@@atikurrahaman2529 wahi toh bro , dost ke sath sharam kesi ✌🏻😄
@anurag02075
Жыл бұрын
@Netaji-The British Slayer ikr , every culture have some believes which are narrow minded for the rest .
What a wonderfully explained video!
Exactly western countries should learn brotherhood From us❤️🇮🇳
@JMARTIN1947
Жыл бұрын
Yes, we are free in our brotherhood so we have permission to hold hands, hug, kiss, and have sex. The west wishes it could know such freedom of loving.
@EdwinTyler
6 ай бұрын
Lol no, this is a very disturbing practice.
@aditisharma1773
4 ай бұрын
@@EdwinTylerholding hands really? pls tell me you're joking
@tikamuchhu
Ай бұрын
No, we should learn from western
Indian girls also hold each other's hands. Now that you made a video on this topic I realized that I and a lot of people I know almost SUB-CONSCIOUSLY hold the hands of their friends
@nknkannadiga9742
2 жыл бұрын
There are no restrictions for women to hold hands each other hands in western also in India. So I dont know why r u bringing women's thing.
@kanakkaradbhajne7105
2 жыл бұрын
@@nknkannadiga9742 typical womens
@krishgupta8342
2 жыл бұрын
@@abhay3657 +1
@kuljeetchhabra7649
2 жыл бұрын
It's normal in western countries as well. 2 women holding hands and cuddles
@defenceexams4776
2 жыл бұрын
In west, women hold kiss hug each other
last year when i would sleep, through my bedroom window, i would see a truck parked on the road every night. there used to be two men who would sleep in the lorry of that truck, most probably daily wage labourers. they would sleep and cuddle together, maybe they used to do it unknowingly in their sleep, or maybe they were actually in a relationship(which is quite rare) but the most probable reason i thought would be was loneliness,since they were here in the city, away from their homes and families, and the only love and affection that they could get could be from their friends. thank youu for making a video on this unique topic and helping to break the stereotypes of toxic masculinity.
@amarjyotipatra2705
2 жыл бұрын
Quite a observation.....
@ayushbhadauria108
2 жыл бұрын
no bro i myself cuddle with my cousin brother and i am not in any form of relationship and its actually comfortable when you keep your legs on someone's waist literally it's very comfortable just give a try
@rudra20048
2 жыл бұрын
In school I have seen this as anyone including myself didn't had knowledge of homosexuality I feel it was normal
@FunFacts8
2 жыл бұрын
Cuddling while sleeping for Indian man is also very common. Generally it is seen in case of Two brothers who share same bed. In my hostel life I have seen and also experienced this. We ware 3 roommates in a room. After few days of staying together we became closer to each other. We had jointed our 3 beds to make it a bigger one. While sleeping it is very common for us to put hands on other. Sometime we put legs on each other but unknowingly. We had shared blankets in winters and also cuddling each other. Though we avoid these practices in summer. These things are very very common for other hoteliers also. It is not at all sexual.. it is called "Bhai Bhai wala Pyar"....
@smritinotiraniplease7743
2 жыл бұрын
Joey and Ross
Thanks for coming up with this topic. This is the first video of yours that I liked as I felt to be quite ambidextrous i.e. neither left or right leaning. Kudos
I like how you mentioned our films for bromance because it really shows and support strong and affectionate bond with your friends like jai-veeru munna- cercit,3 idiots etc
Once in my lifetime i felt like we are ahead of western society
@guywithcoolusername..
2 жыл бұрын
@@randomstuff0069 hmm
@mindhunter91
2 жыл бұрын
I don't think so, in the west physical touch between opposite genders is considered normal were as in india its opposite, I think being comfortable with two opposite genders showing affection in public makes far more sense than being comfortable with same genders showing affection (fyi, I am not a homophobe).
@guywithcoolusername..
2 жыл бұрын
@@mindhunter91 that's right too
@begood7104
Жыл бұрын
Actually if we watch his whole video, at various points he talks about how Indians view masculinity and homosexuality and it's very toxic.
@preetiraut7700
Жыл бұрын
@@mindhunter91 No I don't think so. You know mostly opposite gender attract eachother sexually(Specially in teenage time). So it can't be seen as normal (Unless they are from family). While Two same gender do not attract sexually (if they are not from LGBTQ community) so it can not be seen as normal.
