The best thing is how positive the mother talkes about the hair. The girls will internalize it and grow up loving how they look.

@gigiro8140

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, so true. And it is so important for that little girl to hear....instead of: oh my god your hair is sooo dry, and short and hard to handle etc... Maybe it’s a different technique to take care of the hair...but she is a gorgeous little girl with beautiful hair. Please tell this to your girls.

@madisonvlado3937

3 жыл бұрын

John 3:16 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life

@idklmao8214

3 жыл бұрын

ahh I know it makes me so happy to see

@ronnieferguson9337

3 жыл бұрын

YES, you can really feel the love! 😭🥰

@emmanemz5824

3 жыл бұрын

Yes I'm not black but I remember my mom and grandma used to rip my hair with a brush and say it was so thick and ratty and now i fry it every day with a flat iron cause I hate that it's so frizzy

I’m fully black and this white lady loved her hair more than my African mom loved me. She literally combed my hair like I caught her cheating or something. Respect to her

@bonniewilliams1764

3 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry but the way you worded that was hilarious

@gabrielaazevedo9491

3 жыл бұрын

LIKE YOU CAUGHT HER CHEATING WTF I DIED

@sarahdye8660

3 жыл бұрын

😂

@saraev1119

3 жыл бұрын

Okay, so I'm sorry for the way it went down for you growing up, but I'm so glad that I wasnt the only one that died with the "like I caught her cheating".

@kosmique

3 жыл бұрын

its next level when you have a dad who serve in the army and jumps into your hair screaming and yelling at it even

There is so much negativity online, that this was such a relief! Two women showing respect for different worlds and their common ground while still expressing their proper opinion. Loved it!

@mmmiekskuh

2 жыл бұрын

Yes!!! My thoughts exactly. We need more of this. Loved this video and the one that is discussed.

@bibaolaitan5189

2 жыл бұрын

This is why i love my Nigerian sisters. some ppl will intentionally look for a video where the woman did the hair badly to push negativity and stereotypes.

@316nicolez

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely. We need more of this ❤️❤️

@Amygondor

2 жыл бұрын

She's outright passing judgment over the mother's parenting skills. That's RUDE.

@Peace_and_Love_777.....

2 жыл бұрын

100% agreed, instantly subscribed because of all of that love and respect! ♥️

Even as a white woman with curly hair (3a/3b) my mother had no idea what to do 40 years ago. Her reference was her own thin straight hair and my super thick curly hair got a TON of brushing and damage until I was a teenager and had a friend with curly hair to show me what to do. Videos like this showing others how to help their children with their hair is amazing. I love it.

@koobie83

2 жыл бұрын

My cousin had the same hair and she had the same treatment from her mum. She only learned to brush the 💩 out of her hair as a way of trying to neaten it, and all it did was create a massive puffy mess. My mother buys the worst products for my daughter. She is half Tamil and has super thick, dry hair. My mum buys her the cheapest ‘kids’ shampoo and conditioner and buys her the smallest, tiniest brushes for her hair. I’m like - ah no she needs super moisturising products and WIDE tooth combs for thick hair…

@auti34

2 жыл бұрын

Same

@ilahmache7712

2 жыл бұрын

Same! My mother would brush my curly hair from root to end and then get frustrated and took me to a hair salon and had it all chopped up. I had a terrible view of my natural curly hair because my mom's hair was always straight and I didn't learn to embrace my curls until I was a much older adult. It's just nice to see a mom care about her child's individual needs ❤️

@cy5669

2 жыл бұрын

I'm 28 (mexican) and I am learning how to do my wavy/curly hair. My mom has pretty straight hair and my dad has a mexican fro. My kids are blaxican and for some reason I find their hair easier than my own. Probably because as a mom I prioritized them over myself.

@Rik_0

2 жыл бұрын

I don’t have curly hair if I did I could just ask my cousin and my nana because they both have curly hair

My adoptive mom and dad learned Spanish when adopting my brothers and I. They bring us back to Guatemala every year to see the country. My mom learned how to cook Guatemalan food and learned how to do my hair. I am forever thankful for her. Because I will always be in touch with my culture now Edit: I didn’t expect so many people was going to read my story. Thank you for all the kind comments ❤️

@septbelleza1935

3 жыл бұрын

That is beautiful 🥺 Bless ya’ll!

@Isabel-yg5qz

3 жыл бұрын

That is wonderful!

@melannyratliff9429

3 жыл бұрын

that make cry, i'm crying now 😭

@arupoge

3 жыл бұрын

Your adoptive parents are very intelligent!!! Every adoptive parents should be like yours. Every child must know his or her own (real) roots to become later a balanced adult. (Sorry for my English, i’m French speaking)

@user-zy6tv6ch9f

3 жыл бұрын

omg thats so beautiful. is she fluent?

She stroked her daughters hair and said “I love the way this feels” and her daughter quickly went to stroke her own hair and give it a flip 😭

@Sarah-tr8wp

3 жыл бұрын

my fav part of the video. ♥

@CrystalDMay

3 жыл бұрын

🥰🥰🥰

@reesespieces

3 жыл бұрын

Shes so cute 😭💕💕. 11:40

@6055gyul

3 жыл бұрын

That did something to my soul. 😭

@adrianaluna8721

3 жыл бұрын

That's what I thought too. It was the cute little flip get baby did after feeling her hair. Like, that's right. I know it too.

I’m a mommy of a black daughter whose hair texture is similar to the little lady in the video. I definitely took notes of this hairstyle and the technique because it’s super cute!

As a black woman, I really wish my mom had been this gentle and sweet with my hair. Also, I wish my mom complimented my 4c hair more and not made me feel like it was “bad” hair. Good job white mama!

@TedEhioghae

5 ай бұрын

Good job mama*

Christy is not single. She has an amazing and supportive husband. He’s Filipino. They adopted 5 children through foster care. 3 black kids and 2 Asian mixed kids.

@TheHoneycomb5

3 жыл бұрын

Yes and I think I remember the three black children are bothers and sisters . And the Asian mixed are are too.

@captainjoy8976

3 жыл бұрын

Ohgod that's even more wholesome 🥺

@embarrassedcap

3 жыл бұрын

more potential parents need to be open to adoption, but ESPECIALLY adopting siblings. usually, every effort is made to keep the kids together, but it can be hard to find anyone willing to take on multiple kids.

@jazcaddell2443

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheHoneycomb5 The twins are bio siblings but the younger black girl is not.

@somethinggood9267

3 жыл бұрын

Thats frickin dope

Not only has this lady adopted these children but she’s clearly done her research on how to care for them properly, and that, that is respectable.

@rotary135

3 жыл бұрын

Hell yeah

@deannabentley1922

3 жыл бұрын

@Kimbyrleigha Hey as an African American woman it made me laugh even harder I loved this and all the dislikes AKA HATERS or unwoke ass people y'all people need something betta to do...on some real shit..."sorry to get "ghetto"", but this white lady did a AWESOME job with her daughter " and I'm a person that has in a way kinna felt away towards people that adopt many children let alone being a white man/woman adopting lots of African American babies..."O they just want them for the money" or, "they just want them to prove a point that there not racist"... However, sadly many do ,do however this lady here from my point of view she just loves her children and you never know maybe she can't have kids huh or maaaybe she just loves helping a child get out of a existence that they were in and now blessing them with a Life worth living these beautiful babies sadly at the end of the day weren't but under adoption because they were in a great environment hunny let's be honest here ok... YOU ARE DOING AN AWESOME JOB MAMA👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿💯💯💯💯💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜 KEEP DOING WHAT YOU ARE DOING HUNNY...AND GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR BABIES 💯💯💯💪🏿👍🏿... FROM:A BLACK WOMAN

@deannabentley1922

3 жыл бұрын

@English Garden black kids are getting adopted all the time it's just the question of the people that adopted them are they good people or doing it for the wrong reasons

@dominiquexo4772

3 жыл бұрын

My daughter her is rough and I leave it alone lol 😂

@novahittingthegroundrunnin9933

3 жыл бұрын

@@deannabentley1922well said!..... the child seems loved. Last year alone so many black children were killed at the hand of a black parent or step parent. I Give you kudos to what you said. And this woman props to taking the Care and love in what she is doing.

She WAS the foster daughter and was adopted because she did not want to send them back into system when no family stepped up. Woman is a champ.

