Where is Happiness?: A Conversation with Arthur C. Brooks (Episode

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In this episode of the podcast, Sam Harris speaks with Arthur C. Brooks about what it takes to build a good life. They discuss the power of social comparison, the intelligence taboo, political dignity and ethical hierarchy, the Dalai Lama, the nature of love, fluid and crystallized intelligences, the strange case of Linus Pauling, the limits of identity, atheism and religious faith, fear of death, psychedelics, existentialism, St. Thomas Aquinas, and other topics.
Arthur C. Brooks is a professor at the Harvard Kennedy School and the Harvard Business School, where he teaches courses on leadership and happiness. He is also a columnist at The Atlantic, where he writes the popular “How to Build a Life” column. Brooks is the author of 12 books, including the 2022 #1 New York Times bestseller From Strength to Strength: Finding Success, Happiness, and Deep Purpose in the Second Half of Life. He speaks all around the world about love and happiness, giving more than 150 speeches and lectures per year in the U.S., Europe, and Asia.
Brooks began his career as a classical musician, leaving college at 19, and performing with ensembles in the United States and Spain. In his late twenties, while still performing, he returned to school, earning a BA in economics through distance learning. At 31, he left music and earned an MPhil and PhD in public policy analysis, during which time he worked as a military analyst for the Rand Corporation. Brooks then spent the next 10 years as a university professor at Syracuse University, where he taught economics and nonprofit management. In 2009, Brooks became the president of the American Enterprise Institute in Washington, DC, one of the world’s most influential think tanks, which he led for a decade. During this period, he was selected as one of Fortune Magazine’s “50 World’s Greatest Leaders” and was awarded seven honorary doctorates.
Originally from Seattle, Brooks currently lives outside Boston, with his wife Ester Munt-Brooks, who is a native of Barcelona. They have three adult children.
Website: arthurbrooks.com
Twitter: @arthurbrooks
Released: July 28, 2022
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  • @happywednesday6741
    @happywednesday67412 жыл бұрын

    Where is happiness? It's very simple, happiness for me is writing snarky and arrogant comments on KZread to make myself feel superior. I succeed every day at this and battle and win any descent in response. As you can imagine the recursive nature of writing this on this particular video is indeed happiness incarnate.

  • @zerosometime5655

    @zerosometime5655

    2 жыл бұрын

    Gotta proofread then... I think you mean "dissent". There's my friendly bit of helpful snark.

  • @happywednesday6741

    @happywednesday6741

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@zerosometime5655 Fortunately I'm arrogant enough to completely disregard valid criticism

  • @zerosometime5655

    @zerosometime5655

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@happywednesday6741 I applaud your consistency as well as your backhanded acknowledgement of the correctness of my claim. You are likely my kind of wise ass. ; >)

  • @user-tj4tk6bb9s

    @user-tj4tk6bb9s

    2 жыл бұрын

    That was a solid back and forth, everyone leaves as friends.

  • @FeistyJackball

    @FeistyJackball

    2 жыл бұрын

    Everybody's good at something

  • @jeffersonianideal
    @jeffersonianideal2 жыл бұрын

    “We are all faced, throughout our lives, with agonizing decisions. Moral choices. Some are on a grand scale. Most of these choices are on lesser points. But, we define ourselves by the choices we have made. We are, in fact, the sum total of our choices. Events unfold so unpredictably, so unfairly; human happiness does not seem to have been included in the design of creation. It is only we, with our capacity to love, that give meaning to the indifferent universe. And yet, most human beings seem to have the ability to keep trying, and even to find joy from simple things like their family, their work, and from the hope that future generations might understand more.” -Professor Louis Levy

  • @Bat_Boy

    @Bat_Boy

    2 жыл бұрын

    Free will is an illusion.

  • @jeffersonianideal

    @jeffersonianideal

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Bat_Boy What would motivate you to decide otherwise?

  • @Bat_Boy

    @Bat_Boy

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jeffersonianideal - “We define ourselves by the choices we have made.” You quoted it.

  • @jeffersonianideal

    @jeffersonianideal

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Bat_Boy You evaded the question. Could you have decided to do otherwise?

  • @Bat_Boy

    @Bat_Boy

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jeffersonianideal - “otherwise” what? Can you be more vague?

  • @helenhollis3984
    @helenhollis39842 жыл бұрын

    Sam, I am so thankful to see this. Thank you

  • @itachi005
    @itachi0052 жыл бұрын

    Love this episode!

  • @bobdpa
    @bobdpa2 жыл бұрын

    One of my favorite guests on Sam's podcast so far. Definitely worth checking out the rest of the episode!

  • @themeangene

    @themeangene

    Жыл бұрын

    Sam believes it's fine to rig elections to stop his political rivals. Stop supporting an actual fascist.

  • @Nerdemocat

    @Nerdemocat

    Жыл бұрын

    Do you get video if you join?

  • @elmoblatch9787
    @elmoblatch97872 жыл бұрын

    As a subscriber, I heard Brooks talk about his catholic faith. Here's the thing: He essentially says that it's a great way to meditate (prayer) and it leads to his happiness. To Brooks' credit, he never even once declares that he is "positive" that his brand of christianity is true. In fact, he artfully dances around in a somewhat disingenuous way. More accurately, he describes his "devout" catholicism in a way that virtually no other catholic would describe it. It's a bit maddening that such an intelligent person as Brooks would give his time and energy to "daily mass" -- and yes, he goes to daily mass.