Wow, the most unique topic from you till now.
@eliteshownight1508
2 жыл бұрын
There are Bangladeshi who watches his video?
@nahinhasanlxix6920
2 жыл бұрын
আরে বস দেখি এইখানে
What you said was absolutely true, the place where people are generally more openminded (like Mumbai or Bengaluru) you would find less men holding each others hands, as they have more interaction with females, with whom they can share their emotions, while in place like Delhi or some north Indian city there would be a lot of men holding hands( based on personal observations as being a mumbaikar I haven't seen many men holding each others hand while it was opposite in delhi)
@Payel5
4 ай бұрын
So according to you, men should only share all emotions and interactions with females? That's another crap thought.
Your editing skills are amazing 👍🏻👍🏻
The topic is out of the box and unique one. Loved it... Really I like your explanation that makes me learn different things as well and get to know many customs we are surrounded by. ❤️ Thank you Mr. Mangal.
I never thought that holding hands or hugging a bff can be interpreted as homosexuality 😆. Well researched content as always. ✌️ Keep up the good work.
@virendra678
2 жыл бұрын
@Souven Tudu Same lol
@tarunbiruly5184
2 жыл бұрын
On the other hand holding hands and hugging female counterparts is considered sexual in our society which is so ingrained in our brains that boys mostly feel awkward around girls.
@AIRek7
2 жыл бұрын
it's because of the growing popularity of western culture in India (homophobia is increasing)
@chloe_caye
2 жыл бұрын
At the end of the day do what you want cuz different people hv different perspectives
@madhusmitapatro1171
2 жыл бұрын
@Souven Tudu same lol
What a content man....it couldn't be find anywhere on the net ..thank you❤️
Amazing views thru this video & completely align on your thoughts to be what we r rather than thinking what west thinks. Kudos 😀
Not be offending someone, but I really sometimes feel ppl question sexuality with mere physical affection.
@namitarastogi244
2 жыл бұрын
And what's wrong with that?
@evilentity302
2 жыл бұрын
That's the reason lol
@deki9827
2 жыл бұрын
Agreed lmao
@sthvxa
2 жыл бұрын
@Longus what do you mean "if you're not sure.. " , I thought holding hands and simple touch is to show affection.
Holding hands between friends was way more common about 10 years ago.
@fnmidas7936
2 жыл бұрын
Vindeshi logo ko to har cheez sexual karna jaruri hi hai 😒
You are just amazing 🙂❤️ Thank youu so much! Keep making more
We shouldn't be learning bad things from the west. For Westerners everything is sex. For Indians everything is spirituality. We should preserve that. And human contact like handshakes and hugs are very important to make bonds. Western men are insecure in their sexuality so make fun of everyone who is confident.
@AK-sm7hw
Жыл бұрын
Perfect 👍
@holyromanemperor420
3 ай бұрын
Not really true, this isn't some "Western" stuff, this is more of a late 20th century sexual revolution thing. Look at the pre WW2 Western literature, such gestures aren't heavily sexualised. Things took a turn due to hippies and the sexual revolution.
I've seen my father hold his best friends hands so many times. Earlier I used to think it was weird but it's actually very true that Indian men show affection among their friends through touch.
@rikishi555
2 жыл бұрын
Eww.. it looks so gross!
@rikishi555
2 жыл бұрын
Your father also walks hand in hand with his friends with fingers interlocked??
@trickyflame9843
2 жыл бұрын
@@rikishi555 ya and gen gap is to blame on old people
@raven-dl3xo
2 жыл бұрын
@@rikishi555 Yes, it is written in our holy books to do that....... not
@vasusharma4519
2 жыл бұрын
What about girls??
He is so precious for bringing such intensive research based videos and perspectives to us and the cherry on the top is the fact that's its in hindi for the general indian public to understand to. Please never stop doing what you are doing. The way he concluded the video was absolutely beautiful.
@samuraijosh1595
2 жыл бұрын
Hindi is understood by about 46% of Indian public.
@vamika1657
2 жыл бұрын
@@samuraijosh1595 i get it but i mean good hindi content is comparatively less on the platform as compared to the good english content. In addition we have the west and other countries putting in the work in same language so yeah. Not saying other languages in india aren't that important, they need to be promoted too like Tamil, punjabi and others.