This mom clearly enjoys doing her daughter's hair. And she does a beautiful job. Also very impressive that the child is calm and able to sit quietly while having the hair combed. Great job, mom!

@Kennedy4OurCountry

2 жыл бұрын

That's bc her mom never gets impatient & hurts her & then goes 'that didn't hurt.'

My white mother experienced racism with me in the south. what changed her perception of my hair was going into 2 white salons and them ignoring then saying they can’t do my hair. She got courage and walked across the street to this gay brotha who took her shopping and showed her how to touch my hair. After that, my mom had me going to school with beads, braids and barrettes. Thanks mom

@oopsioopsi4309

3 жыл бұрын

And thanks to the gay brotha who helped you 👩🏽‍🦼💨

@kcchiefsgirl7026

3 жыл бұрын

Everyone should have a "Go To Gay " they be knowing style, makeup, hair, etc😄

@reneehilscher6176

3 жыл бұрын

Your mom warms my heart. She’s a queen

@kcchiefsgirl7026

3 жыл бұрын

@@salma-ym6bq everyone should have a gay friend. Because they're usually very knowledgeable about fashion, hair, and makeup.

@jenlewis4382

3 жыл бұрын

My parents black father and mexican mother were told they would have problems by having kids in Michigan 1981 is when I was born. People can be bold with their ignorance. I have left"salons" in tears as a young lady. The women would looked angry when I would visit a white salon. Making me feel bad. I uplift my daughters curls.

Me, a white girl with neither curly hair nor children, at 6 am: It’s recommended so I’m gonna watch it.

@sallyjayne777

3 жыл бұрын

Same but 730am

@fries5844

3 жыл бұрын

@ARAYA GARDNER 9:40 for me but i love to watch these videos bc it interesting or just in case i foster or adopt children with hair like her childs.

@izukumidoriya525

3 жыл бұрын

It's 10 am for me

@pinkduck7455

3 жыл бұрын

that is me except i am not a white girl, i am Mexican boy and it is 7 am

@olive1117

3 жыл бұрын

same tho

As a biracial child, I am so glad my mom learned how to do my hair. Never put a relaxer to my hair, only used heat like once in a blue moon, and taught me to love my natural hair. If a Filipino woman with bone straight hair can learn in the early 2000’s, so can everyone else who chooses to have Black and biracial children, especially in a day and age where this information is more accessible than ever.

I love how she asks her if she likes what she'll put in her hair. That is so loving, I feel like a lot of parents forget kids are their own individual, and just do what makes them(the parents) happy. She's also very gentle with her hair. I'm not black so I can't talk for the black community but I know that mexican culture treats kids really badly when it comes to pain, I can't remember a single day in my childhood were I enjoyed getting my hair done. Every time my hair was done I would end up crying, I would be hit with the comb and even cursed for having it tangled. Iooking back I guess that contributed to why I hate having long hair, and ended up cutting it all once I turned 18.

@Yourmom_y

2 жыл бұрын

Ikr, I’m a Mexican with curly hair, everyone in my family has straight hair, so nobody knew how to do mine when I was younger. And yes, my mom was pretty harsh styling my hair, but in her eyes I was just a crybaby lmao.

@Abel-lt5nr

2 жыл бұрын

@@Yourmom_y yeah, my hair is just wavy(?), so I can’t imagine the pain of getting curly hair tangled and pulled 😢. My mom got so angry when I got rid of my long hair 😅.

@alizeica519

2 жыл бұрын

exactly bro- the only other girl with curly hair in my family relaxes hers and the guys cut their hair really short so I've just been stuck with messed up hair for 15 years lol- i just found a routine that actually works for me about 2 months ago and I've been practicing different ways of doing it and just trying to learn my hair for 3 years now lol-

@cheyrose4552

2 жыл бұрын

I'm white and went through a similar experience with my mom. I had crazy thick curly hair but I was very tender headed and my mother wasn't the most gentle with me. Getting hit with a comb and being told to shut up and sit still was so normal for me. I never really took care of my hair because of the negative experiences I had growing up even to this day as a woman in her mid 20s I still have trouble taking better care of my hair. Videos like this really help me and inspire me to learn and try so I can give the people I love better experiences that I did 😊

@isabelleblanchet3694

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, we have to remember that our kids are all their own human, I'm a white mom with white kids and I started asking my kids what they wanted to wear when they were around 18-24 months old. I gave them choices appropriate to weather conditions (no t-shirts when it's -30°C outside) and I've had no crisis for dressing them up this way. Same for my daughter's hair. I have to do it everyday, morning and night since they are so long that she sits on them. She chooses what I do with it, ponytail, braids, 4 strand braids, etc. Except days with PE, then it's automatically a braid to keep it out of her face and less risk of it getting stuck somewhere while running.

to see a little girl who will never know the pain of having your soul slowly dragged out of you with a paddle brush is a breath of fresh air

@candice446

3 жыл бұрын

Not the paddle brush!!! Lol.

@dlightfulheiress

3 жыл бұрын

Truth LOL 😂

@k.marigold9364

3 жыл бұрын

Lmfao 🤣

@CoachVeeMP

3 жыл бұрын

This comment! 🤗🙌🏾🤣

@lob9706

3 жыл бұрын

That ol' paddle brush... was used more than for brushing my hair when I pissed of my mom.

Note the baby isn't crying from having her hair pulled out of her scalp by a rough ass brush. Ima show this video to my mama.

@lapoupee88

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂 let us know what she said or her eyes look

@xoxrd_jj

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣

@Coreof143

3 жыл бұрын

Right 😂 some black moms need to watch her lol

@TheDjynes

3 жыл бұрын

Lmao

@keepitreal23100

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

I love that there was absolutely no negativity! We need more women like this praising other women and lifting each other up. Spread compliments and love!!! I am a white woman with thin plain hair and I love watching videos with hair care and styling for people of color. It's so interesting to me and I think it's so cool how there are just endless possibilities and styles that can be done. I think both women in video are amazing and the little girl is champ it's gotta be hard to sit in one spot for a long time for a little one a little cutie to!

@AnastasiaBeaverhousn

2 жыл бұрын

You're praising someone for doing what they're supposed to do!!! 🙄 She adopted her so yes that's her job to do!!

@Cassiopeia747

2 жыл бұрын

@@AnastasiaBeaverhousn If you always need a reason for praising someone your life is probably full of negativity 🙄✋ Everyone need compliments wether they're doing what they're supposed to or not ✨✨

@elistari1050

2 жыл бұрын

No hair is "plain". Every person's natural hair is beautiful because that is how they are supposed to be.

@fionamolloy3825

2 жыл бұрын

@@AnastasiaBeaverhousn don't be rude

I'm an ex foster/adopted child. I'm glad another Brown baby girl isn't thrown to the streets and has a fighting chance, no matter the cloro of a person's skin. Long as this parent loves and cares for her she has an actual fighting chance in life. The world is a cruel place. Stop seeing race and see face. This is nothing but good, beautiful and uplifting ❤️. Stop shaming one another and heal one another

@777blazek

2 жыл бұрын

So beautifully stated!!

@nz5988

Жыл бұрын

I see race and face diversity as so beautiful. Isn't that part of getting along, seeing each other's unique beauty?

@tgssgt

Жыл бұрын

I am a transracial adoptee too, I agree. A parent's love exceeds colour and cannot be taken for granted. My Mum did the same for me when I was a child, she learnt how to do my hair and I am grateful to have had that experience ❤️❤️❤️

@terenlivas5186

Жыл бұрын

we need to see race lol. seeing race is why this mother is able to gracefully care for this child.

@kathleenking47

9 ай бұрын

The schoellers adopted a girl similar They're a white couple, and daughters name is Tyanna They're on KZread The Schoeller Family

I was adopted by my white family as a baby and the respect I have for my mom bc she learned and WANTED to learn how to do hair that was very different from hers- I’m so proud of my mom for learning something like this my mother has three adopted black children and it means the world to me 💜💜💜 update: I cried bc of how amazing you and this women are

@heatherhatch9290

2 жыл бұрын

Extra props to your mom if she didn't have many sources or internet!

@vvmac1

2 жыл бұрын

OMG I cried too.

