When someone can’t control you directly. They will control the way others see you.

@RexRoberts-hk3wj

Ай бұрын

The triangle smear campaign. Narcs are evil.

@imbalancedstatus8824

Ай бұрын

I suspect i am a victim .. my friends in the group chat no longer talk to me.. like i have done some cardinal sin to them

@RexRoberts-hk3wj

Ай бұрын

@@imbalancedstatus8824. Yep!

Yeah, it's not wise trying to reason with a demon.

@yvetteandjorgenlarsen9753

Ай бұрын

You can't disciple a demon.

My approach was never to argue... but wait and use their own words against them...

I watched two meltdowns and observed the aftermath of a third. Literal manic rages. All three were women that got tired of his narcissistic behavior. One of them even packed up her house, and moved back to the west coast. The last one I didn’t see, but there is not a doubt in my mind, that he tried to drive her insane. Luckily she had an escape pod, and used it.

Danielle this is exactly what I ruminate about over and over, the smearing is making me feel paranoid like everyone is against me..crazy making. Hard to grasp this is the real him. I had so much hope❤Thank you❤Stayijg no contact tonight

I just abandoned one a couple days ago, blocked her everywhere. Waiting for the fallout.

@lilfairycupcake

Ай бұрын

congrats to you!

As I've expressed in other vids here, and I can go by my own experiences with my narc ex which I thought was over a decade ago but recently returned to facebook after several years and was immediately met with hostility by my narc ex, they do lose it when you walk away from them, and they'll bring conflict to you every chance they get because they need to make you pay for basically not tolerating them anymore.

@lilfairycupcake

Ай бұрын

oh boy! the hurt that keeps on hurting. lol jokes on them. bumped into mine several times; so much anger. lol its not our fault your life sucks.

I know a narcissist who filed false domestic violence charges against his victim the court dismissed the charges and she evicted him now he filed a frivolous lawsuit for 15000 if you beat them they will do anything to get back at you

Thanks for all of these videos. They really do help people check the boxes of awareness for those who are wondering about the people in their own lives. "Is it me?" No it's not. All the flags mentioned in these videos are there. After disassociating with my ex for like 2 years I saw them in passing (they live locally, bound to happen) well 20 minutes later my boss tells me someone called to report me for something I didn't do and demanded that I be fired. Then of course a year after that they texted me "Hey..." That was it. Just "Hey".

@lilfairycupcake

Ай бұрын

same, childish, stupid, pathetic, bs they all do. mine tried it several times, and i explained to her her next place of residency would be at the bottom of a mine shaft i had all picked out for her. well that ended all of the stupid right quick.

When I divorced my ex wife narc she dragged it out for 5 years; the worst part is what she did to our daughter; every day I am concerned for my daughter’s wellbeing. I get to have her half of the time but the revenge and attempts at revenge are ongoing.

@lilfairycupcake

Ай бұрын

as bad as it is, hopefully your daughter will learn how not to be in the process.

Twenty three years ago I ejected a extremely vindictive friend from my life. He bad mouthed me for a long time, tried very hard to get me in trouble with the law, then left town. This year I moved to the town where he currently lives. I encountered him at the store a few months ago and he looked like a ragged mess. I know that he had to have treated everybody else he met the same way he treated me, and now it caught up with him. I feel no pity for him, only pity for the various people who must've ran afoul of him up to now.❤

No going back..ever..Ms Radin

Spot on!

Abandonment sucks. It doesn’t make you a narcissist for not wanting that.

@cj4138

Ай бұрын

True. Well it's not black and white; others can feel abandonment heavily and have similar symptoms, yeah

"Just be yourself." 😅😅😅

20 minutes ago, I can’t keep up!! ;)

What an ABSOLUTELY spot on video ! Subscribed

Wouldnt you think? They could take the time to wrap themselves up in there new relationship. What a waste of time and energy.

I feel I have heard this script word for word so many times now, and the worst thing of all a lot of it I absolutely identify with, However in trying to help someone a few months back, he did a runner out of the blue and displayed all of the above traits. I have had the abuse, the threats of violence, the total loss of all freinds due to his lies which I know he must be telling about me, on top of this, he knows where I live, yet I have no ide where he is. I am at his mercy and before this year is out either expect to be dead or in jail, what a future eh? Oh by the way I am BPD diagnosed which I was once told is a 'catch all' for al lpersonality disorders.

Narcissists are liars plain and simple

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*Cause You Lured Me. And You Hurt Me. And You Taught Me. You Caged Me. And Then You Called Me Crazy. I Am What I Am Cause You Trained Me. So Who's Afraid Of Me? Who's Afraid Of Little Old Me? Now Who's Afraid Of Little Old Me? Well You Should Be. You Should Be. You Should Be.*

So I can’t explain what my x narcissist did to me?

@lilfairycupcake

Ай бұрын

explain away.....

@astriddevries3008

Ай бұрын

Depends on the person. She's done a video on it I think. You can explain to your own friends but don't bother with others. Cause you're gonna get 'sure why did you stayed so long' and or 'but he/she really misses you and you were a lovely couple' or the always good one: ' but there's 2 sides of a story right, so truth must be in the middle'. I still nod to his friends (except the ones that ignore me and so believe his lies) and keep info about my life really small if they ask anything.

@lilfairycupcake

Ай бұрын

@@astriddevries3008 its very rare you get a truthful, other side of the story.

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I think 💭 she is hurt, and brooding somewhere ! I saw her rage 😡 once before from across the room - didn’t look good at all - I just slept 🛌 with one of her friends, and met another prettier new 🆕 girl - kind of expecting my narc to explode 🤯

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@neilmurphy966

Ай бұрын

the spellchecker should have come first 😂