@romanslays3317
2 жыл бұрын
@@samuraijosh1595 Then you can read subtitles to understand the video.
@praveenawesome2182
2 жыл бұрын
Hm
@rikishi555
2 жыл бұрын
@@samuraijosh1595 are u stupid?? Are u making up this percentage on your own? Even tamil people who hate hindi can understand hindi a little bit..
Wow, very different topic well explained!
Keep going mohak ! You're doing an amazing job !!!!♥️♥️❤lots of love
Now I can't hold hands with my friends or hug them without thinking about this video once😂😂
@godisfake6865
2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
Holding hands has nothing to do with homosexuality, smh 🤦♂️🤷♂️
@agnosticsavetrees9702
2 жыл бұрын
exactly 😂😂
@onidoremc9490
2 жыл бұрын
Sign of Brotherhood among Indian guys
@avi_singhal15december
2 жыл бұрын
it's bromance
@kadlifal
2 жыл бұрын
Holding hands is a way to show care whether that be holding with parents , siblings , or Friend of sane ir opposite gender tbh
@thethirddoor5480
2 жыл бұрын
@@avi_singhal15december abe ese ese naam doge to ab hanth bhi pakdne mein dar lagega
Yes ,this practice is proud for we Indians.🥰
Just watched 2 videos and i'm your fan👏👏🙌 amazing work mahn🔥
Until 2008, we friends used to walk with hands on each others shoulders. After travelling to UK, everything changed. Many guys there even frown upon you if you casually touch their arm or shoulder during a conversation, or be it just a friendly pat on the back, which are very common and positive way of showing appreciation in India. 😐
@yohohohoheyy
2 жыл бұрын
It is sick and disappointing. We must preserve this little innocent human interaction. 🙁
@EdwinTyler
6 ай бұрын
No one likes unwanted physical touch.
5:10 meanwhile if I tell my mom I love to cook she will sprint away from kitchen and ask me to cook everyday.. 😅
@infinity8982
2 жыл бұрын
True😂😭
@rakshitsingh1922
2 жыл бұрын
True
@tea_traz5430
Жыл бұрын
True 👏👏 this happen to me sometimes
The fact that I had been noticing this thing of holding hands right now and I i totally needed this video thank you !
I don't know about holding hands but I do know having hands on my friends shoulder everytime
Mohak bhai.. those who hold hands in public are so innocent.. they don't even know what is bromance or homo... And learning new/ modern / Western things is sometime harmful.. We should let it be innocent...
@nikhilhadbe271
2 жыл бұрын
Could lead to mis information and harasment
@anujkr4226
2 жыл бұрын
The innocence could backfire if they happen to move to a different culture 🙄
@ganeshreddy5939
2 жыл бұрын
@@anujkr4226 so yoi blindly follow everything for west
@anujkr4226
2 жыл бұрын
@@ganeshreddy5939 so (yoi) want to be blind to everything from West 😂
@l.a.5403
2 жыл бұрын
Don't worry! Kuch nai hone vala, most of the modern indians are bootlickers of westerners. They just want western midset should apply to everyone in this world!!
I’m so happy that the gender segregation was mentioned. It’s such a common sight but we need to acknowledge it’s so harmful.
@tripathiashutosh874
2 жыл бұрын
Arre pokhraj bhai pehchana mujhe?
@PokhrajRoy.
2 жыл бұрын
@@tripathiashutosh874 I don’t want to say no, but are you from TISS?
@ultimate6243
2 жыл бұрын
So what? Men and women are different and their Roles in society also different. Gender segregation existed in all the mammals. The degree can be more or less.
@romanr.301
Жыл бұрын
@@ultimate6243 Your sources: (none)
Your videos are so well made👍
I have seen many friends holding hand during crossing road both genders do that with same gender from childhood we are taught to hold hands in order to not get lost in order to not lose people like that if our hands are hold by our friends it makes us feel much safer and as we all know india is very crowded so if u hold hands u won't be separated by crowd Well this explanation isn't the exact explanation but holding hands for not losing someone has been in our mind or taught to us since childhood
@mukeshdhotre3161
Жыл бұрын
Very true
Only one thing that's called bromance and we are proud of it.