@dwash35405

2 жыл бұрын

I was adopted by a black family. And before they adopted me, my foster mom had damaged my hair so bad because she didn't know how to properly take care of it. My adoptive mom did help to restore my scalp and get my hair right again.

@leahprimo5988

2 жыл бұрын

I'm glad to see I wasn't the only one who cried. Except I'm the white mother.

@zma6779

2 жыл бұрын

Your mama sounds lovely I'm glad you got the family you deserve sis!

Any mom that can do her daughter's hair without them crying... is a great Mom.

@SelenaOlalde

3 жыл бұрын

Yesssss I have a niece she doesn’t have curly hair but her hair gets very tangled and idk y my sister-in-law has to be so hard on her. Poor girl cries and I just can’t take it. I’ve done her hair and tried to show her how to detangle her hair without it hurting that way her mom won’t be able to hurt her and she won’t grow up thinking that’s normal. I remember giving her a bath and doing her hair leaving it all soft and detangled. Blowdrying and braiding it so she could have beautiful waves the next morning. I do love a good fresh wave so beautiful ☺️

@PRETTYCHANEL585

3 жыл бұрын

@@SelenaOlalde My hair is same texture try using "Carol's Daughter Mimosa Hair Honey Shine Pomade" it will make her hair soft control fizz and smell so good easy to get tangles out make sure to grease her scalp too! With some hair growth oil to help with her hair journey I did this after my big chop 2016 and my hair is so long. Best of luck to you both ❤❤❤

@rihannashanece

3 жыл бұрын

i only used to cry because i was tender headed but i did enjoy getting my hair done.

@SelenaOlalde

3 жыл бұрын

@@PRETTYCHANEL585 Thanks so much! I will def check it out and give it to my sister-in-law hopefully she will use it. If not best believe I will be doing it 😊 I really appreciate the advice 😌

@anajajackson6643

3 жыл бұрын

So my mom is a bad mom cuz I cried when she did my hair?

When I got pregnant with my bi-racial child, I immediately started looking up hair care. I ended up with a son who's hair has very open loose curls. Even still, we had to test different products for him because neither his dad's hair stuff or my hair stuff worked well for his hair. Do you research. Test products. Yes, you're going to throw out full bottles of some products because they don't work. It's still worth it.

@DivineLightPaladin

Жыл бұрын

Trial/travel size products to test! ❤️

@guppy1821

Жыл бұрын

Yea trial and error products I get that I wish my mother did research for my hair when having me and my sister (mixed race black and white) I have 3 a,b+c and my sister has 3c to 4b We take care of it ourselves

@kathleenking47

9 ай бұрын

For A son, its BEST SHORT

I just sent this video to my nearly 20 year old son (who is white) because he wants to be a hairstylist. BUT he wants to specialize in ethnic hair. I love how you uplifted this mama ❤️

@gmunden1

Жыл бұрын

That's a great thing because who knows what sort of job he may land after he gets his license; he could wind up on film sets or catering to a community where his skills are needed. He's good to keep an open mind and be versatile. He will always have a wide variety of clientele. I applaud him.

I love the way she handles her daughter's hair. Shes very gentle, she has the proper tools and oils for hair daughter's hair. And the little girl's hair looks beautiful. Who can hate on that? I'd rather see this then these white women with black or mixed kids who let their children run around with their hair all over their heads, barely brushed, let alone combed,etc

@embarrassedcap

3 жыл бұрын

reminds me of a video I watched the other day (I guess that's why I was recommended this one). it was a video documenting how this little girl's hair was restored after her previous foster family didn't take care of it. it was all matted, and sooo sad. they had shaved the back of her head 'cause they didn't know what to do with it. apparently it was all really traumatic for the little girl, but she finally ended up with someone who was willing to put in the work, get help, learn, etc. I think the channel was called Be The Village. seems really wholesome so far.

@angiecats5298

3 жыл бұрын

@@embarrassedcap that’s really sad, poor girl. It’s hard to relate when you’re white and have low maintenance hair. If you’re going to adopt/foster a child you would think about doing extensive research about them since a child is a life time commitment and they won’t know about themselves if you don’t teach them and educate yourself first.

@bigdumby6915

3 жыл бұрын

I'm a mixed girl with cousins on my stepdad's side who are also mixed. My mom (white) always tried her best to make sure our braids were properly done, we had the proper tools, etc... However... my step uncle has three mixed children with a white woman who barely takes care of them, much less their hair. It's always tangled and I don't think she even knows the first thing about protective styles.

@dianailea8000

3 жыл бұрын

@@embarrassedcap I don't even let my dog's hair get tangled thats so irresponsible in america you can adopt a kid so easily in my country it take years

@hachi7100

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah but not combing or super taming your child's hair is a look. As long as you wash it thoroughly.

I’m a balding white dude and youtube has been recommending me a lot of these black hair videos, and you know what? I’m down with it.

@younggouda6764

3 жыл бұрын

Best comment eveerr

@MBlover143always

3 жыл бұрын

@@younggouda6764 agreed LOL

@silkeotd7194

3 жыл бұрын

Lol It was recommended to me too and I'm white and I never watch videos on hair really so no sure why I got it. However. I still watched it, it was interesting. Maybe they assumed I was black because I watch a lot of videos about Ghana, Gambia, various African tribes such as the Masai, etc.

@androidconfusion

3 жыл бұрын

Must be getting you ready for the future so you know what to do

@valeriecollins7499

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

My mother had no clue about my hair and it was a MESS! I wish these "how-to black hair" videos were available back in the 70s! This woman is doing a great job.

@kathleenking47

9 ай бұрын

Back then, it was relaxers, blow out kits, and hot combs 😋

As my granddaughters are mixed , and I watched them when they were little. Getting them ready for school was an adventure especially dealing with the hair. But I learned ,and even today now they are teenagers I make sure I take them to a hairdresser who knows how to work with their type of hair.

@verisumaz

2 жыл бұрын

God bless Ed

She’s a mother who simply took the time to understand her child’s needs. It’s really that simple. Black/white or whatever. She’s a parent who wanted to meet her child’s needs. I honestly don’t see much evidence that many parents do that so I’m impressed.

@ms.anonymousinformer242

3 жыл бұрын

I hate to say it but it true... I have seen quite a lot of little ones (black) with hair that looked like their caregiver/parent did not give a care about it. :(

@dream-nz9yb

3 жыл бұрын

Regardless of color, this cannot be reduced to "meeting her child's needs"... she went above and beyond. Give credit where credit is due. She could do two pigtails and call the needs met. This right here was real love and so heartwarming.

@katherinefielder3415

3 жыл бұрын

Omg i never thought of that....giving different parts of the scalp a break. but makes absolute sense. It is amazing the things we realise when we actually take the time to consider and think on things and the things we overlook or dont even think of because we are too busy and too rushed.

@ingrid5944

3 жыл бұрын

This... Is.. AMAZING!!!!! THIS IS THE KIND OF THING THAT MAKES ME THINK THAT WE HUMANS HAVE HOPE! WE ARE NOT THAT EVIL! WE CARE FOR EACH OTHER!!!!!! WE ARE EVOLVING AS A SPECIES!! THIS IS BEAUTIFUL!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@deebryant1666

3 жыл бұрын

She's one amongst Many! I have seen Heard and know of Several instances of Neglect Ridicule and jealous behavior towards Black Ppl's and childrens Beautiful Versatile Hair!

The way she looks at that little girl, the way she handles her hair, the way she talks to her, the love is so visible. She adores this little girl.

@MariamaSonko

3 жыл бұрын

Yes she is

@sylindadavis8703

3 жыл бұрын

I definitely love this video, the original one

@cartswhat8177

3 жыл бұрын

and she's white. omg how is it possible for a white person not to be racist????????????????????????????????????????????????

@ItsMeSarah123

2 жыл бұрын

@@cartswhat8177 Fr like what are these comments? Yes she loves her daughter. Obviously🤦🏻‍♀️ Why do people when it comes to white people being nice to black people and vice versa make such a big deal out of it? As if it would be such a rare thing and they only waited for a tiny evidence that the mom is using the girl and then hate on the mom for not treating her poor adopted black daughter with respect. No one would celebrate the normal behavior of a mom and daughter if they were the same skincolor.

@lotus_flower2001

2 жыл бұрын

She adopted her....It's her daughter.