  • @justmichyd248

    @justmichyd248

    2 жыл бұрын

    TV cat brr

  • @joshboston2323

    @joshboston2323

    2 жыл бұрын

    Elmo-no other catholic would describe it like that? There are many Catholics that see it that way (my mom for instance) but might not be able to put it as eloquently. Nothing wrong with choosing a certain religion to practice your spirituality through.

  • @Marcus-143
    @Marcus-1432 жыл бұрын

    I gotta subscribe one of these days. Talks like this one are what i like to hear.

  • @PrestoJacobson
    @PrestoJacobson2 жыл бұрын

    "I'm talking about faith in different ways as a Christian than as a scientist. It's an abbreviation for living in a..." trance? Transcendental aim? This picture of a Sunday on the Island brought back memories; thank you.

  • @frankgradus9474

    @frankgradus9474

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'd been a glutton for tough challenges. And I failed.

  • @L.I.T.H.I.U.M
    @L.I.T.H.I.U.M2 жыл бұрын

    What does it mean to be happy? I think people confuse happiness with not being sad. Unregulated continuous positive emotion is not good for any person. Negative emotions are important to change our paths and to tell us that something should be improved. But if the discussion is that people are mostly sad because they have set their goals too high, just tell them to set them low. People often think they'll only be satisfied when they reach their main goal, but that isn't right, just reaching closer to that goal will be satisfactory enough that to work more will require more negative emotions to push you forward.

  • @AmazingOwnage

    @AmazingOwnage

    2 жыл бұрын

    I personally agree with you, but I am not sure if the same mindset would work for most people. Some individuals really benefit from pushing themselves too hard at the expense of their immediate well being (ex: athletes, musicians, company owners, researchers, etc.) I am much happier overall having lower expectations, but I’ve observed a drop in ambition, motivation, and career success as a result.

  • @MrCmon113

    @MrCmon113

    Жыл бұрын

    Not being sad is a prerequisite of being happy. You seem to think that because historically stuff you needed to get out of trouble was accompanied by suffering means that suffering is inevitable. That that is incorrect is not just logically obvious but can be felt directly in meditation. If you are not suffering in this very moment, there is no reason why you should be suffering ever.

  • @joekenney7459
    @joekenney74592 жыл бұрын

    I love Sam and his podcats where he is the only speaker. I found this guest cumbersome.

  • @ChillAssTurtle
    @ChillAssTurtle2 жыл бұрын

    Happiness comes from viewing hitch slap videos

  • @Marcus-ft3bj

    @Marcus-ft3bj

    2 жыл бұрын

    Because of this comment I am going to rewatch a bunch of them now.

  • @saimbhat6243

    @saimbhat6243

    2 жыл бұрын

    LOL. I don't know about esoteric wordplay that sam harris indulges in, but slap videos definitely bring happiness.

  • @ChillAssTurtle

    @ChillAssTurtle

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Marcus-ft3bj based

  • @JamesRichardWiley
    @JamesRichardWiley Жыл бұрын

    Happiness is understanding that you are a form of eternal energy that constantly changes while remaining unchanged.

  • @MrCmon113

    @MrCmon113

    Жыл бұрын

    You aren't and you completely misunderstand what energy is and why would that make you happy.

  • @jeffersonianideal
    @jeffersonianideal2 жыл бұрын

    Human happiness is too often illusive. Seek contentment instead.

  • @MrCmon113

    @MrCmon113

    Жыл бұрын

    Contentment is just a lower degree of happiness. If you can ever experience mind-blasting orgasmic pleasure, there is no reason why you shouldn't be able to do that all of the time.

  • @jeffersonianideal

    @jeffersonianideal

    Жыл бұрын

    @@MrCmon113 I'll practice that.

  • @DGILADI1
    @DGILADI12 жыл бұрын

    I have use the definition of intelligence “as the ability to adapt to changing circumstances” as very useful to me, detachable from any social comparison

  • @B___848

    @B___848

    2 жыл бұрын

    Trees adapt to changing circumstance, but we don’t consider plants to be intelligent.

  • @DGILADI1

    @DGILADI1

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@B___848 good point! Thanks

  • @Marcus-ft3bj

    @Marcus-ft3bj

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@B___848 It isn't that a tree can't adapt, it's that it adapts very slowly. The rate of adaptation is what matters and so his comment is not pretentious and nonsensical, you are.

  • @B___848

    @B___848

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Marcus-ft3bj I said they CAN adapt… so what even is your point?

  • @saimbhat6243

    @saimbhat6243

    2 жыл бұрын

    I hope you realize that "intelligence" can be made to represent synonym of wisdom, and socrates used to have discussions 2500 years back and had to remain satisfied with no proper definition of wisdom. Having any exact albiet definition for literal abstract things like intelligence is just same as trying to have exact definition for good music. People have aversion to accept loose or fuzzy definitions, which I guess has also been the impulse for totalitarian ideologies like religions, marxism etc.