@mystic8418
2 жыл бұрын
And u got 69 likes😂😂😂😂
@animatoryash6107
2 жыл бұрын
@@mystic8418 lmao
Finally someone who did some research for my confusion . I'm an Indian and I see guys hugging each other while riding a bike or holding hands and it took me by surprise all the time . It's not that I have any issue with that . Same goes for me , like out of nowhere while crossing roads or walking through busy street my friends and sometimes I would instinctively would held each other's hand .
सर आपकी हर विडिओ बहुत ही logical होती है धन्यवाद सर
It's a good thing about Indian culture we should preserve it We shouldn't look to the west as ideal We should reform our society as well By learning from what other societies have done So that other countries too can learn from us
@Pillowlips77
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Too many people learning bad things from the west. Especially their insecurities.
@yohohohoheyy
2 жыл бұрын
Yes 💯
@Hhinubijjioj
Жыл бұрын
Even girls hold hands boys also of 20 to30 age
Friendship is a another level feeling and emotion and it can be in between two persons and hearts now it doesn't matter that they are male or female
Awesome content bro
It's like brothers holding hands. Together they are strong enough.
Hand touch is also common in most of Asian countries epically South East Asian It's not only in India
@sanjanasiswas
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah
@victorkash4718
2 жыл бұрын
More than just hand touch you can see men holding hands and walking together or sitting while holding hands everywhere in states like Jharkhand, Bihar, Up. A level of intimacy as such between male friends can't be seen in East Asian cultures in counties like Japan or Korea.
@doodleh9318
2 жыл бұрын
@@victorkash4718 don't know about Japan but in korea also this is common
@mobjectivems7652
2 жыл бұрын
Nope, not at all common in SE Asia…lived in Thailand for 3 years and haven’t witnessed such instances except for some openly homosexual persons.
@mr_jeng
2 жыл бұрын
@@mobjectivems7652 it's common in Burma, Indonesia etc but i don't know about Thailand
I'm from Nagaland. I've been in Delhi for 2 years. I used to find quite weird seeing grown up men holding hands. Thank you! You have answer my lifelong question 😁
@joshuatheunkownuniverse.2475
2 жыл бұрын
Bro, can you tell me what is the tourist attraction in nagaland. I am planning to go there and want to enjoy the culture.
@AS-jo8qh
2 жыл бұрын
Don't men hold hands in Nagaland? Is homosexuality this much acceptable in Nagaland?
@animestudent3885
2 жыл бұрын
@@AS-jo8qh Men don't really hold hands like u think. But, we do sholder chain as a form of friendship.
@animestudent3885
2 жыл бұрын
@@joshuatheunkownuniverse.2475 Well, literally anywhere in Nagaland. It's mostly Mountainous. Most popular tourist attraction place is Kohima because of the Hornbill festival which starts every year from December.
@Hhinubijjioj
Жыл бұрын
Mr intern manipur boy hold hands in finale
Not only your content is unique your way of explaining the content is very unique and great keep it up keep doing your job
Extremely good selection of topic ✨🌷
Parents hold our hands when We learn to walk Friends hold hands when we need them or they need us It's not about sexuality every time
@motherisape
2 жыл бұрын
Why are you saying that
@physicsbiology9756
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah the people around us have sexualized everything around us
@altairauditore3782
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly i am still nervous while crossing so we do hold hands or i deliberately keep a dude next to me and match his pace.
@kalkinara
2 жыл бұрын
@@motherisape i want to know why are you just putting non reasionable questions in comment box..
@prashantnaik901
2 жыл бұрын
And sexuality is not a bad thing
Good one, you should have to include the first time a boy learn to walk holding his dad hands. The holding the hand give him the felling of being secure. Friends also give the feeling of being safe. That's why teenager and men under the age of 30 do this more often.
@raviyadav-py6no
2 жыл бұрын
thats a good point . this is were the hand holding starts
@RAJENDRADHAKA
2 жыл бұрын
@@raviyadav-py6no Yes
@Hhinubijjioj
Жыл бұрын
In West sons don't even touch their mom Only girls
Great work man!
LOVE YOU BRO, FOR MAKING THIS.