This woman truly loves and cares for her daughters, and it shows. I absolutely love that she is doing more than one to two ponytails. 💕 That little shake her daughter did while she was showing off the back part. She's building that confidence too. 👏

I have watched this lady a few times before and what I love is her natural relationship with the daughter, this is not a prop for KZread, she is truly mothering her daughters and I love how she knows how to do her hair, you can tell she did the homework! Bless her heart

Im crying. Life would be so much easier if everyone in the world could just be as sensitive to each other as this mother and her child.

@BioSimone2915

3 жыл бұрын

I would like to add that Marlene is super sweet in her comments as well. Could we please be this sweet, nice and sensitive to each other and our kids? The world would be such a different place. So thank you😘❤️

@Kneecolelee

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed!

@touchoffae

3 жыл бұрын

Idk why this video is making me cry too!

@nicolemccracken8465

3 жыл бұрын

@Fallen Angel Yes. Sometimes, when people connect to content, strong emotions arise. Sometimes, people can see themes in content that they can extrapolate and apply to the world at large. That, too, can elicit strong emotions within a person.

@aveen49

3 жыл бұрын

@@touchoffae same here..And I rarely cry.

They are her adopted children. No she has a husband she's not single. She definitely took care into knowing how to do her hair

@karebear78

3 жыл бұрын

Yesssssssss!!!!!👏👏👏👏👏

@karebear78

3 жыл бұрын

She cares so much for them.

@scorpiocara6798

3 жыл бұрын

@@karebear78 yes. Your name is so much like mine lol

@allisonwalker4205

3 жыл бұрын

She is their mother. She knows a lot about her children's hair. She and her husband are awesome parents!

@LizzyAlexis

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed!

I've watched several of her videos in the past. They adopted 4 daughters and a son that they fostered first. What I loved most was in a video where she called her girls' hair their crown.

Okay, but when that sweet angel said "okay" after her mom said she was going to turn her around in a minute made my heart melt.

Christy is sensitive to her children's background & culture. For years she has been looking into solutions for the girls' hair and sharing with others who may be in a similar situation with children of different ethnicities. She said in a past video she understands that her adopted daughters' hair are their crowns. Plus, she does involve them in their style choices, too. As far as taking her time with the hair, she does it for more than 1 child. I admire her and have followed her for a while because she and her husband are great examples for me on adopting.. Side note: yep, tangle teasers are a blessing.

@mainegabrielle

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely!!! I love Christy! She also allows them to have relationships with some of their biological families.

@latonyajackson4295

3 жыл бұрын

@@mainegabrielleYes, such an ideal situation for the children to attempt to have those connections, too, (provided the biological relationships are healthy and positive under the circumstances.)

@AsteriskLia

3 жыл бұрын

Oh, my mother is black, but her hair is naturally straight, my father is white (latino) and his hair is super curly, I was born with 2B/3A curls, being a 00's kid, I never found products for me, but somehow my mother made my curls finger by finger, even though she never had a hair like that, when she went back to work, my father was responsible for getting me ready for school, I spent three years wearing a ponytail! He always tried hard to make it beautiful, I always wanted to wear braids when I was younger, so I would make his job easier, only after I was old I understood why I couldn't, parents like mine and many others deserve a lot of recognition, she never masked her daughter, never changed her, always evolving alongside her ❤️

@danielaitriago

3 жыл бұрын

Are you saying she said that her hair it's her crown? 😭❤️ Oh my god! That's so sweet and important!!!!

@rena6418

3 жыл бұрын

Love her. Gave me some amazing tips for my daughters hair

As a biracial girl with a white mum who raised me solo for a long time, I'm so so so thankful that she learned how to look after my curls. She never scraped my hair back or damaged my hairline, she never relaxed it to make it easier to 'deal with'. She discouraged me from straightening and taught me to love my blackness, she used protective bobbles and products made for me.

@lenab447

2 жыл бұрын

Thank that lady everyday!

@tatianamontgomery692

2 жыл бұрын

Same my mom got my hair and my younger sister hair to are butts it was very long then I ended up cutting it cause it gave me headaches it was so heavy I regret cutting it lol I miss it

@yukakokamewari2381

2 жыл бұрын

I wish my mom was like that, she did the exact opposite💀💀

@Amber-YAHUAHdaughter777

2 жыл бұрын

Girl I wish !!!! My uncultured white momma did not LoL still love her tho 😂😩

@MeloBurgers

2 жыл бұрын

damn that makes me emotional... my mom is black..

I absolutely LOVE this video! This is what my friends and I have been saying for years. If you're going to adopt or foster children of color you have to take the time to educate yourself on how to care for them. This lady has clearly done the work. I love that the hairstyle was age appropriate and that she included her little girl in the process. Just a really cute and informative video.

This was just so special. I love that the mom seemed happy doing her daughters hair too, like spending that time most likely bonding with her daughter in that way. It was so cute. I know this is meant to be a commentary on a white mom doing her black child’s hair, but it made me wonder what races her other children are and what she does special for them to make them feel loved. This woman obviously makes time for her children. Definitely checking her channel out! Also this is first that I’ve heard of your channel too, and I love how happy you were to see the proper representation. I love to learn from these videos, so thank you for sharing!

@MultiKswift

2 жыл бұрын

I don't know if you ever did check out her channel. But I am one of her subscribers, so I can tell you what I know about her family. She has five kids. Her oldest are a pair of boy-girl twins (Ace and Avaya), her middle child is the girl in this video (Eliyah), and then her two youngest are girls (Lilly and Tali, I think they are one year apart). Ace, Avaya, and Eliyah are back. Eliyah is not biologically related to Ace or Avaya. Lilly and Tali are biological sisters, and are three quarters white and one quarter Japanese. (I remember this because in one video she talked about how it was funny that Lilly and Tali are three quarters white/one quarter asian, because if they had biological children they'd also be three quarters white/one quarter Asian. Her husband is half Filipino).

@kyttenn

2 жыл бұрын

@@MultiKswift She’s pregnant now too! 😭💕

The way she uplifts and talks positively about her child's hair is the lesson many of us need to embrace.

@LUX_8

3 жыл бұрын

🤦🏾‍♀️

@mayaarroyoburton7840

3 жыл бұрын

Yesss! 💯‼️

@Dirtnap1986

3 жыл бұрын

We should learn uplifting and positivity from the very own race of people who taught us to hate it in the first place? GTFOH!!

@Cindy99765

3 жыл бұрын

@@Dirtnap1986 Christy is not the person who taught black people to hate our hair. It doesn't make sense to paint an entire race as the same. She clearly cares for her daughter.

@arzuriakuroi5323

3 жыл бұрын

@@Dirtnap1986 if u cant see how there are bad and good people in every race, and how children are not their ancestors, than u have a long way to go to equallity.

She is a married woman with 5 adopted children. They live in a diverse community. Their children are aware of their culture. The oldest two kids the boy and girl are twins. The daughter featured here is their third adoptive child. The two little girls are also adopted and they are blood sisters. They are a beautiful family. Her husband is Italian and Filipino I believe.

@ismli2672

3 жыл бұрын

I think is only 3 adopted children

@josejones246

3 жыл бұрын

@@ismli2672 No, all of them are adopted, which is crazy because the 2 little ones look exactly like her and her husband.

@nicolehernandez6335

3 жыл бұрын

@@josejones246 I know right? They really do..but they are adopted too.

@josejones246

3 жыл бұрын

@@loko7914 But, here's their adoption video: kzread.info/dash/bejne/iZN4q5aqmczTYtI.html

@SL-lz9jr

3 жыл бұрын

My only disappointment in her is that in one of her videos last year she said "China Virus". UGH. She was canceled in my mind after that incident. She seemed so progressive up to that tragic racist moment. Makes me think what other "slips ups" may occur in her house regarding racially-charged terminology and language because she said "China Virus" without batting an eye.

I love how much the mother has researched and learnt for her daughter, and I love how much you are hyping her up! We need positivity in the world and to lift each other up!

It’s really sweet how you’re supporting this mom. I think she’s really new to this but willing to learn and trying really hard to do the right thing. I think it’s great that you’re here for it and giving positive vibes for this learning journey. I love that you’re cheering her on, it’s really sweet of you.

She frequently says her daughters hair is "her crown" and I'm soft.