  • @steelcash
    @steelcash2 жыл бұрын

    Happiness for me is finally realizing that nothing really matters. I spent so many years worrying about money, getting that perfect job, getting the promotions… what people thought of me, paying bills, what if my car breaks down… worrying about shit that hasn’t even happened! I finally realized at the age of 50 that, if I can’t be content now, when will I be? So I decided to be content. To stop chasing status and all that stupid bullshit. I’ve ran all out of fucks and I’ve never been happier.

  • @keirongillespie6913

    @keirongillespie6913

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly! You can't ever BECOME happy. You can only choose to BE happy.

  • @jamesvansittert3474

    @jamesvansittert3474

    2 жыл бұрын

    That's completely fair. Nothing is objectively meaningful, because meaning is nothing more than an orienteering mechanism. Chasing things such as more money, ect ect, is internally meaningless if you carry the assumption that money has meaning in a vacuum. I have a Cousin, who spent his whole life accumulating 20 million dollars, he's the ceo of a big company. Now, he has no purpose, because his life's goal has been fulfilled. He set a concrete goal, and it left him empty, when there was no longer a need for it. I learned only recently that chasing money above all else is useless, both pragmatically and in terms of self actualization. We should strive to understand meaning as a mechanism, and give meaning to the processes of life, like struggling, loving ect

  • @tahwsisiht

    @tahwsisiht

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@keirongillespie6913 says someone in the richest country on the earth and probably one who was not born into poverty in that rich country. In the meantime in Afghanistan, selling ones under 10 years old daughter to feed the rest of the family became a necessity. And some feels oh so wise because he is content (wonder about the environment you feeling content in... Do you have your own little Buddha statue and Zen rock garden?)

  • @taboowriter9229

    @taboowriter9229

    2 жыл бұрын

    As a working class minority I took your advice and all if a sudden racism and exploitation stopped affecting me. 👍🏼

  • @tahwsisiht

    @tahwsisiht

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@taboowriter9229 did you move out to your car? No children, eh?

  • @martinearl5913
    @martinearl59132 жыл бұрын

    Ah. Seurat. What a great painter.

  • @mekalkasias6571
    @mekalkasias65712 жыл бұрын

    Great conversation and rite when it starts fading to Sam's voice to subscribe I'm like dammm I need to subscribe already , got a list of conversations I want to hear to completion. Not the most tech person in the world, I would no how to find a pod catcher lol

  • @PrestoJacobson

    @PrestoJacobson

    2 жыл бұрын

    Pocket Casts! Also sad there's a fake Sam bot.

  • @Nerdemocat

    @Nerdemocat

    Жыл бұрын

    Do you get video when you join?

  • @buckfozos5554
    @buckfozos55542 жыл бұрын

    The thumbnails are always interesting...this one in particular because it's familiar to an aficionado of 3000-piece Ravensburger puzzles.

  • @darnytoads
    @darnytoads2 жыл бұрын

    To say love is to will the good for the other... is that simply moving the goal post? Who decides what is good for the other? How might one differentiate that definition from various meanings of codependency? Excellent conversation.

  • @idme8295

    @idme8295

    2 жыл бұрын

    The definition of codependence is to control another person as a means of preserving your own self worth.

  • @MelFinehout

    @MelFinehout

    2 жыл бұрын

    You don't have to know, or be right about what you think, to act out of love. It isn't moving the goal post. When you simply INTEND the best for every being it brings a deep sense of peace. It's experiential, it doesn't make sense until you do it. If you want to know, practice Meta meditation and see. Codependency and love are not the same thing at all. One isn't codependent simply out of the desire for another's happiness. It's getting what you want via manipulation, if you see it closely and honestly. It is attachment which is NOT love.

  • @MrCmon113

    @MrCmon113

    Жыл бұрын

    No, because love is often used in other ways such as romantic love.

  • @MelFinehout

    @MelFinehout

    Жыл бұрын

    @@MrCmon113I agree. nobody is disputing that.

  • @jholmes9717
    @jholmes97172 жыл бұрын

    Would happily listen to ads to hear your whole podcast dude. Give people options

  • @Carhill

    @Carhill

    2 жыл бұрын

    You can go to his website and subscribe for free if you are unable to pay. It works on an honesty system, and he is true to their word.

  • @toby9999

    @toby9999

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Carhill That it works on an honesty system is the reason I won't ask for a free pass. And the subscription is too expensive so I won't pay either. I suspect I'm not alone.

  • @autumnstarrs

    @autumnstarrs

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Carhill I tried applying for access without paying and never hear back. I'm bummed every time the podcast cuts off.

  • @umbomb

    @umbomb

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@autumnstarrs Do try again: It's worth it.

  • @omaradil4122
    @omaradil4122 Жыл бұрын

    Sir Sam thank you.

  • @nicksantucci8025
    @nicksantucci80252 жыл бұрын

    Our hearts are restless until they rest in Thee, O Lord.

  • @neoskeptic
    @neoskeptic2 жыл бұрын

    You say that comparing yourself to others, even those that are doing less well than you is wrong, yet I have heard you mention it before that we should be grateful that we do not have cancer or some other terminal illness....

  • @neoskeptic

    @neoskeptic

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@michaeljames3944 What would Sam Harris say to the person who does have a terminal illness? I am grateful I am not you?