It's not only in males. When I and my sister hold hands or hug each other in public, nobody turns their necks
@motherisape
2 жыл бұрын
Sanjana tum jake sagar me noka chalao
@nightflame9895
2 жыл бұрын
Girls holding hands is common in every culture. Even in west
@Agent-ik1ui
2 жыл бұрын
Cuz for public it's normal wheter in west or east
@Ketlijklo
Жыл бұрын
because all womens are lesbians
@Ketlijklo
Жыл бұрын
@@Agent-ik1ui yes its normal for women, cause everyone knows all womens are lesbians
It's also a kind of bond we create within friendship that in tough times this hand will never lose.
I didn't noticed it much uptill now wow!!
Looking forward to more such content! Really appreciate your efforts genuinely grateful for the same
i do think it's normal, i am a straight and Hold hands with my male as well as female friends. Sign of Brotherhood among Indian guys
@madhavmathur4008
2 жыл бұрын
ma boi holdin female friends hands when they are sad and then holding something else in bed lol😂
@motherisape
2 жыл бұрын
@@madhavmathur4008 true
@madhavmathur4008
2 жыл бұрын
@@motherisape i see u r a man of culture
@bhardwajparth
2 жыл бұрын
@@madhavmathur4008 bro not the right place to say this😂
@prabaljainn
2 жыл бұрын
@@madhavmathur4008 Chill hai bhai! I am not someone who gets easily offended.
in high school we used to have a teacher from Germany ....he always scolded the boys for holding hands together ...he said tht in the West such things r find weird n tells a lot about ur personality .....he might know the West well but he didnt know anything about India
@nightflame9895
2 жыл бұрын
Why he used to tell about what is acceptable or not in west if he was in India?
@deadalpeca8099
2 жыл бұрын
Did he teach German on something?
Thanks for such unique information
Its pretty common in other South Asian countries like Pakistan too. It has something to do with our culture. There was a research done on films like Sholay etc and they were described to be having "homoerotic undertones". Obviously we see it only as a sign of strong friendship, companionship or camaraderie I should say.
@siddharthmehta4663
2 жыл бұрын
I think the reason Sholay was described have homoerotic undertones because in west any kind male male interaction is considered to subtle hints of homosexuality in it.
@user-md6ww5yk2r
2 жыл бұрын
ʜᴏᴍᴏᴇʀᴏᴛɪᴄ ᴡᴛꜰ ʙʀᴏ ᴛʜᴇ ʟᴏᴠᴇ ᴏꜰ ꜰʀɪᴇɴᴅꜱ ɪꜱ ʟɪᴋᴇ ʙᴏɴᴅ ᴏꜰ ʙʀᴏᴛʜᴇʀꜱ
@kadlifal
2 жыл бұрын
@@siddharthmehta4663 Correct Biased they are
@Libra41093
2 жыл бұрын
@@siddharthmehta4663 yes you get it.
@thethirddoor5480
2 жыл бұрын
@Rishabh Chaudhary yes 👍
I'm always impressed by the great topics you pick! I've always wondered about this, but never thought someone would research a topic like this one, let alone explain it so well!
Very unique topic loved it❤️
Uh Explained Amazingly 👌
I can't even hold my homie's hand anymore. Sad😢
@trolllovindaddy
2 жыл бұрын
Real homies kiss goodnight before going to bed
@kakashihatakeofthesharinga59
2 жыл бұрын
@@trolllovindaddy sus
@doodleh9318
2 жыл бұрын
@@trolllovindaddy true ..a real one
@Anon-kx8tm
2 жыл бұрын
@@trolllovindaddy saying No homo ofc
I would like to share my experience: So I belong to a small village and it was very common to hold hands in my friend circle. When I came to big towns I got to know about homosexuality. Knowing about intimate relationship between men, I was so awkward after remembering those hand holding. When next time I went to my village, I was uncomfortable with them holding hands. Thanks for clearing this Mohak bro. Now I know that it's ok.🤭
@jigargandhi1654
2 жыл бұрын
Will you hold my hands... Let's do bromance
@Pillowlips77
2 жыл бұрын
We shouldn't be learning bad things from the west. For Westerners everything is sex. For Indians everything is spirituality. We should preserve that. And human contact like handshakes and hugs are very important to make bonds. Western men are insecure in their sexuality so make fun of everyone who is confident.
@EllaYelichOConnorlight
Жыл бұрын
@@Pillowlips77 i'm from western and i can't even more agree with you.