@alexisroman6573

3 жыл бұрын

It personally hit home for me bc they're weren't many black girls for me to befriend when I was younger. And I grew very envious of blonds and brunettes bc they could do so many things with their hair and it was always so pretty and long and flowly. And I grew self-conscious and hated my hair. Now that I'm older I with I could just hug younger me.

@bme7995

3 жыл бұрын

@@alexisroman6573 African hairstyles are so beautiful and their textures, hope you love yourself now. I used to hate having coarse thick hair (I’m Asian btw), my hair texture made my hair stay up even after untying my hair, very messy and everywhere. Got damaged easily etc.

@Sc-xq3uv

3 жыл бұрын

I don’t have kids I’m not white out black but hey ima watch it I do have curly hair tho... def not any where close to this extent

@airotkiv

3 жыл бұрын

@@alexisroman6573 I'm white with only slightly wavy hair and last year I dyed my hair pink. I had a conversation with a black girl from my friend group who said that she was so sad that she couldn't just pick a colour and easily dye her hair and that her hair options were so limited. We're German btw, this is important because the black community here is much smaller than in the US. We started talking about hair and we both realized that black girls don't actually have limited options per se, they just have limited access to people who really know how to care for kinky hair and there's also limited acceptance for hairstyles that work better on their hair. It's actually so sad, because yes, the care is more time consuming, but the number of style options is technically just as big as for people with straight or wavy hair...It's a privilege I never realized I had before.

@Dreadtheday

3 жыл бұрын

Love the way her little one flips her hair with confidence.

I, a childfree white woman who can't really do even my own 2a hair, have no idea how I got here, BUT the effort put into learning how to properly care for her daughters curly hair shows. This is the kind of wholesome shit I needed today.

@viviannichols3582

3 жыл бұрын

I am also a white woman with no kids, and I love this. 😂 I hope I can adopt someday, and I would be a thousand percent open to adopting kids of different races from my own and/or with vastly different hair types. Bring it on!

@peggyjonson9943

3 жыл бұрын

I’m a white lady too, have no idea how this video got on my list to watch, but I’m so happy it did! Loved it!

@somethinggood9267

3 жыл бұрын

Me too girl. Idk why it just made me tear up a little

@misszombiesue

3 жыл бұрын

lmao I'm white but I really just love watching people do hair. Maybe because I'm bald

@Roo9ify

3 жыл бұрын

I am on the same page and I agree! So fascinating and beautiful!!! :D

I love that you’re giving her props. My sister (yt) has 3 mixed black children and they all have pretty different hair from each other and my sister has the most yt thin hair ever. She works hard and does her best and it’s nice to see other people appreciating the work mothers like her actually do.

Been black for 27 years and sis is teaching me. Damn! 🔥

Christy doesn’t play about her girls hair‼️ She’s had them since babies & has grown their hair out beautifully. I’m subbed to her channel, and to watch her raise her children is amazing 🤩

@bebaruiz03

3 жыл бұрын

Same. She's an amazing mother. Love her content

@marywashington6493

3 жыл бұрын

I don't even have kids and I love her channel.

@strudwick28

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed! I like watching her

@debrawestbrook8960

3 жыл бұрын

I love how she explains how Eliyah chose her name. They were thinking Aaliyah, but daddy REALLY wanted his baby girl to somehow have a connection to his name! TOO CUTE!!!

@tammi67able

3 жыл бұрын

She is amazing! God bless her!

she’s handling her hair gentler than my mom handling my straight hair 😂😭 i can’t. my hair is not even frizzy or tangled 😂😭 bruh

@vadalia3860

3 жыл бұрын

I once stayed the night at my biracial-with-a-white-mother friend's house. The mother insisted on brushing my (super straight, super thin) white girl hair even though I'd been doing my own hair for years & ripped the very few tangles I did have right off my head. I always felt so sorry for my friend from then on because if her mom was doing such a terrible job with my "easy" hair, she must have been torturing her poor daughter with her much curlier hair. This woman is a breath of fresh air.

@fiestyfox2207

3 жыл бұрын

Ooo I wanna add that my dad wasn't always around but he had type 3B/3C afro type hair and he was incredibly gentle with us and tried to help but my mom took care of us for the most part and thought being gentle was too time consuming and pointless /:

@DestinyK-2

3 жыл бұрын

Her hair isn’t tangled 😆 .

@vadalia3860

3 жыл бұрын

@@DestinyK-2 If you're referring to the little girl in the video, I don't think farrah meant to imply her hair was tangled, only clarifying that her own mother's struggles with her straight hair wasn't due to it being frizzy or tangled.

@kmold0033

3 жыл бұрын

I was just thinking that hahaha

Loved this reaction video-it warmed my heart. ♥️ I know you may not be aware, but many white women have also grown up with rough treatment of their hair by their moms. Yanking on tangles, teasing, over-tightening hair bands or pulling too hard on braids; hurting the scalp with hard brush bristles or stiff combs; using unpleasant chemicals and sprays; not taking input on what the kid wants their hair to look like; cutting hair they want it long (often because it’s TOO MUCH TROUBLE for the mom to take care of) or not allowing it to be cut when the kid wants it short; yelling at them to sit still and stop whining! I can only imagine how much deeper all that hits for black children, when negative cultural messages are being reinforced, as well! So I super appreciate this wonderful, caring mother’s respectful and sensitive approach.

@DF-fp4cg

2 жыл бұрын

My mum grew up in the 50s and she had this treatment to. She was a russian orphan baby adopted to white parents. The pain and the curlers and the cutting and......... So true

@caitthecat

Жыл бұрын

I hear ya. I have the easiest hair to take care of and my mom STILL had no idea what to do. I inherited my hair from her! If I was born with curly hair, she would've just shaved it, I swear.

@essimathews9056

Жыл бұрын

I'm super duper white, and I inherited my dad's Incredibly thick curly hair (I was cousin IT for Halloween and all I had to do was brush it). My mom had fine straight hair. She brushed my hair when it was wet directly from the scalp (not from the bottom up), blow-dried it every time I took a bath, straightened it with a curling iron, and chopped it when it was resultantly dying from such treatment. I always wanted long hair growing up, but I ended up looking like a frizzy Dora the Explorer.

i’m a white woman with curly hair and even seeing the mom being so gentle and caring to her daughters hair is making me so emotional

Y'all this lady out here tackling racism one tangle at a time and I am here for it! God bless this baby and her mom.

@planetworldrelaxingmusic7646

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, Great Mother and Sweet little Girl.

@ashfromvenus

3 жыл бұрын

LMAO

@loisdmichael5131

3 жыл бұрын

YES, YES, YES.

@ladybre555

3 жыл бұрын

Bc she’s doing her child’s hair she’s ending racism?....

@2797krmb

3 жыл бұрын

@@ladybre555 she said “tackling”....

Now that's a Mama. Whatever race, whatever color. When you groom your children's hair with respect, love and care, they feel it. This is more than just haircare/styling. This is quality time ❤

@maudinerichardson3361

3 жыл бұрын

That's mommy and me time

@TK-ij2xi

3 жыл бұрын

I wish more mom's saw it this way. They see it as a duty, "I have to brush her hair".....No, you GET to brush her hair. It's an honor, never forget, because someday she will honor you with time & care.

@4146479

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely. Grooming is such a special thing and so important for building bonds. I don't have kids, but it's true for dogs, cats, horses, any being you pour your love into.

@lubnan08

3 жыл бұрын

Yes so well said.

Omg the part about how children internalize how parents handle their hair, hit me hard and took me straight back to the dreaded times, when my mom would violently force a giant paddle brush through my newly shampooed, dessert dry, non conditioned, type 3c/4a hair. I would, of course, whale and cry out in pain and agony, only to be told to behave and not be so dramatic, because I was only acting, according to her.. I'm white, so is my mom. But she has wavey hair and no concept on how to handle curls, by ANY means

@loosilu

2 жыл бұрын

This is EXACTLY what happened to me. Sometimes it was even a comb!

@Jewelz-qt8qt

Жыл бұрын

My mom would do so much with my hair.i have 4c hair and always so tight and painful so now I live the wild curly life...still taken care of just won't catch me keeping my hair restricted

@Coa0001

Жыл бұрын

💀 4a u say

@nay4851

Жыл бұрын

@@Coa0001 white people can have tight curled hair my friend quick Google search before you bash people on the net

@rhaenyratargaryen4394

Жыл бұрын

@@nay4851 tightly curly yes, afrotextured (aka type 4) tho? Unlikely

This woman truly loves and cares for her daughters, and it shows. I absolutely love that she is doing more than one to two ponytails.