  • @Eltercero
    @Eltercero2 жыл бұрын

    25:30 Regarding everyone thinking they should write a book: ‘Everyone has a book in them and that, in most cases, is where it should stay.’ -Chris Hitchens

  • @jmc5335

    @jmc5335

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hitchens definitely thought this about The Bell Curve. It's unfortunate that Harris claimed Hitchens was wilfully misrepresentating the book, to the detriment of science, because of his political bias

  • @juanReflex37
    @juanReflex372 жыл бұрын

    Excelente Sam Harris

  • @kx5517
    @kx55172 жыл бұрын

    On occasion there's an episode so good that I'll actually pay to hear the remaining bits. No greater compliment from a dude as frugal as me

  • @tahwsisiht
    @tahwsisiht2 жыл бұрын

    I just started to listen to it. Until this point, it makes me happy :). Although identification as a happiness seeker is the same as all other things. Just like materialism can manifest as spiritual materialism too.

  • @tahwsisiht

    @tahwsisiht

    2 жыл бұрын

    A truly intelligent and wise person is not narcissistic. A narcissist is one who fights for the "hierarchical position" and willing to push down those who are threatening or suck up to those who are above them. When you love knowledge and experiencing, discovering new fields of "treasures" more than the hierarchical place you find yourself on: I think you have an inherent wisdom and you love knowledge for knowledge shake and not for the shake of your position on a hierarchical ladder. It doesn't matter where you are on that "ladder". Wisdom is not a competition. If you think it is, you are not wise. Experiencing diverse things in your life opens you up to see: if you think you know everything, you just didn't look around. Thinking that you are high in one hierarchy and being a "special person for it", you just ignoring a sea of hierarchies and your horizon is very limited.

  • @tahwsisiht

    @tahwsisiht

    2 жыл бұрын

    I am at the point in the conversation where I don't agree. At all. But it is not comment section explanation. It is based on bitter experiences that gives me the capacity to have a different understanding on it. Maybe identifying with and practicing in Buddhism just as problematic as being a French Horn Player.

  • @tahwsisiht

    @tahwsisiht

    2 жыл бұрын

    I am so not a Buddhist. At all. Have seen the dark side of Buddhism, also I have seen the dark side of setting your goal on "happiness" too. For some reason, it looked more like repressed, numb misery because processing life, "feeling truth" were a sign of being unhappy and happiness was also an other hierarchical ladder where they wanted to be high on. Hypocrisy was very prevalent and the ignorance about it was deeper than the practice of the simplest Buddhist teaching. I find Jungian psychology much more complex and much more fitting for complex, diverse human beings. Not saints. I don't believe in saints. (I have to insert that I meant these contemporary ones. Believing in the experience of Jung and the validity of his teachings, I have been praying and lighting candle for Saint Michael Archangel.) Although, it is same with Jungian psychology too. It doesn't matter what ever you want to be stuck on, you can be stuck on. The problem is narcissism, because if you are a narcissist, you don't want to admit it. You will fight it, pretend, you will not learn and grow as a human being. Your view of that hierarchical ladder and your position is more important. Your assumed happiness is more important than to process the pain, embarrassment and the reality of it. Your religion, no matter what you practice, just a tool and becomes a weapon to shield yourself from your own behavior and image. ... and I saw and experienced this which has been awful. Not one "Buddhist" stepped up to the place where they took responsibility and not one honoured their own oaths. They act like they don't have karma. Their actions have no consequences.

  • @tahwsisiht

    @tahwsisiht

    2 жыл бұрын

    I assume in Myanmar, Buddhists spend enough time as it requires to be committed to their religion.

  • @tahwsisiht

    @tahwsisiht

    2 жыл бұрын

    Japanese have no notion of hypocrisy, at least not in the sense we in the West do. “For the Japanese, withholding one’s personal feelings in order to maintain the appearance of harmony within the group is seen as virtuous and noble,” Cooper wrote in an unpublished paper. “This attitude is part of the structuring of Japanese social relations-it has a place there. But when it is imported under the banner of enlightenment and overlaid on an American community, the results are cultish and bizarre.”

  • @roman9509
    @roman95092 жыл бұрын

    Do whatever you think makes you happy, in most cases it won't because happiness comes within. Ultimately, t's an electrochemical state of your brain. Happiness or not happiness, everyone dies in the end and nothing matters. We are forever cursed with the knowledge of out own mortality.

  • @elmoblatch9787

    @elmoblatch9787

    2 жыл бұрын

    True, but it does not have to be a curse. If you practiced living in the moment, you would know that.

  • @joedavis4150
    @joedavis41502 жыл бұрын

    .. Herman Melville said that our lives can be either a telling pantomime of action, or else a tame chapter of sounds.

  • @medaphysicsrepository2639
    @medaphysicsrepository2639 Жыл бұрын

    "whatever it takes to win" thank you sam

  • @edduchesne
    @edduchesne Жыл бұрын

    The woo is strong in this guy.

  • @whatsdoin2392
    @whatsdoin23922 жыл бұрын

    People do not equate intelligence with moral superiority and in fact envy those with high intelligence as a skill that allows the person to obtain success! It is natural for a parent to say to a child you are so smart, as it would be for them to say the child has beautiful blue eyes!

  • @whatsdoin2392

    @whatsdoin2392

    Жыл бұрын

    @julian marx Thank you for thoughtful reply. People are complex, love can easily turn to hate! I can imagine many people jealous of a Paris Hilton type and happy to throw her overboard to save themselves on a sinking ship!