@EdwinTyler
6 ай бұрын
@@Pillowlips77handshakes are OK but holding hands with interlocked fingers, absolutely disgusting.
Wow this was so new to understand 👌
I love the way u explain the things in detail with research prove in both Indian & western aspects 👏🏻👏🏻.....Vvv informative 👌🏻......aapko professor hona chahiye tha 🤓....keep it up sir 🙌🏻
from our childhood we are taught to hold hands of elders whom you are connected may it also have some connections
People with filthy minds sexualize and insult everything they don't like. People even call bad names to close siblings and even parents & children. They don't understand that there is a lot of emotions in this world other than sexual attraction. We all need one partner to love but to live a fully functional life, we need a lot of good friends and family members.
Damn!! Indeed it is an underrated subject or topic but I am glad that I got to learn something from it. Thank you so much! I love the way you get into some underrated subjects and decode and make a video. I am always excited about such topics. Looking forward to more such videos.
an interesting topic as always.
Yes india do accept same gender interactions (hug and holding hand) .... Just hope that we will accept the same for opposite gender in future...in public areas...(without associating it with any sexual context) .same level of comfort and acceptance....
@ultimate6243
2 жыл бұрын
Husband and wife allowed to hold hand in public places. In trains and bus It can be seen that wife is sleeping on the shoulder of Husband. Premarital relationship is not accepted in India
@NehaSingh-tj8ng
2 жыл бұрын
@@ultimate6243 that's why I'm saying.. It's the need of the hour to normalize it... A girl and boy can have relationship other then love relation... Like marriage and dating relation....if they are holding hand or hugging each other that doesn't mean they are dating... If a married women if roaming around with a men by holding his hand... That doesn't mean he is her husband... He can share a relationship of brother or friend or any other relation.. You need not to relate that with sexual interactive...
@akashpatel8410
2 жыл бұрын
@@NehaSingh-tj8ng even in most of the developed countries if you roam around holding hand or share too much physical affection with other men whom you are not married or dating you will be seen suspiciously specially by guy you are in relationships
@NehaSingh-tj8ng
2 жыл бұрын
@@akashpatel8410 so what... Why are you saying this to me... Why should I feel worry about other countries... Rather I'm happy to focus on my own...other then that... Here we are not talking about TOO MUCH... We are talking about simple normal hug and holding of hand... Without having any kind of sexual intend...im not saying start making out in public.. 🤣🤣🤣.... That will going to be seen an crime.. Everywhere.. Irrespective of the country
In my house me and my brother have to do all our household chores. Be it washing clothes or washing your plates after eating. I have been doing this from 12 years of age. I think every man should know how to do household chores because it is important in life.
@motherisape
2 жыл бұрын
No one asked
@p.k.5332
2 жыл бұрын
its cool buddy. nothing wrong if men do it. But people judge when it comes to helping your "better half" in household chores. This is due to patriarchy. Lots of boomer generation parents don't teach their boys this, as they have this mentality, that household chores are for girls, which is very wrong.
@neptune1533
2 жыл бұрын
abey tune video ka title dekha hai?
This video appeared in my feed few days ago when it was released, For some reasons i saved it to watch later and forgot to watch it, And trust me the from that day the number of men I've seen holding hands everytime i get out of my home is surreal although i very rarely go out.💀
Nice bro!
My favourite thing about Hindi Songs is that there’s a song that goes: ‘Aadmi Hoon Aadmi se pyaar karta Hoon.”
@motherisape
2 жыл бұрын
Nice
@tripathiashutosh874
2 жыл бұрын
Or pokhraj bhai ki hal chal 🙌
@PokhrajRoy.
2 жыл бұрын
@@khatriatul I’m just kidding lol
@PokhrajRoy.
2 жыл бұрын
@@tripathiashutosh874 Hello!
@islamandchristianityhater5713
2 жыл бұрын
@@khatriatul lmao watch the movie
Men are equally emotional and sensitive like female but there is no one to understand their emotions except male friends 😊
The topic reminded me of Jusreign's music video and there you added it. On point 👌😂
Indian society is the best and it's spread the love and make the friendship bond more better.
Mohaks idea is so different and unique his content is not same . He always gives different perspective of life.
Bromance is beautiful!!😍 Content of your videos does show your efforts.