You got Karens You got Beckies And then you have Christy's Here for the Christy's

@Najobajo

3 жыл бұрын

Christys, Katys and Kimmys always down for the get down. And Jazmins 😂

@youngpoet03

3 жыл бұрын

A friend of mine has a two foster black daughters. She’s been kicked out of a few parent groups for correcting and offering advice to other white moms. Some really don’t want to give effort or change even when they have black kids.

@jilliansmith4824

3 жыл бұрын

we love the christys

@dominiquedevereux7205

3 жыл бұрын

YAASSSS.

@IWantToMature85

3 жыл бұрын

She's the mom to her daughter yet you want to put her down for her actually caring about her daughter's hair. Go home!

This mother genuinely LOVES HER CHILDREN regardless of their ethnicity. She grew this child's hair to the length that it is today.

@miloudivyne

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly and she's living stress free without having the burden of working a job outside her home like most black women.

@chall5353

3 жыл бұрын

@@jaithomas9409 ty! You know some love to be negative I guess it makes them feel better about themselves. 😒

@elleciagregory5713

3 жыл бұрын

@@miloudivyne are you being for real

@deborahdash7328

3 жыл бұрын

@@miloudivyne my mother had 3 kids before 20 and struggled raising us. She made sure our hair was done, healthy and long to boot. She just showed NO MERCY on a tender headed scalp. Most black moms don't even if they take care of their children's hair. The hair struggle is a right a passage in black homes.

@got2bee876

3 жыл бұрын

@@miloudivyne What does that have to do with caring for your child's hair?

Love is everything! And knowing how to take care and respect your children is real love!!

Loving the love and support you gave here. It is great that you are using your voice to let people know how important it is for parents to learn how to deal with their kid's specific hair types.

“there’s no reason to be rippin through your child’s hair” me growing up in a mexican household like 🧍🏽🧍🏽🧍🏽

@kookieswife9233

3 жыл бұрын

Me growing up in a BLACK household😂😂

@asking4afri3nd49

3 жыл бұрын

Ooh the competition we need to have about race.... for shame Lizzie. You potato.

@kookieswife9233

3 жыл бұрын

@@asking4afri3nd49 first of.. I wasn't trying to start a competition. Second.. I was just making a joke. And third.. Who are you to talk?

@nostalgiaavenue4524

3 жыл бұрын

Cuban so I get this 😂😂😂

@zannahmerrill3620

3 жыл бұрын

I'm just remembering the tears & screaming on bad tangle days. Normally I just sucked it up like you do. It got so bad once when I was 6(my dad took me on a trip & didn't brush my waist length hair for two weeks) that my mom had literally all my hair cut off rather than patiently detangle it.

Me being 17, white and not thinking about kids at all: " oh yes this is important I need to know this"

@lollollol1575

3 жыл бұрын

Lmaooo😭😭😭😹😹

@user-fg6hg7ds1v

3 жыл бұрын

Me too 😭😭😭

@EH-lb3mf

3 жыл бұрын

😄

@ReaganKeeler

3 жыл бұрын

Omg same!

@paigewashington6018

3 жыл бұрын

Do you ask to touch your friends hair at school? If you wanna make a friend walk up to a black girl your age and ask about her hair. If she isn't open please please dont take it personally. Another one will be. 💘

Yes,I got goose bumps, watching this video. She did an excellent job at being a mom and doing her African American daughters hair. Just loved it! That video showed LOVE for her baby. Thank you so much for showing this video. One Love 💕

I love this! Seeing the mom being gentle and putting time and moisture in the hair, separating in parts, taking snack breaks, asking the daughter what hair bands she wants, this is amazing. I feel the love and I'm so happy with the video. The mom did her research and she did amazing caring for the hair.

White girl here with curly hair. Nobody in my family has curly hair so my mom didn’t know what to do with it. She would just violently brush the everloving crap out of it and rip all the knots out. It was so crazy painful. Mad respect to this mom for being so patient and gentle!

@yuliiamoroz4765

3 жыл бұрын

SAMEE

@omgyutastoesaresoseggsywow6823

3 жыл бұрын

SAME BUT MY MOMS NOT WHITE AND SHE HAS CURLY HAIR BUT SHE WOULD JUST BRUSH IT AND IT WAS SO PAINFUL

@juliewilbur647

3 жыл бұрын

I got my red curly hair cut off when I was 4, my mom had no idea what to do with it. Granted I looked like "Annie" but this was in 1960, girls mostly had nice long hair

@kiddethiopia

3 жыл бұрын

SAME

@kathrynpope8394

3 жыл бұрын

Same here. I have the classic Jewish curls, but my mother did not. Half the time she'd rip a brush through my hair, or she'd let me go to school with a birdsnest. She cut it to my ears when I was 7 because it was too annoying and I apparently "Dont deserve long hair if I can't do it myself." I always hated my curls and ruined it with heat toolsfor years, so I've been trying to learn how to handle it as an adult

My bio mom is white and she struggled in the 70s and 80s because there weren’t a lot of resources. Our hair didn’t always look awesome but it was always clean and healthy and for that I’m grateful.

@rubysbaby822

3 жыл бұрын

A lot of black mothers didn’t really know either back then. There weren’t a lot of products or information. No one wanted us to embrace our natural hair. We were taught that our hair was bad. Hence the reason so many of us got relaxers as children.

@alyssagibbons3707

3 жыл бұрын

So true! The sheer amount of resources and info out there these days.

@athenarocks7657

3 жыл бұрын

I was born in 2001 and adopted into an all white family. My parents tried their best, but my god are the early school pictures rough 😂

@candyland8326

3 жыл бұрын

Stop worshiping this lady for doing her child’s HAIR. Y’all must have had horrible mothers the way you are kissing the woman’s behind. It’s very cringey. It’s giving insecurity needing acceptance vibes. I’m embarrassed for y’all. Get off your knees. 🤦‍♀️

@alyssagibbons3707

3 жыл бұрын

@@candyland8326 Indeed!

I appreciate how much you appreciated her efforts, knowledge, and her style of parenting. Blessings. 🙏🏼

I love your reaction. It is so nice to see such positivity. It is also nice that this girl gets quality time with her mom and she gets a say.

It’s also really cute how she keeps saying her daughter’s hair is nice- I can tell she really believes that and that’s important for a little Black girl to hear.

@Laylay.24

3 жыл бұрын

right my mom just gives me away to another person to get my hair done even worse she leaves my hair in the same style for like 3 months

@HarlieHarlot

3 жыл бұрын

I'm not black. I grew up in a black community. When I was a tot I always admired black hair. Then I learned that it wasn't considered "desirable". Didnt understand it until my black friends pointed out each others "flaws". People are taught to hate. Including themselves. I still love it, especially afros like amara la negra. I compliment my black coworkers whenever they have a natural style they rocking.

@asking4afri3nd49

3 жыл бұрын

Honestly, hair is hair. It’s a part of everyone’s identity. I understand the sentiment behind your comment but everyone needs to hear that about their hair regardless. It’s not only little black girls. It’s a shame you feel the need to single out one part of a community when all people need to hear good things about themselves from other people. I’m wondering why you feel the need to only speak for little black girls. Why can’t you speak for all little girls? Why can’t you speak for people? Is it really so hard to understand that we are all individuals with the same needs? Do you think only little black girls need to be pandered to about their hair? In all the years of my life, spent in several countries and all across the United States I have never heard anyone say anything negative about black hair unless they were black themselves. On the contrary, I’ve heard most people that aren’t black commenting positively about the texture and beauty of black peoples hair. I’m so sick of the b.s. about how no one likes black people or their hair. I could braid any black persons hair if they asked me to. The only reason people don’t delve into conversation about this specific subject (a black person’s hair) is because the reaction of a compliment or a question is actually to take offense, no matter what is said. If you don’t want the compliment, then don’t complain when people don’t tell you your hair is beautiful. Believe in yourself and learn to love yourself. If people dislike your hair guess what, that’s just an opinion. It means nothing. If you can’t formulate your own opinions about yourself then you need to get in touch with a doctor that can help you figure out how to. It’s no ones problem but yours. No one makes you feel anything, that’s all you. Being upset because of something someone said is called a reaction. A reaction is a verb, and that means it’s an action. A reaction is an action that is taken in lieu of another action. It’s not usually done by the subject making the first action. It’s usually done by the recipient of said first action. That means the recipient created that reaction. Not the person that had an opinion. I’d like you to educate yourself so you don’t feel the need to be a racist or a bigot. Afterwards maybe start to help educate the rest of the liberal community. Just a few thoughts.