  • @bizonc
    @bizonc2 жыл бұрын

    Joy, pleasure, meaning and purpose are just as important or more. Happiness comes and goes. I think we mean fulfillment or contentment when we say happiness. Or is the Good Life happiness ?

  • @MrCmon113

    @MrCmon113

    Жыл бұрын

    Your thinking is severly stunted by superfluous vocabulary. At any moment your consciousness can be filled with suffering or pleasure. You want to increase the amount of moments filled with pleasure and make them more intense. There is no reason why happiness should "go". If you can feel orgasmic bliss for one microsecond, you can feel it always.

  • @maynardgent6708
    @maynardgent67082 жыл бұрын

    I find this suggestion that people should be more like the Dali Lama ridiculous. He is in a position preordained privilege the likes of which simply does not exist anywhere else in the world, that makes the chances of someone acting in a similar manner completely unrealistic. I read his book the art of happiness once and at best it's about as good as the vast majority of other self help books. It makes the fundamental mistake of describing happiness as something to acquire. Happiness is a total myth dreamt up by marketing execs to sell stuff.

  • @HandgunSafe
    @HandgunSafe2 жыл бұрын

    I have a problem with the "fluid intelligence" and "crystalized intelligence" model. It doesn't really take into account innate divergent-thinking capacity. I should be repeating the benefits of my crystalized intelligence by now, though in fact I am experiencing leaps in my divergent thinking capacity, creativity. People write and ask how I am able to arrive at the findings on my KZread channel. They can't imagine how I do it. The videos look like magic to a lot of people.

  • @Paolo8772
    @Paolo87722 жыл бұрын

    The peak of the song "The Lost Chord" by Steve Vai is "I Indivisible I!"

  • @Seekthetruth3000
    @Seekthetruth30002 жыл бұрын

    Meaning is more important than happiness.

  • @frankdelahue9761
    @frankdelahue9761 Жыл бұрын

    Do not argue with anyone in private, (you will not convince them) argue in public to convince others.

  • @vio1583
    @vio15832 жыл бұрын

    great

  • @Johnconno
    @Johnconno2 жыл бұрын

    Happiness has gone to Utopia. Forever.

  • @JD..........
    @JD..........2 жыл бұрын

    Being a French horn player and getting into orchestra is extremely tough. Very interested in this guy as a result.

  • @liammcconlogue7266

    @liammcconlogue7266

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah as a horn player in music conservatory who isn’t sure if I wanna stick with it for a career, this was so interesting to hear

  • @JD..........

    @JD..........

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@liammcconlogue7266 I feel ya. Not sure where you go obviously but it's tough everywhere. Follow the heart man.

  • @cafehapa
    @cafehapa Жыл бұрын

    So in the picture for this video - What the heck is that thing under the left tree??

  • @Nerdemocat
    @Nerdemocat Жыл бұрын

    Can anyone tell me do you get video if you join?

  • @Mister_Skar
    @Mister_Skar2 жыл бұрын

    How are those 'adults being back in charge' going there Sam? are things so much better now?

  • @hermansohier7643
    @hermansohier76432 жыл бұрын

    When you're not looking for happines you will never be unhappy .Quote by UG and i totaly agree .

  • @mismos00

    @mismos00

    2 жыл бұрын

    Didn't UG rip of Krishnamurti?

  • @hermansohier7643

    @hermansohier7643

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@mismos00 I think it's the other way around but that has nothing to do with it ,his quote is right .

  • @Bat_Boy

    @Bat_Boy

    2 жыл бұрын

    Let’s remove the double negative: “When you are looking for happiness, you will be unhappy”.

  • @MrCmon113

    @MrCmon113

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah, bcs if you're not looking for happiness, you are dead.

  • @hermansohier7643

    @hermansohier7643

    Жыл бұрын

    @@MrCmon113 That's exactly what you should hope for .The big dead is the end of an imaginairy self ,the dead of the body is the small dead .You have to figure out who wants to be happy .

  • @frankwren8215
    @frankwren8215 Жыл бұрын

    It's so weird to hear this calm voice sounding so inoffensive after saying killing children isn't enough to stop voting democrat. Not even in regards to the abortion debate. Nobody who can calmly say that nonsense can be taken seriously in that regard again.

  • @UnlimitlesslyFunnyDude
    @UnlimitlesslyFunnyDude Жыл бұрын

    intelligence talk is kind of taboo in society currupted/wrong thoughts -----> sadness/unhappiness/anger /sexual Dalai lama is loving and unattached at the same time, that's amazing thing to attain writer wins noble prized but later they usually/normally did in thier 20s-30s

  • @jeffrockwell1555
    @jeffrockwell15552 жыл бұрын

    Is there something to caring more for humanity when young sort of burning lower in later life? Not not caring but not being quite so driven to help or dedicate your faculties?

  • @SlippinJimmy4Life
    @SlippinJimmy4Life2 жыл бұрын

    If you’re a moderate to heavy drinking Lee and worried about your waning “fluid intelligence”, try giving up alcohol. Get ready to think and feel 10x better in every way including fluid intelligence. I also think if you learn a skill through fluid intelligence, you then have the skill to build on. It’s tough to learn a new thing from scratch without fluid intelligence, but once we’ll learned, I think you would be all right, even with the waning fluid intelligence. Seems like a downer message here

  • @sabincioflec8413
    @sabincioflec84132 жыл бұрын

    Such a shallow view of the world. Happiness comes from being healthy, having a good social net, having financial stability, not some mystic thing. No wonder the happiest people on earth are the ones in the best environment. Also you get like 90% of your serotonin and 50% dopamine in your gut, and most people have a messed up gut from the toxins and crappy foods in the environment. Again, the happiest people have tons of omega 3s ( that affect gut function through lowering LPS ) and do sauna really often - that has been proven to be healthy and eliminate toxins. On the point of " being in your 20 and learning really quick " that's neuroplasticity that can be enhanced through bdnf, and that's a complex but doable thing, and the dentist in his example takes Fridays off because of accumulated mitochondrial damage. There's a lot more to write but i hate these cash grabs to make a quick buck through a book

  • @jdl2180

    @jdl2180

    2 жыл бұрын

    If what you say is true then most Americans would be happy and not on antidepressants.

  • @sabincioflec8413

    @sabincioflec8413

    Жыл бұрын

    @julian marx awww, you read 2 books and think you know stuff, so cute. Judging by your tone you don't seem like a person that wants a debate so i won't waste my time with you. This is how i make myself happy, stay away from people like you, bye

  • @paulwade1405
    @paulwade14052 жыл бұрын

    Does Brooks teach at Harvard?

  • @jynxkizs
    @jynxkizs Жыл бұрын

    I'm guessing this switch to crystalized intelligence has a stagnating effect when the average of a population gets older?

  • @MrCmon113
    @MrCmon113 Жыл бұрын

    When you read a book about happiness by a catholic, you really have a lot of time.

  • @YawnGod
    @YawnGod2 жыл бұрын

    Happiness is in the pockets of rich parents, Sam. I know, because my girlfriend has to deal with her little brother. Ahh, but Sam is an only child. He was always the favorite, because there was only him.

  • @elmoblatch9787

    @elmoblatch9787

    2 жыл бұрын

    You think rich parents will automatically equate to happiness? I could not disagree more.

  • @YawnGod

    @YawnGod

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@elmoblatch9787 How do you read my comment and decide to write that? The world works in mysterious ways.

  • @christopherrippel2958
    @christopherrippel29582 жыл бұрын

    I'm super distracted. Who's the old man in the plane?

  • @boldandthebeautifulgimbal2881
    @boldandthebeautifulgimbal28812 жыл бұрын

    14:43 Curious, so upon think from age 17 your maxilla and mandible changed? Do you think this affected your embouchure?

  • @Brand00d
    @Brand00d2 жыл бұрын

    What is Sam Harris?

  • @yetanotheryoutuber4271

    @yetanotheryoutuber4271

    2 жыл бұрын

    Consciousness..... ....probably.

  • @maxwelldillon4805

    @maxwelldillon4805

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ex-actor, formerly known as Ben Stiller

  • @adrianclarke6829
    @adrianclarke68292 жыл бұрын

    A minute and thirty seconds in and no mention of Trump so far. Thank god.

  • @twntwrs

    @twntwrs

    2 жыл бұрын

    Do you think Sam's TDS is in remission?

  • @adrianclarke6829

    @adrianclarke6829

    2 жыл бұрын

    @øddist Oh great, not only are you using playground logic (i.e. that pointing out something hasn't happened is the same as that thing happening - good luck using that with grown-ups) but you get to throw a bit of homophobia in there as well. You sound like a real intellectual superstar.

  • @wasdwasdedsf

    @wasdwasdedsf

    2 жыл бұрын

    @øddist "Yet here you are mentioning him. You people are such bottoms for him 🤣" ? its our problem he cant stop whining when we wish for him to talk about something of value? while he and people like him is responsible for the amount of suffering coming from the destruction of the country

  • @steelcash

    @steelcash

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank Sam. ☮️

  • @KrwiomoczBogurodzicy
    @KrwiomoczBogurodzicy2 жыл бұрын

    Q: Where is happiness? A: Here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/mYx1zqeFktm4mso.html

  • @bradbecker8982
    @bradbecker89822 жыл бұрын

    Happiness comes from the achievement of your own values. The more you sacrifice your values, whether to self doubt or to other’s, the less happy you will be.

  • @ChillAssTurtle

    @ChillAssTurtle

    2 жыл бұрын

    Meh, if you say so.

  • @bradbecker8982

    @bradbecker8982

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ChillAssTurtle it’s not about what I say, I could be wrong.. you can test my hypothesis though

  • @voidoflife7058

    @voidoflife7058

    2 жыл бұрын

    Very skeptical about this

  • @OhManTFE

    @OhManTFE

    2 жыл бұрын

    But how do you know what your values are? Wut even are values? Do you mean goals?

  • @bradbecker8982

    @bradbecker8982

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@gabrielgaidos7015 in many cases, sure, but if we agree that living is good, things like water, happiness, laughter, love, friendship, career, and shelter etc.. are all objectively good values. The objective would be achieving a life you enjoy, without sacrifice of values.

  • @howardmcgregor4351
    @howardmcgregor43512 жыл бұрын

    The observer is the observed!

  • @Nees1
    @Nees12 жыл бұрын

    Sam are you still helping those who can’t afford the “Waking Up” app?