@gemimathew4101

3 жыл бұрын

@@asking4afri3nd49 You’re the definition of a Karen- not everyone experiences the same things in regards to appearance. White standards of beauty have been the “norm”. White kids don’t need to constantly be told their worthy and beautiful because society already caters to them in every area possible.

@HarlieHarlot

3 жыл бұрын

@@asking4afri3nd49 you speak of telling others to educate themselves. From a simple comment you made so many wild assumptions. The commenter wasn't targeting one ethnic group. She is replying to this video. This video is about caring for black textured hair. For years black hair industry did not push for natural styles. There is a strong push for perming relaxing and wigs. It sounds like you need a doctor. You are holding onto anger about God knows what. Whats up with the phonemic lesson. You really went off a tangent.

As a white woman with pin-straight blonde hair, and no children... I have no idea how I landed on this vid but I have to say that ALL of this video was so wholesome and I'm here for it!

@shannonmorris8384

3 жыл бұрын

You got sucked in!🤣😂 But I pray it blesses you in the future

@Lovelytrini82

3 жыл бұрын

KZread has the tendency to do that to you lol

@Olivia-wg8gv

3 жыл бұрын

meee like my hair is type 2 but I’m about to subscribe just cuz her personality is so fun 😭

@oboemoboe

3 жыл бұрын

@@Olivia-wg8gv Right?

@serenity2655

3 жыл бұрын

AND I am here for your comment. Much love to All

I have no idea why, but right off the bat the video made me emotional. Then she mentions how her girls are growing up and age appropriate hairstyles. My mom literally never took the time with me, and considering my thoughts or feelings was never a thing. I do think parenting has evolved in better ways due to the internet and information being more accessible..today is nothing like the 90s! It just makes me happy to see a mom who cares so much and is willing to put in daily effort, continuously learning and growing to do right by her children. She is a great mom! 💓 thanks for showing this video!

I love the recognition your giving her i teared up a bit watching it meant a lot although I am a black woman I truly believe we all can learn from one another and it have such a positive impact on our kids. The world teaches us to be against one another and this video displays so much recognition and unity that we need in this world❣️❣️😘

Two things that really made my heart beat with glee: -The mention of age-appropriate hairstyles (because so many parents will not let their children grow up and keep them in "cute" things in teenage years, or suddenly say "you're not a kid any more" and put them in too serious styles) -Asking the kid if they're okay with the style/accessories (Because, once again, not enough parents taking into account what styles and what colours their kids actually like)

@ItsMzPhoenix

2 жыл бұрын

Wait, I don't understand the "age-appropriate" part...?

@NWolfsson

2 жыл бұрын

@@ItsMzPhoenix There are hair styles that are more associated to certain age brackets (children, teenagers, young adults, etc.). It is not bad to have them outside the usual age, but it may be strange (think of a grown man with a 2000s rat-tail or a young girl with a pixie cut.)

@Lotsielots

2 жыл бұрын

That isn't a thing in the UK.

@okaygirlidc

2 жыл бұрын

I agree with what you’re saying but I feel like you should do what you want your child’s hair or what your child wants to do. There shouldn’t be ages associated with certain styles it makes no sense. If it’s for a child just don’t get it long.

@Chin715

2 жыл бұрын

@@okaygirlidc So put a wig on an infant but it's okay if it's a short bob?

For me, as a white woman, it's so educational to watch videos about 4a,b,c hair types, because I'm a social worker, working with families from all backgrounds and I can help my clients with their hair care and their kids hair care, too, if needed. So please please never stop educating us about how to treat different kind of hair structures, it is so important!

@billiev8705

3 жыл бұрын

You are doing such a hard and important job! Thank you for caring about hair! There are many foster families out there who are so insensitive about this topic, despite their best intentions. A friend of mine is also a social worker (and a mom to adult biracial kids), and she has seen so many kids whose hair was cut short while they were in temporary foster care. When they came back to their bio parents, that was actually traumatic to mother & kids, to have a white foster family make that decision because they did not want to put in the time to learn to take care of the child's hair. So sad..

@mollytaylor8122

3 жыл бұрын

You are incredible! I have a good friend who had to go to a child homeless center for awhile as a teen, and it was social workers like you who have made her into the wonderful person that she is today. Thanks to them, she is now in her 20's, a U.S. citizen, and living in a cute little apartment with her boyfriend and helping to raise his younger sister (and now best friends with her old social worker!). If you ever feel down, remember that SO many of the children you work with have equally beautiful life stories - entirely because of you. 💗

@yenlx3354

3 жыл бұрын

@@mollytaylor8122 oh my god, that's such a beautiful story! and that's exactly the reason why I chose to be a social worker. Because back when I was a teenager I was in youth care, too, and the people I met and our caretakers were such good people, I just want to give something back! Everyone deserves to be taken care of and to be loved

@tonipearce-richards6622

3 жыл бұрын

You sound like a great and nice social worker, as an adopted child myself I haven’t had the best experience with social workers, in the space of 6-7 years of my life I’ve had three social workers 1 of which outed me to my primary school about me being adopted which lead to a lot of bullying and the other 2 I only saw once each and that was only for them to introduce themselves and I never saw them again, I’m now 17 and haven’t had a social worker for 10-ish years and I’ve actually been better off, but thank you for being one of the nice and actually helpful social workers to the families you’ve worked with🙂

@AppleAbston

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for taking your job seriously ❤ 💕 💗 so many of us (African descendants) are stripped away from stability or incorrectly labeled due to ignorance (lack of knowledge) about what we actually need to be healthy and thrive. I appreciate your attitude and energy 😌

I was feeling down recently but I remembered watching this video a while ago and I found your commentary so heartwarming and positive and I'm so glad I found it again. The whole video just radiates love and positivity and your attitude is incredibly uplifting. I faved the video just in case I need another mood-booster so I don't have to search it again. I didn't realize it the first time I watched it but rewatching it I can tell clearly I am feeling much lighter and happier. Your reaction is just beautiful mood-magic and this time I will remember that!

I’m getting ready to be a foster mom and I want to make any child that comes into my care feel good about the way they look! This video is first of all the most positive reaction video I have ever seen and second helping me figuring out how to prepare for caring for a hair texture that’s different from mine. THANK YOU!!

It’s all in the mental to be honest. It has nothing to do with her skin color. She took the time to learn her child’s hair because she took the initiative to be a caring mother to begin with. Not only is she super good with her kid’s hair, her parenting can also be credited. it’s christy’s mental for me 💕✨

@palladium607

3 жыл бұрын

You meant mentality but yes I agree

@tyraperez

3 жыл бұрын

Nothing but the truth. She loves those precious kids ❤️❤️❤️

@candyluna2929

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@nisa3695

3 жыл бұрын

Facts! Everyone is not the same ❤

@birdgirl8390

3 жыл бұрын

Agree! My best friend's mom preferred to go out with her friends all the time instead of teaching her daughter how to take care of her hair. So it was just me and her, two ten year olds with no idea on how to care for black hair. I sometimes get sad when I watch black hair care videos because there've been so many things I wish I had known 20 years ago.

There are Karens... and there are Christys. People should be more like Christy.😍

@breathemej

3 жыл бұрын

okaaay!

@yeshuaischrist9951

3 жыл бұрын

OKAY SHAKETA

@nopep5606

3 жыл бұрын

yes 🙌

@give1192

3 жыл бұрын

@@yeshuaischrist9951 your christian and racist?

@4ceverything640

3 жыл бұрын

Christy has Christ, be more christ like, OOh I'm all over it!

We love Christy!!! It's always amazing watching moms treating little girls with love and respect, teaching them how to take care of themselves and hopefully it passes to the future generations

I love this reaction video. Such a great way to cheer this mother on!