  • @joshboston2323

    @joshboston2323

    2 жыл бұрын

    C. Nees-he will never read this. Just shoot an email and you’l get it.

  • @steven2183
    @steven21832 жыл бұрын

    I'd like a podcast about favoritism and duper's delight...

  • @maynardgent6708
    @maynardgent67082 жыл бұрын

    Is it me or did they just spend an hour stating that you learn stuff when you're young and you impart wisdom when you're older? Ummm

  • @francisgg7046

    @francisgg7046

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes

  • @kimberly5946
    @kimberly59462 жыл бұрын

    🦋💎🦋

  • @mchapman2424
    @mchapman24242 жыл бұрын

    I read that Sam Harris is leaving his wife for Bhad Bhabie. Any truth in that?

  • @yetanotheryoutuber4271

    @yetanotheryoutuber4271

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ya, its true.

  • @psycho6542

    @psycho6542

    2 жыл бұрын

    What or who is Bhad Bhabie ?

  • @psycho6542

    @psycho6542

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@DonaldAMisc oh thats rite, i remember that episode of dr phil, and thank you very much for the reply, good luck and best wishes to you

  • @francisgg7046
    @francisgg70462 жыл бұрын

    I is first person nominative, me is 1st person accusative and dative. Not sure what your guest was on about.

  • @peacefulmainnocommentaccou597
    @peacefulmainnocommentaccou5972 жыл бұрын

    Theres more do it Sam go to the next level you are merely calm and stress free or so it seems. There's more to mindfulness than the level you have reached. Alot more! I should have told you sooner! You are missing out!

  • @emiliaanton6897
    @emiliaanton6897 Жыл бұрын

    You will own nothing and be happy. In the beginning there was nothing. Happiness depends on which nothing you want to own. Lack of fortitude is based on shame and guilt which need an observer so, Shame and guilt in front of whom since Pinocchio have replaced the Eye of Providence? So what do we need? Better whales.🐳We all want happiness. The problem is we were framed into a sadism where we think it must be to the detriment of others. Not everyone needs billions, or perfect health, or a cloak of invincibility or whatever so, it's precisely through these differences and diversity that we can reach an acceptable form of equal happiness. When, no matter how much you try to come to a new resolution, you look it up and it's there already thought through; does it mean that we're in a matrix of limited intelligence and originality or, does it mean that for the here and now, we pretty much have everything we need? Will it be the panic of the first or the organising of the latter?

  • @elsolbrilla3652
    @elsolbrilla36522 жыл бұрын

    41:40 LOVE WITHOUT ATTACHMENT = WHAT FAIRYTALE WORLD IS THIS GUY LIVING IN #MORDOR

  • @SorenHume
    @SorenHume2 жыл бұрын

    Happiness is such a pathetic, short-sided and inefficient aim of a life when compared to the question: “How can I contribute maximally to the species?”

  • @Bat_Boy

    @Bat_Boy

    2 жыл бұрын

    Procreate. Destroy the planet. 👍

  • @MrCmon113

    @MrCmon113

    Жыл бұрын

    That's the most hilariously stupid comment I have ever read. Even before one recognizes that "contributing to the species" is completely meaningless.

  • @umbomb
    @umbomb Жыл бұрын

    This guest is a performer, not a philosopher: Invited (in the second half, not available here) to answer direct questions, he talks in circles; he has nothing to say. (He's a "teacher," no longer a musician following the composer's score, now reciting other people's thoughts, relying heavily on name-dropping, arguments from authority. Sam Harris is very patient with him, even when he claims you can't say what's not true if you don't know what is true.)

  • @alittleofeverything4190
    @alittleofeverything4190 Жыл бұрын

    Trump will be brought up in this podcast. Guaranteed

  • @arawiri
    @arawiri Жыл бұрын

    Once apon a time there was a book. The End.

  • @templaraxion
    @templaraxion2 жыл бұрын

    15€ per month for this? Are you serious?

  • @arawiri
    @arawiri Жыл бұрын

    Imagine losing a whole country

  • @Jaysonbc1234
    @Jaysonbc12342 жыл бұрын

    Sticking to your own values is happiness I guess..

  • @ericsevyn5464
    @ericsevyn54642 жыл бұрын

    Dear lord, couldn't make it through this one. When someone claims metaphysical beliefs my dopamine plummets and my cortisol rises, draining my Happiness. Btw: Happiness is biochemical. Get your hormones and neurotransmitters in order and pleasant sensations shall arise in your consciousness.

  • @jamesvansittert3474

    @jamesvansittert3474

    2 жыл бұрын

    From my perspective, your comment is anchored in complete materialism, which is incompatible with the striving for happiness. It isn't as simple as getting your neurology in order, because your internal paradigm has potential to influence the microstructure of your brain. Your perspective influences how you process information, and how you process information relates to the micro structure of your brain. Get your sense of purpose, and the metaphysical and spiritual dimension of happiness in order, and seratonin will follow. Your internal affairs influence your hormones.

  • @ericsevyn5464

    @ericsevyn5464

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jamesvansittert3474 I agree with much of your argument. I spent most of my life focused on modifying my internal paradigm with the hope it would alter my biochemistry/microstructure of my brain. When I flipped my focus to optimizing my biochemistry (primarily through manipulations of what I ingested) the thoughts that arose were fundamentally altered in a positive way. Ultimately, I suspect it is the marriage of biochemistry and the uploading of what I will call enhancing data that leads to Happiness. Entertaining metaphysical/spiritual fantasies is not enhancing data.

  • @MrCmon113

    @MrCmon113

    Жыл бұрын

    Would you fix a lagging browser with a soldering iron? Before we can make hedonium, we need more indirect ways to create happiness.

  • @IvanTokmenin
    @IvanTokmenin Жыл бұрын

    +

  • @raggmunken1958
    @raggmunken19582 жыл бұрын

    They only talking about people in the elit.

  • @Nobodieslistening123
    @Nobodieslistening123 Жыл бұрын

    Hey Sam do a study on self inflicted blindness There is plenty of scriptures that show those who war against God cannot understand who he is nor his teachings

  • @johns.7297
    @johns.72972 жыл бұрын

    Harris' IQ? I'd guess at least three standard deviations above the mean.

  • @twntwrs

    @twntwrs

    2 жыл бұрын

    Brought down to one after he got exposed to the Trump phenomenon.

  • @MakeAstand5
    @MakeAstand52 жыл бұрын

    Why don’t you really know what you want? Two reasons. Number one: you Already have it. Number two: you don’t know yourself because you never can.

  • @davidtate166

    @davidtate166

    2 жыл бұрын

    Allan watts said that.what do you desire 😁how would you really enjoy spending your life.??

  • @edaleman3345
    @edaleman3345 Жыл бұрын

    Wow. Making sense pod cast. Dude you made no sense. You don't care what's on Hunter's laptop.

  • @jeffrockwell1555
    @jeffrockwell15552 жыл бұрын

    The Dalai lama isn't even vegetarian pfft

  • @AK-ne4og
    @AK-ne4og Жыл бұрын

    Sam does not even see the blatant hypocrisy and authoritarian tendencies he now portrays.

  • @patrickmcguire4042
    @patrickmcguire4042 Жыл бұрын

    Sam doesn’t seem to think anymore, he just cares about his guys getting elected! “Well son of a bitch, they fired him “!

  • @Scout887
    @Scout8872 жыл бұрын

    Why is Nature so heavily centered around procreation? Does it have a worthwhile endgoal or a goal at all with this seemingly endless repetition of procreation and death?

  • @MrCmon113

    @MrCmon113

    Жыл бұрын

    How does sth come to still be around?

  • @Scout887

    @Scout887

    Жыл бұрын

    @@MrCmon113 but why does it want to be around?

  • @mikeb3947
    @mikeb39472 жыл бұрын

    Harvard Business School + Goldman Sachs = Happy? Rich maybe. But not happy. Class or no class.

  • @Nobodieslistening123
    @Nobodieslistening123 Жыл бұрын

    Your suffering from auto blindness

  • @anolisa1939
    @anolisa19392 жыл бұрын

    Still no discussion on the downfall of Roe V. Wade, or the thinning line between church & state?! I feel like the world is falling apart, and you’re focused on “mindfully” ignoring all of the relevant issues.

  • @twntwrs

    @twntwrs

    2 жыл бұрын

    Except, of course, the existential threat of Trump.

  • @lirands2730
    @lirands2730 Жыл бұрын

    I feel sad. This poor guy has no ethics but thinks he does.

  • @alexthegordonhighlander1159
    @alexthegordonhighlander1159 Жыл бұрын

    Sam Harris makes no sense. Stop talking and/or rename the podcast. Humanity has had enough of Harris’ self intellect worshipping nonsense. Intellect worship is the path to only suffering and evil.

  • @CLIVEGRAHAME
    @CLIVEGRAHAME Жыл бұрын

    Sam is a fool - trump 2024👍

  • @HebrewsElevenTwentyFive
    @HebrewsElevenTwentyFive2 жыл бұрын

    A relationship with Christ is the way to true happiness.

  • @jazsi_

    @jazsi_

    2 жыл бұрын

    Preaching to the wrong audience there big man

  • @twntwrs

    @twntwrs

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Kas Dbm "that's gross, that's racist..."

  • @HebrewsElevenTwentyFive

    @HebrewsElevenTwentyFive

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Kas Dbm Not in the long term.

  • @HebrewsElevenTwentyFive

    @HebrewsElevenTwentyFive

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jazsi_ It is the right audience. They just don't know it.

  • @nealkelly9757
    @nealkelly97572 жыл бұрын

    Finally, some non-TDS content from Sam Harris

  • @synthesizerneil

    @synthesizerneil

    2 жыл бұрын

    Except for the fact that he hasn't done a single podcast talking about politics and the state of the things, despite us being in serious trouble due to the policies of the guy Sam voted for and praised as the "adults being back in the room". When Trump was president, he was so scary and bad and "dangerous" that Sam had "conservative" David Frum on 5 times in a few months just to talk about how bad and "dangerous" the orange me is. Now it's complete silence, almost like avoiding the elephant in the room. To me, that says a lot, and in a way is still a product of TDS

  • @twntwrs

    @twntwrs

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@synthesizerneil spot on analysis

  • @kasugiman3683
    @kasugiman36832 жыл бұрын

    Sam is no longer relevant. He no longer commands respect.

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