Can we all agree that our childhood hair routines with our moms was absolute hell 😃

@megshush

3 жыл бұрын

So much crying! Did you get smacked on the thigh with the brush for being tender headed?

@sta._rina

3 жыл бұрын

@@megshush bestie your mom was wildin 🤧🤧🤧

@toxic2208

3 жыл бұрын

@@megshush same

@toxic2208

3 жыл бұрын

@@megshush same

@myheartwillstopinjoy8142

3 жыл бұрын

Yes 🙂 Mine was my mom brushing my curly hair dry, until I cried 🙃

me, an asian woman with no intensions of having any child: ah yes some good content

@kiararodriguez8423

3 жыл бұрын

We don’t really care that your Asian…….

@TheLinkeFamily

3 жыл бұрын

@@kiararodriguez8423 it means that how to care for black hair is not relevant to them personally, so don’t be a jerk.

@user-po9iy3pk2y

2 жыл бұрын

@@kiararodriguez8423 the way you said this to 2 different people lol just leave them alone

@user-po9iy3pk2y

2 жыл бұрын

@@kiararodriguez8423 go say that to all the white people saying they're white

@yacchan4599

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-po9iy3pk2y Why? Lmao

She have me in tear 😢. Such a gentle soul. I absolutely love her great job doing your daughter hair.

I love the way this beautiful mom didn't try to talk about how different her daughter's hair is in front of her. Beautiful child as well, they are both blessed to have each other!

Proof that love doesn’t always come from a parent that held you inside their body under their heart. It can also come from someone that holds you inside their heart. ❤️ I wish for everyone a good, nurturing mother.

@rainsofhealing4091

3 жыл бұрын

YAS!

@lahomersmith8945

3 жыл бұрын

She does hair better than me, good job mom

@OursharedtalesTV

3 жыл бұрын

I will start doing my daughter's hair better 😭

I love how gentle she is because I’m having flashbacks to when my mom would hit my forehead with a wooden brush when I moved and how she would dip that brush in a cup of water and water would just be dripping in my eyes 😂😂😂

@Azay629

3 жыл бұрын

Lord yes! I am adopted by a white lady. But I knew my biological mother (who is black) she would beat me in the head with her brush. But my white mama was very gentle and took her time with my hair!!!🤣🥲

@dw990

3 жыл бұрын

The fucking water cup!!! 😣😂

@smolchild5928

3 жыл бұрын

Then the brushing the tips of the ears 😩

@lizonyuh2290

3 жыл бұрын

Lol I'm white but I'm getting flashbacks to when my cousins and I would play with and do eachother's hair and this bitch was stright ripping my hair out and telling me to stop messing 😂😂😂

@honey101sdl2

3 жыл бұрын

Oh my goodness first person I've seen mention the brush in water 😩 and it be dripping all over u ... mahn back in the day our parents just made it du ... lol some blue magic and water..

This was so lovely to watch. Everyone was respectful of each other. The adoptive mom to her child and the commentator to the mom. It was just beautiful to see.

This woman was put on earth to be a badass mom. And we applaud it!

Props to this mom for educating herself and not being intimidated on her daughters natural hair instead of relaxing or cutting off her hair because it’s “easier”. Her daughters hair looks super healthy too so she’s clearly been properly doing their hair for a while.

@callherkam

3 жыл бұрын

yea she does a really good job!! it looks so heathy!💕

@TULIP.1689

3 жыл бұрын

Right! That child has BEAUTIFUL hair❤️

@yayamela7840

3 жыл бұрын

I agree with u, my cousin is half black and white and her white mom is very ignorant when it comes with her hair, when me and my sis do cornrows and do any type of black girl hairstyles her ma always takes it off and don’t know how to properly do her hair and keeps on straighten it but when someone who is actually black tries to teach her she refused.

@KMT-jb5mv

3 жыл бұрын

Agree!! My mom cut my hair short because it was easier!

@c.s.804

3 жыл бұрын

I somehow ended up watching the 90 day fiance lockdown special months ago, and a mom had her biracial daughters hair chopped off like a boys because the salons were closed... I felt so sad for that kid.

Not my Hispanic mother literally breaking the brush trying to brush through my hair at 8 and then giving up and making me do it myself from then on out.

@doubleds8751

3 жыл бұрын

With them pink dollar tree brushes 😭😭 like my hair thick as rope

@thearcadegamer8128

3 жыл бұрын

This sentence is a run on

@amandarama3314

3 жыл бұрын

omfg preach my mom has thin hair and from when i was born to when i was like nine she had to hold me down while she "brushed" my thick curly hair while i shriek in agony

@anklebiter7738

3 жыл бұрын

Don't know where you start when you brush, but maybe start at the bottom of your hair and slowly rise up? Since like it's so tangly and all that

@MariaVana

3 жыл бұрын

I begged for short hair when I was little because I couldn't take the Latina mother treatment haha between yanking on tangles and scraping the brush against my scalp I couldn't do it

This video, your reactions and her video just made me an emotional wreck with no words 🥰♥️ I love the uplifting other women, her gentle and thoughtfulness for her baby and the comments as well! Ugh 😭😭😭😭♥️

She didn’t make it all about her. And when she said “I give her scalp a break” I literally teared up. I’m a mom and that is what real mothers do.

Chile christy even twirling the ends. Come on girl.

@fatudaniel7301

3 жыл бұрын

I know 😍😍😍😍💜

@NDan05

3 жыл бұрын

I peeped that also!

@terryalthea1540

3 жыл бұрын

Christy is a good mom. I watch her all the time. I love her channel.

@l.c7240

3 жыл бұрын

She grew all her girls hair. She is an amazing mom to her kids

@fitlovebug

3 жыл бұрын

She puts so much love into her children's crown 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿

this woman, christy gior, has singlehandedly restored my faith in humanity.

@essh1212

3 жыл бұрын

Totally agreed❤️. Love seeing the original video( her love and care for her child ) as well as the positivity in this review! This is definitely gold

@nuhaomar9542

3 жыл бұрын

I almost cried omg

@wara1451

3 жыл бұрын

But why?

@tiramisu066

3 жыл бұрын

@@wara1451 i mean, with all the things that r happening/have happened this past year, doesn’t seeing an educated and respectful non-poc taking care of her adoptive children of color just bring u a breath of fresh air? bc it does to me

@LunarEleven

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed. And she needs to get her daughter into modeling! Black women need more representation and she is GORGEOUS. I mean, unless she wasn't interested, not suggesting she go all monster mama and love vicariously through her kid :p

Love this. I’m Italian and have very curly hair. It was never easy to work with it. My friend at work taught me how to care for my hair. She knew so much about hair!

Women being kind and respectful towards each other. 💕😭 I’m here for it! This was beautiful, thank you!

Can we Stan this woman for the time and effort she put into learning how to take care of her daughter’s hair🥺💕🥰😌

@user-kp2rv4rr5n

3 жыл бұрын

No. It's her job as a parent to learn how to take care of her children. People should not be stanned for doing what they are supposed to do.

@SADIE_Maybe_SADISTIC

3 жыл бұрын

@@user-kp2rv4rr5n yesss!

@urdad9506

3 жыл бұрын

@@user-kp2rv4rr5n we can appreciate them but not stan

@smolrat159

3 жыл бұрын

Nahh its bare minimum

@urdad9506

3 жыл бұрын

@@smolrat159 nothin wrong with appreciating someone for being a good parent and making efforts but it is a job of a parent but sadly a lot of parents dont make efforts to meet the needs of their child

Her daughter's hair is long and healthy so clearly she doing it right lol

@antique7365

3 жыл бұрын

Thats before she adopted her "blindo"

@queenangelina5612

3 жыл бұрын

Yesssss thank you🙌

@laurelkendun

3 жыл бұрын

@@antique7365 why are you upset...like why did you comment this

@antique7365

3 жыл бұрын

@@laurelkendun cause I believe I can,?

@laurelkendun

3 жыл бұрын

@@antique7365 ok it was just pretty stupid 💀 clearly that woman is taking good care of her babies hair and u had to shit on her for no reason. why not go somewhere else w that kind of negativity.

These are some great vibes!!! Thank you for sharing the love and encouragement ❤️

Speaking of hair, you have amazing hair! This video was randomly recommended to me and I loved the vibe. ✨